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Why Secretaries Mara ye?

Written by Madamzee from the blog Why Secretaries? on 07 Apr 2008
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" it was my birthday, my wife didnt say anything to me, she had forgotten my birthday, when i got to work, my secretary wished me a happy birthday and gave me the warmest hug and a present. i felt depressed that my wife didnt care enough to wish me a happy birthday. the day went by, no phone call. During lunch, my Secretary decided that we should have lunch together, It was great fun, we were talking about general issues, the lunch took longer than we expected. She was so sweet. She told me that there is no need to return to the office as it was already late, and suggested that we should go home early. she told me that my wife called before lunch and said she and the kids will be late, they will be visiting grandma. She then suggested that she should come to my house and help me cook. I agreed. when we got to the house, she told me that she is going upstairs and she will be with me soon. she came back with my whole family and friends. they came to the living room, saying "surprise!!!!" and there i was stuck naked!!" 

This is one of the few e-mails that are circulating about Secretaries. Why is it that Secretaries are being labelled as "bitches" ?  Every joke that is sex and work related, the first people shagged are Secretaries. why do people think that if you are a manager you are shagging your secretary? Are Secretaries really that "easy"? how can Secretaries maintain a good and respectful image at work? will this stigma attached to secretaries ever end?



30 Comments

LM
07 Apr 2008 07:46

You seem really concerned1!are you a secretary yourself?

Nonny
07 Apr 2008 08:00

Eish, I can't relate to this, so I'm gonna be a silent blogger here. So share people!

pullie
07 Apr 2008 08:24

@ LM..lol~

Mopakistan
07 Apr 2008 08:47

well its true in some cases..our secretary/receptionist.i think maybe she was hired for her looks and the way she speaks english with a twang(no offence there i got an accent myself but im so not blonde and so not a secretary), not her brains..i mean the girl is black but so blonde,she is very stupid..and it seems like she was put there to entice the male customers..and believe me when i say most of them have had a share of her..and then she will be crying bout how she cant find a man,blah,blah,blah....i mean really the girl has a new boyfriend every week!

and funny enough she is very young but she dates men old enough to be her gran daddies and o rata chelete!..so i personally dont blame people who think secretaries are bitches coz i know what they talking bout...

Madamzee
07 Apr 2008 08:50

No, im not. my friend asked me to post this, she is interested in your replies. She is a secretary although she is sleeping with boss, she is not loose but people at her work place are saying that, it is because she is a secretary, she bound to sleeps around.

Zee Babes!
07 Apr 2008 08:58

Hawu Madamzee - your friend is shagging her boss mos now why is concerned abt something dat she proves to be true.

LM
07 Apr 2008 09:17

She is a secretary although she is sleeping with boss. She has just proved the stereotype or your article right! 

@ zeebabe: Hawu Madamzee - your friend is shagging her boss mos now why is concerned abt something dat she proves to be true. Ke laka leo!

mathata
07 Apr 2008 10:25

ke difebe,they are just like that,did you know guys grace was mugabe sacretary,ask your self ,what the hek is that 

Tshd21
07 Apr 2008 10:42

Hi-hi-hi

Cande
07 Apr 2008 10:50

Haiyke

HARAMBE24
07 Apr 2008 11:11

mathata wa rocka...............i have a great friendship the secritary at work, she is way older and besides i am gay....but  Madamzee: you friend is a whore, period! i am sorry to be so brutal- but that is probably how everybody thinks of her at work.

mabhebheza
07 Apr 2008 11:14

Tjo..mathata..dont generalise..So what wat if Grace whoever was Mugabe secreatary,,the title she holds does not represent her personality ,,as 4the ur friend mademezee..*sigh* y she still a secretary ke tyni?

mathata
07 Apr 2008 13:35

what im trying to stay she stole him from her wife,ene ele nyatsi,so what means to you,that means the secretary was happy when d wife dies,i dont know is lucky or what,one of d  local girls drives d SA guy like hell,she cant even respect d wife

Bunone
07 Apr 2008 15:15

Generalisation people....this is just one of those stereotypes that ppl tend to believe....u cn be a secretary & be involved with yo boss, u might even get married. if its nt against company policies, i give it a go ahead. another thing, anybody is capable of being a bitch, just because secretaries are considered low on status that doesnt make them men eaters.

mathata
07 Apr 2008 17:46

mmm

Madamzee
07 Apr 2008 23:52

Sho you guys! you are just plain nasty!!!!! im just going to say there was no reply. Guys how do you delete these replies?  You guys you are right, ama Secretary are just plain B******  i see them all the time around our offices it's either a colleague or the boss!  Sis

Nonny
08 Apr 2008 00:16

"Sho you guys! you are just plain nasty!!!!! im just going to say there was no reply. Guys how do you delete these replies?"
@ Madamzee,u will not be a good friend if u lie to ur friend and tell her there was no replies. Nna if I were u, I'd tell my friend to register at TVSA today and come to this blog and tell her story coz what I love most abt this place is that we tell it like it is and don't buy face.......*ok well most of us I mean.......LOL*
BTW, why is it then when people say what they want without sugar coating, it is labelled as nasty????, coz to me that ain't nasty it's honest!!!!!

LEELUV
08 Apr 2008 00:20

Being a receptinist i agree with PARKS dat we are beautiful and ur English hav a twang but i disagree with da fact dat we are only hired for ur looks 

Nonny
08 Apr 2008 00:23

"Guys how do you delete these replies?"
LMAO, I hope u never discover how to delete replies.........LOL

Tynt!
08 Apr 2008 00:30

Our secretary is white, fat, cute en not blonde.... she doesn’t shag our black boss!?!

Nonny
08 Apr 2008 00:35

"Our secretary is white, fat, cute en not blonde.... she doesn’t shag our black boss!?!"
I think that's a very clever strategy there, no cute black blonde for a secretary since there are too many conotations to that!!!!

Dabs
08 Apr 2008 00:49

well guys I'm a secretary who is studying and owns a business on the side. I don't sleep with the boss, I'm very beautiful, so you guys are so ignorant and shameless!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's like saying all black people steal, many people sleep with the bosses in offices there might be a lot of you here, acting holier than though.

I thought many of  you people were clever, clearly your ignorance over shadows your intelligence. sies Man you all make me sick.

Tynt!
08 Apr 2008 01:04

Eurr Dabs!!! Thats too deep..... But then I feel u. Sorry if my comment offended u by any chance, didnt mean to ruin your day......

Was just tryin to make a difference with my 1 cent worth of comment

mseu
08 Apr 2008 01:19

Hola Dabs!!!!!!!!  you said it better. how can they say all secretaries are like that. Konje ubani othi ama Manager don't do with ngoba kuyafana nje anybody can do it. Madamzee tell your friend not to worry about what we think if she is happy with what she is doing I don't see anything wrong because the boss is just like anyone out there what's wrong with that.

zolx
08 Apr 2008 01:23

That's just one of the stupid generalisations that go around. I was a secretary in my first job and had a female boss. I would never EVER shag or even consider dating in the workplace. Its just plain unethical.

myname
08 Apr 2008 01:41

Thanks Dabs. Im also a Secretary & my boss is black & i Never & will Never sleep with my boss & i have no intentions since i dont mix business & pleasure. Im so speechless yhazi................... some other people are so Mean. Im so dissapointed with you & WE ARE NOT ALL DOGS............................ We studied to become Secretaries its not bcoz of our looks & Thanks for undermining us

Cnglemother
08 Apr 2008 01:43

@Zolx "or even consider dating in the workplace. Its just plain unethical". I beg to differ, I know a whole lot of people who have met their soulmates at work and are doing well in their relationships and some even gotten married and are living happily ever after. I think it depends on the on nature of the relationship one engages in. Should it be a relationship based on love and honesty i dont see why not. You really dont have to meet a your significant other in church (not implying that you were saying that by your statement Zolx) , love can find you anywhere. That is my 2c worth.

Dabs
08 Apr 2008 02:09

Stereotypes that are set u by non other than ourselves. Any woman can sleep wiith your man if your man is a dog, so keep on watching the secretary, while he is being shagged by some B******** out there. 

zolx
08 Apr 2008 02:21

@ Cnglemom, i guess its a matter of opinion or lets call it personal standards. Relationships dont always work out and imagine if that happens and you have to work with the person especially if the breakup wasnt good. Mna i wouldnt do it shame...it might work for someone else but i dont see my self doing it.

Dabs
08 Apr 2008 02:32

Ja imagine seeing the person who shagged you last night. what do you say, pretend like everything did not happen around everyone. I guess I aint a good liar so everyone will see right through me.


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