Hi there bloggers I have a problem wondering if you can help. I ve been datin my bf for long and this year we were planning to move in 2gether and he evn asked my mother for permission and all was well and in jan we found out I was pregnant with his child of cause, all was well he was in we decided I would move in permanently end of March so that we can start preparing for the baby.
A couple of weeks later I found out that he was datin this gal i confronted him and he said they just friends nothing more I didn’t believe him so I started going through his msg and emails and I found out that they only met in dec and he told her that he has a steady galfrnd but doesn’t mind having fun and this gal also has a man an a child whom she lives with full time and he even told her that he’s the who bought me my car (which is not true) and so on and so on and she kept on goin abt how she’s tired of been second best in his life and how she wish she was me, fine I decided to ignore it for a while cause he said he will stop speaking to her told her on the phone in front of me that they cant be close anymore because am now pregnant with his child and he needs to focus on us.
a couple of weeks after that I was at my bf and all was well I slept at him and we discussing that his going to meet his family later and tell them about the pregnancy and I must try and find out how much my family would charge him for lobola
i went to work as usual on that day and normaly he comes arnd to my work to drop of the house keys so when I left he said il see you at arnd 2 to come drop the keys he kissed me goodbye and I left later on I call him so see if he was coming he was funny and said no and that I must move back to my house and from then on we started fighting I went to his place after work regardless of him not givin me the keys
I waited at the lady next door his unit we are friend and we kept on cailing him and he said his not coming home and he never wants to see me again I left later on and apparently after I left he came in with the gal that said she wished she was me
I came back later that week and he tried to kick me out the house but I refused and I slept over at him but he decided to go sleep on the couch he wouldn’t let me touch or anything everytime I would touch him he went mad like a crazy person i cried and next to him and he did nothing at all it was like I wasn’t there he just went to sleep
I went to my place the following day and came back after 2weeks which when I got there he demanded that I pack my staff and leave I refused sayin we must talk how can he just change over night that and I even suggested we call in the elders or go get help he got angry and beat me up and threw me out like a dog
ever since that day he told me I must stay away from him that he wants nothing to do with and the child, its like he hates me he cant stand me, everytime I sms him he says just stay away from him and he blocked my numbers I cant even call him he smses me telling me he loves that gal and so on, his neigbours are now telling me that he doesn’t talk to them like before and that his always with that gal and her child and has neglected his on blood and me.
I don’t know what to do its been three months now and his still the same I had a dream and in that dream I was taking muthi out of this gals handbag so I decided to go and see someone like a sangoma and they told me that this gal has used muthi to get him and everytime she sleeps with him she puts on strong muthi and that she had bewitched me so that my bf can hate me the way he is doing
I don’t know what to I have asked for advice everywhere some say I must do the same to her but I don’t believe in that and some say I should go to zcc it will help me I will get my man, what should I do please help am actually thinking of going to zcc cause I don’t know what to do anymore.
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