As a first year student @ the university they use to call us amafresher, & the explaination for that was, we are fresh meat straight from high school in to the big bad world of NO PARENTS. i quickly realised how true that was, in a period of a month i had 10 guys asking me out and always wanting to visit or me visiting at strange hours.
By the third month all the friends i came with had boyfriends (obviously senoir students), a quater of them spend 3out 7 nights a week in those guys rooms. everybody who stays on campus or has stayed on campus will be my witness to this (campus life is difficult if you dont have a man/ woman). as amafresher we were so excited with being away from home that we thought it cannot get any better than this, oh but then it does of course, a hunkydocious senior student notices you a mere fisrt year clearly you are as hot as they come to be noticed by a senior, (great game plan).
by the end of the year, most of the girls that i knew had senior boyfriends, and they only kept their rooms for when mommy comes for a visit (the nice thing is senoir students have single rooms while you as a first year stay in a double). of course we were no longer friends (i guess) because i hardly ever saw them & when i did they pretended as though im slow/have a sickness because im not down with the flow.
come second year, if you are still lucky enuogh to see that guy and he still wants you, this time its 7out 7 night a week, oh but they still keep the rooms, mommy still checks on baby. although others are not that fortunate many became pregnant, some were dumped for amafresher (clearly you are old meat now). others just lost their cool so they were told (eish bad stuff).
those who were able to stay together for the rest of the second year would be reassured that they are now officially the wife (REGTE). funny seeing that after the senoir student leaves you never see him again, or you will see him for graduation when he comes with the real regte. leaving the university wife to a point of hysteria, with total depression.
this has happened to so many people i know, so my question is why is it that nobody is learning from this? im not a hater just concerned i've got younger siblings who willbe coming to tertiary every soon. BIG UPS TO ALL THOSE WHO ARE STILL TOGETHER EVEN AFTER TERTIARY
yours lovely
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