I may be a Virgorian but am not a perfectionist nor am I trying to win points or whatever but this is just a piece of advice from a brotherly TDC. My thoughts are like that and am sticking with them.... use play them or play against them its up to you! Try it it may help you... Here we go...!
From a guy point of view i will refer moslty to women but its about partners..
Women and Men want's to be loved, appreciated, acknowledged and cherished...All with the outmost and sincierity.
Sometimes words appear not to be enough but to practice what you preach means the world to them...( I am a guy who always tries his best to keep his promises even though I may fail I try my out most to show the i care) And thats what is essential in a relationship...
Your Attention - Spend time with your loved one... some may be involved in a few miles distance relationships but being there for them helps and keeps the momentum going..! call them before they sleep, when they wake up and surely at work if you cant make it to them...! ( The reudction of phonecalls are a set back..!)
Couldnt find a better picture of expression than this...
(pic from Sowetan website)
Be their best friend - You have to play the role of being their friend Be there whenever they need you, be there to joke with them, play with them, to laugh with them, cry with them and go out with them. One of the best things I enjoy about passion is having my womans head on my chest with the whispers of our voices at the backround.
Creativity and Suprises - This doesnt mean that you have to have bucks in the bank to get them a very pleasant gift or suprise. Men drink well I do and we all know how women feel about it especially if you can abuse it.... try to be understanding to what they say even if its wack come up with a way of improving it. Dont drink buy her an air freshner...something like that.
Be Loving and Patient - Make them feel special in any simple and kind way you can. Cancel the trip to the Spa...the trip to the soccer match or the friends hookup just to be with your one... stare them in the eye and have a perfect day of cuddling..! Just for her or him...
Going an extra mile and being the best - You may not be able to give it all to her but try all your means, a weekend away just the two of you or even having a long bath prepared and food unexpectably can go a long way.
Optimistic - even though you may feel that you cant take it or dont believe something can happen..hold their hand and say those words...baby its gonna be alright, it makes them believe in you feeling secured and protected.
Adopting new things - You may be a little older but always try to please her in a way that goes with the years you in.( Once read a blogger saying an engagement from her man would be " kumele sishade") try to be sweet in a way that only them understand you yet not trying to be be who you are not..
Be a Gentleman or Lady - Have the bravery of saying what you willing to say to your loved ones in a pleasant way that would not hurt but show them the right way...!
Huh...i got too personal..! I aint saying more for now.
Thats your boy...and am Out....!
The pic is from Sowetan website!