Mopakistan dated a guy who was always broke and expected Mopakistan to pay for everything, even when they went out Mopakistan would be the one paying for his drinks. I guess the lucky ass hit a jackpot. But the story gets even more interesting in my interview when I discover that Mopakistan had a boyfriend during this whole fiasco. For more on that you need to read the interview.
To top it all of, this guy had a kid and he used to borrow money from Mopakistan and when he had to pay back he'd start with laundry list of excuses whilst telling Mopakistan how he bought this and that for his daughter so he can’t pay back. This was a very interesting becuase Mopakistan had a baby as well. Without wasiting your rime. Here is the 7th interview in the series.
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"The Observer interviews Mopakistan "
For The Observer's Love Story Series
How long were you two together?We were together for a few months maybe 6 or so...and I’m going to be honest and tell u that I had a boyfriend even then and felt like he wasn’t giving me the attention I deserved and I hooked up with this good for nothing. Charmer boy
Did he have job? If so what did he do with his money?Yes, he had a job and come to think of it he spent his money on himself and his baby mama. I on the other hand, was the chick who had money to give him when he wanted to go have fun.
How did you feel whenever you had to pay for the bill?Well because I thought I was smitten with the guy. It didn’t really bother me. Now I know it was a huge mistake because he kept asking and asking for more.
Did you ever address the issue with him?Well I didn’t. I just realized the type of person he was.
How did it make you feel to be paying for him and his kids needs?That got me really angry. I felt used because he’d borrow money from me then when he had to pay back he’d tell me he used it on his daughter and to think I have a son as well and I don’t get maintenance from anybody.
Did you at some point feel as if you were being taken advantage of?Hell yes...
Did your friends know and what did they say?Ya! They knew and his friend hooked up with a friend of mine and he did the same thing to my friend. Hehehe..I had warned her though.
How did it feel when you broke up?The break up part is a long one. My boyfriend found out I was seeing this guy and he confronted me and I had to quit. I told him the reason I was seeing him was because he wasn’t there for me and this guy was giving me attention.
Did you ever meet him after your break up? And how was it like?Yes I did and he’s tried to get back, but it just couldn’t work. I love my man and he takes care of me.
Did you find someone who knows how to pay for their bills?He was there the whole time paying for my bill as well.
How was it like the first time you dated someone who pampered you for a change?Always feels good to have a man pamper you. Someone who makes sure u have everything u need.
Did you have the pleasure of dealing with the babies momma?Nah Never dealt with her.
How much in total would you say he “borrowed” and never returned?Close to 2000bucks.
How do you feel about money and relationships?I think relationships these days are all about money not love. Either u find a guy who is in it for that or its vise versa. But I’m happy to say I’ve never been one for money or material things and my man and I are all for love.
Did you ever find “normal” love? If yes do tell; if not - tell us whyI’m in love with my man and what I did was very stupid.
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Such honesty is rear but it perhaps gives us a window into the type of person Mopakistan is. How many would be so honest as to have an affair and admit to their boyfriend the reason of such an affair. I bet the boyfriend must have upped his game after the whole confession.
Mopakistan leaves me with the following words
"I hope other people will learn something from my story". .
This interview was conducted and published with the consent of Mopakistan, a tvsa.co.za member.
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