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Your Dream Wedding

Written by Tholi from the blog In the Mood on 20 Nov 2009
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I know most of us ladies, we always convince ourselves and say we don't wanna get married. but the fact is, we all would love to walk down the isle. saying we DO to our soul mates. right ladies? lol

But with us black people there's a culture thing called Lobola Negitiations, where there's no way we can skip it. most of families don't see eye to eye when it comes to this so it takes a little bit long before the wedding can take place.

Some people like the small wedding with just 100 or less guests! But most of us like the big wedding with 300 guests or more.

Please don't step on my dress honey!

I can't believe I'm getting married to President Zuma's Daughter! let me pintch myself and see if i'm not dreaming!

Wow,babes r u sure u not gonna leave me? tjo u too cute for me.

Oh my God how am I going to tell her to hide the bloody bra?

Haybo! stop it sweetie my parents r here , they won't like it when their daughter in -law kisses the hubby like this in front of everyone. save it for the bedroom!

OMW! If she can shake it like that in bed too, daam she fire burning!!

wow sweetie pie, finally we made it!!

Tjo! u r a little bit heavier, but i'm glad u r mine 4ever.

Bloggers, what kinda wedding would u like, Small? Big? at your parents' house? at the 5 star hotel? at the national park?
If u already married, please tell us about wedding!!

Pics: Sowetan and my inbox.

124 Comments

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 10:41

I would like to have a big wedding! at my parents' house and invite everyone i know in the community!!

blueroze
20 Nov 2009 10:46

kwa kwa you like to true love wedding and engagements like i do
i'll read and reply shortly

Floh
20 Nov 2009 10:46

I have the last pic in my inbox, simple wedding.

Mathaz
20 Nov 2009 10:46

I had a small traditional wedding, we had about 50 guests and it was the best. No debts incurred.....

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 10:50

wow! Mthaz only 50? tjo my family member r more than 50 let alone friends and community!

cleve
20 Nov 2009 10:50

Nice!!!!!!!!

Nonny
20 Nov 2009 10:57

Is that Thomas and Unathi on the first pic?

blueroze
20 Nov 2009 10:57

i cant have 50 people in my wedding
i want masses at my wedding
a margquee and a brass band
a typical rustenburg wedding
even though i am not from rusti

Nonny
20 Nov 2009 10:59

I love wife or pciture no.3's wedding dress, without the lacy thing she is wearing.

Cody
20 Nov 2009 11:02

margquee and a brass band

LOL Blue, tell me you are joking......

cleve
20 Nov 2009 11:03

I love the last pic, jsut goes to show who they really are and not trying to show off something they aren't.

Okay mina I am married but didn't have a white wedding coz my dream wedding is too expensive. I will have 3 weddings............. LOL one in witbank, Venda and Gauteng somwhere.

The one in GP will be lavish just for the few family and friends. That's the one that excites me the most because I will do excalty WHat I want.

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 11:03

Is that Thomas and Unathi on the first pic?
Yep its them Nonny on their wedding day!

blueroze
20 Nov 2009 11:05

margquee and a brass band

LOL Blue, tell me you are joking......

i am Cody

cleve
20 Nov 2009 11:06

When did Zuma's daughter get married???

blackstar
20 Nov 2009 11:06

whether the weeding is big or small it doesnt matter.... what matters is the person you marrying.... if he is indeed your soul mate, you signing your life away to be with this person till death do you part ( oh well nowadays till divorce do you apart), my dream is to meet someone who bests suits me and understand me someone who will love me unconditionally... singaya kobhala for all i care so long as i will be content afterwards.

a friend of mine wrote a very interesting peom/letter to a soulmate that i think it's worth sharing

Dear soul mate
Maybe we have crossed paths, maybe we haven’t met or maybe we will never meet….. irrespective of this sad reality I still have to let you know how I feel.
For You are the reason I look forward to getting out of bed in the morning and going to sleep at night. You are the reason behind my amiable fantasies and the driving force for my existence. You are the reason for my lasting smiles and endless cries, you are the reason behind my dim-witted thoughts and my pre-emptive actions. You are the mainstay for my personal growth and the bastion of my demise,
You are the perpetuator of my impatience and the enabler of my enduarance. You are the core of my dreams. You are the reason for my hopes and an acquirer of my faith.
You are the rationale behind endless conversations with friends and the effector of happily ever afters. You are the reason for our intellectual talks and funny titbit. You are the reason behind my endless bickering and the one behind my daily smiles. You are the reason for my longing and despressing searches. The one behind my due disappointments and the sweet excitement. You are the motive for the maximization of my utility and the baseline indicator for my success. I long to be united with you for you are the only one that can fill this annulled and emptiness I have. I feel as if my life will never be content unless I found you. I hope we do end up crossing paths even if it will be concise , to know that I got a chance to meet you, to love, to grow and feel complete (if that ever exists )will be fulfilling but If we don’t ever cross paths at least you’ll know how I feel
Yours sincerely
Your soulmate

Nonny
20 Nov 2009 11:10

Is that Thomas and Unathi on the first pic?
Yep its them Nonny on their wedding day!
Thanks Tholi, siyamubongela bandla u-Unathi, after waiting for centuries.

Best-Achiever
20 Nov 2009 11:12

We will have two weddings

White wedding... just two families 80 guests... in a Nature Game Reserve, when the sun rises, sky seem redish, i will be saying yes i do ...LOL ...
Then the traditional wedding where the whole community will be there without any invitation or present... typically 'White Wedding' wedding ...LOL hhayi ke lapho ... kuyodela umkhasane kuyosinwa kudedelwane ....

afternoon
20 Nov 2009 11:12

Tholi thanx, i love weddings coz mine is coming soon & you gonna get an invite if i can get a brillian idea from this blod, lol. but mine is going to be outside the country & in Zeerust

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 11:14

Wow, nice one blackstar, big up to your friend!

When did Zuma's daughter get married???

@Cleve, In December Last year gal, with a Zimbabwean guy. He's the son of MDC general secretary .

Cody
20 Nov 2009 11:18

ahh! that will be too cute BA!

nna im not gonna have a white wedding. it will be just me, my man, 2 witnesses and the magistrate.Im avoiding witchcraft......tl tl tl!

zozoe
20 Nov 2009 11:19

Reply from: Nonny 11/20/2009 5:10:46 PM

Is that Thomas and Unathi on the first pic?
Yep its them Nonny on their wedding day!
Thanks Tholi, siyamubongela bandla u-Unathi, after waiting for centuries
lol Nonny

maddie
20 Nov 2009 11:22

the person u're getting married to is the most important thing, whether u go traditional, white wedding or just signing at magistrate's office it will not matter as long as you're content with the the one you're marrying and she/he is also content

afternoon
20 Nov 2009 11:23

blacks & witchcraft bathong Cody!
Tholi we need you on the other article my sister, LOL (u know where you gave us first aid, just a few questions there for you!)

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 11:25

nna im not gonna have a white wedding. it will be just me, my man, 2 witnesses and the magistrate.Im avoiding witchcraft......tl tl tl!
kwakwakwakwakwakwa!!! Good idea Cody.

@BA, u must write to the invitations that "ALL GIFTS ARE WELLCOME!"

@Afternoon, I can't wait for my invite to Zeerust with accomodation and transport PAID by the bride! lol

I want 8 Bridemaids, 5 Flowergals, 2 teenage gals (extras) and Maid of houner.

Nonny
20 Nov 2009 11:31

I want 8 Bridemaids, 5 Flowergals, 2 teenage gals (extras) and Maid of houner.
ahahahhahahahahahahahah LMAO

jinxed
20 Nov 2009 11:32

well i already know what i want, a typical kasi wedding. white wedding,matrimonial ceremony @church, then receprion at my home ,second recepetion at mr j homes- we are from the same area so it wont be a hassle. change to my tradional attire at the go dance as much as i want 2 home and the same thing at Mr J's home.

next day which will be a Sunday i wear my white gown again for a professional photoshoot and then we go to our home where will have a braai with frriends and family, open our gifts and then go jewa leoto.

tsa go ba makoti ke tla di thoma ka mantaga, i hate this part my fiance is insisting i have to stay at his homw with his parents at least a month after the wedding.

i have the colour themes, the dress pattern,i know who my bridesmaids will be bona yonke into nje.

jinxed
20 Nov 2009 11:37

i love weddings, i think i would become a wedding plannner soon,my friends and family know this already and therefore they always involve me. its a lot of a work to organise a wedding though.

i also make handmade invitations cards,wedding favours,gift boxes,menus and programmes and that is why i already know what i want from invites to whatever you can think of its all there waiting to be implemented.

lady gaga
20 Nov 2009 11:38

GML where the hell are u, this is for u too sister as u'll be tying the knot soon, pls share ur fantasies........................lol!!

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 11:38

LMAO @ Jinxed, thats the part u'll never run away from.
kimele ukotize phela. make coffee for the mamazala everytime 2 after 2 hours everyday, cook for them, clean the house, do everyone's laundry.

baby e
20 Nov 2009 11:39

I DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED BECAUSE I HATE THE WHOLE WEDDING PROCEDURES but my dream wedding

part 1,
the traditional one at my home village, this will also be the day for the ntsho ya bogadi. food will be tradional, seswaa, mabele, bogobe jwa lekatane, mosutlhwane, nama ya podi, kgogo ya setswana, no salads.
Drinks - traditional beer and gemere (the one brewed with pine apple)
everyone will be invited. dress code for the village married women will be the german print blue one.

part 2
in a game reserve that i so love. around 100 people.

part 3
at the imaginary hubby's home - kgoroso ya mosadi. celebration equivalent to what we had at my home to balance out.

thing is my parents will not allow this because as the youngest so far and being the first one to get married at our home, they will insist that i have the big one at our home village.

cleve
20 Nov 2009 11:42

hate this part my fiance is insisting i have to stay at his homw with his parents at least a month after the wedding.

Organise a honeymoon even if it's to Durban and then you tell him it's a suprise. That Monday you board a plane off you go to Durban and when you come back you act sick from the sea water...................................

Calendar
20 Nov 2009 11:45

Haai lona mare...... you killing me.

@Blueroze - I am from Rustenburg and the weddings there are amazing. You cannot have a wedding without a Brass band - it's an insult LOL. Ko go batlela ledonga ko Rustenburg... better yet ko family ya ko gae.

Cody
20 Nov 2009 11:46

LOL! afternoon before you get a heart attack, im just joking maluv....lol at so many brides maides Tholi! sho!!

monchooza
20 Nov 2009 11:46

I want to have 2 weddings
1 very intimate with just very close friends and very close family members 70 max guests
2 township show off, with the slaughtering of cows and free booze and all with the step thing estradeni no limits to the number of people invited (the whole kasie must be there)

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 11:48

hahahahahahaha!!! Cleve! u so clever thats a good idea.
i will use on myself too when i get married one day. cos i'm in Durban will organise a honeymoon in Cape Town!

blueroze
20 Nov 2009 11:50

Organise a honeymoon even if it's to Durban and then you tell him it's a suprise. That Monday you board a plane off you go to Durban and when you come back you act sick from the sea water...................................idea e e tlo sebetsa esp if one can act

blueroze
20 Nov 2009 11:53

@Blueroze - I am from Rustenburg and the weddings there are amazing. You cannot have a wedding without a Brass band - it's an insult LOL. Ko go batlela ledonga ko Rustenburg... better yet ko family ya ko gae.

i know about the brass band, and i enjoy their weddings
on ledonga part, do that and PM me

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 11:57

Guys feel free to advertise yourselves here if u r Wedding Planers or know anyone who can give brilliant ideas. so some people like Afternoon can get help!

afternoon
20 Nov 2009 12:09

yes Tholi i want those ideas plus u want to crack an invite, LOL.
I have an idea of my wedding already but i might get something additional or advice

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 12:09

LMAO Cheesa, phela Mshoza is a Millionaire.

What Promises u talking about Dear, please remind me!

jinxed
20 Nov 2009 12:11

that advice will get me into serious trouble. i really do not mind doing it because so far they are nice people it will me a chance to bond but aowa the whole month. mara waitsi ke eng, kw tla mmotsa he has to come with me so we can have our little fun at night. i cant imagine being away from him just after the wedding.

BigMama
20 Nov 2009 12:15

l will be back on Monday for comments the weather in Jozi is forcing me to keep my hands in between my thighs.....

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 12:16

I want a wedding like the one on Madea's Family Reunion.
with Angels everywhere, a Paris Shaped Cake! lol

and whoooooo!!! can't wait to be with hubby a night after the wedding!

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 12:23

hahahaha!! Cheesa, sorry gal I forgot to Credit my sources!

Phikza
20 Nov 2009 12:27

l will be back on Monday for comments the weather in Jozi is forcing me to keep my hands in between my thighs.....
shem BigMama o tshaba serame neh,lol

Sslave
20 Nov 2009 12:28

LMAO BM you might as well take out your dildo whilst yo at it.

Sslave
20 Nov 2009 12:35

My dream wedding has to be under the water. Even though I cant swim, i want to get married in a transparent submarine under the sea and the food will only sea food. My wedding dress will be shaped like a mermaid (an improved version of Unathi's dress) and husband has to wear the diving thingies so he can save me in case of emergency. I want to say I do in the presence of sharks and all sea creatures.

I don't think a lot of people will come to our wedding but i will issue out invites to everyone i meet.

Pooky
20 Nov 2009 12:41

the kissing couple remind me of all the Generation kissing scenes...awful

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 12:42

@Sslave....Please DO NOT INVITE ME!!!lol

Mafresh
20 Nov 2009 12:52

To all the bride 2 b's, le sa lebala a prenuptial agreement , this is very important.

Ay Sslave u really can dream nhee!!!!!!!!!

lady gaga
20 Nov 2009 12:54

Sslaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaave!!!!!..............................lmaol

afternoon
20 Nov 2009 12:57

mafresh ka chomi bathong...what is that?

GML
20 Nov 2009 12:57

I'm having my traditional stuff on 12 December. Will be in Full Zulu attire. then later that night I'm taken to in laws

My wedding will take place in March (long weekend) on the banks of the vaal river at a lodge..

Depending on the weather I will have the service in the garden (Management will determine suitability because of the weather). Afternoon service

I have 140 guests(ministers, photographers included).
2 bar men and it will be a buffet style (main and dessert). Starters will be served (seated).

Reception will be help at the main Lapa. Evening reception as candles will be nicer then
Centrepieces are candles (floating, square and round candles)- Flowers on main table only.
Gold or silver underplates, napkins tied with Ribbon (my colour) with programs wrapped inside the napkins.

Thank you gifts are candles with our picture and a message... I totally love candles

afternoon
20 Nov 2009 13:00

eish the kissing copule, why is her hair so messed up, is it a result of the kiss? lmao....that girl reminds me of someone i know here on TVSA and that person is getting married sometime next year
Sslave dont give me your invitation when you meet me on the road!

poshspice
20 Nov 2009 13:01

jinxed...when I got married the pastor said he hoped we had found our own place to stay already because he doesn't support the idea of living with in-laws....

he used to say let parents, friends and the pastor visit for lunch or dinner, that's all...or a weekend and go back home...couples should stay alone from the day they are married to each other....to avoid conflict with in-laws

I mean for three months you won't be yourself, trying to impress and can't voice your opinions freely !!!!

but if your man strongly believes in it...it's a bit difficult to get out of it .good luck

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 13:02

@GML, i am emagining it right now. sound so cool, i love it. Enjoy gal.
I can't wait to see the pictures of the Zulu attire.

Mafresh
20 Nov 2009 13:03

GML is it ko Stonehaven, or anywhere around it?

GML
20 Nov 2009 13:08

@Mafresh: When I went to Stonehaven it was small and wouldnt take 140 guests.
I hate the fact that the restaurant does not close when they have a wedding. I wont be comfortable knowing that people will be able to see everything that happens while they have lunch.

I was tempted to arrive on the fairyboat. My baby sister said she is going nowhere the water- so i had to opt for cars........

@tholi: Ask BigM about the Zulu Attire....lol

Cody
20 Nov 2009 13:09

that's nice GML, o ngwana ko kasie for sure. all the best weddings in the vaal are held at the vaal river lodge. cool man! did you invite my cousin?

afternoon
20 Nov 2009 13:17

GML...is Bigmama your best lady, you referring everything to her, lol.

GML
20 Nov 2009 13:20

NO ways Cody

He and his white friend will take over the place. Did you know that his friend was my BF in Primary? lol

afternoon
20 Nov 2009 13:22

GML, who is Zulu, you or your hubby? if you dont mind my asking but its all innocent Q

GML
20 Nov 2009 13:22

@afternoon.

She is the coordinator... lol.
She is my shoulder
She tells me straight when my ideas are crap.

Not just her. She is the only1 blogging today. If others were blogging I would refer you to them as well.......lol

nekzo
20 Nov 2009 13:22

ke kopa invite hle GML phela wena o mogotsi wa ka......kwakwakwakwakwa

GML
20 Nov 2009 13:23

I'm Zulu afternoon

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 13:26

kwakwakwakwa @Nekzo

Cody
20 Nov 2009 13:30

NO ways Cody

He and his white friend will take over the place. Did you know that his friend was my BF in Primary? lol

LMAO!! i thought you would say that....he has lots of white friends now, o rata makgowa ngwana ole, does his name friends name start with "La..." if its him, all i have to say to you is...yucky!!!!!!! what the h**** did you see in him?? My cousin is a father now, he has grown up, i am sure he wont take over your wedding lol!

GML
20 Nov 2009 13:30

@nekzo: Not every1 can come to the wedding. Close friends and family only. December 12 every1 is welcome, provided you're wearing traditional clothing

Oh.

No kids allowed at the wedding. It's an evening wedding therefore it will be romantic. Bana ba tlo senya alles.

And they will fall into the river- NO KIDS

GML
20 Nov 2009 13:33

@Cody

That's the one... "La"

He was cute in Primary phela, Plus he was the Headboy mos. he gave me my head girl badge ka prize giving cos I was a year behind him. lol.

Mara he is still skinny. your cuz sent me a pic of him. yucky indeed

Mafresh
20 Nov 2009 13:36

12 Dec on my Diary, plus i'll get a chance of meeting boCody, Big Mama and the rest. As for traditional attire, ska wara wena, i've got plenty. Wena just PM me da address and nna i'll be there.

nekzo
20 Nov 2009 13:37

@GML i'm kidding my dear,enjoy your day o be montle and dont cry and mess up your make,

Cody
20 Nov 2009 13:43

LMAO!!!!!! GML sho!!!! im speechless, "La" of all people? sherrrr that child is something else. he is still skinny and orogana strong ka sesotho!

Freshie! I am not invited...sob sob sob! its a small wedding akere?

afternoon
20 Nov 2009 13:43

lmao! @ you mafresh....inviting yourself(anyway you are invited via the blog)
GML you can stop now sisi you are shining a lot...and brighter than some of us.
Anyone getting married soon, anymore ideas. nna im doing a kasi style kinda wedding the whole community is coming so i want ideas along that. i should attend weddings a lot these days, uninvited

nekzo
20 Nov 2009 13:44

o be montle ga golo ka traditional day ya gago GML bo MaFresh ga ke ba tshepe batlatla ba e popone mole...........LOL joking guys

GML
20 Nov 2009 13:44

@nekzo:

I didn't take you seriously dear.lol. but you are more than welcome at the traditional wedding. Phela with that one the whole community is invited. lol

Mafresh: I live near the De Deur police station. Di plotong..... lol

zimdola
20 Nov 2009 13:45

Maybe Tholi should change the title of this article to GML's Wedding happening in December at (Venue)

BigMama
20 Nov 2009 13:47

@afternoon......hahahaha, don't worry your time to shine will come.
@mafresh....unfortunately l will be in another wedding in Swaziland.

On my wedding everyone is invited, just need to contact GML and she will send the invites.

Cody
20 Nov 2009 13:50

Jealousy makes you nasty zim tlogela ngwana o mong a shiner akere this is a wedding article vele

Centrepiece
20 Nov 2009 13:51

I am glad that i am not the marrage type huh!!

BigMama
20 Nov 2009 13:51

@zimdola.......Can you out shine a Proud Black Woman, GML is proud about this wedding and fully committed. l am proud of her...

GML
20 Nov 2009 13:52

@Cody.

he was cute back then. Your cousin's GF was "La's" brother mos. The girl and I were in the same class. your cousin taught La ditlapa. He used to write me sweet love letters. lol.

@afternoon: sorry dear- I didnt mean to shine in on your shine. lol
I have pics with great ideas to help you. PM me. lol

BigMama
20 Nov 2009 13:53

@CP....did you run this side, don't worry mngane your day will come.

GML
20 Nov 2009 13:59

@zimdola.

There is no need to change any titles. I was just merely doing what the article asked

Bloggers, what kinda wedding would u like, Small? Big? at your parents' house? at the 5 star hotel? at the national park?
If u already married, please tell us about wedding!!

If bloggers want to ask me questions about what I posted then I will answer them. But then again Cody and I went off topic.... Sorry Tholi.

No more talking about my wedding. I dont want to jinx it. Jinxed did you get my mail?

Centrepiece
20 Nov 2009 13:59

Hayi wena BM you were the first one to run then i followed, by the way where is everyone?

Mafresh
20 Nov 2009 14:00

Ao bathong there goes my chance of seing bloggers. Ska wara wena GML, Ke ndawo tsaka tseo. I have a relatives staying ko Iron Side and Debonair park.
@afternoon, phela its a traditional wedding bathong, everyone is invited, hao.

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 14:05

@Centrepiece, HOW R U MKHAYA! I'm glad this article brought u and Nonny back.

@Zim, hahahahaha!!!! let her shine bathong, u only get married once! *ok, when u won't get divorce*

@Afternoon, if your wedding is after GML, Can i ask GML to invite u so u can get more ideas....lol

Cody
20 Nov 2009 14:06

LOL Freshie!! ya you want to go to the wedding neh....lol!

GML
20 Nov 2009 14:06

@Mafresh: I live ko DP exactly. You must come. lol

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 14:08

@GML, no problem gal, its a wedding blog anyway. see now u have helped a lot, Mafresh just got an invite to attend. lol

zimdola
20 Nov 2009 14:17

@Zim, hahahahaha!!!! let her shine bathong, u only get married once! *ok, when u won't get divorce*
Tholi safa bo she has been shinning since for ever everytime she replies to an article she talks of nothing but hubby LOL

I am not jelous bantu ngikhathele nje that's all and whatever happened to freedom of speech kanti

jinxed
20 Nov 2009 14:28

Jinxed did you get my mail?

yes i did an di responded.

my cousin was thrown a surprise wedding last year,that freaked me out. it takes away the fun of preparing for your day they way you want it. but i think the husband rushed it because she was preg with a second child and they were not married.

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 14:30

kwakwakwakwakwakwakwa!!! Zim bathong, sorry gal. After the wedding we won't hear anything about the hubby! lol

BigMama
20 Nov 2009 14:30

Whatever zimdollar, wait till l start talking about mine, you will throw up. If you are excited about what you have achieved do you stop talking about it, mina l don't and l make sure that even those who don't to hear it, it falls in their ears. So GML, l want to answer each and every question that the other bloggers ask, you not forcing them ask anything so let your Light shine gal, don't be scared...

BigMama
20 Nov 2009 14:33

@Tholi......After the wedding l want to hear everything about the honeymoon, who took leftovers home, what miss tebby's present was, what cody was wearing and whose arms was she under....Zimdollar can go and try to bring back value in herself(not personal but the Zim dollar $ the currency)

zimdola
20 Nov 2009 14:40

BigMama hlisa umoya mntakama beng'khuluma noTholi noGML or are you GML now coz I don't remember mentioning your name on my above replies, hlisumoya please siyezwana? Awuzwe ke

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 14:44

l want to hear everything about the honeymoon, who took leftovers home,
hahahahahahaha!!!!! I think i know who's gonna take leftovers home. tl tl tl tl tl

@jinxed, wow thats so scary...!!!

GML
20 Nov 2009 14:45

Whoooooooooooooooo.

Am I still the topic at hand??? It's so nice to know.

I find that it's better to talk about yourself than to talk about other peoples business.

I'm sure if I had been complaining about my husband saying how inconsiderate and what a dog her is the responses would be different.

Sorry to disappoint you Tholi, people expected me to stop talking about him 6months after we started dating. It never happened. Don't hold your breath about this one After the wedding we won't hear anything about the hubby! lol

mathata
20 Nov 2009 14:47

i dont like weddings,birth days i never have one,maybe things will change bcs of bambino.

i hate to spend money on things like this,i better design expesive ring if is over i can sell it.

wedding... they eat,n start to ask you how can you love (skilbog men)cross eyes....ppl.

Cande
20 Nov 2009 14:48

jealousy makes you nasty

BigMama
20 Nov 2009 14:51

@Cande.......Fosho mngane.

Mafresh
20 Nov 2009 14:52

GML I'm coming, self personally ka nama, dark or blue

BigMama
20 Nov 2009 14:52

@Zimdollar......The wedding talks will continue wether you like it or not....

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 14:58

Don't hold your breath about this one After the wedding we won't hear anything about the hubby! lol

@GML, I thought that after the wedding we will start hearing about the kids. phela u mamazala wants to have grandchildren gal. lol

@Mathata, wena, U like money too much..selling your wedding rind..I don't this its a good thing to do.

zimdola
20 Nov 2009 15:00

@Zimdollar......The wedding talks will continue wether you like it or not....
BigMama I will say this again mntakama, hlisa umoya

I don't understand how can I be jealous of someone I don't even know, never even met LOL hayi ngumsangano nje kuphela lowo

GML uyakhuluma ngawe nyabby yena? LOL

mathata
20 Nov 2009 15:06

@tholi ,im cheap,thats the problem.

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 15:09

Really Cheesa, on my way there now.

GML
20 Nov 2009 15:21

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.

I'm flattered really guys. Nisakhhuluma ngami namanje?
yoh, i must have really pissed Zim off.

BigM: Thnx my friend.When you have something good to talk about people become annoyed. Mara once you start talking negative people want to know more. You can never satisfy abantu. Especially..........................

Tholi: Umamazala wants kids like no one's business. She will have to wait. I told her to wait.... SO i guess it's hubby for now. Sorry Zim....

@Mafresh: I would love for you to come. The more the merrier.

@Zim: You sound like a bitter person. I really hope you're not. I would hate to think that you have no one to talk about- If you do, you are more than welcome to talk about shim. After all you did mention something about freedom of speech....You sound like a nice person (dont ruin the image i have of you please) ROTFLMBBAO

BigMama
20 Nov 2009 15:22

Hurry Tholi kubi....Someone is spitting fire, she needs answers..

zimdola
20 Nov 2009 15:35

@Zim: You sound like a bitter person. I really hope you're not. I would hate to think that you have no one to talk about- If you do, you are more than welcome to talk about shim. After all you did mention something about freedom of speech....You sound like a nice person (dont ruin the image i have of you please) ROTFLMBBAO
GML I am glad its a one on one now, I don't know why were people talking on your behalf as if awukwazi ukuzikhulumela wena LOL.
I don't need a shim mina, I love being single.
You are a nice person yourself, but this hubby talk (everytime) of yours is just too much. Dont get me wrong there is nothing wrong with you talking about him but not all the time coz wena umenze some idol now, you sing praises of him and you worship him. The God that we serve is jealous God and He does not want us to put any man before Him.

Congratulations anyway but please tell people who cares bout him all the time (you can tell us once in a while thina) coz we do not know you guys and we do not care what he says or does for you. So please tell your family and friends

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 15:38

Yes she is fuming BigMama, unfortuately. she came on a wrong time, I'm not in the mood for arguing!!! lol

spice
20 Nov 2009 15:46

WTF is this ??????????????????

Heartsbreaker
20 Nov 2009 15:49

Zim Zim Zim Zim Zimdola......Bothata keng sisi??.........Iyho! GML maybe Zimdola is one of Hubby's Ex............She just doesn't know how to spit it out....Lol Lol Lol.........Zimie...Lmao.

<<<@Zim: You sound like a bitter person>>>.....You can say that again.....she does.

GML
20 Nov 2009 15:50

Aaaaah shame Zim.

I knew that you were single..... Any blind fool can tell from your responses. It's so full of loneliness and bitterness, it's sad.

I'm glad you know and can quote your bible dear

The God that we serve is jealous God and He does not want us to put any man before Him.

I hope you dont use this line as an excuse as to why you dont have a man. Or maybe it's because no man finds you attractive? Whatever it is I'm really sorry and I feel your pain.

You probably do need to get laid, as the "salt" is getting to your head now.

but please tell people who cares bout him all the time (you can tell us once in a while thina
I'm pretty sure you mentioned something about freedom of speech. I suggest ou exercise it on your blog, better still right an article about it. If it will make you feel any better....

Like I said, I would rather talk about myself than to talk about other people. My life is not that dull that I have to talk about other people, like you're busy doing. Complaining about me. It really is sad.

There you go- you have made me all mean.... I will pray for you tonight. I wil ask God to send you a good man(Like mine)- or maybe I should ask him to send you a good shag.... Wither way I will pray for you...

If I dont comment to any of your responses today, dont think I ran away. I'm off to our Friday Bar sessions. I'll have a tot just for you dearie..... It seems you need one...

Bye all.... Enjoy your weekend.

Cande
20 Nov 2009 15:53

He bathong who do you want her to talk about?? the neighbour's dogs or the cleaning ladies @ work?? It shows that what they have is true love and you could learn a thing or two from their relationship.. When you love someone they are always on your mind and you just wanna talk about them all the time coz that makes you happy.. Wena who decides gore who do you talk about or when you should talk about them

Tholi
20 Nov 2009 15:54

Guys, mommy has to go now...Please play nice on my Article!
Have a great weekend!

nekzo
20 Nov 2009 15:57

yes bye everyone enjoy your weekend

BigMama
20 Nov 2009 16:06

hahahahaha, hehehehehe Zim zim zim, Enjoy the weekend and the weather is not good for all the singles in Jozi, l hope you do have an electric blanket, it will do you some justice a little bit...

Bye Bloggers, have a safe and warm weekend...

afternoon
20 Nov 2009 16:07

Tholi when did you add the last 2 pictures?

zimdola
20 Nov 2009 16:15

BigMama I am not in Jozi and it's hot where I am

LOL why is everyone attacking me? I am not fighting, I am bitter, I am just sick of this GML thing telling us about nyabby all the time when she replies to an article mo TVSA. LOL GML I could not finish the letter you wrote me dearie, but you sound angry mngani enjoy the wedding LOL

Let me try reading the letter again LOL

zimdola
20 Nov 2009 16:28

There you go- you have made me all mean.... I will pray for you tonight. I wil ask God to send you a good man(Like mine)- or maybe I should ask him to send you a good shag.... Wither way I will pray for you...
LOL GML I asked you if nyabby talks about you at all as much as you do wena?

Relax dearie, dont let strangers upset you
You see I'm not worked up with what aboCande are saying to me right now coz bengingakhulumi nabo

mathata
20 Nov 2009 17:09

let me recharge myself with porn!lot to learn esp after losing some LBS,......

Segololo
20 Nov 2009 22:50

blueroze<<a typical rustenburg wedding >> lol! but offended... lol! hau bathong! brass band??? which part of rusti was this? no, blue... typical rusti? haibo

SistaBB
21 Nov 2009 11:29

I'm glad you know and can quote your bible dear

The God that we serve is jealous God and He does not want us to put any man before Him.
This is so Tyler Perry's Diary of a Mad Black Woman, GML. No Bible here & Zim cant u please invent sth else or credit ur source then.....LOL

Tholi
11 Dec 2009 14:26

Wishing u a Fabulous, Fantastic and Wonderful Wedding tomorrow GML.
May the weather be by your side! alilililililili!!! kwakuhle kwethu!

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