Boy meets girl, boy and girl fall madly inlove, flaws and all or so it would seem.
A guy dates a “down to earth” kinda girl, the type that doesn’t wear make up, do weave or take that much interest in her look. And the guy is like “Baby don’t change, I like you looking all “natural” otherwise you’ll look like those artificial girls that I don’t like”…however down the line, the guy goes around cheating with them girls that have complicated bonding(weave) what-what, with shoes that match the earrings and handbag, not to mention the fake eyelashes and nails!!! What happened to “natural”-flaws and all?
A girl hooks up with a guy (emphasis on “hooks up”) and they both agree that this is just a hook up and neither should expect anything more from this, they just “shagging partners” and nothing more. Girl is like “listen dude I know you got a girlfriend and its cool coz we “just shagging” that’s all”. However down the line, girl starts freaking out every time the guy is with his girlfriend and starts saying now that he is cheating on her (shagging partner)!!! What happened to “just shagging”?
Boy meets “chubby girl” and all is swell. Boy is like “you got “meat” in the right places and you are my bootylicious Beyonce look alike!” However boy suddenly goes around with skinny ass women who would put Victoria Beckham to shame!!! What happened to “my bootylicious Beyonce”-flaws and all?
Girl meets boy eKasi (township) and knows that he is a kasi boy in and out and she digs that about him. Girl is like “I like your kasi flava” coz to her, she likes the whole “gangster like attitude” unlike ama “cheeseboys”. However down the line, girl wants boy to change his ways coz she wants to upgrade to the surbs tune. What happened to “Kasi flava?”
Boy meets girl and becomes aware that she is into the whole “BEE” thing (sugar daddys’ as you call it). Its cool at first and boy is like “sizodla imali baby” coz girl get cash from Mr “BEE” and spends it with her boy. However later on boy thinks girl is gonna change her ways and stop with the sugar daddy saga but it aint gonna happen unless guy starts to provide like Mr “BEE”. What happened to “sizodla imali baby?”-flaws and all chap!!!
Moral of the story, do not try changing a person. You met them like that and chances are, they will remain with their flaws and all, so deal with it!!!
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