Written by nanah from the blog love hurts right? on 06 Jun 2008 Favourite this post
i met a guy recently and i think i have truly fallen in love with him. so whats the problem with that? well he has 2 kids from a previous relationship and i havent asked about the mama. but the problem is i have my own kid and i dont know how to tell because i feel that he might just leave (its happened before) because i have my own.but i also dont want to keep my daughter a secret coz she does need a father in her life (well hers decided that i wasnt good enof for him anymore and left me with problems from finance to raising her).im not saying i want to introduce them but i want him to know about her and acknowlegde that i also have some one to take care of besides myself. but more so that i can see and feel if he truly does care for me like i do for him is that so wrong but help when is the right moment to tell about her?but most of all i need time to myself just to reflect but my kid just aint getting it that her mama is in a bad spce ive been depressed for a while now and sucidal thoughts have been recking havoc in my mind lately but then agian i look at my nana and i know that everything will be alright hopefully! (been thinking of quiting varsity and staying home) but then well my daughter needs a bright future and i need mine so hopefully i will get all of these detrcutive thoughts off my mind and well try to get through the year unharmed. but rather loving and being loved back. but i love my new man and i truly dont want this little secret to end our relationship he is so big on being honest becuase at times i tend to tell some little white lies to get ahead so could she mean the end of our love or would he feel that he cant trust me again? i dont know but please bloggers help me understand me and my situation1st article hope it aint to bad and filled with gibberish
zolx 06 Jun 2008 05:44
Kapakapa 06 Jun 2008 06:01
mstick 06 Jun 2008 06:02
Taf neh Nanah....... errr............i dont knw but pls drain the suicidal fots out of ur head think abt ur BABA she tooo young
carino 06 Jun 2008 06:11
///////////shaking my head///////////// nc...nc...nc
Hlehle 06 Jun 2008 06:14
andi01 06 Jun 2008 06:24
Cande 06 Jun 2008 06:26
mstick 06 Jun 2008 06:33
Strolicious 06 Jun 2008 06:36
ngwana 06 Jun 2008 06:42
Strolicious 06 Jun 2008 06:47
Strolicious 06 Jun 2008 06:51
lucia 06 Jun 2008 06:56
Cnglemother 06 Jun 2008 06:58
peaces 06 Jun 2008 06:58
Strolicious 06 Jun 2008 07:06
Cnglemother 06 Jun 2008 07:08
youngtodie 06 Jun 2008 07:23
mstick 06 Jun 2008 07:39
ocean1 06 Jun 2008 07:58
andi01 06 Jun 2008 08:05
Kapakapa 06 Jun 2008 08:05
Strolicious 06 Jun 2008 08:11
Cnglemother 06 Jun 2008 08:31
Cnglemother 06 Jun 2008 08:34
sweetie my baby 06 Jun 2008 22:58
diamond 09 Jun 2008 02:18
nanah 10 Jun 2008 04:40
Strolicious 10 Jun 2008 05:19
nanah>>>hey you hope u made da right choice,love dat lil angel with everything u have.
carino 10 Jun 2008 06:07
mathata 10 Jun 2008 07:56
Segololo 10 Jun 2008 09:58
Segololo 10 Jun 2008 11:14
sweetie my baby 10 Jun 2008 11:47
Firstdvd 10 Jun 2008 15:20
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