How to proceed???

Written by Mballly from the blog Live Life on 08 Jun 2012
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How do i continue to live after losing one person i have ever loved and trusted, the person who was like my own photocopy, the person who made it possible to live without mother because of the love she had been giving me...........My c* was and always wil be the light of my heart bt i do not know how to proceed from here.......I wish there was someone i could say "this one can definately make me feel alive again."
Why did i have to lose the one person i love more than my own life.................My life will never be the same again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5 Comments

ayashah
15 Jun 2012 11:04

wish there was someone i could say "this one can definately make me feel alive again."
i will never leave nor forsake you, that says the Lord
God is always ther for you dear ask direction from above he will gude you n surey your love will never be the same again

VusiK
15 Jun 2012 11:16

Moving on is very difficult.

... but I do suggest you write detail so that people can understand your loss better.

I cannot even identify your loss (I can't tell if your loss is a boyfriend, mother, child ... why you are in pain, how you related, what made this person special, etc.) , ..... and I do know loss... everybody does, and people do come and comfort us when they know what we are on about ... but they probably will not because you have given them nothing to relate or associate your pain with,

People here are very generous and supportive, and they have wonderful experiences and support, ...

expound on your pain and be specific on your detail ... they will identify with your pain, and help your feel better.

mangqezu
15 Jun 2012 11:27

Its their sister (c*) that they have lost.

Sorry dear I dont know how u feel becos I have never been in your situation but take comfort in this interpretation of Psalms 23 by a little girl which says : The Lord is my shepherd and that's all I want.

Let him guide you and cast all ur burdens unto him.

Njoy
15 Jun 2012 11:41

@VusiK you are right. Everyone think their burden is the heaviest until they hear someone elses burden.

All I know is that when you think God is no longer walking with you it is when he is carying you. Believe me my sister/brother life is a challenge to everyone and it's difficult times and situations that help us grow stronger.

I wish you all the strength you can master at this point. It won't be easy but it's possible. I wish all the help you can get. My heart is with you all the way.

Kerrie
15 Jun 2012 12:17

Losing a loved on is a very painful experience but we must dwell on it because it is unhealthy that way. Talk to somebody who has also gone through that or anyone who cares to listen, Cry, let the tears spill down your cheeks, you don't necessarily have to wail, just let them spill silently, you'll feel much better afterwards. Think about all the good and bad times you had with that person, you might laugh realizing that you once fought over something silly.....

Trust in God, keep on praying. Read the Bible, especially the words Jesus said to Lazarus' sisters when he'd died. I believe there is reason why they die, i feel God knows they look after us better when they are up there with him!

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