Hi guyz this is my first article and i'm not expecting a lot of replies but atleast i wud love to see ur comments on this.
I've been dating this guy for a year and a half now and we have never encounted any problems, we dont leave in the same city. He is in East London and i'm in Cape Town we call each other everyday after six hrs and its like he is here but he is not. So a friend of mine suggested that i shud find sum1 else just to keep me occupied and i said to her no. Then a month later after she said that i received a call on my way home from work and its a guy's voice, he introduced himself & telling me that he got my number frm my friend and he called her by her name and they r working together and i was like what the hell is this and he told me that he heard a lot about me and he wants us to meet so that we can talk and i said what about? to cut the story shot .
A week later my boyfriend visited me for a week and he left Friday to attend his friend's funeral on Saturday then on Sunday my so called friend arrived at my house with this a hot cute handsome guy and i was damn ngowaphi? Then it appears that he is thee guy who called me and wants us to so we met and we talked and i kinda liked him but at the same time i had this guilty concious over me that says no u cant do that ur b-friend was here yesterday u cant cheat on him but i didnt mind that so we decided to hook up for a while and i didnt stop calling my boyfriend and telling that i luv him very much and i was not lying i do. So a couple of weeks later i decided to spend the night with him so we kissed & it was a nightmare i never been kissed like that and he was a terrible kisser and then we got to a sex part yhooooooo worst than kissing he is not cracking it.
Guyz i'm soory for such a lot article but i'm giving u the background of the story so after that i wanted to jump out of bed and leave in the middle of the night and never cum back nditsho i didnt feel anything while he was on top of me so i suggested of being on top and while i was busy getting up then he's thing ( P) fell down ayavuka bethuna yho i was sumthing else and i told my so called friend her friend's problem and she was so disapointed okay i told myself maybe its bcoz of its our first time together then the second and the third and the fourth time the same thing happenned and i gave up. I asked him what wa his problem he never answered me so idecided to end things with him now he is harrasing me asking what hapenned i dont know how much he loves me he never met a person like me and i never met sum1 like him. My long last boyfriend now wants to marry me and he called me last night that he never met a gud luving person like me in his life so we decided to get married in 2010 so that 1 is still calling and i told him to leave me alone.
My question is shud i tell my boyfriend that i cheated on him or shud i leave things the way they r now and move forward? My fear is that he'll find out that i cheated but that is the thing of the past so please advise.
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