Shuga Daddy

Written by BigMama from the blog on 23 Jul 2009
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Please do not mind my grammar. English is a foreign Language to me, but l use it to accommodate everyone. You are all welcome to leave a comment or just read and do what you get paid for....

Gugu and l have been friend s for a very long time. And most people think that we are sisters. Gugu is married ( has been on separation for the past six months), but has a makhwapheni who is married as well but as old as our Grandpa. l know the guy and he is a Pastor at a well known church and has grand daughters and sons as old as Gugu and l. He is a very well known business man in the area and well respected.

l will call the guy Neo......lol.... Neo has a business a few blocks away from were l work. Gugu once phoned me using Neo's phone and Neo saved the number and phoned me back the next morning, offering me a lift to work. l did not mind as l knew him well and did not suspect anything. Before he could drop me off, he told that he heard me telling Gugu that l was so broke so he gave me R200 for transport and lunch, it was a week before pay-day you all know how its like.

Even though l suspected something, l took the money and told myself that its my lottery, who can say no to money when they have R10 in there pocket. The following week he phoned re-questing for my account number. When l asked why, he said Gugu has a problem and needs money desperate, he can't deposit the money to her husband account (Gugu is not working and) as they will be questions asked. l asked him why can't he give it to her straight, he told me that he is in Polokwane. So l gave him the details, he deposited R1000 and within a spilt of a second he calls back and tells me the money is mine but l must not tell Gugul. He later tells me how much he loves me and wants to take care of me.

A month has gone by now and he keeps phoning and l have added his number to reject list. l don't want him at all people. So l want to know do l tell my friend about what is happening or do l ignore the guy and take any further steps when he continues. l don't want to break my friendship and when l told my mum he said l must tell him that she will go and tell his wife.
Neo does everything for Gugu, l don't want my friend to think that l am jealousy of her relationship and the problem is that l don't have proof towards this besides myself. If l had an sms or something it will be easy.
What must l do? l will answer all the questions and l swear l will not run away or disable my article, when the going gets tough.

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BigMama
23 Jul 2009 13:12

What must l do people?

GML
23 Jul 2009 13:14

I think you should be honest with your friend about this man.

I think if your friend is truly a friend then she will believe you when you tell her the truth. Maybe the Sugar Daddy is doing this to someone else and she needs to know about this.

If she doesnt understand then it's fine. She will decide if she wants to loose a good friendship over a man that will not not even leave his wife for her.

If she chooses the man then it's her choice. At least you were honest enough to give her somw kind of warning before she catches something...

Best-Achiever
23 Jul 2009 13:14

bank statement in your proof ... print it and go to his church, be sure it is fully packed and give a testimony there.

BigMama
23 Jul 2009 13:18

@GML.....If she had the courage to separate with her baby's father, l doubt she will listen to me, but l guess its worthy a try. l cannot live a lie, this thing is really stressing me.

@BA.....l don't think l am brave enough to do that.

GML
23 Jul 2009 13:24

I agree with BA. give her the bank statement and tell her that her makwapheni has been harassing you and you want him to stop. Tell her that if he doesnt stop you will go tell his wife about it.

Tel her she needs to talk to her man or else you will embarrass him in front i\of his whole congregation.

But please do it gently- not like i just said it. she will choose will not choose a married man over you...

maud
23 Jul 2009 13:24

try to get prove first, then tell neo that you are going to show this(the prove off cause) to gugu, he will stop bothering you and you have the money and your friend at the same time, if you tell your friend she will think that unomona, i am sure everything she gets from Neo she tells you, so she will think that you are making this up.

or arrange the meeting between the three of you, and start by asking him that is there anything he would like to tell Gugu or will he prefere you tell her ,he will never bother you again.