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Written by Weiss from the blog Please Help me Out on 22 May 2008
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Hi there guys, well this is my very first blog ever - well I dont know whether it will be my last one too. The reason I'm writing this blog is because of the situation I'm in right now.

Two years ago I met a lady - she seemed like a nice lady to me. We then became good friends. I used to go to lunches with her, visit her and spend some time with her. That's how I got to know about the problems she was having in her household. Well her husband was treating very badly, beating the hell out her, having numerous affairs - she had enough of his nonsense and was just trying to get out of that situation. They had no kids together, but the man had six kids from outside the marriage (well they were married for four years, mind you). Me being myself I helped her to go to a lawyer and she ended up finalising the divorce and she was back to living single again.

What made me feel worse is that her husband commited suicide because of the divorce, and that made me feel terrible. She did not feel any better herself - that guilt was eating her up. I dont feel like getting into details about stuff she used to do - I became a good Samaritan again, and helped her talk to social worker. The social worker hooked her up with a psychiatrist. She recovered, but still had ups and downs. Then I decided to keep my distance and not see her again.

Now what makes write this article is that, okay we would send each other sms's from time to time - not regularly. So two weeks ago she asked me to have lunch with her. She told me how great was doing - I even noticed that. New hairstyle and all. But yesterday I got this sms from her - that has shocked me. So bloggers please tell me what to make out of this "I dont c any reason for living if I must suffer like this, I thought it will be better but instead... I cant handle this anymore. thank u 4 everything"...***sigh*** BATHONG, WHAT TO DO IN SITUATION LIKE THIS, MARA HEH??

I tried to call, but her phone was off... I immideately drove by her house and found the gate locked ... I was really scared. The thing is I still scared because I tried to phone her six time this morning and she is still not answering. She's definetly not in her house because the lady who works there said she was around the house at half past three in afternoon and never came back.

So MaBLOGGERS, WHAT TO DO? WHAT TO DO? PLEASE YOUR INPUT WILL HELP.

114 Comments

Weiss
22 May 2008 02:40

Please guys, I would really appreciate anything you come wtih rigth now. I feel totally useless.

Mphoyame
22 May 2008 02:49

I yOoooo,......I'll also be very scared, just pray that God keeps her safe and for not to do anything stupid.

Renegade
22 May 2008 02:55

Tsho Weiss, this is really hectic. What do you do? I really don't know, but from where I'm sitting, I dont know if there really is anything you can do but wait. You don't know any of her friends maybe, or her psychiatrist? Maybe they've seen her. Apart from contacting people who might know where she is, all you can do is wait.

As for the sms itself, she clearly had not really "healed".
I'm really sorry that you find yourself in this situation, it really is sad.

Sana Lwam
22 May 2008 02:59

She is thinking of commiting suicide, because she still feels guilty...most people dont open up completey to shrinks and she was blocking it up all the time trying to move on with her life. When night falls and you have to go to sleep, you are all on your own!!

Fluffy Head
22 May 2008 02:59

Weiss: Don't take this lightly boet....If you have any of her family member's contacts_let them know..And probable involve the police if you do not have the family contacts...Someone messed up like that can do something stupid and you will hate yourself if something happens and she did give you a bit of a warning..
My advice: leave work now and go searching for her...

Mambox
22 May 2008 03:01

I think you've done all you can do Weiss...the ball is in her court now. I will pray for both of you!

Nonny
22 May 2008 03:07

"But yesterday I got this sms from her - that has shocked me. So bloggers please tell me what to make out of this "I dont c any reason for living if I must suffer like this, I thought it will be better but instead... I cant handle this anymore. thank u 4 everything"...***sigh*** BATHONG, WHAT TO DO IN SITUATION LIKE THIS, MARA HEH??"

OMG Weiss mngani, this is a tough and sad one. I think this lady is contemplating suicide *that's if she hasn't already*........gal keep trying to get hold of her, even her family and thereafter she needs serious help coz she obviously hasn't healed. Yesses, yazi ur article reminds of a saying that: "If all our problems were put in one room and we were given the choice to choose a better problem, u would end up leaving with the one's u had".........So be strong and soon u will have clarity on the whereabouts of ur friend!!!

"Hi there guys, well this is my very first blog ever - well I dont know whether it will be my last one too."
BTW, ur blog is well written so it better not be ur last one!!!

Firstdvd
22 May 2008 03:07

WEISS...Sounds like you shared personal stuff with the lady. To her seems like your the closest person in her life. Are you single WEISS? The ladys needs your help, and y're the only person on her mind right now. You go to the police so that you'll have acces into her house. I'm sure she's in her room crying...Hope that will work. Gudluck!

Dimago
22 May 2008 03:08

Oh no Weiss, sorry about your friend. Rene is right, you need to get in touch with her friends or family. Also you could find out from her place of work if she pitched today. We can only hope and pray that she's ok. She's clearly going through some hectic stuff.

Afrodiva
22 May 2008 03:16

I agree with the rest of the bloggers you've done all you could as a friend and you can't be with her 24/7 to make sure she doesn't do something stupid, just pray for her and the rest is in Gods hands, we'll also pray for you.

myname
22 May 2008 03:17

oh s*** man. Even now? NO one knows where she is????

zolx
22 May 2008 03:19

So sad about your friend Weiss, but i also think besides alerting the police and her family - there's nothing much you can do but wait. Goodluck thou- hope she's still fine wherever she is...iyhooo this is hectic. Its also unfair of her to put you in this position, doesnt she realise that if she goes ahead and committ suicide she might leave you in the same headspace that she's in herself>.....

Cande
22 May 2008 03:20

You did what you could Weiss, ngoku its all up to the lord

poshspice
22 May 2008 03:21

sorry about your dilemma gal,eish you know you can help a person to a certain extent but in the end they have to have a will to live & survive their ordeal nabo...bloggers have given you good advice, whatever happens you did your best & learn something from the whole situation... let's hope you find your friend alive though...

Strolicious
22 May 2008 03:22

Weiss>>> dis is hectic,inform da police and list her on the missing people.

Miss-Tick
22 May 2008 03:24

Ag no Weiss this is scary, i agree with the guys phone her work palce, family any1 u can think of and keep trying her cellphone.........

Segololo
22 May 2008 03:25

call the cops!! they will get the her cellphone provider track her whereabouts with her phone and check her... I hope you find her safe and well!

ex@mple
22 May 2008 03:26

Ther we go AGAIN.......DR PHIL is on air mon-fri @ 12h00.

zolx
22 May 2008 03:37

@ ex@mple - Ther we go AGAIN.......DR PHIL is on air mon-fri @ 12h00. Dont you think that's cold..considering this is a serious matter?

Weiss
22 May 2008 03:37

Ja! Ne! I cannot concntrate on anything right now. Guys thank you so much fo r your msgs... I only know on friend of hers (Unfortunately I never got to ask for her numbers - I was not friends with her) @Nonny:gal keep trying to get hold of her, even her family and thereafter she needs serious help. Well I never got to a chance to meet any of her family members.

@Fluffy Head My advice: leave work now and go searching for her... I've been doing that yesterday from 6pm when I got the msg until I ran out ideas...

@First dvd You go to the police so that you'll have acces into her house. I'm sure she's in her room crying...Hope that will work.
How i wish that could be true, but someone warned me that police can only report a missing after 48 hours, and she's definetly not in the house - but I'm hoping she could be somewhere out there alive.

Once again guys, thank you so much - I'm going to polise station right now and c if anyone can help.

Fluffy Head
22 May 2008 03:38

Example: Ther we go AGAIN.......DR PHIL is on air mon-fri @ 12h00 TSK TSK TSK...LOOOOOL

myname
22 May 2008 03:44

jho Example ........................ Sego they can do that even if you dont have a tracker?...............plz educate another sister

Nonny
22 May 2008 03:46

Well I never got to a chance to meet any of her family members.
@ Weiss - Oh Nkosi yami, all u can do now is pray coz u have no leads to follow!!!!

ex@mple
22 May 2008 03:55

ALRIGHT 5 MINUTES TO GO,BEFORE DR PHIL.....STAY TUNED

Porsch
22 May 2008 03:57

Hi Weiss,

i agree with a ma bloggers that you have done everything that u possible can thus far,

My understanding is that your friend depends on you for support and believe me i know how it is to carry other people's burden and constantly trying to revive their spirits.

Love, i believe you have greater strength to help your friend, something tells me she hasnt committed suicide as yet, i get a feeling that she took sleeping pills just to forget about the whole thing just for few hours, please find someone who has an extra key to her house/flat she is there and wants to be alone. Yes she might have taken dose but the intention is not to kill herself, she just wants to forget that it ever happend.

If not you dont have much time left, i agree with Fluffy leave work now and search for her, you might spend over R100 on airtime trying to find her but believe me when you find her it will R100 worth spent.

God is with her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Firstdvd
22 May 2008 03:57

@WEISS...I had a feeling, you'll get her before the end of the day. She didn't go anywhere yesterday and i stil believe she locked herself in her room...And please, don't let this thing get into you. Try whatever you can try but don't lose HOPE. Don't stress yourself too much. I know it's not easy as it sounds. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON! Gudluck-again!

Miss-Tick
22 May 2008 04:01

Ex@mple what kind of example r u setting????????????

Lex
22 May 2008 04:02

Eish Weiss,really tuff situation u have there my friend.Go to the police,they are the only ones with power to search,u really have done everything you could.Good luck.

ocean1
22 May 2008 04:04

shame man!!! this soooo sad I don't know what to sai, I just pray to Gaad that she's safe where ever she is

ocean1
22 May 2008 04:12

@ Miss-Tick, good ques
Ex@mple what kind of example r u setting????????????

tshepiso
22 May 2008 04:13

mn, you were too forward and inquisitive. so, live to the consequences.

spice
22 May 2008 04:17

Shuuuuu this is sum scary SH** weiss my friend are you alright ? lets just pray that your friend is still alive bathong ,take the day off work and try to find her and gudluck weiss

Best-Achiever
22 May 2008 04:18

hectic ... bloggers have said it all ... report to the police and wait on prayer, it is now on God's hands ...

myname
22 May 2008 04:21

Amen Tshepiso

Renegade
22 May 2008 04:23

Amen Tshepiso

Lol @ myname, my sentiments exactly.

Yehake!
22 May 2008 04:23

Tshepi am soo not impressed!! Weiss do all you think you can and we are here on this earth to cater for others when they need help, you were right for being there in this womans life when she needed help soo be there even now and people like Tshepi are here in this world to remind us that there is more to life than what meets the eye or the nose or the ear!! hold on and know God is alive and He is still the redeemer!!

belz
22 May 2008 04:25

Yazi wena exa@mple, nc nc nc, i've got no words for you, actually i think you are the one who needs doctor Phil.

Weiss sweetie, you did everything you could, the one thing left for you to do is call the cops. Dont feel like you contributed to her suicide or whatever she's planning. eish man, this is hectic.

carino
22 May 2008 04:31

Just go on your knees, Weiss...and remember the Cross.

That's the only Power you have at this moment. I mean, there's nothing else you can do. You cant bring the lady back, you cant read her mind.. you cant undo the things that have happened in her life.

Take it all to God in prayer.

Hlehle
22 May 2008 04:33

Nonny is right all u have to do is to pray. I wish that u could find her before she does anything stupid. Oh Dear Lord help ur kid she needs u right now all u have to do is give her all the leads and help she can get, dnt let anything bad happen to her, pull out all the evil thoughts that are running through her mind right now show her that its not her fault that things turned out this way. Give her guidance and strength to hold on, on whatever has happen konke kuyedlula in the name of Jesus Christ Amen.

Nonny
22 May 2008 04:33

Oh I forgot to say, Weiss sisi, kuzolunga "... ♫ Qina Mzalwane Qina ♫ ..."

tshepiso
22 May 2008 04:33

that guy moer her dik because ele moopa, so wena maditaba o be o tlisa divorce mo ntlong mmmmmmmmmmmmm itshwabele ngwanyana!

myname
22 May 2008 04:36

Lol Nonny .............................Amen Hlehle

carino
22 May 2008 04:39

"... ♫ Qina Mzalwane Qina ♫ ..."

carino
22 May 2008 04:39

"... ♫ Qina Mzalwane Qina ♫ ..."

Nonny
22 May 2008 04:42

Thank u for the prayer Hlehle, Amen sisi, and wena Myname what's so funny........ehehehe

KeleFabulous
22 May 2008 04:43

i'm no expert but having been in a similar situation once, i'd say she's clinically depressed and should be on anti-depressants pronto! do you know if the psychiatrist prescribed anything for her?

eish ja it must be tough for you i can understand. doesn't she have family she can rely on right now? friends? because it sounds to me like le wena Weiss you're in over your head and don't know waht to do. mara it's best to distance yourself (if you feel you can't help) than to be there all the time...i know i know the guilt will eat you up but it's better than trying to help and losing your patience too.

she's reaching out yena shem. but i've seen alot of cases whereby if a person wants and has taken the final decision to kill themselves they don't tell anyone before so i doubt anything's happened to her...good luck!

carino
22 May 2008 04:45

...she's reaching out yena shem....

i don mean to be insensitive but this really just makes me lol.

Gucci
22 May 2008 04:45

Ex@mple and Tshepiso: Talk about bad jokes happening to good people.

The bloggers have spoken Weiss. Goodluck Man. We live to learn or is it we learn to live?

tshepiso
22 May 2008 04:52

my honorable, good people, please put your facts straight
in this situation WHAT should God and the police do?

Weiss, a maago ga a go laya gore dilo tsa banyalani/baratani ga di tsenwe.

Miss-Tick
22 May 2008 05:03

azange...........Tshepiso.........just shusssss

Cande
22 May 2008 05:06

iyhoo Tshepiso, o tsenyetsang mmaagwe jaanong...
Haiye maan ga ke tlhaloganye gore o motho o ntseng jang..

Vesa
22 May 2008 05:10

in this situation WHAT should God and the police do?

All ye of little faith....(shaking my head)

Dimago
22 May 2008 05:11

Iyho Tshepiso! hai o sleg shem, jealous down!

Mphoyame
22 May 2008 05:15

Sorry to do this, pls help i need to know how to this sign on top of a work like decor how do i put that thingy on top of the e, please help me.....

carino
22 May 2008 05:30

@Mphonyane I suppose you are working on a Word document. Normally the thingy on top of the e has to come up automatically. But seeing that it doesnt, you need to change the dictionary.

Alternatively... write the word decor, select/highlight the "e", go to "insert" go to "symbol" and look for the "e" that has the thingy that you want.

All the best.

carino
22 May 2008 05:32

oh, sorry... It's Mphoyame NOT Mphonyane..

There goes my call centre agentism.... giving me away...again...

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so why

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why didn`t

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why didn`t he

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why didn`t he tell

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why didn`t he tell when

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why didn`t he tell when she

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why didn`t he tell when she was

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why didn`t he tell when she was coz

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why didn`t he tell when she was coz now

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:35

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why didn`t he tell when she was coz now it

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:36

Big up @ tshepiso, Y`all did nothing just to sympathise with him & told him what he already knew

Personally i think that WEISS loved the girl so, why didn`t he tell when she was coz now it case

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:36

Renegade
22 May 2008 05:37

Eish, Mphonyane, i'd help,but I have no clue wat you are asking.

Miss-Tick
22 May 2008 05:39

hehehe talking about stamering.................bhala kahle......ex@mple

Renegade
22 May 2008 05:40

And ex@mple, what did you and Tshepiso do exactly? Except maybe bring Weiss'm morale further down, and irritate other bloggers in the process?

ex@mple
22 May 2008 05:42

SHUUUUU....DID I DO THAT..................SORRY Y`ALL

Vesa
22 May 2008 06:03

hehehe talking about stamering.......ROFL

spice
22 May 2008 06:10

heeeeeeeeee bo tshepi le bo e.g ,what if sumthing bad happens to weiss maara ,worst case scenario ,the lady takes her life and weiss takes weiss's life also cause weiss cant live with weiss's conscious ,would you joke about it also ????? guyz a re utlwelaneng bothloko assomblief ,weiss is a good person ,weiss does not deserve all of this SH** ,weiss must be regreting the day weiss met this woman ,shem weiss i hope this works out fine for you and take it as a lesson to neva ever get too personal or intimate (whateva the word is ) with a married woman my friend

Kapakapa
22 May 2008 06:19

Typical of Tshepi FOREVER seeking attention!!! Happy now????!!!!

Hlehle
22 May 2008 06:20

Ex@mple & Tsepiso go back where do you cum frm we dnt need people like u in this site.

ex@mple
22 May 2008 06:29

@HLEHLE. who died & made you president ...telling me to get the sh*t outta here.Well NEWSFLASH i aint going nowhere >>>>>>>>>>>>

tshepiso
22 May 2008 06:39

Typical of Tshepi FOREVER seeking attention!!! Happy now????!!!!
HOW SURE ARE U KAPAKAPA?///////
hlehle my beautiful, meaningful name is TSHEPISO idiot!
O SEKA WA TLA KA sefonotiki sa gago mo.

Hlehle
22 May 2008 06:46

Ex@mple u r the one who died actually coz a living person will know when to joke and sympathise with the other unlike u. Tshepiso whatever ur name is wena usisiRhama if u dnt know what i'm talking about ( sh**t that is left out in ur an**s while u were whipping) excuse me my bloggers but i have to clarify this to these maniecks (sp).

Miss-Tick
22 May 2008 06:52

O SEKA WA TLA KA sefonotiki sa gago mo........Tshepiso

if u stl rmbr sefonotiki i guess u straight 4rm high school.........when did u do your Grade 12 last yr??????

carino
22 May 2008 06:57

oh, my goodness...

ex@mple
22 May 2008 07:39

Ooh PLZ HLEHLE, How sure are you that WEISS is telling the thruth coz back in my mind, i think he was taking y`all for ride...Coz its obvious that he loved the girl>>Why did he not tell her how he feel>>>>>>>>>>

myname
23 May 2008 07:44

Weiss just wondering man. Did u find her? is she ok?

sponono
23 May 2008 08:01

sometimes in life you just have to do NOTHING....just let GOD take over...if HE wants her now .well she'll succeed, if HE's not ready well ..when she picks up the pieces you'll THENl tell her how stupid she was for attempting suicide (its called tough love fokes..)

Tshd21
25 May 2008 12:02

Hope your friend is fine Weiss......God bless.

Tshd21
25 May 2008 12:04

Tshepiso and Example.....are you kids related??

mathata
25 May 2008 17:06

I think you must call her but PLS use a private no bcz what ever happens you are no1 suspect,can you tell her what ever happens you are going to be there for her but if she do something negative you are going to be disapointed,n tell her the are people who have so many problems(ME) but they dont runaway because there always good things coming on they,God he never creat us to have problems this is a learning process,

This time is for her to be happy n to know where shis coming from n she must be proud of her self bcz she ius so strong

mathata
25 May 2008 17:09

@ tshepiso i love you.

Weiss
26 May 2008 01:30

Morning guys! I just wanna thank each and everyone of you for replying to my article. Some of you think this is a joke - well it is not, I was very serious when I wrote the article and I seriously did not know what to do. But anyway, it is fine - replies are appreciated (belz, did you get my msg?).

I was around the office on Friday - but I was just too overwhelmed by stuff that was going on around me. I thought I should update you guys on happened, since Thursday when I wrote the article.

I did find my friend with the help of my frenemie (enemie disguised as friend) and police. What this guy did is - he went thru my emails that I received from my friend. That way he found her contacts and send all of them an urgent msg - in the meantime I went to the police station (by the way, the 48 hour issue did come up). The police also heard from a relative of hers (who received a msg that my frenemie sent). Police went to her house and forced their way thru the gate, luckily it was only the gate that was locked and the door was not locked. When they got in they found her (lying in her bedroom, soaked in blood because she cut her wrists and she also took overdose). The paramedics were also called, because of her condition.

Okay, now **sigh** - I completely understand the concept behind the sms she sent "I dont c any reason for living if I must suffer like this, I thought it will be better but instead... I cant handle this anymore. thank u 4 everything"

My friend was raped the previous weekend, by someone she knows. So she was feeling like she is somehow punished for something. She thinks that is the reason everything in the life seems so COMPLETELY WRONG. She in a bad state I dont even have words to encourage her. I personally have never been raped before - so I dont know what it feels like. But that doesn't mean I cannot put myself in the shoes.

I think I need to give her space (do I sound like bitch?) I'm thinking her family should take charge and support her. So I'm gonna be around for these coming two weeks. Then I have to go on a business trip to Zambia (I not gonna tell her for how long I going). And then I will give her some space - I think this is what she need. but I'm not sure. This is tough, guys.

But anyway, thank you very much guys for your contribution. You dont even know me personally and yet you were still willing to help. Thank you very much - and Nonny BTW, ur blog is well written so it better not be ur last one!!! I have the feeling that this was my last blog, gal. I will stick to replying from now on, but thank you for thinking that I have what it takes.

Renegade
26 May 2008 02:04

Geez, I really am feeling for your friend, such misfortune should not befall anyone!!!
Be strong!

zolx
26 May 2008 02:05

So glad your friend is alive Weiss. I dont think you're a bitch at all for wanting to take a back seat now. I agree with you - you've been there for her all along and going away on business doesnt mean you've abandoned her. Family and professionals (counselor) can take over from here.

Segololo
26 May 2008 02:23

Weiss: Thank Gaad you found her! I am so sorry that she is going thru such a hard time... I suggest you give her space but don't completely disappear...

Weiss
26 May 2008 02:23

@Rene - I also feel for her, gal.
@zolx - Family and professionals (counselor) can take over from here. That is exactly what I think. Her state of mind right now really scares me.

Hlehle
26 May 2008 02:23

See Ex@mple & Tshepiso this was not a joke. I'm so glad that ur friend is still alive Weiss and i think its a gud idea to take a back seat now u have done all u have to do, keep well.

Nonny
26 May 2008 02:30

"My friend was raped the previous weekend, by someone she knows. So she was feeling like she is somehow punished for something. She thinks that is the reason everything in the life seems so COMPLETELY WRONG. She in a bad state I dont even have words to encourage her. I personally have never been raped before - so I dont know what it feels like. But that doesn't mean I cannot put myself in the shoes."

@ Weiss - Nc nc nc *shaking my head*, shem man it's like ur friend is surrounded by bad luck. Neway atleast she is alive, coz mnami my gretaest fear was that she is not alive. Eish, she needs all the support she can get. I hope she overcomes all the things that she has gone through, especially the rape.

P.S - Enjoy ur trip to Zambia, even though u will be travelling for work realted stuff!!

Weiss
26 May 2008 02:41

@Segololo - I suggest you give her space but don't completely disappear... Thank for the advice, gal

@Hlehle - See Ex@mple & Tshepiso this was not a joke. I personally think those two needed a nappy change. How childish...

@Nonny - P.S - Enjoy ur trip to Zambia, even though u will be travelling for work realted stuff!! I will try and do that, mgani wami.

Hlehle
26 May 2008 02:49

I@Hlehle - See Ex@mple & Tshepiso this was not a joke. I personally think those two needed a nappy change. How childish...
i cant help it but to laugh Weiss kwa kwa kwa kwa i wonder where r they to see this.

monwy
26 May 2008 02:58

u nid a spade to bury d bastard!

carino
26 May 2008 03:06

Iyho! this is bad.. really bad...

Weiss, good idea about taking a backseat... But also keep on praying, sisi.... Pray hard for her wellbeig.

peaces
26 May 2008 03:12

monwy;?????

myname
26 May 2008 03:38

Im glad she is ok................Just remember they r few freinds like u, Keep it up ..........

carino
24 Feb 2011 09:36

Oh.. now I remember Weiss...

nwaira
24 Feb 2011 11:31

Touching story right there, so Weiss is she okay now shame after her ordeal and are you guys still in contact??

gambukazi
24 Feb 2011 12:03

wowww, shame maan, is she okay now?

Sslave
24 Feb 2011 12:07

YHO!!!

titidi
24 Feb 2011 12:08

Weiss your friends needs Jehova in her life . She must throw her burden upon Jehovah himself, and he himself will sustain her.
When our heart is in pain for some reason, we can find comfort by praying to Jehovah. That can take the load off us.

Thanks God she's still alive.

Holiday
25 Mar 2011 10:49

@Weiss stay away from people's life....u've course too much trouble already. just back off.

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