Its hard enough dating a man with children by another woman, having to deal with the mother of those children is another mountain to climb. I would like us to us to share some of the horrible/nice experiences with dramatic babymamas. As babymamas we are often viewed as trouble makers, do we really do this intentionally or we are just misunderstood. As a babymama how do you feel when your child has to spend a weekend over by the father's crib, do worry that the wife/girlfriend will poison your child or will be abusive and negligent towards the child.
Dealing with a sick child is no easy task and being all on your own makes the situation even worse and to think that the mafacka is probably sleeping peacefully or getting shag while at it. On the other side you are buys mixing every muti-wenyoni or speit that your mother is instructing to mix over the phone to remedy the situation. With no improvement to the child's health status do you now start calling him and demanding that he drives to your flat at 12 midnight to attend to the child. Babymama have you ever used your child a weapon to get what you want out the arrangement, ever used papgeld to for your own necessities.
To women who bitch and mourn about babymamas don’t forget that the man the babymama is suppose to be doing the baby night shift with is laying next you whispering sweet nothings to your ear and while all baby mama are screams of a child who's not responding to any calming down drug in the market and its 2 in the morning. So how do you expect her to be grumpy and mean, not justifiable but please understand where all this coming from. The sight of happy couples at the doctor’s room can turn a good woman into a jealousy bitch. The responsibility of having to sign every form concerning the child alone and having to cross out the father field on the form can make one wish all forms were designed by single mother. The unnecessary questions about the father’s whereabouts from nosey receptionists at doctor’s rooms can make one develop a nasty attitude towards receptionists. Did I mention the trip to home affairs offices to sort out the child’s personal documents is mammoth task should the child be fatherless, thank God for NETCARE hospitals who have made it their responsibility to take of the birth certificate fiasco. Trust me fellow bloggers single parenthood is not as glamorous as we sometimes make it out to be. This no excuse for all the drama that babymamas put up but this is just to give you an idea of a babymama’s everyday struggles.
Babydaddies what is worst stunt that your babymama has pulled on you?
Guilt trips? Ultimatums? Broke your car windows? Showed up at work unannounced and living the baby at reception, People we somehow have heard of these babymama stories so let’s share.
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