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Khumbul'ekhaya - Lost families

Written by Renegade from the blog Reviews on 05 Mar 2009
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Geez, I haven't watched KK in ages, months, if not a whole year, but I'm back, just needed a little push, and some work adjustment, and wala. 

First, I must say, not much has changed, Andile still had blonde hair(i liked her hair last night by the way),but a different "studio". 

Ok, to the stories.

In the first story, we meet Rose Zwane from Middleburg, wrote to KK looking for biological father who left his family in 1974, when she was only “5-4” years (Sorry, I couldn't resist, i laughed when she said that). At the time, they were living n Dooronkop, and her father set off to go look for work in PTA, leaving her and her pregnant mother behind.

In following a lead, the KK team sets off to Cullinan, hoping to find Piet Sibanyoni. Nge shwe…hehe, they do indeed find his household, where there is an old woman sitting outside, and when they enquire, they find out that Piet is out at work, and she is his wife. They then start to explain who they are, and go on to ask this woman what Piet had told her about his life back home. Apparently, Piet told the woman that he had left a woman with a child, but was not married.
A few moments later, Piet arrives, all jovial, and initially, it’s not clear that he is not of sound mind. They try to talk him, but then It become clear that Piet is not absorbing much as he has had Pharoas water, to quote our host Andile.
Thus, realising that not much will be achieved, they decide to go back home, and address this at another, more suitable time. 


Piet's new "wife"

Fast forward to what I think is a few days later, and it’s time to hear sober Piet’s side of the story. He says that he left home after a disagreement with his wife in order to get some “fresh air”, his words, not mine.(I guess the air was very fresh since he never came back). So in being away from home, he went here and there, and eventually came to settle where he is, and found himself a companion. He says he left his child with his parents, and not on the streets. Also, he knows only of one child, and did not know that the woman was pregnant. He is willing to go back home, and would love to see this mother and father.

When Piet gets to Middleburg, Rose’s mother explains how things actually went down. She even still remembers the exact day Piet left, promising to come in 2 months if he does not find work, but 2 months became 2 years, which became 35 years. In that time, Rose’s mother gave birth, and named the child Lindiwe, symbolizing her wait for the father of her children. Sadly, Lindiwe recently died, never having met her father. 


Rose' mother, Piet, and Rose

In reply, Piet explains that it was rough out there, which leads Rose to ask him who he is living with. He tells her that he lives with a woman who he has not married, but they are happy together.
As they are currently in Rose’s house, they decide to take Piet to his home, the Sibanyoni homestead. On arrival, there are a lot of people gathered for some function or other. He is told who has since passed away.At this point, he gets emotional, particularly at the passing of his parents. I must say, I was a bti surprised that Piet seems to have thought he’d be gone 35 years and find everyone still alive, does he think him being away makes his loved ones immune to death? . 

Although it is not clear what Piet will do from now on,  I suppose Rose is just happy to see her father is still alive. I feel sorry for the poor woman in Cullinan.

At this point, Andile come on screen, and reads a letter. Hau, now they read letters! Oh well, the letter is basically someone looking for someone.
 And then, they bring in another mini story of Mandla Nhlapho who is looking for his brother, Schoolboy, who went missing in 2004, and he’s mentally ill. Schoolboy had stopped taking his medication when he went missing. On the last day he was see, he had R200, and left saying he’s going to the shops, and that was the las they saw of him. He’d told his friends he went to Joubert Park to go to get on a train. 
So basically, Schoolboy, buyelekhaya, bayakukhumbula.

In the second story, Joyce from Kwa thema, lives alone, but always has cousins children vistit.
She is sick with some form of cancer, and thus always needs someone around to help her. The woman she refers to as her cousin is actually not really her cousin, but a close friend who has become like family.
She tells us that her mother parents got divorced when she was young and her mother took her and her siblings to Lesotho, where she lived until the 80’s, when she decided to come to Gauteng. 


Joyce

Essentially, she is looking for the father’s family, who she believes is in Bloemfointein.

Once again, following a lead, the team sets off ot Bloemfontein where they indeed find the right house. When Joyce find this out, after explaining the reason for the visit, she is becomes very emotional, and is even more so when she is told of those who have passed. 



She tells her new found family of the suffering in Lesotho at the hands of her maternal grandmother. She also asks them why they never looked for her, leaving her to spend her holidays alone. I found this particularly sad…no one deserves to spend holidays alone, especially not Christmas.



48 Comments

Renegade
05 Mar 2009 08:51

Ok, so did you guys watch? Any thoughts?

dali
05 Mar 2009 08:59

i cried like a baby joh joyce's story really touched me. how sad, i dont wanna cry now eish.

awelani
05 Mar 2009 09:11

I must say, I was a bti surprised that Piet seems to have thought he’d be gone 35 years and find everyone still alive, does he think him being away makes his loved ones immune to death? . This happens in almost every episode, some1 leaves hme for over 20years and when they are re-united with their families, they thik that they will find every1 still alive.

Cody
05 Mar 2009 09:14

Thank you Rene! and welcome back!!!!! 

The first story neh? i never LMAOed so hard in malyf!! shuuu, lobaba was drunk maan! I hate these kind of men that drink after work jesluk!! 
And the first" wife to be", i guess she was still hoping ukuthi "umsuthu" wakhe will come back one day she wasn't crying because of uLindiwe, because she spoke about her without crying then after asking who the man is living with all of a sunday the photo makes her cry. Shame mama askies! So good people there are serial cohabitors out there neh? this man is very old but never married, the woman ends up calling him her husband without marrying her?huu haai this is so wrong. 
lastly about this story, how can the second "wife to be" live with someone for ages end up calling him your husband yet you dont know where he comes from or his family? jerr, woman can be so naive sometimes.

Second Story: the lady's accent was off the hook!! i just love the Lesotho accent "jonna weee ke ne ke sotleha! hobaneng le sa mpatla" huu shame i felt sorry for the lady, the bestfriend is a really good friend shame, God bless her maan! at least her sister looked for her on radio, ya it is sad that she had to spend christmas alone without her family. that is sadddddd maan!

awelani
05 Mar 2009 09:19

I missd the second story.

So now on the 1st story, did that man go bek to his lady or what?  Truly speaking, I dont think I will ever look for some1 who decided to leave and never come bek, he/she will come bek when they want to and they must not expect me to roll down the red carpet for them.

Renegade
05 Mar 2009 09:24

Thanks Cody, nice to be back.

You know Cody, you raise a good point. For some women, marriage, is the the be all and end all. It defines them, so they are willing to take a lot of crap just so that they can be with someone. I mean, Piet and that second wife...hai man, that is clearly just shady, how do you meet someone, shack up, and just call him your husband. 
And it's so sad that people like Piet exist, I mean, he really had no valid reason for not going back home, he just decided to carry on with his life on the other side.

This happens in almost every episode, some1 leaves hme for over 20years and when they are re-united with their families, they thik that they will find every1 still alive.
Hehe Awe, hai, they need a reality check bathong!
Awe:

myname
05 Mar 2009 09:26

This happens in almost every episode, some1 leaves hme for over 20years and when they are re-united with their families, they thik that they will find every1 still alive  Thats what i was thinking Awe. And if u really take a notice, they miss home when they r down & out. Why is that? While they r rich & healthy, they dont miss their families. Hai mna guys i dont understand some people. ....

Ok i was confused with the first story but ke it was another KK with stories. 

Its not funny but KK people just killed me the way they cry. Its hilarious. 

Shame Dali, askis

awelani
05 Mar 2009 09:33

And then, they bring in another mini story of Mandla Nhlapho who is looking for his brother, Schoolboy, who went missing in 2004, and he’s mentally ill. Schoolboy had stopped taking his medication when he went missing. On the last day he was see, he had R200, and left saying he’s going to the shops, and that was the las they saw of him. He’d told his friends he went to Joubert Park to go to get on a train. you 4got to add "He wanted to fight",lol....The name cracked, is it his real name or a nickname? how the hek do u name ur child Shoolboy??? and what was Piet's other name, it also made LOL..

Toxic
05 Mar 2009 09:34

let me read this. i was reading a book when it was on but noticed Andile's hair as well and liked it too!

belz
05 Mar 2009 09:35

Piet is not absorbing much as he has had Pharoas water, to quote our host Andile. >>>hahahahahah, amanzi kaFaro.
LOL!!! Schoolboy!!!
LMAO!!!! Dali, you should stop ukutetema nawe maan, why are you crying for these drunks.

Thanks for the recap Rene, i hardly watch any tv these days, its sad.

awelani
05 Mar 2009 09:37

amanzi kaFaro. LMAO and she always says this if the persn is drunk, LMAO

Cody
05 Mar 2009 09:37

what was Piet's other name, it also made LOL..

Msotho LOL!!! and there is another one after that lol!

Cody
05 Mar 2009 09:39

I thought she said amanzi ampofu lol! my zulu is bad! kanti its amanzi kafaro! lol

maud
05 Mar 2009 09:39

@ awelani -So now on the 1st story, did that man go bek to his lady or what? Truly speaking, I dont think I will ever look for some1 who decided to leave and never come bek, he/she will come bek when they want to and they must not expect me to roll down the red carpet for them

the question is what were you waiting for when he was gone- you should also be married and having other children, ufanele akubone kwi TV u very successfull, so he can realise that your life did not stop after he left,

i am sorry because mina to me everyone its so replaceable, one week without calling or seeing me, your position is taken andina xhesha lokudlala.

awelani
05 Mar 2009 09:39

I bet Piet was kicking himself when he saw where his 'ex-wife'  lives, they have such a beautiful place and yena, such a shame, Guys, did he go bek home to the 'wife'?

Cody
05 Mar 2009 09:40

meant amanzi a mpotjwana

awelani
05 Mar 2009 09:42

@Maud:I am sorry because mina to me everyone its so replaceable, one week without calling or seeing me, your position is taken andina xhesha lokudlala..So I guess we wont be seeing u on KK anytime soon hey? LOL

I thought she said amanzi ampofu lol!>>LMBAO

Cape Hustlaz
05 Mar 2009 09:45

Oh i actually switched channels when the programme was just berginning.

Renegade
05 Mar 2009 09:47

Dali, you should stop ukutetema nawe maan, why are you crying for these drunks
Lol Belz, uDali is emotional, the story was sad, mara nna it didn't bring me to tears.

Awe, they didn't say if he went back, it just ended nje.

Renegade
05 Mar 2009 09:49

amanzi ampofu - BUAHAHAHAHAH

Maud, mina I agree with you, that is how I know i'll never be on KK...(unless someone is looking for me...lol)

Cody
05 Mar 2009 09:50

bet Piet was kicking himself when he saw where his 'ex-wife' lives, they have such a beautiful place and yena, such a shame, Guys, did he go bek home to the 'wife'?

Awe that is her daughters house, her husband passed away. Well they said he would love to go back home. Maybe he is back with his 'wife" i must say the first wife looks like her daughters have taken good care of her. she looks good. the other wife looks like o nwa mqombothi. lol

You are right maud! these people take commitment to another level. I will never wait for my kipiting boyfriend to come back, i mean really............

belz
05 Mar 2009 09:50

LOL!!! Codeyi!!!! amanzi ampofu, lolololol!!!

belz
05 Mar 2009 09:52

LOL!!! @ the pics, pple look funny on KK, if someone decides to look for me on KK, can KK let me know so i can titivate myself please.

monchooza
05 Mar 2009 09:52

yazi everytime i watch KK, then i see ukuthi i am so fortunate to have the family i have...and the fact that none of my family members are missing but they are all within 200km from where i stay

maud
05 Mar 2009 09:53

@So I guess we wont be seeing u on KK anytime soon hey? LOL - trust me not in this life time for a man noga , maybe a long lost family not a man, angavuya gaaaaa'''

Cande
05 Mar 2009 09:54

I missed the second part coz i always watch Speak Out.Welcome back Rene

awelani
05 Mar 2009 09:54

the other wife looks like o nwa mqombothi>>>LOL, that's phuza face @ its best, I bet they even share the drink from the same cartoon ko shebeen(ing),lol

dali
05 Mar 2009 10:01

am i the only one who cries vele???????? sho i guess im a softie oh nxa im on my periods

phela ni rile nize ni lava ku fa joh

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:04

LOL @ dali,, i bet u also cried last week, espcially since that was your mkhaya, LOL

andi01
05 Mar 2009 10:04

thought she said amanzi ampofu - as in poor water, LOL

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:06

LMAO...Cody, u need to hang around with us zulus **clearing my throat******

Cande
05 Mar 2009 10:11

Mosotho was his other name

maud
05 Mar 2009 10:12

@dali- did you really cry? yoo'' you are very sensitive person ne.

Zah000
05 Mar 2009 10:13

the other wife looks like o nwa mqombothi>>>LOL, that's phuza face @ its best, I bet they even share the drink from the same cartoon ko shebeen(ing),lol
LMBAO!! Tou guys are bad......

Cody
05 Mar 2009 10:15

Oh phuleeeeze Awe!! no man guys, kanti  isnt there such a word as amanzi ampontjwana (excuse my spelling) 

I know mpofu is poor maan i just made a mistake after all i dont have time to check the spelling, i was into the article. triple lol lol lol!!!!!

Sana Lwam
05 Mar 2009 10:17

What really cracks me up is every time the people are gone for all these years is how the family members will first tell them of all the people that have passed away:
“uMama washona
uBaba washona
uSisi wakho washona
uBhuthi wakho washona
uMalume washona
uMntana’kho washona
….washona….washona …washona”
ROTFLMBAO

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:18

i was into the article>>LMBAO

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:20

LMBAO @ SL, Sixple kwas, and they do that hey,,,  

I also loved how Msotho's sister was tokin, its like she was reading a book for pre-school kids, the 'pauses' killed me.

Renegade
05 Mar 2009 10:23

yazi everytime i watch KK, then i see ukuthi i am so fortunate to have the family i have
Yes, Monchy, definately, my family has no drama, call us boring, mara I'd rather have it like that. 

LOL Belz, hai, nami they must warn me, not come when i've just woken up...lol!

dali
05 Mar 2009 10:24

@ maud im on my periods neh so im allowed to cry........ im so ashamed im the only crying here

last week i did not cry awe i was just angry that old really disgusted me 

myname
05 Mar 2009 10:33

….washona….washona …washona”
ROTFLMBAO
Then they start that irritating fake tears nx nx nx crocodile tears LOL SL

Cande
05 Mar 2009 10:50

SKIDO
05 Mar 2009 10:57

Heish you Bloggers rock!! some of your comments are so hilarious. You are the reason i never miss a visit to  TVSA Blogs! 

Cody
05 Mar 2009 10:57

I also loved how Msotho's sister was tokin, its like she was reading a book for pre-school kids, the 'pauses' killed me.


ROTFLMAO!!!!! ya maan! i forgot about that Awe, i remember saying to myself " and then?" triple lol maybe she was reading a script!!!!

Toxic
05 Mar 2009 13:42

I must say, I was a bti surprised that Piet seems to have thought he’d be gone 35 years and find everyone still alive, does he think him being away makes his loved ones immune to death? .

Happens, withoutfail...only on KK!

She tells her new found family of the suffering in Lesotho at the hands of her maternal grandmother. She also asks them why they never looked for her, leaving her to spend her holidays alone. 

I always wonder what the abusers who watch the show and think when they hear this being said of them. It's not the 1st time someone said they were hlukumezwa'd by relative so and so on TV.

I found this particularly sad…no one deserves to spend holidays alone, especially not Christmas.
KWA KWA KWA!!

DJ Why why
05 Mar 2009 17:25

Eish, this is why i wud rather be childless than have an unhappy adult of a child, the feeling of belonging is a serious need. Yingako ngicareful not to have i-hit & run type o daddy...

belz
06 Mar 2009 09:40

LOL!!! DJ, hit & run.

zimkitha45
06 Sep 2011 16:34

i want you to help me i have lost ma mother Boniwe Siganagana ma no is 0834139261


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