Written by Dimago from the blog Some food for thought on 23 Feb 2009 Favourite this post
Best-Achiever 23 Feb 2009 10:12
Ms. Jay 23 Feb 2009 10:29
Sana Lwam 23 Feb 2009 10:37
Give him his money back. 3 months qha???
Lex 23 Feb 2009 10:38
ms.tebby 23 Feb 2009 10:46
putsununuh 23 Feb 2009 10:46
hey people! ok mina i think we are confusing ourselves with this lobola issue coz we all know that the reason of paying lobola is to create ubuhlobo among the families, so u pay lobola because uyamthanda umuntu wakho and u like thanking her parents for bringing her up abe muhle uze umbone if seningasazwani musani ukufaka abazali ezinkingeni, ukuthi thina we think by paying lobola u buying umuntu wakho or usuyam owner no it shudnt be like that hau
ngwana 23 Feb 2009 10:50
Jez 23 Feb 2009 11:03
Strolicious 23 Feb 2009 11:09
amalobola awabuyeli emuva,1 of my aunt sebamulobole 4 times,and uhlezi ebuya and abayitholi imali yabo back...she is like a smallanyana business to the family...
maud 23 Feb 2009 11:09
Cande 23 Feb 2009 11:10
Lex 23 Feb 2009 11:16
cleve 23 Feb 2009 11:30
maud 23 Feb 2009 11:33
Dimago 23 Feb 2009 11:40
GML 23 Feb 2009 12:04
Tynt! 23 Feb 2009 12:11
ms.tebby 23 Feb 2009 12:12
LOL...Stro...
sisan 23 Feb 2009 12:15
In my opinion, i think that the girl is a crook and maybe her family too, she nkew from the bigining that she was'nt into the guy and stil accepted his proposal so that she can just have the money and then dump the guy. So i think that the money should be returned, since the goods that was paid for is now reposesed, if the girl's family is of a christian family they are honest then they will do the right think to go and apologies to the guys family and give back the lobola money and it should be extra but they must also hold a meeting to look at the actual reason why the girl diceded to just call it quits, then only they can make a decision and that decision must be fair to both families concerned.
KeleFabulous 23 Feb 2009 12:24
Strolicious 23 Feb 2009 12:24
ppl wld do anything for chelete,nami im also thinking uku joiner my aunt,imali esheshayo....off topic guys did u see uNimrod on amazing dates...
JadaPinkett 23 Feb 2009 12:36
KeleFabulous 23 Feb 2009 12:36
sorry Dimags but can someone pls tell me if Jordan is still alive?
blueroze 23 Feb 2009 12:44
Toxic 23 Feb 2009 12:47
I think i know who this 'friend' is and therefore the moeny should be returned cause the girl breached the contract.
TheLady 23 Feb 2009 12:48
Best-Achiever 23 Feb 2009 12:54
Best-Achiever 23 Feb 2009 12:56
One and Only 23 Feb 2009 13:01
blueroze 23 Feb 2009 13:02
we are not too cultural at home. i dont think my parents will mind doing the negotiations for me.plus there are those family members who are on a mission to destroy others, so if they get to be part of negotiations they make everything tough and the future in laws end up fed up.
Sana Lwam 23 Feb 2009 13:03
Hi 1&Only?
Dimago 23 Feb 2009 13:15
Toxic 23 Feb 2009 13:15
Segololo 23 Feb 2009 13:19
KeleFabulous 23 Feb 2009 13:19
One and Only? please wirite an autobiography...or just a lil sum'in sum'in nyana telling along the lines of...A DAY IN THE MIND OF...you guessed it! One and Only? i'm curious thu bhut'/sisi
Segololo 23 Feb 2009 13:21
Strolicious 23 Feb 2009 13:23
Abomkhulu they even say she is worth more than dat,if usho imali encane..dat what they said to the second man's family...
Toxic 23 Feb 2009 13:27
Amza 23 Feb 2009 13:33
Khafo 23 Feb 2009 13:37
Hai Stroh man, this is serious wena. You're killing me big time.Lobola must be paid to members of the family/ relatives......otherwise it will haunt somebody when things go wrong_no strangers in this business on a serious note.
Dimago 23 Feb 2009 13:42
babetm 23 Feb 2009 13:59
i dont agree with those who are saying lobola money should be refunded. a guy does pay lobola at his own risk and must not abuse me and expect me to stay with him bcos he lobolad no ways!whether it is my fault or his, no refund. my parents are not an ATM or Bank where u just deposit the money and withdraw at anytime u feel like. no refund full stop!
Toxic 23 Feb 2009 14:05
Strolicious 23 Feb 2009 14:06
Venusseed 23 Feb 2009 14:13
tshepiso 23 Feb 2009 14:20
tha - bang 23 Feb 2009 15:04
Luksta 23 Feb 2009 15:13
TheLady 25 Feb 2009 09:49
TheLady 25 Feb 2009 10:00
Dimago 25 Feb 2009 10:19
Serious TheLady? i missed it. Is it safe to assume that they research their topics from our blogs?Lyrics loosely translated:Mme matswale o seke wa mfuralla: mother in law, dont turn your back on me. Ke tlile ho wena le rraNaledi: I came to you and Naledi's fatherKe tlisitse mathata a motse waka: I brought the problems of my homeyo yo yo yoMotse waka a thubeha: My home is falling apartThusang bo: Help pleaseyo yo yo yo
TheLady 25 Feb 2009 11:37
andi01 25 Feb 2009 12:45
andi01 25 Feb 2009 12:49
andi01 25 Feb 2009 12:50
blueroze 25 Feb 2009 12:56
HARAMBE24 25 Feb 2009 13:12
mathata 25 Feb 2009 13:53
this is real business,family e mokgwebong.
TheLady 26 Feb 2009 08:36
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