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A LOOK INTO HIV IN 2007

Written by libra from the blog BECAUSE I CAN ... on 28 Nov 2007
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The first time I learned of HIV/AIDS was in 1992 while in Standard 2, at that time it seemed like just another disease we had to learn about for our Health Education subject.  As years went by, life orinetation classes were introduced to our curricular and HIV/AIDS became one of the most discussed issues in our groups and my understanding of the pandemic became broadened.

Despite knowing about the risks of being infected way before I was sexually active i had very seldomnly put my self at risk of being infected by not using protection.

It has been said that you are either affected or infected by AIDS I  had been affected - my aunt, uncle and cousin have succumbed to the disease.  

My aunt was the first to die from the disease in my family in 1994- needless to say that stigmas about the disease were  high at that stage, as a result, my family kept it a secret from everyone but my mother revealed to us that it was HIV related.

Two to three years back my cousin fell sick and it was later discovered she has been infected,her family decided to keep it a secret but told my mother and my other aunts but said it should be kept amongst them. Yet again my mother told me and my siblings that my cousin in HIV positive.

It might have been wrong for my mother to reveal my relative's status to us but my understanding is that she has done so in order for us to see how real the disease is and therefore avoid being infected.

My encounters with the disease has made me become inquisitive about the pandemic-It fascinates me how people are able to live healthy fulfilling lives with the virus.

Its people like Criselda Kananda, Zachhie Achmad and many other HIV positive people that shows that being diagnosed as being HIV positive is no death sentence as many see it.

As we draw closer to another World Aids Day - we should think of the contribution we are giving to those affected and infected by Aids.

what is it that we are doing to combat the disease?
how supportive are we to those who live with the virus ?
what are giving to those children orphaned by the disease?


It all start with us, our attitudes towards the disease,how handle sexual relations, how we respond to the news being infected and the support we give to those infected.




9 Comments

sponono
28 Nov 2007 09:19

Maybe we can we share our HIV stories on this article...coz this is the right platform to remain annonymous and still of-load your fears worries how you dealing with it and if anybody has been helped by somethin someone they can share that.....

Bra Bizza
28 Nov 2007 10:03

it starts off by knowing your status....and i think the people who are afraid to go test are the ones who keep the stigma going on cause if one has been through that process of getting to know whether you are +ve or -ve then you wouldn't go around with the stigma on your head cause those moments while you wait for the results make you think twice about the disease itself...hope this make sense..

witty lady
28 Nov 2007 10:35

This HIV/AIDS is bad because anyone can get it, it doesn't matter who you are, whether you are true to your partner, truth is... you don't know what your partner is up to! even people that are in marriages get it, there's so much unfaithfulness that it's so hard not to get infected. The only way to stay clean is to use condoms which are not 100% safe!

hey yah ne and you know we keep doing things that we know might get us in to trouble but we still do them anyway, you know that thing that's at the back of your mind telling you gore it's wrong but we just give in to the moment.

sad how a couple minutes of pleasure can change the rest of your life.

Sdakamiswa
28 Nov 2007 10:36

I've had my test this year, even though it was not by choice, i know MY status, do YOU know YOURS? When last did you have the test done?

Brown Shuga
28 Nov 2007 10:40

Nice one Libra, now THAT's what I'm talking about!!

Shooo, but waiting for the test results...damn! Even if you know that you haven't been doing anything you shouldn't, that wait is nerve wrecking man. 

Pre & Post Test Counselling...how relevant or necessary is it?

In early 2005, I took an HIV/AIDS test, went to the doctor and told him I wanted to take the test, he just sent me to the lab, they took my blood and told me the results would be available in a day or two, I should get them from the doctor. Two days later, I went to the doctor accompanied by a colleague of mine ( a guy colleague), I told the nurse who was at reception that I had come to get results from the doctor. She went to get my file, opened the envelope and told me right there that "it's fine, you're negative." I wanted to klap her....I mean, how dare she tell me that in front of people? The fact that I had taken an HIV test was revealed to my colleague without my consent and I wasn't happy about it. It's my business, not anyone else's. 

Anyway, that incident made me wonder just how much care is taken to break the news to HIV positive individuals?? I wonder. 

I've lost two close friends to this monster, it's REAL guys take care!

Brown Shuga
28 Nov 2007 10:44

<<<hey yah ne and you know we keep doing things that we know might get us in to trouble but we still do them anyway, you know that thing that's at the back of your mind telling you gore it's wrong but we just give in to the moment.
sad how a couple minutes of pleasure can change the rest of your life>>>
And while you are doing that, you are busy thinking to yourself "He can't be positive, I'm sure he's not." Forgetting ukuthi umntu onayo akabhalwanga!!! We are so silly.

Bra Bizza
28 Nov 2007 10:55

eish mina i took mine about a 2weeks ago for insurance purposes....they sent me straight to the lab...no counseling whatsoever...i was just told that if my insurance is declined then i would need to come in for some therapy...i was like WTF???

just like that,i often heard about this pre-counseling  but i was shocked ukuthi that how they roll....it was the longest 4 days of my life ....

Brown Shuga
28 Nov 2007 11:14

<<...i was just told that if my insurance is declined then i would need to come in for some therapy...i was like WTF???>> Heheheh that's not funny but it's FUNNY hi hi hihi

mpule
09 Dec 2007 10:49

thanks for this aricle...
hiv & aids is here to challenge our beliefs and values, from gender & human rights issues to sex & sexuality issues. just because my husband is head of the house doesn't mean i am obliged to say yes each time he feels like 'it' and i don't. he has options and one of them is to think of sheep crossing the road until he's turned on no more...and the same holds true for me. also, just because i'm a high maintenance girl doesn't mean i need to hunt for that rich man because i can make my own dough u know...

i'm appalled to hear that some of our testing centres are still not providing pre & post test counselling because counselling can go a long way in enabling individuals to cope with a positive result (especially with managing their emotions), be informed about how they can live a positive, healthy & long life with the virus; or how they can prevent HIV from infecting them in the first place. sadly, people tend to realise the importance of counselling after they have tested positive and the seriousness of the desease overwhelms their life, often by then, it's too late...

the best gift we can give ourselves is to know our status early. the sooner we do this the better, for ourselves and people around us.

some good advice i was given some years ago is to treat every new partner as HIV positive until they prove otherwise. 

stop aids. keep the promise. take the lead. (2007 theme for hiv/aids)


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