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DRAMA QUEEN!

Written by faraimagic from the blog Straight Sex Talk on 13 Jan 2010
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EMOTIONS
Women need to learn to put the past in the past.One can not bring your Past relationship experiences into a new one....Ladies Stop that Sh!t! Don't bring forth all those bad stuff into your new one

You can not continue to bring pain forward becoz it will only destroy thegood thing you finaly have found,You also have to learn how to NOT give away your YOU and YOUR GOOD INTENTIONS TO THE WRONG PERSON........

SCENE 1
When a young girl desn't have a man/male figure around she doesn'r have an example on how to do it right,all she knows is to FIGHT,so she grows up matching her tired angry mother and that will be the only person she relates to and will probably bring all that anger into her Relationship.

Scene 2 and 3
Women becoz they make bad Decissions And OPEN THEIR LEGS to someboy they shouldn't have been with in the first place now they have HIS CHILD RAISED and this women ALL THE TIME ANGRY raises another ANGRY WOMEN
and she doesn't even know why she is mad,its just Programed into her system or maybe she tries raising a boy,she can't even teach him how to stand up,she can try to do her best as she can but Junior MAn really needs a Senior Figure to teach and show him how to be a man,also to tell him what ever he is doing wrong......

THATS WHY WE  DON"T HAVE A LOT OF GOOD MAN because they don't know how and women when they FIND that good one,They don't know to Love him,Thats why they end their relationships coz they want someone they can blame all the time.It's like Getting married and Don't know how to Cook or maybe Hate SEX..................

CLOSSING SCENE
If you have a man that's coming home to you everyday and doing everything he can to help support his Family and All he ever wants is to take yo Panties off now and then,A home cooked meal,A clean house and dishes just to mention a few and you know very well that it's really not worth 3hrs of nagging and arguing,Can't you just Pick him up? In the name of a relationship and sex.............peace included.LOL
Why should yo man come home and be scared of sticking his key in the door coz he is not sure of Tonight's Drama or Arguing contest going to be............

 SCENE QUESTIONS?
Why do women give man Grief?

In your Relationship Who does the Talking and who does the Arguing?

Is Sex a Routine? ........but you do it anyway.....

The big Q....Committment... are you?

Why do women always have a way to point fingures?

Is the Damn relationship one sided? 

Do women have Anger Issues? or an Angry Up bringing...?

how come most women change as soon as they say I DO?

Who do you listen to the most......Your Patner or your Friends?

Why do most relationships fail?

STUDY SCENE
Numbers show that 78% of South African Children are raised in a home without both their Biological Parents!

SCENE CHANGE
We can Change the world....................

TVSAaNS lets get broad minded?



17 Comments

faraimagic
13 Jan 2010 12:02

what causes all that bad behavior in a relationships?

GML
13 Jan 2010 12:16

1.- I t seems all these "scenes" are opinion rather than fact. I say this because tehy are written as fact and not opinion. I think it would have been nice for you to say that tese are your opinions rather than state them as if it was researched.

what causes all that bad behavior in a relationships?
2- To answer this question I would say that everytime you meet someone and intereact with them on a regular basis we pick up certain traits/behaviors from them. Some behaviours/traits we can let go of some we cant. Other traits are carried out subconsciously without u knowing.
what causes all that bad behavior in a relationships?
With this said bad behaviour in relationships is often a trait learned from someone, either consciously or subconsciously. Sometimes we perceive relationships in a certain way and we then convince ourselves that the best way to handle the relationship is to do certain things, which may be deemed as "bad behaviours".

Like not talking to someone because you want them to feel bad is a bad behaviour because we looked at the situation and perceived it as needing a certain action/behaviour to make things right. Which never really helps..

faraimagic
13 Jan 2010 12:24

GML    why do you twist everything and nake it about the aurthor?  wena just fing wat you can respond to and respond...this ain't a competition phela,and yes i have researched some of these facts or opinions...

It's funny how we all do it mara have little to say about relationships,we all experience different experiences,you may think yours is bad mara maybe better compared to the next person....and oliz lets not make this about me coz im in a very good wana get married soon relationship...This is in general nje! just Brainstorming! Questioning your true feelings? your experiences?thats all.

faraimagic
13 Jan 2010 12:26

Women than men have anger issues! thats a fact and i will prove it on this article....women will get angry first if they don't ignore it LOL...You will see!

GML
13 Jan 2010 12:35

@Farai:

Mara I did answer you hawu. I would have been more comfortable knowing where your research comes from that's all.

Read my response again

Best-Achiever
13 Jan 2010 14:03

was this written by a DRAMA KING?

Best-Achiever
13 Jan 2010 14:03

was this written by a DRAMA KING?

blaqueboi
13 Jan 2010 14:07

lol, Im confused. Eish maybe its the colours but Im struggling to follow the gist of this article.

nice
13 Jan 2010 14:15

We can Change the world....................

Yes we can!!

I want to answer on this blog, but dont know where to begin Sasha, it will be more than eating an elephant, but I will try

blaqueboi
13 Jan 2010 14:21

I want to answer on this blog, but dont know where to begin Sasha, it will be more than eating an elephant,

lol, yeah there is just too much and its kinda hard to pick what to respond to.

All i can say is that what I have learnt in life and through tvsa responses is that "we teach people how to treat us". As cliche as it may sound... it's true

Da Diva
13 Jan 2010 14:32

Hey guyz Research proves that 4rom 1968-2000 WOMEN spoke 50 words and MEN 5 words a minute bt 4m 2001 till 2day Everything has changed MEN speak 5000 words and WOMEN 15 words per minute!!!!! LOL!!!! tl tl tl tl

sponono
13 Jan 2010 14:53

SOME  MEN say  5000 words..and still dont make sense......(nudge nudge wink wink)......LOL  jus kiddin y'all

sesikavincent
13 Jan 2010 16:14

sesikavincent
13 Jan 2010 16:15

made my day sponono..................bye people

monchooza
13 Jan 2010 16:37

Generalising is very dangerous....

Vesa
13 Jan 2010 17:22

Shoooo....the article is sreaming soo much. 

Guess it was written by a drama king? lol

SistaBB
13 Jan 2010 22:16

When a young girl desn't have a man/male figure around she doesn'r have an example on how to do it right,all she knows is to FIGHT,so she grows up matching her tired angry mother and that will be the only person she relates to and will probably bring all that anger into her Relationship.
Is this a fact or your own view? ...I was grew up without a father/man/male figure in my life and I never FIGHT, even the cyber fights on TVSA if I sense that some1 might have been offended by my response I quickly ask for forgiveness and avoid responding to that blogger's comments in future.

Women becoz they make bad Decissions And OPEN THEIR LEGS to someboy they shouldn't have been with in the first place now they have HIS CHILD RAISED and this women ALL THE TIME ANGRY raises another ANGRY WOMEN 
Life has no formula, we can never predict that we are not supposed to be in a relationship with a certain some1 and we end up "opening our legs" which I dont see anything wrong with it.

BTW, I might have not got the essence in this article, maybe because of language barrier but I tried...


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