Hi Bloggers
Yesterday, out of boredom I read about Alicia Keys getting married. I happened to bump into the info about ex-wife's unhappiness about the whole thing and even calling her (Alicia) a home wrecker.
Before I could pass any judgement, I decided to read more about their situation. Apparently they got married in 2004 and by 2008 they were planning to divorce. There were even rumours that Swizz Beatz (Alicia's hubby) had moved out before they announced their (Him and ex wife) divorce plans or they were separated.
My question is not necessarily about AK and her being a homewrecker. I'm sure most of us have seen and witnessed people (men or women) having affairs during their SEPARATION stage. Obviously the end result would be a divorce.
If someone has been separated from their spouse for a while (let's say 6 months), can we label the next partner a homewrecker? I've never been separated before, but I assume that when you are separated from someone you have "broken up till further notice". I stand to be corrected on this one....
During the separation stage/period, is one not entitled to do whatever they please? Can one be called cheating during this period? When do we draw the line?
Sometimes it happens that the other partner does not want to get divorced, what do you do next? I just think before we label people maybe we just need to get more info on the matter.....
What do you think?
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