Hey did you all watch Khumbul’ekhaya last night. Tjo it was a hectic funny show. I laughed out loud the whole time especially at the first story were there was this gal Zandile looking for her mother who has been missing since 2002. The gal claims that their mother left them in 2002 saying she is going to Joburg to look for a job. She left 8 children behind with their father.
Now since Zandile is the older one she has to look after those kids and make sure they eat, wash and help them with their school work. She has to help her father with making the house and everything. She said her younger siblings always ask her where is their mother and she constantly has to lie and say she’s coming back. She is working in Joburg.
She said when her mother arrived in Joburg she called them and told them she has found a job in Kempton Park. When she got paid the first month they asked her for money but she told them she can’t send them the money at that month because she is still settling in. They also decided to let her use the money hoping the next month she is going to send them the money. Tjo the next pay day arrived and mommy dearest didn’t send the money and kept quite after that. They never heard anything from her since then.
Zandile has her own child. Apparently her child doesn’t leave with her. She leaves in Komani I dunno with whom. But she said she sees her child whenever she wants to see her. She always calls her child, basically she knows about her child’s well being unlike her mother. She decided to send the child in Komane because she couldn't take care of it at her home. She didn’t want to add some more problems on top of what they have to deal with at home.
Hehehee ayi Zandile discussed this matter with her father telling him she is going to look for her mother with the help of Khumbul’ekhaya. The father told her to do that because he really doesn’t know what caused her wife to disappear like that and never come home. He is now struggling alone with their kids and they really need her.
Zandile decided to take her other sister apparently there is a younger one who is not afraid to speak her mind. So she decided to take the other one with because the one who is not afraid to speak her mind is young. So they arrived in Joburg e hostele. Tjo lol. They saw their mother walking I think she was going to her room. I dunno what happened with the younger sister. She just screamed and put her hands in her head and cried at the same time. The mother recognized her daughters and hugged Zandile.
Yho that mother shouted at the younger daughter telling her it’s their father who chased her away. It’s not her fault. Eish that mother was just dramatic bathong and I loled the whole time. When she saw that everyone ehostele is looking at them she freaked out shouting saying “huuuu hayi niyazi thanda indaba zabantu. Niyay’bona le nto eniyenzile ngonku wonke umntu undijongile apha huuuu hayi hayi…” lol you should have seen her. She even asked those people “nijongeni nina nizithanda qhithi indaba zabantu.”
So Khumbule’ekhaya decided to take them somewhere quite so they can speak. Zandile asked her mother to come home. She told them she is not going back to Ngcobo yena. Their father kicked her out of his house telling her to go look for a job because he is not going to support her. The mother asked them “is he going to support me now all of a sudden.” She even asked “is he going to want me after all these years I’ve been away, I am not going there.” The girls told her they need her at home because they can’t cope without her because everything is a mess at home.
Tjo that mother told them “Oooohhhh you want me to be your nanny at home since you have own children now. I am not going to do that. I am no body’s nanny. My kids are old enough I don’t have any babies mna.” Tjo she was on fire maan. She said "look now people are looking at me. You decided to show me on Khumbul’ekhaya for the whole of South Africa to see me and now everyone knows indaba zam."
The younger daughter told her what happened to her when she was 13 that she was grabbed by some men and sent her to marry very old man I think 54 years old to be his wife. And that the old man is in a wheelchair and if she was there that wouldn’t have happened. The mother cried and asked them to stop talking and I think she came to her senses shame and talked right. And told them she is going to fetch her clothes from her friend. Tjo when she was in the car going home heheheeeh that woman mara is something else. Everyone in hostel was screaming for her and saying their good byes. That mother shouted in the car bye byiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiini miiis*nu. I was rotflmao. That was the end of her story.
Then followed the second story of the Twasing mother who left her children with their father when the other daughter was 1 month and half old. I dunno what happened with her when she was talking with her daughter. She just did something frightening nje.