So its that time of the month when people who get paid at the end of the month are broke and Im one of them, the thing is when you're broke, alot of negativity and bad energy sarrounds you, but the advantage is that you become more aware of things and as I was thinking and drowning in my financial status, I started to contemplate about relationships and courtship in the past, I thought of days when men would compete on who can sweet talk his way to a girls heart, days when words determined alot in "boy meets girl" encounters, I realised that those days are gone... they've vanished and have been supplanted by what I call materialistic advances. This simply means that girls want the looks and swagger before anything else, so its the expensive clothes, the fancy car and the job status that will get you in her pants gentlemen...
As much as its fair for ladies to feel this way and follow this convention to determine which guy they deem fit to date, I still miss those days when I would stand at a corner waiting for that girl I've been eyeing for a week (sometimes even longer) and saying "Heita can I please talk to you". We would then talk for hours as I told her how much I love her and want to make her happy, she would eventually say "I'll give you the answer tommorow"... tommorow would feel like an eternity and the anxiety could drop a cardio-disordered person dead... The next day would come and we'd meet at the rendevous point. What followed was either joy or dissapointment, but the result was always determined by your long speech the previous day.
Guys would teach each other tricks and skills on how to sweet talk a girl, some of my earliest memories are of my brother teaching me exactly this. Those days were fun and interesting and innocent too cause you could never get a girl without saying a mouthfull, but now everything is so boring and obvious, now even old grandpas can get a girl, they dont even have to say a word cause "money talks". They stood no chance back then cause emagine a grandpa declaring his undying love to a girl his daughter's age...
Now we the young generation are fornicating in an opaque system of disease, adultery and loveless relationships... Why do you think all this pressure groups and organisations exist?? love life generations my foot!
I really do miss those days, but gone they are and return they never shall...