Wacko jacko

Written by Michelle02 from the blog Wacko jacko aka micheal jackson on 12 Feb 2010
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Blah blah blah micheal ths micheal that. Yhu andidikwe yile ndoda. Its bn months nw since he has passd away, bt nt a day goes by without hearing abt him and hz drug abuse. I mean the media should find smthng new 2 report on. Y is the poor doctor being arrested anyway, he didnt force wacko jacko 2 take the god damn slpn drugz.....and r those kidz really hs phof? Hai zange ndawa bona amalahle anje......who do they thnk they r fooln here we rnt stupid we cn c those rnt micheals kidz. Heh andikwe nangulo brother wakhe, i dnt even knw hz name bt the with s-curl and umlenco.lol. The jacksons r a crazy bunch even janet is crazy naye. How cn wackoz kidz surface ekhona, doesnt she hv millions of dollarz?

22 Comments

GML
12 Feb 2010 08:47

Nxa

Nokia 5110
12 Feb 2010 08:51

Make that two GML

Green.arrow
12 Feb 2010 09:00

ms.tebby
12 Feb 2010 09:07

bathong kanti gatwe Michelle o tsenwe ke eng today? hayi maan!

lady gaga
12 Feb 2010 09:22

Bosepa fela...................lol

Da Diva
12 Feb 2010 09:31

Mfmm.....

Green.arrow
12 Feb 2010 09:34

hai but GML..lol....i can think of several people i'd just love to hang with on a cool day under the jacaranda shade....and You and Madea (mable simmons) top my list....summer dresses and all....from current affairs to family dramas...i'd have a ball....

cuz-cuz
12 Feb 2010 09:36

sorr y to hijack yo article Michelle 02 I need some advise

A few years back my aunt died in a car accident she had twins and she left my mom as their guardian. one of the twins had always been sick from when she was little. in december when i went home, and we were watching tv dont remember the name of the show but was about HIV/AIDS so my mom turns to me and says there is something i think u should know ,, i am the oldest at home, she tells me one of the twins was born Hiv + the other is negative, after their moms death one of the twins got really sick and when was sent to hospital thats when the doctor told my mom and that the twin wont reach 5 years. This year he is turning 13 and well is not sick but not active as the other twin , he only plays for a while outside and come back in door to stay inside, he is not that emergetic and once in a while he gets wounds that take a while to heal but he is okay. me as their older sister i dont know , he currently doesnt take any medication and my mom neva followed up on how his health is, CD count and all that , she says he is okay Maybe he is cured now and lets let him be a child. i dont know do you think he should know of his HIV status so he cant be careful. if you were in my shoes ( their oldest sister ) would you just let it be or do something (but what).

MakaB
12 Feb 2010 10:05

Firstly i'm with u on this one Michelle02, i'm so sick and tired of MJ and his family, he should just rest now and the media should stop talking about him...................... @ cuz-cuz i understand where u come from, coz i'm also in the same situation at home, but i think the best thing to do is to EDUCATE him on how he should live, teach BOTH your siblings about how to take care of themselves, WITHOUT telling them, (i know only one of them is HIV+ but both of them need to be educated), i think by telling them they will always have this fear that they are going to die, well u and ur family should also be educated as to how to live with a hiv+ person. i hope i help and i hope that ur sibling continues to not get sick.,

GML
12 Feb 2010 10:08

@GA:

I think I would have a blast too. You and me are both opinionated and Madea, Well you know how much fun that would be. A white summer dress, white Straw hat, white flip flops and sun glasses with a nice cocktail in my hand. I feel you GA, I feel you

@Cuz- cuz:

Please dont worry you are not hijacking an article- You're hijacking nonsense qha. And you dont have to apologise for it. It was bound to go off topic anyway.

Back to your dilemma

I think as the older sister you have to discuss HIV and AIDS with them and make sure that they understand it in it's entirety. Then after a while you take both twins and encourage them both to test ( I do believe at 13 they should be in High school).

You must also test and make them believe that they can talk to you about anything. Once they both find out their statuses then they can find comfort in each other as twins and comfort in you as their sister. And then you can take it from there. Remember that you can help them without others knowing until he/they are ready to come clean

I'm not sure if this is the best advise but it's worth a shot. Some people may argue that they are too young to test etc, so it's up to you to help him through this. And to make sure that he wont infect others when he starts having sex

felfel
12 Feb 2010 10:10

Cuz-cuz first step is to take him to a Dr. even a private one and have him tested again to ensure whether he really has the virus and what stage its at and what medical intervention he needs. Its no use telling him of an illness u not even sure of. Tell him u want to take him for a medical check up qha and inform the Dr. of ur concerns. Then u can take it from there.

Tshd21
12 Feb 2010 10:15

Cuz cuz, why dont you write your own article?? Tjo Michelle, you just made my day, this is so funny, your second line killed me ka ditshego, tl tl tl

Green.arrow
12 Feb 2010 10:29

@GML..you completed the picture just perfect now i wish i had a magic wand...

@cuz-cuz,....knowledge is very empowering sisi (on your part, on the kids' part and your entire family), and i pray that God will give you the wisdom to go about this in a way that is best for everyone. I think the ladies have given you some sound advice above. I belive that when you are burdened by an issue in your heart, it means you must do something about it, so do try...

Mathaz
12 Feb 2010 10:49

Tho this is so sad....i'm also dealing with the same issue since we are keeping a secret from my sisters about my mom's status. When my dad died we did not tell the youngest one what he died from but now she is a teenager and last year she started acting up and when we enquired about the change of behaviour she mentioned that she was never told about my father disease, we just told her that he died from Cancer. I dread the day she and other sister would find out about my mom's status.

cuz-cuz
12 Feb 2010 10:55

i do not stay with them ( currently working and staying outside SA) , but there were both tested , one twin is negative and the other is positive (I dont know how that happen). and i have talked to them about HIV/AIDS and to be careful cause mostly as boys they play rough and outside hurt each other n sometimes even blend and luckly my mom had medical kit . The HIV/AIDS talk i have had them and also they know a lot (school has also helped) but i have never took him to Doctor myself and i did ask my mom to take him and my mom said he is okay. The family knows all my aunts and uncle and grandparents, as there was a time he really got sick and as i child he took a lot of medication which we were told years back that he will take the rest of his life ( i was young myself and neva really ask why) but now he no longer takes any medication i dont know why its just us children who were not told this. my mom never knew until my aunt died , my aunt knew but neva told my mom, just my aunt who was the nurse that she talked too.

i was only home for 2 weeks and i will only go back in dec and my mom well i asked her to have him checked again but dont think she will, she says he is well now let just be happy about that. but i am scared what if he gets really sick and it too late for use to do anything. my mom actually hates the medication that is usually given to infected ppl but is it really for us to choose

cuz-cuz
12 Feb 2010 11:02

Mathaz - But why keep it a secret ? well my aunt she died in a car accident so i guess it was neva an issue. By why family doesnt just come out and say it? But in my family those infected never tell so it hard for those left (the elders)to tell us when those who had a disease never told them. they also find out in their medical report that get released after the death

myname
12 Feb 2010 11:03

Yhooo guys, this is some scray & sensitive issue.....I wont spoil coz the bloggers already said some kind words & advices. Masiqineni & we must make sure that we always safe. We r living in a sick & dangerous world bafethu.

Hai wena Michell i 4give u coz its Fridag ngwana.

Bosepa fela...................lol
ya nhe!!!!!!!

Mathaz
12 Feb 2010 11:04

It is just not easy and mom does not feel comfortable with them knowing about her status. It's not easy at all...

cuz-cuz
12 Feb 2010 11:14

kuzolunga Mathaz , we just have to be strong and pray hard for our families and that they find the cure soon. Mina ngivele ngingazi ukuthi ngizothini uma kunje.

GRACIOUSDICK
12 Feb 2010 11:28

I agree,let MJ REST in peace.As for his arrogant father,He can go to the nearest hell.

felfel
12 Feb 2010 11:37

Cuz cuz wat ur mum doesn't seem to understand is that becos this boy is positive he probaly has a weak immune system (u said he gets tired when playing), and will therefore be prone to certain illness like TB, neumonia...etc. Therefore he needs to atleast take certain supplements to support his immune system. Pap en wors (or wateva negative people eat) for supper is not enough for a positive person especially a positive child, his immune system is not strong enough, considering kids eat alot of junk also. So he may not need to be on ARVs right now cos maybe his CD4 count is quiet high, however i do believe that he probably does need to have some kind of multivitamin to support and boost his immune system. Even Bio-strath would be good for him as its contains natural ingredients, since he's probably not eating a lot of fruit and veg cooked in the desirable way for a sickly person.

baby e
12 Feb 2010 12:25

@ Cuz - cuz

it must be really be difficult for you and i will advise that you shoudl be prepared mentally because the infected twin may start hating himself and asking so many questions like why me and not my other twin. and i wil advise that these should be done by a qualified person and who will take them through counselling. it will not be easy. it might be best everything is left the it is until they are both around 21 years.

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