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See me now, see me no more

Written by andi01 from the blog My pillar is no more on 21 Oct 2008
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I am usually the one with comforting words, when death strikes, but today I feel so sad. Its not that I have no faith in the words I always sat to amablockers in need, but today I have run out of them.

On the way from EC to attend a friends relative, the taxi they were in, hit a Kudu, but no one was injured. They went outside to inspect the taxi and the Kundu. A car from nowhere hit him. And he died.

A cousin of mine, the only brother I ever knew passed away Sunday night.

36 Comments

andi01
21 Oct 2008 03:27

Yep thats me

awelani
21 Oct 2008 03:34

Damn Gal, Um so sorry,, :( ((((((((cyber hug my frend)))))))))))!!!

Da Rebel
21 Oct 2008 03:35

my condolences Andi01! Be strong china!

odie
21 Oct 2008 03:37

A mowa wa gagwe o robale ka kagiso. and o gomotsege Andy my dear.

awelani
21 Oct 2008 03:38

in time, u will be fine..

Shuga babe
21 Oct 2008 03:40

Oh shame andi0, so sorry gal ((((((((cyber hug my frend)))))))))))!!! from me too. be strong and be blessed!!!! :-(

carino
21 Oct 2008 03:41

OMG... mna ke, i never know what to say...ina...here's a ((((((cyber hug...)))))mngani...

Why did the kudu cross the road???

andi01
21 Oct 2008 03:42

Thanks a lot guys. I am in the midle of my exams, the timing couldnt be worse. But ke he was like me, we were the brains of the family, the drunkards and the most care free, i know he wud be disappointed if i failed. I will pass these exams, just for him

andi01
21 Oct 2008 03:43

Ngqesta
21 Oct 2008 03:47

Wathi umculi...kufa akunantloni....uthule uthe cwaka kanti sele umoshile.....ngalo mazwi ke Andi ntombi kabawo ndithi ngxe....akuhlanga lungehliyo....nguye ophayo..ikwanguye nothathayo...thuthuzeleka maMthile...ungakhali uzenzakalise...lowo umthandayo uphunyuziwe kwinkxwaleko neenzingo zalomhlaba umagada ahlabayo. Lala ngenxeba sisi....lixesha lodwa eliyakubenza ngcono ubuhlungu benxeba lakho....Ndicinga ukuba ndithethela wonke umntu olapha xa ndisithi sakubeka emithandazweni. Inkosi yanga ingabanawe nosapho lwakho kwelixesha lobunzima, kodwa ke angekhe ikuthwalise umthwalo ongenakuwuthwala!

Ngqesta
21 Oct 2008 03:49

awelani
21 Oct 2008 03:50

Carino!!!!!!

andi01
21 Oct 2008 03:57

Why did the kudu cross the road??? - Thanks Carino, once gain you have proven how insesitive u can be when the pain isnt urs

Shuga babe
21 Oct 2008 04:04

"Why did the kudu cross the road??? - Thanks Carino, once gain you have proven how insesitive u can be when the pain isnt urs " Andi01, I think Carino was trying to put a smile on that sad face of yours. phela just because your causin passed doesn't mean is the end of the world for you. so please gal give me a smile!!!! *I'm glad u smiling*

maddie
21 Oct 2008 04:07

Why did the kudu cross the road??? - Thanks Carino, once gain you have proven how insesitive u can be when the pain isnt urs

Andi gal - I think Carino was just trying to put a smile on ur face, don't take it to heart. i lost my mom few weeks back and sometimes it's good to divert what has happened to something a little bit lighter.

concentrate on ur exams now, and you'll mourn your cousin later. i know how it's like

Best-Achiever
21 Oct 2008 04:13

Im sorry to hear that Andi, bt knowing you i belive you gonna be strong during these trying times. God will never give you something you can not Handle ...Keep faith and pray like never before ...He will see you through and make your pain bearable .... This is the verse from God's property song titled "More than i can bear" ...hope it will come handy to you as it always does to me

I've gone through the fire
And I've been through the flood
I've been broken into pieces
Seen lightin flashin from above
But through it all I remember
That He loves me and He cares
And He'll never put more on me
Than I can't bear

Earth
21 Oct 2008 04:13

My condolences to you Andi.That's the thing with death,you never know when its going to hit,barely 2 weeks ago I was with somebody,this past weekend I was at their funeral.Its never easy to digest,but believe me,it does get better with time.My condolences once more.

carino
21 Oct 2008 04:14

Andi mngani..you know i love you and i really hate to see you cry... It's really sad to lose someone close to you... and its still very early and yuo still need to cry.. but you have to be strong, qina, mzalwane... I suppose when it's time, it's just time... and your cousin wasnt meant to live any day longer than Sunday....

I'm sorry if i souded insensetive.... I was just still cross at the Kudu that led to the taking away of your cousin's life... but nigga, im with you in spirit... i feel your pain...and i'm going to pray that God gives you strength to go through this and pass your exams....

Toxic
21 Oct 2008 04:19

Fierce hugs for you Andi. Terribly sorry this happened. Nothing i can say can ease your pain so i really hope you find it in you to deal with this and with your exams.

kgau ngwana
21 Oct 2008 04:20

Hi andi;i for one know what you are going thru;this year in february i lost my brother and while i was starting to heal i lost ny son on the 8th september but trust me when i say time heals...stay strong love and make your beloved cousin proud by passing your exams

JadaPinkett
21 Oct 2008 04:20

It look short but it's very sad...Sorry Andi01

Pooky
21 Oct 2008 04:25

askies chocho....my deepest condolences vah gal, (((( warm cyba hugs)))))...Qina luv...This too shall pass

pawagie
21 Oct 2008 04:26

my condolences andio1....

felfel
21 Oct 2008 04:33

Please be strong Andie u shared great love and great moments with him, remember those and frame them in your heart and mind......uThixo uyakuthanda, ngekhe akushiye wedwa.......

molibelis
21 Oct 2008 04:41

Why did the kudu cross the road??? - Thanks Carino, once gain you have proven how insesitive u can be when the pain isnt urs SURE ! ! !
Some Ppl have no Heats ! ! !

They will Kill 4 Carino............even when she is wrong,Big time,
@.....I think Carino was just trying to put a smile
@.....I think Carino was trying to put a smile on that sad face of yours.

Andie van die Uno: God wont fail U

carino
21 Oct 2008 09:44

Healer - by Hillsong

♫You hold my every moment
You calm my raging seas
You walk with me through fire
And heal all my disease

I trust in You
I trust in You

I believe You're my Healer
I believe You are all I need
I believe You're my Portion
[ Hillsong Lyrics are found on www.songlyrics.com ]
I believe You're more than enough for me
Jesus You're all I need

Nothing is impossible for You
Nothing is impossible for You
Nothing is impossible for You
You hold my world in Your hands ♫

carino
22 Oct 2008 04:21

Crystal Lewis - Beauty for Ashes

♫He gives beauty for ashes
Strength for fear
Gladness for mourning
Peace for despair

When sorrow seems to surround you
When suffering hangs heavy oer your head
Know that tomorrow brings
Wholeness and healing
God knows your need
Just believe what He said

He gives beauty for ashes
Strength for fearGladness for mourning
Peace for despair ♫

andi01
22 Oct 2008 04:23

Thanks Carino and all you guys, you doing your best and ur ar helping a lot.

carino
22 Oct 2008 04:37

You are welcome andzzz.... you know with TVSA, you are never alone!

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 04:37

"They will Kill 4 Carino............even when she is wrong,Big time,
@.....I think Carino was just trying to put a smile
@.....I think Carino was trying to put a smile on that sad face of yours. "

@molibelis, this is not the best blogg to brake you little neck, thats why will let this pass hahaha!!!! *with my mouth wild open*

Andi01 you'll be ok sisi, we love you!!
♫One step at a time♫
♫There's no need to rush♫

PY
22 Oct 2008 04:46

Oh andi01...when it comes to things like this i alwayz run out of words wish i could say sth that will make u feel better but i cant.....sorry about ur loss...I also have a couzin brother whom i can say we are the brains of the family, the drunkards and the most care free...I cant bear losing him & cant imagine life without him...
Sorry to u too Kgau ngwana

andi01
22 Oct 2008 04:54

Today at 12h30, the school that he was a teacher at will have a memorial service for him. I will be there as a family rep, since others cant due to work. How do I comfort those kids if my own heart is bleeding. How do I tell them to stop crying when my eyes are drowning in tears. But I have to, he is my brother. I have to stand infront of them and talk about my brother.

This pain is too much to bare, but I will for where there is love there is pain. If someone hasn’t been hurt, he hasn’t loved yet. I don’t wish this heartache on anyone. I have a hole in my heart that is sooooo deep. But the great memories I have of him will fill it up in time. The almighty will dry my tears and give me strength to carry on.

andi01
22 Oct 2008 05:00

♫Akuvumi mandithule♫
♫Hay akuvumi mandithule♫

♫Xa ndiyekelelwa nguwe♫
♫ndophalala njengamanzi♫

Nonny
22 Oct 2008 05:04

♫Xa ndiyekelelwa nguwe♫
♫ndophalala njengamanzi♫

Qina Andile. My condolences hey.

Lushi
27 Oct 2008 03:15

Huuh that's said girl. Sorry sisi man just pray and trust God. He will make u strong.

smadzadza B
27 Oct 2008 05:20

Sorry Andi wethu,Aluhlanga lungehlanga!!

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