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The break up

Written by KewlGaL from the blog Brangelina break-up fever on 29 Jan 2010
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I needed something catchy in order to get ya'll attention!!

Ok... I cant say i'm not happy about Brad & Angie's split cos that wont be true.. My things is this, "Steal a man from someone and he will be stolen from you" simple! I cant really say i'm also a fan of Jeniffer either, (Unyabile) .. In actual fact I dont really care about their love triangle cos they dont care abt me either.. so we are even!!!

Now to why you are here:

My live-in ( i could kill myself 4 doing this) boyfriend of 3yrs has changed on me. Last friday and saturday nite he just disappeared on me with no word. I called him numerous times thinkin all sorts of things (accident mostly) and he was not answering. 
When he came back I was so angry I did not ask him anything waiting for him to explain so I can give him a piece of my mind. Well... sduphunga decided to keep quite as well. The whole week we were not talkin to each other. 

Yesterday he did the same thing, disappeared till now. As I type this I dont know where he is.

Its the 1st time he's doing this but heck I want to dump him regardless. I still love him but I feel that he is deliberately disrespecting me. I gat PRIDE B****!!  That does'nt happen to me if you say you love me. I respect you & you must respect me back. 

So bloggers do you think I am being irrational when I dump him by sms saying he should move out? 

The break up fever is upon me...

I submarine 4 now

25 Comments

KewlGaL
29 Jan 2010 12:49

Help a sista out.....

GML
29 Jan 2010 12:52

I think you should just tell him that you dont mind him going out and whatever but the least he could do is call you.

Then you tell him that you are not his babysitter and he should be a man and say if he has acid in his pants. He needs to talk about it.

Then you leave him alone and see what happens.

If he still carries on, depending on whose place that is, tell him to call Tyrone and help him get his *bleep!* out.

Whoever/whatever  is keeping him busy better come over and hlp him sort his *bleep!* out.

Dont dump someone over something that you yourself arent sure of. ASk him and give him time to deal with his *bleep!* and he will tell you when he is good and ready

KewlGaL
29 Jan 2010 12:59

Thanks GML, you have calmed me down.. Wuuuusaaa!! thanks really

GML
29 Jan 2010 13:04

He probably dealing with something sensitive and has no idea how to tell you or maybe he is trying to sort it out alone first.

Give him time and just dont nag him

vee05
29 Jan 2010 15:05

nooooo girl,he aint dealing with something sensite. hes just being disrespectful, he should have explained 2 u last week where he was, i think u should talk to him & if he gives u no straight answer. dumb his *** or u could do the same, when he comes home leave him alone for a day or 2

tshetlha
29 Jan 2010 15:20

@GML, great advice, That's what I did too? Communication is very important in a relationship.

myname
29 Jan 2010 15:21

Eish relationship r so COMPLICATED. Today u r HOT, 2morrow une ICE mfiiiiiiiiiimmmmmmmmm. Better having a new furniture at least it has a warranty.

Sana im useless ke mna, i will leave it 2 bloggers, maybe u will get help.

Take care nonoza!

tizoz
29 Jan 2010 15:30

The break up fever is upon me...

I submarine 4 now 

LOL!

Tholi
29 Jan 2010 15:35

Don't Dump him cos u love him. but serious gal, to save yourself from loosing so much weight. just ask him to move out so u can have the space to think. atleast u will know he's not there instead of sleepless nights wondering where he is when he's suppose to be next to u. 

also u'll be helping him to think deep about your relationship. he can't just desappear and reappear in your life like that and get away with it.

cuz-cuz
29 Jan 2010 15:40

KewlGaL - shiya lowomuntu, he has dis disease le empethe abantu baseKhumbulekhaya, hha leave now what if u marry the guy  and ahambe ..... so zisise manje, cause the kk peolpe baqala bahambe for a day , 2 days then hooo forever until KK knocks in the mkhukhu n they come home with izimpahla kuplastic yakwashoprite

Savanah Dry
29 Jan 2010 15:51

Your Guy is cheating!!!!!!!!!!! 
He is so into this new girl he doesnt care about your feelings anymore all he wants is to spend time with this new girl , we would rather dissapoint you than the new girl my guess he is telling this new girl he is unattached hence the availability anytime she wants me............ 

Okay sorry to be so harsh but i went through the same thing and thats wht dude was doing ended up telling me he had no balls to dump me so it was better if he disapeared until i chased him out........ 
I know wht you are going through when next u see him sit him down baby girl ask him to tell you the truth and spare you the hurt ... believe me its not healthy lying awake every nite and waking up, when u do get some sleep to find its 2am and the bastard is still not home ............

Squeeza
29 Jan 2010 16:00

Gal ur man is cheating on you period, dont be fooled here! Just pray he is not cheating on u with another man. That can also be a posibility and the thot of it is daunting.

Floh
29 Jan 2010 16:01

Hhayi ppl what's wrong with you today, another one to change points.............Not Ayoba.

SistaBB
29 Jan 2010 16:16

Talk with your man and understand why is he behaving in a way that he does and let him understand what you dont like...then try fixing the problem.

Ignoring problems doesnt mean that they dont exist....communicate.

Good Luck

monchooza
29 Jan 2010 16:22

he is getting a fresh one the whole weekend....

Da Diva
29 Jan 2010 16:34

Its all about Respect so lesiduphunga sinePRIDE... So dump him b4 ekbuyela nesifo.

sthini
01 Feb 2010 12:05

To be honest with u, this is soooo obvious... he is CHEATING...and i believe there is no explaination to cover this up...

leave him just like that, carry on with your life, go sleep over at a friends place without telling him, go out partying and have a jol...

once u show him that u give a sh*t, he will carry on doing it and give u one good apology, and be more descreet obout his external activities... make him miss u... dont even chase him out, just dont give him any attention or the "cookie"... be jolly when u are in the house, hum some tunes, go outside to answer phone... dont create suspicion of cheating, but of being able to live without him...even talk to him sometimes, just not about his dissapearance, cos he is waiting for you to say something about it... make as if it did not even happen.

Mina i have learnt that the more u show him how much you hurting, they tell you whatever they think u want to hear, and they feel in control.... so when he doesnt feel that control, it kinda brings him back without u having to push him to it...

its simple maths, its like smoking, you know ur partner doesnt like it and that its bad for your health, therefore u dont do it ifront of im or her because they dont like it, but then u always sneak in one cigerrete whenever u get the chance cos it was forced unto u u are not doing it for yourself....

but when you decide on your own, without being pushed, u will be successful... This guy knows he was wrong, there is no need to point it out to him... even if he is just going throught some rough times, he should at least communicate something to u, so u understand where he is at...

lonely_man
01 Feb 2010 12:42

I think u shuld just confront him abt it.Then u will decide from there...but wa hlanya this guy.u cant just dissapear and come back pretend as if things are cool . o mokgame ka g-strings till he confess

Squeeza
01 Feb 2010 13:27

o mokgame ka g-strings till he confess  LOL lonely man, I can imagine!

Squeeza
01 Feb 2010 13:27

o mokgame ka g-strings till he confess  LOL lonely man, I can imagine!

tyoksie
01 Feb 2010 14:12

Sweety I think deep down inside u know that ur man is cheating. Just know that if you confront him abt it he is gonna spin u wit sum story and bcos u wish there cud b another explanation 4 his actions u gonna start blieving. him.
U might not b ready to dump him yet, but MOVE OUT. Your man is cheating on u & uyakudelela. It won't b easy to make that decision, but jst try. Staying & crying urself 2 slp every wknd will only eat u up inside!!!

Holiday
01 Feb 2010 14:32

Monna ga botsisiwe dipotso and ga latellwe spotong... its simple...make him a sandwhich and dont talk too much.

Best-Achiever
01 Feb 2010 15:05

shame, he is playing games with you

vb4m
01 Feb 2010 15:26

Dump his ass sista!

sthini
01 Feb 2010 15:37

I think once u open your mouth before he does, u are only asking to be told lies, and convinced otherwise at an obvious sitiation like this....

after this alot of pretence, lies and hide and seek will occur... but if he opens his mouth first it means he acknowledges his mistake, therefore chances of change are higher than u pointing them out...

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