The Observer presents a second edition of the love story series as The Lady speaks and shares her mind. For more information on The Lady's response check out the main blog titled "The Newlywed Bank Robbers"
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"The Observer interviews The Lady"
For The Observer's Love Story Series
1. Where did you meet the guy?We met at a party. We were introduced by a mutual acquaintance
2. How long were you guys together?About a year
3. Was he married?Nope, not married!
4. Did he have children?When I met him she was about 7 months pregnant, swear I didn’t know she was pregnant until after she gave birth. A friend of his happened to want a friend of mine, so he spilled the beans to her and asked her not to tell me...duh
5. Did you get a chance to meet those kids?Not that kid in particular he had an older one with someone. He only brought the kid once and realized that am so not into kids and he never did again. You know what’s funny about the situation is that he still sends an email and puts the both of us on the top box and everybody else on the cc box...well she’s always the first one LOL.
6. Did the wife know you?She knew about me. She never said anything because we never met. I think it was because she was pregnant.
7. What was irresistible about him that made you over look him being already involved?I was a student and he was taking me to all these fancy places...that’s all.
8. When you say “she came around” do you mean she actually caught the two of you together? Or do you mean she confronted you?Came around to his place when I wasn’t there his bro really liked me, so he told me about what went down there.
9. If she confronted you what happened?Nope never did. I probably would have ran for dear life. I’m a Zulu girl who can’t fight.
10. What would you say was the most painful thing in this situation which you did?It’s hurting a pregnant chick. I wouldn’t want someone to do that to me.
11. Would you say your situation could have been avoided, and if so what would’ve made that happen?He could have been honest with me.
12. What is the most memorable thing about being with him?The weekends are the ones we spent together anyway: we partied and went to the nicest places like holidays etc.
13. After leaving him how did you feel?It wasn’t like I said “let’s call it quits”; I just found a job somewhere else and we drifted apart. We still email each other but that’s where it all ends. He even came to work in Gauteng for a month I didn’t see him I kept making up excuses.
14. Are you now involved? Do ever think of him?I am fortunately, to the most wonderful man in the world and most definitely not thinking about him or any other man for that matter.
15. If he ever called and asked you to have one night together, even thou you are involved would you say yes?He even suggested that he flies me to Durban for a weekend. I am not having none of that.
16. How would you feel if the person you are involved with now would have the “other” women?I’d break his neck.
17. How would you deal with it?He’d be dead so I wouldn’t have to deal with it. Realistically I’d be hurt and just leave.
18. What would you advice men on this situation to avoid the hurt and pain?Be honest from the start I think with “playaz”; asking them to be one women man is just asking for the impossible so be honest about your game and then we can all play nobody gets hurt
19. What would be your advice to women folk?The other woman will always be just that, the other woman.
20. Did you ever find “normal” love? If yes - do tell, if not – tell us why!Nope! The one am in, is extra special. He loves me to bits and am happy.
Not everyone comes out relationships such as these, feeling confident with an extra special person in their lives. The Lady has managed to find one and even though it may not be what she considers normal, but I trust it is as normal as she would like to have in her life.
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This interview was conducted and published with the consent of The Lady, a tvsa.co.za member.
By The Observer
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