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BIOF: The Naked DJ is a Sex Addict

Written by Cheesa from the blog Cheesa Chat on 27 Sep 2011
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Okay now so we watched Blame It On Fame last night. 


The best moment of the episode has to be when Bulelwa, Quinton aka Naked DJ’s wife told the twinz that their brother is a sex addict. She said he is like obsessed with sex he wants to do it everyday or even a few times a day.

Yoh I couldn’t believe she said that on TV and the Twinz were as shocked like “okay Bulelwa you’re over sharing”. But Hlelo said she was not surprised because his name is the Naked DJ so it says it all. She even said “but they are married” and asked, “isn’t it what married people supposed to do?” 


Bulelwa even said she gets tired sometimes because she doesn’t like having sex all the time. She is a woman she gets to be busy with other stuff so she gets tired but Naked wants to do it anyway. The twinz were like “he is a sex addict” and laughed.

Bulelwa went on to say that she thinks he needs a psychologist and they laughed. It was a fun scene. I enjoyed it as I had a lot of “OMGosh moments did she just said that.”

Later though I felt like it was kinda sorta staged for TV but maybe the twinz were not aware of it only Bulelwa was briefed about it so that the twinz would be really shocked. 

But that’s my thoughts as I don’t think someone can just soma talk like that about their sex life with her husband out of the blue, out of context on TV nogal! 


This whole girl talk happened after the twinz went to their parents to ask them for their permission to make Play Boy magazine cover. But the parents refused. Their mother made it clear that they won’t do it. 

She even told Ntando who was the one who really wanted to do the Play Boy cover to not even try explaining it. Their father also didn’t approve even though he jokingly asked if they will get paid if they do it. They ended up not doing the Play Boy cover.

So next week we are going to see the Naked DJ with Bulelwa and the psychologist discussing Naked DJ's obsession with sex. On next week’s scenes Naked DJ even says to the psychologist sex is like food to him. He has to have it three times a day.

So what did you guys think? 

The screen grabs are the first episode pics, didnt take pics last night.



75 Comments

Mrs Chix
27 Sep 2011 09:45

LOL 3 times a day is too much,maybe 2 time or once...LOLest but l dnt dont think they need a psychologist for this, every women goes through this with their hubby

BigMama
27 Sep 2011 09:55

l think there is nothing wrong with the DJ, if he doesn't get it from the wife where must he get it...? The reason l think why some man cheat its because they are sexually starved, l will do it 3 times a dayif given the opportunity. Or l just have to admit that l am a sex addict as the DJ.

mstick
27 Sep 2011 10:03

Wow havent been here in forever

khaye
27 Sep 2011 10:14

Also think there is nothing wrong with DJ, when the man cheat we cry bt we are the ones cause that  smtymz ,ayi maan give the man his food no matter how many times

Darkangel2003
27 Sep 2011 10:14

Everyday? 3 times a day? I'd die. That settles it, I'm neva gettin hitched.

Mathaz
27 Sep 2011 10:21

I have not watched this show and it receives such good reviews....shem now this is what reality TV is made of, taboo topics on national TV.  Good going but shem everyguy is like that, especially the ones who are not cheating, they want it whenever, wherever, however...

mstick
27 Sep 2011 10:33

All i can say ke gore i cant wait for next week lol

Minah
27 Sep 2011 10:53

I am enough ka mafahla hle aowa efryday efryday ke mafahla how about we talk ka mmmmmmmmmm maybe Jet Novuka

Sobza
27 Sep 2011 10:59

I missed last night's episode, because of Survivor.

Guava4
27 Sep 2011 11:07

Nothing wrong with the dj,the wife should pretend to enjoy otherwise naked will cheat

carino
27 Sep 2011 11:19

I understood very well what that wife was saying. She wouldn't have a problem with sex everyday if it was more than just sex. She said... "If you want to have sex three times a day, then romance me three times a day". Which is very true. Maybe Quinton is the kind that just rolls over and says "letha". Lol. Mara seriously, maybe he just wants to go straight to the cake without preparing Bulelwa.

carino
27 Sep 2011 11:23

Mara you're right Cheesa, she just threw it there, badla!!! totally randomly out of the blue and out of context as you put it.

Tazteeq
27 Sep 2011 11:37

i think i love these twinz, i am experiencing a different side to them!

The General
27 Sep 2011 11:50

I also think it was staged. It is obviously to increase the ratings and gain controversy and it's working for them.

Cheesa
27 Sep 2011 11:56

LOL! I also think there is nothing wrong with Naked not to such an extent that he should see a psychologist. I like their relationship shem they seem like they're open about it and faithful to each other. 

Everyday? 3 times a day? I'd die. That settles it, I'm neva gettin hitched. kwaaaaaaaaa LOLest!

they want it whenever, wherever, however... and you must deliver or else you will be blamed for the cheating of the guy *sigh* women siyithwele lemithwalo shem

If you want to have sex three times a day, then romance me three times a day" I heard this, mara really going straight to cut the cake without preparing is just not on hehehe....

And her talking about their sex life to the twinz whom her hubby is their brother is just a lil nay for me. Im just not too sure about it...Im not sure how I feel about it but hey hayi nie... yeah they are her freinds but still they are his sisters...

carino
27 Sep 2011 12:04

The father still kills me, shem.

Cheesa
27 Sep 2011 12:11

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaa Carino that father is a comedian LOL!! He is super cool while mama wabo esitsha. Yoh the mother just shouts nje and the father will be busy cracking jokes and laughing on the side. And the way Hlelo just laughs out loud.

babye
27 Sep 2011 12:33

the brothers wife looks like the sisters huh

calamity
27 Sep 2011 13:04

I must say I loved it, the father should have his own show. I like Hlelo's narration, she is a natural. I must say that I am addicted. When the brother tried to explain that Playboy want them to pose for them and he couldn't say it and the dad asked how much they were getting. I can actually imagine my mother saying that if I were to tell her that I was going to pose naked in some magazine.

myname
27 Sep 2011 13:12

Eish it seems like im missing out! And they were talking about MMMMHHHHHMMMMMM.

Eish i dont blame the brother. Years back (i think i was  23/24) i used to do it like Sharone Stone. We used to call it i achaar qhwa! I think we were both addicts shame. Sasidlana ndiphelelwe ngamandla.

Thanks Mchisana omhle.

makisto
27 Sep 2011 13:32

The sex addiction thing was really oversharing information  lol. But it made for great TV in any case. Mina I enjoyed last night's episode lol. I would have loved to see them on Playboy. I see they are now on boring and white FairLady mag

MinaMoo
27 Sep 2011 13:37

Hay' suka...makasike ikhekhe lo mfazi for umyeni wakhe - tyhini thiza!!  I wouldn't mind getting it three times a day - every day :)  If she doesn't give it to him, where does she expect him to get it - estratweni!?

Darkangel2003
27 Sep 2011 14:21

Hahahaha washa Mina... But u Naked makafunde uba romantic maan and nt jst want it. Lmao I cn even picture him ethi "masenze lanto mfazi". Duude, it duznt work like that, lol

qaqamba
27 Sep 2011 16:12

in Xhosa they say "umfazi akazithethi izinto ezenzeka e embhedeni wakhe 

I  dont understant this Bulelwa why he got married to this Dj and now she is telling us tht he is a sex addict, ufuna senze ni thina?

BULELWA U  married the guy so just do your job  as a wife stop your attitude otherwise sizakumthatha thina, we dont mind at all, .. ask BIGMAMA

*asking for Dj's no
.*

Takwesha
27 Sep 2011 16:14

I absolutely love Hlelo; she knows her limitations, when she was narating the playboy thing she was like 'can you imagine; with my little boobies' or something along that line. the dad had me in stiches. he is the opposite of his wife shame. I like the fact that they were considerate enough to run the whole idea of posing for playboy by their parents. you can see that they do respect the parents.

Cheesa
27 Sep 2011 16:15

LOL MinaMoo you sound like someone I know hehehe...

Pleja mynametjie! 

I've never bought Fairlady shem I saw their cover. 

Cheesa
27 Sep 2011 16:16

LOL!! Qaqamba!!

tshetlha
27 Sep 2011 16:35

Damn! naked ke sex addict...but then again I think its true it's a big problem we all have with guys........3 times! it is way too much....at least 2 times:)

Ingenuity
28 Sep 2011 07:49

Thank you Cheesa!

BigMama
28 Sep 2011 09:34

Very true Qaqamba, Kumele ayinike indoda yonke, if he is not romantic, she must lead the way and show him how its done... How l wish l was married to this Naked DJ, we would be both satisfied and enjoying our sex life. Pity the sex machine fell in the wrong hands.

zam.ngcobo
28 Sep 2011 09:34

Sex everyday is no problem .....just like Bulelwa said its the quality that matters not the quantity . My boyfriend and I have amazing sex everyday twice a day sometimes . 

I love the show ,I can sipmly say its believeable !

BigMama
28 Sep 2011 09:39

@zam.ngcobo, she was suppose to discuss that with her hubby first before telling the twins, tell him how she wants to give it to him everyday but he needs to improve in this and that department... And if she is not in it vele its guaranteed she won't enjoy and she will complain...

promisez
28 Sep 2011 09:51

. Maybe Quinton is the kind that just rolls over and says "letha". Lol. Mara seriously, maybe he just wants to go straight to the cake without preparing Bulelwa.

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

the show is the BEEESSST shem!

zam.ngcobo
28 Sep 2011 09:59

@zam.ngcobo, she was suppose to discuss that with her hubby first before telling the twins, tell him how she wants to give it to him everyday but he needs to improve in this and that department... 
You've got a point Bigmama ,but maybe they discussed it cos uthi she did tell him and he said "if she is not compromising on SEX ,he will not compromise on bieng NICE.

VusiK
28 Sep 2011 10:48

yah neh ... what people will do for attention !!! She has essentially lost her man for ten minutes of fame ... she just opened the door to all the sex maniacs on FB to go shag her man!!! (and there are plenty out there)

zam.ngcobo
28 Sep 2011 10:53

True Vusi .......she didnt look at how this would affect their relationship .

VusiK
28 Sep 2011 10:59

That relationship is over ... I am certain she knows that by now ... Children !!! If the hubby is really an addict, he's about to be experience Addict heaven ... Mzantsi style.

kid1
28 Sep 2011 11:02

i think she was going through a blondy moment!!!!!!!!!!!!! how????????  believe you me she is still unwinding. the vultures are looking for her maniac hubby. 
@vusik............She has essentially lost her man for ten minutes of fame ... 

she thinks he needs a psychologist
well said she also needs that for being such a parrot

VusiK
28 Sep 2011 11:07

We live in Mzantsi ... Everybody's after Yo'*bleep!* !!! Just like in America, stop playing American, we are South African. If she was American, she'd need to build big street cred as an ass-whipper before making such statements, the freaks are coming for the good stuff, the only thing she'll be able to do is run to the media and say "u-KB ungithathele indoda" whereas she begged KB to notice her man!! Silly woman!

Cheesa
28 Sep 2011 11:11

LOL Bigmama! Kwaaaaaaaaa...................................well said she also needs that for being such a parrot....LOL!

BigMama
28 Sep 2011 11:13

Well said VusiK, l am hunting Quinton down, hahahaha, and he is so so so cute...lol

VusiK
28 Sep 2011 11:23

she thinks he needs a psychologist ............................................ It is She who needs a psychologist .... and will need a psychiatrist soon ...

mathatas
28 Sep 2011 11:36

she doesnt look like someone who have sex as she said....still have body fat on d face...or maybe she eat too much junk....hallllloo where is size 6?that is a damn  hlasela mafotha...3 times a day...or papa maybe ga die moshomo ga botse?

Moola
28 Sep 2011 11:52

I just hope they didnt plot something like this as she will be the only one regreting, oh she didnt think about the consequences, Women sometimes lol...

Cheesa
28 Sep 2011 11:56

Pleja Ingenuity ;)

Cheesa
28 Sep 2011 12:00

Kwaaaaaaaa VusiK I'm sure shem she didn't think before sharing those things on tv. Phela someone women would kill to have a Nakend DJ hehehe.... I can't wait to see what's gonna happen next week.

VusiK
28 Sep 2011 12:21

GPY @ mathathas

zam.ngcobo
28 Sep 2011 13:09

Shame poor Bulelwa .............kodwa naye ubesekhohliwe ukuthi kukhona oKhanyi Mbau la eMzansi ?!

Vesa
28 Sep 2011 14:29

I love this show! I only started watching it fully this week, and i enjoyed it.

The Naked DJ sex addict talk had me cringeing, cause she was discussing it with her husband's younger sisters and on tv. 

VusiK
28 Sep 2011 15:22

@Vesa ... people compromise and change and generally lose all sense, poise, and dignity when in front of the camera!!!

Cnglemother
28 Sep 2011 17:06

i had it bad 4 Quinton back in my jezebel days....this woman just opened a can worms unintentionally.

VusiK
29 Sep 2011 00:27

Why Are Watch Hands Always at 10 and 2 in Advertisements?

Have you ever noticed that advertisements for watches always seem to show the hands at 10:10--that is one hand at the 10 position and the other at the 2 position? An old myth says that this is in honor of the time of day when President Lincoln was assassinated (but he was actually shot at 10:15 pm). 
The real reasons are simpler and readily understandable. Consider the following:

this is the perfect position to frame a company's logo
it creates the appearance that the watch smiling (emotional marketing)
aesthetically it's the best place for the hands
it keeps the hands clear of signatures, subsidiary dials, and date windows
it's been the industry marketing standard since watches went mainstream in the 1920s

zam.ngcobo
29 Sep 2011 14:30

OMW you are so right ive never noticed ............

VusiK
29 Sep 2011 14:33

... now Zam Knows ... :)

Ingenuity
29 Sep 2011 16:22

I have noticed that most of the people commenting here are saying that Bulelwa should just give in. She did say that she is willing to do it but as long as he puts in work. Any man who compares sex to food or oxygen is an addict to me, but then again I am not a sex therapist or psychologist but neither are most of you. So i say before we pass judgment on poor Bulelwa let's see what happens on monday when they visist the psychologist.

Cheesa
30 Sep 2011 08:43

#deathby Zam and Vusi can you two get a room already LOL *hides*

You have a point there Ingenuity lets wait for monday.

VusiK
30 Sep 2011 09:26

Zam ... unganaki uCheesa, she's just jealous that her man also watches TV and does not attend to her as your man does ....

Cheesa
30 Sep 2011 09:33

LMAO!! Vusi! No man you two must take your convos to PMs *runs*

VusiK
30 Sep 2011 09:47

Kwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa @ Cheesa ... I would not be suprised if Zam's man was one of those Gymn-Queen muscle types with a bald head who is ready to decapitate anything that looks her way .... He probably does not watch telly because it looks at Zam !!! .......... No wonder my woman detests TVSA ... It's Zam's fault !

VusiK
30 Sep 2011 09:53

Tjo Cheesa .... PMs are trouble ... I am transparent ... I appreciate Zam, and my fellow bloggers .... nothing more, once I rent a room (PM), you know what's going down.

Cheesa
30 Sep 2011 09:58

LOL! I'm kidding man! I know you're just "appreciating" follow bloger.

mbulela
30 Sep 2011 10:03

it starts with appreciation.

VusiK
30 Sep 2011 10:19

@Mbulela ... not with me Bud! As long as I am committed to my woman, I will never allow appreciation to grow into APRRECIATION !!! That would mess up four lives, I like things as they are .... Hey Darkie ... angim-rhaleli, ngiyam' ncoma!!!

swazzy
30 Sep 2011 10:21

Naked don't need no psychologist he needs bulelwa's gauva everyday all day nd she shud shut her mout nd open her ass .. Sum of us woudnt mine sex 24/7

VusiK
30 Sep 2011 10:25

GPY @ Swazzy the freak .... If i was single and available !!! Mina nawe Swazzzzzzz !!! I'm probably a greater Freak than lo' Naked, but like him, I concentrate my energies e-Khaya ... I don't stress about it, and u-Sisi better not step out and tell the world about it 'cause she'd have to accept the responsibilities of her actions ... Wavula isango lesibaya, ungabokhala ngokwenzekayo thereafter.

Cheesa
30 Sep 2011 10:29

TJO! Mara Swazzy!

VusiK
30 Sep 2011 10:35

See Cheesa ... I told you that DJ's woman was opening her world to ama-Zimu-Zimu ... The Cannobals are going to Chow poor DJs balls alive !!! She can either elect to watch or leave, but IT'S ON !!!

pjvv
30 Sep 2011 10:56

Lmao @ all your comments, sham i hope poor Bulelwa will not read these comments.

She probably doesnt have friends or family to talk to, that is why she chose to share with the audience. And you guys are now giving her  a hard time.

VusiK
30 Sep 2011 11:11

@Pjvv .... She needs to read this ... there are lessons in here for her !!!

Cheesa
30 Sep 2011 14:35

See Cheesa ... I told you that DJ's woman was opening her world to ama-Zimu-Zimu ... The Cannobals are going to Chow poor DJs balls alive !!! She can either elect to watch or leave, but IT'S ON !!!......................................... OMGeeeee mara Vusi LOL! Hayi ni hardcore! Shem tjo!

zam.ngcobo
30 Sep 2011 14:49

I would not be suprised if Zam's man was one of those Gymn-Queen muscle types with a bald head who is ready to decapitate anything that looks her way .... He probably does not watch telly because it looks at Zam !!! .......... No wonder my woman detests TVSA ... It's Zam's fault !
hahahahahahaha Vusi  he's not like that .........he is just a man that loves spending time with his woman !

zam.ngcobo
30 Sep 2011 14:51

LMAO!! Vusi! No man you two must take your convos to PMs *runs
@Cheesa we have nothing to hide ...........

VusiK
30 Sep 2011 16:30

Have a Great Weekend Guys !!!

zam.ngcobo
30 Sep 2011 16:36

Thanks .......same to you !

Cheesa
30 Sep 2011 16:40

Same to y'all!


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