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Was it necessary

Written by Smilo from the blog When all else fails on 16 Jul 2009
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Wow... It’s difficult to create a blog. This is my first blog/article so please feel free to correct me la ngenze amaphutha khona and I don't know how to write an article so please bear with me.

This is the true story. Bowungenzenjani if you were me.

On Sunday, I phoned my fiancé more than 10 times and no answer, then later got angry cos he was not returning my calls, I then decided to send him an sms asking why angaphenduli i phone? then I got a message from his phone saying... "Please call me co I want to tell you bad news" I was like mnximmm. Why don't you phone and tell me the news...
Ten minutes later I decide to call him.

Me: Hi sweety!!!!
Him: hello, how are you
Me: realised that it is not my man's voice " Sorry can I speak to Sam"
Him: "Sorry, I am not with Sam"
Me: Where is he... and who are you. (getting worried)
Him: Smilo, you speaking to Matthew (fiance's friend)
Me: Hi, Mathew. What’s up and where is my man
Him: Sorry Smilo, Sam is in hospital. He had an accident last night(Saturday), sibuya kwi funeral. and he is in hospital, The car is finished but yena he is fine, I'm on my way to see him in hospital with his sister.
Me: OMW... please call me when you get to hospital ngzokhuluma naye.
Him : okay will do, Sbo(fiancé’s sister) wants to speak to you.
Me: okay let me speak to her
Sbo: (she explained the whole story of an accident and assured me that he will be fine) She asked me to call them after 10min.

I tried calling them after 10 minutes and no one was answering the phone that was at about 16.00. I tried the sister as well with no luck. I ended up not knowing what to do and decided to go to bed at around 19.00.

At 19h44, I got an sms from fiancé phone " Sorry sisi he passed away"... I tried calling the number but no one answered then i sent an sms: " I don't understand ur message, what and who are you talking about". then at 20h01, I got a reply saying " Sisi, we just got the message that Sam passed away, I am busy trying to contact the family".. Yho I screamed, I cried ngavele ngaba confused ukuthi why kwenzakala kaso, We are about to start a new life, Why, why me? why him?.
I then called my cousin who stays 2km from me. Told her the news, she came with her boyfriend. we prayed and they tried to comfort me. Ngazama ukulala kwabanzima, I then took sleeping tablets, my cousin spent a night at my place.
In the morning, I still couldn't believe what I heard and I decided to go to work as if nothing happened, but inhliziyo ibishayela phezulu.
when i got to work I tried phoning Sam's sister to confirm the news and her phone was just ringing.
At 13h20, Monday. I got an sms from Sam's number again. "sweety I just came out of hospital, I'm on my way home. I miss you so much my darling", yho I screamed, I quickly phoned him and when I heard his voice I cried uncontrollable. He got worried and asked me not to cry, I then explained to him why I'm crying, he was shocked then after an hour he phoned me and told me who was sent me those sms's....
I was surprised to find out who was behind those sms's. It was Mathew's girlfriend, who doesn’t like me a bit because Sam has a child with her friend and they broke up 4 years ago. yes, she confessed because her boyfriend was the one who had Sam's phones and she told my fiancé that she hates me. if it was not of me Sam would have gave her friend a chance and married her... She hates me and will never forgive me for taking her friend's man.

I was not there when Sam broke up with her friend, when I met Sam he was with somebody else and that was 2 years ago and I have nothing to do with their break up... Yesterday I went home to see my fiancé and I haven't seen the lady yet. And I don't know what to say to her ma ngibona... Thank god akalimalanga kakhulu i spinal cord and his leg only...

Sorry for long story....
Note: I stay and work in GP and fiancé is in MP.

78 Comments

Smilo
16 Jul 2009 13:24

you all welcome....

Tynt!
16 Jul 2009 13:32

WOW !!!! I cant b’liv she went all out just to spite u!!!

awelani
16 Jul 2009 13:37

tjoooo, biatch!!!!!!

ms.tebby
16 Jul 2009 13:39

i dont understand the girlfriends' part lemme read again

Suzilicious
16 Jul 2009 13:42

please tell me your Joking......

Smilo
16 Jul 2009 13:46

@Suzilicious- I wish I was joking... This is real. When I told the story yesterday when i got home everyone laughed bakhala inyembezi thinking its a joke, I didn't even delede the sms's, cos I wanted to show them.
Afetr that I concentrate on getting my man better and ease his pains shame...

Tynt!
16 Jul 2009 13:47

And so I have noted, if u not hitched mo TVSA, u na le fiancé….. NICE!!!

maud
16 Jul 2009 13:48

do me a favour when you see her tell her that , you are going to marry one of the first man who passed away and come back, and look her in the eyes you will see the guilty and dont even ask her why she did that.

and may your man get well soon.

Sobza
16 Jul 2009 13:49

She is a witch

Dash
16 Jul 2009 13:50

DAMN!!! She sure wanted to give you a heart attack. Crazy stuff...

Best-Achiever
16 Jul 2009 13:51

And so I have noted, if u not hitched mo TVSA, u na le fiancé….. NICE!

kwa kwa kwa Tynt

Best-Achiever
16 Jul 2009 13:52

this is crazy

Cody
16 Jul 2009 13:52

LMAO at BA ;-)

Suzilicious
16 Jul 2009 13:53

This is crazy stuff indeed Dash, and dont ask her about it Smilo, the guilt will eat her, may your man get well soon and may you get married and make beautiful babies, live happily ever after for her to see

Mafresh
16 Jul 2009 13:53

Tjo, ke moloi-loi wa motsheare

cleve
16 Jul 2009 13:54

Hhayi this is childish. Gosh whoever has a vendetta against my friend does not mean I should hate them. Gosh girl, leave her. You got the man and there is nothing she can do or say to change that. Leave she will end up jumping off a bridge because of her evil self.

Smilo
16 Jul 2009 13:54

Can you imagine if I had a heart attack ngafa... Ngabe ngifele u zero...

maud
16 Jul 2009 13:58

what if you drank the poison wanting to die naye , yooo thats why you should see a corps first before killing yourself, i am not saying you must kill yourself. ningayijika phela ngiyanazi nina.

Best-Achiever
16 Jul 2009 14:02

eish .. at first i thought this was a response to the response of Z' article

Tynt!
16 Jul 2009 14:02

What I don’t get about us WOMEN is that we constantly fight over men, when they barely do so.. I have never come across men fighting over a woman except for VusiK ofcoz!!!

Smilo
16 Jul 2009 14:02

yooo thats why you should see a corps first before killing yourself, i am not saying you must kill yourself. ningayijika phela ngiyanazi nina- hahahahaha maud... banjani kanti

Strolicious
16 Jul 2009 14:04

Can you imagine if I had a heart attack ngafa... Ngabe ngifele u zero...LOL

cleve
16 Jul 2009 14:08

awelani
16 Jul 2009 14:11

LMBAO Maud, kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa..

Cande
16 Jul 2009 14:12

*phew*, haiye unbloodybelievable

TKSM
16 Jul 2009 14:15

what if you drank the poison wanting to die naye , yooo thats why you should see a corps first before killing yourself, i am not saying you must kill yourself. ningayijika phela ngiyanazi nina. KWAKWAKWA

But on a more serious note.....sho inesibindi intombazane......had she done this to me, i would only have two options

1. Be a lady and do as cleve says OR

2. Ke ka moravatsa kampama engwe e chesang e nkgisang ho sabola.......jesess!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!u sele he o a tella ngwanana eo!!!!!!!!!!!!

Foxy gal
16 Jul 2009 14:16

OH HHAYI KE!!!!! SUCH A B/WITCH!!!!!

ROTFLMAO @ maud's reply..............

blueroze
16 Jul 2009 14:17

yooo thats why you should see a corps first before killing yourself
ki kikikiiiiiiii
wa mphetsa wa mfeleletsa daar maud
o ka swela mahala

awelani
16 Jul 2009 14:19

Did u tell ur bf what this witch did?? u have to show him those sms's so that he can tell her bf what she did. Maybe she must be admitted into an institution.

LM
16 Jul 2009 14:20

LMBAO Maud, kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa.....

What I don’t get about us WOMEN is that we constantly fight over men, when they barely do so.. Too true, we even fight (dislike each other)when there's no man involvedI have never come across men fighting over a woman except for VusiK ofcoz!!!kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa.....

eish .. at first i thought this was a response to the response of Z' article: BA...me too..I lUv drama, LOL!!

lady gaga
16 Jul 2009 14:24

uyahlana lemtombazana, akazazi izinto zokudlala

or maybe she want ur man for herself wena Smilo,chaa yi obsession le!!!!!

maud
16 Jul 2009 14:29

cabanga if uvele wadonsa i don touche wabeka i matrass phansi wazigubezela ngengubo, bheka sewuphonela nama society ubika isifo, no serious this girl need some renovation, abethwe goet donor, and if you need help just call me.

Loreal
16 Jul 2009 14:30

Can you imagine if I had a heart attack ngafa... Ngabe ngifele u zero

Ubungeke ufele ubala ubuzobe ulandela isthandwa sakho lol

Pepsi Cola
16 Jul 2009 14:34

Can you imagine if I had a heart attack ngafa... Ngabe ngifele u zero...LOL

Hey some people are real bitches!!!!!!!!!!

How can a person do this to some one, I wonder if people think 1st when they do thingz cuz, u do a thing & u ask yoself what if it was me, but this one I doubt if she asks herself dat question.

Lesiduphunga sona somngane sivumile ukuthi her obsersed girlfriend do this to his friends girl kgana kelelo!!!!!!!!!!!!

maud
16 Jul 2009 14:38

hayi Loreal alandele isithandwa sakhe ,kanti uze naso la emhlabeni?

hazey
16 Jul 2009 14:38

@Pepsi - Hey some people are real bitches!!!!!!!!!!

Ngivumelana nawe, how do this to someone else, and your conscience?

Dash
16 Jul 2009 14:39

Some girls are evil. I once experienced I hate action from a girl too. She was just someone I knew, we stayed on the same street. I had a “boyfriend” and she became friends with him through knowing me. Fine that was not a problem. This other day she smsed me to come to her house to see some "stuff" she was selling. When I got there the main door was opened, I then knocked but there was no answer. So I went straight to her bedroom as I thought she was in there only to find her with my “boyfriend” in bed.

I was shocked and broke up with him by an sms later. I never wanted to hear from both of them. I did not feel that bad because our relationship had just started and we hadn’t yet did IT.

A year later she sent me an sms saying that she is HIV+ and that she got it from my X.

Moral of the story, those who do evil unto others will be rewarded accordingly. I call it LIFE.

So Smilo that girl has already reaped what she sow.

lady gaga
16 Jul 2009 14:40

in this case its true when they say desperate times call for desperate measures

abethwe goet donor...yebo maud im with u on this one, call me too, maybe she will do dat to me too,so i will be donoring her in advance!!!!

mathata
16 Jul 2009 14:43

@maud,waza wa ngibulala ke LOL,you are funny maan.

cheesa im with you,Sam ...sam he must standup n tell this bitch to stay away,n he must doit infront of you.

this women....shis on mission.

some where somthing is not right,i smell little bit of Konofol.

maud
16 Jul 2009 14:45

@Dash - and i hope you said congratulations on her achievement, ngiyazi ukuthi you dont kick a dog when its down, but kusizani uma uyimela isukume izokuluma blind blind.

GML
16 Jul 2009 14:46

I would have driven to MP and found and hit her so hard. I would give her a reason to hate me.
Ngi ngamshaya goet.

I would send her an sms(not my number) telling her that somethign happened and she had been infected with Aids taken from a person with fully blown Aids. i would make her so paranoid. then I would tell her that her child is also infected.

Then I would call her (using my number) telling her that I forgive her. To make her paranoid and she cant accuse me of sending her smses.

Then I would pay someone to go to her and tell her that she needs to get her funeral policies in place because she is going to die soon.
Then I would leave her for a month.

Then I would fake a warrant of arrest and have it send to her. Saying that she is wanted for conspiracy to commit murder.

Then I would get someone to go to her again and tell her to leave the country before she dies.

Dash
16 Jul 2009 14:49

@ maud my response to her sms was "pls loose my number". I'm not related to her. I won't even go to her funeral.

maud
16 Jul 2009 14:52

well i put the whole blame to the friend,i think she seduced him, why SMS you to come and see, ubekujelasela.

you should have just stood there and ask them to change position and leave dont fight with any of them. nothing kills a person like the quilty concience.

GML
16 Jul 2009 14:53

And then I would kill a dog and have the blood smeared on a child's top. And send it to her while her child is at school. With a note saying sorry she was bitten adn eaten by dogs. She is at the government morgue.

She will go to the morgue or school running. Only to find her child safe and sound.

Then I would call a psychiatric hospital and tell them that she has gone mad and that they need to take her in. I would love to see her trying to convince them that she is sane.

hazey
16 Jul 2009 14:53

Abantu a ba so ngathi banga shaiwa. I was dating this guy, a few weeks back I found out that he has dating my best friend I mean my best friend while we were still together, slept with him, fell pregnant but had an abortion.

monchooza
16 Jul 2009 14:53

Can you imagine if I had a heart attack ngafa... Ngabe ngifele u zero...
LOL wena ufuna ukufela i 100...lol

anyway...mina i say fight fire with fire......make her life misserable lontyintyi ukuzondela ukulahlwa komngani wakho noma bekungasiyi fault yakho......i'll PM you tips on how to make her loose weight ne nqondo same time very fast

belz
16 Jul 2009 14:53

ROFLMAO!!! Yho smilo, the bloody biatch, i hope uyile wayomoora lesoskhebereshe.

Sammis
16 Jul 2009 14:54

Surely this lady has no idea the kind of pain one feels when told about a loved one who has just passed on!! That was just plain evil. I agree this woman is dangerous, tjoo.
Brother Matthew should be told about this.

awelani
16 Jul 2009 14:56

lmao monchoo, she's not worth it hau, Smilo, leave her alone, we all know karma is a bitch, she will get hers one day,,just wait and see.

Best-Achiever
16 Jul 2009 14:57

IM sure GML that can only happen in your own world or when you are dealing with non-existing person or maybe you can finish you project in a jail cell ..... i mean while you are doing all these things that person will be waiting for you

Foxy gal
16 Jul 2009 14:58

Sam ...sam he must standup n tell this bitch to stay away,n he must doit infront of you.......

OK guys I'm with u too on this one, but he must wait until his spine & leg gets better he'll need those to stand up!!!! LOL

belz
16 Jul 2009 14:58

smilo nawe you sound too polite, firstly you get the sms saying, call me i have bad news,and when you get a chance to talk to the sister, you dotn shout at her or the friend to ask them why they ddnt phone you????? i mean, nizoshada kungekdala, they should know you. and eish, indlela okhuluma ngayo, ngathi ngeke umenze anything lontombazana, ngingavele ngibecrazy , hayi into yokudlala.

Dash
16 Jul 2009 14:59

you should have just stood there and ask them to change position and leave dont fight. kwakwakwa. easier said than done sisi..no person shud be treated like that. Yo first reaction is you freeze, you try to convince yoself that it's just a night mare. but when you see your boyfriend naked for first time (on another girl's bed nogal) you start breaking whatever's close to you. i was so angry i even collapsed.

Sorry smilo for taking over your article..

lady gaga
16 Jul 2009 15:00

lol @ belz's reply, skhebereshe yhooo!!!

Loreal
16 Jul 2009 15:01

LOLes at Maud yo replies girl it looks it happened to you before

Best-Achiever
16 Jul 2009 15:03

i was so angry i even collapsed

azonibulala amadoda ...hahahahhaha

Foxy gal
16 Jul 2009 15:05

i was so angry i even collapsed

azonibulala amadoda ...hahahahhaha

LOL LOL tl tl tl tl tl !!!!!!!

Dash
16 Jul 2009 15:09

@ BA & Foxy gal. mfim le a phapha. lol

felfel
16 Jul 2009 15:09

Haibo GML maybe we should call a psychiatric institution on you, have u done all this before gal???? i'm seing another side of u now.

nice
16 Jul 2009 15:10

LOL, the responses are way too funny

belz
16 Jul 2009 15:15

LOL!!!GML, you are so hectic its not funny. eish these thing smaar heh. when i was young and stupid i did the send someone thing, my frends whoa re guys stayed close to this biatc that was dating my bf, and i called her work, and threatened her, and i got another guy on the street to call her work and tell her that if she doesnt leave my man, she wont last for the month. then i called her also. And i went to Edgards,lol, thats where she worked, to go and hit her but she was off duty,lol. yho shame i was stupid, but ke, same as Dash, nam bengingakadavazi, so there was nothing much to lose nje.

Just a month ago i heard that she is on ARV's. LOL.

lady gaga
16 Jul 2009 15:15

@GML will u have energy and time to do all that stuff, shooooo u mean business ne, remind me to never mess with an angry black woman,haaa....LOL!!!!

maud
16 Jul 2009 15:16

yes ,it was with my first boyfriend, and mina ngishaywe isgogwana ngestina.
i dont want to hijacke i article yabantu, but what i can tell you is that i have been there done that i even has the scars. after all these years when one of them see me , you can see that its still heating very hard,

mina it was worse because it was after, i just heart that my mother passed away ,i went there to tell him, i needed a comfort i guess. i never spoke to either one of them re this.

dont ener i mean never collaps or cause a sin in front of them, dont give them a satisfaction of job well done. i can write abook about my life and you wont believe that i made it this far, still smiling.

Dash
16 Jul 2009 15:18

@ GML pls PM me we need to start with tht "diary of a mad black-zulu woman"

myname
16 Jul 2009 15:22

You are so BAD GML!...............hayi ungcolile skhoskho (no u r dirty boss)

Sammis
16 Jul 2009 15:23

This lady must count herself lucky gore GML is not the one she messed with! Yo!

belz
16 Jul 2009 15:23

Dash
16 Jul 2009 15:25

@ Sammis, pls don't call her a Lady, some people just don't deserve to be called that. the B name suits her perfectly.

maud
16 Jul 2009 15:27

the B name ,thats a compliment phela leyo, how are about rubbish?

Holiday
16 Jul 2009 15:29

Eish nawe...u should have done stupid thing and drink little bit Jik to show him you love him.

Sammis
16 Jul 2009 15:30

Lol Dash. Eish ya ne? You right. Okay scrap that, She's a B (B*itch, Beast, Bonehead, Bum, Bubblegum-brain, etc)

Dash
16 Jul 2009 15:32

yeas rubbish sounds much better. this rubbish, garbage, trash must never f*** with GML

GML
16 Jul 2009 15:34

The best thing is to call a psychiatric hospital she wont be able to convince them that she is not mad.

It just takes time and patience. Send things to her via fast mail etc.

I would do it

Foxy gal
16 Jul 2009 15:37

@ belz& Dash.... were u crying over yo men or the fact that u were not been davazed yet??!!!! LOL but atleast wena Dash u saw his nakedness LOL

belz
16 Jul 2009 15:37

GML, ungasanganisi uSmilo please. Smilo, be a lady and just sms her and tell her that, you feel like praying for her, then leave her like that.

Dash
16 Jul 2009 15:42

LOL at Foxy gal. Atleast i saw his sick nakedness!!!

GML
16 Jul 2009 15:43

Belz. she asked what we would do. That's what I would do. Seriously.

belz
16 Jul 2009 15:47

kwakwakwakwakwak Foxy!!! ungjwayela kabi yazi, angimbonanga mina anaked yazi,lol.

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