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Kelly's Shocking Revelation

Written by Cheesa from the blog Cheesa Chat on 23 May 2011
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So Jub Jub is not only suspected of killing four school children, he is also an abuser! I read a shocking revelation by Kelly Khumalo on Sunday World. I couldn’t believe it, that this is the same Kelly Khumalo who posed with Jub Jub for a Drum mag cover just a few months ago. Talking about how she is supporting her man, the father of her son and that people must not judge her. 


In case you didn’t read Sunday World, Kelly Khumalo came out about the abuse she had to endure while she was in a two year relationship with Jub Jub. She says Jub Jub beat her up together with her mother when she refused to give him her car. 

Apparently this was not the first time he’d done something like this. He once forced her to give him her bank card and he would take her car and use it to pick up girls.

This is the same man who is facing murder charges and culpable homicide charges. I couldn’t believe that Jub Jub could do something like this while he is facing such a case. I wonder what he has to say for himself?

All along Kelly Khumalo has been pretending that things are all rosy when she would go to court with Jub Jub hand in hand and sit next him and show a brave face for the cameras. I must say women know how to pretend that things are all roses while behind closed doors it's a total opposite. 


I wonder what the parents of those children are saying now that Kelly Khumalo has came out with this story? Some of them judged her for supporting a man they believe murdered their children.

I feel sorry Kelly Khumalo who paused her career to support a man who turned out to be her abuser. Kelly also reveals that the mini cooper that Jub Jub was driving during that fateful day bought it for him.

I must say that I thought that Jub Jub was really sorry for what him and his friend Themba Tshabala did, but his actions say otherwise. As I didn't expect someone who had done something like they did to be busy abusing his girlfriend, adding to his sins. I wonder how this is going to influence his suspected murder case?

Now we can only be happy for Kelly Khumalo for finally seeing the light and walk out of that abusive relationship. She must be regretting the time she wasted with the abuser. 

I hope she gains strength, resurrects her career, raises her son and carries on with her life.


This reminds me of the trending topic that Lebo Mashile started on twitter named women stay. She gave a lot of reasons why women stay in abusive relationships and many other tweeps joined in. Maybe she was inspired by this story.

These are some of her tweets:

Even financially independent women stay because they believe no man will truly love a woman who is successful.

Women stay because the destructive love you get from an abuser is more than the love you show to yourself.

Women stay because we believe that it is easier to put your energy into a crumbling relationship than it is into building yourself.

Women stay because they are afraid that marriage/children have turned them into 2nd hand goods that no one else will want.

Women stay because they are afraid of what other people will say.

Women stay because they are afraid of what demons they would have to face within themselves if they had to be on their own for a while.

Women stay because other women, such as friend, siblings, mamas and mamazalas tell them to.

Women stay because they think a house with no man has no dignity. 

pics: sundayworld, drum & various site on google



81 Comments

lamisto
23 May 2011 11:07

was shocked also..naw i no longer feel pity for him.he deserve waeteva is coming his way after the trial..man can sometimes be unappreciative no mattter wat u do to please them

zvee
23 May 2011 11:12

Sheim wethu Kelly.. She probably thought that things will turn out for the better afta the 1st beating.. That''s the problem with us woman, always so understanding & taking all the crap.. Yena ke uJubJub akanambulelo, Kelly stood by him yena ngoku is taking his frustrations and being a silly-boy 2 her.

I'm out of the door the moment you do it once because the is a greatest probability that you will do it again.. Relationships are really complex yhazi... Uxolo wethu Kelly, juss bring ur baby up well Nontombi.

Tazteeq
23 May 2011 11:17

Eh!

carino
23 May 2011 11:23

Shem.

carino
23 May 2011 11:23

Shem.

Minah
23 May 2011 11:23

Khanyi Mbau's muthi is working

zvee
23 May 2011 11:26

Khanyi Mbau's muthi is working
Kwaaaaaa, i hv 4gtn already abt the Khanyi saga...lol..

poshspice
23 May 2011 11:29

@Cheesa I liked @Lebomashile's approach on twitter...I follow her too

I feel as soon as we realise this is a problem and like Lebo, try to figure our why women stay in abusive relationships we will be able to come up with programmes or campaigns to empower the victims and give then skills to deal with it











makisto
23 May 2011 11:38

All along Kelly Khumalo has been pretending that things are all rosy when she would go to court with Jub Jub hand in hand and sit next him and show a brave face for the cameras.
This is where women go very wrong, they need to lear something from Deborah Fraser, when she noticed Pastory Okeke was an abuser, she called off the wedding. All women need to be like this.

Kelly also reveals that the mini cooper that Jub Jub was driving during that fateful day bought it for him.
And he sin't grafeful that she bought him a car and the drama behind money deposit at the bank shows Jub Jub isn't a human being shem

Even financially independent women stay because they believe no man will truly love a woman who is successful. 
You know I love Lebo Mashile's work

Vandimerwe
23 May 2011 11:50

Khanyi Mbau's muthi is working......................u made myday...........

S.K
23 May 2011 11:56

Whoo Hhe e!!!!

carino
23 May 2011 11:58

Kwakwest @ khanyimbau's muthi. OFFTOPIC: bytheway, did I hear something about this Khanyi performing with Professor at the samas?

makisto
23 May 2011 12:01

did I hear something about this Khanyi performing with Professor at the samas?
True I was so shocked when they collaborated because I am still under the impression that Khanyi cannot sing.

zvee
23 May 2011 12:05

She wasthere Carino performing in a flesh.. At first I thought oh well she is a good dancer after ol, then she went to stage with him to accept the award, that's when i became scared.. Many of us hv bought his CD meaning the guy is cash loaded ..Now she goes to accept an awad with him...WOW, i see danger coming... God knows that i hope i am wrong...

Minah
23 May 2011 12:07

Remember she blakseemed Khanyi and after that Kelly's townhouse caught fire then jub jub's saga and hmmmmmmmmmmmm Khanyi and her Tongoleese sangoma

Cheesa
23 May 2011 12:21

Khanyi Mbau's muthi is working LOL!

makisto
23 May 2011 12:25

Remember she blakseemed Khanyi and after that Kelly's townhouse caught fire then jub jub's saga and hmmmmmmmmmmmm Khanyi and her Tongoleese sangoma
Now I see, I had totally forgotten about the Kelly Khumalo and Khanyi Mbau cat miaaaaauuuw, now the Khanyi muti makes sense lol. Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Green.arrow
23 May 2011 13:40

Eish, i tried to refrain from commenting lest i come accros as insensitive,but hey...

1. This story is hardly shocking. The kind of celebs "for publicity's sake" carefully ochestrated story that trivialises the real stories of real people who are realy being abused
2. Before the tell all book, there will be an album with some sobby songs and and and.....

Im impatiently waiting the outcome of the Jubjub case, tse dingwe tse di re senyetsa dinako.

PruLuv
23 May 2011 14:03

To be honest I also thought of Khanyi Mbau when I read the Kelly story.

But it's sad if it's true!

bosch
23 May 2011 15:09

Kelly also reveals that the mini cooper that Jub Jub was driving during that fateful day bought it for him.
@Cheesa

how can you omit the juicy bits..whr Kelly said she fainted and fell when queuing to pay for the mini cooper deposit because she was hungry!

Cheesa
23 May 2011 15:15

Itjo bosch I didnt wanna seem like I'm writing the Sunday World article here, you know mos how people are. 

On what you're saying GA, I also thought she will use this for sales for her album when she decides to release. Akere that is what artists do all over the world to create publicity. Even though its painful she will gain out of this, that is how their industry works *shrug* 

This Khanyi thing makes laugh you know.

S.K
23 May 2011 15:30

Please bandla Khanyi, we dont want u in durban!!! Stay away!!!!

VusiK
23 May 2011 15:33

Hay Bo'! nidlalwa yilabantu njengsiginci ... and niyacula as well ...

Cheesa
23 May 2011 15:44

LOL Vusi you mean aykho yonke lento. This is just an act kwaaaaaaa!!!

VusiK
23 May 2011 15:49

sengishilo ... I bet the klap that bruised the lip was rehearsed over and over and over and again .... before he klapped her mama ..

Tazteeq
23 May 2011 15:49

how can you omit the juicy bits..whr Kelly said she fainted and fell when queuing to pay for the mini cooper deposit because she was hungry!

this sounds very juicy...i want to know more about this, Please @Cheesa?

VusiK
23 May 2011 15:52

this sounds very juicy.. ... This sounds ... Uhmmmmm... Rehearsed!

When you're hungry you eat ... why go hungry waiting in a cue when you have bondles ... DiRoto ... that you can put on your boyfriend's car .... Anyone heard fast food ?!? at every centre where there is a bank ....

Ntlewame2
23 May 2011 15:54

Fainting while queuing ........???......and you are not poor/sick.....mxm!.......was he holding a gun to her head.....even a wresttling -show -act can do better than that!........if true...does she have brains?......mxm!

Cheesa
23 May 2011 16:02

LOL Taz its a exatcly that Kelly says she bought the mini for Jub Jub and when she was at ABSA to pay the balance she fainted while standing in the queue because she was tired and hungry. 

When she told Jub Jub about it he didnt care about anything even his unborn baby's health as madam was pregnant at the time. All he cared about was the car. 

When you're hungry you eat ... why go hungry waiting in a cue when you have bondles ... DiRoto ... that you can put on your boyfriend's car .... Anyone heard fast food ?!? LMAO!!

VusiK
23 May 2011 16:04

HAOW CHEESA ... KAAK IS KAAK ... sifunzwa inyula La!!!

Phela nathi sibadala!!!

One and Only
23 May 2011 16:07

But noJubJub naye uwrong man, our grandmothers were disciplined because abomkhulu bebethi umfazi ushaywa ngepipi.

Mawumrobhile waba iqhude uvele abe uvanzi nje ahambe ekukhuluma emaphepheni.

Tazteeq
23 May 2011 16:07

nxa, Virgin Kelly made that statement to suck and score all those soppy "Shames" from us! she aint getting mine....

VusiK
23 May 2011 16:11

@O&) ... ROFL

Nothing like induku yangempela to sort out an errant woman .... I soooooooooooooo believe in that school of thought .....

Mina ...nami ... Umfazi ngimbetha ngalento .... aze aqonde ... uma ngihluleka .... Hai Ke' ... angahamba ....

Kodwe ngizobe ngizitike ngaye .... ngongamudla aswele amadolo okukhasa!!!!

Cheesa
23 May 2011 16:13

LOL! You guys dont buy this story I see. 

Same as other people didnt buy Dineo's story about Kenny Kunene whom now she is all lovey dovey with. So I guess you could be right *shrugs*

Cande
23 May 2011 18:35

If this is true shwem! But I wonder why did she have to run to the papers? After she acted brave and supportive to her 'man'.

Cnglemother
23 May 2011 19:18

ditto Cande!maybe the spoilt brat cheated again 4 the hundreth time lol!chicks have money, a cooper for a man?

Cheesa
23 May 2011 19:32

True that yazi Cande. How can she quickly run to the papers with this matter when before she wanted to keep everything private and didn't want any newspapers to write about her private affairs saying she doesn't discuss her affairs with media. She didn't even want to admit that the father of her baby is Jub Jub when it was obvious. They only want to discuss their affairs when they want people to feel sorry for them? O_o

Cnglemother
23 May 2011 22:05

lol!reminds of the day Jubie said on tv he's neva had s@x without a condom.I would love to know how mamJackie took Kelly's revelations to the media bout her goldenboy.you dont wana be in that woman's bad books.

carino
24 May 2011 08:29

Lol @ you guys. I been reserving my comment coz I also took this with a pinch of salt, shem. Kwaaakwest at the fainting while queuing to pay deposit ya cooper. Clearly usisi needs to be visited by an FNB official. We cannot be standing hungry at the bank kaloku, in this age of internet and cellphone banking.

TheLady
24 May 2011 08:42

And banks let pregnant ladies to the front of queue.
Miss Kelly calls Jubie's girls skanks...pot, kettle, black?

makisto
24 May 2011 09:01

Itjo bosch I didnt wanna seem like I'm writing the Sunday World article here, you know mos how people are. 
Eish Cheesa, I know all too well about this.

But I wonder why did she have to run to the papers? 
Therapeautic I presume

We cannot be standing hungry at the bank kaloku, in this age of internet and cellphone banking.
Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa @ the FNB ad we see on TV. O sele yazi wena Cariri. But I agree, people need to take advantage of technology. Mos these days we pay our bills in the comform of our living rooms and offices

babye
24 May 2011 10:50

my friend is staying in an abusive relationship because its better to stay with the devil that you know than start over again hey

makisto
24 May 2011 10:54

my friend is staying in an abusive relationship because its better to stay with the devil that you know than start over again hey
You can still stay alone. I wonder why wome sell themselves cheap

VusiK
24 May 2011 12:07

my friend is staying in an abusive relationship because its better to stay with the devil that you know than start over again hey

... she's not in an abusive relationship then .. it's only abusive to the outsider / spectator ... she would be motivated to change or leave if it was abusive ... language is important ....

She is in a relationship YOU are not comfortable  with ... she is evidently comfortable because she's staying in it ... It is her choice ... leave her to it, she's accepted responsibility for the choice ... so it seems.

poshspice
24 May 2011 12:16

VusiK: "She is in a relationship YOU are not comfortable with" 

lol

Cheesa
24 May 2011 12:17

Tjo baby e your friend kodwa! How can she do that to herself. Has she really given up on life that much coz really its not life sticking in an abusive. Its worse if she's aware of that and she gives that kind of a reason why she's staying in that relationship. Haikhona we really shouldn't do this to ourselves as woman.

VusiK
24 May 2011 12:24

Honestly ... Guys ...

An abusive relationship is defined by the "Abused person's interpretation" ... not the observant / spectator's interpretation .... An abused person who wishes to change the situation CAN  .... and most often DOES change things... those who elect to remain in situations that seem bad or ugly ... are not in abusive relationships ... this is 2011 guys ...

Vandimerwe
24 May 2011 12:30

You can still stay alone. sometimes when u a not in you will say that...but staying alone is not a child'splay bathong ........talking from experience....((((((((hides))))))

babye
24 May 2011 12:31

Vusi thats what she told me i dont have a problem with her being beaten its her choice. i should have wrote

she is staying because she says thats .............

VusiK
24 May 2011 12:33

I'm simple ... I will support my friends who are in a bad situation , I will even allow them the mistake of repeating their being abused ONCE! ... but after that, they lose the right to complain ... and I force them to take responsibility for themselves ...

1st time my niece got beat by her boyfriend ... I warned him, and took her home with me ... she went back and i fetched her once again ... the next time she called me at 3 in the morning to rescue her from a beat-down .... I said "Sorry my baby ... I warned you ... don't call me about this ... I am not interested in your drama ... you know what to do" ... the next morning she beat his ass to an inch of his life ....

Evidently he did not know she was my martial arts student through most of her childhood ... now that uncle was not thereto rescue her ... she rescued herself ... it is called the victim syndrome ... and people are highly manipulative with it .... as if Kelly and Crowd ...

VusiK
24 May 2011 12:34

she is staying because she says thats ............. Her choice ...

S.K
24 May 2011 12:41

Aybo guys mina m single, m fine, gets lonely sometimes but come on, its much better than an idiot punching u every chance he gets, haibo!!!

VusiK
24 May 2011 12:42

sometimes when u a not in you will say that...but staying alone is not a child'splay bathong ........

People are terrified of being alone ... Don't know why  ... after all, we all come and go alone in life ...

I'm blessed not to be one such person ... I can lave any situation in a heartbeat ... If there's something I'm not comfortable with and my raising my discomfort is not heard ... It's a very short trip to the exit for me ... and I don't bother looking back ... i'm just one of those who believes my person should consider me to be as important as I do her ...

Giving me less than best is reason enough not to stick around ...

VusiK
24 May 2011 12:46

@S.K .... I don't even feel lonely once my mind is made up and my decision taken hey ... I just live on, and find happiness for me ... whatever form it'll come in ... be it a book, blogging, music, driving, or work ... or someone new ... does not matter ... it is what is important to me, and what puts me at peace that matters ... nobody else ...

I'm extremely fortunate that my children and family come absolute 1st for me, therefore, there's always an immediate destination for the diverted attention and Love I have to give and receive ...

babye
24 May 2011 12:53

there is nothing wrong with being alone, single. nothing at all,

S.K
24 May 2011 12:55

... I just live on, and find happiness for me ... whatever form it'll come in ... be it a book, blogging, music, driving, or work ... or someone new ... does not matter ... it is what is important to me, and what puts me at peace that matters ... nobody else ... I like that VusiK!!!!

I also have realised that when u stay single for quite sometime, u always sceptical about things, very hard to trust and commit!!! M good as single, taking my dearest and sweetest time!!!!

@Vandi...U should try it sisi!!!!!

VusiK
24 May 2011 12:57

I actually get more crazy and have much more fun when single ... there's nobody to be considerate of, therefore, i can REALLY cut loose and indulge in whatever without worrying about consequence/ repercussions/ interpretations. reactions ...

VusiK
24 May 2011 13:00

Partners do hobble us and limit out accomplishments to a larger degree ... we can accomplish more by ourselves than we ever could dragging someone along with us ...

S.K
24 May 2011 13:11

there's nobody to be considerate of...... That's the best part ever....I flirt to the maximum....LMAO.....(hides)

MsKim
24 May 2011 14:17

Partners do hobble us and limit out accomplishments to a larger degree ... we can accomplish more by ourselves than we ever could dragging someone along with us ...Behind a successful man there's a woman )) to a certain extent this is true (((note every man/woman))) but it does happen. so pliz stop discouraging others...
wen u meet THE ONE u won't have to feel u have to be considerate u'd be jus yoself n still be very happy.

MsKim
24 May 2011 14:24

@ S.K...
wen u meet THE ONE u won't feel u have to be considerate u'd be jus yoself n still be very happy n still accomplish watever u want. n wen u're very happy u won't feel the need to flirt not necessarily coz of him but coz its nolonger u OR u r not interested period last but not least flirting won't amaze u..

Green.arrow
24 May 2011 14:31

I flirt to the maximum....LMAO.....(hides)

dont even know were the converstation comes from ne...but this reminds me of this idea that i have about flattery. When brothers are flattering me mo tseleng, as long as they arent offensive shame i enjoy it!!!. After i have passed them It picks up my mood and all is good.
So one of the things i do when im down...i go to the garage for steers/icecream..i know on the way or back..a brother is gonna say something nice and ill be better...
I dont think i flirt S.K...i dont think i know how to...but respectfull flattery from brothers...i dont mind at all.

Vandimerwe
24 May 2011 14:34

S.K its been 3yrs now but nowadays i feel like im loosing my mind....... its like im fighting the world........ijooo i dont even know how to describe this

carino
24 May 2011 14:42

Partners do hobble us and limit out accomplishments to a larger degree ... we can accomplish more by ourselves than we ever could dragging someone along with us

This is completely misleading. The reason you would think that your partner is limiting your accomplishments is coz you are with them with the mentality that you are "tagging them along".

So you go through life feeling that you are carrying a burden - someone who doesnt have any dreams of their own that to tag along with you. thats why you are going to end up miserable and the relationship will be miserable too.

I dont thik if you are together for the reason of being together, there would be anything that is left out unaccomplished.

Green.arrow
24 May 2011 14:44

tltltltl Vandi...i feel like im loosing my mind....... its like im fighting the world...would tha be three years o le single.
I agree with Vusi here, this is how i am
I don't even feel lonely once my mind is made up and my decision taken hey ... I just live on, and find happiness for me ... whatever form it'll come in ... be it a book, blogging, music, driving, or work ... or someone new ... does not matter ... it is what is important to me, and what puts me at peace that matters ... nobody else ...

I'm extremely fortunate that my children and family come absolute 1st for me, therefore, there's always an immediate destination for the diverted attention and Love I have to give and receive ...
In the place of the "someone new"...if i reaaaly feel on that PMSing sad occasion..lonely, all i need is to go down the garage, flattery from one or two guys takes care of it...
I dont have kids, but my family, spiritual family, my maaaany lil brothers and sisters...i always have someone to think about and worry about and etc...

mazah
24 May 2011 14:52

OK, Kelly Khumalo was or is in the abusive relationship. But come on guyz, do u really buy this one?  This girl is arrogant, ask me... It might heppened that Kelly started beating the guy then wamphindisela to defend himself.  Don't forget that this girl is full of lies. SHe got into industry buy claiming that she was a virgin. Was she really a virgin...I mean really that claim was an insult to me as intombi yomhlanga...lol. And onother thing, this storry is not balanced, we didn't hear Jub Jub's side of storry. I don't buy this. 

VusiK
24 May 2011 15:06

...Behind a successful man there's a woman )) ... I tend to disagree that any person assist in the success of another ... Successful people are committed, dedicated, and single minded ....  most people I know who are extremely successful will agree that they got there because of not having women ... or men in their lives ...

... in fact; we accomplish more when we do not have a partner than we do when we have someone ...

Women simply turn orgasmic at the fantasy that they are an important part of their men's success ... I know plenty of women who are extremely successful and their secret is ..... NO MEN!

Behind every successful person is a strong sense of self awareness ... women or men are an absolute non-essential optional extra in determining one's measure of success or support ...

VusiK
24 May 2011 15:10

Was she really a virgin..  sometime between the day she was born and the day she Vula'd .. she was ..

Does anyone believe she was at the time of her announcement .... Heck No!!! Even my 8 year old daughter'd probably laugh that one off if she understood what it meant ...

VusiK
24 May 2011 15:15

I'm going through a major problem in my life right now ... I'd like to "Article" it tomorrow ... my regulars .. please look for it in the morning ... or late tonight ...

vinc
24 May 2011 15:19

Everytime i see Kelly's name and article, i ignore, havent forgiven her for lying about her virignity.

mazah
24 May 2011 15:45

Jah Vinc, I agree with you man. Kelly got what she deserved. That girl once threw swearing words to my face. I hate her with all my heart. I'm a journalist at a Zulu Newsapaper and everytime I try to interview this arrogant girl she tells me that she can't speak becoz of this and that. I don't like her, period!


Cheesa
24 May 2011 15:48

When brothers are flattering me mo tseleng, as long as they arent offensive shame i enjoy it!!!. I know what you mean GA lol as long as there no ekse mabhebeza eeuw hate the word!

Was she really a virgin.. sometime between the day she was born and the day she Vula'd .. she was ..  LOL!

Behind every successful person is a strong sense of self awareness ... women or men are an absolute non-essential optional extra in determining one's measure of success or support ... Ditto 

Don't forget that this girl is full of lies. SHe got into industry buy claiming that she was a virgin. Was she really a virgin... But we cannot be sure that she was lying, can we? Wena Mazah what makes you so sure that she was lying?

LOL! vinc

S.K
24 May 2011 15:53

Like VusiK said."I just live on, and find happiness for me ... whatever form it'll come in ... be it a book, blogging, music, driving, or work ... or someone new ... does not matter "..... So flirting is what i do when m single and I see no need to be desperate or run crazy for a man........

Cheesa
24 May 2011 15:53

LOL! Sheim Mazah now I understand why you dont like her. That was rude of her to do that to you. Yena she does seem like a rude person.

Cheesa
24 May 2011 15:54

LOL! SK so I can take flirting as one of your hobbies lol

poshspice
24 May 2011 16:09

VusiK "most people I know who are extremely successful will agree that they got there because of not having women ... or men in their lives ...

... in fact; we accomplish more when we do not have a partner than we do when we have someone ... "

I fully agree.....


But Vusi tI think the saying applies more on married people because their success in not only measure through their career achievements but successful families too, as in stable, beautiful wife, home, parties you host for your peers showing off your wife's cooking skills and you brilliant kids (a man hardly has time for) etc.Once people are married, usually a woman compromises or hold back her ambitions or career advancement  to look after the family while a man is persuing his career to the fullest...it is through th estability at home that contributes to his ability to focus...

Cheesa
24 May 2011 16:30

True what you say Posh in your last paragraph I wanted to say something like that but didnt know how to put. That saying applies more in the marriage set up were a woman supports her man through think and thin. Since it is believe that what a  man in working on is for his family not only for himself. 

So thats why they say were theres a succesful man there's a woman. Since the woman also helped, supported and sacrificed for the man's success.

Tazteeq
24 May 2011 16:49

LMAO, Poor Mazah!

VusiK
24 May 2011 17:04

Marriage is awesome Posh ... But it can be hobbling ... most people are not too interested in making the necessary sacrifices to ensure that their chances of success are maximized once married ...

The unfortunate reality is that in more cases than not ... the woman is probably the more creative, and oft the more intelligent of the partners in marriage and all things being equal, would outperform the man in the success stakes if she was not hobbled with the burden of being a wife ... and some instances exist wherein one cannot engage the risks one otherwise would in pursuit of success because one has commitments like marriage ... (Borrowing, leaving for prolonged periods,etc.)

but when one looks at matters closely and clinically, relationships hobble us in our pursuits

VusiK
24 May 2011 17:07

But we cannot be sure that she was lying, can we? Wena Mazah what makes you so sure that she was lying?

Who do you know has not lied in the pursuit of fame ... (there's very little fortune in Mzantsi entertainment, so let's not mention it).

Sbam
25 May 2011 11:52

Tjo....


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Season 1 finale and crossover alert! Caesar takes Thandiswa to the House of Zwide for her wedding dress.

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