It was the most disturbing broadcast I’ve watched and I found myself puking long after it aired. She opened the show and held up this picture
She continued to explain to those watching and her studio audience, that what she had in her hand, is in fact a guide to molesting a child. It is an instruction manual circulating around the Internet telling predators just how to molest and rape girls as little as newborn babies. I was stunned…..and my condition escalated to intense shock as she continued to speak. The new born thing disturbed me for days...now.
She continued by reading out loud instruction by instruction from this booklet and every word was so appalling that even the audience could not handle it. At one point I was ready to hit the MUTE button. But I took a second to realize how brave Oprah had to be in order to take the decision to read this book on her show given her history. Mind you the audience heard everything but viewers could not because of censorship. She had to leave out certain words but the studio audience could read on the big screen the actual words left out for TV viewers. Imagine if you were at the taping.
The pictures in the booklet were illustrations of how to use the various devices to molest children. When Oprah went into detail, the audience was moved to low but audible reactions of physical and emotional discomfort.
The one that got me the most was when Oprah started explaining the instruction on how to use a pencil or pacifier….wait.
I need a moment.
This booklet told how to use pacifiers to penetrate children. It told the size pencil predators should use to penetrate girls depending on their age. It also told how to videotape it, and how to not get caught.
Oprah then reads out an instruction which had something to the effect of….
”You insert the pacifier nice and gentle” and when Oprah got to….“
Then you wriggle it around” ….I lost it and so did the audience.
This is the actual image with an example on how to use the device. The studio audience got to see the image but the TV audience version was censored as pictured below.
The entire show was to highlight the state of pedophilia. Which I believe is something that
all nations should fight with everything they have because our children are not safe. On the program Oprah showed a map of the United States of America.
With red dots popping up on to show the average number of pedophiles in a given day that trade pornographic images, Winfrey showed just how much of a problem child pornography has become. Within a matter of seconds, the number of red dots exploded across the map to a sickening level.
If it’s this bad in the U.S, surely it has affected South Africa and countries without sophisticated tracking technology? If that is the case what does it mean? All I could picture in my head the entire weekend was a pedophile having downloaded the booklet and planning his next attack in some town in South Africa. I was freaked out!
"The number of pedophiles and child pornographers online would literally blow your mind, and the demand is so high for new material that the videos and photographs are getting more brutal with younger and younger baby victims," Winfrey said.
Winfrey's push was to support Senate Bill 1738 — a piece of legislation before the U.S. Senate to create jobs and resources to help put child predators behind bars.
Her achievements in this issue include:
- 1991, Winfrey testified before the U.S. Senate Judiciary Committee in support of a national database of convicted child abusers. The "Oprah Bill" was signed into law in 1993.- 2005, Winfrey launched the "Oprah's Child Predator Watch List" and pledged a $100,000 reward per case for information that leads to the arrest of fugitives featured on her show and Web site. Nine of the featured fugitives have been captured, Harpo said.
They also had an animated video used by these predators to teach young children to stimulate them (masturbate). Even thou the TV version was censored, the studio audience saw it without any censorship. It also solicited reactions from the audience. It had an animated young girl stimulating a much older man and Oprah asked her guest to explain "what the studio audience is watching for the people at home". It was horrible.
I am now haunted by these words ever since I watched the show,
“Chances are they're sitting next you in church. They live next door to you. They're the good guys. You even trust them to baby sit for you” . Flint Waters, the man who developed the software to track Child Pornography.
The young girls featured on the episode got raped by the “sweet neighbor” who kept tapes of the rape which is how they knew they had been assaulted. This is after they had countless sleepovers at his house with the consent of their parents. You ask your self "why did their parents allow them to sleep over?" Well, they thought he was a nice guy! How many nice guys do you know?
I have compiled some basic information with the help of
STOP IT NOW, to help you. If you have children or know someone with children no matter what age. Please read the following very carefully.
Behaviors to Watch for When Adults Are With ChildrenHave you ever seen someone playing with a child and felt uncomfortable with it? Maybe you thought, "I'm just over-reacting," or, "He/She doesn't really mean that." If you are uncomfortable, but don't see these signs, be sure to trust your instincts and ask questions. Below is a list of behaviors that might be cause for concern.
Do you know an adult or older child who:
- Makes others uncomfortable by ignoring social, emotional or physical boundaries or limits?
- Refuses to let a child set any of his or her own limits? Uses teasing or belittling language to keep a child from setting a limit?
- Insists on hugging, touching, kissing, tickling, wrestling with or holding a child even when the child does not want this physical contact or attention?
- Turns to a child for emotional or physical comfort by sharing personal or private information or activities, normally shared with adults?
- Frequently points out sexual images or tells dirty or suggestive jokes with children present?
- Exposes a child to adult sexual interactions without apparent concern?
- Has secret interactions with teens or children (e.g. games, sharing drugs, alcohol, or sexual material) or spends excessive time emailing, text messaging or calling children or youth?
- Is overly interested in the sexuality of a particular child or teen (e.g., talks repeatedly about the child's developing body or interferes with normal teen dating)?
- Insists on or manages to spend uninterrupted time alone with a child?
- Seems “too good to be true, i.e. frequently baby sits different children for free; takes children on special outings alone; buys children gifts or gives them money for no apparent reason?
- Frequently walks in on children/teens in the bathroom?
- Allows children or teens to consistently get away with inappropriate behaviors?
If you answered "yes" to some of these questions, talk to that person.
Signs That an Adult May Be At-Risk to Harm a ChildSomeone you care about may be acting in ways that worry or confuse you. The behaviors below may indicate a possible risk of sexual abuse to a child.
Do you know someone who:
- Misses or ignores social cues about others’ personal or sexual limits and boundaries?
- Often has a "special" child friend, maybe a different one from year to year?
- Spends most of his/her spare time with children and shows little interest in spending time with someone their own age?
- Encourages silence and secrets in children?
- Links sexuality and aggression in language or behavior, e.g. sexualized threats or insults, like “whore” or “slut”?
- Makes fun of children's body parts, describes children with sexual words like “stud” or “sexy” or talks again and again about the sexual activities of children or teens?
- Masturbates so often that it gets in the way of important day-to-day activities?
- Has an interest in sexual fantasies involving children and seems unclear about what's appropriate with children?
- Was physically, sexually or emotionally mistreated or abused as a child and has not adequately dealt with the possible effects?
- Has been known to make poor decisions while misusing drugs or alcohol?
- Looks at child pornography or downloads/views Internet pornography and is not willing to show whether children are involved?
- Asks adult partners to dress or act like a child or teen during sexual activity?
- Justifies behavior or finds reasons to explain poor choices or harmful acts; blames others as a way to refuse responsibility for behaviors?
- Minimizes hurtful or harmful behaviors when confronted; denies harmfulness of actions or words despite apparent impact?
Child Sexual Abuse Includes Touching and Non-Touching BehaviorsHarmful touching behaviors include:
- Touching a child's genitals (penis, testicles, vulva, breasts, or anus) for sexual pleasure or other unnecessary reason.
- Making a child touch someone else's genitals, or playing sexual ("pants-down") games.
- Putting objects or body parts (like fingers, tongue or a penis) inside the vulva or vagina, in the mouth, or in the anus of a child for sexual pleasure or other unnecessary reason.
Harmful non-touching behaviors include:
- Showing pornography to a child.
- Exposing a person's genitals to a child.
- Photographing a child in sexual poses.
- Encouraging a child to watch or hear sexual acts either in person or digital, computer or video images.
- Watching a child undress or use the bathroom, often without the child's knowledge (known as voyeurism or being a "Peeping Tom").
Behavioral Warning Signs of Possible Child Sexual AbuseSome of these behavioral signs can show up at other stressful times in a child's life such as divorce, the death of a family member, friend or pet, or when there are problems in school, as well as when abuse is involved. Any one sign doesn't mean the child was abused, but several of them suggest you should begin asking questions.
Do you notice some of the following behaviors in children you know?
- Fear of certain people or places (e.g., a child may not want to be left alone with a baby-sitter, a friend, a relative, or some other child or adult; or a child who is usually talkative and cheery may become quiet and distant when around a certain person).
- Nightmares, trouble sleeping, or other extreme fears without an obvious explanation.
- Play, writing, drawings or dreams may include sexual or frightening images.
- Spacing out at odd times, seems distracted or distant, “checked out.”
- Loss of appetite, or trouble eating or swallowing or sudden changes in eating habits.
- Sudden mood swings: rage, fear, anger, insecurity or withdrawal.
- Leaves “clues” that seem likely to provoke a discussion about sexual issues.
- Stomach illness all of the time with no identifiable reason.
- An older child behaving like a younger child, such as bed-wetting or thumb sucking.
- Adult-like sexual activities with toys or other children, such as simulating sex with dolls or asking other children/siblings to behave sexually.
- New words for private body parts.
- Shows resistance to bathing, toileting, or removing clothes even at appropriate situations.
- Refusing to talk about a "secret" he/she has with an adult or older child.
- Talking about a new older friend.
- Suddenly having money, toys or other gifts for no apparent reason.
- Cutting, burning or otherwise intentionally harming herself or himself, i.e. drug use, alcohol abuse, sexual promiscuity, running away from home.
- Has negative self image, i.e. thinks of self or body as repulsive, dirty or bad.
Physical Warning Signs of Possible Child Sexual AbuseDoes a child close to you have:
- Unexplained bruises, redness, or bleeding of the child's genitals, anus, or mouth?
- Pain at the genitals, anus, or mouth?
- Genital sores or milky fluids in the genital area?
If you said "yes" to any of these example please report it or consult a professional
“No area of life more reflects the unseen drama shadowing all human sexual affairs than that of child sexual molestation. Not Even wars, where tens of thousands are killed, are as spiritually dramatic as a single child sexually betrayed by the adult world. Even more significant is the quiet effort to normalize pedophilia, allowing open sexual relationships between children and adults. As if anything could be worse, government and many of their own unaware parents are aiding the accepted worldwide betrayal of children.”
Emanuel McLittle Has a Masters Degree and two decades of experience in Counseling Psychology.
"Africa could become the new Thailand, there is a big risk, a big threat,"
Jennifer Seif, Executive Director of Fair Trade in Tourism SA
“Pedophilia is a heinous crime which must be stopped, not only for the safety and protection of minor children but for the preservation of the moral fiber of South Africa.” Doctors for Life http://www.doctorsforlifeinternational.com
Please Remember to....
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Stop It Now! - Child Sexual Abuse Prevention
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