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Generations Teasers - July 2013

Written by TVSA Team from the blog Generations Teasers on 27 Jun 2013
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Coming up on Generations this July, 2013:

Monday 1 July 2013
Episode 134 (3896)

MJ is shocked to hear who’s behind Caleb’s death. Choppa is delighted when things go his way for a change. Jason is suspicious when he walks in on a loaded conversation.

Tuesday 2 July 2013
Episode 135 (3897)

Akhona doesn’t seem happy after being nominated for an award. Ngamla is upset about what is said at the police’s press conference. Khethiwe is floored when Khubone proves his love for her.

Wednesday 3 July 2013
Episode 136 (3898)

MJ struggles not to lash out at his father’s murderer. Queen is shocked to hear what Ruby says to the social worker. Dineo unwittingly pushes her man into the arms of another.

Thursday 4 July 2013
Episode 137 (3899)

Akhona throws out the bait, but will Ngamla bite? Phenyo hopes to kill two birds with one stone. Choppa’s secret crush is not so secret anymore.

Friday 5 July 2013
Episode 138 (3900)

Sello tries to make a run for it. Noluntu isn’t sure about the police using her cousin as bait. Khubone doesn’t take kindly to being chased away.


Monday 8 July 2013
Episode 139 (3901)

Queen unwittingly gives away a friend’s whereabouts. Jason believes something fishy is going on … Zinhle wants to pull out of the show.

Tuesday 9 July 2013
Episode 140 (3902)

Choppa’s stinker of a plan backfires badly on him. Khethiwe tricks Senzo into saving her butt. Ngamla is not holding up as well as he pretends to be.

Wednesday 10 July 2013
Episode 141 (3903)

Khubone decides it might be worth his while to stick around Siqalo. Akhona’s testimony floors everyone. Noluntu opens up to Phenyo.

Thursday 11 July 2013
Episode 142 (3904)

Nicholas is upset that he was lied to. Dineo extends a hand of friendship to the woman who slept with her husband. Things go horribly wrong when Khethiwe accidentally fires a shot.

Friday 12 July 2013
Episode 143 (3905)

The outcome of Ngamla’s bail hearing is announced. Patricia is suspicious about the shooting incident at Siqalo. Choppa convinces MJ to spy for him.


Monday 15 July 2013
Episode 144 (3906)

Noluntu is worried her brother will give the game away. Zinhle is humiliated at the fashion shoot. The social worker arrives to take Mpilo away.

Tuesday 16 July 2013
Episode 145 (3907)

Dineo becomes abusive when Phenyo has second thoughts. Khethiwe tricks Choppa into finding ‘evidence’ she planted. Senzo takes on his elders.

Wednesday 17 July 2013
Episode 146 (3908)

Ngamla receives a threatening visitor. Khubone is shocked when the police arrive at his hotel suite. The boys are confused about what they see on the reality show footage.

Thursday 18 July 2013
Episode 147 (3909)

Akhona is furious when Jason pulls rank on her. Gogo finds out the real reason Mpilo was taken away. In a moment of anger Phenyo blurts out the truth.

Friday 19 July 2013
Episode 148 (3910)

Queen catches Khethiwe spiking her coffee. Zinhle tells Choppa she wants out of the reality show. A press photographer catches a forbidden moment on camera …


Monday 22 July 2013
Episode 149 (3911)

Senzo gives in to the pressure and goes to see Ngamla. Khubone tells Detective Dave that Khaphela was murdered. Noluntu is furious when she gets dumped.

Tuesday 23 July 2013
Episode 150 (3912)

Ruby is overwhelmed when the social worker pays her a visit. Jason believes it’s up to him to protect the Dlomo legacy. Dineo is furious when she receives flowers.

Wednesday 24 July 2013
Episode 151 (3913)

Choppa wants out of the reality show. Khethiwe gets more than she bargained for at an AA meeting. Nicholas is delighted to see his long-lost relative Scott (played by Luthuli Dlamini).

Thursday 25 July 2013
Episode 152 (3914)

MJ is jealous when Isabel goes on a date. Noluntu enjoys making Phenyo sweat. Zinhle decides to give the competition her all.

Friday 26 July 2013
Episode 153 (3915)

Ruby has no intention of making a friend’s birthday special. Akhona’s second meeting with Scott goes worse than their first. The Memela's receive an unexpected, unwelcome house guest.


Monday 29 July 2013
Episode 154 (3916)

Choppa makes a phone call and is horrified by what he hears. Khethiwe receives a belated birthday gift. The crowd is shocked when Zinhle collapses at the final judging ceremony.

Tuesday 30 July 2013
Episode 155 (3917)

MJ’s delighted when Isabel has a change of heart. Noluntu threatens to tell all about the affair. The estranged Nomvete brothers meet for the first time in years.

Wednesday 31 July 2013
Episode 156 (3918)

Phenyo and Dineo’s relationship seems to be back on track. Scott tries to charm Akhona into giving away info. The social worker shows up at the right place at the wrong time…


Generations is on SABC1 Mondays to Fridays at 20h00.

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1136 Comments

THE ELEMENT
28 Jun 2013 01:09

1st yeh

NoMdazB
28 Jun 2013 01:15

1st

ILoveYourMom
28 Jun 2013 01:16

Phenyo needs to die like seriously now

Keratile
28 Jun 2013 01:54

Finaly. Phenyo must go on extended holiday or something

nonsense
28 Jun 2013 01:56

top 5 yay let me read

D.mah
28 Jun 2013 02:08

NUMBER 6 BAYBAY! FINALY TOP 1O. LUKS LYK NGAMLA WIL B VISITN DI CELLS, AND AS 4 PHENYO 2 CHEAT AGAIN! LE GONE KA NOLUNTU

KayTo
28 Jun 2013 02:46

Crap,crap!

Ntsikie Lee
28 Jun 2013 03:28

so Ngamla wnt get bail in july or what??

Sbobo
28 Jun 2013 03:49

No 10, looking forawrd to c justice takes its course on Ngamla n Khubone

T31m
28 Jun 2013 04:52

Top15,

T31m
28 Jun 2013 05:13

Eix,It seems like Noluntu cnt get enough of de Dlomo boys

Mimibob
28 Jun 2013 05:43

I give up.. Lol...

Sis p
28 Jun 2013 05:43

Wow top 20 washo nje u THABITHA once a cheater always a cheater

Muhle10
28 Jun 2013 05:47

it seems noluntu cant get enough of married men and the Dlomos, and as for Phenyo he is a hopeless case, to cheat again? Ngamla will be shocked to find out who was behind his arrest.

Deemo
28 Jun 2013 05:59

ok,

Goldi
28 Jun 2013 06:05

Morning peeps ai ale robale maan ok top mang mang let go n read

ust
28 Jun 2013 06:07

Top 20 neh

Goldi
28 Jun 2013 06:15

Manwhore doesn't know how 2 keep it in he's pants yhooo ai no a serial cheater indeed, m hearts sore for Sbuda eish hope he gets back on he's game soon, poor Mpilo shem ai Khethiwe is a bad mother shem wuuu

@Ntovhe.
28 Jun 2013 06:24

Hi baratuwa it feels great 2 b back afta such a long tym. N u guys r taking gud care of eachotha. Love u all.

tapiwadre
28 Jun 2013 06:34

number 20.let me read nw

CHERIOO
28 Jun 2013 07:03

mukwidza
28 Jun 2013 07:05

eish phenyo shd jst go and hang.cheatin again in less thn a mnth.i 4c sibusiso weaslin hs way out of ths one,again...as fo khetiwe th less syd abt hr,th beta

Swit p
28 Jun 2013 07:06

I don't like july teasers no wandie and sbu eish, bt again stan (scott) welcum to e gen familly

gegelegege
28 Jun 2013 07:08

Yep happy friday

moasa89
28 Jun 2013 07:19

Hawu, u ppl dnt sleep

tshiamopatience
28 Jun 2013 07:21

1 ill make it to top 10

Anothando
28 Jun 2013 07:21

portcia
28 Jun 2013 07:24

ja ne!....... ha le robale serious, top mang mang, ok let me read

portcia
28 Jun 2013 07:39

Seems a bit interesting, but as for Sbusiso going to jail, eish....................................... i hope that's not a way of taking him out of the soapie, and if he finds out that Phenyo is behind this, ncncnc, it will be the end of him.

The Memela's receives an unexpected, unwelcomed house guest, i wonder who is that

OlothandoD
28 Jun 2013 07:42

Morning, am top bani?

Rendz
28 Jun 2013 07:46

Choppa has a crush on Zinhle...lol,this should be interesting

Anothando2
28 Jun 2013 07:52

Don't like this.

Lady SMS
28 Jun 2013 07:53

Wow top 40

Rendz
28 Jun 2013 07:59

Ah Noluntu has a thing for forbidden fruits,like they say "it just tastes so much better" Swazi Lukhele's husband>>>>>Jason's husband>>>>now its Dineo's hubby... #Give her a bells

Bk212303
28 Jun 2013 08:15

sukaaaaaaa

Bk212303
28 Jun 2013 08:16

Kwaaaaaaa Nomdaz almost my dear frnd

Ntaksay
28 Jun 2013 08:21

Hi Bk
Good Morning everyone, let me go and read

OlothandoD
28 Jun 2013 08:22

So Noluntu and Phenyo will dust!

Ntaksay
28 Jun 2013 08:28

I'm not that Wowed.
But let's watch and see.

nusa
28 Jun 2013 08:34

yeérrr

nombusodladla
28 Jun 2013 08:38

Ngamla going behind bars!!! Dts no ayoba at all...

sexy d
28 Jun 2013 08:38

lol indeed Noluntu cant stay away from the Dlomo boys go shorta Jason n Sbu.......**whispering** le Malome Jabulani

nhlanhlayethu
28 Jun 2013 08:45

Ngamla is going down eish m too sad, so Noluntu will steal Phenyo nc nc nc nc nc nc too much drama this month i like, as for the b***c called for Khethiwe it serves her right uyalunga the hag is out of control.

shaidin
28 Jun 2013 08:47

morning!!!bahlobo bam woooow finally the moment we were waiting for july teasers wooo let me go anf read chat later.running

portcia
28 Jun 2013 08:50

Yoh.... sexy d ,u stoutu, imagine Jabulani!.. kwaaaaakest

MaKhuu
28 Jun 2013 09:00

Sibusiso going to jail oh my word.......this is so bad

shaidin
28 Jun 2013 09:20

soo my fimaly is tea lady and phenyo have affair woow,shame on little dinny worse part of it dinny is pregnant now the question is is phenyo really i mean really love dineo or what???can't wait 2 c the social worker take mpilo yoooo i can imagine seeing khethiwe's face.queen catches khethiwe spiking her coffee'''is this means that queen catches kethi khethi pouring alcohol to her coffee?phenyo is a bastard he is going to tell dineo that he slept with tea lady reaalyy waza wa ba si yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo se ndoda.and dineo she like to be abusive eei


cant say i m happy because its pay back tym for sbuda!!so is it true that if ntombi can found out what sbuda did she will really refuse that sbuda must c chrissie?mm we will found out.IF I WERE DINEO I WILL HAVE DUMPED PHENYO LONG TYM AGO.I LOVE MY FRIENDS.FAMILY AND EVERY ONE BUT THE IS1 THING THAT I CAN'T DO
 WHHHHHHHHHHHHHHICH IS TO SHARE MY HUSBAND WITH SOME1 WHOOOOOOO I M SORRY I CANT HANDLE THAT 1 SOOOOOOOOORY!!!!

WEN SBUDA RETAINS I GOT A FEELING THAT PHENYO WILL RECIEVE NGAMLA MARK +3

duckie
28 Jun 2013 09:24

top30

Hellen K
28 Jun 2013 09:27

I dont like it when Ngamla get arrested....... interesting things will happen in July... Poor Dineo, once a cheater always...

duckie
28 Jun 2013 09:42

sounds interestin but i mus say m nt glad tht sbuda is goin to b arrestd 

So Noluntu claims to hate the Dlomos but loves eir Manwood
Poor Dineo, hope this wnt drive her into loosing the baby ,Manwhore is nw mre than a  manwhore ...................sbuda must check him out for good

Welcum Scott, hope u nt as bad ur brother(Hlomla),i d hate to see him goin against sbu
Khethi.............apparently shes goin on reheb in real life

Hope Noluntu get preggies again, a dlomo baby nd this tym arnd Sbusiso wl nt b ere to protect tht baby

05415
28 Jun 2013 10:00

@duckie stop believing tabloids because one day you will be sued and lose your job. Remember what happend to the girl who said things about Khensani and Zam Nkosi? Be careful Winnie Modise is not at rehab in real life, the girl doesn't even drink a drop of alcohol. Guys, on a serious note, stop believing rubbish on the tabloids. Winnie only has separated with the hubby that's all. Trust me, she doesn't touch alcohol, never has...

BACK TO GEN: It puzzles me that people don't want Ngamla going to jail, he killed a man. A man who had children, was a husband, brother, uncle to someone. Would you like that if someone kills your family member and not go to jail? I say good riddance Ngamla, you are a murderer, period and murderers should go to jail, it doesn't matter how much we love them. Stop hating on Phenyo, he's bringing justice, that Ngamla is evil, period.

cerebos
28 Jun 2013 10:07

No ways Ngamla cant be arrested. Noluntu isiduphunga

dream catcher
28 Jun 2013 10:15

LoT of drama goinG on diz month Ow ngamla going behind the bars...this is not good at all yoh I wonder wat wil he du when he finds out uri phenyo was behind diz

gegelegege
28 Jun 2013 10:22

Morning family im a bit confused isnt Caleb is not dead but he is alive somewhere?

nomajaji.
28 Jun 2013 10:25

shame, ngamla going to jail, sies on u Mr P

duckie
28 Jun 2013 10:29

tnx fo for da adv05415

eix nam ukuthanda izinto sorry guys

i loled ydae wen khethi ws koling Ruby to cum nd fetch, aftr the ey she pshd her wen she insted tht she cnt drnve wth mpilo jus lik that

Ntaksay
28 Jun 2013 10:33

05415
First of all this is a soapie not real, secondly Phenyo does not want justice he wants Sbusiso's company.

Ntaksay
28 Jun 2013 10:50

Olo and Portia I have just added you to my list on Gen buddies.

We are not just family but biddies as well. *happy*

WHO ELSE HAS JOINED PEOPLE? LET ME KNOW I WILL ADD YOU AS MY BUDDY

posh559
28 Jun 2013 10:52

Phenyo is greedy hope sbu kills him n hpe noluntu wl b pregnant n hpe dineo wl loss dat bby

kbblue
28 Jun 2013 10:52

you haowa im so late mzm

jemmie
28 Jun 2013 10:53

Hey guys eish no sbu nd wandie nd dineo gtting hurt always ayii dnt think i will be watching gen this month...

Goldi
28 Jun 2013 11:06

Hey Ntaks i finally managed to join you can add me will email you just now

cyny
28 Jun 2013 11:07

Chinekewooo this z not the phenyo l know''having an affair wth noluntu of all people'' sory dinny

Sexy Li
28 Jun 2013 11:12

@ 05415 fr a moment I thot u were da real Winnie Modise *jst sying* "Trust me, she doesn't touch alcohol, never has..." Well said @ Ntaksay

duckie
28 Jun 2013 11:13

Guys im stl failing to register,

Please assistm me, When i click on register it say error on page

lileuna
28 Jun 2013 11:26

Hayi! Mina I give up on Phenyo. I hope Dinny carries her baby to term.

cyny
28 Jun 2013 11:47

Sabrina037
28 Jun 2013 12:03

ey hw low cn Phenyo go,cheatin on Dineo wit Noluntu owt of all ppl,i guec naye uDineo uyalayeka uzopheza ukundonsa indoda yakhe ngekhala!

tshepiso
28 Jun 2013 12:05

GOOD FOR NGAMLA HE DESERVE IT. i HATE THAT MAN . ESPECIALLY THE WAY A BUANG LE DINEO KA GONA."YOU ARE A CURSE" SIES .
DINEO IS A BIG SYMPATHY SEEKER. WHAT PHENYO DOES IS GOOOD. I SUSPECT DINEO GA A MONATE,I THINK SHE IS A CORPSE UNDER PHENYO.
ATLAST THE SOCIAL WORKER DONE HIS/HER JOB

@SEXY LI<<<<<< HAVE YOU READ THE "MOVE MAGEZINE" OF MAY 2013? IT MATCH KHETHIWE AND WINNE AND THAT WAS A PEFECT TRUE MATCH.

JadaPinkett
28 Jun 2013 12:08

Noluntu uyawathanda amadoda ashadile

Goldi
28 Jun 2013 12:30

@duckie tell me abt it i stragled until i used my mobile thats wen it accepted any way keep trying good luck

NoMdazB
28 Jun 2013 12:31

Hello again. I want Mawande to come back now.

portcia
28 Jun 2013 12:49

To 05415 and tshepiso, have you guys seen how generations was like when Sbusiso was away for a month or a couple, that's when they send him to a hospital somewhere i cant remember, but he was there for the lung tat Khapela gave him, couse it rejected his body? can you recall how boring the soapie was, and how excitred everyone was when he cane back?

So that's why most of the people dont want Sbusiso to go to jail, couse we dont know for how long are they going to keep him away from our screen. And as for Phenyo, all he wants is to run ezweni qha!... and i hope he gets a good punishment for stabing his brother's back.he should be happy that Sbusiso was there to save his ass after setting up Akhona go Sello, but hey.. the man is greedy, he wants everything, and he doesnt even want to work hand in hand with Senzo, couse he enjoys calling up the short's in the business that he didnt  even create from the bottom, and yet he still lives under Sbusiso's roof.
sorry guys for a long story is just that Penyo disgust me.

Ntsikie Lee
28 Jun 2013 13:01

@Portcia am wit u on that, from the teasers it seems like Phenyo wnt be in charge and he will angry and blurt out the truth...

alert
28 Jun 2013 13:22

noluntu wa varhandza vava nuna lavanga cata kasi whts wrng with dis gal is mr s gng 2 gt a bail dis july or wht, this is bad man

smaku
28 Jun 2013 13:39

Phenyo is greedy kwaphela qha he wants the company that does not belong to him.

Modern Chik
28 Jun 2013 13:47

No.78 aho tshwane TOP100!!!!!!!!

ausdee_08
28 Jun 2013 13:48

Hai I don't like this.. :-(

Why is Phenyo cheating agai.....serial....

Khethiwe must learn :-)

MsKim
28 Jun 2013 14:21

a cheater never change its spots. at least to Dineo thats no secret. you take him from someone chances he'll do it again and again and again...

AsandaMaq
28 Jun 2013 15:00

Yeah!!! Now thats what I call a soapie... Sbu will get arrested, don't get me wrong guys, i lurv him. And this is a huge challenge for him. I can't wait to see how he gets out of this ish he got himself into. But my money is on the fact that MJ is post his bail. MJ loves Sbu now, I wonder what took him so long. And wena Phenyo, you're a f**kd up bastard. You cheat on your wife and then you blurt it out yourself. Dineo, you're are a stupid hoe and Tabitha warned you "Once a cheat, will always be a cheater." And as they say: "What goes around, comes around." You took Phenyo from Taby, now it looks like Luntu will take uPhenyo from you. Uhh!! Thank God. Dineo is a bossy stupid bitch, who don't know anything about marriege. Ohh, did I tell u I Hate You?? Well, I Hate You.

Hazvie Nyamudeza
28 Jun 2013 15:08

I like the drama this month but wats up wit dis Zinhle gel shz in shz out of di competion

Hazvie Nyamudeza
28 Jun 2013 15:09

Sukirai
28 Jun 2013 15:47

Sibusiso should not go to jail. Generations without him is dull. At the same time the writers want us to know that there are a lot of people out there who are very powerful and are getting away with murder. Some should be brought to book like Khetiwe and Khubone they do not have the money. shame

Ndota
28 Jun 2013 18:31

finally th dog z gone , i hop its 4 a long tym ,

Luuuu
28 Jun 2013 20:13

UNoluntu uzomitha futhi ngoba akayazi iPPE and unebhadi lokumitha ngama- one night stands! Will she dump the baby again?

@EddieKumalo
28 Jun 2013 21:13

Mk mk mk, @last choppa gets laid :p ,Luntu just cant resist the dlomos, agh khetie deserves everything tht cmes her way, @least Sbu wil go to jail, i almost thought h was untouchable, ths Tom n Jerry play btwn MJ n Isie z annoying nw. al the best to the 'abusive' Dinny on her pregnancy.

Danick
29 Jun 2013 07:22

Mpho Patricia nkwinika
29 Jun 2013 08:30

Mxm phenyo is a busted

zvee
29 Jun 2013 10:03

Phenyo uyabora cz Sbuda is the one who welcomed hm 1st and allowed hm to stay in hz home.. he is forgetting tht hz father JB is a truck driver lol en Ezweni is Sbudaz, mnxmmmmm.... Khethiwe this serves her right..

I dont want Sbu to be arrested thou... Noluntu is such a wh*re yhuuuu haybo.. Askies Dineo nhe..

"Jason believes it’s up to him to protect the Dlomo legacy." 
Good Jason ur wife/hubby is a domkop mnxmmm.. Sbuda will repay u 4 ur loyalty LOL... Your scanned the original file thou @Sbu ur problems are not over yet.

kamoamo
29 Jun 2013 13:47

I think sbusiso will bounce back and Penyo is so annoying how I wish he could go back to where ever he came from.

iPosh
29 Jun 2013 16:33

...Hey guys, im new here!!!

mahumani
29 Jun 2013 21:12

Hello guys long time neh

Fitness
29 Jun 2013 23:29

Pheyo really is something else.....to cheat with Noluntu,like serioully?

Tonga
30 Jun 2013 01:18

Noluntu with her scams again, aish.

Ditshosa
30 Jun 2013 06:20

Ditshosa
30 Jun 2013 06:23

Oh my gosh i must say generations is on fire this july yhoooo.but noluntu must get herself a man n u phenyo mxm o ya bora

StunnerMK
30 Jun 2013 08:31

Ngamla will be bck nd som1 like phenyo wll hve hz mark +15 or be out of ezweni

MotheoM
30 Jun 2013 17:27

guys please help,any1 from samrand or near vodaworld?need a place.

Riyat
30 Jun 2013 20:11

Hie guys me new here please throw me a party

NoMdazB
01 Jul 2013 02:43

Hey guys. Welcome back @Mahumani. And *mhhh* welcome @Riyat. How've you been love?

motstow
01 Jul 2013 07:51

ah man , sbu is gng to jail. I wish Kenneth will come back. Nolunto wa bora shame.

Nap
01 Jul 2013 08:31

Arg its so impossible 2 b number 1 bt @least i made it... Sbu gng to jail is that a Joke?

Goldi
01 Jul 2013 08:35

Morning Family Happy week ahead Nomdz i think we need to organise Riyat's party wat do u say :) any excuse to drink hahahahahahah long time indeed Mohumadi hope all is well

Bk212303
01 Jul 2013 08:39

Hi everyone and welcome to all new ppl. Last week couldnt cht cause i was training a student from some college so she was sitting on my desk all the time so didnt want her to c my chats all that. Anyway im back. Happy Monday, Do u believe in fortune tellers???????????????

portcia
01 Jul 2013 08:52

Hi Riyat, how are you doing?

Bk, tell us more about your story, what about fortune?

Ntaksay
01 Jul 2013 08:55

Good Morning everyone

OlothandoD
01 Jul 2013 09:14

Morning my lovies, Today is my birthday and am so grateful the Lord has blessed me this much!

Goldi
01 Jul 2013 09:37

Happy Birthday Olo may you day be filled with Joy, Laughter and Happiness and lots and lots of DUSTING 

I dont believe in them BK

shaidin
01 Jul 2013 09:59

morning family!!i want to join GEN Buddie so how do i join in please ntaksay help me

Ntaksay
01 Jul 2013 10:04

Happy birthday Olo. Have a wonderfull day.

Bk212303
01 Jul 2013 10:08

Happy b-day Olo may u have many more yrs to come.

@Portcia a fortune teller is a person that tells u above tings happening to yr life now and sometimes near future. They use card and reads stuff about yr life and i dont know how they do that but they do it anyway.

Ntaksay
01 Jul 2013 10:13

Shaidin 

1.  click Generations launches new buddy site (look for it on the middle right side of your screen)
2.  Then on the article click on Generations link
3.  Look for register then click it
4. Type in your mobile number
5. Then your date of birth
6. lastly your name and surname &password

Then you will be registered.

OlothandoD
01 Jul 2013 10:13

@Goldi, there will be lots ans lots of dusting today :))

Ntaksay
01 Jul 2013 10:15

Have you ever consulted one BK?. 
Some are real, they have a gift of seeing someone's future. But some are crooks.

Bk212303
01 Jul 2013 10:45

Yei yi im afaraid i did this passed weekend, wow.
Have you ever heard someone telling u what u know and what u think yhoo hectic i must say. Its a white lady she uses cards and thats it and tells u yr story. It was actually my sec time the last time i went there my son was 1 yr old and now he is 9 yrs so its been long.

Ntaksay
01 Jul 2013 10:46

Shaidin did you manage to register?

Ntaksay
01 Jul 2013 10:53

Its a white lady she uses cards and thats it and tells u yr story
What sort of stories BK, is it about your future or something that has happened in the past?

I have never seen one except in Generations when Dinny consulted one. At least they don't tell you that the ancestors are angry and you have to slaughter a cow. Does the cow slaughtering really help or is it just a way of people to suck money out of us. I have heard so many stories

portcia
01 Jul 2013 10:53

Happy birthday Olo, may you have a blessed day and see many more years to come and many more DUSTING.

BK  i cant say i believe in them or not, as i have never been there before, but i think it can be scary, what if they tell you something that you dont want to hear, that can change your life forever? Have you ever been there? and if so then what was your experience? you dont need to explain what they have said, but did you find them real? sorry for lots of questions but im just curious

portcia
01 Jul 2013 11:04

Ntaksay, i think if you really believe in something, then whatever you believes in will surely happen to you. if you believe in ancestors and slaughtering of cows and goats and believe that whatever ceremony you are doing will do out the best for you, then it will do out the best of you, but if you are doing it for the sake of just doing it then you wont come right, the same goes with fortune tellers

portcia
01 Jul 2013 11:20

Hey gys i have a question for you, my colleague here at work is married to an old man, who was working and providing for the family, and now the old man is not working anymore, he's been unemployed for seven years, and my friend is the only one who is working at the moment. The problem now is that my friend is deep in debts, after taking one loan and another and another just to pay all the debts they had, but now she is stuck with lots and lots of loans, and not enough money to get her through the week as she earns weekly.She has been talking to people to try and get his man a job, to a failure couse it seems that this old man doesnt want to work anymore,as he keeps turning everyone who is tring to help down.
The man has a driver's licence but his ego wont let him to drive even a taxi for the starters.
So her plead to me as a friend,is what should she do about this matter? and i need you my Family to help me here, couse i dont know what to tell her

Goldi
01 Jul 2013 11:31

Yes Posh only if you believe, how old is this old man?

if he doesnt want to work who must do it for him? seven years is too much if he doesnt want to work for some1 he might as well start he's own do something so that he can provide tjoooo haai wathaba and worse he's choosi soka maan

portcia
01 Jul 2013 11:38

Im not sure how old he is, but around fifty, but what pisses me off is that onale licence,but doesnt want to be Mageza, what does he think gore bana ba gae bajang, and now my friend want Makwapheni who can help her out of this stress,but i dont think its worth it.

Ntaksay
01 Jul 2013 11:48

There is a programme on SABC1, I think it's called debt something. the lady helps people who have debts they cannot afford to pay. She might even help the hubby.

I have only watched it once. The guy had so many debts and a wife who was not working, the debt councillor helped the lady to find a job and a better job for the husband and helped them with the budget and negotiated with the companies they owed to get discounts and they made payment agreements.

Try to research about this show it might help.

Leyondoda yona must wake up and look for a job. he can see that they are struggling, he is a man he needs to do something to keep his family together.

I don't think a makhwapheni is going to help much

portcia
01 Jul 2013 12:00

I hope they do try to get some help. My friend is a cleaner here at work, and sometimes she forgets things like empying the bins and changing the towels in the bathroom, so iam afraid that she will loose her job or something couse she has been in a fight with our management secretary often

Ntaksay
01 Jul 2013 12:03

She needs to focus, she cannot afford to lose her job now. It's hard but she needs to strengthen up for herself and her kids' sake. She has to stay strong

Mimibob
01 Jul 2013 12:48

Happy Birthday Olo. Ensure to enjoy the day. Wishing you many more blissful days ahead. Blessings.

OlothandoD
01 Jul 2013 12:54

@portcia, your friend just needs to focus, do what she is paid for. She needs the money hence she is working, she must preserve her job, try talking to her to find out what her problem is and help her as much as you can. that's what friend are for!

Goldi
01 Jul 2013 12:55

How old is she?

VusiK
01 Jul 2013 13:00

@Portcia ...

The worst thing your collegue could do is give a squeeze out for some economic relief ...
Abo-Makhwapheni are EXTREMELY STRESSFUL !!!

I suggest she sits her hubby down and states how bad things really are; internalising thing is not going to accomplish anything for her and her husband.

He will most probably spring to attention when he realises how far gone the situation is.

Bk212303
01 Jul 2013 13:29

Pppl when i went there sat she ask me about my business what happened to it? Remember she does not know me and she just chaff the cards and she divides it by 3 and asked me to pick a stack and i did and she asked ke about the business which i also want to know what happened to it and she said i must stop putting other ppl before my needs thats true and even with the business i had a business, but not anymore. She said im married to a devil cause my hubby's family dont want me at all and they have been doing things to me over and over again but they dont succeed cause i have a shield. So they have been using my hubby to get to me and thats why he was making me cry most of the time and she somma got angry at my hubby started to shout at him calling him haregaat, stubbon and why he does not protect me from them. They dont want me cause they see im nothing like them and that im making a progress on hubby's life cause they want him to be nothing. So im changing all that, she told us its the ppl close to him thats doing this and GUESS WHO IS CLOSE TO HIM TAMNCINCI if u still remember him. They one and only that has been giving me hard time. And this is all true so far. She also said i have a second chance in life ......this is also true ppl do u remeber when i told u about ectopic pregnancy that was on purpose they wanted me dead but God refused and now i have a second chance in life and she said i must use it and make it usefull, she said she can c i also want a baby and hubby is making it difficult for me and that is also true ppl i told u this tooo and she said BABY IS THE LEAST OF YR PROBLEM CAUSE U ARE ARE ABOUT TO HAVE AN ACCIDENT....

Bk212303
01 Jul 2013 13:34

You can imagine after she said that and she said u will be eliminated both of u same time same day burial and i looked at him and he was shocked. She said they said u dont listen and he is not doing a proper job to kick u out of his life so they will take both of u out.

portcia
01 Jul 2013 14:19

She is 31 years old Goldi, and the husband must be 54 or something not sure there,but i think she doesnt want to talk to him about this because of the abuse she had while he was still employed.
But having makwapeni is a total no..no.., that's what i told her.but sometimes is like she is having lots of staff on her mind, like the good life she was living then, couse she once said to me, i have a good husband, and can have what ever i want anytime, but i still showed her, all the reasons why i am happy, and that my husband didnt work for some time, but he never choose jobs, he could do anything at anytime, till he got a better job.
Thanks a lot guys, i will get her to read all your comments tomorrow morning when she comes in, ans see what will happen.

Okay let me read, BK story, hope its not scary.

OlothandoD
01 Jul 2013 14:27

Yoh Bk, taking you both out is scary to me!

portcia
01 Jul 2013 14:30

Yoh.... hectic BK, so can she protect you from the accident? and is hubby making you cry a lot? and last do you believe in what this lady is telling you? and i think your hubby must be prepared to protect you from his evil family, and the least you can do is to pray hard, God can protect you in that accident, if it happens, or he can prevent it to happen, here's a little qoute for you

When God leads you to the edge of the cliff, trust in him fully and let go of your worries, couse either one of  two things can happen, he will either catch you when you fall or teach you how to fly.

VusiK
01 Jul 2013 14:31

@BK ...

There are people with talents / gifts in life.
...
and there are MANY who do not, but claim to.

VusiK
01 Jul 2013 14:38

@Portcia

Your colleague also needs to get past and over the glory days of the past ...
They are done and past ...
They could have been savers and not spenders back then ... (evidently they did not save very well) ... they are not alone in that space.

If she is thinking of doing gsomething taht will have a material effect on their marriage, she needs to sit with her husband and "Tell it like it really is".

portcia
01 Jul 2013 14:58

Ya VusiK you are right, there and i hope they both get a solution to this problem, couse my friend is not her self lately, hope i could help somewhere, but i think you guys can also help, if she doesnt take my advise she might as well take one of the bloggers advise.
BK, still waiting for your response, talk girl we are here for you, and we dont want you to end up taking wrong steps in life, remember God is always there for you, waiting for you to call His name.

FabLee
01 Jul 2013 15:16

Hi family m new here,pls welcome...

JadaPinkett
01 Jul 2013 15:19

I think she must get herself Makhwapheni bcoz dat man won't help out he's jst useless as his lazy ass...who got too much pride while he fokol

Mina nje bengeke ngizirobhe emaningi kangaka amadzodza aryt anemali bt she mst be careful  ke coz kunanezifo en azibulalli zithi galo yephuka.LOL

FabLee
01 Jul 2013 15:20

Meant welcome me...I've been reading this blog for a very long time,enjoyed ur comments(especially the Dusting topics and ur advices to others).

portcia
01 Jul 2013 15:30

Welcome Fablee, hope you feel at home,

Haai.....................JP, O FUNA LENDODA E BHAQABULE UMNGANI WAMI?Even though,angixasula, aka deserve i punishment, they must find a way out before thing get very ugly, and thats starting with this man getting a job

JadaPinkett
01 Jul 2013 15:35

But he's choosey nje Portcia......ozomenzani umuntu ostubborn?

Goldi
01 Jul 2013 15:51

Welcome Fablee mmmmm most of the silent bloggers wen they come out of the closet they will tell us that they enjoy r DUSTING TOPIC  i wonder y *thinking out loud* hihihihihih dusting ya ratwa mogae mo maan

wena Posh Makhwapheni will add mo problems and end up giving her a headache unless she wants to release the stress from home by getting herself a BEN 10 so that she can release, sweat wat eva that stress lol just saying

OlothandoD
01 Jul 2013 16:07

@FabLee, welcome home, @ JadaPinkett, Mina nje bengeke ngizirobhe emaningi kangaka amadzodza aryt anemali :)

Ntaksay
01 Jul 2013 16:24

Yho Bk That is scary, did she tell when the accident is going to happen so that you do not do anything that will lead to it on that day.

Yho this is really hectic my friend, you must pray you are here because God wanted you here not tamnci you will only die when God wants you dead not tamnci. 
to hell with him and his evil doings

Bk212303
01 Jul 2013 16:35

oh.... hectic BK, so can she protect you from the accident? and is hubby making you cry a lot? and last do you believe in what this lady is telling you? and i think your hubby must be prepared to protect you from his evil family, and the least you can do is to pray hard, God can protect you in that accident, if it happens, or he can prevent it to happen, here's a little qoute for you


@VusiK yes i know buti but this one is one of the one with talent.
cause most of the stuff she said is true and ke i dont know about the accident.

@Portcia yes dear he cheated over and over again and i still love him and i married him even though he did all that. Ive forgiven him evn though ke i didnt forget and it does not even affect my marriage.

Guys 8yrs ago my sister in law took me to the same woman with my bf the 1 im married to and we were actually taking him there so when the woman stated to put the cards and bf pointed the cards and she she told him about the 3 girlfriends he has and i was the 3rd one cause she described us all. I was so shocked cause we used to fight at home and he will sleep out and ive asked him if he has grlfrnds and he would be angry and hit me and now it was also revealed there by this same woman. She told us she can see him between a lot of cars and she asked A U A TAXI DRIVER and he whispered yes. and then she said stop the cheating otherwise u gonna be in an accident cause the other 2girls are using muthi on u. Cause they say if they cant have u then no one must have u and he was in an accident after i think 3weeks. and he ran to erstn cape.

So that is why i say sometimes she speaks the truth. i believe her when she talks about the family that does not want me. Cause they have showed me in several occassions. I believe that God will help me and save me cause if they would kill me and my hubby who will look after my 9yr old. Would they know what he likes or not ? whould they treat him like their own? Do they know how sweet my baby is ??? its a lot of things that went tru my mind but then again i forgot something GOD. HE WONT LET THEM DO THAT TO ME

Bk212303
01 Jul 2013 16:45

@Ntaksay she did not give the exact day she just said before helping me with the baby or anything else she wants to help me with the death cause when tamnci was in my house they cursed my house with death around it.

PEOPLE THIS IS SERIOUS CAUSE WHEN TAMNCI WAS THERE I COULD FEEL THE HATRED HE AND HIS SON, DAUGHTER HAD FOR ME. BUT I TRIED WARNING HUBBY BUT NO HE NEVER LISTENED. Now someone else confirmed it and family i have also told u about them and what they were doing to me and hubby. I dont know what to call IBEKELO in English someone help. So this bekelo happened when i was aout to give tamnci food i fell with the tray on the floor and thats when i had ibekelo and tamnci said while i lay on the floor yhoo BAYAKUBEKELA NGOKU and i looked at him and he did nt say anything after that. So now i wear boots for winter my one foot is swollen and turned black n the side so u s this is happening nooow and i dont know know u all need to just pray for me and i will tell u more TOMORROW


ASK ME ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED TO THE POLICE AND ME

Mimibob
01 Jul 2013 21:54

@BK, read Isaiah 38:1-5. It's the story of Hezekiah whom God had said would die, but he prayed and God added more years to his life. I'm a strong believer in God. I don't believe in fortune tellers, but if what this lady said is true, thank God you have chance to change it in prayer. Don't let fear anywhere near you, just have faith in God. Keep well sisi.

zmr967
01 Jul 2013 21:59

nolundu and phenyo slp 2gethr wow!!, nolundu!! Mugwanti

Mimibob
01 Jul 2013 22:01

No more Gens for Botswana. No more pirating SABC channels.. Lol... Guys, am I able to pay tv license and have it connected in Bots, or subscribe for DSTV with SABCs directly from SA? I think I will be watching Mzanzi Magic now, and BBA.. lol.. but if anyone knows how I can legally get SABCs, please let me know..

portcia
02 Jul 2013 08:14

Morning Gen family, BK your story cc has touched me, as a lady i dont like to see other ladies been treated like trash, your hubby is still with you so i guess he is in love with you, but he needs to put his feet down when it comes to you and your family, he needs to show them that you are his wife and i hope he is not cheating anymore,as he can lead other girls to use muthi on you.
Before you spleep at night pray. I like the Lord is my sherpard, especially when it says though i may walk in the valley of the shadow of death,i will fear no evil for he is with me.and when it says He prepares the table before me in the presence of my enemy,He anoits my head with oil, my cubb overflows.

IF THIS IS TRUE, WHAT THE FORTUNE TELLER TOLD YOU,NOW IS THE TIME TO STAND UP HIGH AND CAST AWAY ALL THE DEVIL THREATS IN YOUR LIFE IN THE NAME OF JESUS,AND PUT GOD IN THIS WAY, AND ASK HIM TO HANDLE IT, FOR IT IS BEYOND YOUR POWER.

OlothandoD
02 Jul 2013 09:13

Morning to you all! I was surprised yesterday when I got home to find that there are not more SABC channels airing in Zimbabwe, so am on my way to subscribe my DSTV! @Mimibob, we are in the same boat dear; If you manage just let me know also,

Bk212303
02 Jul 2013 09:16

These ppl really dont want me but the love i have for this man, makes them powerless. They are threatened by me and i have tried everything in my power to be civil and fit with them, I would contact the women and tell them to come over my house and we would cook, sit and chat and i made sure when they leave they gont plastics full of groceries and always wanting to help cause i love my hubby so much but noooooooo it did not help. So i have made time to speak to my God the father the almighty to help me and he has cause i saw all warning that im not wanted here. When tamnci was here he even tried to talk me and to building my other house in the Eastern cape close to them but then i also took him to come with me to church andwhen he was there all was revealed at church and i was told that i must not go to the plot cause something was put in there. But this tamnci at 1st i trusted him until i saw all the evidence so now im done with them.

So GOD please help me and give me all the streth i need to pass all this and pls help me forgive them. Let all their plans of evil not be reality, I ask all of this in the name OF Jesus Christ, the on who died for our sins and pls protect my son , my house and I thank u Lord for everything u have given me.Amen. 

dj fats
02 Jul 2013 09:16

I think mfundi vundla has lost his grip, if sbuda is going to jail , who r we gona watch now, coz honestly not khubone, phenyo en chops sticks , o mfundi if u can read dis plz make a visit 2 e writes of muvhango or 7de laan 4 help coz dis soapie is turning into crap,

Bk212303
02 Jul 2013 09:19

Thank all for yr support. It feels good to have a family like this one. God Bless us all.

portcia
02 Jul 2013 09:34

I think Mfundi is trying to show us that justice is still  there in SA, and that everyone who commits crime must be dealt with, but i am one of those people who like to see Sbusiso coming back soon, as he is the one who has mojo on that soapie, and i wish Jason can help out, couse now he really want to know what is happening between Phenyo and Sbusiso

Ntaksay
02 Jul 2013 09:51

BK some inspirational bible quotes
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.

Isaiah 41:10  fear not, for I am with you;  be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you,  I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Psalm 18:32-34  the God who equipped me with strength and made my way blameless. He made my feet like the feet of a deer  and set me secure on the heights. He trains my hands for war, so that my arms can bend a bow of bronze.

Goldi
02 Jul 2013 10:10

Morning guys 

Isaiah 41: 10 when ever i feel down always lifts me up, nna i dont believe in such so ya but what i know is now that you know i dont think the accident will happen just saying Bk anyways

laters!!

juicy J
02 Jul 2013 11:13

Does any1 else think that GEN is gona steal 1 from RC...Sbuda gettin involve with a group nd wants control of his company

1Ntosh1
02 Jul 2013 11:22

New member.. Hey Gen family.. Interesting month...

Goldi
02 Jul 2013 11:38

Hey Ntosh welcome home is where the heart is :) that's us *Gen Fam*

Nixy
02 Jul 2013 11:38

Hey every1 am a new member n yoooo gen izobe imundandi n eyokuboshwa kwa ngamla angiyithandi n sham poor little din

Bk212303
02 Jul 2013 11:58

Enough of the negative stuff, thank you all. I will not be controlled by devil mna suakkaaaaaa to hell SATAN

yoyozz
02 Jul 2013 12:16

BK the devil is a lier keep praying sisonke we gonna pray for you. be strong sisi ziyenzeka ezizinto.

Bk212303
02 Jul 2013 12:16

This weekend is mine, we and im going out with the women.We going to Khayelitsha hoooorah here i come i already bought my kit and im doing my hair on thursday hoooooooraaaaaaaa

Pastry
02 Jul 2013 14:23

@BK....be careful her premonition abt accident is nt gonna hpn on your way to khayelitsha.

Personally, my faith is in God and God only.

The sound of your writing is that you believe the fortune teller. Question is do you believe everything she said or only what you want to believe or only what you know to be true?

Goldi
02 Jul 2013 14:38

Hey Nixy welcome home lala 

Yoyo long time you good?

Ntaksay
02 Jul 2013 15:51

Welcome Ntosh and Nixy

Bk212303
02 Jul 2013 15:53

@BK....be careful her premonition abt accident is nt gonna hpn on your way to khayelitsha.



@Pastry neverrrrrr dear frnd

Bk212303
02 Jul 2013 15:59

The sound of your writing is that you believe the fortune teller. Question is do you believe everything she said or only what you want to believe or only what you know to be true?


I only believe what i know dear. I dont believe everything as i said the accident part i dont know but most of what she said to be i know cause i have experienced  some.

Bk212303
02 Jul 2013 16:03

@Pastry i have been using taxi, car after she told me all this and im not even scared cause i know I have a shield around me. If is happens it is God Will and im not worried but at first i was but not anymore. They say when u think negative then u will also get negative results.

shaidin
02 Jul 2013 16:28

Hello everyone hope and bilive that you have enjoy the day of 2day.........ntaksay i m very sorry to get back to you very late heeeeey dis our days this preggy makes me feel very tired,asleep and sick ok my dear i will try to register 2moro,but you no for the 3 past days i did try to register like that but i fail i don't no y??i only manage to enter my mobile no.date of birth and then it does not show me anything.i tried it several tyms i 2moro i promise you i will owk!!

Goldi
02 Jul 2013 16:29

Laters Guys xxxx

Ntaksay
02 Jul 2013 19:11

hey hey good people.

Keratile
02 Jul 2013 20:21

Evening my lovely family. A warm welcome to new members. Hai! I struggle to watch Generations, since last week. :(

Keratile
02 Jul 2013 20:22

Evening my lovely family. A warm welcome to new members. Hai! I struggle to watch Generations, since last week. :(

Mimibob
02 Jul 2013 20:50

No more rushing home to watch Gens.

Someone please be sweet enought to write me updates while I sort myself out. I think I should buy a decoder from SA, register in the name of a resident. I hope I'm able pay subsciptions online.. Hei, things we do for the love of soaps.. I should get an "Addict of the Year" award. And here I thought I was over Gens after those boring months..

Vus darling, you could start watching Gens so u update me... *Smiling Expectantly*, and lolling at the thought of you doing that...

babiet
03 Jul 2013 01:39

mimibob wena o tshwana le nna....let me knw if u found the solution....

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 05:39

Sure babiet

slivovo
03 Jul 2013 07:54

ngamla is ngamla leaving genarations guys or wat.phenyo ur a cheating bustard noluntu will use u and throw u a dustbin lyk a piece of paper.akhona le m.j noluntu wat 2 get in ur gud buks again watch ur back.i pray i begg dat dineo must not date scott . myb dineo nid a 2 be a lesbian cause he cant keep a husband.

shaidin
03 Jul 2013 07:56

morning guud people nd bahlobo!!!

portcia
03 Jul 2013 08:05

Phenyo is so boring guys, he cant even say i love you too to his wife, and as for telling Noluntu that Dineo is away, what was the reason for that?and he keeps phushing Sbusiso to try and find Glen,eish.... you know even though i know that Sbusiso is going to jail, i always hope that the teasers were wrong.

I still think that if Sbusiso would have told Jason about Glen, he would have got to the bottom of it, and make sure they eliminate him permanently, and still wish that Phenyo doesnt get to run Ezweni, after Sbusiso get arrested.

Ntaksay
03 Jul 2013 08:13

I also wish Sbuda can tell Jason the truth about the whole situation. He would be able to put two and two together and find out that Phenyo is behind this whole thing.

Good Morning Good People, Ninjani namhlanje?

Bk212303
03 Jul 2013 08:20

Morning my lovely frnds howzit?

Goldi
03 Jul 2013 08:34

Morning cup cakes!!

@ Posh Phenyo hanged up b4 Dinny could say that he didnt hear her lala MANWHORE Loves Dinny it's just that he cant control the beast btwin he's legs lol

MsibiNS
03 Jul 2013 09:22

mmmm interesting Ngamla going down as well!!! but i was not impressed the way Noluntu's trixsssss was discovered she ruined her mothers life and no punishment? hai khona

Ntaksay
03 Jul 2013 09:32

One day is One day
Noluntu is also going to pay for her sins, Sbuda will uncover the truth and he will take both her and Phenyo down if Jason does not take them down first. 

Jason is not stupid he will catch them.

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 09:35

Ke kopa a more detailed update hle... Good morning.

Bk212303
03 Jul 2013 09:45

Jason i like the way he throwing himself at Sbuda. I can che missed being on Ngamlas side. Sometimes i wonder why he is not his son cause they make a perfect father and son relationship.

VusiK
03 Jul 2013 10:08

@Mimibob

Watching Telly would entail me going to purchase a Television set ...
That is something I am not prepared to do Love!

However ..
You are welcome to my PVR decoder and subscription card ...
they are sitting in a box somewhere in storage.

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 10:40

@VusiK, You don't have a telly set? Wow! So you don't watch any TV at all? Thanks for the offer. You can bring the decoder with when you come over if it isn't much to carry.

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 10:52

... if it isn't too much to carry. Otherwise, I'll make a plan.

Bk212303
03 Jul 2013 10:55

Heee what is happening here li uncle Vusi and Mimza, they taking over where is everyone else?

yoyozz
03 Jul 2013 11:06

goldi

Yoyo long time you good?

im good my friend and im back

VusiK
03 Jul 2013 11:07

No Mims .. I don't own a Telly.
I love my children too much to pollute them with non-interactive fore fed information that has no relevance on who I would prefer them to become as adults.

I will bring the decoder with when I visit.
You will have to make a plan for the dish ...
I am not lugging a satelite dish across an international border Comrade!

lolz @BK
(Mims requested I visit when next in Bots ...
She wants to see what I really look like...
I accepted the invite graciously)

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 11:15

Lol VusiK, I think my dish will do. Did I request that u visit Vusi..? Mmm... I thought you offered... Either way, I'm glad you coming. (And I feel for my babies)...

JadaPinkett
03 Jul 2013 11:20

I liked the part where Zinhle told Chopsta dat he cn'T even dress himself so what does he knw abt fashion...........enshe was right.

MsKim
03 Jul 2013 11:21

lol Vus, u jus like my neighbour. he did not own a telly for him it was becoz of the his religious beliefs, unfortunately he passed on and a week after he was buried there was a DISH on the roof. dont knw if thats sad or funny..

Keratile
03 Jul 2013 11:30

@Mims......Uncle Vusi coming over? Hmmm!

VusiK
03 Jul 2013 11:31

I am coming to Bots Mims.
I got prospects there !

LOL @ Ms Kim ...
That is truly & Ironically funny.

Honestly ...
If anyone saw my children ...
The is a marked difference between the once I raise and the ones raised by the mother(s) (Mine vs theirs)
Mine are much more interactive and interrogative of issues and "facts" than the ones who are raised watching television.
Mine are also infinitely  more creative & slightly brighter and definitely more cerebral.
I do not criticize those who allow telly into their children's lives.
It simply is not a factor in my children's lives, or in mine.

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 11:51

Ok Vusi. I reserve my comments.

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 11:53

Yes Keratile, uncle Vusi is coming over. *Smiles*

Salticrax
03 Jul 2013 12:18

Hey everyone! i've been a silent blogger for a while but finally decided to come out of my shell, everyone here seems so open and accepting :)

@BK I believe that your faith and trust in God will pull you through your troubles ma dear, you seem like a true rock of a woman

@VusiK I can believe that there is a marked diff between the two sets of children, it makes sense since TV can make kids lazy and they are less inclined to use their grey matter, having said this I have a 1 year old and I've always said that I won't allow him to watch tv, only read books etc (back in the day when i thought parenting is a breeze and no one told me it's a 24-hour job), but for me personally it's just not practical (for example me and tata look forward so much to that saturday mornings when we can lie in and plonk him in front of the tv who keeps him company for @ least an hour while we get down to some mama/tata affairs ;)

Salticrax
03 Jul 2013 12:19

Oops that was a much longer post than intended my apologies...

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 12:28

Lol @ Salti. You should get tips from Vus.

VusiK
03 Jul 2013 12:31

@Salticrax
Parenting is a 24/7/365 event

Fortunately .. they are now a little older and independent, but I made the time when they were in their foundation phase
Now ... They play, do whatever they do in balance, and also plonk themselves in bed with me.

Since yours is one year old ...
I would earnestly suggest you give that 24/7 for the next year (an keep him away from Telly and pop culture) ... you will proudly pat yourself on the back for it later...
I've been doing this 27 years ...
Some of my children are like chalk & cheese ...
It does not take much to determine which are My products ...
and which are Mom's

portcia
03 Jul 2013 12:39

Tjo...... Vusi, mos there are learners programes on telly, and your kids might as well watch, keng ekare oi ketsa bontate ba kgale? LOL................

Salticrax
03 Jul 2013 12:43

@Vusi that sounds ideal but really as i said not practical for me, i do try to balance it out though and luckily he only favours the more interactive/educational kiddies programmes and for some reason doesn't matter what that child is doing (building blocks, cars, whatever) come hell or high water as soon as he hears an insurance informercial- whether it be clientele/u-budget insurance - he rushes to the tv to go watch hai lol

Salticrax
03 Jul 2013 12:51

Yor guys Khethi's story is so sensitive to me because I had a very good friend that went through the exact same thing, in fact for her the situation got so bad she lost her extremely well paying job here in the city and same with Khetiwe neighbors were threatening to call social workers, we finally managed to convince her to just move back home to the E/C until she can sort herself out because @ least family members are there to take care of the child... she now wants to come back to the city even though she has yet to find a job here (she has found a job back home but not nearly as 'good' as the one she had here) but eish i dn't know...

Bk212303
03 Jul 2013 13:14

@BK I believe that your faith and trust in God will pull you through your troubles ma dear, you seem like a true rock of a woman


@Salti thank you for coming out of the shell so that u can say those  wonderful words. Rock of a woman..... chin held up high thanx lolo

MsKim
03 Jul 2013 13:26

For some reason i've lost interest in Generations becoz of Sbuda possibly going to jail.. i do want justice but Sbuda is the only character that interests me since Mawande is also out of the picture. wish they cld introduce more mature characters.. mo like Bra Khaps, Mawande, Kenny, Khethi's grandma and bamkhulu JB. were are the adults kanti?

VusiK
03 Jul 2013 13:27

@Salticrax ...

It is proven that a child's personality is cast in stone and can be clearly identified by age 3.
So ... do you have a consumer or seller of insurance services?

@Portcia ...

I explore the individual child's motivation, passions, desires, genius swtches, enablers, etc,
My young children go to school in Switzerland ... to very special schools and are in the top 5% of their level and grade as the result of not compromising on how they handle information in the formative years.

I do not prescribe to anyone how to raise their children

I only state how I raise my children.

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 13:49

I'll come for tips Vus when I start having my own.

VusiK
03 Jul 2013 14:17

lol ...@Mims

I have been told that it is not attractive to witness ...

I've been told ...
I toilet train my children at gunpoint (I am a retired military officer)
I train my children like little dogs (Pavlovian modus)

...
and nobody in my family has their children visit me because I am particular/ pedantic.
(The children love visiting because they have a study/office all of their own, and probably the largest children's playroom in Africa ... not to mention all the toys)... but they behave ...
and study when it is study time
...
and gladly go to bed on time ...
...
and my (The ones I have concentrated effort/ time with) children outperform my kin's on most levels ...

So, developmentally, there must be something I do correctly.

vuxy
03 Jul 2013 14:23

Sbuda is the only character that interests me2. generation is bad without him.

Pastry
03 Jul 2013 14:40

Heheheee Malume Vusi

VusiK
03 Jul 2013 14:49

... What?
@ Pastry!

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 15:02

Modest is definitely no word to describe you Vus. I'm only getting tips love, not bringing my children for military training.. Lol...

Nongo
03 Jul 2013 15:03

morning family, plis welcome me!!!!!!!!
@Mims pls pm me when malome comes for visit cc.
gen fam in SA plis assist with daily update 4gen we arer cut out we hv 2 subscribe now heish mathata, no watching sabc
*laters im at day wat wat if u nid me, on silent mode.

Pastry
03 Jul 2013 15:27

@ Vusi...was gonna say very modest now am lost for words after Mims statement above *smilling*

VusiK
03 Jul 2013 15:36

lol @ Pastry ...
I only tell it as it is ...
Whatever opinion is reached by an individual is up to them.

Goldi
03 Jul 2013 16:03

Nongo morning ka nako e? O_O enjoy @ the day wat wat 

Laters guys

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 16:14

@ Nongo, I will check with Vusi before I PM. I hope he is not claustrophobic...

Keratile
03 Jul 2013 17:38

@Mims.......I now understand. :)

juicy J
03 Jul 2013 19:17

I just wish they can give Noluntu,Phenyo,Akhona n dineo off 4 @least 4 months...they r just plain BORING

juicy J
03 Jul 2013 19:19

I just wish they can give Noluntu,Phenyo,Akhona n dineo off 4 @least 4 months...they r just plain BORING

Mimibob
03 Jul 2013 21:20

@ Keratile.... What do you understand dear? *raised eyebrow*

Sabrina037
04 Jul 2013 08:09

hai uPhenyo is a manwhore moving frm Thabitha 2 Dineo n dan cheating wit Thabitha nd bk 2 Dineo nw cheating with Noluntu hai naye uNoluntu uyawathanda ama ndoda abantu frm Swazis husband 2 senzo nd nw Phenyo the womanwhore and the manwhore hai cha shame thy deserve ech otha

OlothandoD
04 Jul 2013 08:15

Morning guys! Can I have an update please!

Ntaksay
04 Jul 2013 08:21

Good morning people

Here's an updatenyana those who do not have SABC (Portica will give you a full update)

Sbusiso still does not buy Akhona's story, Phenyo tried to convince him to make a move because Akhona is thorough she would never publish a story without double checking her facts. Sbuda said he know that she is a good journo and he does not underestimate her journalism but she could have heard and rumour and believed it.

Dinny came back from Mahlabathini and phoned her husband but he said "washesha kanje ukubuya"(Why are you back so soon) Dinny said she missed him & asked him to come home so that she can show him how much she missed him, but Manwhore said he is busy and has back to back meeting, he will go home late. Dinny decided to surprise him only to find Sello in his office. Sello was asking for more money which phenyo was not willing to give him and chased him out like a dog and threatened to call the cops, he ran away. Dinny and Phenyo agued and Phenyo walked away.

He went to Noluntu and told him about Sbusiso not wanting to believe Akhona's story, they both agreed that Akhona must go to Sbusiso. Then Phenyo kissed  Noluntu and Ntuntu said "Don't tell me you are falling in love with me Mr Dlomo" Phenyo said he knows what he's doing and they continued to kiss and took off Ntuntu['s gown.

Choppa is falling in love with Zinhle.

The social worker was interviewing Ruby and Queen wanted to sit in but the social worker said it's a one on one interview she stood on the table next the Ruby's and the social workers' so that she can listen to them. Ruby told the social worker about Khethiwe forgetting to fetch Mpilo from crèche and about the smack. Queen overheard all that and accused Ruby of being a bad friend but Ruby said Khethiwe needs help before she does a permanent damage.

zdwesha
04 Jul 2013 08:42

yhoo I miss this house bantu by my computer is refusing me that opportunity to be here everyday

claponce @noluntu uyazifela ngoodlomo


miss you guys keep the house burning mcwaaa

chockie
04 Jul 2013 09:21

@Ntaksay thank you very much, kip it up.

Goldi
04 Jul 2013 09:26

Morning mashmellows Goldi loves you very much neh! mhwaaaaaaa *blowing kisses* 

Phenyo is a MANWHORE period and Noluntu ke Prosti  YES I SAID IT SOMEBODY HEARD TO SAY IT *Copied from Trevor Noah*

portcia
04 Jul 2013 10:04

Well Ntaksay you have said a mouth full, there is nothing more i can say( good job). and i still think that Ruby did a good job by telling the social worker about Khethiwe forgetting Mpilo in the car and at creche, she really needs some help, i wish she could chage though, no one wants to loose her baby.
Yoh... i almost forget how Khethiwe lol when the other lady at the AA meeting told her story about picking up someone elses baby and told the baby that"  mommy loves you" only to find out that the child is not hers and the house is not hers.

I still dont think that Dineo pushed Phenyo into Noluntu's arms yesterday, she was just upset that Sello is still there with Phenyo, and as for Phenyo he actually wanted to sleep with a tea lady vele!

Ntaksay
04 Jul 2013 10:14

True Portcia, Dinny did not push anyone, Phenyo decided to do what he did on his own. Dineo was upset to see the man who tried to rape her with her husband and she warned phenyo about giving sello money and sello did exactly what dinny was afraid of (to come back for more money if phenyo gives him once he will come again).

Ntaksay
04 Jul 2013 10:22

An elderly woman went into the doctor's office. When the doctor asked why

she was there, she replied, "I'd like to have some birth-control pills."

Taken back, the doctor thought for a minute and then said, "Excuse me, Mrs.

Smith, but you're 72 years old. What possible use could you have for birth

control pills?"

The woman responded, "They help me sleep better."

The doctor thought some more and continued, "How in the world do birth

control pills help you to sleep?"

The woman said, "Simple, I put them in my granddaughter's orange juice every
morning and I sleep better at night."

*******************************************************************************************

A man walks into a pharmacy and asks for a pack of condoms. As soon as he

has paid for them, he starts laughing and walks out.

The next day, the same performance, with the man walking out laughing fit to
bust. The chemist thinks this odd and asks his assistant, that if the man

returns, to follow him.

Sure enough, he comes into the store the next day, repeating his actions once
more. The assistant duly follows. Half an hour later, he returns.

"So did you follow him?"

"I did."

"And...where did he go?"

"Over to your house..."

portcia
04 Jul 2013 10:27

Yes Ntaksay,Phenyo has a problem with his zip, it just go up and down at anytime, and guess what, he is going to blame Dineo for pushing him to go and get it outside, as he did with Thabitha, and Dineo will feel giulty and forgive him, eish wambora motho o wa monna.

And guys guess what, about my friend who i shared her story with on Monday. Her hubby got a  driving job yesterday  somewhere, but this morning she told me that the hubby didnt want to go back to work because they made him to load staff in the car before he could deliver, and he said to her( angibuyeli lapho i am not a slave) so i asked my friend who is a slave then, you?
Iam sorry to say but i think he enjoys staying at home and been provided by his wife,then maybe i will agree with you JP, HA A I THOLELE MAKWAPHENI

Ntaksay
04 Jul 2013 10:32

D. Guy walks out in restaurant..

Waitress says: sir your garage door is open. (your zip is open)

Guy: Did you see my Harley?

Waitress: No, I saw a mini bike with two flat tyres.

duckie
04 Jul 2013 10:33

Mrng Fam,

In Addition to the abv update

Khubone took Khethiwe to a group of recovering alcoholics

There was a group of ladies each saying their stories,(Khethi is the future xem)
One of the ladies stood up anf gave her story"1 day i puled away from the road, parked in front my yard, found my lil gal playing, picked her up hugged her her , told her that mommy loves her but the child was screamin/crying........only to realise that ts not her child,her yard"Khethi loled at the poor lady nd apologised aftrwards...........................hai nami bengphelile ngeskhathi uBL ehleka,

Noluntu kade wagcina idusting ere ws no way she cld hv said no to phenyo,

Ntaksay
04 Jul 2013 10:34

Portcia I still think makhwapheni is a bad idea.

duckie
04 Jul 2013 10:35

Kwaaaa at Ntaksay

laleli
04 Jul 2013 10:37

@ goldi Noluntu is not prostitute ke Lestwai, full year without dusting not even intimacy

portcia
04 Jul 2013 11:09

But if your man has to tell you that he is not a slave, then who is a slave? guys if only you could see this girl, yoooo............. she is really having a tough time, she even thinks of quitting her job.

Here at work they have classes on friday from 12:00 till15:00, for workers who want to learn welding, and she attends the classes hoping she will do welding job here when her employer realise that she can now do it, but she is loosing focus, and even her trainer thought she should take some time to cleare her mind before coming back to the class, as she can simply hurt herself.

Mimibob
04 Jul 2013 11:37

Thank you Ntaksay and Duckie for the update. You are darlings. Will take you out to coffee..

portcia
04 Jul 2013 11:42

A two year old was sittihg with her granny one day, when she started to ask

Kid: granny how old are you?
Granny: my child, i dont know how old i am, or when i was born, and where
Kid: oooh........... that's simple, next time you should check your underwear's label,look( showing her's) mine it says 2-3 years.

Ntaksay
04 Jul 2013 11:45

You're welcome Mimibob but I prefer steak than coffee.

Mimibob
04 Jul 2013 11:59

Steak it is then Ntaksay. :) I'm ready when you are.

Bk212303
04 Jul 2013 12:14

Kwaaaaaaaaaaa @Ntaksay

Mimibob
04 Jul 2013 13:00

Lol @ BK.. Stating one's preference is allowed.

goldie
04 Jul 2013 13:13

Good afternoon family,

@BK, I think u should read this book: MAGUS-THOR'RAUNA,HIGH PRIEST OF SATAN IN SOUTH AFRICA, It will put a lot of things into perspective about fortune tellers and the likes.

Bk212303
04 Jul 2013 13:46


Lol @ BK.. Stating one's preference is allowed.



???????????

Bk212303
04 Jul 2013 14:14

Ppl it was good being with u i got to go home now. Goldie will read read yhoo its long 158pgs

Mimibob
04 Jul 2013 14:34

@BK, thought you were l

Mimibob
04 Jul 2013 14:36

thought you were lolling at the steak request..

Goldi
04 Jul 2013 16:11

Hello babies i'm out of here

Laters xxxx

Ntsikie Lee
04 Jul 2013 16:47

when is Ngamla coming out of jail??????????

portcia
05 Jul 2013 08:53

good friday, mabloggers,yoh...Ntsikie Lee, he is not in jail yet, but already you wanna know when is he coming out, haayi, shem wantshegisa.

So guys is Khethiwe running away? she is too scared to face the truth,but seele sono ka yena, shame i feel for her.and phenyo and noluntu did it, and they might do it again, yoo.... i can smell a rat.

vuxy
05 Jul 2013 09:43

i will never watch generation until they bring back sibusiso dlomo with more power to take care of phenyo, noluntu and dineo.  

Xhosakazi
05 Jul 2013 10:11

Plz welcum me in the house, am a silent blogger but now (ndiphumile eqokobheni) am out of the shell... thanx

Ntaksay
05 Jul 2013 10:46

Good morning good people
What a busy Friday morning

Welcome Xhosakazi feel at home dear.

Pexin
05 Jul 2013 11:06

mrng gen family, iv been reading ur coments for a very long time now but this is my 1st reply... Btw i hate phenyo with passion, as 4 his excuse litle wife i reserve my coment...im sory 2 start of with al this hatred but i just cant help it

Ntaksay
05 Jul 2013 11:53

Welcom Pexin feel free to speak your mind out. No need to apologise

shaidin
05 Jul 2013 11:54

Good morning beautifull people!!!.

Ntaksay
05 Jul 2013 11:57

Khubone is falling in-love with the devil, where did he get all this trust for Khethiwe she knows how she operates. When he asked her to marry him I just lost word. How could he be so blinded by love.

Pexin
05 Jul 2013 12:06

thanx @ ntaksay. It doesnt seem like khetiwe wants the khuboni atention anymore but she's got no1 but herself to blame

Othimna
05 Jul 2013 12:39

ndiphumile eqokobheni loling for days,Mxhosakazi you've made my day dear..*dead by laughte*

good day people,missed you all like crazy

laleli
05 Jul 2013 13:03

Hello family

anal sex - do men love it?
ladies do u enjoy it ? do u do it with ur man?

let's chat

Sabrina037
05 Jul 2013 13:23

uKhuboni nd Choppa,Llm ucabanga ukuthy ngingu-nogwanja lol ey chat choppa was so frightened!

Xhosakazi
05 Jul 2013 13:45

@ Ntaksay thanx 4 a warm welcome, coffee is cuming. Othimna lol... ewe kudala ndimane ndikroba ntombi tshini mandivele ngok. @ Laleli unfortunately am suffering with (piles) so i dont even think of trying.

Xhosakazi
05 Jul 2013 13:46

@ Ntaksay thanx 4 a warm welcome, coffee is cuming. Othimna lol... ewe kudala ndimane ndikroba ntombi tshini mandivele ngok. @ Laleli unfortunately am suffering with (piles) so i dont even think of trying.

Xhosakazi
05 Jul 2013 13:47

@ Ntaksay thanx 4 a warm welcome, coffee is cuming. Othimna lol... ewe kudala ndimane ndikroba ntombi tshini mandivele ngok. @ Laleli unfortunately am suffering with (piles) so i dont even think of trying.

Xhosakazi
05 Jul 2013 13:48

@ Ntaksay thanx 4 a warm welcome, coffee is cuming. Othimna lol... ewe kudala ndimane ndikroba ntombi tshini mandivele ngok. @ Laleli unfortunately am suffering with (piles) so i dont even think of trying.

Xhosakazi
05 Jul 2013 13:49

@ Ntaksay thanx 4 a warm welcome, coffee is cuming. Othimna lol... ewe kudala ndimane ndikroba ntombi tshini mandivele ngok. @ Laleli unfortunately am suffering with (piles) so i dont even think of trying.

Xhosakazi
05 Jul 2013 13:50

@ Ntaksay thanx 4 a warm welcome, coffee is cuming. Othimna lol... ewe kudala ndimane ndikroba ntombi tshini mandivele ngok. @ Laleli unfortunately am suffering with (piles) so i dont even think of trying.

Ntaksay
05 Jul 2013 14:21

@Laleli to your question I'd never do it. I don't know about men loving it except for gay ones.

Yho Xhosakazi what happened sisi. If you post the same thing three times or more again you will be grounded. LOL

Xhosakazi
05 Jul 2013 14:48

Oh my god I posted 6 tymz?? yhuu its my computer guyz sorry, @ Ntaksay oh plzzzzz my friend LOL

Toronto
05 Jul 2013 15:10

hayibo Laleli...anal sex is not natural as far as I am concerned...that is one way street only

Ntaksay
05 Jul 2013 15:26

Have you ever tried to do it Laleli????????????

laleli
05 Jul 2013 15:40

I think Preferring anal sex is the sign of bisexual 

@Xhosakazi It might have caused by slow internet connection

Sabrina037
06 Jul 2013 09:11

ey ther goez sbu 2 jail n i thought ths dae wud neva cum *shaking head*

Ntsikie Lee
07 Jul 2013 07:44

it seems like he's gona spend the month in jail... When he coming out to sort those 3 moegoes (sp) luntu, phenyo and akhona???

Ntsikie Lee
07 Jul 2013 07:44

it seems like he's gona spend the month in jail... When he coming out to sort those 3 moegoes (sp) luntu, phenyo and akhona???

Ntaksay
08 Jul 2013 08:18

Good morning

Sbuda is really in Jail *sad for the decade*

Xhosakazi
08 Jul 2013 08:25

Mornings Eish Ntaksay indeed. but lets hope u Sbu uzoyenza iiplan,,,

Ntaksay
08 Jul 2013 08:31

Zinhle & Choppa............................that kiss. I must say I did not see that one coming but I want to see where it goes.

Ntaksay
08 Jul 2013 08:37


Ntsikie Lee   Thursday, July 04, 2013 16:47 PM  
when is Ngamla coming out of jail?????????? 


portcia   Friday, July 05, 2013 08:53 AM  
good friday, mabloggers,yoh...Ntsikie Lee, he is not in jail yet, but already you wanna know when is he coming out, haayi, shem wantshegisa.

He is in jail now, when is he coming out?????????. I want to see his revenge against Ntuntu, Phenyo & Akhona.



 

portcia
08 Jul 2013 08:49

Morning good people, i missed you on friday, hope my computer wont give me problems today, i begin to think that it starting to get a virus or something, have to get my, IT to come and look at it.

Bk212303
08 Jul 2013 09:23

Morning all, update plz on friday's episode. Klk i went out with the grls friday nite went to Cougar Lounge it was lovely women only no hubbies but abafazi qhaaaa

shaidin
08 Jul 2013 11:34

Guud morning good family how was de weeknd heey i enjoy it a lot,this is my first ever making baby shopping with moboy heeiii ladies advice don't go to the shopping with your bf or ur husband iyooooo disaster but ani way guys this weeknd was my first baby shopping wooooow it was ......................dnt no wat 2 say i was holding a new born baby vest iyoo i nearly cry ....it is so cute heeey.




Realy sbuda o ko tronkong haiboo how did they arrest him some1please explain to me didnt watch gen from tuesday bcose of the electricity eeish izinyoka stole our cable inside the danger box can you imgine!!!but ani way fimaly i love you lots no matter what!!

Bk212303
08 Jul 2013 11:37

Hi Shaidin, yhu i can imagine those cute leggings and stuff.

Ntaksay
08 Jul 2013 11:39

Mine was the worst weekend I've ever had. I thought I was going to die.

I had pain in every inch of my body not to mention the headache. Yho I've never felt so sick.

But I'm better today.

I'm glad some of you ladies enjoyed your weekend.

When are we having baby shower for Shaidin?

Update loading for BK.................................................

Ntaksay
08 Jul 2013 11:48

Friday two/three days ago. I've forgotten most of the staff that happened.

Zinhle and Choppa Kissed. 

Akhona went to sbusiso and told him that Glen made contact with her they are meeting at some warehouse later. Sbusiso said she had better not go he will go and sort him out like he did with Sello (Little did he know that it's all a set up). He asked on of his guys to keep an eye on Akhona while he goes to Glen.
On his way out he bumped into Manwhore, told him where he's going Manwhore acted all concerned and laughed when Sbusiso left. He went to the warehouse and fired few shots and Officer Phokane was there ready to arrest him. He got arrested that way (red handed if you ask me)

Sello was also arrested trying to run away from the hotel he was staying at.

Bk212303
08 Jul 2013 12:26

Zintle no Chopa who started kissing?

Haybo its not like Sbuda to act so stupid but anyway they want him inside.


So Sello is gonna be in with his boss.

Bk212303
08 Jul 2013 12:26

Thanx Ntaksay for the update.

Mimibob
08 Jul 2013 12:41

How do you know when you are in love? I don't usually say "I love you", but rather "I like you a lot, you mean a lot to me, etc". But I told someone I loved them today (though it was "Love you too". First time since 2003.

JadaPinkett
08 Jul 2013 12:45

Hey Guyz.how was ur wknd? Did any of u came to Dbn for VDJ?

Goldi
08 Jul 2013 12:48

Morning Family

welcome to all the new members, weekend was bloody cold and i was alone damnnnnnnnnnnnn no dusting nxaaaa anyway it was well spent me time is needed sometimes, i'm glad you feeling better Ntaks

Hearfelt pain when i saw all those 3guns pointing @ S'buda geezzzzzzzzzzz Phenyo aka manwho, Nolunu and Akhona le tloenyella taba e phuuuuuuuuuuuu

VusiK
08 Jul 2013 12:49

@MimiK... Words like Love You should never be used lightly. ... I don't even use the phrase as a response to someone with whom I might be involved with ... even cursorily as a response to them stating they Love me. so>>>> Who is the lucky fella?

Mimibob
08 Jul 2013 13:09

@VusiK, the words weren't casual. I meant it. I've thought of telling him before but just didn't want to spoil the friendship. Well, the fella is some guy I don't think quite deserves me.. lol.., but means everything to me.

Pastry
08 Jul 2013 13:38

@Mims....lol, i feel sorry for the poor guy already (doesnt quite deserve u), hahahaaaa classic. As long as he deserves you!

Goldi
08 Jul 2013 13:40

@MimiK so are you saying this fella is just your 4rnd or he's more than that?

i also dont tell people that i love them if i really dont mean it, i'd rather say i care a lot or like them LOVE is a very strong word for me

accept friends and family offcos

portcia
08 Jul 2013 13:57

Love is a big word, but some people often use it though they dont mean it.but if you feel it when you say it, then is love, but if you think he doesnt deserve you then is Lust. or you are either confussed or just fooling your self, saying he doesnt deserve you.

portcia
08 Jul 2013 14:04

Mimibob are you saying the other way around? like he is too good to be your lover?if so then stop doubting(sp) your self, if you loves him then go for it, this might even suprise you,

Pastry
08 Jul 2013 14:07

He means everything to you Mims and thats all that matters akere ausi? LOL

VusiK
08 Jul 2013 14:32

@Pastry ... I feel for the guy also ... Mims seems intense about her feelings! I wish you absolute happiness in the pursuit of Love Mims.

VusiK
08 Jul 2013 14:35

I don't think quite deserves me.. lol.., but means everything to me.... ***I am very Envious***

tshepiso
08 Jul 2013 14:36

NtandoD???? OloNtando """""""sumthing

Bk212303
08 Jul 2013 14:48

uButi Vusi uyashiywa what??????

Ntaksay
08 Jul 2013 14:59

If this guy means everything to you Mims I think you do love him.

Mimibob
08 Jul 2013 15:00

Don't be envious VusiK. You have a special place in my life. Forever MimiK.

Bk212303
08 Jul 2013 15:05

MAGUS-THOR'RAUNA,HIGH PRIEST OF SATAN IN SOUTH AFRICA, It will put a lot of things into perspective about fortune tellers and the likes.


Goldie i told my coleague about the book and he quickly red it and gave the responce of what is has taught him and wow im shocked at what he told me.Good vs bad. satan can go to hell. So these fortune tellers are sent by evil. They were told about me and my hubby and wanted us to believe in them well she can try someone else.

That is why i had doubts at 1st about her and i knew it was not right of me to be there in the 1st place. Cause she said she could help me and prevent the accident from happening and inside me i asked myself where if Jehova from from all of this. Hey ppl we really need to be careful cause evil is slightly taking over.

Anyway than u all for the support. We need each other to fight this evil.

God Bless all.

 

Goldi
08 Jul 2013 15:16

@MimiK don't hold back i think this guy *not looking @ Vusi* is inlove with you,  and you love him too so i say just let your feelings known  to him :) and let love take over LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING specially wen you love and you are loved back

Ntaksay
08 Jul 2013 15:24

I haven't read the whole book. Bk I only read up to chapter three, I only read when I have time.

shaidin
08 Jul 2013 15:32

Thnx ntaksay 4 de update really helped,i m going to have baby shower end of august wish that you can be there ntaksay.



guys there is a difference between i like you and i love you????if yes then what is it???

mahumani
08 Jul 2013 15:58

Guys there is love, lust, or he just need to taste something from girl.

Pastry
08 Jul 2013 16:01

Hebanna Mims...i think you also like malume Vusi a lot, like seriously...of all the comments you only respond to his. Ai ai ai i smell a rat or are you trying to make him jealous by inventing this other guy?

Malume Vusi...i observe a secret admirer!

Mimibob
08 Jul 2013 16:05

Thanx Goldi.

Kerrie
08 Jul 2013 16:11

hey guys,how are you all doing? hope you good...

Goldi
08 Jul 2013 16:24

lol Pastry yes i also think MimiK like Vusi but loves this other dude and i dont think she's making him jealous on purpose akere Mims? i also stand to be corrected

Yes there's a diffrence btwin loving some1 and liking some1 and having lustful feelings for some1

LATERS GUY XXXX

Mimibob
08 Jul 2013 16:28

Hahaa... @ Pastry, I really laughed out loud until everyone around asked what happened. Am I that obvious? Vus knows he s my babe, sweetheart, darling,.. He is my everything. I'm no secret admirer. I'm using my slow phone, so its a bit of a job responding to everyone. Some comments were too speculative, so thinking about an appropriate response was a bit of a job. Thanks for responding Ntaksay, Portcia. I love u guys.

VusiK
08 Jul 2013 16:34

Has anyone read "How to become a Sex Goddess?" be E.M. Loveyoy ... Awesome reading for women, .... I ordered How to be a Sex God! .... I hope its as good as the goddess guide.

VusiK
08 Jul 2013 16:37

BTW ... Methinks Mims is also saying things to get me all twisted inside. She knows she's awesome for me! ..( Now to find this other person and drop him down an abandoned mineshaft ... Balls 1st! )

VusiK
08 Jul 2013 16:43

Wena Goldi ... I am going to think up some aweful scheme to get even with you for that comment ! (Perhaps buy some nigerian Juju for your "Nah-Nah" ... I read they got weird and evil things for making "Nah-Nah"'s go "Nuh-Uh")

VusiK
08 Jul 2013 16:45

lol ... don't know how I'm going to get the JuJu to you Nah Nah ... But I am going to get is and buy it!

Mimibob
08 Jul 2013 17:18

No Goldi, I'm not trying to make Vus jealous. I think he's the one trying to get me jealous.. Getting juju to your nah nah... Hmmm... I wonder how...

Mimibob
08 Jul 2013 20:48

I'm home, so can finally respond properly:

@Portcia, ... if you think he doesnt deserve you then is Lust. or you are either confussed or just fooling your self, saying he doesnt deserve you.
I don't understand how him not deserving me could be lust. Ofcourse I lust after him, im attracted to him. This doesnt make me love him less. Im neither confused nor fooling myself. Ke sure ka story same. He just has bad boy tendencies and I'm a good girl.

are you saying the other way around? like he is too good to be your lover?if so then stop doubting(sp) your self
God has invested soo much in me Portcia, I can never doubt myself. Im one in 7 billion. Special kind. No doubts about it.

@Ntaksay, If this guy means everything to you Mims I think you do love him.
Yes, I believe I do dear. I'm sure of it now.

@Pastry, Hebanna Mims...i think you also like malume Vusi a lot, like seriously...of all the comments you only respond to his.
Guilty as charged. 

@VusiK, Methinks Mims is also saying things to get me all twisted inside. Not so Nunu.. 
She knows she's awesome for me! .. I know this and do not doubt it for a second.
 ( Now to find this other person and drop him down an abandoned mineshaft ... Balls 1st! )
Easy now... No violence...

Sorry for the long response. Happy now Pastry? ;-)

Mimibob
08 Jul 2013 21:03

@VusiK, Has anyone read "How to become a Sex Goddess?" be E.M. Loveyoy ... Awesome reading for women
I havent read it, but will order myself a copy. Some tips might come in handy soon... *wink*

Mimibob
08 Jul 2013 21:55

Hi Mrs Kerrie - the chief Duster! Hope you good.

Tiny Ramz
08 Jul 2013 22:48

Haw! Whts with Noluntu and the married men bathong? Eish ngoana wo ke Satan diabolose

portcia
09 Jul 2013 08:54

Hi guys, didnt get to watch Gen yesterday because of the power cut, Tiny what happend with noluntu? did she sleep with phenyo again, pls guys update

Goldi
09 Jul 2013 08:55

Morning Family 

Wena Goldi ... I am going to think up some aweful scheme to get even with you for that comment ! (Perhaps buy some nigerian Juju for your "Nah-Nah" ... I read they got weird and evil things for making "Nah-Nah"'s go "Nuh-Uh")

yhooo Vusi i cant stop laughing just imagining you saying all that kwaaaaaaaa damn that felt good i mean the laugh Vusi not my comment askies ne!!

lol MimiK stop wondering maan otlakopana tlhogo

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 09:04

Morning bahlobo, how are you. Hey Mims, love is a strange but wonderful thing. I think when you really love someone you know. Most people you meet you like or kinda like but when you love, you will feel the difference. I should know, I started this whole dating thing in '94 but I've only loved 2 men, the others I liked because they were nice to me. I think it's good he told you first, maybe you will learn to trust that he does.

mahumani
09 Jul 2013 09:10

guys here is the question if you dusting is a must that I have to cry I don't understand please help I must cry 2 please my bf or its a force to cry help a lady here.

Kera
09 Jul 2013 09:24

Morning my beautful  family

Haibo ke tsamaile fela for two weeks and i am trying to catch up you gusy are too fast for me

portcia
09 Jul 2013 09:29

Mahumani, the is no need for you to cry, or to please your boyfriend, but when you do cry, it will be because of the feeling you feel at the moment,and it might be happy tears.Dusting is all about the enjoyment and satisfaction, so if your bf is not pleased that you never cry during the intercouse, that's his problem not your.

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 09:29

Good morning goo ladies and gents

Yho Noluntu to call Phenyo like she owns him. He got what he wanted  (to shag her and to put Sbuda behind bars) and now he doesn't have time for her

But Jason can see right through him. JB and the traditional healer.

I love Choppa's behaviour around Bra Khubs.

I don't feel sorry for Khethiwe did she think she can fool Kubs

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 09:33

I have to agree with Portica if you express your feelings differently. You don't have to cry to please someone. He must deal with that. Not everyone screams.

portcia
09 Jul 2013 09:37

I sometimes do cry during the dusting and i dont sometimes, it depends on which way we are doing it, but the uhh..... ahh....... for married couple with kids, is not always, couse sometimes you must hold yourself so that the kids wont hear you screaming,but if the kids are away, then let it out, and you can even do it on the couche if you want, just to keep the spark

duckie
09 Jul 2013 09:43

mrng fam,

heres wt i remember from last nyt

Dlomo fam
Uncle JB is back nd he suggstd they gt inyanga to hlp thm bail out uSbuda,
Phenyo is more than willing to Handle ngamla s case
Jason u knw hw he is(not stupid) uyabona ukuthi kukhona okushaya amanzi
The press was at Ezweni wth questns regards to Sbusiso's arrest
Phenyo answered only a few e.g he blves sbusiso is not guilty till proven guillty

Akhona is gona b tastifying against Sbusiso
Noluntu been trying to kol Phenyo fo celebrations to no lucky, all the dlomo phones r off

Khethi ws plannin to skip the country but mad a huge mistake by hidin frm khubone at Quees'place
Khubone threatened choppa ukuthi amtshele where khethiwe is
Khubone phoned the creche pretendin to b Mpilo's transport to fnd out if He was at skul,he then went to Ezwen in search of khethi ,bumped into Queen hu bubbled everythn(told him tht shes at her place nd that shes ws gettn a pasport fo mpilo)

Choppa nd Zintle no Comment

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 09:56

@Portcia KWAAAAAAAAA! It's as if you're describing my life. *typing wihile fanning my bright red cheeks*

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 10:10

Thanks Duckie 

Akhona is really on a mission to bring Sbusiso down.
I don't understand how Akhona and MJ's heads work, have they forgotten what Noluntu did? or they believe her when she says Sbusiso was just trying to turn them against her. Even Wandi confirmed it. They are idiots shame.

mahumani
09 Jul 2013 10:11

thanks guys 4 your opinions bcs he pressurize me 2 cry even thou I feel nothing

Goldi
09 Jul 2013 10:14

hahahahaha eish Mahumadi i'm sorry but i just heard to laugh @ ur q well seriously you dont have to cry cos u wana make ur bf happy but i just have to understand the part of u crying? literally crying or moaning bcos of enjoyment or pain? i need to ask you dont have to ansa if you dont feel comfy tell me do you just lay there or u make some movements?

well i also dont feel sorry for Khethiwe ke moipolai osallelweng, Phenyo well pay shem, eish haai mara Khuboni o tshosa chopa tlhe and he (chopa) can be n ass hole mara waitsi what he's doing to Zee is not ayobaa, as for Akhona no comment

i also love only 2 man eversince i've been in this dating game ai

SiyaLi
09 Jul 2013 10:24

Morning Gen Family, Ive been a silent blogger for 3 months, now Im revealing myself. U guys, are indeed a family, not just Gen family but a real one. Ive been reading your advices to one another and all I could say is WOW, u rock guys.

portcia
09 Jul 2013 10:32

Nom d, sisi are you also in the same situation as mine?mara eish what one can do ye...?
Kwaaaaaa! Goldi sies,ofcouse she moves, unless she is trying to tell him something( BODY LANGUAGE)

Pastry
09 Jul 2013 10:35

@Mims....am happy ausi, all smiles

God has invested soo much in me Portcia, I can never doubt myself. Im one in 7 billion. Special kind. No doubts about it. 

Can i borrow your statement....mmmhhh, it possesses so much confidence, ngwanyana wa go itlhaloganya #impressed

Eish gen fam you will forgive me for not commentinf abt gen...i hardly sit for the whole episode and i never bother to ask or follow up on anything.

@Mahumani...just give him what he need and take what you need, how each express their feelings is their own business. As long as you make sure you give him a good thind and demand similar goodies! Next time he asks why you nt crying tell him "he needs to take you to cloud 9 so you can cry it all out loud until then...he needs to gear up frm cloud 7 that you always get"

portcia
09 Jul 2013 10:35

Thanks Siya, welcome, and fell at home, Like Ntaksay said before There is no place like home.

portcia
09 Jul 2013 10:38

KWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA! pastry

Goldi
09 Jul 2013 10:42

Eish!! Posh babe i'm sorry if it all came rong but kodwa ke i cant stop laughing @ the thot hey hihihihihihih

Welcome Siya you are so ryt we r one big happy family :)

Mims i think i must myself a copy as well

@Mahumani...just give him what he need and take what you need, how each express their feelings is their own business. haaibo Pastry now she must 4s it just to please dude aowa just tell dude gore u doing it they way u see fit and best for u we all do different things behind closed doors and it's about pleasure 4 both so mina i wont satisfy u what about me i do what pleases me yhoooo it's for my pleasure phela *pouting*

portcia
09 Jul 2013 10:49

Ja! guys this is all about satisfaction, in both ways. and as for me,when hubby reaches the climax before me, i tell him not to let the little guy to disappoint me in times of needy, so he must hang in there untill i get my fair share.

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 10:59

Yahoo @Portchia I try to keep dead quiet but I fail and my husband will pinch me to keep it down but when there are no kids I raise the volume but I don't scream hayi bo. And I'm a talker, I really don't know why.

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 10:59

Yhoo @Portchia I try to keep dead quiet but I fail and my husband will pinch me to keep it down but when there are no kids I raise the volume but I don't scream hayi bo. And I'm a talker, I really don't know why.

Pastry
09 Jul 2013 11:00

@Goldi...i meant she must give him her cake (on a silver platter of course) and take her wors frm him (all spiced up phela)....both must just enjoy from there the only best way they each know how

@Malume Vusi

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 11:01

Welcome SiyaLi.
You are home now, feel free to do whatever you feel like doing.

Just one question: Are you a lady or a gentleman?  

Pastry
09 Jul 2013 11:02

...i never saw, read or heard of that book but you have just given me a reason to go buy one. Tnx

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 11:03

LOL @ spiced up WORS

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 11:04

By the way do people really cry tears while dusting? I had one boyfriend who said " Aah whe ma, nkulunkulu wam" or "Awu we Jesu". It made me giggle so much. Probably because he was my first Zulu boyfriend and Xhosa men generally just grunt.

portcia
09 Jul 2013 11:16

yoh.... Nom d, i can imagine you saying Hit it baby hit it!...., kwaaaa.... and as for me i am a heavy breather, my hubby always ask me to keep it low, but only say so when we are done,and i bust in laugther. and yes some people do cry  tears, it happened to me once, yoh,.. i guess that day he really took me to cloud 9.
Aah whe ma, nkulunkulu wam" or Awu we Jesu" tjo... LOL..... I WOULD ALSO LAUGH

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 11:17

Lol NoMdazB. You guys make me laugh about the dusting topic.
Portcia & Pastry keep those comments coming.

I'm alone so I need all the comments to keep me busy.

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 11:23

Ladies and gentlemen, do you know how many people you've slept with? Are you honest with people who want to know ? My husband is number 10. But I've never told anyone because people always say 4 or 5 at the most so I feel a bit embarrassed.

Kera
09 Jul 2013 11:28

Aah whe ma, nkulunkulu wam" or "Awu we Jesu". Kwaakksss

I moan with pleasure and breath heavy when we dust and hubby also he will be saying  ijoh mama wee"but only when the kids are not home

shaidin
09 Jul 2013 11:29

morning fimaly 

Kera
09 Jul 2013 11:36

No Nomda i have lost count

Bk212303
09 Jul 2013 11:39

when hubby reaches the climax before me, i tell him not to let the little guy to disappoint me in times of needy, so he must hang in there untill i get my fair share.

Me too, i tell u stop right there wena and he would ask a u not ready yet and i say nope lolo its still a long way.


Hayke mankulunkulu kwaaaaaaaa

Welcome SiyaLI

Bk212303
09 Jul 2013 11:42

@Nomdaz it is 2 cause the third one i ran as he was about to put it in. Ppl it was tooo huge for me he tried forcing it and the sheet was slipary enough for me and i fell over the bed and i ran out cause i was like this one will destroy my nunus tyhini yini lee

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 11:43

Ijho mama wee Kwakwest.

Bk212303
09 Jul 2013 11:44

joh mama wee"but only when the kids are not home



kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak tltltltltltltt

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 11:45

To answer you question NoMdazB, it is two.

portcia
09 Jul 2013 11:46

yoh hectic NoMdazB, i guess i never counted,but i think even those who says they have only slept with 4 or 5 are not so honest, and as for my hubby i never told him about my past sexual relationship, i just said the past have to remain in the past, as long as im not cheating on him, and i dont believe in cheating

portcia
09 Jul 2013 11:52

Yoh BK, I also woudnt stand a man with a big penis, just pefect size is good, so you can also enjoy yourself

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 11:54

Like I said I was at this dating thing for a while before I met my hubby. You always think this one will be the one and then he messes up so you move on. And no I have never told my husband, it really has nothing to do with him. Yho good people I could tell you stories.!!!

Keratile
09 Jul 2013 11:59

Hello my lovies! Just popped in to see how you are doing

Deemo
09 Jul 2013 11:59

kerrie it has bn long hey,hi everyone,i can c the dusting topic kp the bloggers on fire have a blessed day

portcia
09 Jul 2013 12:00

Trully Nom d, most of us went through that, and we do get embarrased to say it, like my hubby is no 7 but i know that i was just in search for the right person, and if you get the right one, you wouldnt just give it away just like that.

Listening to the song when a woman loves by R Kelly

Goldi
09 Jul 2013 12:04

Currently @ 7 i wana reach 10 @list make a dozen so i'm busy hustling for 3 more candidates hahahahahaha, i dont talk about my past sexual relationships

so BK and Ntaks you only slept with 2 guys ever since u were born?

i Moan n breath heavy wen dusting not loud though well i've never met a guy who screams n lucky for me never met any1 who speaks zulu wen cuming hahahahahah eish ya ne bo bby ngiyeza kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Aah whe ma, nkulunkulu wam" or "Awu we Jesu classic

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 12:10

@Nomdaz it is 2 cause the third one i ran as he was about to put it in. Ppl it was tooo huge for me he tried forcing it and the sheet was slipary enough for me and i fell over the bed and i ran out cause i was like this one will destroy my nunus tyhini yini lee Kwaaaaaaa I had one who had a big penis. I really liked him shame but I put up with it for about a year and I just had stop. Mynunu just couldn't take it anymore. The worst part is it was thick and long, like a horse's. I found that doggy style was the kindest style.

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 12:12

Yes Goldi my ex whom I met in 2004 and broke up in 2007 and my current one whom we met in 2008 till today

Mimibob
09 Jul 2013 12:31

Thanx Pastry. You may borrow the statement :)

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 12:32

1. It is greater than God and more evil than the devil. The poor have it, the rich need it and if you eat it you'll die. What is it?

2. I am the beginning of the end, and the end of time and space. I am essential to creation, and I surround every place. What am?

3. At night they come without being fetched. By day they are lost without being stolen. What are they?

4. What is in seasons, seconds, centuries and minutes but not in decades, years or days?

Deemo
09 Jul 2013 12:41

1 its nothing

Deemo
09 Jul 2013 12:42

1 its nothing

Goldi
09 Jul 2013 12:43

Kante where do u see Kerrie?? cos i dont O_O wow Ntaks so u only stayed a year o le single damn girl u lucky hey Deemo hows the baby doing lala?

portcia
09 Jul 2013 12:47

Ntaksay
1. i dont know
2.it is the road
3. is the ghost
4.i dont know

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 12:48

Hi Deemo you are 100% correct dear. How are you doing?

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 12:50

I was starting to be drowsy, but you woke me up with you answers Portcia. Not even a single one is correct. LOL

1. Nothing
I'll post the rest later when others have also answered.

Mimibob
09 Jul 2013 12:57

@Ntaksay, number 4 is letter "n".

Deemo
09 Jul 2013 13:00

5oldie n ntaksay im ok its just tht the big bratha africa thing has swallowed me,wll always pop in checkin on my best family,where is riyat n yoyoz??weiss i have him at the bba blog,

portcia
09 Jul 2013 13:06

Guys i have old books that i have finished reading, and dont want to keep them as my book shelve is getting full and full, and most of them are John Grisham's collection. anyone interested? and if not where can i sell them?

Bk212303
09 Jul 2013 13:07

@Nomdaz a year cc yho never i ran as fast as i could. It was really like a horses thing yhoo

@Zioness
09 Jul 2013 13:14

Hallooooo Gen family kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa @Bk yooo that thing must've been huuuuge, me - I had an opposite experience, I was getting hot and heavy with this guy, mutual fondling etc etc i took out his fully erect member and shem it wasn't even bigger than my hand; i didn't even have real 'experience' that time, he would've been nr 3, but I just couldn't take my nunu for a fool like that, even push up my number by 1 when its actually only a half hai hai

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 13:14

I thought I really loved him but I just loved how he loved and treated me. I had just broken up with a man that I loved with everything I had, but he treated me very badly. Nothing hurts as much as being neglected and ignored by someone you love. So I stayed with Mr big Ding-dong so I could have someone love me for a change.

mahumani
09 Jul 2013 13:16

guys do you know where  are the picture's  Pokello of Big brother  are could anyone who knows them tell where can I find those pic of porn .

Mimibob
09 Jul 2013 13:21

Number 1, answer is nothing.

Mimibob
09 Jul 2013 13:23

Number 2 is "e"

@Zioness
09 Jul 2013 13:23

@Nomdaz wow it's like you have just described my first and second relationship (minus the big Ding Dong) - I also loved my first boyfriend so incredibly much, sadly after some time he didn't feel the same way and who actually really abused me emotionally (though I didnt realise it at the time), then I went on to date someone who truly loved me and who I told myself I will grow to love with time but sadly that never happened...

Mimibob
09 Jul 2013 13:30

3. Stars?

portcia
09 Jul 2013 13:30

come Ntaksay, we need answers

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 13:38

@Zioness, it took me a really long time to admit to myself that I loved how the second guy treated me. I was just so desperate to be loved.

Pexin
09 Jul 2013 14:03

Lol ths family & the dusting topic #i dzie As for the men i had @ntaksay spoke like she was refering to me, even the years...hope u r not 1 of my frnds hu hapens 2 tel my stories as urs lol

Kera
09 Jul 2013 14:09

2. I am the beginning of the end, and the end of time and space. I am essential to creation, and I surround every place. What am? Letter E

3. At night they come without being fetched. By day they are lost without being stolen. What are they? The Stars 


I am waiting for the answers please Ntaksay

mahumani
09 Jul 2013 14:11

1. life
2. earth
3. stars and moon
4. i don't know

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 14:15

I don't think so Pexin. I don't have much friends. 

Answers:

1. It is greater than God and more evil than the devil. The poor have it, the rich need it and if you eat it you'll die. What is it?

A: Nothing

2. I am the beginning of the end, and the end of time and space. I am essential to creation, and I surround every place. What am?

A: "E"

3. At night they come without being fetched. By day they are lost without being stolen. What are they?

A: Stars

4. What is in seasons, seconds, centuries and minutes but not in decades, years or days?

A: "N"

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 14:19

You did well family, you answered all the questions correct. I'm taking all of you to Gwigza's for super. 

Do we have a date people???????????????????
I need to book a table please RSVP before 15:30 today.

@Zioness
09 Jul 2013 14:31

@Nomdaz, i can relate to that - no matter how strong and confident I thought I was, after my the first disaster of a relationship, my entire self was so low and in sweeps this wonderful guy and he makes you feel loved and wanted and needed ,in my case it was even worse because this guy was a friend for years, apparently he had been harboring feelings for me throughout my relationship and I figured I already adore him as a friend how hard can it be to 'fall in love' but after two years  i had to admit that it's never going to happen, tjo breaking up with that guy was one of the hardest things i ever had to do, needless to say our four year friendship is also something of the past now...

Kera
09 Jul 2013 14:42

See you there

NoMdazB
09 Jul 2013 14:44

@zioness, shame poor man. But what could you have done. It's better that you broke it off when you did. My guy just could not believe it. The worst part is I metup with my ex and I just knew that I didn't love the man I was with. So I felt I should rather break it off than string him along for nothing. And yes I went running back to my ex. That did not end well.

Goldi
09 Jul 2013 14:50

I'M in Ntaks even though i ddnt part take but i could use a good glass of wine and a company of my loving family.........

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 14:51

1.  What is it that goes up and goes down but does not move?

2.  What English word retains the same pronunciation, even after you take away four of its five letters?

3.  An undercover police officer needs to infiltrate an illegal gambling club but does not know the password required for the entrance to the building. The day before he plants a microphone in the door knob and listens to the recorded conversation. He listens that, a man strolls up and knocks on the door. The doorman says, "twelve" and the man replies, "six" and he is let in. A second man arrives and the doorman says "six" and the man replies, "three" and is let in. The police officer now is confident that he knows the password for the entry. So, he walks up to the door. The doorman says "ten" so he replies, "five". A gun appears through a slot in the door and the police officer is asked to leave. Why? What should he have said?

Pastry
09 Jul 2013 15:33

This guy had a beautiful girlfriend bt was to too ashamed to make love to her because of his small dick. So one day while they were at the drive-in movies, he decides that i was a good time to do it because she wouldnt be able to see the size of his dick.

Halfway throught he movie, he unzips his pants ans pulls out his smaller-nyana dick and sticks it in the girlfriend's hand. She quickly replied " no thank you, I dont smoke"

yoyozz
09 Jul 2013 15:38

kwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaax krkrkr i dont smoke

pastry
Halfway throught he movie, he unzips his pants ans pulls out his smaller-nyana dick and sticks it in the girlfriend's hand. She quickly replied " no thank you, I dont smoke"

Bk212303
09 Jul 2013 15:39

Yhoo @Nomdaz it is so painfull cc to love someone and they dont feel the same.
Like when i made i made a full of myself fell in love with this Mpumalanga guy and it turns he is inlove with my cousin and not me. But i think he saw i had a crush on him and he led me on i even kissed him and walaaa he fones me at nite telling me hayi bk im inlove with yr cousin. I sank beeeeeehind my bed crying alone there but whoow im done doing that.

Bk212303
09 Jul 2013 15:40

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak@yoyos

VusiK
09 Jul 2013 15:41

@nomdakz... You are not alone .. I too am a talker.

yoyozz
09 Jul 2013 15:55

laleli

Hello family

anal sex - do men love it?
ladies do u enjoy it ? do u do it with ur man?

let's chat

i  miss this topic i was gonna comment

Bk212303
09 Jul 2013 16:04

Vusik a talker kwaaaaaaaaak, i dont want to think about what u say,

@yoyos me never done and not interested and u?

Kera
09 Jul 2013 16:08

@ Yoyos  for me its a no no no no and no

portcia
09 Jul 2013 16:08

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak Pastry, sorry i dont smoke.

Ntaksay, i wont even try sisi,so no answer from me

mahumani
09 Jul 2013 16:10

interested I will try it

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 16:12

I have answered that Yoyo It's a No No

Lol @ sorry I don't smoke

yoyozz
09 Jul 2013 16:12

mahumani
guys here is the question if you dusting is a must that I have to cry I don't understand please help I must cry 2 please my bf or its a force to cry help a lady here

if we are dusting for the first time hes my new boyfriend i cry coz im trying to make him feel like hes doing something  i can feel him but on second time i wont cry if hes doing it like a cat i will just tell him noooo not ayoba buti. that means on a first date i will cry to impress him

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 16:14

I guess it's just you and me Goldi. No one else has confirmed that they are coming, they do not want my treat to a juicy steak or sushi or they prefer oysters (Bra Khubs will be there if you want oysters)

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 16:16

How does a cat do it Yoyo.
Where have you been kodwa, I missed your comments. You always manage to make me laugh.

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 16:17

It's almost home time for me

duckie
09 Jul 2013 16:21

8min to go@ntaksay

Pastry
09 Jul 2013 16:23

@Yoyozz...havent tried it. You got me thinking though, can one conceive frm that hole? Am even scared to think of evn trying so I will gladly be a coward as well "NO thanks"

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 16:24

I have a feeling that the house will be on fire after I have left. But I will read the comments at Gwigza's le Goldi. Since no one else wants to join us.

We'll meet there at 18:00 sharp Goldie, no African time please.

@Zioness
09 Jul 2013 16:25

Where is this Gwigza's guys?

yoyozz
09 Jul 2013 16:26

welcome new blogers

eyyy guys i found out that im preg and im afraid to miscarry again i spend all the time i have in a toilet checking every minute if theres no blood or anything. i search on the enternet wat must i do to avoid it. i miscarried 2 times im worried really worried i dont eat i cant even sleep at night ndiyoyika seriouse. ever since i found out i never do dusting again and u knw its cold i want to dust but i cant.

Ntaksay
09 Jul 2013 16:28

Yoyo don't stress sisi you know its bad at this stage. Stay positive
You are not going to miscarry

Congratulations

@Zioness
09 Jul 2013 16:32

@ Nomdaz, don't feel bad about running back to your ex, i still continued to dust with my ex even though I know he will never take me back  of course he was more than willing to take my nunu, but trampled on my heart, used to feel so embarrased about my behavior back then, my grovelling and begging and all round humiliating myself but I've since managed to accept that I had to go through that heart ache because at the very least it taught me how I'm not supposed to feel in a relationship, so after that when ever a guy came with that tendencies i just broke it off...

yoyozz
09 Jul 2013 16:33

zioness

Where is this Gwigza's guys?

i will pick you be ready im gonna show you gwizaz

i will meet you there ladies, juice will be nice no alcohol for now . can we also visit ngamla

@Zioness
09 Jul 2013 16:35

@ Yoyozz i feel your pain, i've miscarried twice myself - once before and one after my son, but like Ntaksay said stay positive and believe in the power of prayer...

@Zioness
09 Jul 2013 16:37

ok yoyozz ima be waiting :)  and yes, no alcohol for you, i'll be more than happy to have your share ;)

yoyozz
09 Jul 2013 16:37

ntaksay thnx see you @gwizaz

mahumani
09 Jul 2013 16:45

lol at @yoyozz you are killing me girl pambili with pretending to cry pambili. gud nite guys

Mimibob
09 Jul 2013 17:32

Thanks Ntaksay. Will meet you guys at Gwigza's.

mthi 101
09 Jul 2013 21:49

Good evening nonke!!

@GOLDI
Currently @ 7 i wana reach 10 @list make a dozen so i'm busy hustling for 3 more candidates hahahahahaha, i dont talk about my past sexual relationships

Hm ! it got me thinking............. Can I offer ?  

mthi 101
09 Jul 2013 21:57

@Goldi "i Moan n breath heavy wen dusting not loud though"

Only If I could become a FLY  and watch  

mthi 101
09 Jul 2013 22:03

@yoyoz
eyyy guys i found out that im preg and im afraid to miscarry again i spend all the time i have in a toilet checking every minute if theres no blood or anything. i search on the enternet wat must i do to avoid it. i miscarried 2 times im worried really worried i dont eat i cant even sleep at night ndiyoyika seriouse. ever since i found out i never do dusting again and u knw its cold i want to dust but i cant.

Don't stress cc everything will be allright, WHEN GOD IS ON YOUR SIDE NOTHING CAN GO WRONG, JUST STAY POSITIVE AND PRAY HARDER.

Congratulation and Good luck

Mimibob
09 Jul 2013 22:48

@Ntaksay, 1. What is it that goes up and goes down but does not move? 
Stairs

2. What English word retains the same pronunciation, even after you take away four of its five letters? 
Q (From queue)

3. Hai cha, ngizamile kodwa ngahluleka... (Please correct the lingo/typos/errors)

Maybe I should get someone who professed to being a talker to help out with my informal Zulu lessons..

@ Mthi, smiling at your offer to Goldi. Two to go..
@Goldi, Im straight, otherwise...

NoMdazB
10 Jul 2013 06:10

*just wondering to myself* I wonder what Bra Vusi says during sex. Morning everyone.

Lindzselai
10 Jul 2013 07:05

Good morning guys
i would like to ask, I may have missed it but when are the Idols SA 2013 gonna start airing???

Bk212303
10 Jul 2013 08:33

Morning all,

@Nomdaz i also wonder ccza.

@yoyos congra dear frnd, jula cc pezulu. God is good and He always has a plan for all of us. He just want us ti trust in Him and He will do the rest.

MsibiNS
10 Jul 2013 08:40

Funny mmmm!!!! things could just happen under your roof and you don't notice a thing... I really don' t believe this Noluntu and Phenyo. wow Dineo telling Queen it could be possible the police tricked Mr S.... aha haha a hai she should be fast by leaking the information yabona *ashaye adume ngazo u Queen*.....i wonder how Akhona is going to deal with Sbu and Her crew on the other side mmmm can't wait for the Bail hearing.. hai khona if Ngamla will be punished then Noluntu as well, Hai Mfundi bona i Plan Ndoda......... we can't have teenagers get away with such malacts like Noluntu's as for Mr S wow he keeps the ball rolling kwi Generations....akukho okufihlakele okungeke kwembulwa though ....nehhhhhh?

MsibiNS
10 Jul 2013 08:42

i wonder what Akhona is going to say,,,,curiosity is killing me!!!!

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 08:49

thanx my fimaly alot

molweni bo

nomdaz
*just wondering to myself* I wonder what Bra Vusi says during sex. Morning everyone.

kwaaax i hope hes making some noise hey. i dont like a guy when hes dusting he just keep quiet and keep a serious face, you wont even knw that hes about to come so that you can also prepare yourself. but i hope mimibob can answer that question *hides*

Ntaksay
10 Jul 2013 09:06

Good morning my favourite family

I enjoyed super with you guys last night, thanx for coming.
Zioness drank wine like she was drinking water. At least Yoyo took her home. Thanks Yoyo for taking her home she was in not state to drive.


NGAMLA YOU ARE SO WRONG ABOUT TRUSTING PHENYO AND AKHONA AND NOT LISTENING TO JASON WHEN TRIED TO TELL YOU TO TAKE A STAND AND WRITE AN AFFIDAVIT.

I'll keep my fingers crossed but there is no hope for you.
You are going straight to JAIL my brother from another mother.  *SAD & ANGRY AT PHENYO*

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 09:15

Morning fam *babelaaaas for dayzzzzzzzzzzzzzz*

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 09:21

Won't be watching Gen tonight, it's Strictly come dancing on Sabc 3 - it's a pity they air at the same time...

Kera
10 Jul 2013 09:23

Good morning family

@Yoyo congrats cc just dont stress and all will be ok and tell God that you give all to His capable hands and He is gonna be with you thru out your 9 months and nothing will happen to your precious cargo  for with God all is possible 

As for Phenyo tea lady is going to make your life hell soon that smile that i saw yesterday from her means bad news and wena o moipolai

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 09:24

NTAKSAY
i hate phenyo i think he needs a break now, when is noluntu  going to pay for druging her mother, now its time for the trueth to come out. that guy who was selling drugs to noluntu must come back  coz now everyone is starting to believe that noluntu didnt do anything to hurt her mother. hope akhona is going to pay for wat she did to ngamla. ngamla was the first one to believe her when she was claiming tht shes mzwanele s daughter, he welcomed her with open arms and for now we wont blame ngamla for mzwanele disappereance coz we dont knw the story. ngamla offered akhona a job in a zweni he did everything to protect akhona. hope when ngamla come back i dont knw when we are going to see a war between akhona and ngamla. phenyo and ngamla. jason im counting on you to save ngamla and im in ngamlaz team fo shoooo

SiyaLi
10 Jul 2013 09:31

Thnx guys for the warm welcome. @ Ntaksay, Im a lady sweetie

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 09:38

I’ve been walking with a very heavy feeling for the just over a week, at first I didn’t want to talk about it here because firstly it is not my story to tell and secondly, writing about it means I have to think about it something I’ve been trying not to… But this fam always have a way to put things into perspective and give good advice… I got a call last week from a friend of mine (in fact at some point we were best friends but then she moved to a different town and as these things go, we lost contact somewhat and were not so invested in each other’s lives as before) she told me that she was grabbed at gunpoint by two guys and attacked, raped and violated in the worst possible way for an entire night, this is so hard for me to write, I’m choking right now, not going to go into details but at least these *bleep!* animals spared her life although she has to recover physically (has broken ribs etc amongst other things) and is on a round of ARV’s.. you always hear of evil like this but when it happens to someone close to you… that night she told me I was such a horrible friend, had no words of comfort, I was just numb numb numb, I feel like nothing I say could make this better, this woman has already gone through so much in her life and no this happens, I tried calling her only twice since then and was almost relieved when she didn’t answer, feel like such a horrible and selfish person because this is not about me and I should be supporting her and offering her words of comfort but it’s like I’ve lost my tongue, when I imagine in my mind all the things she told me I just start crying (how much worse must it not be for her!!!!!!) did anyone go through something like this, either themselves or someone close to them, what can I do for her??

Bk212303
10 Jul 2013 09:39

Yho i was so stressed when i could c that Ngamla is trusting all the wrong ppl. Did u hear all Jason's responces to Ngamla but no he did not give him a chance uyabona Usenzo yena i give up cause he is useless on everything cause look at Kheti he gave away 500 000... mahala what kind of a business man would just sign without checking first. He does not qualify to run Ezweni yhoo sesinye isiyo yo yo sendoda.

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 09:39

BK

Yhoo @Nomdaz it is so painfull cc to love someone and they dont feel the same.
Like when i made i made a full of myself fell in love with this Mpumalanga guy and it turns he is inlove with my cousin and not me. But i think he saw i had a crush on him and he led me on i even kissed him and walaaa he fones me at nite telling me hayi bk im inlove with yr cousin. I sank beeeeeehind my bed crying alone there but whoow im done doing that.

YOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO hahahahahahahah im sure if there was a hole ubuzozifaka kwaaax

Ms Opinionated
10 Jul 2013 09:39

Morning guys i think Akhona is just one of those people who forgets where they come from when they living le good life. she just cant let things go, look at how she treated her own mother and now what she is about to do to Sbuda who supported her. Over Caleb nogal.. man dd jack for her

Goldi
10 Jul 2013 09:43

Morning Guys 

Thanks for the lovely evening last nigh @ Gwigzas Ntaksay you really know how to make a some1 feel wanted and needed thank you ((hug)) Yoyo mgane uphumaphi? 

Congrats Yoyo dont worry this time you'll be holding your bundle of joy in your hands :) just keep on praying and stop stressing 

@Goldi "i Moan n breath heavy wen dusting not loud though"

Only If I could become a FLY and watch, so you wana whatch not part take? *hands on my face*

@GOLDI
Currently @ 7 i wana reach 10 @list make a dozen so i'm busy hustling for 3 more candidates hahahahahaha, i dont talk about my past sexual relationships

Hm ! it got me thinking............. Can I offer ?



Mimibob
10 Jul 2013 09:43

@Yoyozz, lol.. I don't dust and tell darling. You guys will have to keep wondering.. *smiles*

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 09:57

@ ZIONESS

she is still you friend especially if you used to share everything to her. the distance is the only problem coz its hard to keep ur friendship hot even if she phoned you telling you about her new boyfriend you wont say much coz you dont knw the guy thats why ur friendship with her is not hot. it happen to all of us i have a friend in my province but becoz we are working in defferent provinces we dont fone each other but if therez a problem i foned her or he fone me coz im the only friend knws everything about her, we always support each other. I THINK NOW YOUR FRIEND NEED YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING, VISIT HER PLEASE

these things happenes every minute. umeza wam her child has been raped and killed she was dumped in forestry last week when i was in a funeral of my sister everyone was bussy looking for the child every where. guess what her mother she was the first to find her in a pool of blood raped and choped in peaces this week its her funeral GOD COME DOWN WE' VE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU FOR YEARS THIS IS TOO MUCH

mahumani
10 Jul 2013 10:00

Morning guys? some  women says  they can reach their  climax through mastubation but some says no they need  bonjovi  it true guys.

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 10:09


THNX GUYS

((hug)) Yoyo mgane uphumaphi?
@goldi i told you abt my sister remember i was bussy with funeral arrangements im back now hope this witch(manager) is going to stay away from me i want to spend time with my gen fimaly especial now we are going through a hard time NGAMLA IN JAIL

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 10:20

MAHUMANI

Morning guys? some women says they can reach their climax through mastubation but some says no they need bonjovi it true guys.

YHOOOO i didnt knw you love dusting topic this much. i thought goldi is the number one fan*hides* but now noooooo mahumani you are now one.

try it love you will enjoy it i wont tell you in details but stick in ur clit that small hole on top of ur ckit keep touching that nice and soft, play with ur toung just lick ur lips nicely move slowly you will reach ur climax i promise. I NEVER DO IT THOOO

Bk212303
10 Jul 2013 10:37

@Zioness ow thats such a horrible experience yr frnd went tru. I can imagine what she going tru. It must also be hard on you too, the shock, anger, hatred, blaming ooh yini, i wonder what is happening to this world, i mean to force yrself to someone and beating them up etc. GOD A HAVE MECCY YINI. This is so sad and it makes me wonder do these ppl have hearts, do they have sisters or they dont even care about them too.
Zioness we all have different ways of dealing with shock and we cant pretend to do it like someone else. We are not the same, some can handle stuff till here and some till there. So at the moment just be yourself cc and you not a horrible person. By writting to us also dont feel bad cause im sure this is what happens some of us we take other ppls problems and make our own and we start feeling all the pain. We wear someone elses shoes, for one i do cause after i read what u wrote i felt the pain, anger and i know it must be difficult for you too. So just be there for her and make time for her, cause now im sure she will be negative and she will think everyone can c and she will be angry sometimes, but bare with her cc. If u must cry with her do that but you guys need to talk about it, it will pass even though she will never forget. You need to make some time wit her and make her feel loved by you. Cause since she told you, she gona need all support she can get, evn if you must pass by her house sometimes when u have time. She will be quick to judge due to anger and when that happens pls understand. We need to pray that they did not have hiv, cause that will also make things worse for her. The medicine frnd is talk, talk, talk and not bottle things up cause that would end in drustic measures like suicide. May God be with her all the time. We always go thru trials for a reason

duckie
10 Jul 2013 10:42

MORNING FAM,

EIx i missed gen ydae , an update plz

Pastry
10 Jul 2013 10:49

Morning everyone

@Yoyo...congrats sisi, pray pray pray and avoid funerals unless its very close family. If possible seek medical advice u might need uterus tie up
Hahahahaaaa never masturbate but good at the tips....wow lol

@Zioness...eish mhlobo'wam inzima le'ndaba. Try a look at it this was maybe it would help, if it were you being violated like that...what would you want or expect your friends to do. I know i am helping much but all i know is that right now she doesnt need to hear "it will be okay". She doesnt need sympathy or pity and she will blame a lot of people for her ordeal. Does she have a man in her life? 

Bk212303
10 Jul 2013 10:51

We turned to forget that all is well with our God. He lets us go tru these trials and on the other hand he is teaching something. We become stronger tru them, but we dont c it when its happening but later we would like hey thank God i went tru this and that and then u obviously getting something good. Its just that some of them they are hush and you sometimes doubt even about this God etc but He is here for all of us.

Zioness your frnd is in a big test/trial and she must get a wake up and speak to God who created all of us. Who sent His only son to die for our sins.
She needs to confide in HIM and He will do the rest.  

Bk212303
10 Jul 2013 10:56

I know someone who was raped when she was walking with her boyfriend and there were 4 men. They tired bf and made  her open her legs towards bf and qeud  for turns while he was watching crying and he was shouting etc. They did that over and over and the last time i heard they did not date each other after the incident even though it was no ones fault.

Goldi
10 Jul 2013 11:05

Zion (((BIG HUG))) i'm sorry about what happened to your 4rnd and what you also going through thats a terrible experience dont wish it even to my worst enemy all you can do for her is to be THERE give her all the LOVE AND SUPPORT she needs @ this present moment also Pray for her and yourself GOOD LUCK, 

laleli
10 Jul 2013 11:11

@ yoyo  whattt mustubating ?? i want the real thing

Bk212303
10 Jul 2013 11:26

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa@laleli ufunuqobooo

Goldi
10 Jul 2013 11:35

lol you and me laleli i dont even know how do that so pssssstttttt

Guys nayi phela imihlola it happened twice i woke up sweating and bloody horny like nobody's business the ada day, *bleep!* i was having this hot steamy sex i was even shaking there way neketsogetswe ka teng dammet i cant even remember when was the last time i felt like that it was a dream yeh! but the misterious part is i was not DUSTING with a guy but a woman!! O_O scary cos not even 1 single day i ever have sexual thoughts of a girl cos mina i'm a DICKLISH kinda gal i'm straight like that i LOVE MY WORS SHEM, now i'm *bleep!* HORNY just thinking about it damn

I googled it apparentely it's nornmal *shewwww*

Kera
10 Jul 2013 11:40

@Zioness... this is the worst thing to happen to anyone pray for your friend and be there for her even if is over and she just wanna talk let her do that and dont push her to open up  with all the details unless she is ready to do so

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 11:42

BK, Pastry and Goldie - i've read all your messages and can only thank you for the heartfelt advice and support, it's given me the courage to send her a loooooong sms basically just saying that although i can never profess to feel the extent of what she must going through, as her sister and friend i am pained and numbed by what these animals put her through and that I am praying for her on a daily basis and wish I could be there for in the flesh (she lives in another province and financially I simply don't have the means now), I am just grateful that she believs in the our Maker and although it seems impossible now He will heal her and she will come out stronger, she replied that I must call her which I did and we had a talk, she is doing better physically, wounds healing, just the arv's making her nauseos we will talk again tonight...

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 11:43

thank you again family, i am drained now yooo this life neh...

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 11:47

@ Yoyoss Sincerest condolences on your sister's passing cc... i dn't even have words for what happened to the child of your friend, prayer prayer prayer... Thakns Kera yes I am letting her do all the talking, and the sad thing is she has never been close to her family, she hasn't even told her mom yet, but i'll be there for her...

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 11:50

@goldi hmmm maybe that's something you need to explore ;) i must confess in my wild varsity days i've kissed a girl or two and there was mutual fondling once but hai, still prefered the wors lol (thanks for the change in topic)

Ntaksay
10 Jul 2013 11:51

Zioness I'm  so shocked I don't even know what to say. But keep calling her and just talk to her like a friend tell don't sympathise. If she stays far from you and can't visit. Even a message of encouragement as a friend might help. This is a difficult situation. Good luck mu friend I wish you and her well and speed recovery.

Ntaksay
10 Jul 2013 11:55

That's a scary feeling Goldi I'm with you Zioness (@goldi hmmm maybe that's something you need to explore )

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 11:59

Thanks Ntaksay, i'm so grateful i came upon this blog, i really am...

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 12:07

ZIONESS i want details kiss only or kikikiki

goldi im sorry my friendo abt ur dream i once dreamed abt the girl dusting me and i was enjoying every moment and when i wakeup i was very happy that im in a dream and i shouted the devil is lier ,im next to my sweety heart but im dreaming abt the girl i wake him up i told him everything and he was so jelousy first thing on the morning i went to st johns church i vomited ndacima and i told umthandazi abt this dream she told me sometimes it happened to anyone we are all gays and lesBIAN ITS up to you to choose ufuna ini yhooo. WHY ARE THESE LESBIANS FOLLOWING US IN OUR DREAMS COZ I LOVE PIPI VERY MUCH 

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 12:16

laleli and goldi yoyo whattt mustubating ?? i want the real thing

try something new u will enjoy its not a sin they say its healthy sometimes the guys dont do it the way u want it and u dont even come. but if u mustab ovious u will come enjoyyyyyyyy

Ntaksay
10 Jul 2013 12:17

How does a girl dust????????????????????
Does she put fingers/tongue on you punana or a vabriator. If it's a vabriator do they tie in on their punanas I just cannot picture it.
it's easy to picture how gays dust. but for ladies I just can't draw the picture.

Ntaksay
10 Jul 2013 12:18

Is there any lesbian/ gay in this house. Or bisexual??????????????????????

Goldi
10 Jul 2013 12:20

lol Zion a male 4rnd of mine said that yesterday but haaikhona i cant well i have kissed a gal b4 but taking it further haai i dont think so eish Ntaksay it is scary i tell you but after i google that's wen i felt better because i was starting to think that i'm BIO hahahahaha eish Yoyo i also LOVE MY DICKLING ai these girl must just leave me alone haai khona>>>or myb i shud try it *thinking out loud* *bleep!* and i've got this perfect some1 grgrgrgrgrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Pastry
10 Jul 2013 12:27

We will be praying for the both of you @Zioness

The fact that she thought of you and entrusted you by making that call to you after the incident, should tell you a lot....she needed you and believed you can carry the burden with her. Foeget all the hurtful things she said, that was just her pain. I am glad you had a conversation.

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 12:31

they use amalwimi and fingers

Kera
10 Jul 2013 12:31

@ Goldi  you can go try it out and the you will be able to answer Ntaksay LOL

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 12:34

lol @ yoyozz "WHY ARE THESE LESBIANS FOLLOWING US IN OUR DREAMS COZ I LOVE PIPO VERY MUCH" LOL

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 12:43

@ntaks, I also always wondered how they do it, but hubby n i felt a bit naughty one night when we went out to dinner and found ourselves in an adult store, yor yor yor the amount and shapes and sizes of plastic worse on sale there, it can accomodate whatever your nunu prefers... so ja, must be that...  @goldie the thing that puts me off the most is the idea of the oral sex, i luuuuuuurv when my man goes down on me, but i would neva eva neva put any part of my face near another woman's nunu, that's asking tooo much... @yoyoss i masturbate sometimes specially when i'm taking a loooong bath, always wonder if hubby knows what i'm dong in there ;)

Ntaksay
10 Jul 2013 13:01

Ulwimi in another woman't nunu, never. Oh my goodness I would vomit the whole year. Just the thought of it...................comment loading

Goldi
10 Jul 2013 13:01

LOL Ntaksay i have a 4rnd who swings both ways and kept on asking her she said i must go and try it out cos she cant explain it she just wana show me wuuuuuuuuu

Yoyo most of the Les that i know and some of my bio 4rnds say having coitus with a girl makes you reach your climax cos she's a girl just like you and she also knows which parts of ur body to touch and what not so yeh i agree 

So tell me so that i shud try it lenna HOW DO I MASTURBATE/PLAY with myself i dont know how too and most of my 4rnds laugh @ me they dont wana teach me PLEASE GUYS GIVE ME SOME TIPS SO THAT I CAN TRY IT TONIGHT MY KIDS ARE VISITING THEIR GRANNY COMING BACK ON SUNDAY ASOMBLIEF

THANKING YOU IN ADVANCE

Ntaksay
10 Jul 2013 13:07

So tell me so that i shud try it lenna HOW DO I MASTURBATE/PLAY with myself i dont know how too and most of my 4rnds laugh @ me they dont wana teach me PLEASE GUYS GIVE ME SOME TIPS SO THAT I CAN TRY IT TONIGHT MY KIDS ARE VISITING THEIR GRANNY COMING BACK ON SUNDAY ASOMBLIEF
THANKING YOU IN ADVANCE 


The following post from Yoyo might help you Goldi (we want the outcome tomorrow)

Reply from: yoyozz   Wednesday, July 10, 2013 10:20 AM  
MAHUMANI
Morning guys? some women says they can reach their climax through mastubation but some says no they need bonjovi it true guys.
YHOOOO i didnt knw you love dusting topic this much. i thought goldi is the number one fan*hides* but now noooooo mahumani you are now one.
try it love you will enjoy it i wont tell you in details but stick in ur clit that small hole on top of ur ckit keep touching that nice and soft, play with ur toung just lick ur lips nicely move slowly you will reach ur climax i promise. I NEVER DO IT THOOO

Bk212303
10 Jul 2013 13:07

kwaaaaaaaaa@Zioness u masterbate.

Mna ke im straight @Ntaksay

Goldi
10 Jul 2013 13:15

She has never done it mos Ntaksay how can i know 4sure mxxxm i want some1 who knows what she's talking abt lol wena Yoyo every1 here in da house LOVE DUSTING hahahahhahah

i was thinking on investing on a VIBRATOR *Sigh*

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 13:23

well goldi i'm no expert but i do come evrytime, the trick for me is to use my imagination, like if you have a fantasy just think about that imagine every move between you and whoever your fantasy guy is (mine is my hubby shem boring i know but i just can't imagine anyone else right now) then your hands will automatically go south then explore and enjoy! ;) it gets better with time and soon you'll figure out what arouses you most etc... has anyone here ever used a vibrator, want to get one but dn't know how hubby will react to that...

Mabula Thabiso
10 Jul 2013 13:25

LLM(laughing lyk mawande) i mic her laugh sbu n mawande....ga le robale top 40

Mabula Thabiso
10 Jul 2013 13:25

LLM(laughing lyk mawande) i mic her laugh sbu n mawande....ga le robale top 40

shaidin
10 Jul 2013 13:52

MMM gud day my lovely fimaly heeeyy i jst bump into dusting topic every1 is responding 1 by 1 and every1 is coming back home 1by 1 mm very interesting topic woow!!mm this preggie is to big and heavy i dnt even think of dusting heeey!!

Mr sexy 4 no reason
10 Jul 2013 13:53

Lol yoh a.a

Goldi
10 Jul 2013 13:54

ok Zee thnks will try that well i asked this lady that i work with cos she's doing herself all the time so she's telling me to concentrate more on my clit do you think i should watch a porn? i've never watched porn cos i always considered myself as 1 *fanself* hihihihihihihi EISH YA NE!!

goldie
10 Jul 2013 14:08

Hi Familyyyyyyyy!

@BK am glad your colleague told u what the book says!

B2G: Dont u guys think that they are trying to bring us to the truth about what happened to Mzwanele by sending Sbu to jail being set up by his daughter/ Remember that day when Senzo found Sbu burning the evidence about Mzwanele being Impimpi which is what caused a lot of comrades to get caught and Sello also said it at his farm. So i am thinking like father like daughter, knowing nothing about loyalty and betraying those that care. So maybe ke mo Sbu a tlo mmolella hore u are a traitor like your father. 

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 14:10

kwakwakwakwa @ Goldi, personally i'm not a fan of porn, the dusting in some of the porn that i saw is toooo hectic no intimacy, so degrading for women (in the one movie i saw TWO guys were inserting both their pipos in this ONE women's nunu @ the same time! and then they made her take it in her mouth, i was so disgusted rather than turned on, couldn't watch further...) but apparently there are some 'women-friendly' porn out there these days because women are more sexually liberated warra warra ;) *wonder where i can find those...

goldie
10 Jul 2013 14:11

@Yoyo, congradulations cc, dont stress it is not for u or ur baby!

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 14:22

GOLDIE
@Yoyo, congradulations cc, dont stress it is not for u or ur baby!
THANKS (*_*)

ZIONESSin the one movie i saw TWO guys were inserting both their pipos in this ONE women's nunu @ the same time! and then they

I like that one it makes me on. especially when there are two guys and 1 women
thy do dusting enjoying every moment noooo serious face its just sex and i love it mmmmmmtwo pipo one hole hahahahah

portcia
10 Jul 2013 14:26

Hi guys, is been a busy day for me today, but i thought i should spare some few moments with my family.
Had a friend who was dusting a man and a woman at the same time, but has now decided to be with woman only,eish the day she told me she was seeing another lady, i was so shoked yoh... and she said they do it with their fingers and tounge, i dont think they uses vibrators couse that is what exactly they are running away from(wors)
And as for mastubating, i never did that before, and a vibrator yoh.... i wont try that and im suer hubby will be so disappointed with me, couse he makes sure he feeds me well, if you know what im saying(stiking my tounge out)

portcia
10 Jul 2013 14:35

Yoyo,congrats sister on your upcoming baby, and dont worry, God have heard your prayers, and i assure you.THIS ONE IS FOR THE KEEPS.

ZIONESS, I am strongly praying for your friend at the moment, and the rest of us are, and being the friend you are, its surely a blessing to her, support her all the way, and sometimes share all the jokes you used to and act normal, couse the is no wost thing, than seeing a sad face and hearing, what happened to you everytime you are around people, that might make her take time to heal, but if she is around people who crack jokes and etc, she might get back to herself again

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 14:38

lol @ portcia definitely know what you're saying ;) i'm also very well-fed ;) ;) but this vibrator thing has always fascinated me but still looking to find a way to bring it up because the last time i tried to introduce something hubby just plain ignored - i went off birth control for a while so we were using condoms, but they always make me so dry then its painfull afterwards (since then found out i'm allergic to latex) so i bought some lubricant to ease things abit, hai that guy just gave it one look tossed it aside and did his own lubrication ;) ;)

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 14:44

Thanks @portcia, luckily she has always been a person with a great sense of humour (that is how she deals with things) but i think it will take a while before she will be her old self....

This dusting topic really helped to take my mind off things coz when i think about what those pigs did i get so angry, i do not know how she will ever trust a man again, or want to get close to one, even i haven't been able to have sex since then but i must say can't wait to get home tonight after this topic ;)

portcia
10 Jul 2013 14:48

it is not only u who gets dry because of condoms, yoh im glad im married, otherwise, what i could have done

portcia
10 Jul 2013 14:51

Yoyos, orata kwae ne!...

Goldi
10 Jul 2013 14:52

Posh sweets i dont think hubby will think that i mean even in the bedroom you need to spice thinks up mos my ex used to get HORNY just by watching me running my fingers all over my body and doing a strip show for him and sometimes he would ask me to touch myself while he watches and you can see nje the reaction yhooooo *memories*

i hear you Zee i'll stick to my imagination then

Kera
10 Jul 2013 14:53

@Zioness you really are the queen of dusting * hide under my desk*

But who is not the queen of dusting  LOL?

portcia
10 Jul 2013 14:58

Im sure it must have been tough for you, and thank God you have a man who understand, what you were going through,so tonight is the night, you will show your husband, what you are made of.

My cousin was raped at a young age by her step dad, he got arrested, but till today she cant stand no man, she is dating another girl, and they are planning of getting married.

portcia
10 Jul 2013 15:01

Everyone is the queen of dusting, yoh the ideas of stripping just make me wanna go wild tonight, yoh is been a while.

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 15:13

*blushing for dayyyyyys* @ Kera ;)

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 15:18

I agree @portcia there lurks a sex godess in all of us, just let her out shem...

W.r.t ur cousin, i am glad that she found happiness and love after that ordeal, but one has to ask whether she would've made the same choices if her stepmonster didn't rob her of her ability to probably have an 'untainted' relationship with men... I don't want hate to consume my heart but sometimes I think that these bastards penises must just be cut off, then they must be thrown in a dungeon for ever...

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 15:20

@Goldie for all my talk that is one thing I have never been able to do - touch myself in front of him, i've always  wanted too to see his reaction but my sex goddess also isn't 100% out i guess

@Zioness
10 Jul 2013 15:31

I'm signing off beautiful women of Mzansi, till tomoro and thank you for today and good luck with your 'endeavours' tonight ;)

portcia
10 Jul 2013 15:38

I think when she was raped, she was like 12 and at the age of 10 she used to have a crush on the guy next door, but he was like 15, so it was so impossible for them back then, but ja.. i still think that's the reason she is with the other girl at the moment, and they have been together for about 4 years, and whenever the is a family something( weddings, funerals, reunions) she is always there with her.
and she did dated some few guys before this girl but nothing ever lasted than this one.

portcia
10 Jul 2013 15:42

I have this bad habit, of streaching my legs open, everytime i go to bed, and i sruggle to sleep when i am at someone elses house

Bk212303
10 Jul 2013 15:51

@portcia heee?? opening yr legs?

Bye Zioness

Ntaksay
10 Jul 2013 15:56

Bye Zioness

Goldie are you saying that Caleb could be behind Mzwanele's death/disappearance. (So i am thinking like father like daughter, knowing nothing about loyalty and betraying those that care. So maybe ke mo Sbu a tlo mmolella hore u are a traitor like your father. )

yoyozz
10 Jul 2013 16:00

porcia thanx love



Yoyos, orata kwae ne!...

i love sex thats me i dont mind dusting everyday.

yhoooo i hate inkukhu hope no one is gonna hold inkukhu tonight after this topic everyone need a long nice round if you knw wat im talking abt. im not saying go and cheat please stay with ur nkukhu u will never enjoy sex
8:00 hes touching you
8:02 hes entering you
8 :04 hes streaming oooooh bby im going to come
8 :05 eeeeeeeeeee mxm short round ever ndingafa
8:06 hes sleeping already rhooooooo he left you wet and horney and you wish u can stream and call any guy to dust you hard bt you dont have a choice just wipe yourself and sleeping EVERYDAY THATS UR LIFE SAD IN DAYS

portcia
10 Jul 2013 16:01

Ja BK, i guess i am so used to dusting,bad neh?

portcia
10 Jul 2013 16:05

yoyozz, yoh, it will take me forever to sleep in a situation like that, wake the bustard up,get youe thing and leave him hanging like he did to you.

Yoh no nkukhu,no!..

Goldi
10 Jul 2013 16:05

Ntaksay not Caleb but Mzwanele and Akhona, S'buda will say those words to Akhona cos even her dad *Mzwanele* was a traitor

Bye Zee will tell you tomorrow how did it go ne or if it's going to happen will see how's my mood b4 i go to bed *smiling*

lol Posh you just made me laugh out loud and here in da office they think me i'm mad/crazy laughing with my computer i can just picture you now u gota love this house  

portcia
10 Jul 2013 16:25

Good people this is me signing off, more es nog a dag

Mimibob
10 Jul 2013 18:17

I'm in some serious traffic jam. Its dark and raining with lightning. Motorists decided to ignore traffic lights - the busiest by the way, in town- and gave themselves right of way. There now seems to be no way out. Cars "intertwined' - in lack of a better word. I even have time to text.. Where are the cops!?

Mimibob
10 Jul 2013 20:49

@Yoyo, what's inkukhu?

Goldi
10 Jul 2013 21:44

Mims hope u r home safe now baby girl ne good night

Mimibob
10 Jul 2013 22:18

@Goldi, I'm  home safe. Thanx dear. Good night.

Mimibob
10 Jul 2013 22:30

There's only so many songs
That I can sing to pass the time
And I'm runnin' out of things
To do to get you off my mind
All I have is this picture in a frame
That I hold close to see your face everyday

With you is where I'd rather be
But we're stuck where we are
It's so hard, you're so far
This long distance is killin' me
I wish that you are here with me
But we're stuck where we are
It's so hard, you're so far
This long distance is killin' me

*Singing with my one in mind*

Bk212303
11 Jul 2013 08:40

Morning hey Mimi i love that Brandy song. No inkukhu for me yoyos.

Kera
11 Jul 2013 08:49

Morning bo ma lovies
@Mimi inkukhu ke kgogo(chicken)
So u were  thinking abt your one last nite ( i love dat song)

Goldi
11 Jul 2013 08:50

Morning Family 

i love that song Mims, who does it remind you of? did know you are in a long distant relationship i dont think i can survive hey!!

shaidin
11 Jul 2013 08:56

Good morning!!!.bahlobo bam abahle heey jst got to the doctor yestrday i was told that my child is a boy whoooooo i was so happy

mahumani
11 Jul 2013 09:31

Good morning vo my lovie? here is a topic is it true that blowjobs can give us some diaseses. pls help because I luv blowjob more than anything it keeps me smiling always even thou I'm a evers smiling girl that day I will smile to anything when my man has given me that blow job.

Mimibob
11 Jul 2013 09:42

@Goldi, ya, it's a long distance relationship. I never thought I'd ever be in one also. He is a special man, so I'll give us a chance.

Mimibob
11 Jul 2013 09:47

@Kera, if inkukhu is chicken, please explain Yoyo's post in relation to sex.

Goldi
11 Jul 2013 09:54

WOW! sweet Mims myb lenna one day if tha person means a lot will give it a try well wish you all the best :) 

Well Mahumani i'm not sure i just went to google hope it will answer your question

I want to know whether oral sex (penis to mouth or mouth to vagina contact) can cause transmission of any sexual disease, including AIDS.

Answer
Yes, oral sex – just like any other form of sex – can transmit germs.

It quite commonly transmits gonorrhoea and herpes.

The question of AIDS is more difficult. There is a theoretical risk of contracting the HIV virus through oral sex, if, for example, there is a cut or abrasion in the mouth which would enable the virus to enter the bloodstream.

There a re been a handful of anecdotal reports of individuals contracting HIV this way, but there has been no way of proving conclusively that it was through oral sex that they contracted it.

However, there have been several large scale studies which have looked at this question and they have not found anyone who has contracted HIV through oral sex.

So unfortunately the situation remains unclear, and the Department of Health’s advice is to assume always that there may be some danger of catching HIV through oral sex.



Goldi
11 Jul 2013 10:01

Here's another one

The same epithelial cells in your vagina are in your mouth, you most definitely can get a STD from oral sex. That is for men and for women, homosexual and heterosexual. And more importantly most STD's in men usually don't have any apparent symptoms. They may have disease I not even know it and because the cells in your mouth are not keratinized it makes it easy for you to contract a disease. You'll never know if he's clean difinitively unless you both go and get tested.

tjoooo who have thougth haai nothing is safe these day yhooooo

Ntaksay
11 Jul 2013 10:11

Good morning good people.

Thanks Goldi for clarifying the traitor confusion.

Ntaksay
11 Jul 2013 10:15

Sbuda does not want to believe that Akhona betrayed his trust.

JB please keep going to that traditional healer, he is close to uncovering the truth. Next time you go, take Jason with you.
The look on Phenyo's face when JB said the traditional healer said Sbusiso was betrayed by someone close to him.

laleli
11 Jul 2013 10:16

Morning Family
shaidin congratulations , all the best with your pregnancy

Goldi
11 Jul 2013 10:30

It's my pleasure Ntaksay

Yhoo i saw he's look (Phenyo) mmmmm i wish he could be caught and soon shem S'buda loves Akhona to that sense that she would never do such a thing since she's so innocent she cant even harm a fly

Jason will catch on fast he's clever that men of mine hihihihihi

Kera
11 Jul 2013 10:40

@Mimi she refers to a man how comes very quicly and he you are still high and in the mood i hope it make sense 

8:00 hes touching you
8:02 hes entering you
8 :04 hes streaming oooooh bby im going to come
8 :05 eeeeeeeeeee mxm short round ever ndingafa(i will die)
8:06 hes sleeping already rhooooooo he left you wet and horney and you wish u can stream and call any guy to dust you hard bt you dont have a choice just wipe yourself and sleeping

NoMdazB
11 Jul 2013 11:12

Morning all. @mims I think Yoyozz is talking about what I call 2minute noodles. If you've seen chickens dust, they probably don't last over 3 minutes. Sex should not take such a short time, women generally take much longer to come. Cos then he'll leave when you are getting into the swing of things. My Mr big Ding dong was the opposite. He took forever. I called him Umngqusho(samp and beans) because he took so long it felt like we were cooking Umngqusho. And don't forget he had a massive dick! I was so relieved when I finally left him. I'm surprised I didn't need stitching.

Mimibob
11 Jul 2013 11:24

Thanks Kera and Nomdazb. @ Nomd, I haven't seen chicken dust, I only see chicken in the fridge.. *hides*... Ok, just kidding...

NoMdazB
11 Jul 2013 11:28

Oh it's fast and furious Mims.

laleli
11 Jul 2013 12:01

@NoM umngqusho heeeeeeeee dead for days

I have never tasted the big Dig but hey experienced the worse my ex used to come before i could even taste the dig he he he early ejaculation is kak

semtho
11 Jul 2013 12:07

Morning mabloggers ngaze ngahleka as for *Chicken dust* i really dont like it. There was one time i was abt to climax and then nya the game was over, when he went to the bathroom, i took a pillow and finished what he hadnt finished.

yoyozz
11 Jul 2013 12:14

laleli

he he early ejaculation is kak
lol heeeeeeeeeee
semtho

i took a pillow and finished what he hadnt finished.

kwaaaaaa a pillow yhoooooo

good day ey today im busy shuu

WWW
11 Jul 2013 12:48

Morning pals..long tym neh..hope everyone is fyn and welcome all the new members. @yoyoz congratulations on ur pregnancy my dear dont stress so much, this tym around God will answer ur prayers u are going to be a mother dear and a great one for that matter, we are all praying for you dear..sorry for late response. @shaidin  congratulations for a baby boy on the way..gase ka di baby shower..this tym reya godi kopanela at one place...ko flateng yaga Choppa not ko Rubys as always..Goldi le Isabel ke di MC..Khubone le nna retla bo rele ko gateng/entrance so that we wont have gatecrashers..NomdazB le Ruby bako catering, BK le Queen ba amogela di present, Mims,Ntaksay,Khetiwe,laleli,akhona,portcia entarteinas(sp),dancers...

Ntaksay
11 Jul 2013 13:26

Mims,Ntaksay,Khetiwe,laleli,akhona,portcia entarteinas(sp),dancers

Prepare yourselves with the best entertainment. But can we please excuse Khethiwe she is going to spoil everything by phuzaring too much, LOL

Mimibob
11 Jul 2013 13:45

@www, entertain we shall! Looking forward to the shower..

Goldi
11 Jul 2013 13:48

lol Ntaksay you took the words out of my mouth hahahahahaha we sure gona have fun me n Bella kikikikikikiki looking 4rwad

Bk212303
11 Jul 2013 14:06

BK le Queen ba amogela di present,

@www. translate plzzzzzzz must i bring present of what?

portcia
11 Jul 2013 14:10

Good day guys, WWW, Why rona rele di dancers? yoh... i cant dance unless Khethi gives me a little something from her medicine, but only a little.

Guys we have been mouning at work, one of my colleague was having a pregnant wife who was due yesterday but unfotunately the baby passed on yesterday, so it has been a sad day for us.

portcia
11 Jul 2013 14:13

BK, i think she is saying the present for the unborn baby, like clothes, prima's etc

yoyozz
11 Jul 2013 14:35

porcia
shoooo im sorry for your colleague why did the baby died is there anything they did wrong in hospital. everyone is gonna ask her HOWS THE BABY fanele a explain yhoooo God this is difficulty.

www thnx my love

portcia
11 Jul 2013 14:51

Everything was fine during the pregnancy, couse her husband used to discuss with us everything when ever they visit the doctor, and we were all expecting good news today, but hey he came and pass by my office and then BOOM, shame the poor guy couldnt even hold himself, and this couple is still newly weeds. i didnt even get a chance to ask him how did it happen, so im not sure if it was still born, or he passed on after birth

Ntaksay
11 Jul 2013 14:53

BK le Queen ba amogela di present, you will be on the presents department, getting presents from us and keeping them safe. (I think that's what she is saying)

Ntaksay
11 Jul 2013 14:54

Condolences to your colleague and her wife Portcia.

WWW
11 Jul 2013 15:10

Sorry to hear abt ur colleague's loss Portcia..YAH BK Ntaksay explained, you will be recieving presents my dear..

Ntaksay
11 Jul 2013 15:22

have you guys ever saw a bon-jovi of an orstrich.

It's huge like a horse's

Ntaksay
11 Jul 2013 15:27

Goldi you asked for Muvhango's update, and I updated you kodwa awubonganga *sad*

Kera
11 Jul 2013 15:31

Condolences to your collegue Portcia

Ntaksay
11 Jul 2013 15:31

I won't be online tomorrow. I will be preparing for my 16th birthday party.

YOU ARE ALL WELCOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I Will sms you the venue and directions.  No alcohol for Zee this time.

market
11 Jul 2013 15:35

kwaaa kwaaa"i took a pillow and finished what he hadnt finished" just buy a vitrate problem solve.

Nongo
11 Jul 2013 15:37

good day fam.

congrats yoyo en Shaid, we going to have fun in planning for 2 baby showers, great.
aye @BK i dont know sizulu but i give a bit of a try but wena o worse in setswana, i want to hook u with sum1 who will teach setswana, easily done on the pillow  le ndoda *hiding en closing my eyes for anything that will hit me*

portcia
11 Jul 2013 15:39

Thank you all guys, i will make sure i past them on.

Ntaksay who's 16th birthdat party? yoh....., ha o batle ho tsofala.

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaa... did you see the bon- jovi of an osrtich?

Bk212303
11 Jul 2013 16:33

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

cerebos
11 Jul 2013 17:32

Yo yo yo. Dusting is loved here. Some even know things for ostriches, yo

cerebos
11 Jul 2013 17:32

Yo yo yo. Dusting is loved here. Some even know things for ostriches, yo

Goldi
12 Jul 2013 08:06

Morning guy Happy Friday Ya'll 

Ntaksay Sthandwa ngiyaxolisa never got a chance to go there i'm sorry love

Posh babe condolences to you buddy @ work and he's wife

@Cerebos Dusting is the most not likely topic to bring us together *smiling*

Ntaksay heeeee 16th birthday mmmm ok lala enjoy!!

@Zioness
12 Jul 2013 08:14

Morning fam, wasn't online yesterday but sure, missed y'all :) Yooo but you ppls can make me laugh -  "Umngqusho" and "Chicken dust" - the opposites of dusting lol.. Congrats Shai on your baby boy!!! promise I won't pull a Khetiwe on you at the baby shower :P @ Ntaksay

GEN: WTH is wrong with Khetiwe???? That woman has lost al her marbles, hai hai

Bk212303
12 Jul 2013 08:30

Molweeeni nonke, hey didnt watch yesterday can i get an update plz.

portcia
12 Jul 2013 08:47

Morning to you all and happy friday,
Diint watch Gen yesterday, what happened to Khethiwe and the gun that he bought, was it real or a toy? couse i cant help feeling that those guys gave him a toy.
Happy 16th birthday to Ntaksay

Kera
12 Jul 2013 09:02

Morning family

Ai ai ai Khethi what have you done?

market
12 Jul 2013 09:22

Mornng good family
tjo imihlola let hope dat bullet didn't hit mpilo,you are a  drunker ngempela ne!pls get help before its to late.

vuxy
12 Jul 2013 09:30

market
12 Jul 2013 09:35

Nongo
12 Jul 2013 09:58

Lecturer  explains marketing to
his students:

1. You see a Gorgeous Girl at a party.You
go up to
her and say: “I am very rich. Marry me!” -
That’s Direct Marketing.

2. You are at a party with a bunch of
friends and
see a Gorgeous Girl.
One of your friends
goes up to her and pointing at you says:
“He’s very rich. Marry him!” – That’s
Advertising.

3. You are at a party and see a Gorgeous
Girl. She
walks up to you and says: “You are very rich! Can I
marry you?” - That’s Brand Recognition.

4. You see a Gorgeous
Girl at a party. You go to her and say: “I
am very
rich. Marry me!” She gives you a nice hard slap on
your face. - That’s Customer Feedback.

5. You see a Gorgeous
Girl at a party. You go to her and say: “I
am very
rich. Marry me!” And she introduces you to her
husband. - That’s Demand and Supply
Gap

6. You see a Gorgeous
Girl at a party. You go to her and before
you say: “I m rich, Marry me!”, your wife arrives. –
That’s
Restriction for Entering New Markets

True or false?

Goldi
12 Jul 2013 10:07

lol Nongo that's true hihihihihihihi

i dont think the bullet hit Mpilo you know how tv is wanting us to think she's shot Mpilo is this is not a wake up call for Khethiwe i dont know what is BLOODY DRUNKARD SIES!!

MsibiNS
12 Jul 2013 10:36

Aih Aih khethiwe we tired of her naye she must get a life, i don't think that bullet hit Mpilo nah....Sbu wont get bail and i don't think he will escape this one especially now that he still does not belive that Akhona set her up mmmmmm, Noluntu ...hai hai naye Y lie to Akhona after Phenyo told her where her mom is still saying ANDAZI mmmxmxmxmxmx i guess Mfundi is working on making her pay as well....wuuuu and Senzo panicing as a women tltltltltltltltlll Jaso is also very slow hey and yet he is capable/.....wola Jabulani.... they will pay

Taka
12 Jul 2013 11:20

SiyaLi
12 Jul 2013 11:49

Morning Family...hwz it today? Its my birthday today guys!

laleli
12 Jul 2013 11:56

Please someone update us with yesterday episode

Siyali Happy happy birthday  sister

Bk212303
12 Jul 2013 12:27

Happy b-day SiyaLi, where is everyone today?
Im going to Gwigza tonite cause its not safe at Siqalo.

portcia
12 Jul 2013 12:43

Happy birthday SiyaLi, hope you can see many more years to come, i will be at Tsalanang

Goldi
12 Jul 2013 13:36

Happy birthday Siya may you get DUSTED to your satisfaction and dedicate to last roung in my honor *straight face*

BK i'll join you darling it's friday anyway what business to have to do e Sqalo nalo hlanya lo mama lobathi wu KHETHIWE mxxxxxm 

THE HOUSE IS QUIET TODAY TJOOOOO!!

yoyozz
12 Jul 2013 13:54

happy b siyali

im not joining you ladies tomorrow i will be here working phofu today im doing nothing this is kaka serious or they are trying to sore points masende abo.

Kera
12 Jul 2013 14:00

Happy birthday SiyaLi may the good Lord bless you on your birthday and every day of your life may you see many more to come

tiara
12 Jul 2013 15:48

hello every1 im new here

coatylee
12 Jul 2013 22:38

Hey guys am sorry for my disappearance I got lost somewhere

coatylee
12 Jul 2013 22:38

Hey guys am sorry for my disappearance I got lost somewhere

Mimibob
13 Jul 2013 13:18

Welcome Tiara and Coatylee. Hi guys. I just realized how dependent I am on electricity. I have no power since yesterday - some fault apparently. I haven't eaten, I haven't bathed, my gadgets need charging, no heater, no tv.. I think I must get myself a gas stove. I can't even go out because I have to wait for the maintenance guys to come fix the problem, and I wasn't given time.. Someone please bring me food.. These guys better come today. Monday and Tuesday are holidays in Bots.. I can't be without power that long..

Munchie bbz
14 Jul 2013 00:11

Hi gud pple, m new here n wsh 2 b part of u

NoMdazB
14 Jul 2013 13:07

happy Sunday all. Have a nice afternoon. Welcome @Munchie

Ntaksay
14 Jul 2013 21:58

Good night zihlobo zenene

Ntaksay
15 Jul 2013 08:32

Good morning everyone

Hope you all had a lovely Weekend.

Have a blessed week my dearest family.

portcia
15 Jul 2013 08:33

Good morning to you all, welcome Munchie and tiara,
My brother just had a baby boy, though my collegue just loss his, dont know if i should tell him when he comes back to work, maybe me telling him will bring back all the pains to him, but he knows that my brother is expecting a baby, i really dont know what to do, or maybe i should wait for him to ask first.

Mimibob, at least when your electricity get fixed you will get to watch your tv and take a good bath, as for me, we are having this electric fault, that has just cost me my tv and decorder, and i had to bath with cold water this morning, and as for bathing with cold water it has been an on going thing, couse this guys they just do the touch ups, and this goes up to all of my neigbours, some also had their tv's broken or the radios, those who survived are the ones who didnt switch on their appliances. yoh guys sorry for moaning, im just upset, couse it means i shall have to wait for a month before i get my tv fixed, as you know the procedure.

Goldi
15 Jul 2013 08:56

Morning family happy Monday

welcome Munchie and tiara feel free this is home, thanks Ntaksay same to you @ Posh i think you should let him ask dont tell him it's still fresh *he's loss* so he might not take it lighly wabo,,,,,,,,

portcia
15 Jul 2013 09:24

I have to agree with you Goldi, i'll wait for him to ask, Guys has anybody seen Olothando? its been a while since we heard from her.

portcia
15 Jul 2013 09:36

yoyozz, my friend please update me on Isibaya, as i have adresed my problem, i will check on Isibaya site to view your updates, thanks........ in advance.

yoyozz
15 Jul 2013 09:38

welcome new blogers

portcia he going to be strong he doesnt have a choice, u can tell him or wait for him to ask. i remember when i lost my baby i was sitting home the whole week when i come back it was a baby shower for one of our col. so had to go buy clothes for her baby and also attend her baby shower. it was difficulty but i tried bcoz i didnt want to stand in front of everyones happiness. feeling sorry for yourself wont help, you have to be strong and knw everything happened for a good reason and  god knows. he wont forget about it, but he must try not to think about it. ndibhala kakubi le whitch indibhekile

portcia
15 Jul 2013 09:41

Guys lei patile ko kae? or lenale babalas?
Please come out from whereever you are hiding, iyo... you cant let a girl to be alone on a blue monday, Goldi and Ntaksay were here but they have dissapared like smoke into thin air

portcia
15 Jul 2013 09:49

Which WHITCH is that yoyozz my friend? i know every company has a whitch, fortunately for me, she is upstairs and i am downstairs.
It was difficult for you but i am proud of you for attending that baby shower, even if it killed you but you stood up high, but some people reacts different, and i dont want to hurt him( ke bo abuti ba soft) if you know what i mean

Goldi
15 Jul 2013 10:11

Hey Posh i'm here girl 4rnd even tho i'm not having such a good morning

Yoyo yours it's different darling you had no choice but to attend cos it was @ your work place but with Posh it's her brother and i dont think they work together i still stand to be corrected.....i'm sorry what you had to go through Yoyo but such is life kennete Posh we mourn in a differernt way and react differently to situations

shaidin
15 Jul 2013 10:17

morning my guud fimaly!!!i hope and bilieve that you had a enjoyable weeknd iyooo i can't take this anymo this preggie makes me feel tired all the time whooo wish i could take it out and i will take it back later eeiii is too heavy @portcia we are here baby girl with you whhoooo it just that some of us re lumile ke notsi but heey don't forget that there is no place like hommme hey!! 

portcia
15 Jul 2013 10:20

Hey Goldi, i think your right, i should wait, and what makes matters worse is that my collegue was also expecting a baby boy, and telling him that my brother had a baby boy would kill him. anyway was wrong with your Morning?

portcia
15 Jul 2013 10:24

shaidin, girl sesotho sere tlou hae sitwe ke morwalo wa yona lol..... i like the feeling of bein pregnant but not to deliver iyoh......

NoMdazB
15 Jul 2013 10:28

Hello everyone. I was was confirmed as a fully-fledged member at my old church yesterday. I must say, it felt like I had come home.

morwa26
15 Jul 2013 10:29

i wish Ngamla finds out who is behind all this, Phenyo is not real Dlomo, you don't sell family because of power

cerebos
15 Jul 2013 10:44

Malum jablane's herbalist will bribg phenyo down

yoyozz
15 Jul 2013 10:45

guys have you ever see a dead body in a coffine, funeral or anywhere. ey i cant sleep at night ndiyosaba

new star on generations on sowetan anyone heard abt that

anjemla
15 Jul 2013 10:57

I hate Noluntu.

Mimibob
15 Jul 2013 11:40

Morning guys. I woke up at 9 to watch Gens repeat then remembered I don't have SABCs.. Went back to bed. Just got up.. Sorry about your tv Portcia..

Mimibob
15 Jul 2013 11:49

@Yoyo, guys have you ever see a dead body in a coffine, funeral or anywhere. ey i cant sleep at night ndiyosaba
I have seen dead bodies in coffins, many times. i was only scared to look at my first love's funeral, but looked anyway.

I also saw a lady from church after being hit by a car and died on the sport. I always took her home because we stayed in the same hood, but didnt that day because I was driving a van and she decided to take public transport. She was hit while crossing the road and I was reversing my car. I had to be strong for the sister who was with her. I didnt cry. Had to pick up her staff; hand bag, shoes, phones.. that were scattered all over, call 911, etc...

Ntaksay
15 Jul 2013 12:06

How far are you Shaidin?????????
You are strong Mimibob. Sorry about the SABC, we'll try to update you whenever we can.

Bk212303
15 Jul 2013 12:48

Hi everyone howzit? Yho what a babalas monday sukaa.
My frnd is on 4weeks leave how nice is that. People i just couldnt help myself but burst and laugh at what yoyos wrote its something...masendabo and the other one i cant write nicely cause the witch is watching me lol kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak

@mimibob whoow thats horible u had to pick up her belongings and i know the eye will look and look until it gets the biger pic yhoo i can imagine how u also felt and thinking if i gave her the lift etc but anyway it was no ones fault.

yoyozz
15 Jul 2013 12:50

updates sat episode

sibusiso was trying to escape and hit buy a car hes in a critical condition in hospital. phenyo bought all the ezweni shares. khuboni and khethiwe get married to proctect mpilo. queen and choppa get drunk and they were found by MJ sleeping together in choppas room and used condoms found in that room. noluntus pregnancy test come positive 3 weeks preg with phenyos baby. jason saw an sms in phenyos phone form noluntu telling him about pregnancy. mawande is back after recieving news that sibusiso is in hospital and she tought sibusiso cant hear her, she told him how much she love him. sharon is back pregnant samuel father is the father of the child. akhona and sello were kissing each other when mj saw them. dineo after she heard about noluntus pregnancy she took the car and drive home and rubby was not home xolani was there waiting for rubby when she saw dineo crying and tried to comfort her. ruby saw dineo and xolani in bed. jabulani and maudi back together

Ntaksay
15 Jul 2013 12:55

That would a killer Yoyo, that would really up their viewers. Very interesting.

Mimibob
15 Jul 2013 13:36

Lol... Yoyo, you really are crazy!

Bk212303
15 Jul 2013 15:08

kwaaaaaaaaaaak yoyos

Friend
15 Jul 2013 15:27

"new star on generations on sowetan anyone heard abt that" Yep, Carmel Fischer in polygamous marriage, something to do Luthuli Dlamini bla bla

Friend
15 Jul 2013 15:35

Oops, where are my manners, Helloooooo family (shouting at the top of my voice with both hands and feet in the air, smiling.

shaidin
15 Jul 2013 16:07

PORTCIA what is happening during delievery???????it is it that painful??please tel me @ntaksay i m 8 months now baby girl whooo i m fat i hate my self like this.whooo i made a promise to my self that i will never be preggie again iyoo no way,i don't like wearing size 38 no way my normal size is 32 i wish i could drink some thing to loose the weight.

Bk212303
15 Jul 2013 16:27

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

available
15 Jul 2013 22:00

UPDATE AUGUST Mpilos new foster mother is revealed and Mawande arrives home, much to the shock of her children. Ezweni becomes a boxing arena as two scorned ladies face off, and Noluntu reveals the real reason Sibusiso went after Glen. Phenyo reaches out to his broken-hearted wife but Dineo decides to move in with her mother. Scotts disgusted that his brother could be capable of such crimes, Dineo rage towards Phenyo leaves him in hospital, and Queens gambling addioction gets out of hand when she has to resort to desperate measures to fund her habit. And Isabels prospects of a wonderful dinner date end up with a nasty surprise. September follows as;

available
15 Jul 2013 22:06

SEPTEMBER Dineo has to face her demons in front of the Dlomo and Tlhaole Family-its time to face the truth, but instead of being honest, she continues to lie about being pregnant. Dineo even goes so far as to cover up while there's a ceremony being performed by the families. desperate , her solution is to get Zimbini on board. with Mawande gone, there's no one to stop MJ from making some very bad decisions, including proposing to the wrong woman and, in the process, destroying the best relationship that hes ever had. And Akhona and Nicholas get back together.

available
15 Jul 2013 22:09

thats your major scoops on what will happen in August and September. i did see Ngamla's name anywhere.

available
15 Jul 2013 22:20

@Friend- the guy will be playing Scott Nomvete, Nicholas' long lost uncle.

Mimibob
16 Jul 2013 00:34

Ijo Available.. August and September updates already? Good night guys.

Bk212303
16 Jul 2013 08:31

Molweni Available where did u get the scoop? Yhoo hectic uDeneo again ......pregies story shame . U did not c sbuda

Memez
16 Jul 2013 09:21

Hayi guys Generations should now be called Dlomorations. Everything these days seems to be about just them. The scriptwriter is too focused on them and is spending less time on the other characters who are still trying to discover their full potential

Ntaksay
16 Jul 2013 09:21

Good morning mabloggers.

Where did you get these scoops??????????????
They are interesting.

Goldi
16 Jul 2013 09:22

Morning guyz 

Availble welcome back and where did you get these Scoop? Dineo must just forget about becoming Preggies haai maan she's so obsessed it's not sexy

gegelegege
16 Jul 2013 09:22

Morning mabloggers, eish ukhetiwe umgulukudu for real wambona ukhuboni!!!!

Mimibob
16 Jul 2013 09:29

Morning guys. Malome Vusi hasn't been well for a couple of days now. I hope he doesn't kill me for announcing it, but please stand with me in prayer for his speedy recovery. Please don't call him if you have his dials, otherwise I'm Braai.. He is not taking calls.

Kera
16 Jul 2013 09:33

A very good morning to you all family * waving passing by*

Ntaksay
16 Jul 2013 09:37

Get better soon MalumeVusiK.
Hi Kera

yoyozz
16 Jul 2013 09:47

hayi hayi hayi not again dineo. we want to see dineo with her child happy this is buuu *bleep!* marn she cant continue loosing babies like that WTF.

molweni bo

generations is like 7de laan killing babies nxa.

GENERATION IS BORING MARN wat are we going to do with nicholas uncle we dont want him nxa we never heard abt him. fokof marn

yoyozz
16 Jul 2013 10:01

MJ married whos gonna marry mamas baby hes not a husband material we are tired of watching imitshato evuzayo, you are teaching amadoda ethu to cheat marn.

Mimibob
16 Jul 2013 10:28

Lol... Yoyo, you are really taking all these to heart. Keep the posts coming, and updates.. I'm bored at home.

Goldi
16 Jul 2013 11:10

Hey MimiK thanks for sharing darling will keep him in our prayers anyway i called him last night he's getting better no worries lala *gigling* 

hope you get better Vusi wishing you a speedy recovery 

Hey Kera, Yoyo I can just picture you hahahahaha khokho umoya sisi

Mimibob
16 Jul 2013 11:10

Thanks Ntaksay. He is feeling much better now. Gegelegege, welcome back..

Mimibob
16 Jul 2013 11:16

Hey Goldi, lol at the giggles...

Goldi
16 Jul 2013 11:59

*Smiling*

Mimibob
16 Jul 2013 12:05

Where is everyone when I need the Gen company? My work laptop is staring at me and I'm ignoring it.. Updates anyone?
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Things we do! I'm feeling sooooo stupid right now I could kick myself! I guess stupidity happens to the best of us.

Kandyfloss
16 Jul 2013 13:10

gooday guys.. Am not new but just welcome me.. I missed you so much.. Am happy a lot havnt changed. Goldi and Yoyo still crazy, Mimi still a late night blogger.. HOW ARE YOU???

Ntaksay
16 Jul 2013 13:10

What makes you feel stupid Mimibob????????????
I will update later, I'm a little busy at the  moment.

Ntaksay
16 Jul 2013 13:13

Welcome Kandyfloss. long time indeed, but it's good to hear from you every now and  then.

Where is everyone??????????????

Kandyfloss
16 Jul 2013 13:17

Mimi please share your story... Anyone residing in mafikeng or zeerust, please i need someone to buy a multichoice set for me. Am in bots

Kandyfloss
16 Jul 2013 13:19

Hello Ntaks thanks darling..

shaidin
16 Jul 2013 13:20

@PORTCIA where are you??????stil waiting for the reply?

Munchie bbz
16 Jul 2013 13:25

Hi gud pple, my thnx 2 NoMdazB, Portcia n Goldi 4 d worm welcome, i thnk b4 we call it justice, Noluntu must join Dlomo,

portcia
16 Jul 2013 13:25

Hello everyone,and a speedy recovery for uncle Vusi.
Mamibob im here, my darling

Available where did you get all the scoop?

portcia
16 Jul 2013 13:34

Sorry shaidin, i didnt mean to scare you, labour pains are the one that are soo painful, but delivering is not painful, just do what they tell you to do, push when they say push, and remember to breath in and out,and a peace of advice, when having pains dont drink cold water rather drink warm water, that way it makes go to labour quikly

Mimibob
16 Jul 2013 14:09

Welcome Kandyfloss.. Longtime indeed..

@Kandy and Ntaksay, I'm over feeling stupid already. Fortunately I have this ability to get over things Fast! if I choose to.

Will patiently wait for the update Ntaksay.

portcia
16 Jul 2013 14:15

Mimibob while you are waiting for the updates why not let us in to why you felt stupit

market
16 Jul 2013 14:46

goodday
it is nice to be part of this family,im not new but i always read you comment everyday.

Goldi
16 Jul 2013 14:51

Hey Kandy *waving so high* ohh i missed darling welcome back sweets MimiK talk to us ke eng or you scared gore Hubby will see the things you do?? bua mang hao kante ke eng you cant just say you feel stupid wen asked you say u get over things so quick no ways lala come out of it we share we are a family

Goldi
16 Jul 2013 14:58

Welcome Market we have a lot of those shem that come out of the closet hihihihihih we are family darling so just make yourself comfy :) glad to have you

Modern Chik
16 Jul 2013 15:07

The house is on fire........I was  not around but I'm back to my family.

 I missed you so much #Blowing kisses to ya'll!!!!

Modern Chik
16 Jul 2013 15:12

Welcome Market

Ntaksay
16 Jul 2013 15:14

I completely forgot about the update, I'm not sure I still remember everything.

Patry and other church ladies went to Khethiwe's flat to pray for her but that did not help because the social worker took Mpilo yesterday. Khuboni phoned Khethiwe to remind her about his money. She said her son has just been taken away he does not have time to deal with him, he said Mpilo is better off without her she is a bad mother and he hopes she never sees him again.

MJ visited Sbusiso in jail he was all angry telling how he turned them against Noluntu blah blah blah, Sbuda asked why is he so angry towards him, he would never hurt Wandi he care about her. MJ said his dad was a better man than Sbusiso, he feels sorry for Christina and Senzo , they are better off without him .

At the real TV shoot Zinhle's dress did not fit her it was way too tight and the zip couldn't go up and Noluntu was so heartless, she said she can wear a jacket to cover her back and the open zip, continued to say she did not know that the photo shoot with fatties would be so hard.

Anyone can add.

Ntaksay
16 Jul 2013 15:30

You are 8mths preggies Shaidin you could give birth anytime moss. Are you still going to work or you chat using your phone?

Don''t worry about labour, it's a surprise to die for *in Uncle Scar's voice*

Bk212303
16 Jul 2013 15:36

Uncle Vusik speeeeedy recovery. I am will be putting u in my prayers. Get well.

Goldi
16 Jul 2013 15:54

BK ubuyaphi seuvela nga back doors?

 Modern Chik are sure you are back for good or just passing by?

B2G: I agree with Khuboni wen he says Mpilo is better off Khethi must sort herself out she's got a drinking problem she must attend the AA classes that's all

shaidin
16 Jul 2013 15:57

Hey ntaksay i just can take this ani more i m too fat and what do you mean when you say it's a surprise to die for????it is very pain ful???whooooo please help i m about to cryyyyy now,yes baby girl i m using my phone i m at home now every thing in body is too heavy,i can't even  remember when last time did i do dusting lol  

Mimibob
16 Jul 2013 16:00

@Portcia, Mimibob while you are waiting for the updates why not let us in to why you felt stupit.
Hey Portia, the updates are now here.. *smiles*

@Goldi, MimiK talk to us ke eng or you scared gore Hubby will see the things you do?? bua mang hao kante ke eng you cant just say you feel stupid wen asked you say u get over things so quick no ways lala come out of it we share we are a family
Lol... You just always make me laugh.. Im not scared "hubby" will see anything. He is actually the one person I can freely tell anything and everything without feeling embarassed. The one person whose chest I want to lie on, even if he is the reason I'm mad..

@Ntaksay, thank you for the updates. I need to get you a thank you gift but not sure what you'd like. Let me know what you'd like me to get you..
Poor Khethi, and Noluntu doesnt change.. Yoh...

portcia
16 Jul 2013 16:03

LOL@ Ntaksay in Uncle Scar's voice, i love the lion king and have a dvd at home always watch it with the kids, and hubby also love it, my favorite one is Timone, now here's a mind teaser

you and i have it
your mother uses your fathers
your aunt uses your uncles
chinese has a short one 
jamie fox also have a short one
shwaznegger has a long one
a married woman gains one
a divoced woman losses one
what am i?

Bk212303
16 Jul 2013 16:06

@Goldi hey grl im here dear dear its just that i was a bit busy with something.
Shaidin what a u stressing about? It is not painful and the fat will go away once u give birth. The suprise Ntaks is refering to is the connection and the feeling for the baby. When the pain starts u just breath in and out and u will be fine. Also avoid cold water or should i say just keep yrself warm all time then all will be well. DONT BE SCARED.

portcia
16 Jul 2013 16:10

shandin girl, stop stressing Eve did this to us,lol........... just kidding babes, let me just say is an experience every woman want to have, and if we all want to have then its a beautiful thing, what happens in labour ward, is hillarious everyone has her story.

Mimibob
16 Jul 2013 16:12

@Portcia, I think it's surname.

portcia
16 Jul 2013 16:20

Mimi i wont say a thing, lets see how other's will do

Ntaksay
16 Jul 2013 16:34

Bye people it's knock off time for me.

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 02:19

I think I'm a time waster. I should get help on this. I'm not yet in bed but haven't done anything constructive the last couple of hours.

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 07:12

@Portcia, waiting for answer... My initial thought was penis, but then you and I don't have it, and not sure of Jamie Fox and Schwazneggar's sizes, and the Chinese of course.

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 07:14

I'm back at work today guys, so will pop in if I find time..

portcia
17 Jul 2013 07:31

Good morning all,
Mamibob you are right my love, is a surname, i just couldnt bare the feeling that i was caught earlier, and i just wanted some other people to try,LOL....

portcia
17 Jul 2013 07:37

Hey guys tell me what do you think of lipor laser, my sister in law has done it and she looks amazing, im also interested, as i have tried the healthy diet thing and some few excercises, but there is no fun bein on diet alone, and my husband says he doesnt need to be on a diet, so please those who have experience please lets share, i am currently size 36, and im afraid that i will be 40 in no time

Modern Chik
17 Jul 2013 08:36

 Good mornign family....great day to ya'll

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 08:53

Good morning to you all, ninjani namhlanje.

shaidin
17 Jul 2013 09:32

Morning my loving fimaly thank you very much 2 all of you who give me advices i love you a lot guys

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 09:36

Morning all. Hey @Portcia I would so love to do that and decrease the size of my thighs. Do you know roughly how much she was charged?

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 09:53

Morning guys ok MimiK I hear i got my answer :)

Ntaksay i'm good babe wena?

Guys have any of you dated a married man knowingly or would you date a married man? if yes or no please support your answer by giving reasons thank you

portcia
17 Jul 2013 09:59

Nomdazb, they charge per session, so it depends on how many sessions you want, you can go to groupon on your internet to find out more, or go to devine ultrasound sculpting, register so that you can get dicount, what i know is that for 10 sessions they charge you R900, but only if you are a groupon member, so it means if your not then you can be charged around R3000,00 of less, they also have spider veins removals for about R250, and they have strechmarks reduction, for about R400, just go to their site to view more.
Eish.. thing we do, in the name of beauty

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 10:10

@Goldi, I have deeply liked a married man before, and he felt the same about me. We couldn't do anything about it because I respect the sanctity of marriage. I just can't do that to another woman. Do share as well Ms Goldi.

portcia
17 Jul 2013 10:12

Goldi, a big NO to me, this person has already sacrifised his life with another woman, and for me to be there it will be just a destruction. Married man has a tendersy of spoilling abomakwapheni, but that doesnt mean he will eventually leave his wife for you, and if that happens, then the wife wont just let it go like that, so ask your self that do you want to be in the cross fire of a desparate wife and a confussed husband?

Bk212303
17 Jul 2013 10:15

Hi all, nqabile Nomdaz.
Nice Size 36

yoyozz
17 Jul 2013 10:16



goldi Guys have any of you dated a married man knowingly or would you date a married man? if yes or no please support your answer by giving reasons thank you

i like to be loved i dont like to be the second choise or come number last in everything. i wont date a married guy coz i know there is 1% chance of  winning him over. he wont leave his wife and kids for me hes just using me for sex. before i date a guy i make sure i know some of the things about him i dont jump on bed with him i ask everything like. is he on a serious relationship,  planning to get married anytime, what do you want form me a serious relationship or sex partner i ask everthing and ask around. that mistake wont happen to me coz im not even on old guys i like 90z they smart, handsum softouching, loving and carring GOOD ON BED etc

Kera
17 Jul 2013 10:20

Morning family 

@ Goldi absolutely no  i dont wanna encourgae cheating ( if you do that knowingly is even worse accept to be second best not ayoba in my books)

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 10:22

I'm around Bk. Just busy. Thanks Portcia

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 10:27

One weekend, the husband is in the bathroom shaving when the kid he hired to mow his lawn, a local kid named Bubba, comes in to pee. The husband slyly looks over and is shocked at how immensely endowed Bubba is. He can't help himself, and asks Bubba what his secret is.

"Well," says Bubba, "every night before I climb into bed with a girl, I whack my penis on the bedpost three times. It works, and it sure impresses the girls!"

The husband was excited at this easy suggestion and decided to try it that very night. So before climbing into bed with his wife, he took out his penis and whacked it three times on the bedpost. His wife, half-asleep, said, "Bubba? Is that you?"

yoyozz
17 Jul 2013 10:33

LOL his wife like fresh meat like me so she decided to nqwamza u bubba nice one

portcia
17 Jul 2013 10:34

Did you get the website Nomdazb?

portcia
17 Jul 2013 10:35

yoyozz, so you like ben 10's?

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 10:38

goldi Guys have any of you dated a married man knowingly or would you date a married man? if yes or no please support your answer by giving reasons thank you

Married man will use you for sex, or will be his stress reliever whenever he and wifey have a fight he will run to you but he will make up with his wife and you will be sidelined until your service are needed again.  If he really loves and leaves his wife for you, he might do it again (leave you for another woman). He made a vouch when he married his wife, don't be a destruction coz you will end up getting hurt. Like Yoyo is saying chance of him leaving his wife are 1% in most cases. Rather not associate yourself with married woman

If he has problems with wifey, he must divorce then come to you.

goldie
17 Jul 2013 10:38

Morning,

@Goldi a big NO, I wud never do it. If I didnt know well that is another story but the minute I find out would break the relationship off. Problem being if children are involved they suffer more cos the father supports the nyatsi moreand they are very demanding and dont care about his family and it wud selfish of me to do this to another woman.My mother once told me never to make a fool or laugh at another woman cos it might just come back to bite me and when the tables turn, it is the worst pain ever u will experience.

Another thing being the other woman is a fancy word for prostitution cos the results are the same, she gives sex and demands money and expensive presents so I wud never degrade myself like that knowingly. **My opinion**

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 10:40

Haven't checked Portcia, still busy pretending to work.

yoyozz
17 Jul 2013 10:49

porcia
yoyozz, so you like ben 10's?

no no not ben10 they are men enough to know what are they doing. i dont teach they teach me and age is just a number its just im older than him thats all.

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 10:58

I see we love topics that have something to do with men. :). When done on this one, lets hear what you like about your man.

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 11:01

Lol @ Yoyo... I somehow just don't like younger guys. Even if they are only a year younger.. Age matters a lot to me.

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 11:09

Thank you Ladies 

i will NEVER date a married man like Yoyo said i dont want to be second best i wana be the only choice *wink* the is no were in hell he's gona leave your wife for you yes you are ryt Mims i respect the vows which were made in the eyes of the lord so it's a NO for me as well, i cant be the other woman i just wana be THEE woman *my ethics and principles*

Marriage is sacred Mims i feel what you are saying can't do that to another woman cos i'm also a woman what goes around comes around :)

portcia
17 Jul 2013 11:28

i also dont like younger guys, but if my friend or family dates a young guy i dont interfere, couse i dont know what happiness does that guy brings to my friend or family

MsibiNS
17 Jul 2013 11:32

i yo yo yo yo yo yo yo, kanti how is Noluntu going to pay yena? meaning u Ngamla will be in prison for the next coming 3mntsh?

portcia
17 Jul 2013 11:32

Anyways i like my man, tall, dack, broad shoulders, nice long legs... ndibala ntoni na? (swinging on my chair)

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 11:33

I've only dated guys who were older than me because it was considered shameful to date younger guys. So I like them much older than me. I would even go as high as 15 or 18 years older. There's something that I love about older men

portcia
17 Jul 2013 11:36

Ntaksay, it seems like we rely on you for the updates, so updates please.....
MsibiNS,what Noluntu has to pay, updates plz......guys.

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 11:40

age doesn't dominate too much to me  hey but in past 2yrs i've been doing only been 10ns shem they keep me on my toes an it feels good cos i'm still very young @ HEART but i wont date one, i have 2 friends whom are getting married well 1 is married and the other is engaged both to ben 10ns AGE IS JUST A NUMBER cos i've seen both it's all about maturity cos you can date a guy whos 5yrs older than you but acts he's SHOE size so ya ke tsona tseo

what i love about my man he makes me feel sooooo special, i feel safe when i am in he's arms he's the best friend i never had he makes me laugh wen i feel, like crying he's smile makes me feel so warm inside even if it's cold outside he's a good MAN  what i love most abt him is the FACT THAT HE LOVES ME *whom i'm still yet to me* deep sigh

portcia
17 Jul 2013 11:44

So what is that you love about older guys? @Nomdazb, and as for me i will not even go as high as ten, my husband is 6 years older than me, and at first i thought it was a disaster to date him i even used to lie about his age. My 31 years old friend is married to a 54 years old man, with kids as old as she is, and i still think is madness, having a child as old as me to call me mamcane, hayi.... but still i wont have a say, couse they are in love, but for me is a no,no

portcia
17 Jul 2013 11:49

Wuuuuu Goldi, i can sence, you are even getting horney just talking about your man, that's a good thing girl...............

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 11:56

Well, Portcia, I wouldn't want someone who was too old and who would seem like he was my father. I am 33 after all so maybe someone in his late 40's would still be acceptable. I like them older because I can talk to them about things. I like the stable, wise mind with a lot of kinkiness still intact. Don't get me wrong, I am naughty and silly but I don't want childishness which a lot of men my age still have. Maybe I want to feel like I'm being taken care of. Could it be because my dad died when I was 6? Do I have daddy issues? Oh Lord!

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 11:57

What I like about my man.. I'll try shorten the list: He understands what he's about - has a stand in life, He is uncompromisingly blunt, Honest, Free spirited, Very smart, Sweet, Is extremely attracted to me, Always wants to dust me, Makes me smile and laugh, Can express his feelings excellently, Doesn't always follow the crowd - has own philosophies, Has a beautiful heart, Loves his family, I trust him, He tolerates me, He can say "I'm sorry", He is crazy. Really crazy!

yoyozz
17 Jul 2013 12:06

yhooo mimibob dust

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 12:13

Hahaaa.., Yoyo, What's that supposed to mean??

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 12:16

ohh how can i forget how GOOD HE IS WEN IT COMES TO DUSTING *shewww*

@ Posh all wishes darling i'm as SINGLE as they COME nana, that's my IMAGINARY MAN hihihihihi
 

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 12:20

Well, there's isn't a lot of good that can be said about my husband. But the sex is quite awesome. He has spoiled me for life. Never again will I tolerate mediocre sex.

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 12:41

Ao Nomd, I'm sure there is some good if you look deep enough and try concentrate less on the negatives. Goldi dear, you will get that man.

portcia
17 Jul 2013 12:51

Hay mimibob, my dear you have all you need in a man,i guess i also have some but not all, my hubby is so talkative and friendly to that extend that some of my friends enjoys his company, and i dont like that, they should learn to draw the line, but no....... they talk about everything, even dusting topics, like if my friend is sick he would suggest she get some dusting and he would also tell them that your friend wont get sick couse i keep the dusting on, even though he wont go deep but still, i dont like it, but i know that's who he is, always try to crack some jokes.
Well rather than that, he is a man of integrity, loves his family, my family, his kids, and boy... he can spoil us rotten, and he is a friend, my best friend and a shoulder to cry on.

He is a very caring man, and he adores me, and dust me everyday like is his last, oh i cant imagine life without my Boo Boo....

portcia
17 Jul 2013 12:55

Nomdazb girl, i think Mimibob is right, think through, and you will see that he is a good man, i mean that's why you are with him right?

laleli
17 Jul 2013 12:55

From 30 years it will be difficult to get a boyfriend that is single and doesn’t have kids is either u go for BEN 10 or compromise for unmarried men with kids or even those that are in a serious relationships

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 13:01

Thanks MimiK i know he's somewhere out there 

Posh i dont like the idea of my friends not knowing when to cross the line no dey must know even hubby have you addressed these feelings with either party?

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 13:05

Honestly, I battle to find any good other than that he loves his kids and his family. He's not horrible, he just disappointed me, a lot. I feel betrayed, humiliated, hurt, ashamed and ridiculed. He was my pride and joy. I would move heaven and earth for him because I believed in him and our marriage. I literally gave up my last cent so he would have food at work. I fought for him and everyone knew they would have to go through me first if they wanted to hurt him. And then he turns around and has a child with a colleague and he's not even sorry about it, while exposing me to diseases. My heart is broken into a million little pieces and nothing he ever does will ever fix it. If I did not have kids I would have left that man already, but, here I am- stuck. So to all the ladies who have affairs with married men, this is how we feel.

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 13:08

I cannot find anything positive because I look at him with hurt eyes and a wounded soul.

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 13:42

(((BIG HUG))) Nomd

can i ask you something?

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 13:54

NomdazB That's sad, are you happy though coz your happiness needs to come first.

Keratile
17 Jul 2013 13:55

@Nomdz....I'm sorry about what you went through. ....do u think it ishealthy to carry so much anger and resentment? I would suggest u forgive your hubby. Forgiveness is something we do to set ourselves free. *my two cents worth*

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 14:00

Sure Goldi. @ Keratile I had actually forgiven him, only to find he's still with this woman after he lied and said he had nothing to do with her anymore. There are others too, including this woman' sister( the messages they send each other are just too intimate to be innocent and I once caught them just sitting and talking but the vibe I got told me something was up)

Bk212303
17 Jul 2013 14:01

Nomdazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

yoyozz
17 Jul 2013 14:04

nomdaz sorry we are you fimaly we love you

but i dont understand why are you still married to him. you are young love enough is enough he will support his kids you must go out and find love. im so touch hope you not crying

Keratile
17 Jul 2013 14:05

@Goldi........I once dated a married man. I only found out after I've been with him for awhile. You know the type who live in Gauteng, the wife works somewhere in North West. I stayed in that relationship thinking I could handle it. Akere, dusting was out of this world and he treated me like a queen but it wasn't something I could do. I felt like a home wrecker. I couldn't do that to another woman - even though I was more of a wife to him more than his real wife

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 14:05

Yebo Bk.

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 14:06

It must be difficult living with him especially if he is not even sorry about his mistake. But begrudging him is not good for you sisi, I will have to agree with Keratile you need to forgive him (It's not easy and does not mean you will forget but it's one way of dealing with the situation) especially since you are just staying with him because of your kids.

Be strong girlfriend!!!!

NoMdazB
17 Jul 2013 14:09

Yoyozz I want to be sure that I gave it everything before I left. I want to tell my kids that I gave them every chance for a normal life before their lives got wrecked. Divorce is very, very hard on kids and I want to be sure that I don't have any what ifs after I go. If I leave I do not want to run back to him.

Kera
17 Jul 2013 14:13

Hai  Nomdaz you are way too good and you have a heart sister all the things that you said they make me wanna cry its too much for someone to go thru

Much love and huggs

steffie
17 Jul 2013 14:15

Hello everyone I don't think I can date a married man because only the naughty ones leave their wives for sidechicks. I want to be loved publicly and be able to hold hands with him, not having to always look on my shoulders.

Bk212303
17 Jul 2013 14:18

Nomdaz i sent pm to u.

Keratile
17 Jul 2013 14:18

Ouch! Nomdaz, that's hectic. I'm speechless. If u find it hard to resist the dusting - would you please insist on condoms? You don't want your children to be orphaned by the choices their parents made (especiialy their father)

yoyozz
17 Jul 2013 14:26

nomdaz as long you know we are your fimaly and we wont cheat to you everytime you feel like crying come hear. we are going to support you and make you feel like home. we wont judge you everything you do now you do it for the future of your kids one day they gonna understand that. but we dont like it when you hurt and we are too far to give you a hug. your husband will pay for all the bad things he did not that i want him to pay hes the father of your kids but God wont watch you cry all the time becoz of him. stay strong pray.

Keratile
17 Jul 2013 14:29

In my case, we weren't hiding - we did everything normal couples did. That's why I didn't suspect anything. To this day, the guy wants us to get back together but I can't.

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 14:32

Well sad Yoyo

market
17 Jul 2013 14:50

hello  everyone!
khethiwe u just make's things worse freming khuboni he going to put 2n2 together n get the answer.
thax guy for a warm welcome. 

Bk212303
17 Jul 2013 14:53

I dont know what to really say to u Nomdaz. But i can start by saying im so sorry that u had to go through all that. But God will heal you my dear frnd, speak to him so that you can easy the pain in your heart. You all know that my hubby was also cheating, abusing me physically and emotionally. But im still here married to him and i still love him. I will never forget the day i saw going up and down on top of this other girl, i cant erase that pic but i forgave him still.

When you love someone and they do wrong to you, u become angry, hatred, disappointed, blame yrself etc but you learn to forgive so that what ever action you will take, you will think about it carefully. Especially if there is kids involved cause we turned to forget about them when we do things. They also say you must keep on holding until you know now im done the bucket it full.

When the bucket is full it means that even if he passes by you with someone else you just smle and at that time you feel nothing for him. Also you wish him well with future and you have no grudges against him. Then u done with him, if u still angry and u have all the hatred that means my dear u still hocked up on him.

So Nomdaz you take it slowly u take yr time. Now u must just now try yr best to take care of yrself  and the kids and shift the pic no dont look at him the way you used(meaning life must go on now for you and kids) but i know those kids are gonna want daddy dear close to mommy like usually but u will make a plan for them cc, cause i did. But dont give him the satisfaction or to think that you are stressing and u falling apart lift yr chin up. Time will come God is gonna help you my dear, he did with me. People are gonna start talking about it and some will laugh, support but you focus on healing yr heart dear if u have a friend u talk about it and if u must scream also obviously where he cant c. Seeing that he does not care about yr feelings, then let him be the dog he is and later he will realise maybe too late or maybe u will still be there. But its a win or loose thing . But plzzzzz dont beg him or be angry at him. Dont shout just be yrself, take care of those angels cause they still need you in this whole process. Take them shopping or go to the park and play with them cause that will also help u heal.

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 14:58

NoMd i just want to ask mostly the ladies have asked about your happiness, your healthy is that all worth staying for? do you still love this man? you know staying for the sake of the kids it's not wise cos kids are the ones that get hurt at the end anyway i have a story i wana share with  you guys to show you that you can still make it out there ok here goes 

I am currently divorced, 4 weeks to be precise and this after my husband told me he wanted a second wife after 11 years of marriage and 2 babies together. 

My troubles began back in Oct 2011 when hubby and I went house hunting in Nelspruit MP where he introduced me to this girl who was an Estate Agent. She got us a house we were happy with, helped me with the curtains, munincipal accounts etc. I liked her energy because I was pregnant with my son at the time. To cut the long story short, she started having an affair with hubby and 5 months later, hubby announces the girl is pregnant and he wants to take her as the second wife and I was about 8 months preggies at the time. I felt betrayed, insulted, useless, angry and humiliated.

 He would leave me and send a text that he is with Samke I shouldn't worry. He would come back home and sleep with me and I would allow it but I would feel cheap afterwards and sob like a baby. I gave birth to my son in June 2012 and moved in with my Aunt at home for 3 months and never went back to him until the divorce was final. I have just completed my Masters in Psychology, got my registrations in order, got my own townhouse where I live with my 2 kids and our helper. I am busy getting offices for my practice in Pretoria and life couldn't be sweeter. I found my voice, realised my worth and value as a woman.

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 15:03

Sorry to hear that Nomd. This isn't easy especially that you say he shows no remorse and is still with the woman. And you still have sex with him... Hei, marital issues are complex. Try be strong and find joy despite the situation. I will not suggest what to do concerning the marriage, but will support your decision. I will pm you some more later.

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 15:12

Did this happen to you Goldi or someone else??????????

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 15:15

@Goldi, divorced 4 weeks, hehee, girl o sephiri! Yoh! On a more serious note, wow, this is inspirational. Congratulations on all your achievents and all the best with all endevours. You are one strong woman. I'm inspired. I wish you all the best in life, and that great duster, lover, sweetheart you so deserve.

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 15:18

here's something to cheer us all

A mother had 3 virgin daughters. They were all getting married within a short time period. Because Mum was a bit worried about how their sex life would get started, she made them all promise to send a postcard from the honeymoon with a few words on how marital sex felt.

 The first girl sent a card from Hawaii two days after the wedding. The card said nothing but "Nescafe." Mum was puzzled at first, but then went the kitchen and got out the Nescafe jar. It said: "Good till the last drop." Mum blushed, but was pleased for her daughter.

 The second girl sent the card from Vermont a week after the wedding, and the card read: "Benson & Hedges." Mum now knew to go straight to her husband's cigarettes, and she read from the Benson & Hedges pack: "Extra Long. King Size." She was again slightly embarrassed but still happy for her daughter.

 The third girl left for her honeymoon in the Caribbean. Mum waited for a week, nothing. Another week went by and still nothing. Then after a whole month, a card finally arrived. Written on it with shaky handwriting were the words "British Airways." Mum took out her latest Harper's Bazaar magazine, flipped through the pages fearing the worst, and finally found the ad for British Airways. The ad said: "Three times a day, seven days a week, both ways."

 Mum fainted

Keratile
17 Jul 2013 15:20

Wow! Goldi! What an inspiration. Congrats galfriend. That's what I call woman empowerment

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 15:22

ohhh so sorry guys it's not me eish sorry it's some1 else's story that inspired me 

lol MimiK oragore nka dula ka sphiri sesekana hahahahaha eish my bad guys 

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 15:25

@Ntaksay, Did this happen to you Goldi or someone else?????????? ... Lol... I actually kept checking if it was Goldi or Goldie.

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 15:27

Ke tlo go shapa wena Goldi!

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 15:34

hahahahahahahahaah MimiK askies but hey that's inspiring and mind do she went on saying when she left hubby she just took her kids and nothing else she left hubby with everything so in other words she started from scratch mmmmmm haai no shem i was inspired no lies

Zibambele
17 Jul 2013 15:36

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 15:45

She is a very strong woman. I also like the way she left. I salute her.

portcia
17 Jul 2013 15:46

Goldi, my husband like to crack jokes, and u bua puo pha!...he doesnt discuss our dusting, but likes to talk about dusting,no matter who is around except if kids are around ofcouse, i dont like it, and he knows, but when he talks about something he ends up basting something out, like for instance one day my friend was sick with flu, and he said to her, if your husband gives you enough dusting, you wouldnt be sick, you see your friend gets enough thst's why she wont get sick, and he would laugh the whole time when he says that, he tries to keep it together couse he knows i dont like it,but ends up saying something, he even tells his friends,infront of their wifes to keep their wifes happy and keeps the dusting on, in our language( wa phapha)

Nomdazb,my angel, is not easy to pack up and leave,and all the heartbreaks you are encountering,are not easy for mankind whether woman or man,but one day you will have the courage to leave, and your kids will support you all the way, as for those girls who want to hurt you by having an affair with your husband, they get their fair share one day, and your husband will find himself alone,and realise that he had a good wife once,and now she is gone because of his stupidity.

I hope you will feel our love(BIG HUGS AND KISSES)

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 15:48

75yr old woman living in a nursing home says to a 70yr old male resident "I really like you and was wondering if you would be up for some fun later ?"
The 75yr old guy says " SURE!!! everyone else is going on a day trip, I will come over tonight"
later on, the guy goes over to the woman's room and they both start getting undressed.
The woman say's " I love getting oral sex"
The guy says " Great, I love giving it"
so The guy puts his head between her legs and gets to work.
after 5 seconds he lifts up his head and says " I am really sorry, but it stinks down there real bad"
The woman says" Sorry. about that, its my arthritis"
The guy says " huh?...... even if you had arthritis THERE, it wouldn't smell like that????
The woman says " No No. I have arthritis in my shoulder and I can't wipe my ass properly"

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 15:52

She is a very strong woman. I also like the way she left. I salute her. 

you and me Ntaks couldnt believe wen i was reading this

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 16:00

Eeeewww... Ntaksay!

portcia
17 Jul 2013 16:04

Sho Goldi, why ore etsa so? lol.....
But still cheating man deserves to be left le di nyatsi tsa bone, and see if it will last

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 16:04

A little kid asks his father, "Daddy, is God a man or a woman?"
"Both son. God is both."
After a while the kid comes again and asks, "Daddy, is God black or white?"
"Both son, both."
The child returns a few minutes later and says, "Daddy, is Michael Jackson God?"

yoyozz
17 Jul 2013 16:05

lol

portcia
17 Jul 2013 16:07

lol.................. Ntaksay

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 16:09

Four guys were telling stories in a pub. One guy leaves to go to the restroom.

Three guys were left...........


The first guy says,"I was worried that my son was going to be a loser because,

he started out washing cars for a local dealership. Turns out that he got a

break,they made him a salesman, and he sold so many cars that he bought the

dealership. In fact,he's so successful that he just gave his best friend a new

"Mercedes" for his birthday."


The second guy says,"I was worried about my son too because he started out

raking leaves for a realtor. Turns out he got a break,they made him a

commissioned salesman, and he eventually bought the real estate firm In

fact,he's so successful that he just gave his best friend a new house for his

birthday."


The third guy says,"Yeah, I hear you. My son started out sweeping floors in a

brokerage firm. Well,HE got a break, they made him a broker, and now he owns

the brokerage firm.In fact,he's so rich that he just gave his best friend $1

million in stock for his birthday."


The fourth guy comes back from the restroom. The first 3 explain that they are

telling stories about their kids so he says,"Well, I'm embarrassed to admit

that my son is a major disappointment.He started out as a hairdresser and is

still a hairdresser after 15 years.In fact,I just found out that he's GAY and

has SEVERAL boyfriends. But I try to look at the bright side,his boyfriends

just bought him a new Mercedes, a new house, and $1 million in stock for his

birthday!"

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 16:10

eeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwww Ntaks

i feel you POSH

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 16:11

I've got a terrible headache I've been trying to ignore it for the whole day, but it's not getting better.

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 16:12

The house was busy today.

Thanks LADIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ntaksay
17 Jul 2013 16:15

One day the teacher decides to play an animal game. She holds up a pictures of

a giraffe and asks if anyone knows what it is. No one raises their hand. The

teacher says "See it's long neck? What animal has a long neck?"


Sally holds up her hand and asks "Is it a giraffe?"


"Very good Sally,"the teacher replies. Next she holds up a picture of a zebra.

None of the students holds up their hands. "See the strips on this animal?What

animal has strips?"


Billy holds up his hand and says "It's a zebra."


"Very good Billy,"the teacher replies. Next she holds up a picture of a deer.

None of the students recognized the animal.


"See the big antlers on this animal. What animal has horns like this?"


Still no one guesses. "Let me give you another hint, it's something you mother

calls your father."


Johnny shouts out "I know what is is, it's a horny bastard!"

portcia
17 Jul 2013 16:18

Today it was a woman's world, arent we glad we have one another?

portcia
17 Jul 2013 16:27

yoh ntaks, thing we say infront of our kids

One friday a small boy was asking her mother when is father coming back from work,as it was getting pretty late, and the mother replies,o sa lo reka bomagosha,the boy asks ke eng bomagosha, she replied just something nice, then when a father returns home the boy asks ntate kante bakae bomagosha?mama oitse olo bareka?

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 16:31

Glad we have one another Portcia. *Group hug*.

Bk212303
17 Jul 2013 16:40

Woow Goldi im so inspired by the achievements and stuff. Byeeeee everyone

Goldi
17 Jul 2013 17:28

*joining Mims and Posh* Bye Bk let's meet @ the Dlomos @ 8pm Laters xxx

Keratile
17 Jul 2013 19:15

I was watching Motswako (repeat). Penny was talking with Angie Diale - I'm inspired by how she refused to tolerate abuse from her husband and came out stronger. I guess it's about time we state and stick to our deal brakers. Enough is Enough! Phambili nga bafazi phambili!

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 21:56

@Portcia, Hay mimibob, my dear you have all you need in a man
Hei, monna waka wa itlhaloganya tlhemma.. O tshwere gotlhe! Ke bolaile ke sa tshwara tlhobolo! I'm content. Expressing that in English would not give me the gratification I just got.

I was lolling at how your hubby talks about dusting to everyone. I think my boy would do the same -  no details though.

@BK, I admire your ability to forgive and your tolerance levels. I forgive easily but wonder how I'd handle  a cheating husband..

Mimibob
17 Jul 2013 22:08

@Ntaksay, The child returns a few minutes later and says, "Daddy, is Michael Jackson God?"
This reminds me of my little sister (not biological) after my parents took her in. She had never heard of God before coming to live with us. She asked mom who God was and mom was trying to explain that God was our parent, who did everything for us, that all we have came from Him, etc... And the little girl said to mom, "Oh, so you are God".

portcia
18 Jul 2013 07:57

Good morning everyone and happy birthday to Madiba, Mimibob, i like the way you expressed your self in tswana,tlhemma. Anyone who watched ROCKVILLE yesterday please updates.

portcia
18 Jul 2013 08:07

Guys please updates on Generations, Ngamla receives a threatening visitor, who was that?

Keratile
18 Jul 2013 08:19

Good morning! God Bless You! Enjoy your day! I love you all..........

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 08:43

Good morning people

A very Happy Madiba Day To all my FAMILY members. I LOVE you all!!! MCW! Lots of HUGS

Kera
18 Jul 2013 08:54

Good morning to all of you in da house 

vuxy
18 Jul 2013 08:57

ai

Goldi
18 Jul 2013 09:06

Good Morning Family

Phambili Keratile, MimiK that man is a keeper sweetheart hold on

@BK, I admire your ability to forgive and your tolerance levels. I forgive easily but wonder how I'd handle a cheating husband.. you and me Mims

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 09:06

Here's an update:::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::

Chief Phakeme decided to take Crissie to jail to visit his dad. *without anyone's knowledge* they woke up and Chief& his grand-daughter were already gone to prison. Sbusiso was not happy with this, said prison is no place for children but the chief explained that it's not easy for him either but Chrissie begged him, he had no choice but to bring her. She drew a picture for her dad.
Sbuda put the pic on his cell wall, one jail bird came acting all tough an untouchable and my word he was so UGLY *in Shenzi, Bansai & Ed's voices*. He said he wants Sbusiso to deposit money to his bank account every month so that he can protect him, even showed him a sharp object not sure whether it was a knife or what. Sbuda told him he will do no such things and he does not need his protection this guy said he needs friends or else he must always sleep with his one opened Sbuda told him he is not in prison to make friends. The warden asked If there was any problem Sbuda said not there is not problem. This ugliest guy of them all said the warden will not always be around to help him Sbuda chased him out of his cell.

Chopstix bought snacks and went to Yona Yethu to watch Zinhle like they discussed the other day but MJ was not happy with this but ended up doing it anyway, Zinhle entered her room went to the cabinet and took a huge packet of chips and something else I'm not sure what it was and went to the toilet to eat. Chopstix & MJ were shocked.

Manwhore bought a diamond necklace for Nolutu, while he was still looking at it Dineo came in but he quickly hid it *so he thought* But Dinny saw him. The receptionist phoned Phenyo had to leave the office and Dinny needed a file his hubby told her it's in the drawer somewhere behind the door and went out. Intead of looking for the file Dinny peeked on the necklace and smiled thinking it was hers. Phenyo came back but Dinny had already taken the file kissed him and left smiling. Phenyo locked away the necklace and they(he and Ntuntu) had already made arrangement to meet. They went to three towers and Manwhore said he had a surprise for her and showed her the necklace and helped her to put it on, she liked it. It was beautiful. When he finally went home Dinny waited for him, he apologised said the meeting dragged on and on and on. But Dinny said she has a dress and it needs something shining but not earings maybe a necklace. Phenyo thought to himself *maybe she saw it* and said well you caught me. 

Khubone is arrested
Khetiwe's gogo is in Jo'burg. She lied about Mpilo she said she was taken away because of the shooting. Officer visited Khethi and asked here why Khubone told the social worker that they are in a relationship. Gogo was shocked by that, but Khethi always has an answer, she said he was obsessed.

I'm tired of typing Yho  

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 09:10

Happpy father tata ukhule ungakhokhobi. We love so much.


Ngamla receives a threatening visitor, who was that?

Ii was one of the other cell mates.

Mimibob
18 Jul 2013 09:32

Thank you Ntaks.

mahumani
18 Jul 2013 10:03

good morning familly? and happy born day tata Mandela I hope he wiil get well soon.

market
18 Jul 2013 10:07

Morning good ppl
wishing tata usuku oluhle on his Bday.
so D seen the necklace,is phenyo going to buy the same necklace.

Goldi
18 Jul 2013 10:11

Tata's life support machine will be switched off Midnight.........

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 10:17


You can't have real love unless you’re willing to forgive. Love keeps giving the other person another chance, and it keeps trusting them over and over again, expecting them to do the right thing the next time.

Stolen from Joyce Meyers Ministries

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 10:19

What Goldi?

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 10:26

I think so too Goldi, the old man has suffered enough shame. They need to let him go now.

so D seen the necklace, is phenyo going to buy the same necklace. @Market He has to or else he is in big *bleep!*. Sooner or later she will see Noluntu with that necklace on her neck,  I'm glad she hinted that she saw it otherwise seeing it on other woman's neck would have been another issue.

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 10:27

Keep the house burning like yesterday kaloku.

portcia
18 Jul 2013 10:32

He,he,he....... Goldi..........hmm, some says he have died already, iyoo... i wonder what is happening in his hospital room?

Thank you Ntaksay, i wish manhore, doesnt find the same necklace that he bought for noluntu, so that dineo can see it on noluntu's neck, so i guess that's the truth phenyo will blurt out tonight, iyo........ when are they going to find out that phenyo is the one that sold out uSbuda?

Mimibob
18 Jul 2013 10:32

Ao, Ntaks, you are glad Dinny hinted on the necklace? I thought you'd want the cheating Phenyo to be caught out..

portcia
18 Jul 2013 10:47

Mimibob, i also want that cheating bastard to be caught out, but i feel for Dineo, no one want to be cheated on

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 10:53

Hayisuka le si yo yo yo sendoda cant keep iponciponci  yakhe. Dineo needs to get a life, sukaa phenyo is loose and a back staber. Dlomo yindoda eqotho even though he is harsh sometimes but his family is first.

I mean syo yo yo is just useless and Sbuda has build an empire beautful house, gwitzas what else its a lot if you ask me. Syo yo yo nothing its kuku here and kuku there sukaaaaa and i think that ncanca is small but maybe he uses it nicely. The only thing uyakuvuna ikuuuuuku other than that isuswe incanca qhaa

Goldi
18 Jul 2013 11:15

What what BK? 

That's what i'm thinking Posh gore he's been dead for some time now anywa let's wait n see

I wish that manwhore aka Phenyo can be caught haai soka maan

any HOT TOPIC??

Deemo
18 Jul 2013 11:23

have a blessed thursday my lovely family

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 11:24

I thought you'd want the cheating Phenyo to be caught out..

I do want him to be caught out but this way is not interesting enough. I want drama when the truth comes out. *Dinny follows hubby to his meeting "THREE TOWERs" finds them in bed together* that would be interesting or the Manwhore to accidentally say he slept with her.

he can easily deny that he bought the necklace for Noluntu you know man and their lies and we tend to believe them.

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 11:33

A father passing by his son's bedroom, was astonished to see the bed was

nicely made, and everything was picked up. Then, he saw an envelope,

propped up prominently on the pillow. It was addressed, 'Dad.' With the

worst premonition, he opened the envelope and read the letter, with

trembling hands.



'Dear, Dad. It is with great regret and sorrow that I'm writing you. I

had to elope with my new girlfriend, because I wanted to avoid a scene

with Mum and you.



I've been finding real passion with Stacy, and she is so nice, but I

knew you would not approve of her, because of all her piercing's,

tattoos, her tight Motorcycle clothes, and because she is so much older

than I am.



But it's not only the passion, Dad. She's pregnant. Stacy said that we

will be very happy. She owns a trailer in the woods, and has a stack of

firewood for the whole winter. We share a dream of having many more

children.



Stacy has opened my eyes to the fact that marijuana doesn't, really hurt
anyone. We'll be growing it for ourselves, and trading it with the other

people in the commune, for all the cocaine and ecstasy we want.



In the meantime, we'll pray that science will find a cure for AIDS, so

Stacy can get better. She sure deserves it!



Don't worry Dad, I'm 15, and I know how to take care of myself. Someday,

I'm sure we'll be back to visit, so you can get to know your many

grandchildren.



Love, your son, Joshua.



P.S . Dad, none of the above is true. I'm over at Jason's house. I just

wanted to remind you that there are worse things in life than the school

report that's on the kitchen table.



Call when it is safe for me to come home!

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 11:45

One day, little Sam was at the park playing when he saw his dad and aunt walk behind the bushes.

He followed them quietly.

What he saw surprised him a lot. Sam ran home and told his Mother... Guess what I saw today!

"How should I know" Mom replied.

"You know, dad at aunty went into the bushes and aunty took off dad's jacket and then..."

"Stop, it is better for you to wait until your daddy gets back home and we have dinner to finish your story?" mom said.

"Fine" said Sam.

And when they were all having dinner, Sam started..dad at aunty went into the bushes and aunty took off dad's jacket and then Dad did to Aunt what Uncle did to Mom while Dad was out...."

Goldi
18 Jul 2013 13:03

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa dead by laughter ya ne eish!!

Ladies tell me What would you do should you walk in on your man with another woman in bed?? YOUR REACTION

To be honest i dont know what i would do, the best thing to do is to WALK OUT but ima make sure they both see me then get on my heels *that's me* ok NEXT

Keratile
18 Jul 2013 13:14

@Goldi.......I would end the relationship with the bastard manwhore. I just don't see the point of promoting cheating. If the tables were turned, do u think he manwhore would even give u a chance to state your case? Never!!!!!

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 13:19

I'm not sure either. But I would make sure they both see me, the walk away. I definitely don't want any explanation, I know what I saw so there is not need for any explanation. He made his decision then he must stick to it. He can stay with his mistress.

Mimibob
18 Jul 2013 13:19

@Goldi, I think for me it would depend on the state of the relationship and my trust levels on the guy. Assuming all is well, I think I'd either freeze, shake, walk out and find the nearest seat, or I'd just stand there and watch them sort themselves out. Whatever reaction, that would be the end of the relationship for me. I can be calm even in the most trying situations and gracefully move on with no hard feelings. Or momentarily go crazy and speak my heart out, then accept what has happened and move on.

Mimibob
18 Jul 2013 13:23

I haven't really had drama in my life, so not sure how I'd respond to some things.

Keratile
18 Jul 2013 13:23

I know we all deal with cheating differently and would really appreciate it if we agree to disagree on this matter. As much as some won't understand my not being able to tolerate nor forgive a cheater - I also don't understand how they could willingly gamble with their health and dignity. The best thing is not to change my point of view nor try to understand your reaction to cheating and how you handle it or lack of. *my opinions*

portcia
18 Jul 2013 13:27

Kwaaaaaakwest............ at Ntaksay,maybe she would have let Sam to finish his story,rather than saying it at the table having dinner.

Keratile
18 Jul 2013 13:32

To all our neighbours who can't access SABC programmes: Did you know most of SABC programmes are on Youtube? Try: Intersexions 2 - then a whole lot of episodes will pop-up and you make your pick.

portcia
18 Jul 2013 13:36

i would also end the relationship, there and there, and make damn sure he sees me before i leave, so no excuses from him, banna ba nahana gore they own us and can do as they please with our hearts, and we will just forgive and forget just like that, HELL NO........... are ba bontsheng( WHO RUN THE WORLD, GIRLS)

Mimibob
18 Jul 2013 13:43

Thanks Rati. I'll try that tonight.

yoyozz
18 Jul 2013 14:09

if you cant beat the join them

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 14:15

Unfortunately, for me i went through this my boyfriend who is now hubby, did that to me and when i say did that to me i mean; i pipped through the whole at the door i saw his t-shirt and my heart went doof doof doof i saw legs wide open and i saw him going up and down and i pushed the door open they both jumped up. I had a pan in my hand but then i could not use it as i had the ectopic pregnancy and i was already 4months i just sat to get some air and cool down and i stood up again and left them and said u deserve each other.


But guess what i married him. Im still in love with him.

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 14:16

What do you mean Yoyo join them and dust with them???????????????
Beating is a NO NO

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 14:18

if you cant beat the join them

I tried grl to also cheat but i was worried about the other woman i was hurting so i stopped and these man did not have the rite size ncanca they had tiny ncanca which did not work for me.

Pastry
18 Jul 2013 14:41

Good afternoon bloggers

Yoh i have never caught any man i dated cheating evn when i knew they were at some point. I dont think i will survive being exposed to catching my man red handed in the act. It cripples my soul just knowing he is giving another woman more attention or being cossy with another lady. I wouldnt stand seeing him kissing or penetrating another woman....heaven forbid, I dont know what I will do hey!

Is the EFFECT the same....cheating on you with an unknown person vs with someone you know?

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 14:43

Is the EFFECT the same....cheating on you with an unknown person vs with someone you know?


It is the same ccza.

Mimibob
18 Jul 2013 14:53

@BK, I tried grl to also cheat but i was worried about the other woman i was hurting so i stopped... This is interesting. So you stopped cheating because you we're worried about the other woman? Does this mean you would have continued had the guy been single? Ladies, do you think cheating makes you even with your cheating partner? Would you cheat because you we're cheated on?

Pastry
18 Jul 2013 14:57

Did you experience both BK?

I know cheating is cheating no matter how minimal or extreme

Are you saying you would have still forgiven your man if he cheated on you with your best friend or your cousin or even your mother

Mimibob
18 Jul 2013 15:07

@Pastry, lol @ "your mother".. I don't think I'd get angry in this instance... I'd be concerned for the old lady.. Genuinely. Hehee...

market
18 Jul 2013 15:12

u know what @BK212303 to love someone i understand dat but to be in love with someone dat something different u cant  switch those feeling like a remote control is doent just to go away dat easy, woman we got true love love dat why we forgive but we dont forget .

portcia
18 Jul 2013 15:24

I dont think cheating is a solution, couse you are just bringing more problems to your relationship,and you will just cause the other guy some heartbreak.

I mean if you cheat because your hubby or bf cheats then it means you didnt get into that relationship with love you are there because you are hurt and need someone to console you, or you want to show your hubby that you can also cheat, but at the end of the day your only killing your self, just think if its woth it to couse someone his heart, or to break yours even further?

I dont think i will cheat because my hubby cheated on me, ad rather be alone than be unhappy, afterall my hapiness comes first.

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 15:34

@BK, I tried grl to also cheat but i was worried about the other woman i was hurting so i stopped... This is interesting. So you stopped cheating because you we're worried about the other woman? Does this mean you would have continued had the guy been single? Ladies, do you think cheating makes you even with your cheating partner? Would you cheat because you we're cheated on?



@Mimibob honestly i was going to continue with the relationship and maybe dump bf. It does not make you even, if u still love that cheating patner it will never work out and for me i also found out that he has a gf so i stopped seeing him. After this whole incident i wanted out and he refused and we were staying toget and i tried several time to move out but it did not work out, so later he moved out and i started over after 3months he came back and i did not fight him anymore cause i still had feeling for him.
I cheated cause i was in so much pain and i felt better with my other patner.I thought i was doing the rite thing at that time.Later i realised im doing the same thing he did and i stopped.

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 15:38

@Pastry nope not with my bst frnd but my neighbor. A married woman, who was always making as if she is Christian and holly and so on  and it turned out she was loose.

If it were the family member hey i dont know grl cause love is full of suprises cause even now i sometimes ask why im still with this man. 

Goldi
18 Jul 2013 15:41

yhoooo sorry guyz my pc was on strike anywho i hear you all

cheating wont make you even shem out of 100 only 2% will stay with you found out if you cheated *men* then the 82% will leave make no mistake but US ai it's a different story shem

by me walking out means the relationship is OVER i dont need an explanation cos he's gonat try to see things red even though i saw blue sorry the minute i turn there's no looking back i keep walking ke ba JOHNY WALKER

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 15:45

To show that i was not cheating to spite him, he didnt even know i did that and he still does not know that. I did it on my own and it felt good to me at that time. It only happened twice and i never slept with them. Cause i just wanted to be around someone to comfort me simple as that. But you know when you faking it tells. Yes i was using that guy cause i did not love him at all. So i told him frnds would do for us and he understood.

portcia
18 Jul 2013 15:47

market, if your man cheats on you, but you never caught him on act, maybe you saw some messages or you heard him talking on the phone, then he comes out clean and apologises, i think i can forgive him but if i catch him on act with someone else whether i know her or not, i dont think i can forgive him, couse if i stay in that relationship i will always have those pics in my mind, and even create even more pics that i didnt see, and that will only kill me, and how about him, do you think he will hate himself, NO...

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 15:47

I hate financials.

My financial report is not balancing, I've been working on it for hours now. *sad*

portcia
18 Jul 2013 15:56

So BK your man cheted on you with the woman next door? hayi suka ba sele bale i two. you are a strong woman, i dont know what i would have done, i dont even want to think about the pains you felt, im sure this woman when she see you and hubby still together, she thinks of how she made a fool of her self

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 15:58

I would never cheat because my hubby is cheating, I'd either leave him or listen to his lies and forgive/pretend as if nothing happened. Men do not forgive use when we cheat but expect us to forgive them when they cheat. To put cherry on top of the cream they blame us (WOMEN) for being unable to keep their zips zipped.

Ntaksay
18 Jul 2013 16:01

she thinks of how she made a fool of her self LOL Portcia

Bk212303
18 Jul 2013 16:05

The woman next door sold her house and she left Cape Town.

portcia
18 Jul 2013 16:26

Ja your right Ntaksay, they will tell you that you dont always want to dust, and you always complain about this and that, so they have some needs thats why they went out to get it, so tell me what if it was you not getting it from him?

There was a story i saw from TLC Network, a wife and a husband were happily married, but the husband never kept his wife satisfied via dusting, but he used to buy abomagosha, making loans and having credit cards secretly, so one day the wife found out as the bank was always calling the house, couse now he was in the credit bereau, so the wife seached for some statements and made some enquiries of where he used to spend his money to his chock it was a place for abomagosha, the wife went there to prove herself, and found one of his regular customer, and the girl was chocked couse she thought the guy is single.

Goldi
18 Jul 2013 16:28

Laters xxxxxx

pabalamiso
18 Jul 2013 16:33

Kandyfloss
18 Jul 2013 20:04

Hi everyone.. Is staying with a cheating partner a strength? I always hear people say "o mosadi tota(you are a real woman)" just because a lady forgave a cheating husband/partner.

Mimibob
18 Jul 2013 22:44

@Kandyfloss,  Is staying with a cheating partner a strength? I always hear people say "o mosadi tota(you are a real woman)" just because a lady forgave a cheating husband/partner. 
There is always stigma around divorce and one is usually considered a failure when divorced. Maybe not so much nowadays, but generally society expects women to hold their families together. Women also mostly go all out to ensure they keep their men happy, sometimes we even try too hard. If someone were to a write a book, "Think Like a Woman", Im sure it would mostly be read by women the same way Steve Harvey's "Think Like a Man" is (Nothing proven, just my observation). I started the book but couldn't finish it. I just had one word for it, "Rubbish", and for the author "male chauvinist", and put it aside.

So, Kandyfloss, society expects a woman to hold the family together, tolerate nonsense, etc. It also stems back to advice given a woman getting married in the olden days; you dont ask a man where he is coming from when he gets home late, monna ke selepe wa adimanwa, etc... Those who manage are considered real women.
 I dont think its easy to forgive a cheating partner and continue with them, so I also take my hat off to those who manage.

I'm personally unti-divorce, but would not judge those who divorce. If/when I get married, I would like hubby and I to agree that divorce would never be an option, and to both work at ensuring our marriage stands and we are happy together. I would leave a cheating boyfriend in a heartbeat, but doubt I'd do the same with a husband.
Like I said before, I have regard for the sanctity of marriage.  I trust by God's guidance I will marry right.

Overall, Maybe this is a man's world afterall.

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 01:28

Society does not expect women to carry the world ...

Women have the tendency to volunteer themselves into such positions.

Keratile
19 Jul 2013 08:10

Happy Friday my lovely family........

Goldi
19 Jul 2013 08:34

Morning Family happy Friday y'all

i have to agree with you Vusi we *women* reeketsa bo super woman no one expects us to do anything it's up to you and and how you see fit

well i i'm also anti divorce but heck should my husband cheat on me and mistreat me i will never stay and that kind of a toxic relationship, kids will grow up we all did yes it's painful but your happiness should come 1st sometimes you just have to be selfish and do you either than wanting to be a super woman

You know wen your man cheat on you the 1st time the chances are you will forgive but a serieal cheater haai khona i wont stay i think it's all about knowing your WORTH, most wamen stay to with their cheating husband/girlfriends for different reasons the most reasons i've heard of is SEX AND CHILDREN

Mimibob
19 Jul 2013 09:26

Hi VusiK

steffie
19 Jul 2013 09:33

Morning all

Mimibob
19 Jul 2013 09:35

@Vusi and Goldi, women volunteer themselves because they want to keep those they love. Men generally seem to need motivation beyond the ordinary to stay in a relationship.

portcia
19 Jul 2013 09:36

Morning good family, i have to agree with Vusi and Goldi, if you dont like something as a woman and still keep quite about it, then men assume that you are okay, and staying in a abusive marriage for the sake of kids and sex is not worth it, ladies if you dont like something say NO, and show  that you mean it.and yet some woman fear their partners, to that extend that they are afraid to raise their voices, even if they dont like how they are treated they dont say a word, they rather keep quite about it.

 I guess if all woman can look themself's in a mirror and see what they like and make a vouw to themself that they will never let themself down, we will have a better world where everyone's opinion does matter.

Keratile
19 Jul 2013 09:36

Well said @ Goldi. Seconded Comrade.

Bk212303
19 Jul 2013 09:43

Morning all, Welcome uncle Vusik its been long, how are you feeling sir?

Well said Goldi.

JadaPinkett
19 Jul 2013 10:00

@Goldi....well i i'm also anti divorce but heck should my husband cheat on me and mistreat me i will never stay and
Okey let me give u a lil piece of advise I am not married but I will never leave the man I love jst because he cheated. Cheating is not the reason to leave your man but you must leave him when you don't love him anymore orr if he's not making you happy. Men will always cheat even  uhlanya luyacheater the only thing you must do is to play your part as a wife. 
But ke he mst give a respect, if he cheats en make sure that u dont find out consider dat he's not serious ngaleyo ntombi ufikelwe imfebo nje efikelwa inoma ubani.

Goldi
19 Jul 2013 10:41

*Bowing* I thank you ladies :)

@Jada as long as we keeping telling ourselves that MEN CHEAT then we are going to have a problem like we do cos we giving these men the upper hand to go on CHEATING, well not all men cheat lala

i say we *women* we must know are WORTH and also have some ETHICS!! *my 2cnts*

Mimibob
19 Jul 2013 10:57

Well said Goldi. Not all men cheat Jada. I have a lot to say on "Cheating is not the reason to leave your man but you must leave him when you don't love him anymore orr if he's not making you happy. Men will always cheat even uhlanya luyacheater the only thing you must do is to play your part as a wife." Maybe later.. But I think this thinking is the reason some women go through unnecessary abuse, especially emotional.

Goldi
19 Jul 2013 11:02

But I think this thinking is the reason some women go through unnecessary abuse, especially emotional:  Precisely MimiK

Ntaksay
19 Jul 2013 11:31

Hello ladies

I admire all of you.

Have a lovely day

portcia
19 Jul 2013 11:44

Well said Goldi, not all man cheat, and JP if your man trully loves you he wont mistreat you, or cheat on you,( now im talking about your hubby) when dating, men sometimes do cheat maybe is because they are havent commit theirself's yet, but marriage do change people, that's when they start to realise how much you mean to them, and they do anything to protect you, as for banna ba chetang for fun and beat their wifes for fun, hayi shem maybe baloilwe couse really how can you hurt the precious little thing that gave you her heart, and the most beautiful kids you ever know he!...

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 12:03

As aman ..
I will step aside on this debate

for my two cent's worth
... Cheating is neither merit nor reason for divorce (I tell my daugghters this all the time ... sort him out (There are ways of equalizing the scales without lowering oneself, or cheating in reprisal) ... I also teach my aughters these secrets of keeping their men from straying / cheating (the first being ... don't get married ... it is not necessary to the definition of who you are as a person or a woman ... etc. (hence my daughter is 26, never married & has no children ... and I am as proud of her as I am of her elder and younger brothers who are also not  married and have no children) ... and all four are in awesome relationships with incredibly wonderful people.

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 12:04

Thanks for the welcome BK, MimiK and all those who wished me swift recovery.

I am feeling better thank you !

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 12:06

In my world ...
One should be married out of choice,
not because of any other factor.

Goldi
19 Jul 2013 12:11

Preach Vusi hahahahahaha

JadaPinkett
19 Jul 2013 12:20

But guyz the fact is all men cheat in different .......But as for an abusive relationship Hell no! I will never stay to dat relationship or if I'm not happy.

There's a frnd of mine she was with her hubby getting everything she wanted from her man, she was also working. They had 2 beautiful childern living a happily marriage life until my frnd started to snoop around bcos she ws told that her man was cheatin on her, dat's where she started scrollin her man's fone..and gues wathola into endala ekade yenzeka. En then she left her man for into endala ayengasayenzi............

Mimibob
19 Jul 2013 12:22

@Vusi, how is not getting married a secret to keeping your man from cheating/straying? Please enlighten me.

@Zioness
19 Jul 2013 12:30

Morning all... may I pls give my 2cents worth on marriage... I'm not married but I always refer to my bf as hubby and he's always called me makoti (it started out in jest but kinda stuck, also have to confess a lil' ignorance here - since I'm not Xhosa, i didn't even know at first what it meant. thought it was a cute nickname *hides) and I've always been ok with that, I understand the nobility and sanctity of a marriage but it really never was something I hugely considered, was never one of those little girls we dreamt of the 'big beautiful white wedding day", perhaps i've seen too many marraiges go awry, i don't know... we are staying together and raising our child together as a couple but the pressure from outside to get married its so intense - when my mom find out Im living with a man she threw the phone in my face and although after meeting him and totally adoring him whenever we visit she laments on how our conduct hurts her  and always calls to say this is not how I was raised (feel so guilty then)etc, same thing from his family side although not as much, and I must confess that it is getting to us, but I'm not sure we would do it for the right reasons of we do, yes we love each other have a great relationship but the fact is it was a whirlwind relationship and an unplanned pregnancy and we've only been together for two years, so i don't know...

@Zioness
19 Jul 2013 12:31

good question @mimi...

portcia
19 Jul 2013 12:40

Me too malume Vusi, are you saying hale jola hale chetelane?
 and JP once again not every man cheats, some man has morals you know, and i cant say my husband is cheating if i havent caught him with someone, bo mabarebare bakase nkagele motse, so if i havent caught him, then he is not cheating, untill i catch him myself, not bo mabarebare.
 your friend didnt have to leave because of the things she found on the phone, communication is the key,she should have tried to find out from her man whats happening and stop trusting friends all the time, i think that's why she left couse bo mabarebare nese ba mojweditse something.

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 12:49

@Mimi ...

1. .. People always make mistake number 1 ... associating and attaching their sense of worth / value & identity to that of another by considering their standards to apply to other people ... thus
marriage by defenition stops being an associative matter one volunteers into and becomes an obligation by which one not only measures oneself, but als identifies one's persona by.
Its avoidance is actually one of the few ways by which people are forced to account for themselves, their standards, ethics, and accept responsibility for everything they are, and that affects them ...
Including who they associate with; and why they do so.

portcia
19 Jul 2013 12:50

@Zioness, marriage is all about love, if the guy is so sure about taking you as his wife he will when the time is right, and both of you will also feel that now is the time. I dated my husband for twelve years before getting married,and when the time came we knew exactly what we were getting our self's in.
So dont worry lala the time will come and both your parents musnt presurise you, marriage is a big step.

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 12:52

Rumor should always be confined to being that ...
hear-say
In my opinion ...
it is unfair of woman bloggers to say that men cheat... With whom are these men cheating?
PEOPLE CHEAT!

Ntaksay
19 Jul 2013 12:52

I would also like to see an answer to Mims Question. *patiently waiting for Vusi's answer*

B2G: What is wrong with the prisoner who threatened Sbuda the other day? Is he gay/treated like makoti. He seemed very scared when he ran into Sbusiso's cell.

I'm getting pissed with Senzo's behaviour. Uhlala nenyoronyoro endlini but he does not want to support his father. Hayi suka maan. Even is Sbusiso is guilty, he still needs to support him, he is his father, he needs him.

Ulayekile uKhethiwe what were you thinking when you took your gogo to the social worker.

Goldi
19 Jul 2013 12:53

* as i wait for VusiK to answer MimiK*

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 12:56

Marriage is a choice ...
People seem to have decided that it is an obligation, or a must ...
In my opinion ... this is a massive fallacy of identity that is preeminent amongst us.
Marriage should never define anything other than one's willingness to engage with and spend a very long time in the presence and space of another
Faithfulness is however, a diffferent matter altogether. Unless it is a condition of one's relationship, one should not factor it.
life is a string of decisions ... manage them wisely.

Mimibob
19 Jul 2013 12:57

@ Zioness, lol @ makoti and phone on face... Well, I still dream of my big white wedding, and I'm gonna have it. Vus, I'd prefer you not to comment on this one.. Thanx. :)

portcia
19 Jul 2013 12:57

Vusi i dont think i understand your statement,anyway to be married doesnt mean that now you have to change,like now you have to associate your self with married friends and all that stuff, just be who you are and let your man be who he is, keep your mojo, why change?

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 13:02

@Mims...
@Vusi, how is not getting married a secret to keeping your man from cheating/straying? Please enlighten me.

By not being married, and making the proper decisions for oneself relating to who & why one associates with a potential mate, one takes responsibility for one's place and contribution to anything, including being in any form of relationship (including marriage)
By not engaging the process, one successfully is not subject to thie condition of straying or cheating within a marriage.
...
Simple ... be precise in communicating the intent behind the selection of a spouse ... be it in a casual or committed relationship, including marriage, then be certin that the reciprocal applies.

@Zioness
19 Jul 2013 13:11

lol @ Mimi, my mom is hardcore i'm telling you @ least my dad tries to understand and always tries to calm her down saying they should be a little more receptive of 'modern city life' lol - my parents have calmed down a lot now that we're older but they had a very tumultous marriage (on the brink of divorce a few times) but in the end i think stayed with each other for the sake of us kids, must admit there were times that I prayed they would rather divorce since i hated seeing both of them like that but now that I'm older I'm glad that they stuck it out because it seems they finally reach some accord and seem to get along much better and you can see the appreciation now, it still amazes me because until recently i couldn't even talk about the way they were growing up but the devil's advocate noooow and then still think why wait 30+ years to reach that point with someone but shame i'm painting a bleak picture now, there were good times as well

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 13:22

... and now ...
back to work

Mimibob
19 Jul 2013 13:30

@Vus, I thought the conditions of cheating and straying within a marriage were same as those in a committed relationship with a mate.. Anyway...

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 13:36

@Mims ...
according to most people's understanding of being in a married vs committed vs casual relationship
....
This is not the case

portcia
19 Jul 2013 13:48

Mimibob i think is the same couse nothing has changed after i got married, only my surname. Why change the conditions after we got married? we always did things together even when we were dating.i always go where i want to go, as long as he knows where i am, and it was the same even when we were dating, and he would always tell me whenever he goes somewhere, it doesnt meant that now that we are married then i should ask him before i leave then wait for his approval NO

@Zioness
19 Jul 2013 13:49

@Vusi but if you're daughter is in a wonderful relationship like you say i am sure the emotional implications will be the same whether she be married or not, the only thing is she will not have to go through the fomality of divorce, what i'm saying not being married is not going to be much comfort if her partner cheats on her if she is already emotionally invested, i think

Kandyfloss
19 Jul 2013 14:05

Hi good people.. Been trying to comment but my posts didnt go through.. I enjoyed reading your comments.

@Zioness
19 Jul 2013 14:07

Hey Kandy anything to add? :)

portcia
19 Jul 2013 14:14

Well said Zioness, well said

Kandyfloss
19 Jul 2013 14:17

Am now sorted can blog *jumpingupanddown* my question is/was is staying with a cheating partner a strength. Thanx Mimi for last night's detailed response. Am of the feeling that PEOPLE CHEAT. Not men only. @Jada not every man cheats dear.

Kandyfloss
19 Jul 2013 14:28

@Zioness not much to say you guys said it all... No one ever get married to divorce but circumstances can push.

@Zioness
19 Jul 2013 14:48

Thanks @Portcia and i agree with you Kandy, it's a two way thing, if you're dusting alone its called masturbation... As for question if staying with your partner a strength - I think it can be called a strength if after you've been hurt so much by your partner you have the ability to truly forgive and move on and be willing to trust him/her again and as a result you become a stronger person thus making your union stronger but in my opinion its a weakness if you stay (for whatever) but you never really deal with it properly so in the end it consumes you and makes you bitter and takes away the shine, happiness and quality of your life because you haven't forgiven your partner for what he did and there's no peace in your heart, don't know if i'm making sense

portcia
19 Jul 2013 14:57

Ofcouse you are @Zioness, thank you Kandyfloss, no one ever gets married to divorce.

Have a fab weekend my friends, and take care, dont do what i wont do but do what i can do best, and keep the dusting on, this is going to be a cold weekend

JadaPinkett
19 Jul 2013 14:58

Kulaba abathi not all men cheat.............One dayu'll remember these words" All men cheat"  amadoda ayafihla

@Zioness
19 Jul 2013 15:02

will do exactly that @portcia - keep the dusting on of cos ;) have a fab week end love n everyone else!

Goldi
19 Jul 2013 15:08

Hey Kandy long time sweets you good?

Kandyfloss
19 Jul 2013 15:23

Am good Goldi thanx!

Goldi
19 Jul 2013 15:28

Good to hear Kandy ok Guyz i'm out of here

Laters xxx

Dhee31
19 Jul 2013 15:28

Kandyfloss
19 Jul 2013 15:44

Ntaksay
19 Jul 2013 16:28

Bye people 

I'll read all the comments later. I got busy and now it's home time

HAVE A NICE WEEKEND EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!

mahumani
19 Jul 2013 17:53

"Sir, how did you kill 50 pple in a car
accident?" The policeman asked.
Man Sydney reply "I was driving 40 mpH
when I tried
to stop I found out that I have no
breaks,
and I saw two men walking on the street
and a wedding on the other side of the
street, who should I hit?"
The policeman
answered: "Ofcoz the two men, less
damage."
Man sydney said, "That's what I thought
to myself, but when I did it, I hit only
one
and the other one ran to the wedding, so
I went AFTER HIM..." Kwaaaaa

VusiK
19 Jul 2013 22:31

@Zioness ...

My daughter is an adult
She is responsible for her decisions.
I do not go about conducting forensics about her relationship .... I only observe that she is in a relationship wit a fantastic person, not merely by my observation, but by her admission.
How she measures and administers the workings of that relationship is her business.

As a parent, I can only trust that I invested the best decision and selective criteria in her that my means and limits could afford when I was responsible for the pieces that make her the fantastic adult she has developed to be.
If ever she requires my counsel, ... I am certain she will not hesitate to pick up the phone and speak her mind.

Munchie bbz
20 Jul 2013 02:58

Morning friends, jst came back frm night prayer, we had a great time praising and worshiping the almighty God, wish you all the best and prosperous weekend.

@Zioness
20 Jul 2013 10:39

@Vusi, I don't doubt that about your daughter or that you've done your best to ensure that she become a discerning adult, but may I remind you that the initial discussion was and i quote "I also teach my aughters these secrets of keeping their men from straying / cheating (the first being ... don't get married ... it is not necessary to the definition of who you are as a person or a woman ... etc." to which I replied that being unmarried is no guarantee that a cheating partner won't hurt you as much and like portcia said there is no need to lose yourself in a marriage and I doubt it would've much less painfull for her had she found out that her now husband was cheating a year/two/three years before they got married (sorry to use you as an example sis portcia... you've been an inspiration to me to wait and get married WHEN i feel ready...)

VusiK
21 Jul 2013 12:35

@ It is self evident ...
If she is not married ...
All issues that people consider to be territorial regarding marriage are irrellevent and non existent.So far ... my theory has proven itself true.

VusiK
21 Jul 2013 12:40

besides, my modus relates only to my children.
I really do not care how anyone interprets my philosophies.
They happen to work with us, that is no guarantee they will work with anyone else.
Our opinions are ours, We do not state any authority of absolute knowledge regarding how others may wish to live their lives...
or any opinions they may have regarding what they do with any suggestions we may profer.

Kandyfloss
21 Jul 2013 16:18

Hi VusiK *waving*

Mimibob
21 Jul 2013 18:57

Hi Kandyfloss ...
VusiK waving back with MimiK's hand.

VusiK
21 Jul 2013 20:30

Hey Mims! (Waving)
Hey Kandy! (Waving)
...
To close my last comment ...
It matters not to me what people think  around the subject of / merit of marriage; what is of importance if to be happy with whomever I choose to be with. The littlr pircrs are extremely important, but may be equally irellevant.
As adults, we are all accountable for our decisions.

Mimibob
21 Jul 2013 21:48

Hey Vus, I think you really type fast nowadays, or anything engaging you?... pircrs? I sometimes have to check the keyboard to make out some words.. Its worse with your BB.. Lol... With your wide vocab, I at times wonder if its a new word or typo...

Mimibob
21 Jul 2013 22:12

@Vus, no matter your thoughts on marriage right now, I'm gonna walk down the isle, with you on the other end... My happy groom...

Mimibob
21 Jul 2013 22:25

Happy Monday in advance.
Guys, has there been a significant change to your personality or general self from your childhood?
Are you the person your parents raised you to be?
I'm just the complete opposite of who I was as a child.

I grew up doing a lot of house work: cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc.. I had no choice. Mom was strict. I now do not want to do any house work at all, I feel I was "abused" in this area.. lol...

As a child: I was tough, tomboyish, hardly cried, very talkative, I could hate and hold grudges, had a lot of friends, was hardly ever home, used to walk long distances, I was an ugly darkling, wasn't much of a public speaker, too forward, unladylike.

Now: I'm very soft, a girlie girl, cry easily, generally quiet, very loving and forgiving, I don't have close friends, I'm home most of the time, I don't walk - I even drive to the tuckshop a few meters from my house, not so ugly anymore, do a descent job of public speaking, shy, perfect lady.

I'm still intelligent though.. :)

Please share.


Kandyfloss
21 Jul 2013 23:02

Hi Mimik..lol at joint waving. I think am still that person. And i don't like it a bit. Same old ugly habits. Same insecurities i can go on and on.. At times i wonder if i should try to change or its too late. Am 34. Even same body weight for18 years now lol. HELP..

Kandyfloss
21 Jul 2013 23:07

Hi Mimik..lol at joint waving. I think am still that person. And i don't like it a bit. Same old ugly habits. Same insecurities i can go on and on.. At times i wonder if i should try to change or its too late. Am 34. Even same body weight for18 years now lol. HELP..

Kandyfloss
21 Jul 2013 23:09

Oops. Maybe i should sleep.

portcia
22 Jul 2013 08:15

Good morning, and a happy monday to all of you

Growing up as a child i was so lazy, my parents had to pay me to clean the house, so that i can get used to cleaning, always had lots of friends, never washed my clothes, the only thing i would wash was my underwears and sox, very intelligent and active on sports.

Now: i am the cleanest person you'll ever know, i like my house clean so much that i dont mind spending my days cleaning, and i am so into white, i like white stuff around my house and i dont mind cleaning the whites so they can always be clean, even my mother is supprised just how clean i am, and im not so into friends, i like to spend my days with my kids and hubby, and ofcouse still intelligent

@Zioness
22 Jul 2013 08:39

Morning fam, nice topic Mimibob :) Wow aside from a few differences you might as well described me as a child, was also very wild and tomboyish and was absolutely fearless, would climb up n down trees, the roof, mountains hills anything with height, would think nothing of jumping on my bicyle on a random afternoon to go visit my granny in the next town (looooong distance) shem, poor woman's heart could barely hold it, she used to say 'hay, this child not a scared hair on that head, think I long for that absolutely fearless brave unapologetic nature I had as a child the most... but what do you think brought on the dramatic change in you Mimibob and @Portcia?

Goldi
22 Jul 2013 08:53

Morning Family a fruitful week ahead 

well i'm the opposite

LOL Posh lenna i used to get paid just to clean doing any house chores nje was a mission for me but hey guess what

i clean, cook, do laundry and mind even ironing my mother's so proud how i turned out to be cos she was worried hahahahahahaah eish ya ne!!

Bk212303
22 Jul 2013 09:18

Morning everyone.

Mimibob
22 Jul 2013 09:28

@Zioness, I've got no idea what brought about the dramatic change. I was also fearless; went up trees, hills, roof tops, would jump off a swing on high speed, ride my bike with feet on handles and hands in the air, when bike was on full speed. Eish... I can't even ride a bike now because I'm scared of falling.

Goldi
22 Jul 2013 09:59

Lol MimiK and Zioness you not along i'm also the same hey scary i tell you

portcia
22 Jul 2013 10:03

I think when growing up you dont seem to care about things and you dont get scared of getting hurt, you just jump off from wherever you are, i have a big ugly scar on my left feet because of jumping a fence, but it gets better with age.

I still remember when i jumped that fence, i got my penties torn, and they were still new, so i was so scared that my mother will give me a good beating, not because of my torn penties but because i jumped the fence, so i throw my penties behind the fridge, funny hey!.. but one day when my mother did spring cleaning she found it, and yoh i had to tell the truth.

Now tell me do you freak out when you see your child doing all the dangerous stuff you used to do when you were young?

Nongo
22 Jul 2013 10:04

morning family hey Mims im in B/hurst area my area during the day okae wena.
ok b2ur q- was both played very tough used 2 beat otha kids on street, u no when growing up in an army location u use dady's position on otha, that's how - did all cleaning , cooking, very talkative.

NOW - i luv very clean environment, makes sure the yard is clean evrdy, cooks irons, does not nid a helper coz like Porsh most of my blankets are white en natural. needs a prtime helper only when not well, very reserved, forgives easily, loving,no friends at all, u a my friend at chuch en when we meet ends there, no visitations.

portcia
22 Jul 2013 10:07

Hey guys did any of you had a dream as a child, and you still do as a grown up?

As a child i used to dream of people chasing me for different reasons, and as they come close to catch me, i would fly up high, and they dont get to catch me, and i still fly in my dreams even today.

portcia
22 Jul 2013 10:11

I would like to know how malume VusiK grew up.

Mimibob
22 Jul 2013 10:59

Hi Nongo. I thought you worked in Jwaneng. I'm still enjoying anonymity. :)

Nongo
22 Jul 2013 11:25

ok thks Mims enjoy ur anonimity while it lasts coz u hv 2 show ur face when i get "maried" by 4ce with Malume.
love u , laters im at BBA family but i chek u daily.
bye!!!!!!!!

Mimibob
22 Jul 2013 11:29

I'm lolling @ you guys getting paid to work. I knew I had to get up early to clean. My schedule was in my head, otherwise I'd get a beating, definitely not money. Mom stopped hiring helps when I was 11. The first thing I did when I started working was hire a help. I told mom that "everything this lady does, consider done by me" and became a couch potato. When I moved out, both my parents were concerned that I would not be eating well. I still pass by their house to collect diner on the way to my place, sometimes.. I do enjoy cleaning though, so I'm not hopeless after all.

Goldi
22 Jul 2013 11:36

hahahaha haibo MimiK wen do you cook?

portcia
22 Jul 2013 11:38

So Mimibob, you enjoy cleaning but not cooking? come on guys please answer me, someone who have dreams that grows with them.

duckie
22 Jul 2013 11:38

My primary life i grew up with magranny( from ma mum s side)i used to be so staut, wld go up on trees, mountains,play soca with guys..i had lots of guy friends and i remember the othr sun wen i was supposed to be baptised @roman catholic, i woke up in the mrng had brkfst, took a bath and ran away(ma granny ws so angry at me, she even said i had demons thus y i dnt wna b baptisd)

thn Secondary life(from the age of 13) i moved in with ma dad nd step mom yoh thingz changed, we stayed in a quiet surbub ,ws nt allowed to go out with wts ever friends,aftr skool i d go hme ,do ma hme wrk,hlp mom with the cooking nd tht ws it
on wknds wld clean ,wash,cook nd at tht tym i felt i ws bng abused bt today m thankful to my stepmom

Today m a 23yr old young independant  lady , ii love bright colours as well especially bedding 

Ntaksay
22 Jul 2013 11:59

Good day everyone

So many  comments. I don't know if I can catch up. But I'll have to make a plan so that I can be on the same boat like everyone.


Have a lovely day

Mimibob
22 Jul 2013 12:07

@ Goldi & Posh, I'm not a good cook. I think I was never really taught how to cook. I do catch on recipes fast though. I have my days with the kitchen. I'm always throwing out veges and expired staff. If I could afford it, I'd eat out most days. If I had someone to cook for me, I'd happily go the dishes.

Mimibob
22 Jul 2013 12:17

@Posh, I don't remember most of my dreams, unless I'm going through something intense, like new love, and thoughts of him that dominate my day translate into dreams..

yoyozz
22 Jul 2013 15:19

hai my fimaly ey these days im always tired, sick hope i will be better soon

kwaax i grew up with my mom my father died when i was 5 years mom dont talk too much she likes to do things. she clean the house, washing, cooking. i never do my washing, cook or clean even now i dont do anything when im home. but now im staying alone and i have to do everything. when i was at school i used to take my washing home. she never teach me abt life like dating all that. visiting  friends helped me alot i do everything on my own even my mom doesnt know i can do everything she get supprise when people tell her that im good she tought me well.

Goldi
22 Jul 2013 15:57

lol ukukhula kunzima

morning sickness yoyo u know i sometimes wonder why call them morning sickness wen you feel like that the whole day ai!!

Ntaksay
22 Jul 2013 16:00

Interesting topic indeed.

When I grew up I was shy, always indoors, never go out with friend But I would play with them sometimes. There was a helper at home she did laundry, cooking, washing, ironing, cleaning, etc. I learnt cooking at high school level. My aunt taught me. 

Now, still shy, especially if I don't know you but once I get to know you I'm very funny and nice to hangout with, Still not an outgoing person I'm always at home if I don't have anything to do in town or go out with family. I love cooking and baking and I taught myself how to bake. I'm HILDA I like mixing my own combination and come out with whatever comes out but who ever has tasted my baking enjoyed it. I don't like laundry but I do it. I sometimes enjoy cleaning but not always.

Ntaksay
22 Jul 2013 16:03

you can say that again Goldi I had morning sickness through out the pregnancy. But sometime I would ignore it and tell myself that I am not going to entertain you anymore. But it's hard.

You'll get better Yoyo.

coobee2
22 Jul 2013 16:09

Hey..... I'm new here and I must confess this is a really family. I always read the teasers but not the replies, so today I took time off from the pressure I'm currently in and I must say, you ladies can talk and would really like to be part of this family as I will learn a lot from all of u..... Am I welcomed?

Bk212303
22 Jul 2013 16:26

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Keratile
22 Jul 2013 17:10

You are home coobee2. You can take your shoes off now and relax......... :)

Mimibob
22 Jul 2013 17:33

Welcome to the family Coobee2,

VusiK
22 Jul 2013 19:42

@Portcia ...
You would never believe me if I told you.
...
To summarise ...
I was Le Petit Prince ... raised as such & not ashamed of it. (the details are irrelevant)

@Mims ...
That is a very tall order you are challenging yourself to Miss !
...
They are Typographic errors ...
I make errors because I type fast.

maesela
22 Jul 2013 19:48

I would like to join dis family guys...... Am I also welcome???

Mimibob
22 Jul 2013 23:12

@Malome Vusi, That is a very tall order you are challenging yourself to Miss !
I concur. Seemingly impossible even.

@Maesela, you are very welcome dear.

NoMdazB
23 Jul 2013 04:44

Ufikelwe nje imfebo efikela inoma ubani.@JadaPinkett you are so correct about that. Molweni zihlobo. How is everyone? Well today I woke up with this song from one of my kid's cartoons. It ends with,"I feel better, so much better now". Why, you ask? Well I showed my husband the door yesterday. I told him I can see he thinks there's something better out there so he's free to go explore it. He didn't go, I think he's scared to be alone. I told him I'm not scared to be alone, in fact I'd welcome it . So he's staying hihihi, all the while there's a big box of condoms that we dip into if the need for dusting arises. And yes @JadaPinkett I told him ubufebe bufikela nabani na (promiscuity visits every person from time to time) including scorned wives.

NoMdazB
23 Jul 2013 04:52

Well, when I was young I kept to myself. I was very absent-minded but I had all, these mischievous thoughts running through my mind. I was never girly, I grew up with boys. Was lazy but very afraid of punishment so I made sure I did my work. The difference now is am much more outspoken, a bit more girly but those naughty tendencies still course through my veins. People are very surprised when I voice them out, they say I don't seem that way. I don't know what I'm supposed to look like.

maash
23 Jul 2013 07:50

Hi everyone, hope all is well.

maash
23 Jul 2013 07:50

Hi everyone, hope all is well.

portcia
23 Jul 2013 07:51

Morning good people and welcome coobee2 and maesela.

Nomdazb girl, your the man, i am so proud of you, and im sure hubby now knows that you dont take *bleep!* anymore. i give you 5 stars( ting.....)

portcia
23 Jul 2013 07:54

Hi maash, all is well and you are welcome, feel at home.

maash
23 Jul 2013 08:16

@ Porctia thank you very much for welcoming me in your group...:)

portcia
23 Jul 2013 08:26

yoyozz my friend i hope u dont get the morning sickness today, and plz update me on isisbaya,Nomdazb anyone guys pls update, is mpiyakhe back on action? guys pls i beg.

portcia
23 Jul 2013 08:30

Yes malume Vusik i believe you, Le Petit Prince, i now get the picture.

Goldi
23 Jul 2013 08:39

Morning Family

Welcoming two cupcakes to the family coobee and maesela this is home never doubt that

well Nomd good for you darling hope hubby will see that you mean business hope it was not just words you meant what you told him aweeee sisters

B2G: No 1 dumps Noluntu she's the one who does the dumping heheheheheh now let the games begin i cant wait for Dinny to find out the truth Senzo must do the right thing now and support his dad mxxxxm heee MANWHORE passop Noluntu's coming for u

@Zioness
23 Jul 2013 08:46

Morning fam, just have to share with you, my son turned 1 recently and I've decided to wean him off the breast gradually, he's not talking yet, just that cute baby gibberish and things like baba, tata, wawa (for his uncle) and surprisingly his own name which he could say since 9 months... anyway the point of this story is last night I decided to give in and offered him the breast again for the night, I thought he was falling back asleep so i gently pulled it out, he suddenly woke up and said in such a clear sweet voice 'Mama!'... he was clearly a bit annoyed  and surprised it was the most beautiful thing i've ever heard since he has never called me that and although I pretended not be be bothered (everyone that knows us two knows we're each other favorite person :) ) i just couldn't wait for that word Thank You God

@Zioness
23 Jul 2013 08:49

Wow Nomdaz, all hats of to you beautiful woman! what an inspiration

@Zioness
23 Jul 2013 08:50

Welcome coobee and maesela!

NoMdazB
23 Jul 2013 08:51

Oh Goldi I mean it. I feel so fearless. And he can see it. We were with his parents when I said all this, so no, no backing down for me thank you. Before when I talked to him I said it respectfully, but yesterday I was scolding him like a naughty boy and told him I was fed up. And yes the scolding was done with mommy and daddy right there. I told him I have a family that loves me and will welcome me with open arms. I realized that if a person does not respect themselves you also lose respect for him and you see him as a naughty child.

Kera
23 Jul 2013 08:54

Good morning family welcome coobee, maash and maesela.

I grew up as daddy’s little girl, shy never had a lot of friends i spent most of the tome in daddy’s car than at home until i was shipped to boarding school, that where i learned home economics (the cooking part) but they were doing our laundry, nothing much has changed i still don’t have lots of friends but i love going out with my sisters and friends i love cooking but laundry and ironing is still a no no 

NoMdazB
23 Jul 2013 08:59

Enough about my life, anyone kind enough to update me?

Kera
23 Jul 2013 09:03

@Nomda now he know what you are made of 

@ Zioness that is the best thing, wait till his dad says to him tsamaya o lo bitsa mamago and he will come say mamago a bitsa and u will laugh  coz he will be adopting all what you are saying

yoyozz
23 Jul 2013 09:07

nomdazB i i look up to you. you always suprise me standing up for yourself. im happy that you took one step even if he wont move but from now on he knows that you dont take *bleep!* from anyone. hes gonna think twice before he can do anything now.

welcome guys feel free thanks for joining now we gonna party

portcia you know im not good but i will try to update you.

zioness kwaaaax mama for the first time mnike ibele oko angayeki uncanca

thanks my fimaly friends

NoMdazB
23 Jul 2013 09:12

Shame Zioness, give that baby breast milk. The problem with that is you have to take your baby everywhere you go.

@Zioness
23 Jul 2013 09:30

@Kera, it sure is the best thing, part of me can't wait for him to grow up and talk yet part of me wants him to stay my little toolie loolie for ever :)
@Nomdaz it is actually proving much harder than I thought to wean him, think I'm just going to keep at it for some time yes, i'm a first time mom so everything is a learning curve, but I'm lucky to have a very experienced nanny (2nd mommy) who guides me...
Speaking of talking, has anyone here raised their child with multilingually? I'm Afrikaans (speak to him in this) and hubby isiXhosa (speaks to baby in this), nanny is fluent in both so we address her in our respective languages, she uses either/or with baby and me n hubby speak English to each other... Does anyone have experience in this, ppl seem to think that we are hampering his language development but I feel that a child is able to learn so many languages (an ability we lose as we grow older) and we would like him to grow up knowing both?

Bk212303
23 Jul 2013 09:32

Bigg up Nomdaz!!

Bk212303
23 Jul 2013 09:39

Ooh thats so sweet zioness i can imagine how u felt.

NoMdazB
23 Jul 2013 09:45

Hey Zioness I don't think there's anything wrong with what you're doing. My aunt is Xhosa, married to a Tswana guy, and her kids go to an Afrikaans school so they use both English and Afrikaans at school. When they visit us with their mom they automatically use Xhosa and they speak it so well, then they talk to each other in Tswana, and my aunt addresses them in Xhosa and they respond in Tswana. All of these languages they speak very well, so it can be done so big ups to you. Let me tell you the truth; Xhosa people can be harsh and we do not take kindly to people who cannot speak their mother tongue so you are sparing your child from being ostracized.

portcia
23 Jul 2013 09:53

Yoyoz u must get better man, tell me something do you still dust? Zioness sister that was a happy moment for you im sure, and just keep it up with breastmilk, but you know as they get used to it they never want to quit, my daughter lasted for about 3 years, and believe me i was so tired of her always asking for ncanca, but im sure thats why she is so brilliant now, couse thats what they say, a child who was breastfeded turns out to be the most brilliant one

Goldi
23 Jul 2013 09:56

Nchooo sweet Zioness that's the most beautiful thing to be called Mama ((hug))
1yr 6months breast milk and never again *straightface* even 1yr is too much anywho i'm happy for you darling 

Nothing wrong in that Zee kids catch on fast he can speak all those lingo's no worries they *kids* are clever like that

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 09:57

Good morning Everyone

*Bowing infront of NoMdazB*

Welcome all new members, this is home and there is no place like this house.

Zioness that's so sweet, he must love his breast milk. A child is very clever he adopts easily. I know of an African guy who is married to a white girl but the child speaks both Xhosa and English the child is almost 3 now. You have nothing to worry about, just keep breast feeding.

Have a lovely day everyone.

Goldi I'm with on that one, let the games begin btwn Ntuntu & Manwhore. I wish akhona can do something about them now that she knows they tricked her into getting Sibusiso arrested. But she'll be scared since she is part of his arrest, but if she can make Sbuda understand I'm he can forgive her.

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 10:01

My 4 year old daughter speaks Zulu 100%, she used to speak Xhosa until the age of two, the she moved to KZN. My 15 months old speaks Zulu when in kzn and Xhosa when in Eastern cape. She speaks whatever language is spoken at the time.

Kera
23 Jul 2013 10:03

@ Zioness It does not affect the i am Pedi and hubby is Swati so i speak to them in Pedi and hubby speak to them in Swati and at school they use English they speak all these languages fluently( and they speak other languages as well with their fiends and they are not having any problem)

portcia
23 Jul 2013 10:14

Ntaksay please update me on Gen, it seems so interesting just listening to your comments.

Goldi
23 Jul 2013 10:29

How many kids do you have Kera?

Kera
23 Jul 2013 10:44

I have three @ Goldi

@Zioness
23 Jul 2013 10:55

Thank you fam for relating your stories and easing my mind, your guys are so wonderful! we will continue to do what we're doing now and I'm sure pretty soon we'll have a very talkative Xhosa/Afrikaans lil' munchkin! @Nomdaz I've come to experience that somewhat so I've been learning Xhosa (sure my son is prob going to more fluent then me in no time though), I understand much better now but still not too confident in speaking, but hubby is very supportive shem although I sometimes make him and Nanny burst out when I get it horribly wrong (all in good spirits though)

Yes Goldi, it must be the best feeling in the world, never understood what my sister and friends were about until I had my own child, it's a kind of love matched by no other...

@Zioness
23 Jul 2013 10:57

Just came across this little titbit
"The clitoris contains at least 8,000 sensory nerve endings. And while the clitoris is quite small, its powerful sensations can spread across a woman's pelvic area by affecting 15,000 other nerve endings! The clitoris actually grows during a woman's lifetime - by the time a woman is 32 years old, the clitoris will be almost four times as big as it was at the onset of puberty"

- all I can say is 'No wonda....' ;)

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 11:01

Someone please help Porticia with an update, I'm a bit busy.

If no one volunteers until lunch time, I'll update you Posh!!!!!!!! You will just have to be patientooooooooooooooo

Goldi
23 Jul 2013 11:37

hahahahaha Zee i'm with you on that no wona *huge grin*

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 11:46

"Besides pride, loyalty, discipline, heart, and mind, confidence is the key to all the locks." 

portcia
23 Jul 2013 11:56

okay Ntaksay i'll wait.Patience is my middle name

Nongo
23 Jul 2013 12:02

morning family.

@Zio that's a gud feeling as a woman "mama" en looking at his eyes u will fil that luv ooohh baby.
well as much as im supposed to b/feed i hv a problem i think im scared of it coz i get very thin in the process, my no1 bby fed 4 10 mths en i quit.
bby 2 did not enjoy it en yoh ke rekile lebese gore hei coz he started disliking after a mth en dr said i shd stop, but the cost is 2much.

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 12:31

Let me share something with you.

Last year I had a nanny, she left in November. I think I told you her story, when she left she stayed with a boyfriend. She is from Eastern Cape I'm in KZN. Early this year I heard that she is preggies, but it was non of my business. To cut the story short. When I got home yesterday from work with hubby there was a knock at the door and the new nanny answered she comes to me and says there is a lady she wants to talk to you. And normally when someone comes they usually want to speak to hubby I just told him to go and see who it is and what she wants. The lady says no she wants to speak to me.

She asked if we could speak outside, I followed her and she said "I know you don't know me, she told me her name of which I forgot immediately. She said I am the mother of Simba's children

"My hubby's name is also Simba I just froze, didn't know what to say. But she said Oh no not your hubby the guy your former nanny moved in with when she left here. I said to myself so why are telling me that coz it's non of my business. She said she is back together with the guy and the former nanny is in EC and she is phoning her and swearing her and telling her all sort of stories. Still I didn't understand why she was telling me all this. Then asked whether it is true that she is pregnant and due in September. I told her I have no idea she worked for me yes but that's where it ends I don't keep contact with her I last saw her when she left here. Wena if she is  bothering you report her to the police or block her number on you phone and sort this out with your b.f.

Was I harsh with her? How was I supposed to handle this, coz I still think she shouldn't have come to me. I felt bad for, she must really love her b/f to go back to him after all his nonsense. But I cannot help her.

yoyozz
23 Jul 2013 12:50


portcia
Yoyoz u must get better man, tell me something do you still dust?

you want me to cry hey,  i think i myb a virgin now it been weeks or months without dusting. when i pee, i pee like a virgin, im not in a mood of dusting and he also not in a mood but you know them they always want to force things.

@Zioness
23 Jul 2013 12:59

lucky you @nongo! some of us has to exercise to lose the baby fat lol but you're right - formula is expensive, in fact children are expensive - as much as they are a blessing i really wonder sometimes how the less fortunate mothers do it, we are fortunate enough to be working parents but we had to cut down on so much of late... i marvel at the stories the old folks r telling e.g my dad says it was his job as a boy to go to the butchery every day to buy the 10 CENTS of meat for the day's dinner - and they were a family of 12!

No Ntaksay don't think you were harsh, in fact you gave her sound advice, there really is nothing else you could do PS perhaps i judging her harshly because since i dnt know her think you dodged a bullet there, that ex-nanny's character leaves a bit to be desired for - sure there is better ways than swearing and harrassing to sort out issues, but again we don't know the full story...

@Zioness
23 Jul 2013 13:05

@Yoyoz i meant to tell you - i'm sure you've heard all the advice before but anything ginger used to help alot with my ALL DAY SICKNESS, shem hope you're feeling better of late... Can't really give you advice on the dusting, i was horny thoughout my whole pregnancy and dusted till almost the last second *hides and also i heard that dusting helps to 'keep the canals open' so that giving birth is easier? has anyone else heard this?

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 13:06

An update like promised: (my little one was crying most of the time so I couldn't hear everything but I'll do my best)

Dlomo family was ganging up on Senzo for abandoning his father when he needs him, Jason even said how will Chrissie feel when she finds out that he never supported his father when he needed his support.
So he went to prison with her to visit Sbuda.

Akhona asked Noluntu how she knew about Glen's connection to murdering Caleb and why they involved/tricked her. Luntu said something like "I knew you were going to take your time to inestigate" Akhona did not buy that
She went through Luntu's phone when Luntu was out and read all the messages they exchange with phenyo and sent an sms to phenyo asking him to meet her at three towers. Phenyo thought the message was from Noluntu, he left his meeting with Dineo and went to three towers only to see Akhona and Akhona told him she saw the messages on Noluntu's phone and she figured how they played her to get Sbusiso arrested and threatened to tell sbusiso and phenyo said if he comes out of jail he will aslo come after her coz she is also involved in his arrest.

Phenyo set up a meeting with noluntu and told her about akhona going through her phone and told her she shouldn't have kept those messages , Whatever we had is over Noluntu said Noluntu is never dumped she does the dumping.  

Khethiwe went to court but she got a 120hrs community service at old age home and she is definitely not getting Mpilo anytime soon. The social worker visited her asked her if she has anyone in mind that can adopt Mpilo she asked Ruby but she does not like the idea of looking after a child, Khethiwe berged her and she said she will think about it. She went to prison to visit Khubone and told him that she did what she had to do in return she will send money to his family every month. Bra K said she will pay for what she did when he gets out.

chopstix is planning a surprise picnic with Zinhle MJ has to make sure that the cameras are not working and no one sees them and has to give him his access card.

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 13:12

I have heard that Zioness

Bk212303
23 Jul 2013 13:28

Ntaksay you were not harsh at all. She is just involving the wrong person, due to her stress. So dont feel bad at all. yoyos u dont dust? i would have fits if i dont dust in 2days "hides"

Pastry
23 Jul 2013 13:28

@Zioness...now that you mention it it makes sense. Delivery went smooth for me, pains were there but all in all i did not struggle at all, could it be the dusting we had in the last two months? #will forever wonder#

As for 'mama' thats how my LO did as well called me that for the first time when I was breastfeeding...i though he was full and pulled out oops only for him to say mama. I know how you are feeling sister!

@Ntak...i smell a rotten fat rat at a visit of that stranger in your home

yoyozz
23 Jul 2013 14:06

zioness thanks im going to try it tomorrow

ntaksay tht women in your door knows a lot about you. she even know that your husband is SIMBA tell her to go to hell marn and make a research about her. i think she want you to feel sorry for her, and hire her to look after the kids then shes gonna look after your husband too

Goldi
23 Jul 2013 14:13

Ntaks you were not hush @ all she must just sort out her DOG nje and leave you the hell alone mxxxxm

Mina wen i was preggies  i was dusting like no tomorrow that was my antinatal class shem till da last day so askies Yoyo but why both of you not in the mood? with you i get u fool of *bleep!* but him?

Bk212303
23 Jul 2013 14:15

hhahahaah @yoyos

@Pastry mmmmmh now that i think about i think u have a point there @Ntaksay usatana uze ngokwakhe becarefull dear frnd. Cause there is a big question mark if she comes again listen to her maybe she has something that connects you to the old nanny ,why would she ask for u specific ??????
Hidden agenda


My sos tells me that after Dinny hears about syoyoyo cheating she moves to her mothers and then tells Sbuda that he was set up by her hubby and Luntu.
Syoyoyo will thrown out of Dlomo house and his eye out though.

Wandi will come back and let Sbuda will run Yona Yetu and then this new guy will run Ezweni.

portcia
23 Jul 2013 14:57

yoyozz, you must keep up with dusting, it does make delivering easy.and you will feel much better after dusting instead of being sick( talking from experience) hence we all differ, but try it

Ntaksay dont let that evil girl come between you and your hubby, for all you know that ex nanny of your did send her there, couse you dont know this lady how does she know your husbands name, some people never rest untill they rip you out your happiness. Tell your hubby about this, and hey... dont start doubting your hubby, couse thats exactly what they want. thanx for the updates anyway

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 14:57

Thanks ladies

If Dinny is the one to get Sbuda out of jail she must do it quickly.

But a week ago Sbuda received a call fro Scott Nomvete and he said "angifuni ukukhuluma naleyo mfene (I don't want to speak to that baboon)"
I thought he was going to rescue him, but previously someone mentioned that he is going to steal Ezweni

Goldi
23 Jul 2013 15:07

Ntaks Simba your Hubby is he baby daddy?

mmmmm intersting if that's the case cant wait

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 15:13

Whose baby daddy Goldi? 
Simba is the father of my children and my hubby This girl's boyfriend's name is also Simba and he also her children's father but not my Simba

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 15:28

How often do you guys visit the Wezwa site. I read that Jason will have an affair with Scott Nomvethe.

portcia
23 Jul 2013 15:31

iyoooooo Goldi wantabola, ( interesting if thats the case cant wait)

portcia
23 Jul 2013 15:34

iyoh hectic, so scott Nomvete is a gay? if thats the case, then he wont over rule Sbusiso, then again jason can also help him to get ezweni( drama, drama, drama)

Goldi
23 Jul 2013 15:35

lol Posh 

Ntaksay i was asking cos i wanted to know gore is Simba your Hubby the same guy who was threating to leave and take the kids with?

Simba is the father of my children and my hubby This girl's boyfriend's name is also Simba and he also her children's father but not my Simba I understand this part

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 15:43

Yes it is that one.

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 15:46

I don't believe that nonsense, two gays are enough we don't want gay drama.

I want Jason to help Sbusiso to bring down the tea lady and the manwhore with the help of Akhona, she owes sbusiso for getting him arrested.

Goldi
23 Jul 2013 15:52

OK, so everything sorted now? 

haai i can seem to get in that site eish *pulling my hair*

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 16:04

Yes everything is sorted. I just ignored him from that time, when he goes out I wouldn't phone him coz we used to phone each other especially met. But he got worried. For now he is a good boy he phones when he is coming home late of which it's something he hasn't been doing, and there are no strange calls. I don't know for how long though.

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 16:05

Why can't you get into the site Goldi?

Ntaksay
23 Jul 2013 16:20

Bye people, Ek gaan huis toe.

portcia
23 Jul 2013 16:24

Hai Ntaksay it also doesnt allow me, it would be interesting to read the Gen articles, anyways bye for now, see you tomorrow

yoyozz
23 Jul 2013 16:30


ntaksay How often do you guys visit the Wezwa site. I read that Jason will have an affair with Scott Nomvethe.

 i registered to that site but i get tired i thought its gonna be like facebook stay in my menu i didnt know im going to search every time i want to read hasuka

kwaaaax jason and nomvete in bed dusting i can imagine jason going down to nomvete muff him hard and nomvete is creaming comeon jyzee and now hes pushing him on the back nooooo this is too much nomvete is too old shuuu hes suppose to be a father to jason not a girlfriend. mfundi comeup with another plan

vuxy
24 Jul 2013 08:13

pls bring back sibusiso from jail.

Bk212303
24 Jul 2013 08:13

Molweni nonke

Bk212303
24 Jul 2013 08:15

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak@yoyos

Ntaksay
24 Jul 2013 08:25

kwaaaax jason and nomvete in bed dusting i can imagine jason going down to nomvete muff him hard and nomvete is creaming comeon jyzee and now hes pushing him on the back nooooo this is too much nomvete is too old shuuu hes suppose to be a father to jason not a girlfriend. mfundi comeup with another plan

Yoyo your mind is working overtime. lol

I don't think this is true, hayi someone was just trying to come up with something besides Khethiwe saga. Phela that site is all about Gen and yesterday they were talking about Kethi most of the time, It's boring shame.

Maybe if we can all go visit them for one hour, I'm sure Mfundi would give us an award because we would give them an oomph. 

portcia
24 Jul 2013 08:34

morning to you all, lol at yoyozz, o ngwana mang ye?

Goldi
24 Jul 2013 08:53

Morning Family 

eish Ntaks it hangs hey i dont know why so i just left it like that well i also dont think it's true hey lol @ giving us an award 

i'm liking the games Noluntu vs Dinny and Manwhore hahahahahahaha Akhona must come up with a plan to help S'buda haai maan i like JB he's a family man he strongly believes in Family that's what i like, Zinhle irritates me no comment mxxm

Bk212303
24 Jul 2013 08:58

What changed with Zinhle cause at first she seemed like a positive person. Dinny yhoo abusive nhee. Yhoo Sbuda is trusting the wrong man and when he finds out all hell will break loose i just hope that he wont be sick after finding out.

yoyozz
24 Jul 2013 09:12

mornings my fimaly

ZINTLE 3 PIZZAS YHOOOOO shocked for days. did you see chopas face and eyes he cried

Kera
24 Jul 2013 09:17

Morning family 

Goldi
24 Jul 2013 09:26

Zinhle onale pro eating disorder nje Dinny's so violent yhooooo even manwhore is scared of her

Bk212303
24 Jul 2013 09:58

Manwhore should think before puting his pinci poncy to someone else

Ntaksay
24 Jul 2013 10:04

Not just PIZZAS Yoyo THREE LARGE PIZZAS, Why did she eat from the bathroom coz the cameras are off?????????????

Yho Dinny must beat the hell out of him for cheating!!!!!!!!!!!! Good girl Dinny

Nunumsi
24 Jul 2013 10:09

I don't care abt Manwhore I'm only worried abt poor Dinny, anger can make u do things u didn't think u'll ever do "even kill someone".

Zinhle must just stop her eating disorder Chopa was abt 2 cry @ dat moment & he's not a sensetive person but this showed us da side of him we never knew.

Ntaksay
24 Jul 2013 10:15

Ladies and Gents please help me, I'm doing an excel spread sheet.  I want to merge two columns (both with data) but it won't allow me without losing data from one column. Is there any other way I can do this without losing data coz I need and doing it manually takes time????????????????????

Nunumsi
24 Jul 2013 10:16

Sorry good people I forgot 2 greet. Morning all. I really like ur topics & comments & like 2 b involved but my laptop won't let me comment POST A REPLY IS JUST GREY WITH NO BLOCK TO WRITE MY THOUGHTS and this really hurts as I like 2 b a loyal part of this wonderful family even now I'm using someone's PC bcoz she's not in.... I'm off 2 my stupid laptop now but I'll keep reading as I always do. Bye, bye "with tears in her eyes"

Ms Opinionated
24 Jul 2013 10:20

LOL yes Yoyozz Zintle has 3 LARGE PIZZAS, im sorry couldnt help laughing at that scene with her and Choppa in the bathroom. Some scenes on Gen are mean to be serious but i cnt stop lafing njem like when Dinny hit Manwhore lmao!!! shame ke sono, why does he take that? he should give her one serious shake and throw her on the bed she will learn.

Goldi
24 Jul 2013 10:56

askies Nunu we love you too hey when ever you get a chance just halla @ your family yeh!! errrr Ntaks i'll come back to you

Mimibob
24 Jul 2013 11:20

@Ntaks, yes dear, you can. Create another column. Assuming you want to merge column A and B, type the following in the new column: =A1&""&B1, then double click on lower right corner of the cell to get the formula down to other cells. I hope this helps.

@Zioness
24 Jul 2013 11:25

Morning fam! welcome and askies neh nunu - don't worry i'm not expecting a reply ;) seriously though hope ur laptop gets sorted soon, so that we can hear from you
Sorry @Ntaks, have no clue how to do that  - although i always put on CV 'proficient in Ms Excel' lol

Mimibob
24 Jul 2013 11:28

Ntaks, please ensure the is space between the " " so that the texts from the two cells appear spaced in the new cell. (eg Mimi Vusi instead of MimiVusi).

Mimibob
24 Jul 2013 11:31

The formula should automatically "seep" down when you press enter on 1st column.

Mimibob
24 Jul 2013 11:44

Copy & past the new colum to a separete column, values only, so that you are able to delete the columns you were merging without affecting the new column. I do not know a simpler way. Please let me know if you managed.

portcia
24 Jul 2013 11:51

Hey guys there is no hot topic today? dont have a lot to do today so, please post something, eish ke rata ditaba ne!...

Ntaksay
24 Jul 2013 11:54

Thanks Mims If you were next to me I'd kiss you feet.

Thank you it is working

Mimibob
24 Jul 2013 11:58

@ Ntaks, You are welcome dear. :)

Goldi
24 Jul 2013 12:22

Thanks MimiK :)

I'm not feeling well today i could do with a hot topic lenna Posh come ladies out with it

i'm just chatting with Dhee she cant post something is wrong with her pc so bare with her until she can awe *as i wait for the hot topic*

macash
24 Jul 2013 12:58

Good day everyone, anyone pls I need advice...I am in this relationship for the past 14yrs. I have 3 children, my hubby lost his job 4yrs ago...it's getting to me now coz he doesn't even try to search for a job. Just sits back & complains and dreams about when he has money he will do this and do that...I am planning on leaving him...do u guys think it's a good idea? I have tried my best to discuss things but when ever I raise the topic of work, marriage ect. he gets angry and starts swearing then I just keep quiet...pls help, I really don't know what to do now. I am also considering my children, coz their really close to him...

macash
24 Jul 2013 12:58

Good day everyone, anyone pls I need advice...I am in this relationship for the past 14yrs. I have 3 children, my hubby lost his job 4yrs ago...it's getting to me now coz he doesn't even try to search for a job. Just sits back & complains and dreams about when he has money he will do this and do that...I am planning on leaving him...do u guys think it's a good idea? I have tried my best to discuss things but when ever I raise the topic of work, marriage ect. he gets angry and starts swearing then I just keep quiet...pls help, I really don't know what to do now. I am also considering my children, coz their really close to him...

portcia
24 Jul 2013 13:09

Hi macash, do you still love this guy? breaking up's when there are chidren involved is difficuld, but sometimes we have to think of what things like that do to our selfs, especially when you say he swears at you, you now think about your kids but imagine what those poor kids will have to experience if you dont leave him?

Mimibob
24 Jul 2013 13:11

@Macash, are you married to this guy? You call him husband, then mentioned raising the issue of marriage...

@2012
24 Jul 2013 13:28

THURSDAY 01 August 2013: Ngamla is reluctant to betray someone he cares about. Khethiwe gets bad news and is devastated by it. Sello receives a visitor who wants to strike a deal with him.

FRIDAY 02 August 2013: Queen is horrified when she realises why Prince is acting so strange. If you want to serenade a loved one, it helps if you can sing… Mpilo’s new foster mother is revealed.

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MONDAY 05 August 2013: Noluntu boasts about the great weekend she had with her new man. Choppa has to make a difficult choice - Zinhle or the prize money? Nicholas is jealous when his girl connects with another man.

TUESDAY 06 August 2013: The Memela children are shocked when Mawande arrives home. Phenyo is rattled to hear what his mistress is capable of. Dineo puts two and two together and is devastated by what she finds.

WEDNESDAY 07 August 2013: The gloves come off during a cat-fight at Ezweni. Queen is delighted when she catches Prince in the act. MJ comes to drunken Khethiwe’s rescue.

THURSDAY 08 August 2013: Noluntu reveals the real reason Ngamla went after Glen. Cindy realises Scott is hiding something from her. Choppa bids Zinhle an emotional goodbye.

FRIDAY 09 August 2013: Nicholas is surprised to see who Akhona’s hanging out with. And the award for best gambler goes to… Queen Moroka! Dineo’s worst fear comes true.

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MONDAY 12 August 2013: Mawande finds out a shocking truth. Phenyo is a man in pain. Khethiwe chases a desperate friend away.

TUESDAY 13 August 2013: Senzo gets bamboozled into a high-stakes poker game. Noluntu tries to sabotage her mother’s search for truth. Cindy gets ready to carry out Scott’s sinister plan…

WEDNESDAY 14 August 2013: Nicholas is punished for someone else’s mistake. Ngamla finds out he was betrayed by one of his own. Queen’s poker night doesn’t turn out the way she expected it to.

THURSDAY 15 August 2013: A YonaYethu employee is chased off the premises. Akhona confesses all, unaware she’s being recorded. Phenyo reaches out to broken Dineo.

FRIDAY 16 August 2013: Noluntu tries to rope in a journalist for her revenge plan. A surprise announcement leaves everyone at Ezweni reeling in shock. Senzo is horrified when he finds out the truth.

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MONDAY 19 August 2013: Prince catches Queen in the act. Scott takes an instant liking to a female colleague. Mawande panics when something important goes missing.

TUESDAY 20 August 2013: Fed up Dineo wants to move in with Ruby. Phenyo realises his problems have only just started. The Memela house is in turmoil after a shock revelation.

WEDNESDAY 21 August 2013: Noluntu will keep her mouth shut but at a price. Jason isn’t happy about the latest developments at home. Shock and horror when a long-hidden family secret finally comes to light.

THURSDAY 22 August 2013: Scott is disgusted to hear what his brother is capable of. Senzo threatens a staffer with a written warning. MJ finds comfort in a woman’s arms…

FRIDAY 23 August 2013: Dineo’s abusiveness lands Phenyo in hospital. Mawande decides to pack it all in and leave for good. Queen resorts to desperate measures to fund her gambling habit.

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MONDAY 26 August 2013: Isabel is puzzled by MJ’s strange behaviour. What’s bad news for YonaYethu is good news for Jason. Noluntu finally gets what’s coming to her.

TUESDAY 27 August 2013: Scott is unsettled about what he witnesses in the editorial office. Embarrassed Phenyo realises his secret is out. A carefully planned romantic dinner ends in disaster.

WEDNESDAY 28 August 2013: Queen calls in sick, even though she’s not. Ruby doesn’t realise that her pep talk is falling on deaf ears. Khethiwe gets a late-night visitor, only he’s not interested in talking…

THURSDAY 29 August 2013: Lindi shows up at the Three Towers at the worst possible time. Cindy worries when Scott’s conscience starts to get the better of him. Dineo gets a taste of her own medicine.

FRIDAY 30 August 2013: Patricia gets the fright of her life when she arrives for work. Phenyo has finally had enough. Isabel plans a romantic dinner but gets a nasty surprise.

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@2012
24 Jul 2013 13:28

THURSDAY 01 August 2013: Ngamla is reluctant to betray someone he cares about. Khethiwe gets bad news and is devastated by it. Sello receives a visitor who wants to strike a deal with him.

FRIDAY 02 August 2013: Queen is horrified when she realises why Prince is acting so strange. If you want to serenade a loved one, it helps if you can sing… Mpilo’s new foster mother is revealed.

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MONDAY 05 August 2013: Noluntu boasts about the great weekend she had with her new man. Choppa has to make a difficult choice - Zinhle or the prize money? Nicholas is jealous when his girl connects with another man.

TUESDAY 06 August 2013: The Memela children are shocked when Mawande arrives home. Phenyo is rattled to hear what his mistress is capable of. Dineo puts two and two together and is devastated by what she finds.

WEDNESDAY 07 August 2013: The gloves come off during a cat-fight at Ezweni. Queen is delighted when she catches Prince in the act. MJ comes to drunken Khethiwe’s rescue.

THURSDAY 08 August 2013: Noluntu reveals the real reason Ngamla went after Glen. Cindy realises Scott is hiding something from her. Choppa bids Zinhle an emotional goodbye.

FRIDAY 09 August 2013: Nicholas is surprised to see who Akhona’s hanging out with. And the award for best gambler goes to… Queen Moroka! Dineo’s worst fear comes true.

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MONDAY 12 August 2013: Mawande finds out a shocking truth. Phenyo is a man in pain. Khethiwe chases a desperate friend away.

TUESDAY 13 August 2013: Senzo gets bamboozled into a high-stakes poker game. Noluntu tries to sabotage her mother’s search for truth. Cindy gets ready to carry out Scott’s sinister plan…

WEDNESDAY 14 August 2013: Nicholas is punished for someone else’s mistake. Ngamla finds out he was betrayed by one of his own. Queen’s poker night doesn’t turn out the way she expected it to.

THURSDAY 15 August 2013: A YonaYethu employee is chased off the premises. Akhona confesses all, unaware she’s being recorded. Phenyo reaches out to broken Dineo.

FRIDAY 16 August 2013: Noluntu tries to rope in a journalist for her revenge plan. A surprise announcement leaves everyone at Ezweni reeling in shock. Senzo is horrified when he finds out the truth.

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MONDAY 19 August 2013: Prince catches Queen in the act. Scott takes an instant liking to a female colleague. Mawande panics when something important goes missing.

TUESDAY 20 August 2013: Fed up Dineo wants to move in with Ruby. Phenyo realises his problems have only just started. The Memela house is in turmoil after a shock revelation.

WEDNESDAY 21 August 2013: Noluntu will keep her mouth shut but at a price. Jason isn’t happy about the latest developments at home. Shock and horror when a long-hidden family secret finally comes to light.

THURSDAY 22 August 2013: Scott is disgusted to hear what his brother is capable of. Senzo threatens a staffer with a written warning. MJ finds comfort in a woman’s arms…

FRIDAY 23 August 2013: Dineo’s abusiveness lands Phenyo in hospital. Mawande decides to pack it all in and leave for good. Queen resorts to desperate measures to fund her gambling habit.

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MONDAY 26 August 2013: Isabel is puzzled by MJ’s strange behaviour. What’s bad news for YonaYethu is good news for Jason. Noluntu finally gets what’s coming to her.

TUESDAY 27 August 2013: Scott is unsettled about what he witnesses in the editorial office. Embarrassed Phenyo realises his secret is out. A carefully planned romantic dinner ends in disaster.

WEDNESDAY 28 August 2013: Queen calls in sick, even though she’s not. Ruby doesn’t realise that her pep talk is falling on deaf ears. Khethiwe gets a late-night visitor, only he’s not interested in talking…

THURSDAY 29 August 2013: Lindi shows up at the Three Towers at the worst possible time. Cindy worries when Scott’s conscience starts to get the better of him. Dineo gets a taste of her own medicine.

FRIDAY 30 August 2013: Patricia gets the fright of her life when she arrives for work. Phenyo has finally had enough. Isabel plans a romantic dinner but gets a nasty surprise.

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24 Jul 2013 13:28

THURSDAY 01 August 2013: Ngamla is reluctant to betray someone he cares about. Khethiwe gets bad news and is devastated by it. Sello receives a visitor who wants to strike a deal with him.

FRIDAY 02 August 2013: Queen is horrified when she realises why Prince is acting so strange. If you want to serenade a loved one, it helps if you can sing… Mpilo’s new foster mother is revealed.

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MONDAY 05 August 2013: Noluntu boasts about the great weekend she had with her new man. Choppa has to make a difficult choice - Zinhle or the prize money? Nicholas is jealous when his girl connects with another man.

TUESDAY 06 August 2013: The Memela children are shocked when Mawande arrives home. Phenyo is rattled to hear what his mistress is capable of. Dineo puts two and two together and is devastated by what she finds.

WEDNESDAY 07 August 2013: The gloves come off during a cat-fight at Ezweni. Queen is delighted when she catches Prince in the act. MJ comes to drunken Khethiwe’s rescue.

THURSDAY 08 August 2013: Noluntu reveals the real reason Ngamla went after Glen. Cindy realises Scott is hiding something from her. Choppa bids Zinhle an emotional goodbye.

FRIDAY 09 August 2013: Nicholas is surprised to see who Akhona’s hanging out with. And the award for best gambler goes to… Queen Moroka! Dineo’s worst fear comes true.

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MONDAY 12 August 2013: Mawande finds out a shocking truth. Phenyo is a man in pain. Khethiwe chases a desperate friend away.

TUESDAY 13 August 2013: Senzo gets bamboozled into a high-stakes poker game. Noluntu tries to sabotage her mother’s search for truth. Cindy gets ready to carry out Scott’s sinister plan…

WEDNESDAY 14 August 2013: Nicholas is punished for someone else’s mistake. Ngamla finds out he was betrayed by one of his own. Queen’s poker night doesn’t turn out the way she expected it to.

THURSDAY 15 August 2013: A YonaYethu employee is chased off the premises. Akhona confesses all, unaware she’s being recorded. Phenyo reaches out to broken Dineo.

FRIDAY 16 August 2013: Noluntu tries to rope in a journalist for her revenge plan. A surprise announcement leaves everyone at Ezweni reeling in shock. Senzo is horrified when he finds out the truth.

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MONDAY 19 August 2013: Prince catches Queen in the act. Scott takes an instant liking to a female colleague. Mawande panics when something important goes missing.

TUESDAY 20 August 2013: Fed up Dineo wants to move in with Ruby. Phenyo realises his problems have only just started. The Memela house is in turmoil after a shock revelation.

WEDNESDAY 21 August 2013: Noluntu will keep her mouth shut but at a price. Jason isn’t happy about the latest developments at home. Shock and horror when a long-hidden family secret finally comes to light.

THURSDAY 22 August 2013: Scott is disgusted to hear what his brother is capable of. Senzo threatens a staffer with a written warning. MJ finds comfort in a woman’s arms…

FRIDAY 23 August 2013: Dineo’s abusiveness lands Phenyo in hospital. Mawande decides to pack it all in and leave for good. Queen resorts to desperate measures to fund her gambling habit.

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MONDAY 26 August 2013: Isabel is puzzled by MJ’s strange behaviour. What’s bad news for YonaYethu is good news for Jason. Noluntu finally gets what’s coming to her.

TUESDAY 27 August 2013: Scott is unsettled about what he witnesses in the editorial office. Embarrassed Phenyo realises his secret is out. A carefully planned romantic dinner ends in disaster.

WEDNESDAY 28 August 2013: Queen calls in sick, even though she’s not. Ruby doesn’t realise that her pep talk is falling on deaf ears. Khethiwe gets a late-night visitor, only he’s not interested in talking…

THURSDAY 29 August 2013: Lindi shows up at the Three Towers at the worst possible time. Cindy worries when Scott’s conscience starts to get the better of him. Dineo gets a taste of her own medicine.

FRIDAY 30 August 2013: Patricia gets the fright of her life when she arrives for work. Phenyo has finally had enough. Isabel plans a romantic dinner but gets a nasty surprise.

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24 Jul 2013 13:29

THURSDAY 01 August 2013: Ngamla is reluctant to betray someone he cares about. Khethiwe gets bad news and is devastated by it. Sello receives a visitor who wants to strike a deal with him.

FRIDAY 02 August 2013: Queen is horrified when she realises why Prince is acting so strange. If you want to serenade a loved one, it helps if you can sing… Mpilo’s new foster mother is revealed.

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MONDAY 05 August 2013: Noluntu boasts about the great weekend she had with her new man. Choppa has to make a difficult choice - Zinhle or the prize money? Nicholas is jealous when his girl connects with another man.

TUESDAY 06 August 2013: The Memela children are shocked when Mawande arrives home. Phenyo is rattled to hear what his mistress is capable of. Dineo puts two and two together and is devastated by what she finds.

WEDNESDAY 07 August 2013: The gloves come off during a cat-fight at Ezweni. Queen is delighted when she catches Prince in the act. MJ comes to drunken Khethiwe’s rescue.

THURSDAY 08 August 2013: Noluntu reveals the real reason Ngamla went after Glen. Cindy realises Scott is hiding something from her. Choppa bids Zinhle an emotional goodbye.

FRIDAY 09 August 2013: Nicholas is surprised to see who Akhona’s hanging out with. And the award for best gambler goes to… Queen Moroka! Dineo’s worst fear comes true.

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MONDAY 12 August 2013: Mawande finds out a shocking truth. Phenyo is a man in pain. Khethiwe chases a desperate friend away.

TUESDAY 13 August 2013: Senzo gets bamboozled into a high-stakes poker game. Noluntu tries to sabotage her mother’s search for truth. Cindy gets ready to carry out Scott’s sinister plan…

WEDNESDAY 14 August 2013: Nicholas is punished for someone else’s mistake. Ngamla finds out he was betrayed by one of his own. Queen’s poker night doesn’t turn out the way she expected it to.

THURSDAY 15 August 2013: A YonaYethu employee is chased off the premises. Akhona confesses all, unaware she’s being recorded. Phenyo reaches out to broken Dineo.

FRIDAY 16 August 2013: Noluntu tries to rope in a journalist for her revenge plan. A surprise announcement leaves everyone at Ezweni reeling in shock. Senzo is horrified when he finds out the truth.

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MONDAY 19 August 2013: Prince catches Queen in the act. Scott takes an instant liking to a female colleague. Mawande panics when something important goes missing.

TUESDAY 20 August 2013: Fed up Dineo wants to move in with Ruby. Phenyo realises his problems have only just started. The Memela house is in turmoil after a shock revelation.

WEDNESDAY 21 August 2013: Noluntu will keep her mouth shut but at a price. Jason isn’t happy about the latest developments at home. Shock and horror when a long-hidden family secret finally comes to light.

THURSDAY 22 August 2013: Scott is disgusted to hear what his brother is capable of. Senzo threatens a staffer with a written warning. MJ finds comfort in a woman’s arms…

FRIDAY 23 August 2013: Dineo’s abusiveness lands Phenyo in hospital. Mawande decides to pack it all in and leave for good. Queen resorts to desperate measures to fund her gambling habit.

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MONDAY 26 August 2013: Isabel is puzzled by MJ’s strange behaviour. What’s bad news for YonaYethu is good news for Jason. Noluntu finally gets what’s coming to her.

TUESDAY 27 August 2013: Scott is unsettled about what he witnesses in the editorial office. Embarrassed Phenyo realises his secret is out. A carefully planned romantic dinner ends in disaster.

WEDNESDAY 28 August 2013: Queen calls in sick, even though she’s not. Ruby doesn’t realise that her pep talk is falling on deaf ears. Khethiwe gets a late-night visitor, only he’s not interested in talking…

THURSDAY 29 August 2013: Lindi shows up at the Three Towers at the worst possible time. Cindy worries when Scott’s conscience starts to get the better of him. Dineo gets a taste of her own medicine.

FRIDAY 30 August 2013: Patricia gets the fright of her life when she arrives for work. Phenyo has finally had enough. Isabel plans a romantic dinner but gets a nasty surprise.

@2012
24 Jul 2013 13:33

sorry 4 many post

portcia
24 Jul 2013 13:48

@2012, where did you get the teasers already? interesting though

@2012
24 Jul 2013 14:14


@portcia....TVSA  is late these days. check out,rythm city,scandal,isibaya and isidingo if you are a fan of them too

@2012
24 Jul 2013 14:17


@ porticia....TVSA is late these days with them. Check out rythm city, isibaya, scandal and isidingo if you are a fan also

Ntaksay
24 Jul 2013 14:44

Nunu: try pressing Alt and x at the same time, then on the small window that appears click F12 Developer tools another big window is going to appear look for  Document Mode: IE9 standard, click on it and wait for a few seconds the close it, after that your reply box should be available.

Thanks for the teasers @2012

JadaPinkett
24 Jul 2013 14:44

mmmmmmmmmmmmmm interesting on August Gene teasers.

market
24 Jul 2013 14:59

ooh this is lovely thax@2012 for the teasers.

coobee2
24 Jul 2013 15:17

Generations is getting more and more interesting!

coobee2
24 Jul 2013 15:18

Generations is getting more and more interesting!

Ntaksay
24 Jul 2013 15:22

I forgot to say that after document mode you click Internet explorer 9 standards

Macash you are not clear here, are you married to this guy? coz you mention about the issue of marriage (what do you mean by that? besides the financial issue and the job are you experiencing other marriage challenges or do you mean he is avoiding you when you talk about him marrying you) please clarify.

It is difficult when a man does not want to work and swear at you when you talk to him, if you are with him because of the children, they are also suffering because of this. No child likes seeing their mom being called names and they can sense when you fight all the time. They don't perform well at school, even socially they are affected. Even you are always angry coz you always think about the thing your hubby calls and how you can get to him and reason with him. It's hard to feed someone and at the end they *bleep!* on you. You need to be straight with him, tell him that you cannot tolerate his nonsense anymore if he does not pick up the pieces and put the puzzle together you are leaving him, he can see the kidz whenever he wants or during school holidays. You have tried your best he needs to meet you half way.

Ntaksay
24 Jul 2013 15:28

@macash are you married?, you are not clear my dear.

It's not easy to be with someone who does not appreciate your efforts, you feed him, his children pay fees, and other bills but he swears at you when you try and convince him to find a job. If you are not happy your children are also not happy, no child likes seeing their mother being insulted, especially by their lovely daddy. They will grow up to hate him at some point even if they are close to him or they will think that mistreating a woman is the right thing coz daddy dearest is doing it.

Talk to him, tell him if he does not pick up the pieces and put the puzzle back together you are leaving, you have tried to meet him half way but he does not appreciate your efforts.

I'm sorry you have to go through that, be strong

Ntaksay
24 Jul 2013 15:31

I thought my first reply didn't go because after clicking reply my computer just froze for a while after that it said the programme has stopped working, I retyped again and posted to my surprise that my first reply went through. 

your luck Macash

portcia
24 Jul 2013 15:36

I have to agree with Ntaksay, he really needs to pick up the pieces and put the puzzle together, though love is not all about money, but is so difficulf for a woman to contribute on everything at home and but putting the poor children on our difficult situations is bad. if he really cant understand you and still doesnt treat you well, then your kids will understand when they are old. i dont say leave him or dont leave him, just do what your heart tells you and stop worring about the kids.

Goldi
24 Jul 2013 15:38

wow interesting

Ntaksay
24 Jul 2013 15:39

At least Sbuda will find out that he was sabotaged by his own flash and blood, this month is going to be hot.

Goldi
24 Jul 2013 15:51

Macash we waiting for the clarification love b4 we shoot?

Does your man only swears @ you only wen u discuss about work ? do you still love this man?

portcia
24 Jul 2013 16:12

macash we are still waiting

macash
24 Jul 2013 16:13

Good day again everyone, sorry for only getting back to u guys only now, I am chatting from my works computer so we have a limited period of going on-line. @ Mimibob & Ntaksay I'm not married to him it's Vat en Sit. Thank you all for the advice I really appreciate it, all of u got me thinking, I have decide to give him one last chance. I am going to sit him down, tell him everything how I feel and where I see myself a few years from now and if he really loves me he won't get upset...ja and it's true not only am I hurting myself I am hurting my children as well. @ Goldi he always swears he grw up in a home were his grandmother, mother actually everybody swears and it's normal to them, so I don't know should I use this as an excuse...I have told him plenty times that I hate this swearing part. then he is okay for 2 days and starts again...u asked me if I love still love him honestly I DON'T KNOW anymore!!!

yoyozz
24 Jul 2013 16:15

sowetan iyaphapha yhooooo, why sowetan is posting teasers early so kwaaaaaax

Ntaksay
24 Jul 2013 16:20

Good Luck Macash

Bye bye ladies

portcia
24 Jul 2013 16:25

For kids growing up in a place where everyone swears is not good at all, maybe after he gets to understand that he needs a job then you guys have to move out of that house quickly before your kids becomes one of the swearing people in your yard, or maybe go back home for few months and allow them to visit daddy, couse you are not sure of how you feel lately,that could be the oly chance you have of getting to know if you still love him, couse you'll be away mos

Goldi
24 Jul 2013 16:29

Laters 

to be continued Macash.......

Mimibob
24 Jul 2013 21:20

Macash, you sound like you are sorted now. All the best dear.

Mimibob
24 Jul 2013 21:45

Guys, how do I overcome a spelling disability?

I have always been terrible with English spelling since I could write. I was top of my class in most classes and aced everything except English spelling. I mostly realise afterward though that i got the spelling wrong, or with the help of smartphones. I once struggle with a word so much that there was no suggestion because I was wayyy off, I tried so many time till I called (phoned) a friend to ask for correct spelling. Examples of the words I would get wrong:

Staff - stuff (I get this wrong most times)
Wright - write
Antious - Anxious
Eczatly - Exactly (I have since mastered this one)
Darkling - duckling
Surbodinate/Subbordinate - subordinate (I did a course post grad that required use of this a lot and I got it wrong all the time)
Gorvenor - Governor
Tommorow - tomorrow

I actually had to look up correct spelling for subordinate and tomorrow for this..

portcia
25 Jul 2013 07:45

Hello everyone, *waving* its phuza thursday today

macash
25 Jul 2013 07:53

Good day everyone, thank you all again for all your advice, I will keep you guys updated...I really don't regret coming to this site, must say it's wonderful to know that a person can talk to people who really understand and try their uthmost to give advice that works. Keep it up guys and God Bless.
 

macash
25 Jul 2013 08:05

@ Portcia "Hola Hola" yebo yes Chesa chesa ting" Phuza Thursday...lmao what are we drinking girl?

portcia
25 Jul 2013 08:14

God bless you too macash, we are a family and thats what families do.

We will be drinking Vawter, but eish is too early to say.

Ntaksay
25 Jul 2013 08:45

Mimibob I really have no idea how to overcome your problem.

OlothandoD
25 Jul 2013 08:48

Good morning! I need a favour to all of you who are on facebook. All you do is to search for Handy Andy Zimbabwe facebook page and open the one with their logo. You will see a competition there where I have posted a comment of the song I hum when I clean with Handy Andy that is "Think about love - Dolly Parton" then like that comment. My facebook name is Sehlule L Mangena. Am counting on you guys! Going back to facebook to check those who have already liked, love you all! :)

yoyozz
25 Jul 2013 08:49

hay hay my lovely fimaly howz everyone doing scott is back watch out nicolas

vuxy
25 Jul 2013 08:49

portcia
25 Jul 2013 08:51

Mimibob you will eventually overcome your problem one day, just keep on typing and most of the time do ms Words, just for spelling checks, my husband was also like that but he is getting better and better with a little practice, im also not perfect.

portcia
25 Jul 2013 08:56

Hi Olo is been a long time dear, how are you doing, and why have you abounded us? anyway im not on facebook, so sorry hope those who are there can help

Goldi
25 Jul 2013 09:10

Morning family

well MimiK i hear you girl you not the only one i know a lot of people who does that there's a group i joint and it was agreed that when 1 write must use fool sentenses not this mxit lingo and short hand words and if you spell something wrong you will be corrected we used to joke about it and call them the spelling officers but all is well now and we even have a NEW WORD a day look it up and make examples it's so fun i think if you can practise using them all the time you'll end up mastering them *wink* good Luck

Yhoo we have AA's in the house *running away*

Ntaksay
25 Jul 2013 09:20

Where did Scott those girls? did he come with them from Botswana or he got them in JHB. Hayi bandla being a player runs in Nomvethe family genes coz Nicky boy was just like his uncle before he met Akhona.

So Scott is behind Sbusiso selling the Memela land, interensting

OlothandoD
25 Jul 2013 09:28

@portcia, havent abandoned you guys, its just that have been swamped by work but am free now, am back now,

Stonie
25 Jul 2013 09:35

Mimibob, if you want to improve your spellings you have to read a lot of English books. Novels especially.Find the type of stories that you like and read those. Read a lot and take note of the spellings as you go. It is called active reading. As you read you look up words you do not understand and get familiar with words it becomes easier to spell them as you go. Hope you will get time to read with all the social life that's there these days and the social media. Good luck dear.

Goldi
25 Jul 2013 09:44

True it runs in the family indeed yhoooo haai ke i was busy ka homework so i didn't watch were Scott and S'buda were chit chatting ko prison

Khethiwe and MJ mmmmmmm watch the space

@Zioness
25 Jul 2013 10:02

Morning fam... it seems like you now have a plan of action Macash, all the best ma dear!
@Mimi I have a similar problem and only with some words as well, for example I could never get definitely, so a potential bf back in the day told me to just think of the anker word 'finite' and add the rest - he couldn't help me with my other words though, but ag don't stress about it too much, just take it as one of your eccentracities (i'm sure that's spelt wrong) - what makes Mimi Mimi ;) Talking about potential boyfriends, isn't it just sad when you click with someone on all levels (intellectually, he's warm kind very good looking) but there's just no sexual chemistry or it dies after the first kissing and fondling session cos the guy is just horrible at it so everything just falls flat - has anyone experienced this?

Mimibob
25 Jul 2013 10:20

Thanks Goldi, lolling at "fool" sentences. @ Stonie, I started going to the local library in the town I grew up in when I was 7. I have always been reading English novels and only stopped when I was at varsity because it took up most of my study time, but the spelling was still as bad then as is now..

Goldi
25 Jul 2013 10:39

hahahahaha wabona ge such things ai sekgowa ase sarona kannete but practice makes perfect

so how about we correct each other not because mang otseba too but to assist each other nje we never old to learn we learn everyday actually so le reng?

Mimibob
25 Jul 2013 10:55

Thanks Zioness, I feel much better about myself... :) I will overcome this though. Somehow,

@Zioness
25 Jul 2013 11:06

Ur welcome Mims ;)

portcia
25 Jul 2013 11:20

Zioness, back in the days i had a boyfriend, whom i used to get horney just by looking at him, he was tall with broad shoulders, he would hold me and kiss me, and i would get so HOT THERE i thought he was gonna take me to heaven when we dust, but ewwww....... it felt as if im dusting with a four year old, and he kept spanking me all the time. the chemistry i had for him died there.He was a good looking guy,spoke english fluently. after that i had to make excuses everytime he wanted us to meet.

WWW
25 Jul 2013 11:40

morning all..portcia vawter ke yone zest le gone nana...

@Zioness
25 Jul 2013 11:53

hai shem @portcia, it's bad when you can't judge a book by its cover neh, but @ least you dodged a bullet there, your ass would constantly been sore for days had it worked out *kept spanking me all the time* hehehehe... my ex-potential who only looked good on paper used to slobber all over me when we kissed, was like kissing a very big dog with a big wet tongue, shem we never even madie it to the dusting, it was too traumatising for me... btw what's your take on this spanking and rough handling business? do you enjoy it?

WWW
25 Jul 2013 11:55

Kante where are my manners after having gone for so long ke bo ke hlantshwa ke vawter..sorry guys... A very gud morning 2 my house mates and a warm welcome to all the new members..

chockie
25 Jul 2013 12:24

A sneak preview of what's happening in Generations, in August

THURSDAY 01 August 2013: Ngamla is reluctant to betray someone he cares about. Khethiwe gets bad news and is devastated by it. Sello receives a visitor who wants to strike a deal with him.
FRIDAY 02 August 2013: Queen is horrified when she realises why Prince is acting so strange. If you want to serenade a loved one, it helps if you can sing… Mpilo’s new foster mother is revealed.
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MONDAY 05 August 2013: Noluntu boasts about the great weekend she had with her new man. Choppa has to make a difficult choice - Zinhle or the prize money? Nicholas is jealous when his girl connects with another man.
TUESDAY 06 August 2013: The Memela children are shocked when Mawande arrives home. Phenyo is rattled to hear what his mistress is capable of. Dineo puts two and two together and is devastated by what she finds.
WEDNESDAY 07 August 2013: The gloves come off during a cat-fight at Ezweni. Queen is delighted when she catches Prince in the act. MJ comes to drunken Khethiwe’s rescue.
THURSDAY 08 August 2013: Noluntu reveals the real reason Ngamla went after Glen. Cindy realises Scott is hiding something from her. Choppa bids Zinhle an emotional goodbye.
FRIDAY 09 August 2013: Nicholas is surprised to see who Akhona’s hanging out with. And the award for best gambler goes to… Queen Moroka! Dineo’s worst fear comes true.
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MONDAY 12 August 2013: Mawande finds out a shocking truth. Phenyo is a man in pain. Khethiwe chases a desperate friend away.
TUESDAY 13 August 2013: Senzo gets bamboozled into a high-stakes poker game. Noluntu tries to sabotage her mother’s search for truth. Cindy gets ready to carry out Scott’s sinister plan…
WEDNESDAY 14 August 2013: Nicholas is punished for someone else’s mistake. Ngamla finds out he was betrayed by one of his own. Queen’s poker night doesn’t turn out the way she expected it to.
THURSDAY 15 August 2013: A YonaYethu employee is chased off the premises. Akhona confesses all, unaware she’s being recorded. Phenyo reaches out to broken Dineo.
FRIDAY 16 August 2013: Noluntu tries to rope in a journalist for her revenge plan. A surprise announcement leaves everyone at Ezweni reeling in shock. Senzo is horrified when he finds out the truth.
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MONDAY 19 August 2013: Prince catches Queen in the act. Scott takes an instant liking to a female colleague. Mawande panics when something important goes missing.
TUESDAY 20 August 2013: Fed up Dineo wants to move in with Ruby. Phenyo realises his problems have only just started. The Memela house is in turmoil after a shock revelation.
WEDNESDAY 21 August 2013: Noluntu will keep her mouth shut but at a price. Jason isn’t happy about the latest developments at home. Shock and horror when a long-hidden family secret finally comes to light.
THURSDAY 22 August 2013: Scott is disgusted to hear what his brother is capable of. Senzo threatens a staffer with a written warning. MJ finds comfort in a woman’s arms…
FRIDAY 23 August 2013: Dineo’s abusiveness lands Phenyo in hospital. Mawande decides to pack it all in and leave for good. Queen resorts to desperate measures to fund her gambling habit.
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MONDAY 26 August 2013: Isabel is puzzled by MJ’s strange behaviour. What’s bad news for YonaYethu is good news for Jason. Noluntu finally gets what’s coming to her.
TUESDAY 27 August 2013: Scott is unsettled about what he witnesses in the editorial office. Embarrassed Phenyo realises his secret is out. A carefully planned romantic dinner ends in disaster.
WEDNESDAY 28 August 2013: Queen calls in sick, even though she’s not. Ruby doesn’t realise that her pep talk is falling on deaf ears. Khethiwe gets a late-night visitor, only he’s not interested in talking…
THURSDAY 29 August 2013: Lindi shows up at the Three Towers at the worst possible time. Cindy worries when Scott’s conscience starts to get the better of him. Dineo gets a taste of her own medicine.
FRIDAY 30 August 2013: Patricia gets the fright of her life when she arrives for work. Phenyo has finally had enough. Isabel plans a romantic dinner but gets a nasty surprise
A sneak preview of what's happening in Generations, in August

THURSDAY 01 August 2013: Ngamla is reluctant to betray someone he cares about. Khethiwe gets bad news and is devastated by it. Sello receives a visi

@2012
25 Jul 2013 12:25

can someone come to my rescue and tell me what happened yesterday.....please 

Goldi
25 Jul 2013 12:37

ouch!! that sucks hey

portcia
25 Jul 2013 12:40

WWW lenna nka jampa he ke utlwa ho buiwa ka vawter lol... welcome back.
@Zioness,hayi vele there was no way that you can get in bed with a guy who is a bad kisser, iyoh imagine fela ka mathe a gae iyoooooooo, and imagine if i stayed my ass would have been wet, ka baka la spanking

@2012
25 Jul 2013 15:15

i am asking for yesterday update plis...............................................

@2012
25 Jul 2013 15:26

@mimibob...........did you manage to sort yourself with SABC's

@2012
25 Jul 2013 15:27

@mimibob...............did you manage to sort yourself with SABC's

Dhee31
25 Jul 2013 15:44

Thank you  Ntaksay now I am able to post. Hoooooooooooooray

Ntaksay
25 Jul 2013 16:28

Bye ladies

Ntaksay
25 Jul 2013 16:31

Written out! ...



When Generations reaches the soapie's 20th year in February next year, it'll be without Melusi Yeni. The hottie, who plays Phenyo Dlomo, is being written out of the show.



The storyline that'll see his exit features him facing various choices and difficult challenges.



Melusi's been with Generations for a year and a half -  he joined the show in February 2012.



Word from an insider close to the soapie is that the reason for Phenyo's exit has to do with the storyline and that further details can't be divulged so as not to spoil what's going to happen next.



Things will unfold over the next few months and he makes his exit in December.

Mimibob
25 Jul 2013 17:50

@2012, not yet sorted with the SABCs dear, I depend on Ntaks' updates and other bloggers' comments.

fahdee
26 Jul 2013 06:45

fahdee
26 Jul 2013 06:47

THURSDAY 01 August 2013: Ngamla is reluctant to betray someone he cares about. Khethiwe gets bad news and is devastated by it. Sello receives a visitor who wants to strike a deal with him. FRIDAY 02 August 2013: Queen is horrified when she realises why Prince is acting so strange. If you want to serenade a loved one, it helps if you can sing… Mpilo’s new foster mother is revealed. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- MONDAY 05 August 2013: Noluntu boasts about the great weekend she had with her new man. Choppa has to make a difficult choice - Zinhle or the prize money? Nicholas is jealous when his girl connects with another man. TUESDAY 06 August 2013: The Memela children are shocked when Mawande arrives home. Phenyo is rattled to hear what his mistress is capable of. Dineo puts two and two together and is devastated by what she finds. WEDNESDAY 07 August 2013: The gloves come off during a cat-fight at Ezweni. Queen is delighted when she catches Prince in the act. MJ comes to drunken Khethiwe’s rescue. THURSDAY 08 August 2013: Noluntu reveals the real reason Ngamla went after Glen. Cindy realises Scott is hiding something from her. Choppa bids Zinhle an emotional goodbye. FRIDAY 09 August 2013: Nicholas is surprised to see who Akhona’s hanging out with. And the award for best gambler goes to… Queen Moroka! Dineo’s worst fear comes true. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- MONDAY 12 August 2013: Mawande finds out a shocking truth. Phenyo is a man in pain. Khethiwe chases a desperate friend away. TUESDAY 13 August 2013: Senzo gets bamboozled into a high-stakes poker game. Noluntu tries to sabotage her mother’s search for truth. Cindy gets ready to carry out Scott’s sinister plan… WEDNESDAY 14 August 2013: Nicholas is punished for someone else’s mistake. Ngamla finds out he was betrayed by one of his own. Queen’s poker night doesn’t turn out the way she expected it to. THURSDAY 15 August 2013: A YonaYethu employee is chased off the premises. Akhona confesses all, unaware she’s being recorded. Phenyo reaches out to broken Dineo. FRIDAY 16 August 2013: Noluntu tries to rope in a journalist for her revenge plan. A surprise announcement leaves everyone at Ezweni reeling in shock. Senzo is horrified when he finds out the truth. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- MONDAY 19 August 2013: Prince catches Queen in the act. Scott takes an instant liking to a female colleague. Mawande panics when something important goes missing. TUESDAY 20 August 2013: Fed up Dineo wants to move in with Ruby. Phenyo realises his problems have only just started. The Memela house is in turmoil after a shock revelation. WEDNESDAY 21 August 2013: Noluntu will keep her mouth shut but at a price. Jason isn’t happy about the latest developments at home. Shock and horror when a long-hidden family secret finally comes to light. THURSDAY 22 August 2013: Scott is disgusted to hear what his brother is capable of. Senzo threatens a staffer with a written warning. MJ finds comfort in a woman’s arms… FRIDAY 23 August 2013: Dineo’s abusiveness lands Phenyo in hospital. Mawande decides to pack it all in and leave for good. Queen resorts to desperate measures to fund her gambling habit. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- MONDAY 26 August 2013: Isabel is puzzled by MJ’s strange behaviour. What’s bad news for YonaYethu is good news for Jason. Noluntu finally gets what’s coming to her. TUESDAY 27 August 2013: Scott is unsettled about what he witnesses in the editorial office. Embarrassed Phenyo realises his secret is out. A carefully planned romantic dinner ends in disaster. WEDNESDAY 28 August 2013: Queen calls in sick, even though she’s not. Ruby doesn’t realise that her pep talk is falling on deaf ears. Khethiwe gets a late-night visitor, only he’s not interested in talking… THURSDAY 29 August 2013: Lindi shows up at the Three Towers at the worst possible time. Cindy worries when Scott’s conscience starts to get the better of him. Dineo gets a taste of her own medicine. FRIDAY 30 August 2013: Patricia gets the fright of her life when she arrives for work. Phenyo has finally had enough. Isabel plans a romantic dinner but gets a nasty surprise.

fahdee
26 Jul 2013 06:49

so I'm first yeah

portcia
26 Jul 2013 07:42

Yoh guys why so many people post the teasers for August? or these peole dont read our comments, iyoh.... anyways im glad that phenyo leaves Generations he was so boring, hope he gets the ngamla mark before he leaves, yoh where are my manners Happy friday to everyone.

@2012
26 Jul 2013 08:36

@mimibob.....where are you in bots?

@2012
26 Jul 2013 08:37

@mimibob......where are you in bots?

Dhee31
26 Jul 2013 08:38

Happy Friday to you too Portia and a very good morning to all the family members.

Ntaksay
26 Jul 2013 08:45

No you're not fahdee

Good morning mabloggers

Even two ngamla marks will do for Phenyo he is a sell out and a cowrard.I'm sure Noluntu will berg him to be his eyes when Ngamla is done with her.

yoyozz
26 Jul 2013 09:29

lol dhee is back kwaaaax welcome cc

yoyozz
26 Jul 2013 09:38

FAHDEE
so I'm first yeah

NOOOO YOU NOT FIRST AND NEXT TIME BEFORE YOU POST READ OUR COMMENTS.

SOWETAN STOP POSTING TEASERS EARLY ABANTU BA CRAZZY NOW POSTING SAMETHING OVER AND OVER AGAIN MXM

NoMdazB
26 Jul 2013 09:43

Hello everyone. I'm glad they are doing away with the Phenyo character, he's unbearable.

Dhee31
26 Jul 2013 09:50

Hey Yoyozz im back cc and I've missed you guys a lot, all of you.

Mimibob
26 Jul 2013 10:55

Easy on Fahdee guys, lol.,,

@2012
26 Jul 2013 11:40

@mimibob...........not yet sorted with the SABCs dear, I depend on Ntaks' updates and other bloggers' comments...........where are in in bots? gabz?

Mimibob
26 Jul 2013 11:45

@2012, I'm in Gabs.

Bk212303
26 Jul 2013 12:03

Heeeeeeey so its goodbye Mawande

and


Noluntu finally gets what’s coming to her.

@2012
26 Jul 2013 12:20

@mimibob.....Go and buy an aerial from chinese shops and enjoy your TV comfortably. Its around P100-P120 where i am. Look for a pole and oe ise ko godimo go heta marulelo a ntlo.

 I used it when i was staying in Gabz 2 years ago to watch Etv. Mare batho bangwe bare gana go tshwara di SABC kogo bone like some people in my town bare ya gana e bile ba itlhobogile....Mara nna i am using it since Ebotswana ere tlhakatlhakanyetsa dilo and everyday everynight i am enjoying my tv comfortably watching my favourite programmes....Like i am waiting eargly for new season of skeem saam next week thursday. 

it aslo has the real Etv not its boring child Ebotswana

so mimibob search yourself for few pulas and but it and enjoy your tv nana

Goldi
26 Jul 2013 12:22

Molweni z'hlobo 

Fhade dont worry Yoyo o nale di moods swings tsa pregnancy hihihihihihihi

Dhee my sweets welcome back

@2012
26 Jul 2013 12:24

@mimibob.............aerial is testerial(do not know the correct spelling) so there is no way Ebotswana will  make them to switch it off...........(according to my little knowdge)

Mimibob
26 Jul 2013 12:37

@2012, thank dear.

Dhee31
26 Jul 2013 12:57

The day that I will never forget is the day I came back on the GEN house and it was soooooooooooooooooooooo boring like some one just died. *sad face*

@2012
26 Jul 2013 13:56

@mimbob.........pleasure dear. You will let me know if you managed

Ntaksay
26 Jul 2013 14:07

Good afternoon people

Today I feel so down, I don't know why. I'm not sick or anything like that but I'm not myself either.

And the house is very quite, I thought it would my only place to cheer up, but I thought wrong.

Portcia you are always online, it's unlike you to be so quite. uright sisi?

Ntaksay
26 Jul 2013 14:14

I like the DSTV advert, where two neighbours are chatting.
The one neighbour is telling the other about a stokvel meeting where a baboon come into the room and one of the ladies says something in a nasty voice and the baboon goes the other direction. My favourite part is where one asks the other whether is alright and she Hayi ndiright, I wasn't there.

Goldi
26 Jul 2013 14:50

Hey Ntaks i feel the same way too but atleast i'll be going home in the next 40mnts...Dhee sorry darling it's the friday fever love no worries ne guys i still love you ne will meet later @ Yona Yethu *wink*

Ntaksay
26 Jul 2013 15:15

Thursday 18 July 2013

Episode 147 (3909)

Akhona is furious when Jason pulls rank on her. Gogo finds out the real reason Mpilo was taken away. In a moment of anger Phenyo blurts out the truth.

What truth did he blurt out? I never noticed anything I thought it was going to be about the affair with the tea lady.

Ntaksay
26 Jul 2013 15:18

Bye Goldi see you later. I wish I could go home now but -IJOB YI-JOB

Bk212303
26 Jul 2013 15:21

Ntaksay me too. I though its the affair but nope.
The house is quiet nyani

Ntaksay
26 Jul 2013 15:58

Hi Bk212303

@2012
26 Jul 2013 16:01


@ntaksay.........
Thursday 18 July 2013
Episode 147 (3909)

Akhona is furious when Jason pulls rank on her. Gogo finds out the real reason Mpilo was taken away. In a moment of anger Phenyo blurts out the truth.

What truth did he blurt out? I never noticed anything I thought it was going to be about the affair with the tea lady. 

i thot the truth of gogo findng could be of when the social worker said that khethiwe forgot her son at crech, and in the car and driving with him while she was drunk and not even wore a seat belt

about phenyo blursting the truth i did not see him blursting out any truth either

goldie
26 Jul 2013 16:04

@Ntaksay, the truth was when he was chatting with Jbulani and he said Sbu got what he deserved he is not that guilty. And Jabulani was very suspicious about that hence he was pushing him to do something cos he felt they (PHENYO AND THE TEAM) did not do enough and Phenyo was saved by Senzo when he said they tried and ther is nothing they can do.


Have a lovely weekend everyone and HELLOOOOOO!

@2012
26 Jul 2013 16:04

nice weekend

JadaPinkett
26 Jul 2013 16:22

bye bye beautiful bloggers.LUV U ALL

Keratile
26 Jul 2013 19:52

Phenyo told Jabulani and Senzo that Sbuda is not innocent and deserved what's coming to him. The two were shocked and Phenyo looked embarassed by his stupidity of giving the game away.

Keratile
27 Jul 2013 01:03

Sorry good people - I somehow missed Goldie's comment/clarification. Good morning........

available
27 Jul 2013 10:49

Phenyo will be on viewers’ screens until early December 2013. His exit storyline promises to be intriguing as he faces new challenges and difficult choices. Loyal Generations viewers should not despair as new talent will be introduced on the soap in the near future. Melusi is one of South Africa's most talented actors. I'm certain he will continue excelling in the exercise of his craft," says Mfundi Vundla, Executive Producer of ‘Generations.

hulisaninemabaka
29 Jul 2013 20:48

am number last guys

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