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Written by Kakapana from the blog is it just me? on 23 Oct 2008
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At the risk of sounding arrogant and boastful but, I am one of those people who are at peace with their bodies…actually, I love and cherish my sexy and curvaceous body.
With that being said, I still have those occasional days where I feel a little fat,  ugly, too short, basically one of those self pity days, where I feel insecure about every part of my body.
However after I read a heartbreaking but inspirational article in yesterday paper, I suddenly realized how trivial I tend to be at times.
Here was a 25-year-old man who has no limbs but he hasn’t let that restrict him from enjoying life, fulfilling his goals and doing everything to the best of his ability. It made me think about all the trifling things that I always complain and mourn about, and how lazy I am.
This man has no arms or legs but has turned adversity into opportunity and now travels the world as a motivational speaker. He plays soccer, skateboards, swims, plays golf and even video games. I on the other hand can't swim (being black and all) too lazy to play any sports (always been since school) don’t know anything about video games, let alone technology and too lazy to join a dance group/school although I would really love to learn, especially now with shows like SCD and SYTYCD…

My question is why is it that we (able-bodied people) only appreciate our life and health when we see people that are deemed to be less fortunate than us.

-Why is it that we need other people misfortunes to make us appreciate ourselves.

-What part of your body are you insecure about and why.

-Given the opportunity would you change it?

-What is the one thing that you’ve always wanted to do, but always managed to procrastinate?





57 Comments

Kakapana
23 Oct 2008 04:44

I love my body, except for my huge thunderous thighs ...

witty lady
23 Oct 2008 04:51

Mina I've never had a flat stomach so if I could get that, I'd be one happy woman, other than that I love myself to bits and pieces. Yes its amazing how ungrateful we are for what we have..... That body part of yours that u are complaining about there are people out there that would give anything to have it coz they dont and a person yena o busy complaining about the way their legs are shaped..... 4getting gore go na le batho ba ba senang ona.

I guess its human nature, we can never be satisfied.

Best-Achiever
23 Oct 2008 05:12

My question is why is it that we (able-bodied people) only appreciate our life and health when we see people that are deemed to be less fortunate than us. 

Because we turn to be ignorant until we see other people who doesnt hve what we have

-Why is it that we need other people misfortunes to make us appreciate ourselves. 
It is our nature

-What part of your body are you insecure about and why. 
Mna im content with what i have and who i am .....

-Given the opportunity would you change it? 
Niks

-What is the one thing that you’ve always wanted to do, but always managed to procrastinate?
i used to be a dancer a while back and would love to do it again but time is not on my side 

Molilo
23 Oct 2008 05:26

Just like witty i wish to have a flat tummy, well toned thighs, no bye-byes. I love my body and proud of it that is y I only have a problem with those features that I know I can work on, those I cannot work on I have accepted them. I am a chancer if I want to do something and it is achievable I do it, I do not wait. I am a risk taker so to say.....

makgotso
23 Oct 2008 05:47

I love my body and I don't want to change anything about it. Something that I wish that I can do, it's dancing especially hip pop dancing, but tym and age is not on my side hey,iyooooooo what can my younger say uma sengibangisana naye i dance floor permanently at least now I do it for fun endlini naye. And I wish I can be a sportwoman again as I was before joining the corporate world.

kick-s
23 Oct 2008 05:47

If only i could have:
 
Madonna's toned arms
Beyonce's booty
Janet Jackson's arbs
Tyra Banks's cleavage
Naomi Campbell's height
Jada Pinkett's husband

then life would be too perfect. SO I AM SO CONTENT WITH WHAT I SEE IN THE MIRROR.

witty lady
23 Oct 2008 05:53

LOL!! @Molilo no bye-byes... hehe!! Toning up is the solution 4 us

@KICK-S hehehe.... so u wish u could c Will Smith when u look urself in the mirror? wwe-mmaaa

carino
23 Oct 2008 05:56

LOL @ wittylady

kick-s
23 Oct 2008 05:58

@witty lady
"If i could have"...Jada Pinkett's husband

Sana Lwam
23 Oct 2008 06:00

-What part of your body are you insecure about and why
My stomach
Given the opportunity would you change it? 
Yes infact I'm in the processs.

I'm being honest guys and gals, I love my body kodwa izipejeje...

witty lady
23 Oct 2008 06:07

HAAI SHEM... MOKHABA IS BAAAD!!! Ke gala jwang when I see these women on tv with hungry stomach....

@Sana- if ur recipe 4getting rid of SPEJEJE work... please give it to me, I'll even compensate u bathong!

kick-s
23 Oct 2008 06:22

Irecipe yezi pejeje is Blackforest tea. Iyaluma yona but a cup every night before you go to bed, will suck your tummy in.

Ps...Kick-S will not be held responsible should this not work for you or should any  side-effects occur

Lemon_Lite
23 Oct 2008 06:23

All I want - all I want is a flat tummy... that's all I want

PrettyPree
23 Oct 2008 06:28

Ps...Kick-S will not be held responsible should this not work for you or should any side-effects occur.......LOL

witty lady
23 Oct 2008 06:29

Tjo Blackforest! I phuzad that and iyaluma tjo so I can imagine what a sleepless night I would have....Sana and Lemon lite pls try KICK-S'S recipe and holla at me if it works!!

mina I'll try Siluette 40!!

Sana Lwam
23 Oct 2008 06:43

I did the Blackforest and mabeaute teas - neh dont work. Taebo works cause you lose some weight aswell but it wants discipline.

Cody
23 Oct 2008 06:46

Tjo Blackforest! I phuzad that and iyaluma tjo so I can imagine what a sleepless night I would have....Sana and Lemon lite pls try KICK-S'S recipe and holla at me if it works!!

mina I'll try Siluette 40!!
 


Iyaluma yes but when you get used to it, it doesnt anymore, same as Green Tea, very good if you want to tone your body and excercise of course.

Does Siluette 40 work?

Earth
23 Oct 2008 06:50

Nna the one thing I'm extremely self conscious about ke my kis kis( knock knees),pity there is nothing I can do about that.I am also uncomfortable with my weight,but at least that can change (damn that stew at the canteen!!)

witty lady
23 Oct 2008 06:51

Exercise is good especially running mare hey... after a while you just get too lazy, so if u are not disciplined like me.... hmmm SPEJEJE 4 LIFE.

About siluette 40 I was just kidding... I dont believe a bar of soap can make you lose weight in 40 minutes...??
Havent tried it though.

As for green tea, it makes me so hungry

kick-s
23 Oct 2008 07:05

Another quick fix...Slim Coffee, available at Glomail, Verimark and Game stores.
R99. A cup of slim coffee every morning, ayilumi ke yona. You detox and it supresses appetite big time. You'll just be thirsty for water the whole day. 

Kakapana
23 Oct 2008 08:58

LOL Earth, you are allowed to splurge once in a while...i just had a burger and chips from the canteen a few minutes ago...

witty lady
23 Oct 2008 09:02

I'll try the coffee, there had better be 200 teabags for that price!

Pooky
23 Oct 2008 09:17

am losing waight the wrong way you guys.....am eating once a day and its two slices of toasted brown bread with boiled egg and mayo, in the eavening only.......

Cande
23 Oct 2008 09:22

Reply from: Lemon_Lite 10/23/2008 12:23:44 PM


All I want - all I want is a flat tummy... that's all I want
 

eish tell me about it, i am a size 28 with a big tummy.

pariri
23 Oct 2008 09:30

shame cande !!! LOL

Jada Smith
23 Oct 2008 09:33

@cande eish tell me about it, i am a size 28 with a big tummy. 

You must look like ................. LOL

Jada Smith
23 Oct 2008 09:38

@kick-s What's the name of the coffee I mean the brand cause when I search for Slim coffee under the Verimark site it doesn't appear,

kick-s
23 Oct 2008 09:43

Jada please check eGlomail because the name is simply SLIM COFFEE. and no witty lady, its 30 tea bags inside...more like a month's supply. But i doubt if you'll need more than that.
Why am i advertising for them again?

kick-s
23 Oct 2008 09:44

meant 30 coffee bags

witty lady
23 Oct 2008 09:49

So u drink it once a day..... I'm going to buy it, mare in Jan after I give birth!! LOL!

kick-s
23 Oct 2008 10:06

Oh jajaja, after you give birth mos def...lol. Within no time you'll have a tummy as flat as this lady on the right hand side with a pink dress and blue 'Khungqu' belt...tl t tl tl tl lt tl

pariri
23 Oct 2008 10:13

@ kick-s does it only slim the tummy or the whole body ?

Hlehle
23 Oct 2008 10:26

I love my body to bits and i dnt want to change anything. But sometimes if i had Queen Moroka's cleavage then i'll be somethings else. I see now i'm developing izipejeje and i aint liking it at all. But ke what can i say coz it seems like u r out of fashion if u dnt have izipejeje these days or kanjani guys. Big up to IZIPEJEJE.

cobiefun
23 Oct 2008 10:43

i agree with you Hlehle about a little bit of cleavage i could really use one more cup to my breasts. Not to brag or whatever but i like my flat nnnno! my six pack because i've worked so hard for it for the past 4 mnths, other than my small breasts i lovvvvvvve my petite body.

Firstdvd
24 Oct 2008 07:18

IZIPEJEJE??? Thanx Hlehle, i didn't know what was it ;-)

Strolicious
24 Oct 2008 08:16

eish Hlehle im with u on da breast part,i cant even buy sexy langerie for my man coz i dont have a breast size i only wear amaskin top,i bought da breast pads and no diffrnt,the only bra enginelayo ile yabantwana 13/14 and i cant wear dat on a serois nyt...other dan dat i gt a perfect body....slim ,tall,flat stomach and no BREAST...

Kakapana
24 Oct 2008 09:37

LOL strolicious...shame amaskin top, i have actually forgotten about them

Cande
24 Oct 2008 09:40

LOL @ Stro

myname
12 Dec 2008 11:27

LOL Stro but i have to .........I feel u Molilo ngamathanga anemessage plus stretch marks oh i really dont know ezinye izinto why ziphuma, Some stretch marks luk like thunderstorms. I've been using Bio Oil for ninenteen andazi & ezinye are so expensive

tracy
12 Dec 2008 11:37

how did I miss this article I m passing by Game today Slim Coffee here I come

Kakapana
12 Dec 2008 11:44

I've been using Bio Oil for ninenteen andazi  @ myname i feel you on this...the thing just doesnt work but i still continue using it...

chazybaby
12 Dec 2008 11:44

I gave birth to twins five months ago and i wish to have a tummy tuck.
and di stretch marks tsona ga ke sa bolela.

blueroze
12 Dec 2008 11:46

boiled egg and mayo @Pooky sephinya sa teng????

tracy
12 Dec 2008 11:49

@chazybaby- the strech marks are hell I have a 10year old daughter but I m still struggling with them I think the best time to prevent them is while you still pregnant.

myname
12 Dec 2008 11:57

I think so Tracy but with people like mwaaa who used it after...Its so hard to get rid of those things. I wish there was something affordable then i will rock sika lekhekhe even in Winter. @Kakapana i dont 4get it every time i buy cosmetics but i always complain babes.

tracy
12 Dec 2008 12:30

I ve been searching online for this slim coffee aparantley its a scam to get pple's money from the diet blog and you can see the slim coffe on www.slimcoffee.com

GML
12 Dec 2008 12:49

I love everything about me. But I would consider havign a boob job after having kids(I have small breast) I dont want them to sag should I decide to breastfeed

cuz-cuz
12 Dec 2008 12:50

hhayi mina it the bones on the neck, it like a gap and those two bones comming out in the front.

same bones i have below my ribs whats up with these bones vele. everything else i am happy

GML
12 Dec 2008 12:52

Poeple with small breasts should try cup A or AA

GML
12 Dec 2008 12:56

Guys you should try LAVITA green tea. I have and have a flat tummy-No exercise

Sana Lwam
12 Dec 2008 13:03

GML did you have a big tummy before as in mkabaristo???

zulugal
12 Dec 2008 13:06

@ GML  gal where do u buy that tea?  I hope it doesnt give cramps like black forest tea.

tracy
12 Dec 2008 13:10

I dont drink tea at all infact I have never drank tea so I m scared of trying anything with tea any suggestions other than tea I do sit ups a few times a week but its not enough

Zah000
12 Dec 2008 13:22

Hwy guys!

@ GML: where do you get lelo tiye?? I'm starting to develop a pouch angazi ke nje it will get worse ngexa ye-festive!!

GML
12 Dec 2008 13:24

I'll have to ask my friend. I get it from her. There's another for slimming- It works wonders

GML
12 Dec 2008 13:28

I'll let you guys know next week.

Bye

zulugal
17 Dec 2008 10:56

GML any news gal?


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