Do you have problems talking about sex or relating with others sexually? Why do you think sex has been labeled dirty, evil, forbidden, taboo and not to be discussed? Why is it considered all of those things in the human race only and why are certain sexual acts considered to be animal acts?
You are probably reading this wondering where am I going with this. Different people react differently to any sexual connotations or images. Some people get excited, some interested and you get those who either choose to turn a blind eye or those who will be interested with negative mind sets. Pre-teens are highly interested in anything that has to do with sex. If you want a teenager not to find anything of yours that is sexually secretive label it something else, eg. "gardening" or "catching snails". I had to come up with a tittle that will attract over 18's.
My aim for this blog? Is to help you release sexual energy and frustrations, share sexy ideas and get sexual advice from each other. You have probably many times read advice columns where you actually felt that was such a stupid advice or a lie. I am also here to help where needed because I am the Sexologist.
You can ask or share other people's problems or experiences without naming them. You can share any myths you have heard before. Remember the myths we heard as teenagers: "You won't fall pregnant if you have sex standing up." Wow, how many 20 year olds out there were conceived that way? "Your boobs will grow bigger if boys touch them" I wish that was true and I would have saved my money from paying for these fake twins.
This is just my introduction to TVSA and I hope my presence is welcomed and worthwhile. Ladies let the men know what women want and guys vice versa. I know women never want to admit to self-touching and self-pleasure. Men are known to be the ones who do that. Women are sexually secretive to the point that they never ask what and how they want it to be given. Men are given the work and expected to read women's minds and it ends up in job half done and faked orgasms. We are sexual beings and have been given the gift of sexual pleasure. Yet we short change ourselves.
I apply the motto of "Do unto others as you want them to do unto you". If you gonna go in there to give yourself up make sure you take as well. Sex is not just physical. It's your whole being and spirituality hence it is meant to be sacred. Grow up and own up to being pleasured by giving pleasure. Ladies, "Sex cures headaches otherwise Headaches cause seperation". Men, "Sex releases tension and alcohol kills your sexabilility". Sex is not just for procreation it is also for recreation and pleasure.
Let me conclude this here and allow you to release, learn and discover the most beautiful thing that was given to us.
"The common thread that binds nearly all animal species seems to be that males are willing to abandon all sense and decorum, even to risk their lives, in the frantic quest for sex." ~ Randy Thornhill and Craig T. Palmer