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Oo i miss you

Written by wildcat from the blog Ohh i miss you on 19 Jun 2008
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Hi everyone,i am new in here and very nervous.And from what i have read so far i think i have a reason to be,lol.Anyway i just want to say it feels good being a part of this awesome,mind blowing family.

I am so puzzled by the way we behave as woman at times,i went out with a couple of my gal friends the other day and and one of my friend's boyfriend called to say he misses her,and guess what she told him he can come pick her up.Just because he did not have plans on that day,he had to spoil our day,i mean how many times do we call our boyfriend while they are out with the "boys"telling them we miss them and all we get is"babes i told you i am going out with the boys,so stop nagging i'll be home soon"and the next thing they dont answer ur calls or their phone is off,bt as a woman if you were to do that you might end up being accused and given the silent treatment for the whole week,unless ofcourse if he is horny,why is it like that mara?I dont mean to nag rite now bt hell why cant we do the same to them?????

35 Comments

Toxic
20 Jun 2008 02:56

Cnglemother
20 Jun 2008 03:00

Feels good to have you as a family member wildkat! Enjoy yo stay dear.

carino
20 Jun 2008 03:10

yha, nhe...

Welcome, catwoman... Enjoy your stay.

... ... very nervous.And from what i have read so far i think i have a reason to be.

I would be nervous nam if i were you.

KeleFabulous
20 Jun 2008 03:16

ditto

Hlehle
20 Jun 2008 03:23

The problem is we are always available than they are. I have a friend and we used to be close and now that she has a boyfriend she does'nt have time for me and she moved to live at res. and she will give me a missed call, when i call her & ask why cant she call me she'll say, she doe'nt have enough airtime she used it to her boyfriend. I said to her why buzz me then and u seem to forget that i also have a BF and i make time for u but u dnt for me.

Strolicious
20 Jun 2008 03:27

da thing is abafazi bathanda ipipi kakhulu....ohhh welcome wildcats

nice
20 Jun 2008 03:47

and it is really annoying when friends do that. But I just that I was being jealous since I am single, but now I know ..........well I guess her man can give her something that I can never give her. but I agree it should not interefere with our plans. I am so going to point out to her the next time I see her and she can be angry if she wants , thanks Hlehle for that last sentence of yours

Hlehle
20 Jun 2008 04:00

She lives in Mowbray near CT & i live in Somerset West & her BF lives in Somerset West too, she visit him and call me on her way back to her place that she was here. I used to visit her and i stopped bcoz it seems like i'm the one who is still into this friendship while she is not longer into it.

Yes we ladies put our men first than our friends. How is that coz they'll always put their friends first. My man knows that i met him after my friends so if there is a friend's gathering he knows i must attend & i'm not comparing him with them and i wont choose btwn him and them.

candybabe
20 Jun 2008 04:01

da thing is abafazi bathanda ipipi kakhulu....eish saan Stro you just tell it like it is he heh LOL

Anyway i hope you will enjoy ur stay wildcat and wamkelekile!!

My comment is on the topic,face it ppl women will alwayz have a soft spot and heart especially when it comes to their men and i think thats what makes them different from them anyway!!!!!

Zeethu
20 Jun 2008 04:07

Enjoy your stay wildcat...

Strolicious
20 Jun 2008 04:14

Hlehle >>>she's not a frend,mina my frend use to do that but ngashesha ngabona ukuthi uyangi user,if uBF angekho she will come to me,.....i was a susbtitute...nxiii

Hlehle
20 Jun 2008 04:20

Do you know what we agreed on Stroh, is that no man must come between us. She has forgotten all that and i guess love has blinded her. But love is blind yes but it does'nt have to be dumb or deaf neh.

Cande
20 Jun 2008 04:22

gals here in TVSA really love men..A day doesn't go by without any man issue.
anyway
i put my gals before my man, because they will be the one comforting me when he backstabs me.!

Strolicious
20 Jun 2008 04:31

eish saan Stro you just tell it like it is he heh LOL ....mina i dont wanna lie,i would leave you ,umuntu wami angifuna la....ohhh awazi kwenzakalani manje, i so wish he was here.khona lakumover khona.

zolx
20 Jun 2008 04:39

Men can also be manipulative at times and try to create that distance with you and friends. They (men) want you all to themselves and as soon as you start spending more time with friends then they get jealous.

back on topic - there was a time where i felt like i was the only one pushing ifriendship, always the one phoning and smsing and since we've been friends for a long time i let my friend know how i felt. We talked and quickly resolved it. SO i advise that if you're feeling ur friend is not so much into you anymore - let her know, at least that way you dont have questions that you cant answer.

andi01
20 Jun 2008 04:46

i put my gals before my man, because they will be the one comforting me when he backstabs me.! this is sad considering that your man is your soulmate, probably ur babies father and the person who will rest next to you 'emathuneni". Also that those friends should comfort u given that, chances are they are responsible for your man back stabbing you in the first place. You know what they say, you can love them all, but trust none.

Remember guys, friends are always there, but men come and go, so wqe might as well be the nca bostik while they are still around, dont worrie kade tsala, you can always hookup with them even after 5years of not talking. imagin trying to shag some1 u last spoke to 5 years ago, thats mission almost impossible.
"I am thathing khava"

andi01
20 Jun 2008 04:51

one of my friend's boyfriend called to say he misses her,and guess what she told him he can come pick her, do you expect ur girl to deprive herself of TLC and good shag bcoz of u. haybo girl be fair. he had to spoil our day, haybo kanti where are your man nina, just bcoz ur man dont miss u as much as hers does, dont get jelaous girl. @ Hlehle she does'nt have time for me, look on the bright side, that means you'l also have enough time nendoda yakho, hawu

Hlehle
20 Jun 2008 05:04

If u put it that way i understand. But why does she have to call me on her way back to her house. Ufuna ndithini mna ngalonto coz khange atsho ngoku ebesiza. She does'nt even call me lately and thats when i decided not to call her too.

faraimagic
20 Jun 2008 05:07

carino
20 Jun 2008 05:14

Does anyone know where Nonny is???

Hlehle
20 Jun 2008 05:23

I want to know too Carino, where is she????

carino
20 Jun 2008 05:30

I miss Nonny... And her GB is locked. I just hope akaphathwa ngesigulo sikaBusi Dlomo.

faraimagic
20 Jun 2008 05:36

You miss NOnny as in? you miss her or she will bring the Oo i miss you of this article? @carino&Hlehle!

Hlehle
20 Jun 2008 05:41

@ faraimagic i miss her not as in she'll bring the Oo i miss you of this article.

faraimagic
20 Jun 2008 05:46

really!...just wondering...........i heard that!........of coz im a Bastard!hi hi hi

carino
20 Jun 2008 05:51

You miss NOnny as in? you miss her or she will bring the Oo i miss you of this article? @carino&Hlehle!

We miss her as in.... We know she misses us naye, wherever she is. .
As for bringing the oo i missyou-ness of this article.... no comment.......

tshepiso
20 Jun 2008 06:06

da thing is abafazi bathanda ipipi kakhulu.... haai mnmn!

andi01
20 Jun 2008 06:12

@ thsepiso da thing is abafazi bathanda ipipi kakhulu, the thing is akukho okumnandi ukudlula yona, even oats, niknaks, red bull, nothing can beat the taste of "daai ding", ek se vir hulle.

carino
20 Jun 2008 06:13

Tshepiso..... o tswa kae???

Hlehle
20 Jun 2008 06:19

U can say that again Andi01.

wildcat
20 Jun 2008 06:26

@andi01do you expect ur girl to deprive herself of TLC and good shag bcoz of u. haybo girl be fair. he had to spoil our day, haybo kanti where are your man nina, just bcoz ur man dont miss u as much as hers does, dont get jelaous girl.

No,no,no and no,it has nothing to do with jerlousy,but why is it so hard for guyz to do the same for us,why is it such a big deal when i call my man to tell him i miss him and he tells me he cant come now,he is out with the boyz,what i want to understand is why cant we as ladies do the same,tell him gore u know what i am out with the gals,i'll see you l8ter,ignore his calls or switch off the phone.......?I have to admit i sometimes do that myself,run into his arms.

spice
20 Jun 2008 06:31

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh

Best-Achiever
20 Jun 2008 06:35

this is sad considering that your man is your soulmate, probably ur babies father and the person who will rest next to you 'emathuneni". Also that those friends should comfort u given that, chances are they are responsible for your man back stabbing you in the first place. You know what they say, you can love them all, but trust none.

@Andi01 .... i beg to differ here, if i have plans with my friends my BF has to respect that, he can call and tell me he misses me BUT don't expect to to drop my plans and run to him Never! same goes to my friend, if i have plans with BF, they must know and respect that.

Man come and go, but friends are there forever but that has to go with respect from bth BF and Friends

ThandoM
30 Dec 2008 14:37

I just came in, Am I Welcome?

wildcat
30 Dec 2008 15:35

Hey Thando,you are def welcomed,have a super duper new year and hope to see more of you next year.

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