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5 Ways to Lose the Woman!
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Sunday, April 29, 2012
by VusiK
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Just because you have a girlfriend doesn’t mean you will keep her. There are certain things that men can do that will instantly drive women away. Despite what you think, most women will overlook a lot of things because they want to see the best in you; however, when tiny red flags turn into big red flags, you may just be watching your girlfriend walk away. Here are some things that will drive women away.
1. Lack of Attention
There is nothing that a woman hates more than lack of attention from her man. If you are not paying her enough attention or never show jealousy, she will get upset. On the other hand, if you do pay her a lot of attention and show jealousy, she could also get upset. Find a happy medium and show your woman they attention that she needs. Plan dates for just the two of you and spend quality time just with her and making sure that she is happy and satisfied in the relationship.
Women also want to feel like their opinions and viewpoints matter to you, so ensure that you are listening to her. Even if she’s talking about things that make absolutely no sense to you, pay attention to her anyway and act like you understand. Trust me, if you don’t give your woman the attention that she wants, she is going to find it from another man.
2. Lack of Motivation
Women want men who have motivation to succeed in life and who have dreams of doing something rather than just being content where they now. A woman who truly loves you shouldn’t hold your job against you; however, if you are happy with your fast food job and you don’t have any dreams of moving up on the job ladder, you may just have to say goodbye to your woman. This also pertains to your relationship. If you are commitment phobic and never see yourself settling down and/or getting married, you are going to have a hard time keeping a quality woman around.
3. Being a Habitual Liar
If you keep lying to a woman, you will surely lose her. All women appreciate a man who presents himself as honest and trustworthy. Displaying behaviors like exiting the room when you get a phone call, not returning her calls, not answering random phone calls, emails and text messages in front of her and giving no legitimate reason any about any of these behaviors is a sure way to make a woman leave you. It’s not easy to build respect from a woman and once you do, it’s very easy to lose it. The moment your woman stops respecting you, the relationship is truly over.
4. Not Keeping Her Satisfied in the Bedroom
All men should work hard to make their women feel satisfied in the bedroom. Make it a habit to ask her what she likes and what her fantasies are and always strive to make her comfortable and happy in bed.
5. You Stop Taking Care of Yourself
If you stop taking care of yourself and being the man that attracted her to you in the first place, her romantic respect and attraction to you will drop over time. Being a challenge to a woman in a relationship will keep the attraction high and she won’t leave you.
–DFTM
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Replies: 20 You must be a TVSA member to post a reply |
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VusiK
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Sunday, April 29, 2012 11:34 AM
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Just another re-blog since I'm not really writing lately.
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swazzy
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Sunday, April 29, 2012 12:58 PM
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Some women are crazy they will stay in the most ridiculous situations... When they have psycho love nothing will make them leave.
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VusiK
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Sunday, April 29, 2012 13:27 PM
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lol ... Hi Swazzy ... Long time ! ... I missed you !
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Guava4
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Sunday, April 29, 2012 17:24 PM
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Il probaly leave for myown reasons,infidelity too and lies.one of my ex lied and said her mother was dead when i found out she was alive i never looked back ileft
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VusiK
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Sunday, April 29, 2012 17:28 PM
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LOL Guava4 ... Lying is the highest "Leave now" item on my "NO" list ... Even the smallest one is unforgivable to me.
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Kandyfloss
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Sunday, April 29, 2012 18:30 PM
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and a guy who doesnt say N0 even when he should.
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makgotso
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Monday, April 30, 2012 06:54 AM
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Ditto Vusi, and infidelity and lies those two top my list.
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VusiK
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Monday, April 30, 2012 08:53 AM
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Infidelity is lying
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pjvv
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Monday, April 30, 2012 08:54 AM
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lol@Guava4, yours was a liarliar. i love attention but not jealous type of attention. Thanks VusiK, i hope you are doing well!
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VusiK
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Monday, April 30, 2012 09:04 AM
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I'm on my way back to beinb ME albeit rather full of stop/starts, reverses & pauses, I think I'm good Pjvv (Smile)
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bomyy
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Monday, April 30, 2012 14:21 PM
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i want him to show a bit of jealousy, u know, like asking if he sees me with some random strange guy and he asks who that was, nothing hectic.Not ukuthi abe obsessed ke ngoku about everything, at the same time I would not want him to just ignore things as if he does not care...
Lack of motivation is one thing that will really drive me away shame, I can date someone who is currently unemployed as long as I see them trying to get something and actually trying to make the situation better, and he should not just be saying it, the actions must be there
Another thing is a boyfriend who never ever says no when a woman offers to pay, they would gladly accept the offer even if it is 3 times in row! Man up mfondini, even if you know that you are broke and can not take here out just say it!!!
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VusiK
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Monday, April 30, 2012 14:32 PM
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@Bomyy ... for me, that's not Jealousy ... That's interest, attention & involvement.
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bomyy
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Monday, April 30, 2012 14:37 PM
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ewe ke VK, ndifuna kanjalo, if i am wearing a mini skirt that is really too short i would be impressed if he asked me to wear something else if i m going to leave the house.
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VusiK
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Monday, April 30, 2012 14:40 PM
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lmao! ... now THAT might be jealousy !!! I'm terrified of jealousy ... it is an incredible & totally overwhelming set of emotions for me. I'm not built or equipped for it.
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bomyy
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Monday, April 30, 2012 14:52 PM
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well i like him like that, too much jealousy for me is when he questions every move, every time you get a call he asks who it was, he gets angry or grumpy when guys talk to me, that sort of thing is what I would not tollerate. But him simple advising me that whatever I am wearing is too revealing, now that is cute according to me besides I like ukuthi kube na something about me which is meant only for him and which may makes him feel special to be my boyfriend(in this case- private parts of my body), given that he does the same for me. So ya... anyway I personally do not like wearing revealing clothes nje when i go out... and well he knows me like that and i would not be suprized if he has something to say should i be wearing ama-mini and going out
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VusiK
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Monday, April 30, 2012 15:06 PM
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You're defining attention , with a little dash of possessiveness ... not jealousy
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Guava4
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Monday, April 30, 2012 15:11 PM
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Ican stand jealousy
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bomyy
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Monday, April 30, 2012 15:13 PM
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then i guess i can not stand jealousy and definately love attention and someone who cares about how i look :)
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swazzy
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Monday, April 30, 2012 16:03 PM
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Miss u too Vusi especially ur voice
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VusiK
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Monday, April 30, 2012 16:17 PM
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Thanks Swazzy , I'll call you this week ... Howzat?
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