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Long time no write………here is the reason I find me writing this article. I live in a house, which am sharing with two other mates. Well when we started staying together all was well, we’d chat about this and that like normal people w’d do catching up after a long day at work. For some reason things started changing, firstly the daily chats ceased.
Well me being a talkative person carried on bringing small talks with the gals, up to a point where I realized that I was always the one who initiated talks in the house even when we happen to meet maybe from town or on our way home. I’d be the one carrying on n on with those small talks. I mean, I found it strange that people could live in the same house, walk together home but just don’t say a word to each other and for no apparent reason! It then came to a point where I decided to stop myself, at the end of the day I owed no one anything.
the only thing we do is say hi when we meet in the kitchen. As if this was not enough, as a person who believes that house’s windows should be open every morning for fresh air to circulate in. I then noticed that when ever I happened to have came late or went to my room early, the windows w’d remain open the whole night just because I was the one who’d opened them that morning.
The same thing happens with the door, no one ever bother to check if it’s locked as long as their door rooms are. Here is the one that irritates me the most, when ever there is someone knocking at the door they just never bother to go n check who it is. Reason being they expecting no visitors since their bf’s aren’t in our town. Mind u not that I am mostly visited person myself nor have a bf, but what irritates me the most is that even if one of them orders pizza for instance. They just go n lock themselves in their rooms n being the one who cares n answer when home, I hate it to find out it someone looking for them.
Well it got to a point where I couldn’t take it any more, I then asked why all of this was happening: the answer was that they don’t think that they should do the things I’ve mentioned since we are not family…..ngivele ngoma…worse part the person answering is a church going, 27 yrs old, nine months pregnant woman.
I know, I know this article is long….so tell me is this normal of women sharing a house, since I’ve never shared I refused to even while I was still in tertiary.
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