There are certain categories that men classify women into. Some of us may have knowledge of these classifications, some of us do not and well a small portion would just like to ignore the writing on the wall.
THE GIRLFRIEND - She is the main woman in a man's life and undoubtedly occupies top spot and priority in his life. She is the person he shares his dreams with. The one he runs to when he needs comfort. The one woman he will introduce to Mom and attend family braais with.
THE OTHER WOMAN - She is the one person who gives the girlfriend sleepless nights. An anonymous sms on his phone which he nonchalantly tries to shake off. Beware this woman is your worst nightmare. She fills your spot when you're not around and gives your man undivided attention when you can't. She may just accompany him when he's hanging out with the dudes. Of course their other women will be in attendance.
THE BOOTY CALL - This is purely a sexual relationship. No strings attached. THis woman adds sexual excitement to a mans life. She knows all 200 positions under the sun and can make him climax like the girlfriend/other woman never have.
A late night call, preferably after nine or close to midnight signals her entrance into his life or eh, bed.
THE SIDE DISH - She is usually younger than he is, and unknown to her naive self, he is simply sharpening his bedroom skills . He finds her youth and innocence alluring while aching to ejaculate inside her. She never really amounts to anything in his life, but certainly adds zest to his sexual appetite.
THE (CHILDHOOD) FRIEND - They share an emotional connection like no other. Sometimes spending lazy Sunday afternoons reminiscing about the good old days, and how they may have lost their virginity to each other. She is the strongest competition, she understands him and is on a first name basis with his mother. Although such 'friendships' are not ideally pursued, The friend is not to be taken lightly.
What do men want?
Who is the Uber babe?
More importantly does she exist?, can she be a combination of all five?
Frankly, that is all but impossible. We may all identify with one of these characters or perhaps played a role as one of them. Annoyingly, with men they always seem to be seldom satisfied.
Should women accept that she is almost never the only woman in his life?
In society it is increasingly becoming the norm for married and involved men alike to possess a nyatsi. Whilst the main priority achingly turns a blind eye.
What ever happened to pure, unadulterated faithfulness?
Do not get me wrong, these are simply a couple of generalisations which are not intended to offend anyone, but if any scenario, particularly the last four ring a bell then I suggest it is time to review your relationship.