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Written by pushy85 from the blog Pushy's forum on 21 Nov 2007
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I couldn't be here earlier to defend myself on the article i posted yesterday so i thought i should write something to clear a few things.
Some people had very nasty comments on that article some of which were uncalled for.I wont mention names coz you know who you are.
Number one,i am not expecting anyone to treat this as an article coz it's not,it's my way of defending myself since i couldn't earlier,read it and move on to the next article.
Number two,if i had doubts about the way i looked i wouldn't have gone the modeling route,i don't model fulltime though since i'm currently busy with my B-tech.It's just that sometimes i don't make the smartest decisions corncening men that doesn't mean i have doubts about the way i look,trust me my brother i don't;I know i'm hot.
Number three,when i write an article i wanna share my experiences with the people so that they can also feel comfortable about sharing theirs.If my experiences bore you well it's your right to move on to the next article,coz that's what i do when an articles bores me,i don't write nasty replies.
Number three,I am not made out of rubber,i have feelings i hurt when someone personally attacks me coz i felt people where attacking me personally not the article.So mense,before posting a reply please stop and think DON'T just go crazy with the keyboard.

45 Comments

Toodecent
21 Nov 2007 23:59

Mina I FEEL you yazi..? But nawe uyenza 10 much..eish!

tshepiso
22 Nov 2007 00:12

NO! baby don't be hard on yourself. and don't let anyone hurt u. if u recieve bad commets just delete them before they SPOIL your day.

Honeypot
22 Nov 2007 00:29

Sorry gal, mina I like your articles a lot and I enjoy reading them. So please don't stop writing those articles. I am sure the intention was not to hurt you but some of us really like your writing. So pop your collar and pretend you did see those nasty responses :)

KeleFabulous
22 Nov 2007 00:51

well said pushy well said

Lex
22 Nov 2007 00:58

ba thathe ntombazana...

zozozo
22 Nov 2007 00:59

I hope all the bloggers read this, and practice wot u have said above. WELL SAID INDEED KELEFAB.

monchooza
22 Nov 2007 01:10

people here vele tend to forget ukuthi when an article is it does not matter whether the writer wrote it out of personal experience or if they are just making it up for entertainment purposes. and sometimes as a writer you write things that you have witnessed not experienced but you have to put in as a first person. and the responders or bloggers must interact if and only if they feel they connect with what ever is written and if you dont like what you are reading then there is always the choice of moving to something that interests you. instead of throwing insults to the writer about their writting skills. some people do this write here for fun, some for to gain knowledge some to broaden thier horrizons, some just to pass time. so people must just act matured even if they are not. lowo ke umbono wami.

MamaOmpha
22 Nov 2007 01:38

tjo!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cande
22 Nov 2007 01:48

What are you guys on about? hi hi hi LoL...

zandi!
22 Nov 2007 01:53

BABE ARE YU OK ??

Xhosa Chick
22 Nov 2007 01:55

Im lost.

Cande
22 Nov 2007 01:59

Ugathi pushi85 and the writer of the article is the same person... am not sure...
So she had some nasty replies izolo, and wasn't there to defend herself.
Now she wrote another article "to defend herself" like she puts it.
He he he

myname
22 Nov 2007 02:03

thanks monchy u said it better my luv although i didnt see ur article bt sana sivile

mabhebheza
22 Nov 2007 02:09

in the mist ...lost soul

sponono
22 Nov 2007 02:12

Pushy...i understand your point...but i dont think its about the article/content itself or a personal attack to you..I thinks its more about having the same thing written about a bit too much thats all -i thinks most of the supposedly nasty replies are about "enough already" but that dont mean you should stop writing coz other bloggers will respond and .its not our call to say stop on that subject...but you know people will comment coz thats what people do on blogs and you wont always like what they say...I mean this is the cyber world (90percent of the bloggers we dont really know, so you seriously have to take everything said with a pinch of salt and a shrug or a gigle coz whoeva answers doesnt know you and you DONT have to defend your charecter or looks on a platform like this where you dont even know half the people
(and you know some people have multiple log-in-names)...and the last thing you need is to get emotional and reveal toomuch about yourself...like now....I think the internet is NOT the best place to be emotional on seriuouly

having said that I apologise if i'm one of the bloggers who might have said sungtin a bit "nasty" really didnt mean to..

anyways mina I DO like some of your articles of course sometimes i go yeah whateva but thats just the way we take things -its like Generations episodes where you go now WTF and next time you go OH WOW nice episode...

Toodecent
22 Nov 2007 02:14

Niyabona manje...? Cyber suicide! Somebody.......... 911

spice
22 Nov 2007 02:22

I was once in your shoes baby gal dont take it personal youre growing akere hi hi hi one day youre gonna look back at this article and say WTF was I gaaning aan about LOL
take it with a pinch of salt (like Toxy would say ) LOL

Annonymous
22 Nov 2007 02:42

Sorry Pushy, as I said yesterday there are 9089 personalities and people here, some are bound to be the sensative type, others are just plain funny and have a fantastic sense of humour *hint hint*, abanye they don't know when to stop and others are gonna be the ruthles type and when that happens u need to be strong and to remind urself that when u entered TVSA u obviously didn't think that this was a group of innocent children from a convent school, so be strong and try not t take things too personally although after reading all the repies in ur article izolo I kinda get where u are coming from, but ke it's one of those things, head up sisi, and funda ukudlulisa, otherwise uzoshaya iCYBER SUICIDE!!!!!

Baby-A
22 Nov 2007 02:55

((((wave)))) hang on, wait.... wait, hang on (((((((((wave wave))))))))) wait, wait, hang on, wait (((((((((((((wave wave wave)))))))))

What's this, now????????

If we'd have to spend the whole day nursing each other's emotions, TVSA wouldn't be so fun. So, when you join an online thing like this, you should be prepared to stand up for urself, and deal with ur emotions.

If you cant, go to facebook, come on... move on....

Of hoe, maBBB??

spice
22 Nov 2007 03:02

Baby -A be careful I'm watching you ,you are skating on thin ice thats all I'm gonna say for now

Annonymous
22 Nov 2007 03:03

Baby-A, uyavuthi bhe sisi!!!!

Annonymous
22 Nov 2007 03:06

Baby-A, as u can see lomtwana uPushy is sensative plz son't add on to her stresses, my Buzum rather go to Did U Know, coz u know that lapho ke awuthathwa unonsense!!!

faraimagic
22 Nov 2007 03:13

@TDC someone pliz call 911....thot it was 9.11(september 9.11)hi hi hi thot you wana blow us......!
back to the artice i know exactly how you feel..some people just respond to other replies they dont bother reading the article it self,so if someone writes a negative reply(especially if its a populer blogger)..they will just copy and support that...sies!THEY ONCE GANGED UP ON ME!

Cande
22 Nov 2007 03:18

lol@ BaBY-A.

Jordan
22 Nov 2007 03:24

Hi Pushy, why don’t you just do a spread of your modelling pics on this blog to make your article more interesting? *wink wink*

Cande
22 Nov 2007 03:27

Jordan babe, watup...
Sorry peeps but what is FYI?

spice
22 Nov 2007 03:29

JJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJ TYPICAL(your comment) LOL
Hey J there is a high school here on tvsa its called did you know check it out I'm one of the students hi hi hi i feel sixteen again hi hi hi

faraimagic
22 Nov 2007 03:30

@cande girl he he he i was also stretching my head thinking the same thing...and i have a long list of FYI'S now...wat does it mean anyway?

spice
22 Nov 2007 03:32

CANDE IS THAT U or maybe your imposter I need to speak to the real cande ya'll
For Your Information having a blonde moment there my luuuuuuuuv nee!

sponono
22 Nov 2007 03:34

Cande-girl....FYI is for your information...this is used mostly by someone piklaring and sounds like a piklaring article ne!!....."lalelani la mina ngimuhle kabi and ngiyamodela shem and ngiyafunda-ke mntu so ningangjwayeli kabi hi hi hi hi just kidding pushyy juuuuust kidding LOL

faraimagic
22 Nov 2007 03:35

well the did you know struggle continues! cant get thru ag shame me!

Earth
22 Nov 2007 03:37

Hello Pushy

Your article from yesterday was okay,some people liked it but some didn't and that's just how life works.Ish happens,girl...Reality is,the world is full of nasty people,and there is nothing you,or anyone out there can do about it.Clearly you thought your article was good,that's why you even put in on the net for everyone to see,that's all that should matter to you...
@ cande girl: For your information= FYI

sponono
22 Nov 2007 03:37

LOL@Jordan>.a spread of your modelling pics ...now that you mention it...that aint no bad idea at all....hi hi hi i like yo thinkin.......pushy we waiting for dem pics.....

sponono
22 Nov 2007 03:41

hawu Farai I realy feel for you...maybe its becoz of too many replies..mmmh...mabloggers ake-nidede'labanye kwa-did you know...tu!!!

Cande
22 Nov 2007 03:42

This is the real me Spice.. the one and only....

faraimagic
22 Nov 2007 03:45

someone pliz call 911(help) for did you know! not september 9.11

Jordan
22 Nov 2007 03:47

Hi Cande!! It’s been a while.... I am cool though! And wena?

belz
22 Nov 2007 03:48

hello guys, ngeyiphi article enithetha ngayo, Pushy from into oyibhale lana i take it you got nasty comments from peeps, ungaworry shem Pushy, life is like that , its not everyone who'll like you or your article so ungayithathi personal, sorry i understand how you feel, sorry wethu kodwa dont let people spoil your spirit like that.

Annonymous
22 Nov 2007 03:51

Nice to see u belz,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,*waving like a lunatic*

belz
22 Nov 2007 03:56

Hello Nonny, good to see you too, i see you got yoself buzums while i was gone, noma yini na le? hihihihi

ngwana
22 Nov 2007 03:57

I am not made out of rubber>>>> *giggling*

you just made me think of when i was little and people said mean things to us:

"I'm rubber you are glue, whatever you say to me sticks back onto you"

Toodecent
22 Nov 2007 03:58

Will be bringing Part2 faraimagic...that one is 10 much....554 replies...!

Cande
22 Nov 2007 04:02

Kul man. 60's next week...am only going to get home on sunday.

zozozo
22 Nov 2007 04:05

LOL @ NGWANA- "I'm rubber you are glue, whatever you say to me sticks back onto you" ...ROFLMFAO

Jordan
22 Nov 2007 04:07

So you gonna miss it? That sucks!!!

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