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Written by KeleFabulous from the blog Cherry Baby on 09 Apr 2008
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Watching Generations yesterday, while Sibusiso was busy offloading to a shocked Khaphela, 2 things were confirmed to me:

1. While with women you can tell what their "type" is, with men it's different. Men like their women buffet style. They can sample anything at anytime. Phela Ntombi and Khethiwe are like Prada and Pleather.

2. Sometimes it IS a partner's fault for things having gone wrong in a relationship. I do agree with Sbuda on this one; had Ntombi come home when he asked her to, while he was still missing her, there is that possibility that none of these feelings for Khethi would have developed. As they say...out of sight, out of mind. And Khethiwe is forever in Sbuda's face! And yena Ntombi, when did she decide to come home? When she could feel that something was not right. *sigh*

Am I right or am I right? Let's debate the (2) issues.


While on Gene, kanti when is Busi and Anne leaving???

76 Comments

KeleFabulous
09 Apr 2008 01:08

here's my bit to tv...

Miss K
09 Apr 2008 01:26

Talk about a buffet ....its more like mixed veggies when it comes to men! This classy woman i know her husband cheated on her with this woman who stayed in a 1 bed shack. She kept on asking "How could Sipho leave our King Koil Do-not- turn matress and choose to sleep phantsi etyotyombeni??"

So i don't think man have a type as long as there's sbunu under that skirt!

Oh and before i get slammed i'm NOT dissing ppl who stay in shacks, just trying stress a point.

Dabs
09 Apr 2008 01:28

Mina I think that is an excuse for Sbuda. What was he doing taking Khethiwe out to dinner, helping her with the catering company while his woman waas away. If Parson's can do it so can Sbu. I didnt live with my husband, but he saw me on weekends. We both were straight people during our absent. Do not put yourself in situations where you can get close to the opposite sex. If it means being rude to them so be it.

Dabs
09 Apr 2008 01:31

Mina I would laugh and go find myself a rich man, and we'll see how sleeping on the floor will last him. He dare not come back to me coz I will throw him with hot oil right in his face. NX!!!!!!!!!

KeleFabulous
09 Apr 2008 01:46

Dabs you forget this is tv and what Parsons does is exactly that...fiction. sometimes it happens that a man does stay faithful and sometimes it happens they don't. that's reality.

LOL @ Miss K!

Honeypot
09 Apr 2008 01:56

I think men like variety hence the saying that Men want a chef  in the kitchen,a lady in the streets and a Freak in the sheets, so most women can't be all that at once so men will stray like it or not!!!!

sponono
09 Apr 2008 01:58

WAIT A MINUTE...i havent watched Genrabish  for a while...are you telling me Sbudah is schtupping  Khethiwe...well well well...now i think he needed some fresh nunu's from a real zulu girl...hi hi hi hi hi...ubefuna ikuku-yakwa-ntuthu..LOL

sponono
09 Apr 2008 01:58

WAIT A MINUTE...i havent watched Genrabish  for a while...are you telling me Sbudah is schtupping  Khethiwe...well well well...now i think he needed some fresh nunu's from a real zulu girl...hi hi hi hi hi...ubefuna ikuku-yakwa-ntuthu..LOL

Moniks
09 Apr 2008 02:05

Heh what Sbuda is doing is real guys.. i know of this guy who left my friend for  an18 yr old school girl.. ohlala ku RDP, Im telling you my friend is beautiful drives a 1 series but he left her any way.. kuyenzwa yini vele hai amadoda afeil.

myname
09 Apr 2008 02:08

LO Spospo hehehehehe "ubefuna ikuku-yakwa-ntuthu..LOL" angithi Khethi is a virgin kwiGen kaloku she never shag even Tau missed it.

Porsch
09 Apr 2008 02:19

haibo, laughing my ass off guys, bring it on ladies bring it on.

How could Sipho leave our King Koil Do-not- turn matress and choose to sleep phantsi etyotyombeni??"  MIss K, wang fetsa

Sbudah is schtupping Khethiwe...well well well...now i think he needed some fresh nunu's from a real zulu girl...hi hi hi hi hi...ubefuna ikuku-yakwa-ntuthu..LOL Sponono iza nazo

1nOnly
09 Apr 2008 02:21

@spo Hay'bo! LOL

@Kele I think someone said Busi and mAnne are leaving in June. So ja it's gonna be a while still...

Nah Nah
09 Apr 2008 02:22

Yes Ntombi fucked up for staying long away from Sbusiso for so long but that should not be an excuse for Sibusiso to continue to mess up what he knows its good for him,  If he managed to stay away from alchy he shoudl try & fight this temptation ye lust cos that's what it is.
 Its not easy though ukurhalela umntu whom you know that should you do it, you'r screwed, but trust me the excittement you get is super, cos you just wanna go wild & be crazy with someone you dont even want to keep for long, that feeling of living a risk just makes the other person even more desirable BUT at the end of the day you must weigh u'r options & do what's right for you & u'r person....
 
This does happen to all of us even us women, have that guy you think daaang if they would leave me with him on a desert, I will drink that water & quench my thirst & then wipe my mouth for ever....Ungamla just wants to unleash a lil bit of that tiger that's in him, but that could get him into trouble with his perfect family. 

But then again isn't nice to live on the edge just once in while? Ha ha ha ha (Laaard what have i become?)

Mbake
09 Apr 2008 02:25

Well what is asd is that u Sbusiso opened up to u Khaphela. And Khaphela has a crush on Khethiwe too. As for Paul and Karabo- i dont kmow what to say!!!!!!1

Dabs
09 Apr 2008 02:29

Ja just like I said if Parson's can do it so can Sbuda. Sbuda is even worse because he saw his family on weekends so I don't understand such stupidity.

Renegade
09 Apr 2008 02:38

Eish, been away, but i'm back in full force. 

To answer your question Kele:

1. I think men want sex. Simple. Women can provide that. They can detach sex from emotion, thats why its so simple for them to buffet around. Problem is though, the women they are buffeting with, they cant seperate sex and emotion, and thus the cycle begins. So this is what I think. A man is with a nice intelligent good looking woman. He's "happy" with her. He gets an opportunity to tap another woman, who is less classy or intelligent or w/e the case, and so he does, coz he's a man. But to him, he's just tapping, nothing more. But this poor woman wants more, and should the original woman find out, she wants out, and when she's out, he'll stay with the less than perfect one.
Of course it doesnt always happen like that, but thats one scenario, I could paint a lot more, but they all have one thing in common, Men just want to get laid, a lot, and preferably, by different ppl, although they are willing to give their love to one person. 
And before men start bashing me, I'm open to correction...hehe. 

2. Ntombi was wrong. I know we all like to think we have the perfect man who will never cheat on us. But please, lets get real, u leave your man alone for months on end, he's bound to start wondering. I 'm not saying its right, but its fact. Sometimes we need to stop thinking love just happens and it will fix things, no, we need to work on mantaining our own relationships, love and fate wont do it for us. Geez. 

Eish that was a mouthful, but what can i say, i been gone too long.

zolx
09 Apr 2008 02:45

Cheaters (be it women or men) never need a reason to cheat. Why would a man cheat when he sleeps with his woman on the same bed every night? That happens,,so maybe Sbu would have the feelings for Khethi even if uNtombi was there..my 2cents worth

Sugarcandy
09 Apr 2008 02:53

Okay guys if any of you watched "WHY DID I GET MARRIED" you would know about the 80: 20 situation, in most cases people (men or women) live 80 per cent for 20 per cent (something for nothing).......I think that's what Ngamla is doing!!!!

sponono
09 Apr 2008 02:58

RENEGADE...I WISH ALL WOMEN UNDESRTOOD US LIKE YOU....HI HI HI HI 

how can we bash you when you tell the truth....(of course this doenst apply to ALL men, but the majority BASICALLY  we are SEXUAL beings more than women.....its only the society that tries to mold us into being one-woman men so that there'll be hamorny in the world and all that jazz.(especially with the temper women have..LOL)....but if you look at animals, the'll go chasing different female species and once they impregnate one they'll go for aonther.....hi hi hi hi  if only life was that simple......Ok just kidding.....LOL

and can someone tell me -lenzeni leqhuqhuva eliwu-Parsons now...what did he do to my Nandipha.....did he cheat on her.....well she's beter off...without that zit ....LOL......

Dabs
09 Apr 2008 03:02

No parson's is a good man. He didn't do anything

Renegade
09 Apr 2008 03:05

Haha Sponono, Do i sense sarcasm? Hmm, my detector's low today, i cant tell. But ya, mina i think i understand men a bit, coz can we ever really fully understand you guys? 

And no, Parson stayed loyal to Nandipha while she was away. So what they saying is if Parsons (I just realised that that is a really weird name, what kind of name is "Parsons"?) could stay loyal, why couldn't Sbu?

Gucci
09 Apr 2008 03:08

Haha! Have'nt been watching Gen in a while...thanks for sharing Kele. It about time Ntombi gets some competition Maan..she thinks she's the best thing since sliced bread...and that person to be Khethi?...shuuu..Well done Mfundi! lol

Coming to real life. It is statemements like these that make me wonder "Phela Ntombi and Khethiwe are like Prada and Pleather." Ahaaah..phela people when it comes to IWEWE and Men...Pleather and Prada/GUCCI do not exist. It is not branded and imnandi in different ways (so I hear).

There is just NO FORMULA when it comes to matters of the Heart. One Man likes a good cook while the other is just fine with eating raw onions. Even SABS cant come up with any standard...lol

Rene..u got it sana.

Gucci
09 Apr 2008 03:14

LMAO at My spelling...eish I get excited when these kinda topics come up..mearnt to say..statements!

Manhuza
09 Apr 2008 03:23

I think the best thing enomceda uSbu is to let khethiwe know of how he feels about her and make it clear that the feeling should end there it's just a feeling and they should try and work together to make sure that it goes no futher than that bcoz of his comitment to Ntosh, Okanye they can agree to be shaging partners with no strings attached.

As for leaving your Townhouse for umkhukhu, maybe la mfazi wasemkhukhwini doesn't nag, complain, not bosy, she cooks, have more respect and gives a good shag, so your money, car, looks and your house have nothing to do with it.

Fluffy Head
09 Apr 2008 03:26

"Phela Ntombi and Khethiwe are like Prada and Pleather"

Shooo, am I the only one who is this vane....I'ld hate any ex who des not upgrade from me..Seriouslly utterly hate him for it...If you have to dump me, move on to something better then I can understand...if someone I know for a fact that abathathi nto kum, hayi tata - kuzobanzima seriously

sponono
09 Apr 2008 03:31

Renegade...haayi man  i'm not being sarcastic...i'm tryin to say you're being a realist...and at the same time this kind of thing is based on mother nature that we as males are sexual beings...

and just like we'll never fully understand why women do cetain things you also will never fully understand.us..but at least if you are aware of this basic law of nature...I think you can handle certain situations better than these women who say...abafana odoti and they swear to never date again.....the same goes for us guys...the law of nature (donno what this means but it sounds right  lol)..is that women are emotional beings and they might throw a tantrum over (what we think are) silly little things  thats just the way they are.....and we must accept that we'll never understand them...and I think that's what makes the whole thing exciting....and I think the way men respond to their sexual urges is influenced largely by how both of you have worked on your relationship to strengthen it ....uNtombi's charecter is your typical ambitius non-nonsense woman who's a bit too mordern.for (my) someone like Sbudah.....so Khethiwe is giving him somethin fresh and different..hi hi (sometimes you women tend to be fixated on your feminist ideals and you wont even compromise and that can collide with the "stone age" man who still wants you to occassionaly act like the "stone age" woman....e.g at leat act like you want to "obey" my wishes knowing that you may do something else  but at least flatter me....and UNtombi...is NOT evena  bit like that.......

Renegade
09 Apr 2008 03:38

@Spopo, id, my sarcasm detector is low on batteries, usually i can sense these things, but now you've made it clear. The world is a hard place, only the realist make it out alive...hehe. But I get what you saying, coz while we are not excusing such behaviour, we are saying it happens. And I think what is important, is for ppl to stop depending on this whole "if he loves me he wont do wada wada...". Please. 

@Manhuza. I dont see what the benefit of telling Khethiwe is. Personally, I dont want a man to come to me and tell me "I like you, but I cant be with you"...what for? Especially if the feeling is mutual...hai, u Sbu must just get over it.

@Gucci Even SABS cant come up with any standard...lol \
Thats funny! Imagine if there was such a standard...how boring life would be.

Zee Babes!
09 Apr 2008 03:39

@Miss K - 'So i don't think man have a type as long as there's sbunu under that skirt" Thats true babes - dat the only thing man are after...and abo glamour plz note this - he doesnt care wether you wear Gucci or Gucch - he wants uEmmanuel in bed - relaxer and take out all your toys = play ungalokhu uba uMs Thing...kuneZinyoka nyoka out de.

Gucci
09 Apr 2008 03:52

@Rene - I tell u!

@Zee....hehehe....I like ur brand type...lol.

@Spopo - ja, this modernisation iyasichana big time...we are just losing it! And ja, u guys will never understand us as much as we will never understand you. Can we all be happy with that? I dont know maself...if its not ibhola or some sport it is the shopping. True..very true what u said.

 

KeleFabulous
09 Apr 2008 03:53

Renegade, you are spot on babes!

Munhuza...waht's the point of declaring your undying love if you (choose not to)can't be together?

Nah Nah
09 Apr 2008 04:15

This is a bit scary for me though! cos i'm thinkin of going away to study & work at another country & that means i'm leaving my Boo behind, as much as I know that this is probably gonna brew some disaster for us but i have to do it for me. 
Am i being selfish for trying to get more expirience in order to better my standard of living? Does that mean if my man cheats (which i hope not) i should not complain cos i'm the one who left for greener pastures? also what if i meet someone over there who tickles my fancy? should i cheat on him cos i'll be thinkin maybe he's doing the same thing back home? sometimes that's the mistake ppl do.
  I know i'm gonna stay loyal but i also know that i cant say the same for my man although i trust him totally. 

I have this belief that what i dont know wont hurt me therefore i dont bother myself with things i dont have proof of. Once i asked him if he trusts me & he gave me a perfect answer by sayin "Baby i trust you enough to do what is best for you & what makes you happy"  & i told him that's exactly how i feel as well. so ke if cheating on me would be best for him & it would make him happy by all means he must do it, but I must just not find out if he still want to be with me. 

Sometimes in relationships we should just be real with each other & not lie about things that we know we dont need to lie about, (like say baby i will never cheat on you) DUUHHH!!!  Atleast now i know that whatever brother man does he is doing what's best for him & as long he still says i'm the best thing for him, i wont go digging for something that might hurt me. I respect Karma.  

Ntombi should just try quickly to mend her relationship with Ngamla & stop nagging, questioning Sbuda about things she does'nt have proof of but only hearsay, cos that is gonn drive Ngamla straight into Khethi-khethi's bed at Sqalo court. 
Yena she must just give Sbuda a good "night of bliss" that he will never forget & amnike yoooownke i wewe yakhe & then athath'u shut up. You'll see Khethiwe will be a thing of the past. 

Cnglemother
09 Apr 2008 04:57

@ Miss K She kept on asking "How could Sipho leave our King Koil Do-not- turn matress and choose to sleep phantsi etyotyombeni??" LOL!

Guys you must remember Sbuda comes from a traditional & culturally orientated background and all this sophistation and ubumodern are things that were introduced to him later in life. Ntombi is a trophy wife and i do believe he loves her and boom comes Khethiwe with all the qualities that women he grew around possesed. Khethiwe reminds Sbuda of who he really is deep inside and who he should be. With Khethiwe he does not have to be this overrated bigshot and so understanding morden type of a husband. Khethiwe gives him a sense of affirmed manhood, call me oldschool or primitive but in my world I believe that men will always be the King of his castle and not undermining women on this point, but this feminity and ambitious-women is sometimes overdone we sometimes forget we are first women before we become anything else. Pls guys dont bash me.

Nice Kfab as always - not blawuni nozzing.

KeleFabulous
09 Apr 2008 05:16

Nah Nah your situation is diff from that of Ntombi...her absence wasn't planned even thou they were pregnant. she just decided nje after giving birth that she's living and in a sense it wasn't a joint decision. 

your leaving will mean an understanding betweeen you and your man and what you expect and what he expects. ofcourse things don't always go according to plan but if something goes wrong then at least you'll know even though you were miles apart you were still in the relationship and making decisions together...long distance relationships do work for some and for others it doesn't. it's up to the 2 of u to make it work!

KeleFabulous
09 Apr 2008 05:18

thanks @ Cnglemom

sponono
09 Apr 2008 05:30

LOL  Cnglemom..if Khethiwe was near you she's say..ewe unyansile mntanasekhaya........LOL.....

now can you imagine how difficult for us guys to just find that girl....thats why some of us end up shagging the help..coz she's giving what khethiwe is giving....without the degrees and women-power and all that being shoved down one's throat.....I recently heared one of the most "envied" couples in the neibhahood have seperated and the wife is a succeffull psychologist while husby is also running some lucrative business but the way bengakhona u-fro...He left her FOR the MAID.....who's certaily no oil painting herself...but was just a GOOD WOMAN......

Amaka
09 Apr 2008 05:31

Why should women put in more effort in keeping their relationships alive?  Why didn't Sbu realise that the distance was doing more harm than good, take leave and go to wherever Ntombi was?  Why do women have to be watchdogs and always try to protect their turf? Why do men always mistake their ding - a - lings for brains.  This is ridiculous.

Toxic
09 Apr 2008 05:32

so much to learn....so little time. So much enlightenment....hmm

Nah Nah
09 Apr 2008 05:33

So on point Kfab...... Dankie san!

KeleFabulous
09 Apr 2008 05:34

Amaka, such is life...

I LOL'd yesterday when sbari was busy snubbing Khethi and her modelling job and she said i'm no longer that girl who says forgive me anymore. hehehe

Renegade
09 Apr 2008 05:36

@Amaka, in a relationship, both parties need to do the work. I will not be shaken on that belief.
However, in Ntombi and Sbuda's case, Ntombi was the one who was wrong. She left what was their home, her job and friends. Sbu couldn't just up and leave, he did his part by going every weekend, surely you cant ask more of him. Even Ntombi admitted to having only concentrated on being Christina's mother. 

And you are right, this is ridiculous, men are ridiculous, but thats what makes them men, and thats why we love them so...hehe

Dabs
09 Apr 2008 05:37

My husband and I had the same issues. He wanted me to move to B with him and quit my job. I totally refused because that means when I get to B I will be 100% dependant on him. He threatened to divorce me because I did not want to move with him. He told me he can find himself another woman to bear kids for him. I told him to go ahead and find himself another woman, I will carry on trying to bulid a  career right where I am. We didn't talk for 2 weeeks, we kept on fighting for months, it was hell. There were times when I thought I should give in for me to save my marraige. Thank God I didn't because now he is back safely at home with his wife, and the period he was gone he did NOT cheat on me. And let me tell you something B women are stunning and He still stayed faithful to me. 

So the moral of the story, If my man can still stay faithful to me,especially when we are fighting tooth and nail at that time, any man can stay faithful to their wives/girlfriends no matter what.

To me Sbuda has no excuse, and a man can cheat on you whether you are there or not.
Ntombi is not to blame because after giving birth you need motherly support and love.

Renegade
09 Apr 2008 05:38

Lol Kele, (i was watching the apprentice last night, i missed gen), is what you saying true? Have my cries been heard? Will she stop saying "Forgive me", oh, there is good in the world after all!!!

Amaka
09 Apr 2008 05:45

Sponono please don't try to make this sound logically sophisticated than it is by introducing your basic laws. It's simple and disgusting. Ntombi went away, Ngamla got horny and now he feels really angry (his tantrums) that she got back before he could scratch his itch.

spice
09 Apr 2008 05:47

AMen Amaka it is ridiculous LMAO its just an excuse he would haven fallen for khethiwe with or without Ntombi gone mxxxxxm

Best-Achiever
09 Apr 2008 05:47

LOL @ Rene

To me Sbuda has no excuse, and a man can cheat on you whether you are there or not. 
@Dabs ... My thoughts exactly
 

Amaka
09 Apr 2008 05:53

 Point taken Renegade but i also believe that when you say you love someone you're making a choice to do right by them because you don't want to see them getting hurt.  Sbu shoulda known that Ntombi don't like sharing that ding - a - ling.

Toxic
09 Apr 2008 05:57

Ntombi went away, Ngamla got horny and now he feels really angry (his tantrums) that she got back before he could scratch his itch.

Now that you put it this way, it seems so true that it's the reason behind his mood lately-----LMAO!

Segololo
09 Apr 2008 06:05

<<Khethiwe with all the qualities>> what qualities? I have been watching Gen for some time biut I have not seen any enviable qualities

Cnglemother
09 Apr 2008 06:15

Segololo she may not have enviable qualities to you and others but Sbuda definitinely spotted something hence the pounding headache over her.

Dabs
09 Apr 2008 06:15

Same here, Seg. She's got the qualities of a witch. She is a jealous freak, imagine the trauma you have to go through with a jealous bI-atch like that.

Cnglemother
09 Apr 2008 06:25

Dabs, jealousy, b*tchiness,witchcraft are not all those things part of life, they just make life even more interesting? Imagine life without all that, dull isn't.

I cant bliv i am defending Khethiwe dont even watch generations often he-he-he!.

sponono
09 Apr 2008 06:28

logically sophisticated....LOL....@ AMAKA
naah actually it doesnt get simpler than those "basic laws"   and what you're explaining about Sbuda''s actions is also the same simple fact  he had an itch to scratch......because he's a sexual being...BUT THE MINUTE YOU SAY ITS DISGUSTING YOU COMPLICATE IT.....i'm not saying its right, but its LIFE...and what renegade and Kele are saying about both of you working at it...is whats important for such things not to happen....(women do these things  too you know.....)..

(i'm tempted to ask if you've been Ntombirised  but then that would be foward of me...but I sense a lot of anger ...right!!!!...just kidding

Segololo
09 Apr 2008 06:29

CMum: What qualities? I see an opportunity to learn something. So please tell me what qualities Khethiwe has that is making a loyal man like sbuda stray? What qualities? 
  

sponono
09 Apr 2008 06:34

spice....you DONT KNOW that for sure...ukuthi Sbudah would have fallen if Ntombi was there.....its your emotions speaking  and I guess the modernised NTombi would say....argh bewuvele umfuna nje uKhethiwe....

I think relationships are like that ....here are certain situations that you expose yourselves to, which might lead to disaster  and if you're strong you can work thru them....BUt if you can avoid such situations DO IT...again WOMEN ALSO DO THESE THINGS......

eish bloddy absent male bloggers....(i'm all by myself in this defense....phew!!!...where's Lepogo and Sdakamiz the smartest male bloggers when you need them...I'm sure they'd have something interesting to defend this.)

Renegade
09 Apr 2008 06:44

Lol @Sponono wishing Sdaka and Lepogo were here...

Yes Amaka, its a choice you both make to work on your relationship, to make sure that you are together forever. Upping and leaving your husband without much of his input is not helping a relationship. 

As for wether or not he would have cheated had Ntombi not gone away, well, lets look at it like this - had ntombi stayed, and he still cheated, he'd have no excuse. But going away like that has only served to give him an excuse. 

And dont get me wrong, i do not agree with this behaviour, it is not nice to be cheated on, but i just wish we'd stop expecting ppl to be superhuman. Just make sure you play a part in keeping your relationship on track, so if it falls apart, it is through no fault of you own. 

Simmone
09 Apr 2008 06:46

The only qualities Sibusiso sees in Khethiwe is how well can she sika lekhekhe.

Sibusiso needed someone to take care of him physically and sexually and his “fiancé” wasn’t there so he chose the next best thing that came through his door with an offer to cook supper for him. If it wasn’t Khethiwe it would have been anyone who made him feel like he was wanted, needed and loved.

The issue shouldn’t be who he fell “in love” with but solely why men tend to find the next best thing when their partners are not insight to keep their pants up for them.

As for Khethiwe she should be ashamed of herself *in Khaphela* voice. You attended his almost wedding dammit

Pooky
09 Apr 2008 06:50

this dude i know has been with his woman  for 4 years. Shem usisi is beautiful and has a model type of body(a real beauty  like that girl on Forgive & Forget)....but this dude cheats on her like crazy and only with big girls, real fohlozaz. The bigger the better. If you're a Naomi Campbell type of figure and you try to fisha him akasoze akuhoye maara if you're like that gal on Arthur's video(what's her name again...Dudu?) then ukufuna apha. i asked him if he loves his gal and why he cheats on her like this and why preferbly only with big ladies and why he just didnt have a big lady  kwa in the first place or if he rather would prefer his lady to be big. Uthi he loves her just the way she is and wouldnt want her to gain even an extra 5kg...intliziyo yam ithanda icherri yam kodwa incanca yam ithanda inyama enefutha(my heart love my gal but my d*** loves fatty meat)...WAS SPEECHLESS

Toxic
09 Apr 2008 06:57

Just make sure you play a part in keeping your relationship on track, so if it falls apart, it is through no fault of you own. 

NOTED

sponono
09 Apr 2008 07:02

Pooky  >>intliziyo yam ithanda icherri yam kodwa incanca yam ithanda inyama enefutha>>


ROTFLOL  @this ..  how honest......I wonder how many times a month he shags his pretty steady girlfirend...hi hi hi  oh well...I'm sure she knows his weekness and she should be doing something abotu it..either dump the guy or make him realise that its not all about sex.......but naye she'sprobably... in it for something else....

Cnglemother
09 Apr 2008 07:05

yoh nkulunkulu wam kuzophela islungu ke manje Segololo why mara? uyazi ukuthi ngiqonde ukuthini, yithi ngizame.

Like i mentioned previously, maybe the traditional wifey factor that Khethiwe has may have sparked the fascination. The liberated no-nonsese type of a woman that Ntombi is can really put off a man who's been raised to uphold his manly status by having a submissive wife. Sbuda knew Ntombi was this kind of a woman and loved her regardless, now comes this woman who will obey (literally submissive) him. Some men feel more masculine with women who will not challenge them in any kind of way.

Molilo
09 Apr 2008 07:06

Pooky my dear I just LMBAO.........true dat we love to experiment, I had Venda visitors over the past week and I went on to experiment on what was said here (TVSA),  the result I was not pleased. My advise, sometimes it is not worthwhile to experiment coz u will not get the results u are looking 4.

KeleFabulous
09 Apr 2008 07:09

interesting views...

Amaka
09 Apr 2008 07:11

...and if it was a woman who said: "intliziyo yam ithanda indoda yam kodwa my miss Thwala uthanda inyama enefutha" How would you feel Spo... ? and no i haven't been Ntombirised or if i havei'm not aware of it.

kanda
09 Apr 2008 07:12

Eish usbari ka Khapela uKhethiwe she is going to cause a trouble between the guys I wish u BIG guy angabinamagxa, but anyway bro Mfundi don't let this two - some (Khapela and Khethiwe) be in sich a shamefull relationship cause bazothudana, HAHAHAHAHA.

Segololo
09 Apr 2008 07:34

cmum: thank you for the response, dear.

my take on this is "you get what you put out there!" - Khethiwe for the past couple of months has just wanted something, anything and anyone! If it had a totolozi, she feels she can have it - if someone has it, she wants to destroy it! Look how she meddled in Sammy's relationship with that babymam he loved! 

She has a grootbek! Dammit! she irritates me and what I see is a woman out to get laid at any cost! Her eyes are not really set on anyone but any totolozi - Sbuda provided the opportunity when she was feeling sorry for herself and she took it! and nou, she is acting all holier than thou... Oh puhleese! The message she is sending out is "Totolozi come hither, me will accept any shape, size and model!" 

Sbuda - What I will say is he is just like most men  "Ga e wele ke nama" (It is ready, have it! but loosely translated if it is laying down, you can chow it)

KeleFabulous
09 Apr 2008 07:44

lol @ sego!

sponono
09 Apr 2008 07:57

Amaka.....(thats why i said women do these things too)
anyways mina .I'd feel terrible if I found out  and I'd either dump you or do something about your sex drive.or work on our relationship..so that you'd realise that sex is not everything.....in this case i donno why this girl is still in a relationship with the guy who's sleeping around when she's available..and I think thats different from ntombi.....(BTW if you've been ntombirised its a good thing that you dont know..so let the sleeping dogs lie....ngoba what you dont know wont hurt you...if uNtombi didnt find out..maybe...they woulda lived happily ever afta who knows...)

and I think every indivisual has the power to get out of a hurtful situation...but nalo-my sister kaPooky is in it for something so she's pretending as if she's not hurt by her sdudla-loving  girlfriend....(most of us are guilty of this male female)..otherwise she shud dump him or work on the relationship  until he realises how much he's doing is hurting her..

shai
09 Apr 2008 08:04

Hello ma Bloggers...
I just feel sorry for Ous Khethi. If she thinks about loosing her Verginity for uSbuda.(Christina's Pa)!!!

Uzozisola and UMlami wam abe esithi ndandikuxelele( I told you so). Because deep down uSbuda u loverisha uMakhumalo.
He only have lust for Khethi not Love. as Khaphela said so Ysterday.

Kuthiwa "Love is blind" sometimes but andiqinisekanga ngalonto(I am not sure abt that)

I pray God everyday that cheating my lovely BF must not cross my mind ever!!
we've been 2gether for 10 years now and we are planning on getting married by end of 2008 and having a beatyful baby as well.

Oops its time for me to leave..

Cherriooo!!!

Toxic
09 Apr 2008 08:11

hayi hamba shai shem.

myname
09 Apr 2008 08:28

im gonna read it 2morrow ................. it seems interesting. Thanks K & Bye guys

Nonny
09 Apr 2008 08:33

"I pray God everyday that cheating my lovely BF must not cross my mind ever!!
we've been 2gether for 10 years now and we are planning on getting married by end of 2008 and having a beatyful baby as well."

arg man, sweet hey Shai, goodluck sisi 10 years of faithfullness keep it up to 50 and even more years..........*Oh Nkosi yami ngashaywa unembeza, the way engilingeka ngakhona mina, kwa one month yokuziphthat kahle is Mission Impossible kimi.........LOL*

nokubonga
09 Apr 2008 08:45

@ Sponono...what qualities does a good Woman Possess....I don't understand, What is a GOOD WOMAN????

nokubonga
09 Apr 2008 08:54

Guys you must remember Sbuda comes from a traditional & culturally orientated background and all this sophistation and ubumodern are things that were introduced to him later in life. Ntombi is a trophy wife and i do believe he loves her and boom comes Khethiwe with all the qualities that women he grew around possesed.

Thats is So true, Cngle...A lot of women these days don't have time for their husbands or Boyfriends, they work hard and sometimes when they get home they still think they can boss their man around as they were doing to their employees in the office and thats where the clash begins.

I don't blame Ngamla, He sees something in Kethi that Ntosh, cannot offer. As  much as he loves her, but something is lacking recently and its gonna be hard for things to get back to normal. I mean , thats what we are witnessing these days. Amadoda complains ukuthi this high profiel women don't respect them and most of the time they are useless in bed because they work hard during the day. So a real traditonal man will want that submissive woman no matter the kind of position he holds.








Khethiwe reminds Sbuda of who he really is deep inside and who he should be. With Khethiwe he does not have to be this overrated bigshot and so understanding morden type of a husband. Khethiwe gives him a sense of affirmed manhood, call me oldschool or primitive but in my world I believe that men will always be the King of his castle and not undermining women on this point, but this feminity and ambitious-women is sometimes overdone we sometimes forget we are first women before we become anything else. Pls guys dont bash me.

Nice Kfab as always - not blawuni nozzing.

Kapakapa
10 Apr 2008 05:38

honestly we never stop learning! this blog was just a pure eye opener for me, interesting to hear other people's views.

Lushi
10 Apr 2008 20:02

hayi hamba shai shem@ Toxic.
ha ha ha ha ha ha tl tl tl..... iyho, Toxic umenzani uShayi wabantu.
Don't be like this Toxic, at least u could have done it like Nonny here-arg man, sweet hey Shai, goodluck sisi 10 years of faithfullness keep it up to 50 and even more years..........*

Shuu nawe uyawuthetha umvubo Shai!

Cande
10 Apr 2008 23:38

What about absence makes the heart grow fonder Kele, Sbuda should lear to be patient..!

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