Adandon

Written by 2lani from the blog Abandon for 22 years! on 14 Nov 2008
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Hi

Abandon for twentytwo year by parents that never even gave me a name and loved me . I was raised in a village all the year with out know about who I am and were I came from. The people from the village took good Care of me and took me to school to all the years. I have finished my studes as a Chef going to US next year and new i'm reseving calls from people that Claim to be my Parents all this years. What can i do about this PROBLEM GUYS?

7 Comments

Toxic
15 Nov 2008 11:21

who raised you exactly? i understand that it takes a village to raise a child mara there must have been 1 or 2 primary caregivers? Ask THEM who these people claiming to be your parents are and get THEM to deal with them.

Cande
15 Nov 2008 11:39

he he he, angazi but why are they only coming in now?

Firstdvd
15 Nov 2008 12:23

Twenty two years, you survived and ur still surviving...The truth is: you need to know your parents thats all but I don't think you need them in your life.

Joe
15 Nov 2008 14:06

Firstdvd, you took the words right out of my mind, fingers and keyboard!

mjj
15 Nov 2008 16:27

I don't make it a habit to reply to articles not related to TV or MUsic.... but I'm taking one of my few exceptions on this one....

2lani, maybe you should first establish if these people are your real parents or not, have you ever wondered why your parents abandoned you?
There's always 2 side to a story maybe you can first find out their side (if they are your real parents) b4 you shut them out...... God teaches us to FORGIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!

GML
17 Nov 2008 09:29

Find out who they are and what they want. You might need this info later in life for a bone marrow transplant of iets. It's always vital to know about your DNA for such reasons and so that youcan tell your kids one day about their grand parents

Floh
12 Dec 2008 23:00

I once met this guy who said he curse the day he met his father.He grew up without knowing him, like all other folks, he wanted to meet him, it happened but now he regret.

This also happened to my sister and my brother, their mother left them in my father's door step for more than 25 years, they wanted to see her, my father showed them their mother, after that. bad luck was after them, my sister was knocked by a car and after they loose their jobs and even today they are not working. I am not sure if they are aware of this.

So all i'm saying is don't expect all the good things after knowing them, it might turn out very ugly. But ke you need to know them Thulani.

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