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What's your Pet Name

Written by Dimago from the blog Some food for thought on 24 Jan 2008
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The dictionary defines a pet as “something you make a fuss of”, “something you spoil or pamper”. A pet name is a name a loved one gives you, a special name only they use to refer to you. Babes, larvh, sweets, Sugarplum, Potsonono, ma larvh etc are the common ones.

I don’t know about you, but I hate being called mabhebheza (no offence to the blogger), especially if its some random dude on the street. But I don’t mind if they call me my sista , maybe it’s the connotation attached to it.

I had a bf who used to call me Sthuthuthu (motorbike), at the time I didn’t think much of it, but lately I’ve been thinking, that clearly this guy saw me as something he can ride…hai*shaking my head*

I’ve heard people say men sometimes use pet names to call their girls because they don’t want to call out the wrong name, is that true? So what pet names have you been called? Did you like it? What are you being called now? Do you call your person something different to his face than you call him to your friends?

S’funukwazi!






75 Comments

Tashi
24 Jan 2008 08:33

Hehe ! Dimago - Sthuthuthu's hysterical.  I'm mostly called Small - after a character in the Winnie The Pooh books.

faraimagic
24 Jan 2008 08:39

hey this is soo cool but i call my girl frend mabhebheza coz she hates to be called that so i call her that....but i call her CANDLE wen the time is right she will tell you guyz wat she calls me and i hate it....she is also in thye family....cant tell you who it is....scandal!

faraimagic
24 Jan 2008 08:41

he he eh sweety pie hi hi  hi

sweetie my baby
24 Jan 2008 08:45

I had a bf who used to call me Sthuthuthu (motorbike), at the time I didn’t think much of it, but lately I’ve been thinking, that clearly this guy saw me as something he can ride…hai *shaking my head* 

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha, this is the most hilarious thing i've heard all week, Dimags!!!!! 

ain't got no nickname, just had to check in to say thanks for the giggles...

i hate it when strange men call me 'baby'. i'm not your damn baby, ga!. i love being called 'my sista'. something so loving about the way it rolls off brother's tongues...

lilmama
24 Jan 2008 08:46

Me and my b call each other character names all the time...Like now we are Clark Kent and Louis Lane...

But my best name has been Nana....from 1st 2 letters of my name.
Worst....Ntombazana (girl), I had this b early in varsity who insisted on calling me Ntombazana - weird.

faraimagic
24 Jan 2008 08:49

cant stop laughing! people they come up with sum hilarious names....motorbike he he he

andi01
24 Jan 2008 08:50

my boo used to call me "baby wam" (my baby), or Mrs Smith (from mr & Mrs Smith), "sisi wam",

faraimagic
24 Jan 2008 08:51

where was this article....i really missed a good laugh!

faraimagic
24 Jan 2008 08:53

babe in afrikaans skart(wrong spelling)...my frend calles his gelfrend skarto at first she wud go bananas but these days she responds well....

andi01
24 Jan 2008 08:53

my friends man calls her "my baby" or "my boo" and she in return calls him "mntu ongubhuti" (male person), or mosquito, its true opposites do attract.

SuddenCute
24 Jan 2008 08:55

had a bf who used to call me Sthuthuthu (motorbike), at the time I didn’t think much of it, but lately I’ve been thinking, that clearly this guy saw me as something he can ride…hai*shaking my head*  ha ha ha ha creativity..

mine used to call me ponkolase in short ponko.. i hated it. or wame

Tshd21
24 Jan 2008 09:04

Used to be called sisi and I hated it ka passion!!! Except everytime he looked in my eyes and said Ngiyak'thanda sisi neh? *reflecting*

cleave
24 Jan 2008 09:28

My BF calls me 'baby mama' or 'sthandwa sam'. I hate being called 'my sister', 'sisi' or mabhebeza. I like that Lilmama I might just adopt yourself and have myself a Superman.

faraimagic
24 Jan 2008 09:35

mtwana!

mabhebheza
24 Jan 2008 16:17

Hee-BETHUNA ,,yah neh mabhebheza neh..*shaking my head*....
I cant help but feel offended but i fokol is niks....




(smoke break).................................puff.........

Zee Babes!
24 Jan 2008 23:56

@ Sweet Pie I had a bf who used to call me Sthuthuthu (motorbike), at the time I didn’t think much of it, but lately I’ve been thinking, that clearly this guy saw me as something he can ride… 

Skuta cabanga...so you reckon, he called you dat cos he was riding you or was it because he saw you as something he can ride, just being curious?

@ Mabhebeza -
Askies sana, dont take it personal!

Mna ke I dont like pet names though ppl will still col me by watever is appealing to them, bt I call them by their names.  What I usually do, is shorten their full names when um excited and when um fed up - I call them by their full names and surnames - It gives me some power.

Toxic
25 Jan 2008 00:00

LMAO Dimags @ sthuthuthu!!!!!!!! Hayi man, i've never heard this before..........tl tl tl!!!

I'm really bad with those terms of endearment so i call my partner by his name(to his face and when i'm talking about him)...

J-Girl
25 Jan 2008 00:09

The J-Man used to call me "mtanam" and i thot it was cute

Love101
25 Jan 2008 00:15

morning people!!!!

i don't like to be called mabebeza, chick or chikita but i find a lot of guys call me "sister"(nge afrikaans accent), especially mangise kasi laba engikhule nabo sidlala umacashelana

my bf calls me larvh or my larvh even when we have a fight eish

i call him babes or joe (and joe it's not his name) i'm sort of used to calling guys "joe" even my male collegeus(sp)

our friends call each other "dodo" 

and my bf's brother and his fiance call each other mama ka <@#$ no (referingf to their daughter

awelani
25 Jan 2008 01:06

My husband & I call each other "baby", but when there are people around we call each other by our names.  sometyms I call him "pukie".

I had a bf who used to call me Sthuthuthu (motorbike),,,,,,,,,LOL.

Dimago
25 Jan 2008 01:29

The funny thing about being called Sthuthuthu is that i used to respond to it., i never questioned it....hai!

Dino
25 Jan 2008 01:41

I don't like pet names but my toy calls me babes or Zee (short, for my name) I call him by the first letter of his name

KeleFabulous
25 Jan 2008 01:51

my brother is a yr older than me and growing up he was slower (an we all know how slow boys are) than me. he couldn't properly say my name (a mouthful for anyone!) so he started calling me Nnana.  Nowadays it's only my grandmother and sometimes my aunt who still call me this otherwise my family only uses this name in times of me needing comfort. when i was a teen i was extrememly moody. they called me madibuseng.

i call the people i like, i'm sure you've noticed, babes. but i'd call my partner babe. i call my sisters "ous mas" from back in the day hane re dladisa and my brother "but' mas" hehehe. this is only reserved for my brother and sisters but if i feel a close connexion to u as a friend then i'll also call u "ous mas" or "but mas"

nice one dimags! u always taking us back

monchooza
25 Jan 2008 01:56

i just found love recently and i i dont have a pet name yet but you guys are giving me ideas on what to call my baby....kodwa i love calling her "S'thandwa sam"

KeleFabulous
25 Jan 2008 01:59

oh, and mas is short for maskhosi...in case you're wondering...

KeleFabulous
25 Jan 2008 02:00

eish monchoo...my ex used to call me that...

Miss K
25 Jan 2008 02:00

My ex and i called each other  mntuwam (my person), i loved that. But my all time favourite is when a man calls me by isiduko sam (my clan name) Magaba. There's this guy who's sheling me right now and i just smile when he calls and says 'Kunjani Magaba?' 

I hate being called baby especially by a brother in the street!

MADENZA
25 Jan 2008 02:23

mina i am called "Papa" and i call her "Mama"
great article Dimago as always.

monchooza
25 Jan 2008 02:37

call me anything but "babes"

Segololo
25 Jan 2008 02:38

Once upon a time, a long long long time ago, in a place far far far away, my then-bf used to call me Mrs Jones... and we would always play Me and Mrs Jones by bill withers... then we decided to shorten it to MJ and then when he started cheating on me he started calling me My love. his name's meaning was conqueror and that is what I called him... He had conquerored my heart... *sigh* a long time ago, I said! 

King K calls me LC - short for "Lucky charm" and he started calling me this, the day we got introduced... Damn! I love my husband!

I hate being called my sister, my sweety... 

I once had a relationship that Dimags did not approve of, I called him Moots, He called me "My cousin"

Dimags, my friend, you have made me reminisce on things I really do not want to recall, Love the article, Sthu!!!

madomado
25 Jan 2008 02:46

Hi everyone, im new. Have been an observer for a while though....

Nice article, Dimago.

When my husband was still my bf, I used to call him Cotton Candy - Now i call him Papa-a-Junior and he calls me Nana


@Monchooza call me anything but "babes". Thank you. I hate it too.


Gucci
25 Jan 2008 02:50

Congrats Monchy!!!

Happy Friday and most of all Payday to some of us!!! Zaphela iingcwangu ebantwini finaly!!!

My friend's BF used to call her "Skhonkwane sam" meaning "My nail as in with the Hammers etc"

Last week on their wedding day the BF analysed the whole meaning behind this......this was the cutest moment ever!!! At least it made sense afterall coz she used to hate it.

This Guy stood infront of the crowd in Reception and said that the day he set his eyes on her he knew that she would build him. He touched on this analogy "One Man's meat is another Man's poison" meaning that when u rebuild a house, the old roofs, bricks, nails etc a person scraps, there's another one building a Home using them....this was schweeet....I had to cry.

Coming to me and My pet names...funny...very Funny!!!

madomado
25 Jan 2008 02:51

Still LMAO @ Sthuthuthu

madomado
25 Jan 2008 02:52

Still LMAO @ Sthuthuthu

lepogo
25 Jan 2008 02:53

Was once called bebe,apparently french.Damned woman.

Normally called by my surname,Xanti or Shrek

Looking for my Fiona

Porche
25 Jan 2008 02:57

My uncle started calling me poppy when I was a baby, I just love it when he calls me that anyway I grew up being his favourite toy, okay I am still his favourite toy, then my mom and dad started calling me Poppy too. My boyfriend calls me larv so I got use to it then I called him that too, but he's got these strange name for our unborn child not even conceive yet "Lehaku" I hate it, so he sometimes calls me "meewalehaku"!!!&shocking.

belz
25 Jan 2008 03:03

I had a bf who used to call me Sthuthuthu > ROFL!!!! hahahahah, and i bet then you would just smile when he said that, me and my bf call each other baby or love, Miss K, i sooooo feel you,my heart warms when he calls me by my clan name, oh.... monchy, your gal is very lucky!!! thats why ususcarce kanje, wish all the hapiness babes....oops sorry monch, wish u all the best my friend!!!

SuddenCute
25 Jan 2008 03:18

meewalehaku lol @ porche

well i used to call my x bf "my sunshine" or the 1st letter of his name.. My mom calls me beefstock, mmasetobela( i dnt no wat it means), mankopo( i had a huge forehead).. she started calling me by them since I was a kid and our neighbours also adopted calling me mankopo even though my forehead is ok now.. My uncle call me pampiri(paper).. his explanation to it is that i was so light when he was holding me and it felt like he was holding a paper

Miss K
25 Jan 2008 03:25

ooh he eh monchooza sukusiqhayisela plz just becoz thina sishumanekile! Jokes man, all the best with your new love. 

Kele are we still holding the flag of singlehood together my frend or nawe u have jumped ship?

TheLady
25 Jan 2008 03:33

I have an ex who calles me sdudla, I hated it sengize ngathobela umthetho manje-I call him Shorty or Shot One coz he is shorter than me...usually I called them by initials first name and secondname or lastname eg RJ ...my very first bf called me Darling in bed only though. Ngesinye isikhathi it was just my baby( sounded like mababy) all his friends and brothers called my baby-sad. One friend of his would go all out and call me mababy wakhe LOL. I called the ex Ngamla or Mlungu he had such a pale skin.
I love it when a guy calls me by my clan name...MaDlamini (Only Zulu guys call you that...I must find myself a Zulu guy) ...hmm...had an ex who calls me that. I called him Papie instead of papa,

Lekese
25 Jan 2008 03:42

Sthuthuthu, i like this article!!

What do you do when the bf calls you by your full name, makes it sound so sexy like you are the only person with that name on the entire planet....then you find he actually has another gal with the very same name hey? This happened to me!!!

I laugh about it these days, then I wasn't laughing, i saw red!!!

Le Good Gal
25 Jan 2008 03:46

My ex used 2 call me "isgubhu sakhe samampela" I hated it, but even when he sees me he still calls me that. my man calls me by my clan name,which is Mamgcina(which is my mother's clan name, my father is Mqwati).  and i call him  by his clan name........ Masango.

tshepiso
25 Jan 2008 03:47

HELOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL BLOGGERS!
ha ha ha I hate to be called " mama ga Tshepo, it make me feel old.
and also to be called "Moropa" if I think well moropa is "drums" for heaven sake!
or my younger brother calls me "oulady ya ga Tshepo" I HATE THAT VERY MUCH

THANK YOU ESKOM TO GIVE ME AN OPPORTUNITY TO CHAT WITH MY FAMILY!

tshepiso
25 Jan 2008 03:54

there are some people  who think if u work for gvt u r better than them and simply calls u "mlungu/misiss I hate that, no work is best, we all work for a rand.

Lekese
25 Jan 2008 04:00

Eish bathong, ndiyafuna ukhe ndibizwe ngesiduko nam. Mhlawumbi kufuneka ndifundise usibali lowa wakwam. Ndikhe ndibukele e friend of mine xa ibiza i gf yayo MamJwara, damn it, simnandi isintu qha ke!!

tshepiso
25 Jan 2008 04:01

Acceptable nicknames for me " honey, Darly, Sweety, my love, my dingetjie,mmmmmmmm...

Le Good Gal
25 Jan 2008 04:03

Thank u Tshepi. Wish I can get sum1 like u 2 explain that 2 my neighbours. Work is work!!! My cousin once called me "mlungu",i hated it.

Le Good Gal
25 Jan 2008 04:10

yho Lekese, u have no idea. when sum 1 u love calls u by ur clan name, mmmmh. u should try it, u'll see what i mean.  Mna andithandi ubizwa ngalamagama ango 'baby, lovey", ungayazi njani? Maybe the poor guy has forgotten ur name, wonqena ukubhuda ngegama lomnye.  Rather call me by my nickname if u feel that my name is 2 difficult or not sexy enough 4u.

Best-Achiever
25 Jan 2008 04:35

my X used to call me Beautiful  and i called him handsome, or he wud col me with my clan and call him with his clan.

my now BF  caall me by my clan and i call him by his clan and sometimes call me "nkulunkulu wami wasemhlabeni". and he sometimes call me by my name especially when we wanna tell me that he loves me,  he takes my hand, look me in the eye and say ngiyakuthanda Best-Achiever

Honeypot
25 Jan 2008 04:39

Great article Dimago: I had a  white French b/f once who used to call me Poo Poo with his deep voice that would make me melt, I don't know what it meant but I liked it  though. Kodwa I lke it when a Zulu guy calls me Mntanami or muntuza wami  it gives me that warm fuzzy feeling. I had chubby b/f called him Pooh Bear, he was so cuddly :)

KeleFabulous
25 Jan 2008 04:54

once worked with a collegue who's husband always used to call her gorgeous. even when he'd call and someone else picked up the phone he'd go "can i pls speak to gorgeous" hehehe the shame was on u if u din't know who gorgeous was. i found it so sweet.

Miss K we are together ma love, togetha!

pullie
25 Jan 2008 06:26

my man calls me "hon" & i just luv it, been cald "babe", "shosho" & luvd all tha names.. my mum calls me "flamingoe" coz she says my legs r so long lyk her favourite bird.... i usd 2 hate it but hv given up now! my dad calls me "ms thing" & its irritating!

belz
25 Jan 2008 06:37

ngiyakuthanda Best-Achiever> LMAO, I find this sooo very funny, i'm sure she doesnt say best achiever, obviously he uses your real name, hihihihi, i've got tears streaming down my eyes ngoba ungihlekisile maan Best Acheiver. Pullie your dad is soo these days , he calls you miss thing, LOL!!!!

tshepiso
25 Jan 2008 06:59

Best Achiever"nkulunkulu wami wasemhlabeni". haai man nkulunkulu tota, a o raa MODIMO ha ha ha ha ha ha! ja neh lekopana le ditshosa tsa banna mo lefatsheng

J-Girl
25 Jan 2008 07:18

Heee hai Miss K...ungu Mamgqosini, Thithiba? oh undi cingise nto

Best-Achiever
25 Jan 2008 07:34

@Belz, he uses my real name, was just giving a pic. 
@Tsepi, i dont understand ur language, translation please!

myname
25 Jan 2008 07:43

oh god i once dated a sotho guy eish. okey my real name is so difficult 2 other ppl so we decided to create a name he was calling mi "muntu waka" or he wil use my surname like Miss Khumalo or his maar Mrs Whatwhat oh undikhumbuza umfi maan. Another one was calling mi "mntana". Kodwa bethunani baby is cool yini kodwa

myname
25 Jan 2008 07:50

i dont like babygirl hayi andimfuni

NTWANA
25 Jan 2008 08:03

I hate Puntsununu especially afta dat Sista Bertina song

belz
25 Jan 2008 08:06

Puntsununu sounds like like you are the young one of a rat, hayi nami andimfuni.

NTWANA
25 Jan 2008 08:15

Puntsununu sounds like like you are the young one of a rat, hay Belz  i'm LMAO

Miss K
25 Jan 2008 08:19

@ J-Girl: Ewe ndinguye uGaba, uThithiba, Cihoshe, noZinga, mmgqosini, umnt' womlambo! Eish let me stop before i get carried away. J-Girl sana ndukicingise ntoni na?

myname
25 Jan 2008 08:23

what about "mama wakwam"

belz
25 Jan 2008 08:26

myname - i think thats for married women who like to be called that, not for me thanks.

Zee Babes!
25 Jan 2008 08:47

@ Best Achiever "nkulunkulu wami wasemhlabeni".   It means you are really doing it for him, he adores the ground you walk on , for him to col you dat.

geza
25 Jan 2008 15:51

My ex  used to call me "my rib" ( Eve was made from Adams rib)and i loved it.

Lushi
26 Jan 2008 02:29

He he he Geza igama lakho sana. What is the meaning?, the Zulu one for gothlapa or the Xhosa 1 which is iCylone/ i Raki.  

Mina I hate it when my b/f call me mama, sisi or couzy - andizalani naye pls otherwise we wouldn`t b doing amanyala.

maphili
26 Jan 2008 04:39

My ex used to call me 'pumpkin' and i loved it and now me and my bf call each other baby or sweety.

azHOT
28 Jan 2008 01:45

nice on sthuthuthu!! sthandwa sam' has the most endearing effect on me...aahhh..to be young again!! babes=so overdone!! baby( pronounced ba-bee) gives me the heebies!! babygal=arrggg!!

geza
28 Jan 2008 03:24

@ Lushi: Eish girl it's the Xhosa 1. My Zulu friends heard my ma screaming that at me when i was a teenager and lets just say they never let me forget it. 

I didn't mind being called mama or mommy.

Pooky
28 Jan 2008 08:07

when he calls me sthandwa sam, i call him my love
mfazi wam, i call him myeni wam
 ngesiduko sami, i call him by his
my baby, i call him my baby- boo
my loving, i call him my lav-lav 
beautiful, i call him handsome
& when he calls me Pooky, i call him Pooky

poshspice
03 May 2008 02:13

my first  b/f and I call each other My Boo, he called one day after 8 years we broke up and said I must listen to usher's song My Boo...its how he feels now abt us, since then we've been calling each other MY BOO 

Strolicious
21 May 2008 03:44

My ex used to call me SIMAMFUZA,Simamfumamfu ,i still do know,why ................i know im late but i had to........isinamumva liyabukwa.

pastor chic
21 May 2008 04:20

I had a bf who used to call me Sthuthuthu (motorbike), at the time I didn’t think much of it, but lately I’ve been thinking, that clearly this guy saw me as something he can ride…hai*shaking my head   ............ROTFLMAO,,,LOL LOL LOL.

thanx strolicious.....iiyo iyo iyo. DIMAGO, whr u at?

Dimago
21 May 2008 04:38

Simamfumamfu LMAO!!! Still better than Sthuthuthu though!


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