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Getting to know the first Lady...

Written by Amza from the blog It can be confusing... on 12 Jun 2009
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*Sometimes life becomes so tough that we end up wondering if it is worth

striving for. You can be so down and out that you don't feel or see any

reason to keep trying. In all that, keep looking forward and remember that

you actually have nothing to loose but potential to gain, and when you have

potential there is hope for a better tomorrow, a better situation, a better

relationship etc.*

*I have recently been enlightened by the story of Ma MaKhumalo (our first

lady), what she had to endure and go through in her life to be where she is

today. She got married to our President Zuma in 1973, was around when her

husband decided to marry the 2nd and the 3rd wife, Kate Mantsho (who

committed suicide in 2000) and Nkosazana Dlamini (they divorced in 1998).

She has stood by her husband when he again decided to marry Nompumelelo

Ntuli and Thobeka Mabhija recently. She was there and is still here. She has

been through a lot, and if you think about it most of us women of today

would have not tolerated at all but she kept her position and responsibility

of being a wife to her husband. When Zuma was away out of the country in

exile for 15 years, Ma MaKhumalo stayed with her husband despite those long

absences. We heard from the media these past few months that the new wives

were already talking about the possibilities of them being chosen for the

"Fist Lady" position, and one would have thought the same because they are

educated and modernised for the position. Little did we know that God

doesn't choose the Qualified but Qualifies the chosen!! To top all her

sorrows, she never had a child with Jacob Zuma. Yep! You had me right, NO

CHILD! And you think you have problems? Well think again. *


*This really should be talking to all you ladies who are married and

thinking you married the wrong guy and your life is such a mess. Let me tell

you something, when you make those vows you are saying to God, I accept the
role of being a wife to this man and if you stick to your promise to God
(not

to man) then God will come through for you. It might be a month, a year, 5

years or more but God will prevail at the end. When all has happened with

your husband cheating on you, having children all over the world and all the

other troubles that you are going through, you at the end will end up being

THE FIRST LADY! *
*James 1 vs 12 in the Bible states that: Blessed is the man who perseveres

under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown

of life that God has promised to those who love him.*

*What we learn from Ma MaKhumalo's journey is that marriages fail these days

because we (women) have lost the meaning of being a wife, we want the status

but don't want the reality of it. That is why our mothers could make it and

we can't, it is because they were told at home as they left that they are

going to build a home to their new surname and not to visit someone else's

home. We all know what it cost to build anything. It cost money sacrifice,

bruises, heavy duty, long hours, energy, and lots and lots of PATIENCE. So

when you are going to build a home then you should be prepared to go through

all this because if you are not you will give up with the roof of the house

not fitted and that means you will end up with no house to call a home.*

*These days we are not prepared by our mothers about these things and that

only works against us in the long run. Our marriages are based on us making

promises (our vows) to man and not to God. We have forgotten that God made

women to be the back bone of the family. Men as much as they want us to

think they are capable of living their lives without us, deep down they are

born vulnerable to certain things in life and most of what they need is a

woman beside them to complete their home. This is a role they can never play

and you are the only one given that privilege to act this role. Keep

believing in God's mercy for your troubles and never stop trying to make

things better and striving for the good. *

*If you can't fly, run. If you can't walk, crawl. But whatever you do, keep

moving...(by: Martin Luther King Jnr. - slain US human rights activist.)*



175 Comments

Amza
12 Jun 2009 10:30

were already talking about the possibilities of them being chosen for the

"Fist Lady" position, and one would have thought the same because they are

educated and modernised for the position. Little did we know that God

doesn't choose the Qualified but Qualifies the chosen!!
 



Wow, this is something else...

Best-Achiever
12 Jun 2009 10:40

Amza why dont you write your name as the author of your article?, just asking nje

MaKhumalo is way way way far better than me, i would never ever be able to do what she did

Dangerous woman
12 Jun 2009 10:49

Well u need respect the woman i know she's an old lady from rural areas maybe but she is the first wife of ur president so plz give some respect don't talkabout her like nothing maybe she worths better than ur mom

Amza
12 Jun 2009 10:50

Amza why dont you write your name as the author of your article?, just asking nje

@BA
This article was not orginally written by me , thou I would credit the Author if I knew it was, well on the other hand  I guess I can take the credit ne...

Cody
12 Jun 2009 10:53

Amza why dont you write your name as the author of your article?, just asking nje

LMAO BA!!  was asking myself the same thing because this is a beautiful peace of work!

Brown Shuga
12 Jun 2009 10:54

Wow interesting. Let me read again.

BA, how did you know Amza wrote this?

Cody
12 Jun 2009 10:55

well maKhumalo is a very forgiving woman! i echo BA's words when she says Makhumalo is way way.....

Cande
12 Jun 2009 10:59

Amza said she is not creative enough yet yesterday so i also thought she couldnt have written it. Please credit your source girl otherwise i loved reading this..What a strong woman she is

Mathaz
12 Jun 2009 11:02

she never had a child with Jacob Zuma

Is this for real???  She is amazing and she is living proof of for better or worse vow.

myname
12 Jun 2009 11:03

Wow thats all i can say, Wow!!!

I NEVER do this but im printing this 1!!! I hope you dont mind.

obinna
12 Jun 2009 11:04

real wife stand by his husband side i think Makhumalois the best if ever the young woman can learn from her the rate of divorce can go down

Best-Achiever
12 Jun 2009 11:05

BA, how did you know Amza wrote this?

LOL BS she has been doing this kalokhu and mina i always see that the article if from her blog and she is always the first one to respond to it ...


akere Amza you can credit your source at the end of the article, akere wena you are the author mo TVSA.

Amza
12 Jun 2009 11:07

Please credit your source 

@Cande..no idea who it is but I tell you I couldnt stop reading this and hence I posted it here...

It is wow...

@My name...with pleasure

Best-Achiever
12 Jun 2009 11:08

she never had a child with Jacob Zuma

Is this for real??? 

Yes it is true, she doesnt have a child, maybe that's why she allowed her husband to take the econd wife ... not knowing that it will becoming a quartely thing...lol..lol

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 11:09

U guys can be wowed all u want, but mina when I look at Makhumalo I don't see any joy, she is full of sorrow, she is just sticking by Zuma coz old peopel have this belief that "emendweni kuyabekezelwa" which is bull!!!

Kakapana
12 Jun 2009 11:09

i got this e-mail yesterday and it really made me think about what a strong woman MaKhumalo is...

Is this for real??? 
yep...

still on the Zuma's i didnt know that Gugulethu Zuma is Msholozi and Nkosazana Zuma's daughter. she acted on interrogation room and she has joined the Isidingo family..

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 11:10

Yes it is true, she doesnt have a child, maybe that's why she allowed her husband to take the econd wife ... not knowing that it will becoming a quartely thing...lol..lol
kwa kwa kwa Makhumalo is one of those wives that Zuma knows that even if he ends up having 10 wives, she'll still be around.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 11:12

still on the Zuma's i didnt know that Gugulethu Zuma is Msholozi and Nkosazana Zuma's daughter. she acted on interrogation room and she has joined the Isidingo family..
Zuma has kids all over the world dear, so please don't expect to know them all....LOL

Cody
12 Jun 2009 11:14

LMAO Nonns!!! 

Yes BA that is what i thought, shame its painfu, uThobeka is beautiful!

TheLady
12 Jun 2009 11:15

"God doesn't choose the Qualified but Qualifies the chosen!!"hmmm
I didn't care much about Zuma's wives...but I'm liking uMaKhumalo more and more...not the two groupies.

Best-Achiever
12 Jun 2009 11:16

kwa kwa kwa Makhumalo is one of those wives that Zuma knows that even if he ends up having 10 wives, she'll still be around.

very very true Nonny, phela if she can contemplate to leave everyone will suspect that she is no longer faithful.

i heard about that Gugulethu girl and she is beatiful and has a very innocent look

TheLady
12 Jun 2009 11:17

UGugulethu ufana nonina?

zozoe
12 Jun 2009 11:18

wow makhumalo i think most of us must learn from her big up mamamama

monchooza
12 Jun 2009 11:20

so there is a posibility yokuthi Msholozi took a second wife ngoba Makhumalo could not give him a child......Just thinking out loud nje

yah noh this woman is THE ROCK, iskhokho se skontiri u strong...VIVA Makhumalo Viva.....mara mina i dont like her being this modernised(weave and manicure) i want her to be natural....wear doeks like she always did

cleve
12 Jun 2009 11:20

U guys can be wowed all u want, but mina when I look at Makhumalo I don't see any joy, she is full of sorrow, she is just sticking by Zuma coz old peopel have this belief that "emendweni kuyabekezelwa" which is bull!!!

Nonn
y I feel the same, sorrow and pain is all I see as much as I respect her. I mean why would the other wife commit suicide.

When I got this e-mail I just thought it was bull a marraige is not about one person but the two of you and BOTH of you need to be happy. (man or woman)

Amza you are serious with these FW e-mails ne??

Kakapana
12 Jun 2009 11:21

Zuma has kids all over the world dear, so please don't expect to know them all....LOL

zihlalaphi ezinye nonny??

UGugulethu ufana nonina? 

ja bayafana TheLady


Amza
12 Jun 2009 11:23

Amza you are serious with these FW e-mails ne??

@Cleve
I am

Kakapana
12 Jun 2009 11:24

Amza you are serious with these FW e-mails ne??

HA HE HI HO HU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

maddie
12 Jun 2009 11:25

this is why women will never be fully liberated, because they always accept things even though  they are not happy for the sake of the husband/marriage am not saying it's  the case with Ma Khumalo.

why did the other wife commit suicide?

please stop using the word of God when it comes to things like these.





dali
12 Jun 2009 11:26

heh guys staying in a village is not on sumtyms, i neva get any of this emails

i always get the frends forever emails, pls next tym u receive an email lyk this do email to me as well

dalisto@gmail.com

Best-Achiever
12 Jun 2009 11:29

President Zuma who stood by Makhulo even though he has no children with her because some men would have dumped her long ago

How did JZ stood by MaKhumalo when he has a handfl number of wives? kanti what does standing by someone means? i'd think if he real stood by her, he wont be having a wife or a child.

dali
12 Jun 2009 11:29

maddie
12 Jun 2009 11:31

President Zuma who stood by Makhulo even though he has no children with her because some men would have dumped her long ago

comments like these really makes me worried sometimes . WTF

Cande
12 Jun 2009 11:33

but Amza, no offence maara you shouldnt rely on copying people's work and writing it here all the time. That might give the site a bad name... Am just saying nhe, no offence

TerryN
12 Jun 2009 11:33

UGugulethu ufana nonina

LOL
How come i dont know her...
So is uMaKumalo the one who's the First Lady?
and the other two mistressess? i mean wives
Eish! Im caught between uMantuli and Mabhija...i like them both.

sponono
12 Jun 2009 11:35

do 'all remembr  when she was attacked by some gun-wielding panga waving thugs who nearly raped her before JZ decided to tighten up his inkandla and then it was called a homestead, but when they showed the house on tv, it looked like one of those homes you often see in Khumbulekhaya..so yeah Mr Zuma had neglected this woman s she's been thru a lot..and apparently during the voting, some IFP memebrs came to her and violently snatched her ballots saying she wont vote for her husby....

she the new Winnie Mandela..from  the country side

Kakapana
12 Jun 2009 11:36

Who is Dudu's mother kanti....anyone who care to answer plz do.

@ cheesa her mother is Kate,  she committed suicide in 2001/2

Amza
12 Jun 2009 11:36

Am just saying nhe, no offence

@Cande...
None taken

TerryN
12 Jun 2009 11:38

sponono...where did u hear that story...

she the new Winnie Mandela..from the country side

LOL

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 11:39

Amza you are serious with these FW e-mails ne??

LMAO.......Plagiarism at its worst....it's a trend apha kwa TVSA....

People take time and write your own articles(not somebody elses). People baya posta nje for the sake yokuthi ndine article. 

I wonder what would happen if two people post two articles ezifanayo ngaxesha linye.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 11:42

Nonny I feel the same, sorrow and pain is all I see as much as I respect her. I mean why would the other wife commit suicide.
When I got this e-mail I just thought it was bull a marraige is not about one person but the two of you and BOTH of you need to be happy. (man or woman)

Amen Fluffy, uZuma never gets satisfied, no matter how many woman are around him, he still wants more, I can almost bet my life, that by the end of this year, there'll be another proposal or engagement.

BIG UPs to our President Zuma who stood by Makhulo even though he has no children with her because some men would have dumped her long ago
Oh what a good man, he if, since first wife can't have kids, let me have choice assorted children and lots of wives.

Dangerous woman
12 Jun 2009 11:46

Gugulethu Zuma is Msholozi and Nkosazana Zuma's daughter. ....Unamanga Nonny

sponono
12 Jun 2009 11:46

Tazzy..the attack happened when Zuma was still Deputy president and it was onTV...as for the voting story  i read it on the newspapers.--you can google it..

Freemale
12 Jun 2009 11:46

I wonder what would happen if two people post two articles ezifanayo ngaxesha linye.

LMAO

Mathaz
12 Jun 2009 11:48

let me have choice assorted children and lots of wives. Kwa Kwa Kwa.   That's why most people are so drawn to him coz he is unapologetic about his traditional beliefs and the love for women.

So MaKhumalo is the one who was almost raped???Shame

Best-Achiever
12 Jun 2009 11:49


How did JZ stood by MaKhumalo when he has a handfl number of wives? kanti what does standing by someone means? i'd think if he real stood by her, he wont be having a wife or a child.

Cheesa pls educate no

maud
12 Jun 2009 11:50

hi
i think i have to agree with you there, DWif i am not mistaken she is the second born ka Madlamini, Nkhosazana Zuma

Plastic
12 Jun 2009 11:51

How did JZ stood by MaKhumalo when he has a handfl number of wives? kanti what does standing by someone means? i'd think if he real stood by her, he wont be having a wife or a child -  i have to agree 100%

Zuma is very clever....he's using this so as to gain  SA'ns respect after all he's been through..
i remember when this lady was almost raped and I was like...no  no  no!!!that cant be JZ's home that I just saw (let's just say the state of the house was not  what u would expect an MP's house to be in)

ANYWHO,  who am I to say whatever??!!! 

myname
12 Jun 2009 11:52

let me have choice assorted children and lots of wives.

Uthi unezi smatties LOL Nonny!

maud
12 Jun 2009 11:53

ment DW- yes she is Nkosazana Zuma,s second born.

i did not recognise her in the interoragation room, i thought maybe its Nepotism

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 11:54

Gugulethu Zuma is Msholozi and Nkosazana Zuma's daughter. ....Unamanga Nonny
Wemfazi ongangisabisi, get ur eyes tested, I didn't say that!

Zah000
12 Jun 2009 11:54

MaKhumalo looks too submissive *yebo baba / cha baba / kulungile makusho wena baba*

BIG UPs to our President Zuma who stood by Makhulo even though he has no children with her because some men would have dumped her long ago. <<<
I don't get it????

Zah000
12 Jun 2009 11:55

LMAO Nonny!!! 

How're you gal??

myname
12 Jun 2009 11:56

that cant be JZ's home that I just saw (let's just say the state of the house was not what u would expect an MP's house to be in

You would b surprised sana mna i giveup with these top people. Most of them they dont care about their homes as long bahlala kwi top what what here.

Makafe umntu ubona amanyala.

Dangerous woman
12 Jun 2009 11:56

Wemfazi ongangisabisi......I ddn't expect dat coming from u Nonny

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 12:00

Wethu uMakhumalo wazikhethela ukuthi ahlale emendweni ebona bephokoka bengena abanye abafazi emva kwakhe. 

U JZ yena uhlabinduku qha....that's why enabafazi abaninzi nakangaka.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 12:00

Wemfazi ongangisabisi......I ddn't expect dat coming from u Nonny
Well atleast that has taught u never put anyone on a pedestal, ukuthi wazikhipha kumina a long time ago, coz u are always looking for attention.

Freemale
12 Jun 2009 12:01

Thats tru DW..she is the daughter ka Madlamini

HARAMBE24
12 Jun 2009 12:01

This is a great article and it does have a heart ....BUT, i mean A BIG BUT.....our mothers were told that lebitla la mosadi, ke bogadi.....that means you do not leave your marriage...BUT also our fathers were also taught how to treat their wives even when they are cheating...

these, women are not marrying men in the calibre of our fathers..they are marrying babies(this men that refuse to grow)....so its sad coz a woman can not hold on when she is staying with  a baby, that is supposed to be her man...

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 12:05

U JZ yena uhlabinduku qha....that's why enabafazi abaninzi nakangaka.
LOL nami that's what i think Sobza, for sho unembiza yakhe emusebenzela kahle.

Cody
12 Jun 2009 12:06

U JZ yena uhlabinduku qha....that's why enabafazi abaninzi nakangaka.

LMAO Sobza!

Wemfazi ongangisabisi......I ddn't expect dat coming from u Nonny
Well atleast that has taught u never put anyone on a pedestal, ukuthi wazikhipha kumina a long time ago, coz u are always looking for attention.

LMAO Nonny

Cody
12 Jun 2009 12:09

he loves her no matter what and she respects her

What????

Cody
12 Jun 2009 12:12

Cheesa my love, a man that respects you does not opt for option B when you have a medical problem, and a man that loves you does not neglect your feelings by causing you pain. i am sure it is not nice to be in Makhumalo's shoes

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 12:12

i heard about that Gugulethu girl and she is beatiful and has a very innocent look

UGugulethu ufana nonina 

UNkosazana Dlamini - Zuma???? I beg do differ

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 12:14

And now she is the First Lady which means to me he loves her no matter what and she respects her. 
Zuma is just playing his cards right, so that people like Cheesa can have soft spot for him and inturn he gains more fans, kodwa grand grand udlala ngomaKhumalo and he doesn't even spend that much time with her (at home, I am not talking abt publicity at events). And futhi uyabona uZuma still has energy to do the dunusa and shem uMakhumalo usekhathele.

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 12:18

And futhi uyabona uZuma still has energy to do the dunusa and shem uMakhumalo usekhathele

Iyhoooo ha ha ha ha........Nonny yintoni ukundicubhula kangaka sihlobo? Ukhathele nyhani ugogo....bekusekufanele ukuthi udla ipenshini ngoku bakhe bayeke ukumehlisa bemenyusa.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 12:18

Cheesa my love, a man that respects you does not opt for option B when you have a medical problem, and a man that loves you does not neglect your feelings by causing you pain. i am sure it is not nice to be in Makhumalo's shoes
As I said Cody, she is full of sorrow, she is not happy and she is te type of wife tht can kill herelf just like the other wife, one day guys I tell u, she won't be able to take all of this anymore, I just hope somone approaches her for a biography, coz I would really like to know the real story behind the "supportive first wife" image she potrays.

Cody
12 Jun 2009 12:19

And futhi uyabona uZuma still has energy to do the dunusa and shem uMakhumalo usekhathele.

LMAO Nonny! that dunusa dance he does when he sings Mshini wam' cracks me up big time! he still have so much energy. he doesnt even need umvusankunzi

monchooza
12 Jun 2009 12:19

<<Wemfazi ongangisabisi, get ur eyes tested, I didn't say that!>>
thatha nonny...lol

<<<U JZ yena uhlabinduku qha....that's why enabafazi abaninzi nakangaka.
>>
Sobza....tsho!!lol

myname
12 Jun 2009 12:22

And futhi uyabona uZuma still has energy to do the dunusa and shem uMakhumalo usekhathele.

I wonder wathathwaphi? LOL

maud
12 Jun 2009 12:25

hayi nami ngiyavuma Umsholzi uloliwe straight.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 12:27

Ukhathele nyhani ugogo....bekusekufanele ukuthi udla ipenshini ngoku bakhe bayeke ukumehlisa bemenyusa
LOL, even at the inauguration, u could see she was kak tired with all that working up and down and smiling and waving to the nation and plus too she used to walking bear foot eNkandla. Hayi shem uZuma unsebindi esinamathambo to do this to the poor lady.

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 12:29

he doesnt even need umvusankunzi

Oh my Godness Cody.......kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 12:31

he doesnt even need umvusankunzi
Cody, he probablly uses it as an extra nje, just so it says to woman: "la uzohamba uphinde ubuye"

Zah000
12 Jun 2009 12:31

And futhi uyabona uZuma still has energy to do the dunusa and shem uMakhumalo usekhathele.<<<
U JZ yena uhlabinduku qha....

 Kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa

teev
12 Jun 2009 12:32

yo yo yo Nonny......lol. "Isibindi esinamathambo", uyandigqiba..tl tl tl.

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 12:34

Ingathi ngiyambona uma efika eNkandla....and all the wives are there.

JZ: Makhumalo ngizoqala ngawe ke namuhla.
Makhumalo: *smiling* "Msholozi"

JZ: Mantuli...kusasa ke nguwe
Mantuli: Oh Praise God....sesiyobonana khona ke daddy.

Cande
12 Jun 2009 12:37

Harambe setswana se se kanakana o se tsaya kae?

Ms. Jay
12 Jun 2009 12:38

And now she is the First Lady which means to me he loves her no matter what and she respects her.
Zuma is just playing his cards right, so that people like Cheesa can have soft spot for him and inturn he gains more fans, kodwa grand grand udlala ngomaKhumalo and he doesn't even spend that much time with her (at home, I am not talking abt publicity at events). And futhi uyabona uZuma still has energy to do the dunusa and shem uMakhumalo usekhathele.

hahahahahahahhaa.........kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa....hehehhehehehehehehehe -

Zah000
12 Jun 2009 12:38

CTFU Sobza!!!! The imagery's killing me!!! Wonakele

myname
12 Jun 2009 12:44

LOL Sobza, Nonny & Cody niwrongo yhazi tl tl tl

Heartsbreaker
12 Jun 2009 12:45

But guys between Pres Zuma and Makhumalo who's older than the other?.........the way i see it, Makhums looks way tooo old to be Zuma's mother, i'm just curious that's all......as much as i respect her  i don't think being the First Lady will suit her.......hayikhona, it will be just too much for yena.

odie
12 Jun 2009 12:47

i also see sadness and sorrow on the first lady face. 
what i can say is that what happens between two people is known to them. 
- what we have to ask ourselves is -WHY DID THE SECOND LADY COMMIT SUICIDE????????????

I am reading Autobiography of the Nigerians first lady to Obasanjo. she is acknowledging and grateful to have been married to him BUT the pain and sorrow that he made her go through has badly affected her. 
she is grateful for the folowing 
- she was able to complete her studies overseas 
- she had a house, her children went to the best schools
- if she had not met him, she wont have achieved wht she has
PAIN
- when Obasanjo's best friend passed away she took in the the widow to help her heal and for security with the children and now Obasanjo is married to the lady. 

comparing her to our First lady - Zuma was not there to protect her. she was nearly raped (this is sad, i am in tears because of that. i would understand if Zuma was on exile BUT thats was when he was the vice president?????? Zuma should have moved her to a safer place and tighten the security. 

i have never accepted polygamy and will never even if i am barren. I WILL NEVER.

Best-Achiever
12 Jun 2009 12:47

yhu hhayi Cheesa, your 'African' man has a strange way of standing by a person, i dont see anything thoughtful eyenziwa uJZ kuMaKhumalo

Best-Achiever
12 Jun 2009 12:50

But guys between Pres Zuma and Makhumalo who's older than the other?.........

dont you know that ukuhlupheka kuyagugisana (translate please)

monchooza
12 Jun 2009 12:50

sobza no Nonny...niyangvula straight away

Heartsbreaker
12 Jun 2009 12:53

KWA KWA KWA KWA KWA KWA KWA, @NONNY and SOBZA...........you made my day.

Cande
12 Jun 2009 12:55

hayi cha UMsholozi should have built a secured house for Makhumalo..even if its in Nkandla maan

cleve
12 Jun 2009 12:55

As much as I disagree with the whole scenario, it is african culture to have more than one wife and kids everywhere with your different wives; but I respect those who do it. But as long as everyone involved is hapy, then I am happy.

Tynt!
12 Jun 2009 12:56

I had to share this : Makhumalo's interview copied from IOL

Referring to polygamy, she said: "It's not hard", and, after a brief pause, "it's a Zulu custom and if there's respect between the husband and the wives and among the wives themselves, and if he's able to treat us equally, then it's not hard". 


"He proposed to me, but I made him wait for three years, because there were others who were after me. I took my time because I did not want to choose the wrong one. So, after three years, I told him he was the one."

What drew her to Zuma?

"I was taken by his looks. He was easy on the eyes. I loved him."

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 12:57

this is sad, i am in tears because of that.

Very odd - Odie....ungabisagixa ke noko sisi.....wasinda uMakhumalo.

Tynt!
12 Jun 2009 12:57

Guys IOL says:

From the outside, Zuma's homestead of neatly kept rondavels, reportedly worth R1.5 million, stands in stark contrast to the village's rural setting.

MaKhumalo's lounge completes a picture of sheer modernity in the dusty village - it has a leather lounge suite, a satellite television decoder, and a state-of-the-art home theatre system complete with a giant plasma television set.

cleve
12 Jun 2009 12:58

Makhumalo is older than Zuma though.............

Tynt!
12 Jun 2009 13:00

Makhumalo is older than Zuma though.............

Yes a year older.

odie
12 Jun 2009 13:03

Nonny - le nna i would line up to buy her - the real story behind my marriage to Zuma. you are on another tune vandag my sistere. 

we undertstand that presidents are normal peoples like us but because they are public figures they have to act and behave in a proper manner. 

there is one african president who the wife was told not to divorce because of  the shame and embarrassment that she will bring to the country. the lady was fed up but after the president had served his terms the lady divorced.

Cande
12 Jun 2009 13:04

Haie nna i dont think i can be able to live this type of life. Being married to one men? niphinde ne zwane kakuhle?? haiye ngeke

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 13:06

"I was taken by his looks. He was easy on the eyes. I loved him." 
kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa now I have a different image of Makhumalo, but ke I am sure for her age group and back in 19voetsek uZuma was a charmer.

Tynt!
12 Jun 2009 13:12

back in 19voetsek uZuma was a charmer

Then  it makes me wonder how makhumalo was!!!

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 13:13

there is one african president who the wife was told not to divorce because of the shame and embarrassment that she will bring to the country. the lady was fed up but after the president had served his terms the lady divorced.
That could be the other reason she is staying, she doesn't want to embarrass Zuma.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 13:17

back in 19voetsek uZuma was a charmer
Then it makes me wonder how makhumalo was!!!

She was uthathekile, if she was the type to go for men for their looks, or better still she was just like the groupies that are the second and third wives, 10 years from now we'll be feeling sorry for Mantuli when she is f**cked up and ama hips eselenge and Zuma marries a 21 year old. Yeah that's life.

maud
12 Jun 2009 13:23

hey Cande, the way ngisisabangakhona isithembu, i dont think i will survive for even one day,  angazihambela umuntu uma efuna ukuhamba isithembu sona big no no .

ms.tebby
12 Jun 2009 13:24

kwa kwa kwaaaa Nonny bathong! ...and back in 19voetsek ...

odie
12 Jun 2009 13:25

Sobza - whats ODD?

Three years waiting for a yes? or was it three years of no mdavaso? my bad my bad

mstick
12 Jun 2009 13:35

this very interesting back to reading

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 13:36

Three years waiting for a yes? or was it three years of no mdavaso? my bad my bad
Three yes for a yes, hahahhahaahah unlike today! Eish but I like that keep the man waiting culture that people had back in the days.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 13:38

In 2009, the only person I know that is keeping herself for marriage is BA, and I only know this coz my granny did her virginity testing.....LOL

Ngqesta
12 Jun 2009 13:39

Hayi nam guys I still wanna know what was written on Kate (mom to Duduzile)'s suicide note.

i heard about that Gugulethu girl and she is beatiful and has a very innocent look .................hayi I 'do not sure' about this one...if she is pretty then Lady Naturale from GI deserves to be crowned Miss SA coz they look alike to me.

maddie
12 Jun 2009 13:40

Cody, he probablly uses it as an extra nje, just so it says to woman: "la uzohamba uphinde ubuye"
@Nonny

do Zulu guys do that Nonny, plse enlighten me am worried about something nje

odie
12 Jun 2009 13:40

Nonny - we davase on the first date. there is no agreement - its just lets see where it takes us. i know a girl who did that to some guy- they are getting married next year. i should try it

Vesa
12 Jun 2009 13:42

"I was taken by his looks. He was easy on the eyes. I loved him."
kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa now I have a different image of Makhumalo, but ke I am sure for her age group and back in 19voetsek uZuma was a charmer. 

Nonny......u killing me!

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 13:50

do Zulu guys do that Nonny, plse enlighten me am worried about something nje
Maddie I will be honest, not all Zulu men use imbiza, but some do. Coz u know Zulu men have this thing abt pleasing ur women (especially sexually). Otherwise I'd say u have nothing to worry abt.

Cody
12 Jun 2009 13:51

do Zulu guys do that Nonny, plse enlighten me am worried about something nje

why are u asking maddie? cant you get enough of your zulu guy? and yes they do that.........halala bakutholile Maddie :-) tl tl tl tl

maddie
12 Jun 2009 13:52

what does imbiza do Nonny?

mstick
12 Jun 2009 13:54

The word of God, the bible, gives very definite guidelines for marieage and for the raising of the family. 
Any marriage and family can only be succesfull if we closely adhere to the standars set by the bible. These standars are definitely not those guidelines potrayed on television. in magazines, films or by society in general. It is because ppl are inclined to fashion their lives and marriage to the world values and principles, that so many divorces take place every year and so many homes and hearts are broken

One and Only
12 Jun 2009 13:57

Off-topic: Cande I'm running late but do have your double stand tickets for Sunday. I will follow the previous procedure if I can manage to get to Midrand before 4 today.

If not we gonna have to make arrangements to meet tomorrow or on Sunday. 

Sorry for disrespecting you Mr Moderator but you can now go ahead and de-register me as promised or you can just tell me how to unregister myself.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 13:58

why are u asking maddie? cant you get enough of your zulu guy? and yes they do that.........halala bakutholile Maddie :-) tl tl tl tl
LOL Cody, stop it, u're gonna frighten Maddie and she probablly has a good thing going with her Zulu man. 

what does imbiza do Nonny?
There are different types of imbiza, the one u are enquiring about can make a man last longer (in bed) and perorm better. You have to drink it every morning before you have had anything to eat and if u are highly sexually active u can drink it twice a day, but not more coz it's strong. Ok Maddie, I am getting curious now, did u find one hidden in ur mans room. Well if it was written "Kuze Kuse"............oooooooooohhhhhhh gal siyakubongela.....LOL

Best-Achiever
12 Jun 2009 14:00

In 2009, the only person I know that is keeping herself for marriage is BA, and I only know this coz my granny did her virginity testing.....LOL

eish i knew you'd expose me someday...bakithi kodwa waba njani, i'll tell ugogo

JadaPinkett
12 Jun 2009 14:01

 Hi everybody.................m still reading the article

monchooza
12 Jun 2009 14:01

now i wish we had pictures...
ende stop with these zulu questions...this article is about the woman who waited 3 years to yes to a man who eventually married many more woman after her ukumlayela nje ukuthi naye wamlindisa iskhathi eside

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 14:02

what does imbiza do Nonny?

Iyakhulisa Maddie

Cody
12 Jun 2009 14:02

Well if it was written "Kuze Kuse"............oooooooooohhhhhhh gal siyakubongela.....LOL

OMW Nonny!!!! ROTFLMAOTIPAL!!!!!

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 14:05

Kuze Kuse"............oooooooooohhhhhhh gal siyakubongela.....

LMAOROTF Nonny....hayi maan

maddie
12 Jun 2009 14:07

why r u guys assuming that i'm sleeping with a Zulu guy, mina i just wanted to be informed thats all,  

okay okay who am i trying to kid here there's a guy I know oops shag, he's got persistance yhoo he goes on and on, he would come and while he's still inside of you ento yakhe e vele e vuke futhi, and then he would cum again, and while still inside e vuke futhi, i was wondering ukhuthi istrength e singanga usithola phi,as u can c am even typing in Zulu 

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 14:09

ende stop with these zulu questions...this article is about the woman who waited 3 years to yes to a man who eventually married many more woman after her ukumlayela nje ukuthi naye wamlindisa iskhathi eside
kwa kwa kwa kwa guys have I told how good it is to be back at TVSA, phela u guys make my day...........LMAO!!!!

Brown Shuga
12 Jun 2009 14:11

<<<<Sorry for disrespecting you Mr Moderator but you can now go ahead and de-register me as promised or you can just tell me how to unregister myself.>>>>

*confused*

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 14:12

okay okay who am i trying to kid here there's a guy I know oops shag, he's got persistance yhoo he goes on and on, he would come and while he's still inside of you ento yakhe e vele e vuke futhi, and then he would cum again, and while still inside e vuke futhi, i was wondering ukhuthi istrength e singanga usithola phi,as u can c am even typing in Zulu 
Gal, just stop stressing, it's probablly natural. But ke if u're still worried, u can give me his no.'s and I'll confirm ur suspicions for u *wink wink*

mstick
12 Jun 2009 14:13

Off-topic: Cande I'm running late but do have your double stand tickets for Sunday. I will follow the previous procedure if I can manage to get to Midrand before 4 today.

If not we gonna have to make arrangements to meet tomorrow or on Sunday.

Sorry for disrespecting you Mr Moderator but you can now go ahead and de-register me as promised or you can just tell me how to unregister myself.

say what?????

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 14:13

enough Maddie....some of us are still at work....lol

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 14:31

Sorry for disrespecting you Mr Moderator but you can now go ahead and de-register me as promised or you can just tell me how to unregister myself.
No One and Only, we don't want u to deregister, we love ur unique personality, who is this moderator that treatened to deregister u, what did u do coz we are all entitled to different opinions?

TheLady
12 Jun 2009 14:32

Awu 1&O what happened to the other 6 tickets?

Amza
12 Jun 2009 14:37

Really now One & Only we love you we really do..you cant go.

monchooza
12 Jun 2009 14:38

if i'll go to hell for saying this anginandaba..........i so wish to see U JZ no Makhumalo davazing.....since JZ still has the energy  and love for the game ende u Makhumalo shem usezigugele...mara okusalayo bayadavaza, who knows maybe a davazing tape will be leaked to the media....kusemhlabeni la anything can happen

Molilo
12 Jun 2009 14:43

Hu wi hee, lentlhotse straight, ha le hlomphe moriri o moputswa

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 14:49

i so wish to see U JZ no Makhumalo davazing

Well, I don't Monch.....JZ nguye one energy..... uMakhumalo uzoba yi robot.

Mafresh
12 Jun 2009 14:51

Mohlomphehi Moderator,

One & Only makes me think outa the factory that created that box, thus cannot afford to loose him/her. Whatever happen between you, pleeeeeeeze forgive shim.

Ka boikokobetso, dumedisa bohle lapeng.
Freshie

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 14:51

mara okusalayo bayadavaza
LOL how do u know Monchy, mina I don't think that stuff happens anymore. I think this is how it goes.

JZ: Coressing Makhumalo and trying his luck: "Ake ngizwe isalukwazi sami sinjani, kade ngakugcina"

MaKhumalo: "Babu'Msholozi, ngikhathele kade ngilima ngisensimini imini yonke. Baba beka isandla nje kuphela ngoba vele bakhona abanye abazokwenelisa."

JZ: Eish ukuba ngiphethe uMaNtuli ngabe usephezu kwami manje!!!!!!!!!!!

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 14:54

One & Only makes me think outa the factory that created that box
Mafresh I like this, can I steal this line? But seriously, what will TVSA be without One & Only. Eish guys which reminds me, don't ur'll miss Mathata?

Cody
12 Jun 2009 14:56

haibo!

belz
12 Jun 2009 15:01

142 replies, im too lazy to catch up, hey Nonny.

Nanana
12 Jun 2009 15:03

Beautiful articles like this come rarely in TVSA,I commend your insight

odie
12 Jun 2009 15:05

Nonny please translate the conversation between JZ and Makhumalo. 
Please

maud
12 Jun 2009 15:10

manchooza- hayi ungadlali ngomakhumalo, wayigcina before bathatha u wife number two, that all the reason she is so old, loololo makes you young my friend,talking from experience.

Mafresh
12 Jun 2009 15:10

....makes me think outa the factory that created that box
Mafresh I like this....

Sure Nonz, but i'll come running for my interllectual property rights once u cash on this

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 15:16

Hey Belz, I'm fine sisi. Please read the replies coz the blogs are very entertaining.

Cande
12 Jun 2009 15:22

YIPEEE 1&O you are the best...hahahhha

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 15:25

Beautiful articles like this come rarely in TVSA,I commend your insight

What insight? Ikapiwe le article wena....kodwa ke angicomplaini ngoba it brought a smile to my face.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 15:26

Nonny please translate the conversation between JZ and Makhumalo.
Please

@ Odie - Anything for u my love, but ke u must know, it will loose the sense of humour abit in Engels....LOL

JZ: Coressing Makhumalo and trying his luck: "Ake ngizwe isalukwazi sami sinjani, kade ngakugcina" (Carressing MaKhumalo: "Let me me get some from my old lad, I haven't been with u in a long time)

MaKhumalo: "Babu'Msholozi, ngikhathele kade ngilima ngisensimini imini yonke. Baba beka isandla nje kuphela ngoba vele bakhona abanye abazokwenelisa." (Baba Msholozi, I am so tired, I have been in the garden the whole day. Just rest your hand cause there are others that will satisfy you)

JZ: Eish ukuba ngiphethe uMaNtuli ngabe usephezu kwami manje!!!!!!!!!!! (Eish, if I was with MaNtuli she would be............eish sana this is our president manje and the rest of the sentence sounds too nasty in English. But ke u get my drift hey Odie?

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 15:27

Beautiful articles like this come rarely in TVSA,I commend your insight
What insight? Ikapiwe le article wena....kodwa ke angicomplaini ngoba it brought a smile to my face.

hahahaha I wanted to say the same thing, this is a copy paste article.

Cody
12 Jun 2009 15:32

What insight? Ikapiwe le article wena

kwa kwa kwa Huu hai, i cant laugh now, my jawz are so painful!

One and Only
12 Jun 2009 15:40

Cande I'm dropping your tickets within the next 15 minutes, all others please send me your drop off points not home/work addresses and I'll deliver.

Nanana
12 Jun 2009 15:40

Beautiful articles like this come rarely in TVSA,I commend your insight

What insight? Ikapiwe le article wena....kodwa ke angicomplaini ngoba it brought a smile to my face.

LET SLEEPING DOGS LIE IN ETERNAL DOOMED BLISS

Molilo
12 Jun 2009 15:46

Even Bloem One and Only?

Cande
12 Jun 2009 15:46

1&O please drop Awelani's tickets as well, i am meeting her tomorrow and i will give them to her

Cody
12 Jun 2009 15:47

Just got an email with picture of what was happening in eNkandla i must say all the wives look so buddy buddy

maud
12 Jun 2009 15:48

One and Only - amatickets ani lawo? why i dont know about them? i am smelling Daves,s Nepotism la

maud
12 Jun 2009 15:50

@Cody - you just receive the pictures today? mmmm my friend i must do something about this , these pictures have been rotating from monday.
hayi hayi this is sooo wrong.

myname
12 Jun 2009 15:50

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa hehehehehe. Sobza & Nonny, u r on FIRE guys!!!!!!!

Senidele nekumnkani welizwe manje! Andisakhulumi ke ngenzwakazi yelizwe uMadam, uKhumza.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 15:51

Cody, u have my address, therefore plz forward me that email.

Cody
12 Jun 2009 15:52

LOL!!!! yebo Maud just got the pics today, eish joe, do something!

Cody
12 Jun 2009 15:55

just sent them Nonns! check your inbox!

maud
12 Jun 2009 15:57

@cody- from today everything that i receive from my resources, i mean my people from big places, i will forward them to my other friends that i have here in tvsa  and ask them to forward to you to make sure that you are the first to view, seeing that i cant post pictures.  and i dont intend to learn

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 15:58

Thanks Cody. Let me hop along to see them.

odie
12 Jun 2009 15:59

Nonny my dear you naughty, i need to update my tvsa status. Thanx dear. its hectic this side.

belz
12 Jun 2009 16:07

LMAO!!!!!!! Wena Nonny noSobza kanene. animhloniphi umphathi wezwe nina, ndimthanda ukufa uPres wam to talk about him like this. 

CTFU!!! @ kuze kuse, bazokugcwalisela amazulu maddie!!

One and Only
12 Jun 2009 16:09

Confed Cup matches tickets!

Molilo I will get the tickets for you for the Bloem matches.

Molilo
12 Jun 2009 16:15

Thank you ONE and ONLY u r a star

maud
12 Jun 2009 16:17

ohh usindile  one and only ,i am not a soccer fan

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 16:22

CTFU!!! @ kuze kuse, bazokugcwalisela amazulu maddie!!
LOL Belzito, we're just having fun, JZ knows we've got no beef with hime coz eversince been President, the price of baby oil has ridiculously gone down to 50c, and I'm talking abt abo Johnsons no Elizabeth Annes..........LOL

myname
12 Jun 2009 16:27

Yithi uyadlala Nonza LOL,

Maybe sisikhathi sokuba ndiphinde ndizale. Maybe everything from Jonhson will decrease, I gotcha luv u JZ.

Im joking bakithi!

odie
12 Jun 2009 16:35

Dear Nonny, 

Thank you dear for making my day. 

Have a lovely weekend. 

Cha chao. 

Sobza
12 Jun 2009 16:35

JZ knows we've got no beef with hime coz eversince been President, the price of baby oil has ridiculously gone down to 50c, and I'm talking abt abo Johnsons no Elizabeth Annes..........LOL

Ha ha ha ha....and I heard there's a new firm(new government initiative) that is manufacturing showers....phela da showers have been selling like hot cakes at Cashbuild, Built It

myname
12 Jun 2009 16:43

have a great weekend! (In Nothemba Nondumo's voice)

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 16:49

Ha ha ha ha....and I heard there's a new firm(new government initiative) that is manufacturing showers....phela da showers have been selling like hot cakes at Cashbuild, Built It
kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa and the price of Condoms has increased incredibly, even i-choice imbala u have to pay a fortune for them (abt R1000 per CD), manje people bashaya iskoon and then showering afterwards.

Thank you dear for making my day. 
It's been a pleasure my dear.

Nonny
12 Jun 2009 16:50

Cheers guys, nami I gotta bounce, if I don't return on Wednesday, ur'll must know Malema eliminated me.

lejazz
17 Jun 2009 14:57

Oh shame,,,Makhumalo is childless....but it shows Zuma loves her despite that


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