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Episode 6: Bulela & Dineo's first time

Written by Cande from the blog Soul City Season 9 on 23 Feb 2009
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Tonight's episode kicks off with Koketso trying to have a sisterly talk with Lulu about her ways of providing for her & her family. She gives uLulu hope that 1 day she will be okay and that something will come up she shouldnt loose hope.
angazi but to me Lulu sounds like she is that type of a chick who wants to make quich cash, she doesnt sound like she is patient/determined anough to get a "proper" job.







Just after Koketso's talk with her sister, uLulu gets a call from the presenting to come and see them, she seem soo excited you would have sweared she was told she got the job.
Koketso is as equally thrilled





Tefo talks to his friends about trying "new" stuff with his wife in the bedroom, even after they have being doing the same thing for the may years that they have been married.
While 2 of his friends advice him to try "new" stuff with someone outside marriage, Sol & Zimele advices him to stick to his wife and try spice up their love life.


I am not sure what the conversation between Lebza n Tefo's wife was but what i could gather is that Lebza was advicing Tefo's wife NOT to keep queit when she is satisfied.
She was also telling her about her boring marriage life with Zimele, how they have gotten used to each other and how they talk "business" only.

While uMam Moloi & Tat uMoloi was away their Grade 12 son was getting up to no good under their roof. 
Dineo tells him how much she feels ready, and how much she wants to loose her virginity to him.
 The mistake she makes is to tell him that she went to get a pill at the clinic when he tells her that he is going to fetch condoms.
Bulela forgets all about his mother's education last week and gets down without a rubber. HOW IRRESPONSIBLE
and i know these kids have life orientation skills from primary school but they dont listen.




after their little round, the kids are talking about how "great" their first time was.
WTF?? we all know how painful & terrible the 1st time is unless off course Dineo is lying to Bulela




Lulu's presenting meeting doesnt go well as she is told that presenting is NO for her and the camera guy attempted to make a move on her. But all she could think about was Zimele's money & grocery.



She also declined the taxi driver's offer



She runs atraight to her cash cow, and threatens to make everyone reads the sms he sent her if he doesnt give her money and food.
This then reminded me of a 7yr old relationship that i ruined for my ex with those smses, but unlike Lulu i didnt know that there was a "main woman" when i entered the relationship
Did she really expert Zimele to end his marriage for her?? how loose




Mihlali overheard her father & Lulu and is devasted by the news. He made her promise NOT to tell anyone especially her mother.




She later has a talk to her brother about keeping a secret and if he would do it. He tells her he would if revealing the truth would upset the person who asked her to keep the secret.It looks like she took his advice.



And it doesnt seem like its sitting well with her because she gets sick all of sudden.
We see her father promising that he will never leave his wife coz he loves her too much and that he was just "friends" with Lulu and they no longer friends.
reaaly now, does he think kids of today are stupid to believe such??

The girl is very hurt as we can see with the tear that she is shedding below, and i dont blame her wouldn't you be if someone was doing the same to your OWN mother.




How did you see tonight's episode and where do you think the story line is going??



26 Comments

TheLady
24 Feb 2009 08:02

It wasn't as interesting as the past episodes, I'm used to fast moving storyline-but uZimele noLebza aren't doing that...the son is only one with some action.Lulu ne R30 yakhe shame.

I was watching Zimele feeling very uncomfortable everytime Sol spoke. Shame there's nothing worse than guilt.

And I missed Zakes.

Cody
24 Feb 2009 08:18

Dineo tells him how much she feels ready, and how much she wants to loose her virginity to him. 

Huu hai that girl o na le sebete (liver) straight, when I was a virgin i dont remember ever initiating sex, huu hai kids today!!!!!

The mistake she makes is to tell him that she went to get a pill at the clinic when he tells her that he is going to fetch condoms.
Bulela forgets all about his mother's education last week and gets down without a rubber. HOW IRRESPONSIBLE 

You can say that again Cande, what is soul city telling these kids mara ye?, that if you are a virgin you can take a pill before the deed and walla you are safe from pregnancy? Kanti shouldn't someone take the pill for at least 7days before engaging in sex? plus they should have told her to wait ko clinic mos...............or maybe they just want to show these youngsters how 1 night of passion can ruin your bright future, if it's not that, hai noo, they are misleading these kids maan!

zolx
24 Feb 2009 08:31

the guy talk was interesting for me and i made my husband watch it - cos when the film started he said it was boring so i said he must watch the full episode and then tell me if it was boring. But he kept on dozing off and i'd elbow him everytime i saw he was sleeping. At the end we spoke about what we'd learnt.

Neway this aint about me. It was good to see Zimele's wife laughing again shame. And her daughter noticing her mother's tone changes when she speaks to her dad...things our mothers do to make their children happy. cos that's the only reason this woman is enduring living under the same roof as the man who brought her HIV, becaue she wants her kids to have a 'normal' family life. and the audacity of Zimele asking when the dog treatment he's getting will end....unesbindi to even think that..

dali
24 Feb 2009 08:32

there i was watching SC then it ended and guess what they said at the end, if u go out with someone 5 years older than u, u r @ a risk of getting HIV. 

apparently because someone older will persuade u to have sex without a condom. 

how far true is that cause i know a lot of ppl going out with ppl  5 older than them. 

cande did u catch that last part?

Cande
24 Feb 2009 08:35

which one?

dali
24 Feb 2009 08:46

cande the one about going out with older man. when SC is ending they always say something at the end.

Ms. Jay
24 Feb 2009 08:47

Dali - its partially tru hey - when you think bout it, the persons would often times be more sexually educated and experienced than you and they suggest going dry

GML
24 Feb 2009 08:48

I liked the episode-
1st time can be very painful but having some1 who is gentle adn inexperienced as you makes it easier for the pussy muscles to relax, Afterall the muscles make it sore.

Ms. Jay
24 Feb 2009 08:50

chances of you complying are high coz "they know better" and you feel "safe" coz they older and "wiser"

anyway - I was soooooooooo disappointed with the bulela and dineo scene - it was "better than i imagined" yerrrrrrrrrrrright!!!! maybe its just me but it was dammmmmmmmnnnnnn painful! I dont remember it being better than I imagined! what a load of nonsense

monchooza
24 Feb 2009 08:51

I loved the fact that i was watching last nights episode with friends, whom i have been trying to convince to go test....and i gave them little pep talks during adverts..

I hope people are learning from Soul City

Ms. Jay
24 Feb 2009 08:53

GML - what does an inexperienced "virgin" know about being gentle? when that "skin rupts - gentleness doesn count - anyway its only TV......poor Mihlali having to go thru that! What a dog Zimele is, emotionally blackmailing yur own flesh and blood -

odie
24 Feb 2009 08:55

Great recap

The little girl touched me, she is already thinking of divorce bathong. 

Cody - remember Dineo thinks she is intelligent. you might find that she is pregnant and want to put the blame mo go Bulela. but that was cute bathong. i dont even do that with my man. 
Soul City - its just okay for me. this is typical of what happens around so we have to get used to it. this teenagers are too ahead of us.

dali
24 Feb 2009 08:59

J then it means HIV is still gonna spread cause i know a lot of ppl who r going out with men who r 5 years older than them and more.

qaqamba
24 Feb 2009 09:01

Molweni!! 

Lulu
sisi uve  dissapointed  me yesterday,, ungumarhosha nhyani iyuuuuuu,, 
Shame Zimele is trying to make things better for his family,, but Lebza doesnt give him support, Tefo well done ndoda,, uve showed them how loyal you are to your wife,, im proud of u,

Msoe
24 Feb 2009 09:08

My first time wasnt all dat bad, i guess it all depends on your partner. I can relate with wat Dineo was feeling, it might have hurt but the feelings after the deed made her forget how painful it was and focus on the love they think they have for each other.

Cody
24 Feb 2009 09:14

Lucky you Msoe, nna i didnt have any feelings whatsoever, didnt even know how to reach the big O, it took a bit of time, to have those feelings.

Toxic
24 Feb 2009 09:18

eish i was turned off by Sol's talk with the men and i fell asleep. Clearly missed the one thing i wanted to see: Lulu screaming at Zimele eish.

blueroze
24 Feb 2009 09:28

i was LMSBAO at Dineo saying telling Bulela that she took the pill at the clinic. meaning that she is safe and wont fall preggies, can 1 pill make you safe? o tla belega le matswale ka nako e 1

let baby
24 Feb 2009 09:55

@ Cheesa i think t all depends how u take the news as a person and accepting urself for who u r...i think Zimele might die ealier than his wife bcos he hasnt made peace with it nd his wife has accepted her status.

i think with Bulelas story is teaching us dat no matter wat u should stand ur ground...they were talking about HIV/AIDS i thought they will change their minds about doing it live.

let baby
24 Feb 2009 10:04

i think lulu is teaching Zimele a great lesson dat he will never 4get in life... next tym b4 he cheat on his wife he will think thrice

Plastic
24 Feb 2009 10:09

hey Guys having dinner at my sisters place right, jus when i'm about to leave...Soul City starts....decided to sommer watch it there

I was so embarrased as I was watching the SC yesterday, my 10 year old niece was glued to the screen, my sister and my botha in-law....... you know its easy when its Bold or Days, but Black South Africans? they make me feel as though i'm watching myself and i kinda took a pic at my brotha in-law to see if he's watching....so embarrasing

and Sol talking about touching your woman...so embarrasing, what is the age restriction for SC?

myname
24 Feb 2009 10:42

lol Tshekhasi oka Plastic!!

Nam i was also puzzeld about that Dineo girl. Anyway lets wait for next week, she will b heavily pregnant, believe me. And i'll feel sori 4 her. Imagine her father & teachers! Or maybe she will do abortion, andazi.

I also love that guys chat. It was very informative & i hope most of the guys watched it.

Lastly, yesterday's episode was njee & predictably.

Segololo
24 Feb 2009 14:43

thanks, Cande for the recap

Best-Achiever
24 Feb 2009 19:38

It was so painful to see Mihlali overhearing that, i dont know if i was gonna be able to handle that the way she did. i partly understand why she didnt tell her mother instead decided to suffer alone about what she overhead between her father and Lulu.... like her mom she s toned between her parents marriage and family.

i was so happy for Lulu when she got that call, i was hoping she will get the job(just llike how it happens in the TV world).

things our mothers do to make their children happy
you can sat that again zolx ... in my whole life i have never heard or see my parents fight  or arguing and i never believed they do until i was old enough to realize that every relationship have its days but im so thankful they protected us from hearing or  witnessing such.

i didnt like Dineo's story line, i thought they will ue her to teach teens to wait.

thanks for the recap Cande

Cande
24 Feb 2009 19:45

I think they trying to use her to teach Teens about the mistakes they shouldn't make BA.

Best-Achiever
24 Feb 2009 20:03

i get that Cande, i just wish they also focused on other choices one can make.


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