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Two Strangers and a Wedding

Written by Dimago from the blog Some food for thought on 20 May 2008
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I have been listening to the Phat Joe breakfast show lately, mainly because of the “two strangers an a wedding” competition. This is a competition where 2 contestants who have not met get married at a wedding organised by Kaya fm. I don’t catch it everyday, so please give more information if you have been listening.
The idea behind this is that there is a bachelor and 5 bachelloretes. The contestants had to send their applications through to Kaya fm, attaching their photos. The judges then chose 1 bachelor and 5 bachelloretes . 

The bachelor’s name is Peter (35yrs), lives in Centurion and he’s a private pilot. He has 2 kids. He has a Masters degree in science. His reason for entering is that he works too much to meet his perfect match
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The bachellorets are: 

1. Ingrid 33 yrs,
Her profile says: I love cooking, entertaining and travelling. I love to laugh. Love music and dancing. Love old school music e.g. black box fantasy I am tired of clubs, prefer chilling at indoors or much relaxed place with friends. I am crazy about dresses....
2. Loretta 32yrs
Her profile says: Fun, Loving person, expressing oneself by laughter, ever smiling, ever helping other people in need. Love dancing and exercising, I can dance as if no one is watching, love any type of music as long there`s a beat....

3. Maggie (not her real name) 29 yrs
Her profile says: I do not belong to any particular religion `because all religions have elements of truth in them. I identify with most religions therefore I prefer to refer to myself as simply religious.

4. Thandi 27 yrs
Her profile says: I have a zest for life, with a passion for good music, good friends, good food and my family. I have a great sense of humour, as well as the need to explore new places and meet new people. I also enjoy my job; give it all that I have got because I would like to succeed in anything I put my mind to.

5. Miriam,36 yrs is a divorcee 
He profile says: I am down to earth, honest, individual who enjoys a very quite but exciting life with family and friends. I enjoy travelling; I work very hard and play hard too. 

The only contact Peter has had with the ladies is via email telephone. Last week the ladies had to take lie detector tests. They’ve had the mothers and friends in the studio to come talk about each of the ladies, we also eavesdropped on the conversations Peter has had with each of them. Maggie has already nicknamed Peter ‘boo’ and Loretta has had both male and female lovers. 

The prize: A complete wedding (organised by Sophie Ndaba), with outfits, rings, reception, honeymoon to the value of R500k

Today I was listening again, and apparently Peter was supposed to propose. In fact he was scheduled to propose yesterday but he got cold feet. So now he’s been given 48 hrs to make his decision as to whom his bride will be. The ladies were not impressed with his indecision, cause they feel that its been a long time coming, he knew that ultimately he’s have to choose one of them and now he’s acting like a man who cant make up his mind. 

What do you guys think of this, would marry a stranger? Are things that bad, that people have to enter competitions in order to get married?
Sources: Mother, Kaya fm (profiles)




108 Comments

LM
20 May 2008 09:19

Eish Dimags nna I wouldn't. Listening to a person describing him/herself is way different to actually experiencing the type of person he/she is...hope I'm making sense...Nway...this is marriage not a blind date bathong....All I can say is that these ladies and gents who entered the competition ba na le sebete (they are brave). I don't blame Peter for getting cold feet..he is being cautious phela this is a serious matter and the ladies bona shem, it looks like they just want to get married no matter what!

Are things that bad, that people have to enter competitions in order to get married? You can ask that again Dimago; Maggie and Thandi bona...they are still young, man to just throw in a towel like that. Maggie sounds like a man-eater how come she can't catch her own fish herself, nc nc nc!

Cande
20 May 2008 09:49

This is crazee. How do you get maried to a person you don't know??
no wonder Peter is getting cold feet...

eish-bo
20 May 2008 09:53

They have taken things overboard how can u marry someone u've never met, what if u don't click, this is for shallow people.

Segololo
20 May 2008 10:45

i am EXTREMELY worried abt the dude! i'm so cautious abt strangers that go to this kind of method 2 get hitched. whose kids r those? where r the mamas that he had those kids with? what if he isn't hitched cos he is an abusive dude? eish! maybe i'm 2 negative & paranoid.

poshspice
20 May 2008 11:12

you \re not paranoid Sego, usually a guy his age that does not have a woman who can stand by him through thick and thin, somethng is definitely amiss. phela women banesibindi (women can tolerate all isht in the name of love) so if he is that great why doesn't he have  women to stick by him..i don't buy the busy schedule story how many men are globbetrotting still find women waiting for them at home, women happy to swipe credit cards from the hard-earned cash of the man.... 

eish maybe we are just being parnoid nd negative..let' s wish the lucky bride all the best

Kandii
20 May 2008 11:14

Did they take an HIV test? Im just asking.....

mystie
20 May 2008 11:39

hey people im new ,am i welcomed?

nways what i think is that this guy is is not gifted in the beauty department coz i mean if he is a pilot and lives in centurion he must have   a lot of cash n every gal would wanna be with him so why is he still single?

Tshd21
20 May 2008 11:50

Some people are braver than others!!!

nokubonga
20 May 2008 12:10

Tjo......No wonder he is getting cold feet. Those things hardly work for couples because they don't know each other well. What happened to Lorenzo ????

The lady he was suppose to marry...got back to her long term lover. They work for others and some not. I for one wouldn't even think of going there!

Dimago
20 May 2008 12:24

but the proposal was inevitable, he should just be a man and do it... @mystie, he says he travels a lot, hence can't keep a long-term rship. sounds like he's looking 4 a babysitter cause its not like he's gonna stop travelling. I guess its different strokes 4 different folks...

Toxic
21 May 2008 00:27

I laughed when one of the ladies said Peter must ask the ladies to rate themselves on a scale of 1-10 on how they look in a bikini.

I am not feeling Peter at all, if i was one of the ladies, i'd have withdrawn from the competition.

Are things that bad, that people have to enter competitions in order to get married? 

For some of them (maybe all of them) it's about the prizes in the end....the cars, notebooks, fully furnished home and the cash. They'll probably divorce and split the prize-unless there's a condition that stops them from divorcing.

belz
21 May 2008 00:44

LOL!! are they for real, yho, marriage leteng. I dont know if i've got an answer for your question but i also have a question. Is marriage really that important, really is it? Thandi le Maggie must jsut relax, geez they are still young.

Toxic
21 May 2008 00:54

Peter chose Thandi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Toxic
21 May 2008 00:58

though it's not suprising that he would choose the youngest of the lot :p

monchooza
21 May 2008 01:08

i think this is ridiculous....but then again kusemhlabeni la

Honeypot
21 May 2008 01:10

Are things that bad, that people have to enter competitions in order to get married? 

Well i dont blame them, we all have goals about where we want to be at a certain age, and then when things don't go that way we resort to drastic steps. I for one would do this, I have had so many bad experiences with blind dates, a blind wedding is just absurd. Anywho I dont trust that Peter, there is something fishy about him!!!!

Nonny
21 May 2008 01:13

OMG, this is crazy.........I would NEVER marry a stranger!!!!!!!!!!

belz
21 May 2008 01:16

Toxic: And???? did she scream at the top of her voice thanking heavens for this blind marriage, utheni Tox? Gaad i cant beleive this!

Nonny
21 May 2008 01:16

Perhaps it's coz their maternal clock is ticking, so they are desperate........yesesss but still I would never, why are people so interested in marriage vele??? Is it of so much importance that we can't accept that some of us are not designed to be husbands and wives?????

Toxic
21 May 2008 01:17

Anywho I dont trust that Peter, there is something fishy about him!!!!

Yes honeypot, what kind of 35yr succesfull man is still single in this day and age!

belz
21 May 2008 01:21

Is it of so much importance that we can't accept that some of us are not designed to be husbands and wives?????> Nonny:  I have tried to explain  this to a friend of mine who thinks her time is ticking, WTF does that mean, time is ticking when you are 90 years old, then, time ticks for you to accept that you can die anytime. Eish man, really some people are not designed to marry, i know and accept this.

Vesa
21 May 2008 01:28

For some of them (maybe all of them) it's about the prizes in the end....the cars, notebooks, fully furnished home and the cash. They'll probably divorce and split the prize-unless there's a condition that stops them from divorcing. 

My thoughts exactly.......

Hlehle
21 May 2008 01:28

Surely these women are desperate coz u even think twice when ur boyfriend asks u to marry him. What about a stranger its a straight NO without even thinking about it. This is crazee indeed.

Toxic
21 May 2008 01:29

Toxic: And???? did she scream at the top of her voice thanking heavens for this blind marriage, utheni Tox? Gaad i cant beleive this!

She sounded like she expected it to happen and didn't even hesitate to say yes. They were all asked to open boxes in the studio and hers had a ring and when she opened it everyone in the studio shouted yeeeeeeeeeeehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! and then she spoke to Peter on the phone who told her that marriage is sacred and he wants someone to share it with him, someone that can be a lover, a friend a partner and was just nauseatingly cliched about it.

Dimago
21 May 2008 01:30

I was hoping he'd choose Mirriam, she's mature. Glad he didn't choose Maggie, she's so vain and this was jst a competition for her. Not sure about Thandi, she did promise to beat Peter up if he didn't choose her... so Tox what did Thandi say and how did Peter propose?

Vesa
21 May 2008 01:31

Yes honeypot, what kind of 35yr succesfull man is still single in this day and age!

I work with a lot of them...

belz
21 May 2008 01:34

spoke to Peter on the phone who told her that marriage is sacred and he wants someone to share it with him, someone that can be a lover, a friend a partner and was just nauseatingly cliched about it>Bull Sh!t , what else could he say, it was probably a script!!  i want to throw up!!

Toxic
21 May 2008 01:36

What kind are they Vesa? What's their problem? Do you work in a dating agency BTW LOL

Vutmi
21 May 2008 01:37

wow...im suprised the guy wants to expose his two kids to strangers...mmmm...his head is in the clouds...literally!!!!!!!!

Mopakistani
21 May 2008 01:40

why does it have to be a blind marriage..why cant they be given time to meet and get to know each other first...he could date all the five women for maybe a month before deciding,get to see them u know...i mean getting married ti simebody u've never even met??..thats crazy and very risky!!

Vesa
21 May 2008 01:42

What kind are they Vesa? What's their problem? Do you work in a dating agency BTW LOL

They don't have problems at all. They are just enjoying their singledom! & No dear, I dnt work for a dating agency.....hahahahha.....I work for one of the big 4 CA firms

Toxic
21 May 2008 01:43

wow...im suprised the guy wants to expose his two kids to strangers...mmmm...his head is in the clouds...literally!!!!!!!!

Imagine a 27yr old expected to mother those two kids-yho!!!!!

*Welcome back Vutmi, u've been missed*

Dimago
21 May 2008 01:53

<> That's the catch/fun, otherwise we'd all do it. Vessa please introduce me to the single 35yr olds...

belz
21 May 2008 02:04

Imagine a 27yr old expected to mother those two kids-yho!!!!!> I hope she knows what she's putting herself in, she needs serious prayers, really, considering that he hubby is always on the road or air.

 Vessa please introduce me to the single 35yr olds>  Please Vesa help my friend, and Dimags considering that this is one of the top CA companies, you are assured that they are loaded, no rolling with no broke niggas!

Mphoyame
21 May 2008 02:04

O amogetsoe mystie........

Vesa
21 May 2008 02:09

Dimags....I will PM u

belz
21 May 2008 02:10

Vesa: what about me?lol!!

pastor chic
21 May 2008 02:10

Not sure about Thandi, she did promise to beat Peter up if he didn't choose her...  lmao... eish Dimago maybe  he chose her ka go "tshaba" hi hi hi hi...

Segololo
21 May 2008 02:17

Dimago AND Toxy! <<Vessa please introduce me to the single 35yr olds> Please Vesa help my friend, and Dimags considering that this is one of the top CA companies, you are assured that they are loaded, no rolling with no broke niggas!>> I suspect they would enjoy Harambe's company... hhmmhhh!

Best-Achiever
21 May 2008 02:25

Shu .... DESPARATION is indeed a destroyer of PRIDE

Nonny
21 May 2008 02:35

"Shu .... DESPARATION is indeed a destroyer of PRIDE"
U can say that aganin BA!!!

Nonny
21 May 2008 02:37

I meant - U can say that again!!!

Dabs
21 May 2008 02:56

How can people play with marraige like that? It just undermines the meaning of marraige. Women are desperate for men out there. tsho I didn't know it was this bad. Imagine what you will tell your kids. It was and arranged marraige........

Dabs
21 May 2008 03:00

It was an arraged marraige

Weiss
21 May 2008 03:05

Yes honeypot, what kind of 35yr succesfull man is still single in this day and age!

I work with a lot of them...
Ja!! me too Peter sounds like a guy who is just married to his job. So... sad! Shame, man.

Mathaz
21 May 2008 03:10

Since he does not have time to look for a wife himself, what makes Thandi think that he will have time for her?  Whilst some of us want to get out of the marriage some want to get in.  Life.

Toxic
21 May 2008 03:14

It just undermines the meaning of marraige.

Think this happened a looong time ago Dabs.

Peter sounds like a guy who is just married to his job. So... sad! Shame, man.

I still find it hard to believe

Whilst some of us want to get out of the marriage some want to get in. Life
Yeah Life!

Toxic
21 May 2008 03:23

How did Peter get  the time to conceive TWO children?

Segololo
21 May 2008 03:48

Toxic <<How did Peter get the time to conceive TWO children?>> ahem! I still ask why did those mother/s not stick around? I didn't see any reference to a widower...

Weiss: Welcome BACK!!! Are you sure those single 35yr old peeps you work with are into women? Maybe they are still in the closet and hanging with H24 at the swing clubs...

Dimago
21 May 2008 04:01

suspect they would enjoy Harambe's company... hhmmhhh!
How Sego, why would you think that? 

How did Peter get the time to conceive TWO children?
Maybe they were conceived before he got hectic

Vesa, i'll be waiting...

KeleFabulous
21 May 2008 05:00

LOL. i am so gonna be tuning into this!

Floh
25 May 2008 05:27

Guy's when is the wedding, I missed the proposal but heard Thandi saying she will beat him up if he doesn't choose him.

Crazy, Crazy,Crazy, how can you marry someone you donn know. But I visited the gallery @ kayaFm, I don't think the looks are that bad.

Floh
25 May 2008 05:35

Toxic <<How did Peter get the time to conceive TWO children?>> on his one night stands....................mind you he doesnt have time, only quickies do for him.........

.......But I must say Thandi will have a taste of travelling since Peter mentioned that he's thinking about the next destination for him and the newly found fiance to become wifey.

Thandi must make sure that she cashes him out and also save her call centre money, so she doesn't become broke after separation, cause really this marriage can/ cannot last..........badlala ngomlilo

Brown Shuga
25 May 2008 12:14

I wish I'd entered!

Tshd21
25 May 2008 12:26

LOL!!  BS are you for real???? Phela you've made it very clear gore marriage is a no go area for you!!! What, or may I say who changed your mind??? *wink wink* he-he-he

Brown Shuga
25 May 2008 12:37

I'm tired of normal/traditional relationships. Can someone please ask Peter if it's too late for me to enter? Plus I could use a new car. I"m serious Tshd21.

Dimago
26 May 2008 03:26

The wedding is on the 30th at Mary Fizgerald square.
BS, sorry i think its too late for you...

Cnglemother
26 May 2008 03:39

Eish Dimags i know the makoti of this weird scenario but pls no questions asseblief. nc,nc,nc!.

LM
26 May 2008 03:40

The other gals are now dissing Thandi, (except Meriam she is a lady that one) saying all sorts of bad things...they are talking about her love for ganja...suspicious that she is a crack head....not the wife material because she is too emotional and secretive...hayi I forsee danger!!

Peter naye, what was he thinking telling Merriam that she is the woman she wanted initially not Thandi...I wonder how Thandi must be feeling about this.

LM
26 May 2008 03:43

Eish Dimags i know the makoti of this weird scenario but pls no questions asseblief. nc,nc,nc. Hau CnglMa do tell assemblief torhwana!!!!

Renegade
26 May 2008 03:51

laughed when one of the ladies said Peter must ask the ladies to rate themselves on a scale of 1-10 on how they look in a bikini. 

Tsho Toxic, I was listening to Khaya on saturday when i heard the clip of the girl saying somethin galong the lines of:
"Is she a baywatch babe or a 7de laan babe, coz i'm definetly a baywatch babe", referring to how the other girls look in  a bikini.
I was like, how can a grown ass woman say someting like that in that context.

Cnglemother
26 May 2008 03:55

I cant spoil the surprise LM just wait for the 30th wena and uzoba speecheless mampela-mpela. Phela Thandi might be having relatives & freinds blogging with us.

LM
26 May 2008 04:00

I cant spoil the surprise LM just wait for the 30th wena and uzoba speecheless mampela-mpela. Phela Thandi might be having relatives & freinds blogging with us. Hehehehe!! I remember she threatened Peter with her relatives if he doesn't/didn't choose her...I hope she is not a Reiger Park/Eldos typical case....

Miss K
26 May 2008 04:00

The only great thing that came out of this is the publicity for Kaya fm. Not sure about marriage...hope it works out!

myname
26 May 2008 04:16

I didnt read ur replies but it sounds great but not for me...............

Miss K
26 May 2008 04:22

Apparently this is a commitment ceremony and not legally a marriage so they can decide to make it legal or not after a while. This is what i got from the website:

Q: What is the difference between a Wedding and Commitment Ceremony?

A: A Commitment Ceremony indicates the couple’s intent to marry. It is a celebration event that occurs prior to the legal proceedings to be held upon return from the couple’s happy honeymoon. The Commitment Ceremony includes everything as per a traditional wedding; there will be invitations, hens and bucks celebrations, bridesmaids and groomsmen, vows, rings, nerves, tears and even a honeymoon! It will be an exceptional occasion!

belz
26 May 2008 04:23

Listened to the other bitter ladies sayin what they think of Thandi this morning, hheheheheheheheh,they said she does crack and is an emotional freak, LOL!! That Ingrid chick cracked me up big time. They even said Thandi's family were putting pressure on Peter.

Weiss
26 May 2008 04:23

The only great thing that came out of this is the publicity for Kaya fm. Not sure about marriage...hope it works out!   Ja Miss K The marriage will work out - Remember, Peter is never around - so wifey has nothing to gain or loose. Trust me this marriage will survive many years - just as long as Peter is still doing his demanding job.

belz
26 May 2008 04:24

And they also said she's swimming in debt so Peter must prepare himself, i dont know how they got this.

faraimagic
26 May 2008 04:26

the world and its weirdness!!!

Miss K
26 May 2008 04:28

@ Belz....why are they such sore loosers??? Mncim now the real personalities are coming out!! he he he!

KeleFabulous
26 May 2008 04:28

@ Vesa i'm single and good looking. hook a sister up!

Dimago
26 May 2008 04:30

Huui, Cnglemother, should we be expecting drama from Thandi?
Eish now i feel sorry for Peter, told him he should have chosen Miriam. Amsure uya zisola!

You are right Miss K, this 'saga' is the only reason i listen. Phat Joe needs to come up with something else to keep me...

Weiss
26 May 2008 04:32

The Commitment Ceremony includes everything as per a traditional wedding; there will be invitations, hens and bucks celebrations, bridesmaids and groomsmen, vows, rings, nerves, tears and even a honeymoon!

Tears! who is gonna waste their tears on something that has 60% of not happening? Sho... Somebody needs to rethink this.

KeleFabulous
26 May 2008 04:35

is there a possibilitiy...any at all...that Peter's been in touch with any/all of the women outside of Kaya?

belz
26 May 2008 04:39

Miss K: and its strange coz they keep on saying they are fine with it, and theya re really not ok with it. poor Peter, he msut be going mad hearing all this stuff about future wifey. i still say this is the most ridiculous thing ive heard.

Feza
26 May 2008 04:40

Hey Dimago things are really bad, i think. its really sad what we put ourselves through only in pursuit of love and acceptance. 

Love is scarse, even more scarse than money. its terrible! well, maybe is a lil fun and all a game -- but it shows terrible despiration! I mean if that guy says he's too busy to find the love of his life, how and where will he find the time for his "wife" once they are married then! 

Cnglemother
26 May 2008 04:41

Dimags why mara hey, i aint sayin fokkol? we are still in shock ngale ndaba bigtym, she is a very confident someone i must say and very fun to be with. 

they said she does crack, i think they are exxagarating - sour grapes maybe.

Weiss
26 May 2008 04:48

they said she does crack, i think they are exxagarating - sour grapes maybe. LOL! at this comment.

LM
26 May 2008 04:54

Dimags why mara hey, i aint sayin fokkol? we are still in shock ngale ndaba bigtym, she is a very confident someone i must say and very fun to be with.  CnglMa, are you her colleague??She will never know that you said something...LOL

Cnglemother
26 May 2008 05:06

why mara heh? 

Kfab to answer your question, i dont think so but then again the cold-feet might be an indication on what you just raised. hi-hi-hi! Life aint fair bathong.

Porsch
26 May 2008 05:07

hai guys, everything that these women say is scripted, the crack and all even last week when Peter wasnt sure of who to choose, nothing serious!!!!!!

ngwana
26 May 2008 05:20

this is one of the silliest ideas to hit radio ever.
how long are will they last 2 months?
I guess divorce is no big deal anymore

Dimago
26 May 2008 05:38

Cnglemother, wa timana or should i say u ya ncishana (sp)

Venusseed
26 May 2008 06:24

This is.....just interesting or funny. I don't believe story sa Peter that he doesn't have time to meet women. If he has time to do all this Khaya stuff he sure does have time. Him being 35 and still single does not make him abnormal. He is just today's typical black man. I know a whole lot of man hitting 40 and over and are stil single. The only thing they have is choice assorted children. 
I dont blame these women bacause banna ba nou wou nie trou nie. They are only concerned about their money and supporting their babymamas. Those who have lots of moola  are scared of ukudliswa and ukudliwa habafazi(I know my Zulu sucks). They are just happy with free cake and eish in these hungry times women are no longer depriving themselves( ba ya sigisa). I blame this on female power. Its the best thing that happened for us maar it has killed our chances of getting married. Phela now we drive our own cars to go get eaten by these men. Or we invite them in our comfy houses to give them ikhekhe on a silver plate. Lol!!
It's no longer easy to get the right one and keep him right forever. Ne competition with amapokemons. And all these places that stay open until the morning.

Mina I have embraced my singledom. I would never do what these women did cos I'm concerned about certain creepy personality disorders a guy might have. The next thing you have to sleep with him and make babies. Oh no what if he has a degree of dumbness? I want no dumb ass kid. No thanks. Unless we do this for fun and date other people untiln we divorce.

LM
26 May 2008 06:37

Why mara heh ya eng?...tlogela woman....LOL..

LMAO Venusseed...I feel you especially on the pokemans' issue....and these kids are so forward ke a go botja..haai...they will put you to shame when they are operating!!

Dimago
26 May 2008 06:51

@ Venus, desperate times call for desperate measures LOL!

Tshd21
26 May 2008 07:02

Venus wrote: Phela now we drive our own cars to go get eaten by these men. Or we invite them in our comfy houses to give them ikhekhe on a silver plate. Lol!!
It's no longer easy to get the right one and keep him right forever. Ne competition with amapokemons. And all these places that stay open until the morning
.... 

ROTFLMAO......You killed me right there....LOL......

Dimago
30 May 2008 04:28

Its done! Thandi & Peter got married this morning on a live ceremony on air. They both signed antinnaptual contracts.50 of Thandi's family attended. About a few of Peter's friends attended. They are going on honeymoon on tuesday!!!

Toxic
09 Jun 2008 07:58

Drama was swept under the carpet this morning over Derek's ex-fiance Ashley. Saw the sms' Derek sent Ashley and i really hope KayaFM get her on the show so she can tell us the real side of the story!

faraimagic
09 Jun 2008 08:10

mna i wud love to marry a stranger!i think its an amazing expirience,emagine getting to know her,the sex,the dislikes,the findings....yah the marriage will be soooooo interesting!

felfel
09 Jun 2008 08:24

Toxic i caught sight of the 'sms' drama on the paper yesterday but didn't read it, wats going on now????

Remember when they were both on 3Talk and Noleen asked if they've consumated the marriage and guess wat they have. She also asked them if they've said "I love you" to one another? the lady said she said and feels it but the guy hesitated and said he's still falling in love.....maybe he's dissapointed with his bride, he was a little cagey too while she was more open and optimistic.....

Toxic
09 Jun 2008 08:31

They've come back from their honeymoon and when Derek was asked about those sms he said smthng like, i'd like to believe i'm not a fool to go on a radio station and lie about my love life. i was dating Ashley (then later confirmed he was engaged when Phat Joe used the word engaged) and we broke up in December.

He didn't give a clear answer about those 3 sms' in the paper.

Gail said smthng like she's not going to let Ashley bother her blah blah blah.

i mean one of those sms' read: didn't consumate the marriage. can anul after contract is over. 

I'm inclined to believe Derek is seriously dodgy! and there was this one time they were asked if they had consumated the marriage and Derek said Yes while Gail said no comment....WTF?!

Missed them on 3Talk though.

thery
09 Jun 2008 08:49

are they really that desparete hehe.........mara im not 1 to tok im currently dating some1 i met on da net, 
hmmmm mayb i should tyr this method after my internet dating,phela lenyalo is very scares matsatsi aa...

toking about men n lenyalo makes me 4get my manners.....
er........THERY ke le fresh in da TVSA home,treat me wel....

Toxic
09 Jun 2008 08:59

welcome thery. stay fresh ;-)

LM
08 Sep 2008 04:34

I'm inclined to believe Derek is seriously dodgy! and there was this one time they were asked if they had consumated the marriage and Derek said Yes while Gail said no comment....WTF?! Yah Tox, that guy is dodgy....anyway the whole thing is over, finito. Gail is left with a broken heart...Derek says life must go on! I think Gail wanted this more than Derek did.for him it was just a game,experimenting and having fun. check this week's city press.

Toxic
08 Sep 2008 04:40

LM, when i saw that i was like so not suprised.

felfel
08 Sep 2008 04:51

Haybo LM is it over already?????????? please do tell, i don't buy City Press.

Mathaz
08 Sep 2008 04:59

Derek should not get any of the prices since Kaya has still to offer them.  Sies...I'm so pissed off at him using Gail like that and if he was already engaged to Ashely or still had feelings for her, he should have let Kaya know that he is no longer interested and they could have replaced him with someone genuine.

Cande
08 Sep 2008 05:01

felfel go here to read more...

LM
08 Sep 2008 05:10

Yes, it is Felfel.

Now I remember during the competition how he excelled at everything...passed lie detector...got thumps up from shrinks....I mean everything about him was just way perfect, more like too good to be true....he is a professional...ga ana letswalo!the type that lie with a straight face!

Cande
08 Sep 2008 05:12

but Mathaz, did you think that marriage was going to work out?

Toxic
08 Sep 2008 05:13

Derek should not get any of the prices since Kaya has still to offer them

mara le kaya le bone......how do u go and source sponsors  AFTER the event?? Who's going to want to be associated with this fiasco NOW?

Mathaz
08 Sep 2008 05:19

Most arranged marriages do work out Cande.

Dimago
08 Sep 2008 05:21

She is writing a book about the whole experience and said she had accepted that the marriage was over. (taken from article)

Haiibo Gail!

Toxic
08 Sep 2008 05:32

Gail's cashing in on this fiasco!!!

Cande
08 Sep 2008 05:36

lmao, she is such an opportunist

felfel
08 Sep 2008 05:41

Thanks Cande, LM........that marriage was doomed from the beginning, there was no connection, everything was just cyber what what..............


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