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How to spot a MONEYGRUBBER

Written by molibelis from the blog For love or Money? on 28 Jul 2008
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HOW TO FIX THIS THINGS?

FOR RICHER,NOT POORER.....

YOUR GUY IS ALWAYS AROUND WHEN U GET PAID,AND HE'S VERY HAPPY TO HELP U SPEND YOUR HARD EARNED CASH.BUT WHEN THE MONEY DRIES UP,HE'S NO WHERE 2 B FOUND.

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EXPENSIVE TASTES........

U INTRODUCE UR GIRLFRIEND 2 A NEW GROUP OF FRIENDS AND SHE IMMEDIATELY STARTS ASKING THEM WHERE THEY LIVE AND HOW MUCH THEY EARN ITS CLEAR SHE HAS HER EYE ON ONE OF THEM
_THE ONE WITH THE MOST MONEY!!!

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BUYING TIME.......

YOUR ARE AN OLDER GUY AND U ALWAYS DATE GIRLS WHO ARE MUCH YOUNGER THAN U.U BUY THEM EXPENSIVE JEWELLERY,PERFUME AND CLOTHING PAY FANCY DINNERS,ARE U SURE U ARENT MAKING FOOL OF URSELF?DO U THINK THIS GIRLS LIKE U,OR UR MONEY.

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CLIMBING THE LADDER.......

U GUY HAS A NEW JOB AND HE CANT STOP TALKING ABOUT THE FANCY CARS THAT EVERYONE DRIVES.U HARDLY SEE HIM ANYMORE BECAUSE HE'S ALWAYS HANGING OUT WITH NEW WORK FRIENDS,AND HE NEVER INVITES U ALONG.

they sometimes
expects costly gifts and always wants to know the price
admire people with big houses and flashy cars,even when they are drugs lords or criminals.
Say,why dont u drive a car like Tha bang's or Mstick's?(eg)
They always "forgotten"their purse/wallet when paying for things.

They often "BORROW"money but never pay u back.

Let us confess,if u ticked more than one,dump the gold -digger and find someone who's more into ur personality than ur POCKET!!!

79 Comments

molibelis
28 Jul 2008 04:45

Plc guys,let us be more careful when dating or getting into love triangles.

Nonny
28 Jul 2008 04:59

This reminds me of a very wonderful blog that was wriiten by Fefe Tobs titled: Are black brothers increasingly becoming gold diggers?

http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?articleid=7481&blogname=tvandtealovers#reply

molibelis
28 Jul 2008 05:07

I think most of them are gold diggers cause if u can C,they dont want to go out to find jobs they only depend on their mothers income and girlfriends.

faraimagic
28 Jul 2008 05:11

let me read this again!LOL hi hi hi ha ha ha!

Cande
28 Jul 2008 05:16

LoLOlOLOL

faraimagic
28 Jul 2008 05:19

Still laughing! i think i must becum like this kinda guy!

faraimagic
28 Jul 2008 05:20

Ment For theRicher not Poorer!hi hi hi

felfel
28 Jul 2008 05:26

My neighbour is gold digger , she borrowed some money from me and everytime she sees me, she keeps saying "Oh i still you that money, I must pay you" but she never does......mncim....................oh by the way its R10.........

belz
28 Jul 2008 05:33

Hey molibelis, how was your weekend?

LM
28 Jul 2008 05:49

@felfel: My neighbour is gold digger , she borrowed some money from me and everytime she sees me, she keeps saying "Oh i still you that money, I must pay you" but she never does......mncim....................oh by the way its R10......... LMAO! write it off gal, I did the same with my R120...and this neighbour promised to bring it back after work the same day in February 08...everytime she sees me she says ' Oh I haven't forgotten about your money"..pleasee

As for the gold diggers and stuff...this is my stand point: I don't support (financially) a grown a$$ man.....

Dimago
28 Jul 2008 05:52

There was a guy that i dated who was more into my pocket than me - and mind you my pocket is not that deep. Anyhooo, his car wouldnt have petrol and he would get stuck on the side of the road on his way to work, then call me to come bail him out. Once i borrowed him R100, and i've never seen it since...but needless to say i have since cut my losses...

molibelis
28 Jul 2008 05:55

belz my weekend was good,i was chilled with my family and other friends,thanx 4 asking my love.

molibelis
28 Jul 2008 06:02

Aish Girls,what happened to me when i was studying at Boston Klerksdorp,i meet this guy,and we went to some stores around Klerksdorp,and then we went to buy those sweet and sour things for us,at the end he was suppose to pay and hey i ended paying for those things cause he actually had nothing in his pockets,imagen if he took me to the Hotel.i only thank my God after that drama.

what aka mathata
28 Jul 2008 06:45

hai this kind of ppl you must play far from them,when i went home i just met this girl she used to be my class mate buy 80s,first time i gave her my sun glasses DIOR anyway i was exited to see her,so we went to her flat haaaaaa,skirlek she start to say lets go to salon your hair blah blah antsha moya fela,i didnt when is time for me to go i gave her 150 bcz she didnt have a job,

last year i went to her mom place,so i decide to drive with her to c other classmate,jesus.......,she start to tell me why cant she drive,why cant we buy airtime that will last for mnth for our phones,OUR yhoooo.when i drive she open my handbag,i told myself next time she will hear from my family i was around,C me no more.

the was this dude he used to come to my flat ,first thing he open a fridge,eat like a rabbit,so the was this time n mnth he only want cheese n fruits,after a mnth he tell me that his girl frnd is PREG,I was angry bcz bcz my cheese for the mnth was finished,MY CHEESE DONE THE JOB

the problem was he will tell me he bought car rings n tires n sound n he spend more than 15000,but this dude his fridge always clean like snake tongue pass there

i play far from diamond diggers,n when they do it ,they do it like a joke

Renegade
28 Jul 2008 06:50

MY CHEESE DONE THE JOB - thatha cheese...LOL

Nonny
28 Jul 2008 07:09

LMAO @ Mathata's cheese........hahahahah at least it did the job.

"this dude his fridge always clean like snake tongue pass there"
ROTFLMAO, the imagery of the snake is killing me.

Cande
28 Jul 2008 07:15

ROFL @ Mathata

felfel
28 Jul 2008 07:22

I am sooooo lmao at mathata .......

zolx
28 Jul 2008 07:25

i play far from diamond diggers...ahhh an upgrade from gold to diamond diggers...thatha di thatas

belz
28 Jul 2008 07:27

LOL!!!! kodwa manje ngiyakhathazeka ngomathatha, mpela, phela akekho umuntu onedrama enje empilweni, the other time it was some guys' gas or fridge.

molibelis
28 Jul 2008 07:28

The CHEESE guy,people this is not a joke,this things di bohloko.cause u work hard 4ur stomach and they end up working on someones tummy.

Madam Dee
28 Jul 2008 07:34

thatha Mathata, anyway i used to date this mozalwane pastor, bathong this guy was pathetic. I cud kick myself for falling for him @ first it was airtime, then when he came to visit me he'd borrow money from neighbours and guess who had to pay it back plus his return trip. My mom almost killed me when she found out that i had spent R3000.00 buying him clothes. the final straw was when he borrowed money about R5000.00. promising to bring it back. With what cause he was not working or never had any intention of working. Always talking about him being called to serve. Anyway way found out later from his friends that thats how he lives he targets the working class women....

lepogo
28 Jul 2008 07:41

Nonny
28 Jul 2008 07:41

"kodwa manje ngiyakhathazeka ngomathatha, mpela, phela akekho umuntu onedrama enje empilweni, the other time it was some guys' gas or fridge."
ahahhaha lots of drama i Thata's life for sure Belz!!!!

andi01
28 Jul 2008 07:41

ROTFLMAOL @ Belz, whats up Belzito, and hi to ya'll, Nonny i can see you dawg

molibelis
28 Jul 2008 07:44

Madam Dee,sorry,cause dis happen to my friend,i think we are talking about the same person,he lives at umtata,and he like to go Jobug to preach,isnt him?he is tall and slender,plc hase ena na??????

kick-s
28 Jul 2008 07:48

Hayi man, uMathata userious ngalendlela abhala ngayo or uyageza nje?

Madam Dee
28 Jul 2008 07:57

He is tall and slender light in complexion(good looking shame) but not from Umtata, he's from Mafikeng He goes by the name of Abbey molosiwa (pls forgive for name dropping), The last i heard he stays with his cousin in Joburg they say he preaches a lot in Midrand. Anyway after that experience i have switched from pretty faces to men with power if you know what i mean.....

Cnglemother
28 Jul 2008 07:59

There so much wrong with men-its amazes where the f*ck are them good men-In fact it will be very very refreshing if-one day,like a bolt from nowhere- Mathata or Cnglemother or Belz or any one for that bloody matter would write a positive piece on all the men who have been in their lives-Brothers,Daddies,Grampas,Uncles or good guys they have met at some point of their lives..

Cause Im NOT sure IF ALL GUYS YOU ALL KNOW HAVE BEEN THIS HORRIBLE??????????????, if you have noticed Lepogs i have been silent on this blog coz i really have nothing to add on and its really sad that every time we write about men its always negative. Yes i have been hurt by a man and he could still be hurting me but i cannot go around portraying all men as dogs, for goodness sake i have a boy child and all this negativity towards men is really not healthy. There has been wonderful men in my lovelife and its not their fault that i ignored them and preferred to shag badboy(s) over them and walla i am in shitmode and my life upside down!.

Thanks for this comment coz this men bashing at TVSA aint right and like Bra Bizza mentioned the other day they are we gonna write a blog every time a female blogger gets cheated on.I cannot be all hating to men after all the good mdavazo they give me at the end of the day LOL! Yes i am on all blogs about mdavazo (that thing is good) but have refrained from all this men bashing coz its really unnecessary and enough has been said.

I am waiting for the day that TDC;Lepogo;Thabang or Bra Bizza writes a blog about how shattered he was when he found his chick in bed with another man.

Renegade
28 Jul 2008 08:01

@Lepogo: its amazes where the f*ck are them good men-In fact it will be very very refreshing if-one day,like a bolt from nowhere- Mathata or Cnglemother or Belz or any one for that bloody matter would write a positive piece on all the men who have been in their lives

Hmmm, I think you have just inspired an article that's been longing to come out of me, watch this space.

@kick-s : Hayi man, uMathata userious ngalendlela abhala ngayo or uyageza nje? - I like to think she's in a hurry, or should i say, I hope she's in a hurry, coz it takes a while to read that stuff!

carino
28 Jul 2008 08:04

Yazi a guy friend of friend slept over at my place one day, some weeks back.... zy sien, i left him still in bed in the morning. Thing is, i have a problem... i trust too much...
Anyway, I couldnt help notice when i came from work in the evening that he went through my drawers and my box of Featherlite's is actually missing.
But i just let it slide coz.. i mean... im quite messy, myself, so i wasnt 100% sure if he really had gone through my drawers... and even though i was wondering what kind of a guy goes thru someone he hardly knows' drawers... but then its just condoms, i thought...
Then he's much older than me & i wasnt comfortable confronting him about stealing my condoms... okay...

So, i get home last night after 3 weeks i've been away... I really missed Martin Lawrence: Runteldat, so…
I shower, boil the kettle… and….the dvd is nowhere to be found…Chris Rock’s I Think I Love My Wife is also not there. My Little Britain combo’s also missing.
That’s when I decided to give the condom thief a call… and asked him if he’s taken any of my dvd’s.. guess what…

“Yes, I took Lesego and Bala Brothers CD’s… and I just went crazy… I mean… I took it as disrespect and I really just couldn’t understand why he did something like that... and I blamed myself, partly… for leaving him in my house…

Okay, I know im really just off-ramping and off-loading but this is because….

This is the same guy that I went to Woolies with and just when I was taking money R50 out t o buy me airtime, he grabbed it, said “this will be useful later,” and bought be airtime on his Woolies card.
And other things...........

So, I’ve put a stamp on brotherman's forehead…. MoneyGrubber.....

pariri
28 Jul 2008 08:06

this dude his fridge always clean like snake tongue pass there"
ROTFLMAO, the imagery of the snake is killing me.
@ Nonny ohhh U Mathata uyasibulala ngentsini bethuna hahaahahahahahah yhooooooo LOL
OMW I can just picture that snake hahaahahah thathaz u've made my day sana

what aka mathata
28 Jul 2008 08:12

@madam dee.those pastors they are very very very cruel when coming to money.those days if i met someone n says im pastor........it just mind freek for me,they know how to play ppl.

the was this one from Mamelodi ( pastor) that dude i whont forget him,2big liquet fruit in ten min,100% juice used to be expensive those days,after he finish them i just lost my sex epitide.i told him to go,i knew what is coming on the way

Nonny
28 Jul 2008 08:17

LMAO @ Liquet frut & sex epitide, hay mani Mathata u really how to make someone smile, even if they are having a sh!tty day!!!!!

Beyonce
28 Jul 2008 08:18

@ Mathata >>the problem was he will tell me he bought car rings <<

R you sure it's not car rims ... gal?

felfel
28 Jul 2008 08:20

the was this one from Mamelodi ( pastor) that dude i whont forget him,2big liquet fruit in ten min,100% juice used to be expensive those days,after he finish them i just lost my sex epitide

Mathata were u going to have sex with a pastor ???

Dankie son
28 Jul 2008 08:24

Noma ningathini hhayi shem ngiyamuthanda u mathata full stop ngqi.

pariri
28 Jul 2008 08:25

OMG Mathata u're killing me gal I can't stop Laughing heheehheheheheh
R you sure it's not car rims ... gal?
nawe B uyandihlekisa hahahahahaah

Madam Dee
28 Jul 2008 08:31

mathata i cant make sense of what you just said but sister no pastor for me thanks.You see money here is not my problem my beef here is these guys not only do they rob you of yor money but they also take a part of you with them. The thing is i loved the motherfu**ka and i did not care about what he had or didnt have as long as i had him thats all that mattered. I guess i fell for the oldest trick huh

belz
28 Jul 2008 08:33

LMAO @ mathatha!!! yho!!!!!

Molilo
28 Jul 2008 08:37

Thanks Bee I was wondering what r car rings...........LOL

what aka mathata
28 Jul 2008 08:37

@B.i dont know,bcz this guy he used to shower me with lies,d only thing i know it was all about his car,if i make a mistake some ppl maybe they understand what im trying to say

what aka mathata
28 Jul 2008 08:42

Madam D,i dont talk abt money problem,what im trying to say they like to play with ppl minds,that all

Da Rebel 1
28 Jul 2008 09:02

I was angry bcz bcz my cheese for the mnth was finished,MY CHEESE DONE THE JOB
LOL @ Mathata

Savage
28 Jul 2008 09:09

OK now! Male golddiggers???? Of coz they exist! But if you become one of their victims then all you need to know is that YOU ARE AN IDIOT!!!! Simple as that! You all know how to spot a gold digger unless of course, instead of sweeping you off your feet, the dude just litterally swept all your brains off!!

IF YOU FORGOT UR WALLET- HOW ABT I PAY THE BILL AND U USE CELLPHONE BANKING TO BUY ME AIRTIME WORTH UR MEAL???? AND WE NEVER SEE EACH OTHER EVER AGAIN!!!

Savage
28 Jul 2008 09:12

Savage
28 Jul 2008 09:19

OOOPS!! Sorry about that- first time it gave me an error message so I had to re-post my message and now this??????

Da Rebel 1
28 Jul 2008 09:20

I believe dis money isht should be a give and take kinda agreement, if I bail you out you better make sure that you do the same when i'm in isht or else i'll call u Laqhasha

eish-bo
28 Jul 2008 14:43

This is so true, i get so irritated when at a party or just a social gathering, girls start asking me what type of job do i do?....just tell dem i'm a gold digger, coz WTF? i don't owe them anything.
have dated a guy who only started calling and caring from the 20th...but i was quick to catch him out and dumped him a hot potato he had no shame...
last weekend i was so shocked found these gals at the party, we didn't kick it off, but once they saw the wheels i was driving they asked to "hang out" with me told them to go jump in the lake....nx! abanye abantu abananqondo serious bafethu

Lady D
28 Jul 2008 15:13

Mathata just made my night,i am so ROTFLMBAO.

molibelis
29 Jul 2008 02:46

We get comfused when choosing the right partners,cause they are all innocent when shelling us,cause u cant ask a person whether h/she is working.

I think if we can all pay our Bills, if we go have lunch,i should pay my lunch as well them,when going home i rather take a Taxi home and let them drive their Cars,cause they will complain that u always in their cars but u dont buy Petrol.

Savage
29 Jul 2008 03:07

Aag shame Molibelis- U sound like uhave been thru some ish girl! OK- here is some good advice: When a brother asks you out for drinks, always ask this IMPORTANT Question: "WHOZ GONNA BE PAYING THE BILL BABY?" AND TELL HIM 'PLEASE DONT FORGET UR WALLET!!"

molibelis
29 Jul 2008 03:23

Savage,i think u right,cause if keep quite about this things u will end paying and making love to this guy,imagen somebody eating u KA HODIMO LE KA TLASE,

Renegade
29 Jul 2008 03:27

molibelis and mathata, something is strangely similar with you guys.

Savage
29 Jul 2008 03:35

LMFAO Molibelis Ka hodimo le ka tlase?? ha ha ha!!!

Savage
29 Jul 2008 03:39

On the other hand; Men (including me) do know that there are some desperate girls out there who wouldnt mind paying the bill just so they can get laid!!!!!

Vero
29 Jul 2008 04:12

Molweni Molweni, i know i haven't been blogging for quiet a while but for some reason i thought of reading the blogs and the replies this is good molibelis nyani, Let me tell you a story, my sister was vat n' sitting with a guy in her flat for 7 month so obviously the guy came with nothing and guess what he left with every thing, when my sister was coming back from work one day she got into an empty flat NO FRIDGE (nditsho nalo CHEESE) TV, DVD, BLANKETS, CD'S and the guy was no where to be found when my sister went to the guys home she found out that the guy also took something kokwabo and they are also looking for him, but they bought my sister everything (better brand names ) than the ones that she had, so lilonke BALEKA WHILE YOU CAN

molibelis
31 Jul 2008 05:35

Oh sorry Vero,that man was so cruel,if i may ask why all this stupid things are done by our brothers,whats up about this guy bathong they are always on the front pages of every relationships,they *bleep!* u around, doing movie styles and then steals from u.

molibelis
31 Jul 2008 05:41

Sorry about that Vero, i dont understand our brothers,enklek why they do this,they *bleep!* us around,doing those styles form the movies,and then steals from us,is this fair mare bathong,imagen your boyfriend stealing from u,

Cody
31 Jul 2008 06:00

Hayi man, uMathata userious ngalendlela abhala ngayo or uyageza nje? no man her child is around in a read dre........

anyway. i also wish to get inspired by someone telling me about a good man in her life, just so to be positive when it comes to relationships. i am sure there are still good men around. we can complain about them all we like but their totolozi's drive us crazy!!!! cant live with them cant live without them.

Cody
31 Jul 2008 06:01

what is a money grubber?

Cody
31 Jul 2008 06:08

molibelis and mathata, something is strangely similar with you guys.

OH THANK GOD RENE!!! I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO ALERT YOU GUYS ABOUT THESE SIMILARITIES, i didnt have the guts cause i like moli. Moli if you were not my friend, i would have asked you to write 'money grabber' not 'grubber' okay mogotsi? please fix it otherwise i am going to be convinced that you are mathata!LOL!!

Mathata, you have experienced everything neh? shame maan.

(nditsho nalo CHEESE) LOL Vero!!!

what aka mathata
31 Jul 2008 06:43

gaitsedi.tshepiso. today ke molibelis something is wrong

molibelis
31 Jul 2008 06:51

whats wrong about the replys going back to i dont know where,they just go in the middle,why.

what aka mathata
31 Jul 2008 08:02

what is going on with replys?im d only person who has this problem or what?CEO SOMETHING IS WRONG

molibelis
31 Jul 2008 08:08

MATHATA IM LOST,PLC ELABORATE UR REPLY NANA.

LM
31 Jul 2008 08:14

Renegade
31 Jul 2008 08:15

Ya, mathata, molibelis, thsepiso, all seem the same to me.

felfel
31 Jul 2008 08:20

lol

molibelis
31 Jul 2008 08:25

I thought that i should restart my PC still the same,

JustMe
31 Jul 2008 08:27

@ molibelis: Amen my sister. I pay for my stuff. When we go out, I will meet u at the venue. When we go shopping, I take my credit card with me. When I'm broke I borrow from the Bank. When my car is stuck on the highway I call AA. When I don't have food/petrol I stay @ home & watch TV. So a man will be too rassed to even thinkk of gold digging...

Cnglemother
01 Aug 2008 01:01

The CHEESE guy,people this is not a joke,this things di bohloko.cause u work hard 4ur stomach and they end up working on someones tummy. Say what? Rene & Cody tl-tl-tl!

andi01
01 Aug 2008 01:14

@Molibels-Fuck us around,doing those styles form the movies,and then steals from, ur man turn you into "emanuelle" he he ehe

Renegade
01 Aug 2008 01:21

Fuck us around,doing those styles form the movies,and then steals from
Tsho, i had not seen that....BUAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
Kodwa abo brother nabo!

molibelis
01 Aug 2008 01:49

andi01, sisi, u have been watching those silly movies le wena, are u watching them alone or? with those guys who steals from us,s'funu kwazi ndoda.

Franco
01 Aug 2008 03:33

There was this beautiful i hooked up e clubbini in PMb last yr, we went to my place and slept, the sister elokhu evuka eyothatha something e frijini , aphuze namajusi a different as long as ewabona nje,,,mind you lomuntu comes straight from the club and was drinkink alcohol the whole night.

in the morning she made breakfast ,i said i'm ok as i ussually don't eat it...but what was weired was that she was using almost everything which she can use for breakfast, six eggs etc....i didn't care about that at all, maybe she had apertite ,,i went to take a bath mina,,,and came back , she was on top of the danones manje and oranges...
ok ,she went to e bathroom , i thought i should one danone and an orange for the road, only to find that out of about 5 danones only one is left and this made furios i checked her bag and they were oranges ;danones ect.....i took them back where they belong...by the time she came back and we were driving back she realise that her bag was lighter in weight but nobody said anything,,,talking about ama hoover

molibelis
01 Aug 2008 03:49

Six eggs,this was not an apertite, but eating like this, she was nothing but a pi***g

andi01
01 Aug 2008 03:57

@Franco, LOL, she made sure that she will be full for the whole day until some other guy picks him up at the club, azophinda ashaye adume ngazo

@molibellis- you came up with the "stlyes from movies thing",so you should know better

molibelis
01 Aug 2008 04:03

@ you came up with the "stlyes from movies thing",so you should know better

City Girl,

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