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its my baby and i want to have it

Written by libra from the blog BECAUSE I CAN ... on 18 Oct 2007
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Mr Libra and Ihave been dating for four years and four months now and we have recently- no wait- we decided when we started dating that we will have three kids and we even came up with names.  Time passed and last December we decided to start with our family but i had an appendicitis (spelling??) and had to undergo surgery so we had to delay my preggies to allow my body to heal. A few months  back revisited our family planning plan and we decided to start since i am ok.

So come the third week of September and i had what i call my first sign of preggies.
It all started when I vomited (in a taxi nogal) on my way to work and i overlooked it cos i always had this vomiting sickeness(or whatever its called) so i thought it was just another one of my puking drama.

I soon came to realisation that this time my puking drama was different as it was followed by nausea, fever and eating less than i used to.  Then it crossed my mind that Little Libra might have finally decided to come. 

Before i could tell Mr Libra he called to check if I was fine and if there was anything bothering me so i told him about my suspicion.

At this stage we did not want to be too excited as it might all be a false alarm but after a week or so i was looking at my abdomen and noticed some movemvents, at first I thought I was hallucinating but it was real and i shared this with Mr Libra as soon as i could.

He kept calm but I could see the excitement in his face.  A week later i became more sick so we decided to consult a doctor and he said all signs i had were that of a preggies but since i had my periods that morning he said i should come back for a blood test to confirm after they have disappeared.

Up to today it has not been confirmed, i have consulted a gyene(spelling?) and had my blood tested but it remained negative, i even took a urine test at home with Mr Libra but there was only one line.

The wait is killing me and i swear i can see changes in my body if only it could medically proven that i will soon be a mother to a boucny baby.




19 Comments

Toodecent
18 Oct 2007 08:16

I hope you pregnant, and I also hope you will give the little Libra the greatest family love any kid would get.

Lemon_Lite
18 Oct 2007 08:24

Like Toodecent said - I really hope you are pregnant.... And when the results come back positive please do tell.

Tshd21
18 Oct 2007 08:26

So, are you guys married? Potso fela tswe-tswee.......

If u preggies, take care of that bundle of joy hey?? Tell him/her that aunt Tshd21 was the first to say welcome to the world! Hi-hi

KeleFabulous
18 Oct 2007 08:28

libra even if u aren't keep the excitement because it will happen

zandii!!
18 Oct 2007 08:39

baby i've gt this fear that yu might nt be pregnant bt its all in the mind yu wamt it so hard that yu start conviencin yo self that yu are,wena stick to the doctor as long as nothing was said that yu will neva gt pregnant just pray wena for the healthiest babe eva good luck

andi01
18 Oct 2007 08:43

@Libra i really understand what u going through it has happened to me, girl i am really supportive of you wanting a baby but i have to tell you it could be a dillisuion. I am not busting ur buble here but I am speaking from experience, Its good 2 be excited but have room for disappointment. It could be a false alarm since ur brain is wishing & praying. To me it was even worse, I had stopped periods for 3 months, I would vomit mornings and nights, i would hate the smell of cooking oil and onions. I slept most of the time, I had constant headaches, frequent urination, nausea I evne dreamt of (sh**), the Xhosa belief that some1 is pregnant. Usually when theres some1 close 2 me thats pregnant I have this dream and then I grow iqhuma on my right hand side which disapperes as soon as that persons stomach show. I have eloqhuma right now, but i have done 3 tests and they are negative so Sisi, i am just saying it could be a false alarm.

andi01
18 Oct 2007 08:43

@Libra i really understand what u going through it has happened to me, girl i am really supportive of you wanting a baby but i have to tell you it could be a dillisuion. I am not busting ur buble here but I am speaking from experience, Its good 2 be excited but have room for disappointment. It could be a false alarm since ur brain is wishing & praying. To me it was even worse, I had stopped periods for 3 months, I would vomit mornings and nights, i would hate the smell of cooking oil and onions. I slept most of the time, I had constant headaches, frequent urination, nausea I evne dreamt of (sh**), the Xhosa belief that some1 is pregnant. Usually when theres some1 close 2 me thats pregnant I have this dream and then I grow iqhuma on my right hand side which disapperes as soon as that persons stomach show. I have eloqhuma right now, but i have done 3 tests and they are negative so Sisi, i am just saying it could be a false alarm.

DJ Why why
18 Oct 2007 11:24

I've gotta agree with you Andi01, our bodies are created funny.....happened to me 2. I do nt like fruit especially Mango...the fibre reminds me of spider webs (terrified of) ....maar when it happened to me ...I was eating Mangos like they were the world's last. The smells, nausea and the works i swear the periods were even late....My tummy was hard and .........NO i was nt preggiez!

Pooky
19 Oct 2007 01:49

 Mr.Pooky and i are also trying...also was sure i was some time ago but it turned out to be a false alarm. We've put all our faith in God and i pray everyday that He may bless us with littles bambinos.  Pray ,have faith, believe and thank Him. It might not happen now but okusalayo it will happen. 

tshepiso
19 Oct 2007 02:19

eish!!!!!!! ke go utlwela botlhoko u really wants little Libra but go tla siama. 

advise-------- if u feel u pregnant  - don't become over excited it can cause trouble and also don't be angry it is also not healthy too.

monchooza
19 Oct 2007 02:24

I hope umithi Libra.....you'll make a great mother....

Sam2say
19 Oct 2007 03:21

well Libra, its very refreshing that there are still those people like you and Mr Libra that go to the Fam planning Clinic, I wish you luck and may God bless you , however like Zandii said, it might all be in your head as you r desparate to have one now... so wait till the doctor says...... till tell  keep your cool. Good Luck.

libra
19 Oct 2007 05:56

Thanks for all the positive response and encouragement. I do not know if I might have sounded desperate from the article but I am not.  the thing is I cannot be as excited as i want to be cos i do not know for sure.
That possibility of it being a false alarm also crosses my mind hence i want to know but i aint putting pressure on myself - i have so much time to make it a reality.
@lemonlite-i will definetely inform u guys cos i have already involved
So, are you guys married? Potso fela tswe-tswee - Mr Libra has been saving for lobola
hope you will give the little Libra the greatest family love any kid would get.-that is plan to give Lil'Libra the best i can and i do mean material things.i have done a great job as an aunt and i wanna have my own.

you guys rock u know that mos ne ?

libra
19 Oct 2007 05:59

its very refreshing that there are still those people like you and Mr Libra that go to the Fam planning Clinic
i was want the best out of it cos we have planning for such a long time

mabhebheza
19 Oct 2007 08:12

Im so happy 2hear 2hear that Mr Libra is keen naye i hope u do get  a bambino bt eish these fals alarms becareful hav xperienced that but min ai was glad that its a false alarm ( was nt ready) 
anyhow manje im back 2square one becoz im having all these signs and manje im so sick and tired of the preggies test so im waiting until Phutha lenzeka decides to pop 9 months later ( wish i had ur excitement)

pullie
19 Oct 2007 08:30

eishh gal, i've got tears in eyes coz i'm going thru wat u'r going, i'm always getting these false signs next i knw i'm having my period, its been a year now and nuthng eisshh.........!!

pullie
19 Oct 2007 08:35

u knw wat Libra, i pray that one day things will b okay nd God will give me all the children i'v been longing for... keep on praying nd have faith!

Lady D
19 Oct 2007 09:50

Libra,i really wish you well,i have never undergone what you are undergoing right now cause i get pregnant just from a sneez by a male species.I am so fertile ist not even funny!!!!

Good luck girl!!!!

doza
21 Oct 2007 03:22

aah! eish goog luck my sister if you are noy pregnet you can adopt me ne? am cute


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