To err is human....right beautiful and handsome people? right!!...
In life...we all make mistakes. Sometimes mistakes humilliating, embarrassing and hurtful. Some possibly leaving very visible scars on our souls. But that is how we learn. Learn to be better individuals, to do better and to make better decisions or choices next time round.
Those mistakes, no matter what the consiquences, are just a few of the many things that make us, shape us and ensure that we know how to deal with bigger things yet to come. A sad reality though...is that we will never live long enough to experience all mistakes one can make under the sun or arm ourselves with enough information to never get hurt or hurt others.
There are some things though, that you can experience just by observing a neighbour, friend, colleague...etc. Whether you know for a fact that you will never make them is a topic for another day. Phela tomorrow remains a mystery....
Anyway.....the point i'm trying to make is that mistakes and learning go hand in hand. By making a mistake, you learn....Learn once again...to do better, react better next time...or avoid the same trauma. That error builds you in a way. Those mistakes, in the long run, becomes experiences and lessons learned.
Sooooooooooo.....
What interesting lesson have you learned so far? These below are just a few of mine...
Here goes:
I have learned that money doesn't necessarily make you happy.....
I have learned that you can have sex with someone even if you don't love them.....
I have learned that there still are good men out there.....
I have learned that losing a loved one is the most painful feeling I have experienced to date...but now know that dwelling on the pain will only delay my healing process. If they pass on, they were not meant to travel the rest of my journey with me....so the justice I can do unto them...and myself...is to let them go...no matter how hard....
I have learned that someone may not love you the same way you love them...but that does not mean they do not love you to the best of their ability....
I have learned that a heart can never stop loving no matter how much hurt it has endured...it's simply too big and generous....
I have also learned that if you are gonna express your opinions mo tvsa, you need to develop a thick skin and take the criticism with a pinch of salt!! LOL....
So, kindly share with us those valuable and naughty lessons learned...