written by Cherrie on Top
Hi all
I am actually new in the TV SA family and I need to share something with guys so I can get to hear different views in regards to an issue I’m experiencing at the moment.I could say I’m actually a good friend ,You know, a friend who is there when you are going through a bad patch and who celebrates with you when something good happens to you. Now at the moment I’m not sure if I’m being a good friend or actually looking after my own interests.
My story
Recently in actual fact about 3 weeks ago I convinced my girlfriend that I want to hook her up with a guy friend of mine and she agreed , I then called and told my guy friend my intentions and didn’t leave much room for him to decline the offer.
I gave them each others email addresses and they started to exchange pics and emails so they can get to know each other better. The reason I decided to do this its because girlfriend is lonely and needs a life, you see she broke up with her man few months ago and she has been feeling depressed lately and she doesn’t have much self esteem.
Now don’t get me wrong , she is beautiful and sweet and that’s why her ex man took her for granted. In short she reminds me of Sheila from ‘why did I get married’ by Tyler Perry ( I’m not dissing her but girlfriend knows it too, that’s why she almost cried after watching it because she related to the character( anyway that’s another story all together.
I do love her regardless because we are completely different comapared to my usual crew , which in short are all miss ‘Hoity Toities” like the add if you get my drift.
I didn’t think much about what I have done until a close family member(aka my friend) of mine started to express her concerns about this situation, the concerns are:
1.My guy friend is interested in me and I really never give him a chance to actually expess himself to me, I make sure I dodge the subject all together, ( come on now ,I have a reason) ok ..ok …I’ll tell, .You see I have a man and to cut the long stoty short , he is in the US at the moment and lets jus say he wont be coming back home anytime soon.
Back to my point , I don’t want to cheat on him because someone will get hurt one way or the other. ( when he comes back we will be preparing for our lobola and stuff, if things go according to plan)
2. He calls me a lot like I’m his girlfriend ( love the attention though)
3. The worst fact is , whenever girlfriend talks about how yummy and good looking he is ( and believe me, he’s all that and a piece of pie) I start to feel jelous.( I know what you are thinking , I’m just human)
So on Monday, guy friend calls to tell me that he wants out because he is not really into my friend and feels its better to do it now before some gets hurt, He also said that he will explain further in person whe we meet.
Now I cant say I’m sad about his decision, Im actually relieved because I didn’t know how I was gonna stop this, I cant help it. Besides nothing happened and its not like they met and shagged , now that would have nbeen a crapy situation.
That’s all for now, tell me what you think pips
written by Cherrie on Top, posted by Best-Achiever honouring Strolicious request
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