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My secret admire is no longer a secret

Written by Best-Achiever from the blog Only the Best is Achieved Here on 05 May 2008
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We got the culprit 

This is about the article I wrote and posted here on April 18, 2008 titled “When does the secrete admire becomes a stalker”.
Firstly, I would like to thank everybody for their support and advices in regard to this. We got the culprit, if you wanna know how just keep reading. Here is the story; 

Last year I attended Mr2010 (as Nonny calls him)’ yearend function in Durban and I happen to meet all his colleagues and their partners, amongst those colleagues there was one guy(who was also with his partner) who was very friendly(more than all other people) to me, he is under Mr2010’s team and he reports to him(Mr 2010 is his Manager). we charted about general things both Mr2010 and his partner were with us. That was the first and the last time I saw him. 

On Tuesday and Wednesday Mr2010 was working around JHB, he passed by my place on Wed after work and as we were about to leave (for KZN), that delivery man was at the reception delivering my parcel (the usual box of chocolate, flowers and this time Hugo Boss Lotion), we were there right in time, when he was still arguing with the security guards because they were telling him they are no longer allowed to take my parcel if it doesn’t have sender’s address, Mr2010 shoved him on the side and after 30min of argument, he told me to drive and follow them … off we went to Rosebank and we stopped in some courier company there and that is when I was told that this guy is actual working for that company and we are about to find out who is my mystery admirer . 

We were taken to some office where there was a lady busy arranging parcels. Mr2010 told him why we were there and what we need from her, he came with that client confidentiality song but Mr2010 didn’t sang along. They argued until the lady gave up and gave him the details and ask us not to reveal her identity because that can only mean that she won’t be working on the following day. To Mr2010’s surprise, it was that guy in his team … yho he was mad. I didn’t know what to say bcoz I couldn’t figure out how he knew where I work or stay. I asked him and he told me that he once asked that guy to fill some forms for him and there were places where he needed to put in my information (wonder what for but he couldn’t tell) and he gave all that to him and he thought that’s how he got all my info. He called the guy and asked him where he’ll be on Thursday and he said he will be around Durban, they made an appointment and we drove to dbn, we arrived there 12midnight and poor Mr2010 couldn’t sleep, he called the guy and we went to his place …and there he was with his galfriend …Mr2010 just put the parcel down and asked what was this all about ….yho the guy was so terrified shem and the gal was speechless(I hope it wasn’t you Nonny because that lady was Pretty Hot and Thick …LOL). Mr2010 made it clear that he needed answers and he needed them there and then … the guy admitted that he loved me but he couldn’t come to me because he knew how his boss loved me and me being me I cried seeing that guy so helpless and mr2010 all over him. 

We left and he promised not to send anything ever to me … Mr2010 told him that if I ever receive and secrete admirer gift the guy will be in jail.
Well it is all over and I actual feel sorry for the guy shem … I wonder what the gal said after we left? And I don’t wanna be in that office today …shem ppor guy



92 Comments

Best-Achiever
05 May 2008 06:41

my secrete admire is no longer a secrete ..thank God

Molilo
05 May 2008 06:46

Poor guy indeed, hope he learned his lesson. At least all is revealed and u need not stress again. But now tell me if he now sends them gifts with his name will u take them knowing who he is, or r u gonna tell Mr 2010?

zolx
05 May 2008 06:51

Yho BA....i'm glad this is over cos i know it was starting to scare you. But shame this secret admirer - he was trying to be romantic shame and wanting what he cant have....argh shame

Strolicious
05 May 2008 06:58

hi.....im not new i just added a flovour to my name......but i wldn't mind some welcome note....ha ha ha

Tjo for sure ur man akawubambi ushini.....u guyz drove all da way  from JHB 2 DBN just to confront da poor thing,gal u betta behave.....but it is freaky......I cried seeing that guy so helpless and mr2010 all over him. tell me why were u crying?

Best-Achiever
05 May 2008 07:01

How can someone be a secrete admirer
@carino .... i bet you are bigger than that and you can see when someone made a mistake, isnt so?

Pinkpoodle
05 May 2008 07:05

I hope it wasn’t you Nonny because that lady was Pretty Hot and Thick …LOL). LOL @ BA
@ BA  thati'cover i can hear guns blazzing from here .... Nonny is coming for you

Best-Achiever
05 May 2008 07:05

@Stroliciou ... we were gonna drive home to KZN anyway but not Durban and Not on Wed but Thursday .... it wsa the first time i saw him so upset like that .... the whole confrontation thing was scary

mabhebheza
05 May 2008 07:09

Best achiever tb4 i finish reading
mr 2010 is the one who wants 2marry u& u told him 2wait until 2010  but u cheated wit sum 2minut noddle guy (organised by ur friend) sumthing along this lines ...story

Or am i mixing articles ???????pls help!!

carino
05 May 2008 07:09

BA shlobo sam.. I just couldnt keep a straight face at the literal translation, thats all. Otherwise, yes, i know a mistake when I see one. 
haade, tsotsi.. haade..haade...

Zee Babes!
05 May 2008 07:09

Agh shame BA - If I was Mr2010 i would have kicked Mr Stalkers a**, he is not only a psycho but a serious one, how can you hit on your friends gal! Mr Stalker is salty qha (unotswayi).

Best-Achiever
05 May 2008 07:10

@Pinkpoodle ... Nonny knowsit wasnt her im just kidding ....LOL

Strolicious
05 May 2008 07:12

BA .....sistas all i can tell you is BEHAVE .mina da way ngihlaya ngakhona i wld have laughed.....................Pinkpoodle.@ BA thati'cover i can hear guns blazzing from here .... Nonny is coming for you .mmm i also smell trouble.ayoyo

Best-Achiever
05 May 2008 07:12

@mabhebheza ... you are mixing articles dear ... i have never cheated in my life and will never cheat ... he asked me to marry him yes ...and i askd him to wait until 2010 hence the name Mr2010(Nonny named him)

Strolicious
05 May 2008 07:16

BA ...i have never cheated in my life and will never cheat ..I must say im proud of you,how do you resist da temptations.

bulie
05 May 2008 07:19

@Mabhebheza that was me Bulie not BA who cheated on Mr 2010 with a 2minute noddle guy ( organised by a friend ) and that is the thing of the past yes u r mixing articles gal.

Best-Achiever
05 May 2008 07:20

@Zee Babes ... i think he would have done so it is just that he doesnt have that fight vein in his body ...he is just a lover not a fighter ...LOL

@Strolicious .... i tell you, you wouldnt have laughed, it was hectic

@carino ... i didnt know that you are a tvsa spelling checker that they have kwa Microsoft, nonetherless it is no day without learning something new and that for the correction, hope you correct me often 

Preshiii
05 May 2008 07:21

BA ...i have never cheated in my life and will never cheat ..I must say im proud of you,how do you resist da temptations

Its called commitment.

Zee Babes!
05 May 2008 07:22

@Mabhebheza - Yes luv you are mixing the issues d "cheating gal" is Bullie.

Preshiii
05 May 2008 07:23

Sorry Strolicious...I know you weren't askin me, my fingers were just itching to answer dat! Askies neh...

BA
...phendulomunyu mntwana tu.

Zee Babes!
05 May 2008 07:24

@Mabhebheza - Yes luv you are mixing the issues d "cheating gal" is Bullie.

Best-Achiever
05 May 2008 07:24

BA ...i have never cheated in my life and will never cheat ..I must say im proud of you,how do you resist da temptations.
@Strolicious .... when i love a person i just love that person ..maybe that's how and i cant get around with intentionally hurting someone

Ngqesta
05 May 2008 07:30

@BA.............and there he was with his galfriend …Mr2010 just put the parcel down and asked what was this all about ….yho the guy was so terrified shem and the gal was speechless..........stjo BA, how I would give anything to have been a fly in that guy's room........I LOVE DRAMA! Hayi shame kodwa I feel for him girl, that 's a man helplessly and dangerously inlove with you right there, talk about love at first sight. Hayi BA u-hot dear, as amaXhosa would say UYABHAKA sana...........LOL! 
Jokes aside, am glad yougot to the bottom of this and that it's been sorted.

Fluffy Head
05 May 2008 07:31

Eish_since when does a gal say no to good gifts??? This new SA!!! Untill the admirer calls you or send you strange sms's/emails, enjoy the attention man.

Anyway, I'm glad for you_the cat is out of the bag now.

Strolicious
05 May 2008 07:34

da thing is i cnt trust that easly,maybe it got sumthing to do with my childhood,but da man i have ryt now he is everything i trust him even thou sumtys i feel in Sorry Strolicious...ecure.he works in a call centre with all dose dogdy characters.......Preshiii   Sorry Strolicious...I know you weren't askin me, my fingers were just itching to answer dat! Askies neh... no hum my luv.

Zee Babes!
05 May 2008 07:35

@BA - when i love a person i just love that person ..maybe that's how and i cant get around with intentionally hurting someone... May God bless you child - this world can do with people like you - um proud of you.

Strolicious
05 May 2008 07:36

dat da joy of caopy and paste..meant to say ...i trust him even thou sumtys i feel in insecure.he works in a call centre with all dose dogdy characters.......Preshiii Sorry Strolicious...I know you weren't askin me, my fingers were just itching to answer dat! Askies neh... no hum my luv.

Pinkpoodle
05 May 2008 07:37

@ BA ... After all this drama i'm not sure mr2010 will want to wait until then i am sure another proposal is coming your way very soon, as he might be scared of loosing you. Imagine his collegue admiring his babe and having the guts to make a move what more other guys who he don't know?????????

Strolicious
05 May 2008 07:38

okay im blode.

Strolicious
05 May 2008 07:39

okay im blonde.

Nonny
05 May 2008 07:42

"@ BA thati'cover i can hear guns blazzing from here .... Nonny is coming for you"
heheheheh @ Pinkpoodle, gal u know me too well. but ke today I am in a good mood and i will leave BA to have her joy, who knows maybe she's laughing now and in 2010 I'll be the one that's laughing *no pun intended*............lol

belz
05 May 2008 07:42

i have never cheated in my life and will never cheat > eish BA , you make me feel like such a sinner, but im glad for you, you found the stalker. lol!! Yho if bengiyicherrie yakhe bengizomenza into angakaze ayibone, yeses and he admitted infront of the gal ukuthi uyakthanda?? shem poor guy. heheheh uMr 2010, hayi sana BA uyababa straight!!

Zee Babes!
05 May 2008 07:43

@Fluffy-Eish_since when does a gal say no to good gifts??? This new SA!!! Untill the admirer calls you or send you strange sms's/emails, enjoy the attention man... So BA was suppose to just keep mum and wait for them (gifts) LOL.. at your comment..... uyabheda shame.

peaces
05 May 2008 07:44

Yhuu!I still can't close my mouth.Good for your girl.

Nonny
05 May 2008 07:45

Neway BA gal, i am glad the culpprit has been caught!!!

Nonny
05 May 2008 07:51

"We left and he promised not to send anything ever to me … Mr2010 told him that if I ever receive and secrete admirer gift the guy will be in jail.
Well it is all over and I actual feel sorry for the guy shem … I wonder what the gal said after we left? And I don’t wanna be in that office today …shem poor guy"

@ BA, u really have a good heart, why do u feel sorry for somneone who made u feel so miserable, kahle wena, just be happy that things are still all in order for u and Mr2010 and ur World Cup wedding and forget about feeling sorry for the stalker!!!! 

Zee Babes!
05 May 2008 07:51

@Stro-okay im blode...sure you are!

Nonny
05 May 2008 07:54

"@Stro-okay im blode...sure you are!"
Hayi man Zee, be nice, the child was having a blonde moment and wasn't afraid to admit it............LOL..........muyeke medlala i-load shedding *ukucima izbane*........that's what being blonde is called nowadays..........LOL

Strolicious
05 May 2008 07:54

Belz ....you make me feel like such a sinner,im hleking you.kwa kwa kwa...LOL

Strolicious
05 May 2008 08:00

Zee ngizokuphoxa uhambe kancane..LOL......nonny thanks 4 fighting my battles uwumkhaya wokuqina,awungilaxazanga eTVSA,

Zee Babes!
05 May 2008 08:04

@Nonny - Hayi man Zee, be nice, the child was having a blonde moment and wasn't afraid to admit it............LOL..........muyeke medlala i-load shedding *ukucima izbane*........that's what being blonde is called nowadays..........LOL Ok ube-loadshedder bandla!

Segololo
05 May 2008 08:06

bulie: so what's happening now between noodles and mr man?

sorry BA for digressing off your topic but I am really cuious what Bulie is up to now!

Nonny
05 May 2008 08:15

@ Stolicious, mkhaya, plz tell me why did u change ur username from Stroh to Strolicious???? or perhaps in High School u were legenge that used to change their names and give it a licious ending, coz it was the time of bootylicious...............LOL

belz
05 May 2008 08:20

Wee Strolicious, sukungihleka mhlobo, yazi abantu abathembeke njengoBA bascarce emhlabeni, and iproblem yikuthi mina im surrounded by cheaters, so hayi ngempela ngusathane olapha kimi.

bulie
05 May 2008 08:27

@ Segololo Bulie is up to being a sweet gud gal now and to tell u that i was with Mr Man from the 26 April till 03 May at my place all the time and we had no interruptions and we had a gud time and Mr Noodles knows that i'm engaged soon to be married so he hasnt contacted me ever since i told him that i'm getting married and i have'nt seen him since so things btwn me & Mr Man r super although i have revealed that i cheated and that will never happen as long as i live.

bulie
05 May 2008 08:29

I mean although i have'nt revealed that i cheated oh my Gad sorry guyz

Fluffy Head
05 May 2008 08:30

@ZeeBabes:So BA was suppose to just keep mum and wait for them (gifts) LOL.. at your comment..... uyabheda shame..

Eish I had a Britney moment bantu_angibhedi kakgako noko. I just felt like being crazy___like seriously thambisa iHugo boss qha udle amachocolate. No animals are harmed in the process so enjoy urself

mabhebheza
05 May 2008 08:32

Sorry BA ...got confused...sry neh
off topic: I have major cramps wat can i take b4 i get 2the docter becoz i think i wont b ale 2reach amasongo wakadocter ...pls bear in mind im preggies! so ur prescriptions shud accomadate hlohlie!!!!!!!!
My GB is open !!

belz
05 May 2008 08:35

Fluffy, you are such a bad influence, noma nje nami bengizozidlela uchokolethi, ngikhohlwe about everthing else.

Fluffy Head
05 May 2008 08:44

 belz atleast sisi uyandi-understanda...umntu enemali yokudlala bethuna why ndizobacincerned, LOL

Best-Achiever
05 May 2008 23:22

@Belz ... you are not a sinner dear you just need to get your act together ... LOL
@Fluffy Head ... you made me LOL
@Nonny ..LOL to the World Cup Wedding
@Zee Babes ... you are so sweet ...did you know that?

and to everyone thanks for everything and the gud laf i got from your responses

Strolicious
05 May 2008 23:52

Nonny...da name changing i gt tired of  da CAPS.......da caps made me feel big,bt who i was foolin?....mmm myslf.....mina ne technology we r not bhuzums,beningakhoni ukulehliza frm onhlamvukazi abakhulu....so ngabona ngifake ifavour.but strolicious,u can feel it  luv,dr is sum sexness now.futhi i use dis 1 to all da ada sites.

belz...iproblem yikuthi mina im surrounded by cheaters, so hayi ngempela ngusathane olapha kimi......uyisikhokho to admit dat...tli tli tli.dat da 1st step to admitt,,,u r nearly dr....ROTFLMAO *still rolling*kwa kwa kwa

Fluff head.....u bad gal ...u bad ayi kancane,like seriously thambisa iHugo boss qha udle amachocolate. No animals are harmed in the process so enjoy urself....kuthiwa kudliwa imali kudliwa umuntu

Best-Achiever
05 May 2008 23:53

Yho if bengiyicherrie yakhe bengizomenza into angakaze ayibone, yeses and he admitted infront of the gal ukuthi uyakthanda
@belz ...My thought exactly ...bengizom dumper there and then, he insulted the guy ... but the whole thing was so painful

@ BA, u really have a good heart, why do u feel sorry for somneone who made u feel so miserable, kahle wena, just be happy that things are still all in order for u and Mr2010 and ur World Cup wedding and forget about feeling sorry for the stalker!!!! 
@Nonny .... the whole thing was so emotionally ... he made me miserable yes but seeing someone so helpless is no nice thing ..nawe ubuzkhala shem....

After all this drama i'm not sure mr2010 will want to wait until then i am sure another proposal is coming your way very soon, as he might be scared of loosing you. Imagine his collegue admiring his babe and having the guts to make a move what more other guys who he don't know?????????

@Pinkpoodle ....
My sister's words EXACTLY ... but-ke all along he knew that guys do say one or two words and that hasnt changed the way i love him

Strolicious
06 May 2008 00:09

BA.....U r 1 lucky gal,big up 2 u,so dis tym will u say YES.have u guyz done all da traditional things,or u dont do blive in it.

Zee Babes!
06 May 2008 00:24

@Stroh - Zee ngizokuphoxa uhambe kancane..LOL...No loadshedding ke namhlanje before ungiphoxa- akuhlekisi ukuthi we still use igamalaka Stroh? I guess leligama likunamathele njenge tatoo.

Strolicious
06 May 2008 00:35

Zee.but aleast no Caps now,coz uNonny da way abole ngakhona bekalibhala like dis STROH....bese abhala what ever afuna ukukubhala.

Best-Achiever
06 May 2008 00:41

.....U r 1 lucky gal,big up 2 u,so dis tym will u say YES.have u guyz done all da traditional things,or u dont do blive in it.
@Stroh..... My God is one Honest Man Stroh ... i wont say yes dear because  my reasons still stands until that proposed time .... No we havent done a thing except for introducing each other to both families ... all other things are happenning on tthe last quarter of next year(lobola and membeso things) bese ziyawushaya-ke ngoma beginning of World Cup

Zee Babes!
06 May 2008 00:41

@Stroh - Zee.but aleast no Caps now,coz uNonny da way abole ngakhona bekalibhala like dis STROH....bese abhala what ever afuna ukukubhala. Kuhle uma selibhalwa d way ufuna ngakhona ngiyamazi uNonny udinga umthandazo weketanga...LOL

suzzy82
06 May 2008 00:51

the guy admitted that he loved me but he couldn’t come to me because he knew how his boss loved me....nawe guy man u like things

Its hot in his house by now!!! he he he

Strolicious
06 May 2008 00:56

BA>r we invited ngiyakwazi ukusina(ukugida)....so can i start designing my dress.i promise i will behave.....all da best luv,why 2010 things will be xpnsive,unless nicaphuna kusale.

Best-Achiever
06 May 2008 01:23

@Strollicious .... it is still early luv, but i'll invite yo khululeka and vele there will be both white and traditional wedding ... im too commited now that's why i chose 2010 ... khululeka about things being expensise i worship Jehova Jire - The Provider 

HARAMBE24
06 May 2008 02:51

what f****, bestarchiver lucky you - that is some drama.....i have somebody calling everynight at 8 pm with a private number and not saying anything, no heavey breathing- nothing -just calls at 8 every night for the past two---- i thought maybe the person hates generations and doesnt want me to watch it.

Best-Achiever
06 May 2008 02:54

@Haramber24 ... you must start investigating, you may never know maybe that person is watching your every move

Pinkpoodle
06 May 2008 02:56

@ harambe ..i thought maybe the person hates generations and doesnt want me to watch it.  ROTFLMBBAO

Strolicious
06 May 2008 03:03

@ harambe ..i thought maybe the person hates generations and doesnt want me to watch it. ROTFLMBBAO......sistas im helping to laugh,dis is a classic.....hi H24

McDee
06 May 2008 03:04

mina i have some lady calling me from cell c number every week end and she sings for hours.

Fluffy Head
06 May 2008 03:05

BA: you must start investigating, you may never know maybe that person is watching your every move....Girl I think you watch a lot of movies mara e!!! Anyway I like your point of view, it makes me LOL actually.

H24: i thought maybe the person hates generations and doesnt want me to watch it. Classic H24, classic........ROTFLMBBAO...OMG....that's TMTH, seriouslly

Nonny
06 May 2008 03:12

"mina i have some lady calling me from cell c number every week end and she sings for hours."
@ Mcdee - Is that person a good singer? Coz if they are then it's not a serious matter, it's sortof like telephonic Idols at ur listening pleasure.............LOL

BTW, is ur name McDee coz coz of McDonald's, coz if that's the case I love me some Big Mac Meal and the McFlurry icream.........(just thought I'd add that)

Best-Achiever
06 May 2008 03:12

@Fluffy Head ... i had bad experience from stalkers one of my friends was hurt because of that and since then i qestion everything fishy from someone i dont know or who refuse to let me know their identity.

Strolicious
06 May 2008 03:17

mina i have some lady calling me from cell c number every week end and she sings for hours....It dsnt gt betta dan dis..McDee>what song abekuculela yona..ROTFLMBBAO.tjo ppl,dis is sum hilarious,he he he

McDee
06 May 2008 03:18

@nonny she is not a good singer at all and she sings those sad songs people sing at funeral. I get soo scared everytime i see her number. at first i thot it was man issues maybe she suspected i had something to do with her man or sumthin and i gave my hubby the phone to answer and she still sang. 

my username is not cos of Mcdonalds, sadly where I am we don't have a mcdonald's. he he he the bundus. anyway it's actually my ex's ex's name.

zolx
06 May 2008 03:24

it's actually my ex's ex's name - what is that?

Strolicious
06 May 2008 03:32

it'S the ex b4 da ex.....LOL

McDee
06 May 2008 03:32

@zolx  my apologies.my ex had an ex who's name was McDee who used to hit him and boss him around.The way he told me about her makes me laugh everytime.I wish i cud have met this McDee who beats up men....

belz
06 May 2008 03:33

"mina i have some lady calling me from cell c number every week end and she sings for hours> CTFU!!!! KWAKWAKWA, do you listen to her sing, what does she sing??? heheheheheheheheh!! oh Gaad!!!

H24 undigqibe finish!!! ROFL

Strolicious
06 May 2008 03:35

or igama la star wakhe(MK)....PLS chaza ntombazane.sifunukwazi.

Nonny
06 May 2008 03:37

"nonny she is not a good singer at all and she sings those sad songs people sing at funeral."
OK now that is freaky, i can just imagine someone singing: "eGalile........eGalile, thina sohlangana eGalile, washu uJesu kubafundi bakhe wathi sohlangana eGalile"............damn just typing that freaks me out...........LOL

"my username is not cos of Mcdonalds, sadly where I am we don't have a mcdonald's. he he he the bundus. anyway it's actually my ex's ex's name."
@ McDee - thanks for the explanation........u know me and food.......I get carried away, shame man u don't have McD where u stay?, the bundus are nice to go there for a holiday bu to live there 24/7, cha shem it's hard!!!

Fluffy Head
06 May 2008 03:37

McDee: Ok McDee (your ex's ex) is my hero.

Nonny
06 May 2008 03:44

"@zolx my apologies.my ex had an ex who's name was McDee who used to hit him and boss him around."
heheheeh amantombazane amanje awadlali kancane, the gal used to hit ur man ???..........damn indoda enjani leyo, must be the botela (cheese boy Kaizer Juniour type).......ehehehe

Strolicious
06 May 2008 03:49

he gt scares 4rm his ex gal,,,,,McDee (your ex's ex) is my hero,,,,,what if he wanna cum back.usenkingeni,

Strolicious
06 May 2008 03:52

meant she wanna cum back 4 ur man.

McDee
06 May 2008 03:52

@nonny they were young girl (teenage years), my ex wayethi uyashela nje kanti akazi ukuthi uzifaka straight into a boxing ring shame when he talked bout her it was very funny cos naye he was even scared to dump the girl until she told her she was pregnant with sum1 else's child and my ex got to break loose.

Best-Achiever
06 May 2008 03:55

"eGalile........eGalile, thina sohlangana eGalile, washu uJesu kubafundi bakhe wathi sohlangana eGalile"............damn just typing that freaks me out...........LOL
@Nonny .... wena udlala ngisho emgcwabeni

Muntuza
06 May 2008 03:59

Geez!!!!!!!! Bless you BA. What I never understand abt stalkers/scary secret admirers etc is why don't they say what they want & see what happens there after. 
I have a secret admirer he phones everyday afta 9pm & we talk general stuff confide to each other & advise each other as well. I'm enjoying it, my man doesn't know though as he would kill me. What surpises me though is that even if I change my C-number & not tell Secret Ad.. but he would still call on the new-1 bese ngiba dizzyyyyyyyyy ke manje.

Fluffy Head
06 May 2008 04:07

Muntuza_sisi this secret admirer of your is no secret...(well to ur bf he is) but to you he aint...You confide to him, making him a non-stranger. Plus you can tell that its someone you know and who knows you_where else does he get your number from.

Best-Achiever
06 May 2008 04:13

Yho Muntuza ... you aint scared of him, are you?

zolx
06 May 2008 04:14

@Muntuza...your story is scarier...he phones on a new number without u knowing where he got it from?/?that's some scary *bleep!* right there...i think you're playing with fire. What if he uses all the info you confide in each other against you?

Mopakistani
06 May 2008 04:16

guys i  need an asnwer from you..mine isnt really a stalker but its someone that i dated for a short time a long time ago,he doesnt seem to want to let go and he keeps calling and smsing me and says he wants to marry me..i have made it clear to him that i have a man and i am happy but he just inst giving up.he says he has strong feelings that one day i will be his for good!..says my boyfriend shouls be very careful and play his cards right....i havent told my man bout him and his advances as i dont know how he will react and i have known this guy for a long time and his sister is a friend of mine and his parents know my parents too,so i have been trying to treat him like a brother and a friend but he wants more.

do u guys think i should let my man know?

zolx
06 May 2008 04:22

@ Mopakistani - wouldnt that freak your man out.I mean you're friends with your ex's sister and if you're as close as you are to your ex's family that might bring about problems in your current relationship. Maybe you should ask his sister to have a word with him/ his parents/ or even your parents and get him to stop calling you. The other thing i find with being friends with ex's is that they think you still want to be partners. The calls should stop - have as less contact as you can with him just so he's not constantly in ur mind or you on his.

Best-Achiever
06 May 2008 04:24

@Mopakistani ... yes dear you shud let your man know, infact you shud have done so a lond time ago ... some loosers can not handle seeing their X being happy after them ...he shud have known that u were destined to be together while you were together ..period

Fluffy Head
06 May 2008 04:47

Mopakistani (why pakistan not SA)...anyway, yours is the first credible stalker story...Let your man and the police know about it.

Mopakistani
06 May 2008 05:01

@ Zolx...i never even call him or sms him but he's the one that does that.sometimes he will for a while without calling and then he starts again...my parents dont even know we dated,they just know him because the know the parents and they know im friends with him and the sister...i dont love him and i doont even think about him.

@B-A....i do wanna tell my man sometimes but then i get scared coz knowing him,he's gonna think i have been entertaining him and if i tell him now he's gonna question why i never told him about it and why im decieding to tell him now,my man can ask questions that can make u seem guilty even if u are not.and since the guy is my ex he might feel maybe i still have feelings for him.

@ Fluffy Head...its Mopakistani coz thats what most guys and my man call me,bare ke pakile..he,he..

as for letting the police know..i dont think he'd do anything to harm me..just that he loves me too much and he sees me being his wife.

Muntuza
06 May 2008 05:23

I was scared @ 1st but not anymo, I tried to guess his name a couple of times but he doesn't agree, somehow I thougt it's someone from work but through my investigation I could not pick-up from work who could it be. I try not to get too deep when I speak to him. I don't mention names when I confide I just state my situation & he has helped me a lot. He would tell me abt his partner & problems. We talk about work stuff etc. I try to use the conversations we have, try to analyse it but still it doesn't add up who could it be but hey no harm yet so I will keep it down low as well. I asked for his nambaz bt he said he'll fone everyday so I mustn't worry about getting his numbers. When I'm down his fone call lifts my spirits he's like an angel sent to guide me.


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