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chatrum dating,do you think its wise???

Written by Lhozalisto from the blog intwe zimonate on 29 Jun 2010
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what do you guys think of dating kuma chatrooms?? Do you think its wise?

there's mxit,twitter,fb, 2go etc.....
BUT im chating on 2go and almost evryone is dating. And the guys from the capetown chatroom dont respect women there and change them like they are changing their socks.....
and after they slept with them,they give them all sorts of names. BUT these gals kip going back for more. those guys say its a game,but to gamble with ur life like that? and in my life i have never seen such rude people.

I believe that a chatroom is for making frends,not playing with people's hearts.

If anyone would like to see what i mean join 2go at www.2go.co.za.

34 Comments

GML
29 Jun 2010 13:34

okay.....

Is mxit, twitter and FB dating sites?

I didnt know that....

pele
29 Jun 2010 13:39

tjo they even sleep with each other, haybo these sites are dangerous moss.

Chix
29 Jun 2010 13:48

hayi have never heard of such craziness as well....I mean how do you sleep with someone you haven't known long....a person you met on the net....yhoooo hayi some women are very desparate!!!

maud
29 Jun 2010 13:51

@lhozalisto- quik questin , talking from experience or jsomething else

maud
29 Jun 2010 13:52

sorry man, my fingers were too fast than my thoughts

Lhozalisto
30 Jun 2010 09:15

nah they not dating sites...wat im saying is. Is it wise to date someone you met kumxit? en no I havent dated anyone there

TheLady
30 Jun 2010 09:28

I am on twitter, Facebook and badoo (except for badoo the other are social not dating sites)...ok if you are looking for love on the internet you have your work cut out for you. There are some serious weirdos out there. For a while I thought I was done with meeting men on a website, but ke things change lol.

I have met some creeps, some ugly but nice guys, deperate Toms, weird men and, married bast*rds and some beautiful souls. I met my babydaddy on a wbsite, he turned out to be a creep (when I was pregnant anyway)but I also made some great friends-male and female.

I'm for sex on the first date EXCEPT when it's a guy you met on a website, those are highly unlikely to come back.

Here are some tips:
1 If he is too good to be true, he is damn well not true
2. If his messages arrive with spelling and grammar errors-he is a creep.
3. If after he send a photo of himself naked/half naked or just his privates...run! Unless you like what you are seeing, but then again it's highly likely that the beautiful machine you are drooling for is not his.
4. He doesn't want to see a photo-coz he loves you for who you are and not what you look like-run! He is as ugly as hell!
5. Talks about his expensive mode of transport, remember this just before you meet his car will be in an accident and written off...if you still are with him check his wallet he never owned a license and heck he can't afford a bike.
6 If after chatting for 2 hours he screams he's in love-he's either attached and realises that YOU are desperate/ he thinks that's what you wanna here or he is ugly.
7. If he starts telling you about his financial problems before you have even met/on a first date he is a scrub-run.

Ok children listen to the adult...been there lol.

TheLady
30 Jun 2010 09:30

So many grammar errors..I'm a creep lol

Lhozalisto
30 Jun 2010 10:06

@the lady..........lol ur not a creep man

and i dont even wanna mit with them,its ok that we just chat....no pix,no mitings

ntoko
30 Jun 2010 10:07

Hahahahahaha u said it all TheLady m also on the so called dating sites only for fun though i met once the guy was cute,honest and he was willing to take it further but he was too stingy , u know those type once u show them u afford then u end up uwu money spender i had to run bafowe2 . well once u start u become addicted especially when u are SOLO, but u need to be very careful especially wid regards to ur information.

I won't marry sum1 whom i meet on the site,cos i will be insecured knowing the game hahahahaha

Cnglemother
30 Jun 2010 10:34

TheLady i totally agree! I have met some awesome and decent men on the cyberspace and im all for it.its hard to meet men when you ova 25 and no longer in the partyscene and all that so the net dating has a market.never came across creeps in my experience in all genders.and i got ova the whole shock when u meet some1 hoping it would be a Will Smith and it turns out differently.

Cnglemother
30 Jun 2010 10:36

Viva internet dating viva!

TheLady
30 Jun 2010 13:39

Congrats makisto

Exactly Cnglemother it's suddenly not easy to meet nice man every weekend, the net just makes the circle bigger.

Lhozalisto
30 Jun 2010 13:53

@ the lady..........uyandicubhula lmao

realist
30 Jun 2010 14:09

its hard to meet men when you ova 25 and no longer in the partyscene and all that so the net dating has a market
Over 25 is still too young to stop going to the party scene. There are plenty of men out there the problem though is that most don’t work and as you know there is no such thing called free lunch.

I'm also for sex on my first date.
So far the ones I’ve dated were stingy. Had to wait 2 weeks to …
So I’ve yet to meet the one willing on the first date.

maud
30 Jun 2010 14:14

@realistic- am i missing something here, sex on first date?

ei i dont know

mathata
30 Jun 2010 14:15

stingy.............................i better stay home n bake ouma rusks.

maud
30 Jun 2010 14:22

i have to be drunk and be drugged first before a sleep with someone on the first date.

Sips
30 Jun 2010 15:01

kwakwakwakwakwakwakwa @ theLady

Guys am i old fashioned when i think the whole thing of sending private parts its revolting...

hayi have never heard of such craziness as well....I mean how do you sleep with someone you haven't known long....a person you met on the net....yhoooo hayi some women are very desparate!!! Chix which planet do u leave in?? Sometimes its not about being desparate its just for fun....i don't understand why do you say "woman"?? As if its only woman who initiate the sex..

its hard to meet men when you ova 25 and no longer in the partyscene and - so true Cnglemother

I'm also on twitter, facebook, badoo, mxit nd 2go - i chat only with ppl that i know from mxit nd 2go, i've stopped visiting the rooms coz the minute u do every body in there thinks u want a "shag" - i've stoped badooing - coz i think that site has the creepiest guys ever...

Lhozalisto
30 Jun 2010 15:10

LOL SIPS THATS TRUE...EN I ALSO NO LONGER CHAT IN THE CHAT ROOMS

realist
30 Jun 2010 15:13

its hard to meet men when you ova 25 and no longer in the partyscene
Ladies, you want to tell me that at just over 25 you are that old? No wonder men will ever stop cheating.

Lela
01 Jul 2010 00:55

Lol

Lus
01 Jul 2010 08:14

LOL... I am so happy i was born in the last insane generation as i will never meeta anyone i meet on the net, i just ahve trust issues.
i like the term Cyber-brothels Makisto, and i agree, my younger sis can sit in her room for hours busy with mxit and this was way before i even registered in FB.

ntoko
01 Jul 2010 08:50

Let me put it this way we are not on the net simply because we are desparate, like my fellow bloggers said its real hard to meet men when u ova 25 and to add on that after the age of 25 u are matured enough to tell the difference between Love and Lust, Remember u have been in this game before and u know how to play it, from the word goes u could read between the lines well its kinda complicated but
not everyone come into your life because they wanna use u, as much as we are heart broken there are people out there who were sailing on the same boat. So the only advice i can spare is that do what ever u like with ur life as long as u are not doing it in a wrong way the rest will fall into it peaces.
Dnt go on the net only if u have higher expertations, It takes a real man to be a husband ((((hides)))

TheLady
01 Jul 2010 08:59

Ladies, you want to tell me that at just over 25 you are that old?

Yip, you are, I really don't wanna be the 'old b!tch' in a club...

I met some really nice guys on badoo-granted some I had to block and had to 'privatise' my photo album-they are just sweet.

I met a guy who just plain asked to be my sugardaddy...hmmm my poor cub

Savanah Dry
01 Jul 2010 09:14

I have also tried cyber dating met a good guy there but just didnt work out earned less than me and had confidence issues....

Yes there are plenty of creeps out there so wht i do when u chat me i up i ask do u want to talk dirty or just chat weirdos always choose dirty and i block rather not waste my time with someone will ask me so wht are u wearing before they even say hello !!!

And yes i agree its hard to meet guys these days ...

Sips
01 Jul 2010 09:14

Yip, you are, I really don't wanna be the 'old b!tch' in a club...tltltltltltltltltltltltltltltltl u can say that again theLady... but shouldn't be a strictly say no under 25s???

@theLady how do u provatise ur photo album?

true ntoko...

realist
01 Jul 2010 09:26

its real hard to meet men when u ova 25 and to add on that after the age of 25
In essence you are looking for men over the age of 30?

u are matured enough to tell the difference between Love and Lust,
Some how I doubt it based on my experience. It just a stress of not being committed to anyone yet.

TheLady
01 Jul 2010 09:29

You can do it on badoo ntoko, on Facebook-you can show it to friends only

Cnglemother
01 Jul 2010 18:54

Yes Realist im looking for that,between 30-40,not/never married with a stable job.looks aint important he must just be presentable and smell good.wana assist?im 29 and have a 4year old boy.

Cnglemother
01 Jul 2010 21:34

Makisto is a man?tjo!

Cnglemother
01 Jul 2010 21:58

TheLady eish badoo is hectic!uthola indoda manje lol!i love it though.

Cnglemother
01 Jul 2010 22:08

I just go there sumtymz to laugh at the photos.especially the overseas guys who look like uSipho wasenxtdoor.

realist
02 Jul 2010 12:11

Yes Realist im looking for that,between 30-40,not/never married with a stable job.looks aint important he must just be presentable and smell good.wana assist?im 29 and have a 4year old boy.
It is a tough ask but at 29 u still young and hopefully things will work out.

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