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The day I will never forget.....

Written by mayandie from the blog The Day I will never forget.... on 29 Sep 2008
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Good Morning everyone....
Hv you ever written that composition at school that is The day I will never forget??????
This happened last Suterday when me & my Boo decided to go to clubbing...On our way back from Town we passed the off ramp that says Watermayer/Mamelodi my Boo saw this car that was in a awkward position.And we had passed nhe but then decided to reverse....
On our arrival we found that the car was in an accident & two kids aged btwn 5 & 14 covered in blood but the young one was standing up inthe car so i took her out while my hubby was calling for help...We collected their staff around the car & I found a fone & called all last dialed numbers..
To my suprisewhen police & 911 came they went past us & there was a body lying a km away from the accident & it was the mother & she was dead.....Whilst calling the numbers I called another 084 number which happene to b the hubby of the deceased...to my amusement the first question he asked me when I told her there is somebody involved in a car accident he said "t is my wife is she dead????
To cut the story short we helped the kids to the hospital & her sisters came & took her staff...
We communicated with the family wanting to know funeral arrangements but we arrange to see them on Friday at her house she was sharing with the hubby.When we got there there was a huge fight that the hubby did not want to identify the body & he locked himself in another room with all his family members...
The mother of the deseased asked us if we can show her the scene of the accident so that they can collect her spirit...We went there together with everyone who was there expect for the hubby & his family...
When we got to the place we saw the remains of her wheel caps & BOOM another accident which involved the twin sister & brother of the deceased...Right on the very same spot the passed away....

34 Comments

afrolicious
29 Sep 2008 02:10

Haw mayandie is this 4 real?

Renegade
29 Sep 2008 02:14

On which highway was this?

Sorry to hear this, really painful!

mayandie
29 Sep 2008 02:19

In PTA Schoeman Street kwiOff ramp ethi Watermayer /Mamelodi

Renegade
29 Sep 2008 02:22

Oh, e Schoeman...eish. Askies that you had to witness that. I must say though, you were very brave to stop when you saw the car.

Beyonce Knowles Bee
29 Sep 2008 02:26

Hhayi this is something else!!! May Lord bless them through this hard time!!!

mayandie
29 Sep 2008 02:34

How can the Husband be so cruel sana he never even went to the funeral....Oh I heard that they were in a process of divorce but really that doen't mean he must treat her like that esp when she is dead....
I was very hurt & i'm still traumatised with the whole thing but i've booked myself for EAP...i'LL BE OKEY...
But it is times like this when you really ask "Where were you God???"
I know he was there but for the sake of the children why did you spare that mother's life??????
I'm also worried abt the mother who was suppose to burry one child now she has to deal with two mo' deaths.....

Kapakapa
29 Sep 2008 02:35

Its sad, hope they are able to sort out their differences and bury ngwana batho with dignity!

Toxic
29 Sep 2008 02:36

hecticNESS!

Cnglemother
29 Sep 2008 02:40

yoh ibuhlungu ke le!

mayandie
29 Sep 2008 02:43

It is the day I will never Forget really......
My wedding day was nothing compared to this......

Mnelyza
29 Sep 2008 02:52

Hayi bo Mayandie is this really true I dont believe this.that's so sad

Cande
29 Sep 2008 02:53

shuu

belz
29 Sep 2008 02:54

OMG!! yandies. that is hectic. yho you guys are brave.

felfel
29 Sep 2008 02:54

Haaibo Mayandie....
"When we got to the place we saw the remains of her wheel caps & BOOM another accident which involved the twin sister & brother of the deceased...Right on the very same spot the passed away...."

That's a freak accident neh.........they died on the same spot when ya'll went to see the accident spot on the same day????

faraimagic
29 Sep 2008 03:01

Then Lord Bless Us All!

mayandie
29 Sep 2008 03:02

Well we went there with umzimba of the one that was suppose to be burried with iHerse neBox coz they wanted to collect her spirit & BOOM the other 2 died on the same spot kasisi wabo...
And I'm still shaking guys just thinking about it makes me want to cry....
But as you all know talking about it is really a relief for me.....
Coz I really feel much better now...
There were 3 pastors with all of us & they were also shocked & could not even pray.....the words were just not coming out...all they could do is cry....

Best-Achiever
29 Sep 2008 03:09

OMW ... Hectic indeed

Luksta
29 Sep 2008 03:24

"t is my wife is she dead???? WTF was this man saying? Did he eliminate his wife(and her siblingz?).
Where are these people from? Benin?(it seems as if there is some Voodo isht going on).
Mayandie, you also need to 'cleanse' yourself, that is a hectic stuff you got into.

Toodecent
29 Sep 2008 03:32

Damn...... Get the so called Hubby investigated and make sure its done to the best of it guilty or not only the court can find that. I smell a rotten rat.

Nonny
29 Sep 2008 03:48

When we got to the place we saw the remains of her wheel caps & BOOM another accident which involved the twin sister & brother of the deceased...Right on the very same spot the passed away....
OMW Mayandie, this is so hectic, shem man. Kodwa ke khona okushaya manzi ngalendaba!!!

There were 3 pastors with all of us & they were also shocked & could not even pray.....the words were just not coming out...all they could do is cry....
Damn this is sad. Lomdeni unamabhadi bandla, u and ur hubby kumele nizihlanze khona amabhadi abo angke anilandele. Also pray and be strong and don't let thiss sad incident that u witnissed take over u.

carino
29 Sep 2008 03:53

The mother of the deseased asked us if we can show her the scene of the accident so that they can collect her spirit...

The word is deceased, mayandie... with a "c". Otherwise you are insinuating that the wife had some kind of sickness.

Nonny
29 Sep 2008 03:57

Carino, I'm suprised u overlooked Suterday.........LOL

carino
29 Sep 2008 03:58

We communicated with the family wanting to know funeral arrangements but we arrange to see them on Friday at her house she was sharing with the hubby.When we got there there was a huge fight that the hubby did not want to identify the body & he locked himself in another room with all his family members...

...sounds like an episode of Khumbulekhaya...

cleve
29 Sep 2008 04:03

How can someone who loved you once in their lives do that to you. Some people are just heartless, I would never do that to anyone I don't care how much you have wronged me. God will deal with this man, his life is doomed now. He probably will try and claim the estate andthe kids.

sweetie my baby
29 Sep 2008 04:03

& BOOM another accident which involved the twin sister & brother of the deceased...Right on the very same spot the passed away....

hang on - do you mean that when you took the family to the accident spot, the second accident happened - a day after the woman had died??? iyo!!

so sorry you had to live through this - but thanks for being so compassionate and kind to the family, i'm sure it meant the world to them....

carino
29 Sep 2008 04:09

I'm suprised u overlooked Suterday.........LOL
hahahaa... i was gon come back to it now Nons, was still checkin my notes for the other part of the sentence.

This happened last Suterday when me & my Boo decided to go to clubbing...

We can go to a club

Or go clubbing

But as for going to clubbing, no-no-no... thats not english...

Eish, mayands, im really sorry you had to experience such a thing... and uNonny unyanisile wena noHubby kumele nizihlaze... nenze umgidi othize...otherwise lamabhadi will follow you...

molibelis
29 Sep 2008 04:13

Carino and Nonny, Behave yrselves........or else shayani'e sqathulo

I think that we should tell ourselves that Lefu le Leqosa le kopanyang Motho le Modimo wa hae.....(4 us to meet our LORD is only by Death,)

pariri
29 Sep 2008 06:21

"Well we went there with umzimba of the one that was suppose to be burried with iHerse neBox coz they wanted to collect her spirit & BOOM the other 2 died on the same spot kasisi wabo..."
OMG haybo Mayandie ngumnhlola sana lo niwubonileyo yhoooooo gal u're very brave

Golden Star
29 Sep 2008 08:33

Yho Mayandie this is so hectic it almost sounds unreal. Seeing a family that you didn't even know dead and dying infront of your eyes.
Please be strong sanas and I'm sure God will send His special angels to watch over you guys.

Firstdvd
29 Sep 2008 18:14

Reading this article @ this time...Really scary! Hectic, unforgetable indeed!

Blaze
30 Sep 2008 08:17

This happened last Suterday when me & my Boo decided to go to clubbing...On our way back from Town we passed the off ramp that says Watermayer/Mamelodi my Boo saw this car that was in a awkward position.And we had passed nhe but then decided to reverse....

thats why I never stop for anything @ nyt, crazy things happen at nyt.

as for carino, will you stop with your spelling police bull #%$. FFS