Who was crying with me?

Written by ANGELIC.SMILE from the blog Its not fair!! on 15 Apr 2009
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Sometimes in life you try being the best parent and giving your kids good advice but wats the use if you dont lead by example??

The last episode of Soul City had me in tears yeah yeah we all knew that Zimele was the one who infected everybody but6 wer nevert really think who infected him??? mmmmm. Anyway thats not important now my point is: Did you guys cry on the ending scene? It was really sad I felt shivers down my spine.

Zimele loved his son so much and wanted him to have a bright future and protect him in all means but wat he did instead was rob him of all that he hoped for him to acheive. Bulela was so emotional when he was telling his dad wat he had done to him...

He acted that scene too well that I was snifffing myself I went to bed so sad even though i know its just acting but things like these happen and you coould just imagine how it feels like to know that the person you have to protect and love is the same person you infect with HIV. We've been preched about it so much yet we still not afraid of it we love it more than ourselves... guys please use protection because even though Zimele had HIV and slpet with LULU and she infected ZAKES and he had abit too much to drink and did it skoon with DINEO wenza ubufeba and gave it to BULELA, this all could be prevented if they did their dirty ways but used a condom the only person who would've had this Virus would have been Zimele and his wife.

Because we all know that you can not trust anybody these days but you would hope and wish that your husband does not sleep around especially wit AIDS so popular but yet you get irresponsible men and women cheating in their marriages and not using protection cos they think they're too great or healthy to get infected well news flash HIV/AIDS IS HERE AND HERE TO STAY SO, UNTIL THERE IS A CURE. So rather protect yourself and flip HIV to hiVICTORY !!!

This scene touched me so much that I will never ever be unfaithful to my partner and even though i trust him i'll always use a condom...

And yes I am tried and testing and im proud to say im NEGATIVE...

HAVE YOU TESTED??

20 Comments

nice
15 Apr 2009 13:09

Angelic smile, wont discuss the episode of SC here because that was done enough yesterday but to answer your question

HAVE YOU TESTED??
No, I am afraid of the things they call needles and until they have a way to do with poking me with needles it will be a hard thing to do.

I am sure that I am negative thought, because there is no chance that I could have got it from my mother and have not done anythng to place myself at risk, SOL.

Cande
15 Apr 2009 13:12

were you cheating on your partner before? How did it feel? Did you ever get caught?

ANGELIC.SMILE
15 Apr 2009 13:26

I cheated all the tym but not sexually I think only one person deserves my body at a time an ryt now its him i hope nothing messes this relationship up and you guys know mxit over there i was unstopable at some point i had 20mxit bf's although i never met nor slept with them the thot of it now makes me feel slutty but im done with all that

odie
15 Apr 2009 13:37

i need to test, i have a problem with condoms, they sometimes burst and i am so scared, what if i am positive? i am so scared.

Cande
15 Apr 2009 13:37

why are you changing usernames? but thats not cheating. Am talking about real cheating

ANGELIC.SMILE
15 Apr 2009 13:53

Changing usernames? wat you mean? nah i havent like really cheated....
odie go and test and dont be scared believe me ive been there i asked myself the very same question but it went okay trust in god n dont shake too much when you having sex lol that why they burst

maddie
15 Apr 2009 13:57

personally I think the reason HIV is spreading so fast among the black community is that we're not honest with each other.

what could be difficult in telling your wife/husband/partner/boyfriend/galfriend that you've slept with someone without a condom, yes i would be really angry that you betrayed but i'll aslo be so relieved that you loved me so much to tell me and that might make forgiveness much easier.

you don't tell me and i get infected and later find out that not only were you cheating on me but you also infected, how cruel and sad that can be for someone.

HONESTY IS THE BEST WAY TO FIGHT HIV/AIDS

odie
15 Apr 2009 14:04

me i am a serial cheater. dont know why maybe its because i am gemini? LOL
I NEED HELP

ANGELIC.SMILE
15 Apr 2009 14:09

True dat i hate my ex bf who was a gemini yoh wayefebe with passion and he loved it ...we'd fight all the tym and he said he cant help it if i dont wana have sex then i called it quits and im glad i didnt have sex witrh him because today he has 3 kids god konws wat else

TheLady
15 Apr 2009 14:11

I tested today, holding thumbs for results...

maddie
15 Apr 2009 14:15

what are you guys saying about geminis?

ANGELIC.SMILE
15 Apr 2009 14:16

why dont you guys go to the NEW START center it only takes 15minutes to get the results and for those who are afraid of needles its nothing major just a prick in the fingure not even painfull ...and those who are not ready to test dont feel pressured just use a condom and hope for the best

Virtous
15 Apr 2009 14:17

HONESTY IS THE BEST WAY TO FIGHT HIV/AIDS
I beg to differ, the only way to fight HIV is to wait until marriage to have sex and then keep honest and faithful to your husband/wife. This practise of being sexually active while one is still in school or just dating someone is dangerous. As human beings we tend to err and that one slip up with sum1 who is not your gal/boyfriend will cost lives. If people could just wait till marriage, then HIV will be reduced. However, for those marriage partners who do not remain faithful in marriage, they are the only ones to blame for the increase in this disease.

ANGELIC.SMILE
15 Apr 2009 14:24

Virtous id shake your hand if you were near me but truelly speaking not everybody is fortunate enough to get a man who will marry her so dats hard to wait maybe 40years ?? come on now

maddie
15 Apr 2009 14:38

virtous - that is true but let's be realistic here how many people can wait until they're married to have sex, with hormones already raging at 13 please.

when i say honesty i mean you become honest with yourself, your parents, your partners. Just a thought i might be misinformed but have you guys asked urself why there isn't a high percentage of white people who are infected,most white teenagers are being about sex and how to prevent certain things at an early age, like i said i might be misinformed that was just my observation

Virtous
15 Apr 2009 15:52

that is true but let's be realistic here how many people can wait until they're married to have sex, with hormones already raging at 13 please.
Maddie, many people can wait for sex, who said if you don't have sex that you will die? Has it ever been proven that a male or female who has not engaged in sex by a certain age is affected? Exactly, society has shifted ppl's mind sets into believing that sex b4 marriage is necessary when we all know that we can wait with no adverse affects. I've waited for close to two decades and will continue to do so. Because ppl lets face it sex b4 marriage is plain cheap.

zulugal
16 Apr 2009 15:54

"Because ppl lets face it sex b4 marriage is plain cheap. "

@Virtous, its called freedom of choice. U have chosen not to, and others/some of us have chosen to....

myname
16 Apr 2009 16:00

IYhooo akhona kanti amavirgin lapha ekhaya. I thougth aseKZN & Swaziland!

Guys keep it sealed, kuyanyiwa (excuse my lingo) if u started!

zulugal
16 Apr 2009 16:09

lol @ kuyanyiwa. yha thats a good advice though. if u havent started yet, ungabe usaqala!!!

Green.arrow
16 Apr 2009 17:31

"Exactly, society has shifted ppl's mind sets into believing that sex b4 marriage is necessary when we all know that we can wait with no adverse affects. I've waited for close to two decades and will continue to do so. Because ppl lets face it sex b4 marriage is plain cheap....."

i totally agree with u Virtous....4 the record, u r not alone in that boat.....
i find it sad that indeed society has accpted the risky extreme.
What i notice from reactions is that pple think that the principle of waiting 4 marriage is not working nomore......that no one follows it anymore.....but when I look arround in my world and byond (tv and staff) i see/know many such ppl....so Virtous...there is hope yet!

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